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00:00Okay, now I'm getting those.
00:05En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:10It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:16Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:20We've known each other for 16 years.
00:22Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:28Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:34Look at that rock on your finger.
00:36She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:40The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:45I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:50Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.
00:55Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
00:59The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:06I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:12We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:18Yeah.
01:19I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:26With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:44How you guys doing, alright?
01:46Hey.
01:47A good looking couple.
01:48Yeah.
01:49You look lovely.
01:50Very lovely.
01:51Hi guys.
01:52You alright?
01:53Hey.
01:54Come on, love your shirt.
01:55We're almost matching.
01:56Yeah, these guys look fit.
01:57One girl, a bit of you.
01:58I'm excited, but nervous.
01:59Oh, I'm nervous now.
02:00Yeah.
02:01Definitely nervous now.
02:02I'm so excited to be here.
02:03I really am.
02:04I am like, come on.
02:05Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need.
02:21It's just a real big push.
02:24Guiding couples on their journey.
02:27Hello, come in.
02:28Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:32Take a seat.
02:34I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:37So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:40I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:44Mm-hmm.
02:45I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:51We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:01Okay.
03:02Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:04I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:07Mm-hmm.
03:09I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:16When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:19If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that, it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:29I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:40I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:45There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past, even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:51I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:54When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
03:59I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself. I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:09When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy. Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom. It was terrifying.
04:21The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:28It was so, so scary. He got really down. He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:35Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:47You have a terrible relationship with your body. Yeah, definitely. Definitely.
04:51It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
04:59Hey, you're okay? Yeah, I'm good. I wasn't expecting that.
05:09Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:13The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:22So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:34And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:40It's what I want as well.
05:43Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:46I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap. And also, I've never had more than two men at once. And it's always been a fantasy of mine. And the same for women as well.
05:59Yeah. But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:04Sure. Yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things. Starting with a good old party.
06:11Tonight is about taking the lead. Once you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:17I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:27This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:31I want you to focus on one person. And I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:42Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:50And then, be open to things escalating.
06:57That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
06:59When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:02Yeah.
07:04Right. It sounds really exciting. Yeah, yeah, okay.
07:07Beautiful. Yeah.
07:08Yeah.
07:15Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:21So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:29If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:35Oh, wow.
07:39I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go our separate ways.
07:51I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
08:00Previously on Open House.
08:03Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:14What's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
08:18I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:20Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:23So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:26Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy reason?
08:32That scenario wasn't in my head. I don't want to do it. Like, I want to live.
08:35Really?
08:37If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:43Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:45He's gorgeous.
08:47Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:50Yeah.
08:52If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
08:56I did not think this is where we were going to be on, like, our first night.
09:07And here you are.
09:08This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:10Really?
09:11If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:13I'd be like, no.
09:14We didn't think that we would be in a hot tub if we were better.
09:17And here you are.
09:20How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:29How do you feel?
09:31I'm okay.
09:32Yeah?
09:39In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss...
09:44I thought, oh, no.
10:07How did that make you feel?
10:09Like, fine.
10:10Like, I was, like, yeah, like, almost a bit turned on by it.
10:15I really want you on me.
10:17Can I, like, want you on me?
10:20I can't believe this.
10:21Are you proud of me?
10:22Yeah.
10:24Like, what the hell?
10:26Yay.
10:27Yeah.
10:28I've never seen Alana kiss another woman.
10:37I knew it was part of her life, like, long, long ago.
10:40But to see that, like, reopen that door was such a huge tunnel for me to see that.
10:45It was, like, really hot.
10:46Oh, my God.
10:47I'm obsessed.
10:48Stop it.
10:50Can we just take you home with us?
10:53Well, it all flowed very naturally.
10:56We've got a free wig.
10:57Yeah.
10:58Who the fuck would have thought we'd have been here?
10:59I honestly don't know what's happening right now.
11:00I feel like this is normal.
11:02I think, like, things are feeling good.
11:03Mm-hm.
11:04Do you maybe wanna come back to our room?
11:05I would love that.
11:06Yeah.
11:07To explore things a little bit more.
