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00:30The party theme is a 1920s theme.
00:37Not a hair out of place
00:39She's such a beautiful lady
00:41Who's dancing with me
00:43With irresistible charms
00:45She spins around in my arms
00:47Can you see how lucky I am?
00:58Hello, beautiful!
01:00Hi!
01:01I love this!
01:02Hi!
01:03You look gorgeous!
01:04My air kisses!
01:06It's such a beautiful night
01:08Nice cuckoo!
01:09Wow!
01:11Oh, how wonderful!
01:13You are so talented!
01:15This party is like the Great Gatsby
01:18Meets Palm Beach Opulence
01:21And it's to celebrate the 100th anniversary
01:23Of Addison Meissner
01:25The blueprint of Palm Beach
01:27Is built on the work of Addison Meissner
01:29I used to visit Palm Beach with my family
01:31As a little girl on spring break
01:33And I felt like I was in a magical place
01:35This dude did a good job
01:37Oh, my God, I'm so glad I saw you
01:38I'm gonna see you tomorrow
01:39My hair's got so much hairspray
01:40And I'm gonna take out somebody's eye
01:42It's like a helmet
01:44Honestly, the NFL wants to study this
01:46For, like, the impact, Shaka Borb Jarbson
01:50Coco and I share a passion for architecture
01:52And she said when they were sitting in their meeting
01:55For the Boca Raton Historical Society
01:57She was like, um, we need to get tumbles
02:00So it's a big deal that I'm co-hosting this with Coco
02:02You know, it's a big step up for me
02:04Usually I show up as the DJ
02:06And this time, like, my name is on it
02:08I just graduated to, like, the bigger table
02:11In the lunchroom
02:12I gotta make sure now, like, you know
02:14I don't pull out a smelly tuna sandwich
02:16Like, you know what I mean?
02:19Are they gonna poop on me?
02:21Oh! Hi!
02:22Oh!
02:23Coco!
02:24Oh, my God, it's eating my hair
02:25They look good on you
02:26Oh, my God, you're getting a white one
02:27Are they gonna poop?
02:31Are they gonna poop?
02:32As long as it doesn't poop on my head
02:34Addison Meisner was known
02:36For basically going around with a parrot and a monkey
02:39Everywhere he went
02:40So here we are with the most expensive hairstyles
02:43Literally risking our hair lives
02:46With parrots on our heads
02:48All in the name of, like, cool party pics
02:50To be posted on Instagram
02:51Welcome to Palm Beach
02:52Okay, ladies
02:53Do you wanna get in a picture really quick?
02:55Sure
02:56Oh, my God, I love this
02:57Wait, Maria, one more picture
02:58I'd love to
02:59I'd love to
03:00I'd love to
03:01Get in the picture
03:02Can you... someone go on this side?
03:04Hilary and I have a complicated relationship
03:06She doesn't really see me on the same level as her
03:09But I am not gonna miss an opportunity to invite her to an event
03:12Where I am co-hosting
03:13And let her see that
03:14Guess what?
03:15I too can through a really freaking glorious over the top Palm Beach event
03:18Okay?
03:19And guess what?
03:20We got a monkey, bitch
03:21And a parrot
03:22It's gonna be epic right here
03:24We are epic, darling
03:26Yes
03:27Coco is just a lovely, lovely, lovely person and friend
03:30So I'm not here for Maria
03:32I'm here for Coco
03:37He's not about to poop, right?
03:40Pretty
03:41Uh, wine sip
03:42That's it
03:43That's it
03:44You smell so good
03:45Do I?
03:46I like so...
03:47Potpourri
03:48I don't know
03:49You smell like, uh, fresh
03:51I smell like...
03:52I smell like Palm Beach in Bad Decisions
03:54Oh
03:55You can't stay long?
03:57No, I'm sorry
03:58I have another event
03:59A huge event
04:00700 people
04:01Great Gatsby theme for the veterans
04:04Oh
04:05Yes
04:06I wish you were staying with me
04:07Hi
04:08You look so great
04:10I hear Romina
04:11Why is she screaming?
04:13Does she want all eyes on her?
04:15Hi
04:16See how loud she is?
04:18I saw you from the back
04:19I didn't know it was you
04:20She's screaming, we hear her from here
04:21Okay, sexy lady
04:23Are you serious right now?
04:25Now she'll tell me
04:26She's still screaming
04:27We hear her
04:28She will tell me tomorrow I wasn't screaming
04:30Hey
04:31Oh there, you look so cute
04:33That's her thing
04:35Romina is so loud all the time
04:37Roman
04:38Roman
04:39I'll have a tequila
04:40Oh my god
04:42Ah
04:43Don't go
04:45Where have you been hiding?
04:47Put my song on
04:48I wanna dance
04:49Oh hello
04:51I'm a jungle woman
04:53She can be a little embarrassing
04:56Did you see the update that came out for the invite for her party?
04:59Oh, I'm very disappointed about the invite
05:02To just
05:03I do wanna talk to her about it
05:04But
05:05I'm very, very disappointed
05:07You don't mention the charities?
