00:06we wish you be a happy couple but why does being a happy couple mean that you
00:13are continuously seen in physical proximity of each other any successful
00:18marriage will have boundaries and if you don't know how to respect those
00:24boundaries they'll fall apart so get rid of the romantic notion that the two
00:29of us have now dissolved into each other and therefore there are no boundaries
00:34if the two of you dissolve into each other there would only be conflict
00:37because the fact is that each one of us is indeed limited as they say good
00:42fences make good neighbors we think that applies only to neighbors or relative
00:48strangers know that applies to any two human beings you must know where to
00:54stop you must know that you cannot be at the other all the time spend quality
01:01time with each other and then leave each other free both physically and
01:05psychologically don't demand or expect that you would be present in the
01:09others mind all the time
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