11:08Yeah.
11:09Just take the next step.
11:13We'll do baby steps.
11:14Stop, stop, stop.
11:15Look.
11:16Let's do it.
11:17I didn't think that was gonna be a thing.
11:19Oh, wait.
11:20I don't know what's happening now.
11:21I was like, like, I'm looking forward to roadmap.
11:23I would love that.
11:24Yeah?
11:25Let's just explore things a little bit more.
11:26Yeah.
11:27Take the next step, we'll do baby steps.
11:29Stop, stop, let's do it.
11:30I didn't think that was gonna be a thing in the next steps.
11:33Wow.
11:34I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female, I thought that would be way too intimidating.
11:42I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up, yeah.
11:49Yeah, like this has been insane.
11:51Honestly I can't believe it's such a change and you can't do anything and now we're inviting...
11:57I just have to come back to our room.
11:59Back to our room.
12:04Oh my god, that show show.
12:15Oh no, I did say my ass like eats them.
12:18New arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night.
12:22Oh, that's bad.
12:24They'll be attending a sexy barn dance where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up.
12:38Whenever we've dipped our toes into being open, Tom felt he just couldn't perform, felt really uncomfortable.
12:49They've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience, where the focus is only on foreplay.
12:58Hey babe.
12:59What?
13:00I look fucking ridiculous.
13:01With no pressure to perform, the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion.
13:07I do foresee hurdles.
13:09The residents are all very beautiful.
13:11The problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious.
13:20If I went in there on my own, I think I'd probably walk straight back out.
13:24How are you guys feeling?
13:25Yeah, great.
13:26Shit's good.
13:27This is out of my comfort zone.
13:28The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room.
13:53So what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them.
14:01I feel sick inside.
14:02I don't think I can.
14:03Okay, so listen, there's no pressure.
14:05That's what we're saying.
14:06Let's just give it a really good go.
14:08This is what we're here for.
14:10First to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz.
14:14What are you looking for then?
14:16That's the question.
14:17So for me, I need that conversation.
14:20Yeah.
14:21And for you, it's obviously just about feeling body confident around.
14:24Yeah, I'm a bit, yeah.
14:25Yeah.
14:26Just lacking in confidence a little bit.
14:27Yeah.
14:28That's understandable.
14:29You know, it's really nerve-cracking.
14:31If there's any environment where personality matters more than looks, it's this environment.
14:36We'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey.
14:40Hello, you all right?
14:41I'm Tom.
14:42How are you doing me?
14:43All right?
14:44How are you doing?
14:45I'm Gaze.
14:46This is my wife Olivia.
14:47What's your dynamic?
14:48That's a big word, that is.
14:49Dynamic.
14:50That's a big word, isn't it?
14:51Dynamic.
14:52I love it.
14:53We're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling.
14:59You know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared.
15:02But when you have that, you know, responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression
15:06of the lifestyle, you want to make it the best.
15:09I used to be like really like outgoing, going gym seven days.
15:13I used to have like the abs and I basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put
15:17on the weight now, so.
15:18You can just like kiss and you can like, you can go down on them and you can touch.
15:24And you don't necessarily just have the build up, but I think it is the poor mentality.
15:27You think you've got to go through that natural process.
15:30Olivia and Gage, they made me feel so like, it just felt, it just felt natural just talking
15:35to her.
15:36After a confidence boost from Gage, Tom moves on to single resident Aaron, who's no stranger
15:43to open conversation.
15:45Do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?
15:49Basically, have fun, relax and try and let my hair down.
15:53To a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up, I think the best
15:58thing they can do is talk to, talk to us.
16:01You know, you've come here for the sex, but don't forget that the sex comes from a person.
16:05I'm a single guy, I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women.
16:10Oh wow!
16:11At the same time for two years.
16:12Oh wow!
16:13That's crazy!
16:14Split 50-50.
16:15Yeah.
16:16There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence.
16:19Yeah.
16:20And I'll go and play and I won't even get half.
16:22But that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around.
