00:00I suppose when we say we are victims of life or sufferers, mostly it's love at the center of our episodes of misery.
00:10Because our very definition of love is distorted.
00:14Therefore, our love stories either end in devastation or continue in misery.
00:21Real love has a lot of stone and steel to it.
00:25But is your lover enfeebling you, enslaving you or empowering you?
00:32Ask yourself, how can you be with someone who says, no, I like you as you are, dull, gloomy, ignorant.
00:41Somebody who limits you, cages you, mostly in the name of care, cannot be a friend, let alone lover.
00:49Somebody who allows you to comfortably exist with your weaknesses, cannot be a worthy lover.
00:56Somebody who doesn't challenge your falsenesses, cannot be your lover.
01:01Somebody who says, oh, I love you as you are, just cannot be your lover.
01:06Run away.
01:06Don't even wait for the cab, just run away.
01:09Let the eyes look only at the one who can pull you up.
01:15And you know what is meant by the upward pull, don't you?
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