16:26That's, that's what I'm, that's what we're trying to get through to talk.
16:31Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically,
16:37I've got my hands and I've got my tongue.
16:39And I think Lauren really likes them as well.
16:43Aaron has given me fanny footers.
16:45So I've never had more than two men at once.
16:49So my ideal situation would obviously be more men.
16:56Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree.
17:04Aaron, because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard.
17:08Yeah, yeah.
17:09Because I feel like he would understand you as well.
17:12Yeah.
17:14Aaron made me feel really at ease.
17:16He, yeah, he was absolutely brilliant.
17:21I'm so scared of the rejection.
17:22Mainly for Tom rather than for me.
17:24Because is he then going to be really nervous going forward?
17:29That little bit inside that if they say no, it'll feel like shit yeah but, you know.
17:33You just have to wait and see and see what happens.
17:37We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just.
17:41Maybe some games, some teasing, some fuddling.
17:44If it escalates, escalates.
17:45If it doesn't, it doesn't.
17:47And that doesn't.
17:52Okay guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play.
17:57It's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point.
18:03I was surprised by Aaron because he said he didn't want to play.
18:08Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along with being honest.
18:12Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea.
18:14But for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process.
18:18It's like rejection.
18:20I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked.
18:30Right, move all the things off the bed.
18:31Put them all on the, here.
18:33In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie.
18:40Are we going to be weird and go, are you okay if we get protection just in case?
18:44Or just have it on the side?
18:46They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap.
18:54By having a threesome.
18:56I don't know how this is going to go.
18:59Seeing Alex being with another woman.
19:02With where we are now, look, I'm definitely open to just seeing hot ghosts.
19:10But as much as this is a really big step for me, it's also a really big step for him because he's going to potentially be with another woman.
19:20This is all new and it's starting to feel very real.
19:24So my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel.
19:30I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have, but equally it could not be.
19:34Hello, can I come in? Can I come in? You all right?
19:42Oh, it's so nice!
19:45It would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure.
19:52So much better. Okay, cool.
19:54This is a bit more chill.
19:56Don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum.
19:59No, I like that. Let's just pick up on my laptop.
20:05The sexual chemistry was insane.
20:14The fact that I could, like, just let go of everything and just really enjoy it, like...
20:24I never thought that would have happened in this experience.
20:34Oh my goodness, that's it!
20:35Oh yes!
20:48I love these tastes!
20:50But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
20:59I think like I was overwhelmed
21:08it was like from zero to a hundred and it caught me off guard
21:15although I was like turned on an idea I wasn't like
21:19I can't quite match that right now
21:49I've had like the best evening like
21:55give me a little kiss
21:56yeah
21:57bye
21:57I'll see you soon as well
22:05yeah we'll see you soon
22:06I love you so much
22:15I loved it
22:15I genuinely loved every minute of that
22:18there wasn't any part where I thought
22:20I feel uncomfortable
22:22or like oh I don't know how I feel about this
22:24like I literally loved every single second of that
22:27did you enjoy it?
22:31I loved seeing you like enjoy it
22:34yeah
22:34I loved it
22:37I don't like always seem to get the wet patch
22:48maybe I could have done more
22:53but I think I was a little bit like overwhelmed by how quickly it all went
22:58at this moment I don't know if I can open up the relationship
23:05it's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident Georgie
23:27got up this morning feeling really good about what happened but I could feel there was something a little bit off
23:41what are you thinking about?
23:54I'm just thinking
23:55processing
23:56be sure you're okay?
24:02yeah
24:02when we first came in here obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap
24:12I knew Alex was in his head a little bit
24:19even at home like he can go a bit quiet sometimes but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying
24:25hello come in
24:31take a seat
24:32take a seat
24:33get comfy
24:34how was last night?
24:38like I'm really happy
24:40it just it felt right
24:43beautiful breakthrough
24:44absolutely
24:45I think what I liked is
24:47it was actually Georgie that said like would you be okay if I kissed Alex
24:53she kind of like led it a little bit which was nice
24:57and I actually enjoyed watching it
25:00which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth
25:02what are you thinking Alex?
25:05I don't I don't know
25:08I don't want to take away because I loved last night
25:11it was incredible
25:12but I was a little bit like
25:15overwhelmed by the whole situation
25:19yeah tell me about that
25:20I don't know like
25:21I don't think I was
25:22I wasn't like turned on physically like
25:25so that's what I'm confused at the moment about
25:27okay okay okay
25:28the couple thing I definitely want to do
25:31but again I don't know if I go all the way
25:33so
25:34that's where
25:36I think that's why I've been quiet this morning
25:37because I wasn't sure
25:38for me there was like something missing
25:40and I don't know what it was
25:41I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection based
25:43like when it comes to sex
25:45like deep
25:46deeper
25:47sure
25:47intimacy
25:49is that what you're seeking?
25:51like intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:54I do find it
25:55better if there's a connection
25:58and that's where I am right now
25:59like I'm trying to figure that out
26:01the thing that I want to understand is
26:04how do you feel about that?
26:10um
26:11I don't feel
26:13comfortable with that
26:15sure
26:16now like I
26:17I do see that as threatening
26:19like what if you
26:21build like this really great connection
26:23with someone else
26:24that you then feel is
26:26like
26:28that's never ever
26:31they're gonna be the thing
26:32you okay?
26:36yeah
26:36it's okay
26:39you're really challenging
26:42some of the things
26:42that you're the most afraid of
26:44and stuff is coming up
26:45like that's all about that
26:46so that's scary to you right now
26:50so let's just look at it in the face
26:51tell me
26:51what do you mean by connection?
26:54let's just like
26:54I think
26:55it's definitely not like
26:56deep connection
26:58with what I have with you
26:59it's
26:59it's
27:00a lot less than that
27:02it's more familiarization
27:03like you almost want to be friends
27:04with that person
27:05before it
27:06okay
27:06I've never been like
27:08a one night
27:09guy
27:10if you know what I mean
27:11so
27:11to be fair like yeah
27:12even
27:12we didn't sleep together
27:13like straight away
27:14so I get that
27:16I know that's not
27:17necessarily like
27:18how you work
27:20so
27:21what would that look for you
27:23in terms of you guys
27:24dating couples
27:24like do you want to have
27:25like one couple friend
27:27that you
27:28date and
27:30play with
27:31or
27:32do you sort of
27:34meet a bunch of couples
27:35like what does that look like for you?
27:37we did say like
27:37it would be nice to have
27:39like one couple
27:40that we're like
27:41best friends with
27:42and we get on really well with them
27:44and
27:44and like play together as well
27:46so what I have in mind is
27:48I want you to have
27:50a taste of the couple experience
27:52that
27:52that you want
27:53but I feel like
27:55the next challenge for you
27:56is to navigate
27:57the connection piece
27:58for you to actually
27:59go there
28:00and start making a connection
28:01and for you to feel like
28:02to figure out
28:03what it feels like
28:04when it's happening
28:05and spend a bit of time
28:06connecting with the couple
28:07and then
28:08once you feel like
28:10you have a connection in place
28:11then you can escalate things
28:13in your own time
28:14and take it from there
28:15and you see
28:15how it goes for you
28:16how does that sound?
28:17no that sounds
28:18that sounds good
28:19you happy?
28:19good
28:20I'm fine
28:21are you definitely fine?
28:23yeah I feel relaxed
28:23okay
28:24I think that
28:25the biggest thing
28:26off my chest
28:26was what we've spoken about now
28:28that was like
28:29just something I needed to
28:30understand
28:31thank you
28:34thank you
28:34you're welcome
28:35you're welcome
28:35enjoy
28:36I'm excited to meet
28:43some couples today
28:44but
28:46this moment
28:48I don't know
28:49if I can
28:50go all the way
28:50we'll have to see
28:52we love each other right?
28:58yeah we do
28:59at the sexy barn dance
29:11Lauren and Tom
29:12are coming to terms
29:13with being rejected
29:14by resident Aaron
29:16let your hair down
29:22let my hair down
29:23I'm gonna
29:23make you line dancing
29:24I'm not line dancing
29:25that is not happening
29:26oh my god
29:39I used to do quite a lot
29:44of dancing with Lauren
29:45it's what I used to really enjoy
29:46so I feel a lot more comfortable
29:48yeah
29:48when I was around Tom
29:56we had a little mini dance battle
29:58and like
29:59the fact that he was just
30:00busting out the robot
30:01and like just having
30:02so much fun with it
30:02and I was like
30:03let's do this
30:04let's do that
30:04and he was just like
30:05yeah let's do it
30:05it's the last
30:06I'm buzzing
30:13I'm literally buzzing
30:13from how happy he is
30:15he's so relaxed now
30:21rejection behind them
30:25thoughts return to their objective
30:27finding residents for a sensual after party
30:30I feel a lot more comfortable
30:32yeah
30:32so I think it's a lot more easier
30:34to invite people
30:35and to see if they say yes or no
30:37you lead the way
30:38but it was basically
30:58we're just wondering
30:59if you'd like to be
31:00to like come back with us
31:03and just basically
31:04cuddle, kiss, touch
31:06well
31:08I'm ready whenever you guys are
31:10I'll be at the bar
31:11I wasn't expecting that
31:12I wasn't expecting the fact that
31:14I was actually waiting for a note
31:16as Tom's confidence grows
31:19and I was just wondering
31:20if you guys want to come back
31:21so does the after party
31:28wondering if you want to come
31:30I love that
31:31that's quick
31:32that's so easy
31:34thank you
31:34and the guest list swells to five
31:38we were pleasantly surprised
31:39and it actually feels kind of like nice
31:42like feeling
31:43I know it sounds weird
31:44but wanted
31:45I would say I'm definitely attracted to him
31:48for sure
31:49they're a vibe
31:51100%
31:51I'm just really excited
31:52just to get to know them a bit more
31:53Lauren and Tom's next challenge
31:58will be their biggest yet
32:00as the five residents
32:01will be joining them
32:02to attempt to help Tom
32:03overcome his performance anxiety
32:06and successfully open up
32:08we're basically
32:11we'll go back to the bedroom
32:14and basically see what happens
32:15not promising anything
32:18I've still got them hurdles
32:19I've still got them body confidence
32:20and all that
32:21the worst thing that can happen
32:23is going into shock
32:25and walking out
32:38having been in two minds
32:40as to whether he's ready
32:41to open up
32:42Alex has agreed
32:43to try to make connections
32:44with couples
32:45oh this looks so cute
32:50we're just looking for like
32:52good vibes
32:54obviously
32:54going into the couple scenario
32:56is slightly different
32:57because it's
32:58both of us
32:59have got to have an attraction
33:00to two different people then
33:02we'll see
33:04you know
33:05if it's the right people
33:06then it will be there
33:07hello
33:12hello
33:13hello
33:13I'm Joe
33:14Joe lovely to meet you
33:15lovely to meet you
33:16how are you doing
33:16you all right
33:16hello again
33:17was it just on the walk in
33:18literally on the walk in
33:19both Alex and Alana
33:20really want to get to know
33:22them don't we
33:23yeah they're definitely
33:24they're super hot
33:25who was the one who
33:26instigated sort of
33:27coming here and stuff then
33:28I think coming here
33:29might have been more me
33:31did you guys come in
33:32initially looking
33:33to bring in a single lady
33:36what were you initially
33:37looking for
33:38connections with couples
33:39yeah
33:40is where we were looking at
33:41the hardest part was
33:42obviously for me
33:43to kind of get over
33:44like insecurities with
33:46having another female
33:47like being physical
33:49and like smash that
33:51on the first note
33:52so we're like yay
33:53one thing I'd say
33:57is oh I'll do
33:58threesomes is easiest
33:59you guys have actually
34:00done probably one of
34:00the harder things
34:01like horsomes are
34:02sort of easier
34:03because everyone's
34:03got something to do
34:04hi I'm Alana
34:08hi Alana
34:09lovely to meet you
34:11so tonight
34:13today tonight
34:14you're looking for
34:15a couple swap
34:16yeah
34:16just trying to like
34:17find our way into it
34:19though
34:19it's definitely
34:19in a space
34:20it's just finding
34:20our like place
34:22big thing letting
34:23someone else into
34:24your relationship
34:25but it's nice
34:26because like you
34:27say everyone's
34:29like scenarios
34:29are different
34:30well it's about
34:31you guys
34:31that's the thing
34:32it's like you're
34:33not here to please
34:33someone else
34:34yeah
34:35it's what's best
34:36for you
34:36I didn't know
34:38how I was gonna
34:38feel about it
34:39yeah
34:39but actually like
34:41I've shocked
34:42everyone
34:43ended up being
34:43absolutely fine
34:44with it
34:45Alex and Alana
34:47were quite
34:48attractive actually
34:48there was definitely
34:49a vibe there
34:51I think we'd
34:52definitely be
34:53into them
34:53if they wanted
34:54to kind of
34:55spend a bit
34:56more time
34:56with us
34:57can I
35:00go for your
35:01chat
35:01yes
35:02to you
35:08how have you
35:15found it
35:15like it's been
35:18nice to speak
35:19to couples
35:20today
35:20like obviously
35:21that was
35:22what we wanted
35:23to do
35:24for me I feel
35:25like Gem
35:26and Daz
35:27I feel like
35:28they would be
35:28like a really
35:29great couple
35:30to get to know
35:31I feel like
35:31they've got a
35:31similar vibe
35:33to us
35:33how are you
35:36feeling
35:36is there anyone
35:36that you felt
35:37like
35:37might have had
35:39a connection
35:39with
35:40I've like
35:45honestly at the
35:47moment
35:47I just don't
35:50know right
35:50now
35:51if I can
35:53go any
35:56further
35:56okay
36:01how do you
36:04how are you
36:04feeling about
36:04that
36:05um
36:06yeah like
36:08I'm a little
36:08bit surprised
36:10what is it
36:14that's making
36:15you feel that
36:15way
36:15is it that
36:16you don't
36:16feel like
36:17you want to
36:18go any
36:19further at
36:20all
36:20or do you
36:20feel like
36:21it's just
36:21maybe been
36:22a little
36:22bit
36:22too much
36:24too soon
36:24like it's
36:25just got
36:25a bit
36:25overwhelming
36:26mate
36:30I don't
36:31know
36:31like
36:31it's more
36:34of a me
36:34thing
36:34this now
36:35like for
36:39now
36:39that's as
36:41far as I
36:41can go
36:42you've hit
36:43like a bit
36:43of a wall
36:44with it
36:44yeah
36:45okay
36:46I do
36:49want to
36:49review this
36:50okay
36:50that makes
36:55me happy
36:55with Alex
37:06with Alex
37:06unable to
37:07continue
37:07the couple
37:09stay at the
37:09retreat
37:10has come to
37:11an end
37:12going forward
37:17I do think
37:18open up the
37:19relationship
37:19is for me
37:21and Alana
37:21but it's
37:22going to
37:23take time
37:23it'll take
37:24more time
37:24for me
37:25I don't know
37:43I feel like
37:44emotional now
37:45what's
37:51happening
37:51I don't
37:52know
37:53it's just
37:56the whole
37:56thing's like
37:57just very
37:57overwhelming
37:58isn't it
37:58like
37:59I don't
38:03know
38:03I don't
38:03know
38:04what to
38:05say
38:05it's just
38:10like a
38:10very
38:10emotional
38:11few
38:11days
38:12isn't
38:12it
38:12the future
38:15will
38:15at some
38:16point
38:17be
38:17a full
38:18open
38:18relationship
38:19but at
38:19the moment
38:19it's
38:20baby steps
38:21still
38:22it's just
38:28been a
38:28very
38:28overwhelming
38:29process
38:30but
38:30I don't
38:32want to
38:32keep
38:32crying
38:33but like
38:33I'm
38:33actually
38:34really
38:34proud
38:34of myself
38:35opening up
38:39our
38:39relationship
38:39is a lot
38:40harder than
38:41I first
38:41thought
38:42like
38:42I really
38:43thought it
38:43was going
38:43to be a
38:44straight line
38:44but it's
38:45curves and
38:45angles and
38:46everything that
38:47goes with it
38:47it's not
38:48easy but
38:49like we've
38:50absolutely got
38:51the ability
38:51to do it
38:52I absolutely
38:56love you to
38:56pieces and
38:57I'm happy
38:58and glad
38:58and I love
38:58you so much
38:59I love you
39:00so much
39:01just goes to
39:12show that
39:13you're saying
39:13that you
39:13haven't got it
39:14however
39:14if you
39:16hadn't
39:16then why
39:17is everyone
39:18saying yes
39:19Lauren
39:19and Tom
39:20have invited
39:21a small group
39:22back for an
39:22intimate party
39:23in the
39:24residence
39:24playroom
39:25even though
39:27they've said
39:28yes and all
39:28that kind of
39:29stuff
39:29it doesn't
39:30mean like
39:31they see me
39:32and go
39:32actually no
39:32what the fuck
39:33is that
39:33it's what
39:34goes to my
39:34head
39:35they hope
39:46that by
39:46focusing on
39:47touch and
39:47foreplay
39:48Tom will
39:49manage to
39:49get an
39:50erection
39:50a stumbling
39:52block that's
39:53stopping the
39:53couple from
39:54opening up
39:55I'm hoping
39:58to leave
39:58here knowing
39:59the fact that
40:00I don't have
40:01to worry
40:02about for
40:03my dick
40:04not to
40:04hug
40:05yeah
40:14I don't
40:28quite know
40:29how I'm
40:29feeling right
40:29now
40:30I'm
40:31shocked
40:31to be
40:32fair
40:32my biggest
40:34concern is
40:34obviously
40:35making sure
40:35Tom is
40:36comfortable
40:36because I
40:37will get
40:37naked and
40:38run around
40:38like I
40:39am the
40:39complete opposite
40:40of Tom
40:41I know I
40:46want to be
40:47open and I'm
40:48not planning
40:48on changing
40:49that
40:49I'm not the
40:50person that
40:51struggles with
40:51this lifestyle
40:52and it's Tom
40:52is
40:53blindfold on and
41:03nice nice nice
41:04nice is there
41:05any areas that
41:06you genuinely
41:07want us to
41:07avoid
41:08it's basically
41:08just taking
41:09I definitely want to
41:17make Lauren happy
41:18and we'll try
41:19anything like jump
41:21this hurdle
41:22basically but once
41:24it's in my head
41:24I can't before
41:26I freeze
41:27once I'm in that
41:28rut I can't get
41:29out of the rut
41:29how are you
41:31feeling mate
41:31it's weird but
41:34you're getting
41:34worshiped
41:35you're getting
41:35all the attention
41:36this is my
41:38favourite thing
41:38despite Effie's
41:42advice to
41:43actively engage
41:44in foreplay
41:44Tom lets
41:46the ladies
41:47lead
41:47it was putting
42:05shivers down
42:05my spine
42:06I could feel
42:07everything
42:08I feel absolutely
42:17petrified and
42:18sick
42:19next time on
42:25open house
42:26are you ready
42:27for the next level
42:28I feel absolutely
42:33petrified
42:33is it okay to
42:37kiss
42:38it's two guys
42:40back in the
42:41rut
42:42I have
42:44identified as
42:45gay
42:45today I don't
42:47know
42:47I've been feeling
42:48very nutty
42:50never had any
42:52experience with
42:53gay man before
42:54the worst case
42:56now would be
42:56reacting in a way
42:58which I'm not
42:58expecting
42:59this is out of
43:01my comfort area
43:02for sure
43:07I'll see you
43:11next time on
43:14that
43:14I'm not
43:16happy
43:16I'll see you
43:16next time on
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