05:09Read it to me again
05:10I forget
05:11I'm so excited to celebrate my birthday with you
05:14If you're thinking of bringing a gift
05:16I'd kindly prefer cash gifts
05:18Terrible
05:19Exclamation mark
05:20You don't say please bring me cash
05:21Oh my god
05:22It's like
05:23People are going to say
05:24What are you broke?
05:25Also in the spirit of giving
05:27I'm partnering with two amazing charities close to my heart
05:30I encourage everyone to donate a little something
05:32To the one that resonates the most
05:34And I'll be sharing more with you at my party
05:36Three people said something to me today
05:38Since that update came out
05:40And one person called me and said
05:42She is persona non grata
05:44In Palm Beach
05:45Oh my gosh
05:47Wait, what does that mean?
05:49Oh, Maria, I love you
05:53Persona non grata means
05:55She's a person not welcome
05:57I thought persona non grata was like a cheese
06:00I really did
06:02It sounds like grated cheese
06:05Hi beautiful
06:06Wow
06:07Look at you
06:08I love
06:09Now this is art deco
06:111920s
06:12Wow
06:13Magnificent
06:14I love you
06:15You literally loved
06:16I love this gown
06:17Meisner
06:18He's iconic for his architecture
06:21This is beautiful
06:22It's all the architecture here
06:23It's all the architecture on the side
06:25She's
06:26Gail's always dressed perfect
06:28And she said no
06:29Does she know about the text message?
06:31The update for the party?
06:32Unfortunately
06:33You told me
06:34People sent it to you
06:35That Romina asked for money
06:36There was an update for her party
06:37For cash
06:38I read that invitation
06:39I want cash
06:40She wrote
06:41I have never in my life
06:45I feel like a bride
06:46You do look like a bride
06:47Here comes the bride
06:48I feel like I need to position you
06:49Oh, dressed in blue
06:52That is not one area
06:55Of the theme of the party
06:57No
06:58Can you say that?
06:59It's not 1920s
07:00It's not 1920s
07:01It's modern
07:03It's Grecian
07:04It's Grecian
07:05Yes, it's Grecian
07:06Yes, it's Grecian
07:07It's Grecian
07:08I didn't feel Grecian
07:09So, I was just mentioning to Roslyn and Gail
07:14That the text blast that you sent out for the invite this week
07:17Regarding the charities
07:18Yeah
07:19So first of all, naming the charities would have helped
07:21Because I don't think you'll get much donations
07:23Like not putting them in the actual blast
07:25Okay
07:27But more importantly
07:28It's not appropriate to ask for gifts
07:30Or especially cash
07:32I don't care
07:33It's a little not taxable
07:34May I make a suggestion?
07:36You should never ask for money
07:38I said gifts are not necessary
07:40I know that
07:41But much appreciated
07:42But in lieu of gifts
07:44But cash leaves
07:45Cash because I knew my friends wanted to bring me stuff
07:47But I don't want anyone bringing me
07:49But you don't ask for cash
07:50It looks like you're doing a go Instagram fund me
07:54I just feel defeated
07:56These girls are just picking on me at this point
07:58You're not dressing correctly
08:00You're too loud
08:01You are not right with, you know, with asking for cash for your presents
08:07And as much as I want to fit in
08:09I still want to be me
08:10I don't want to be molded into someone else
08:12I feel like I need to understand if the friendships with these women
08:19Is important enough
08:20And if it really is what I need in order to be successful
08:24You know, is this group who I really need
08:26Or can I do it without them?
08:28I think we should just diffuse for a second
08:30We'll talk about it later
08:31Let's just let it go
08:32Yeah, I love you
08:33I love all the air kisses
08:35Honestly, I've never air kissed somebody so much more before in my life
08:38I know
08:39Than Gail
08:40Literally
08:41Mwah, mwah, mwah
08:42I'll be back
08:43It's a Con Beach thing
08:44I don't know why we air kiss
08:45Are you an American or you're a Russian?
08:47I'm a Russian-American
08:48And you can't take away from, like, my culture
08:51Yeah, I know
08:52Or make me feel guilty about my culture
08:54I adopted to the American culture of what is the proper
08:58And I am just what is the proper
09:00It's my birthday
09:01That I am very nicely adding charities too
09:04But this is not a charity event
09:06This is my birthday party
09:07I know that
09:08But then why did you put the charities on it then?
09:09At all
09:10Because I...
09:11You don't have to
09:12Because I wanted to...
09:13You shouldn't have put the charities on
09:14To give back if somebody wants to give...
09:15No, you're not giving back
09:16You're taking in cash
09:17Okay, I'm done with this conversation
09:18I'm sorry
09:19I can't
09:20We're just fucking repeating ourselves at this point
09:21Sorry
09:22Sorry
09:23No, you're right
09:24She doesn't want to listen
09:25Ugh
09:26Really fucking...
09:27I'm so annoyed right now
09:28It's hot
09:29It's just the noise
09:30She's really mad at me
09:31It's okay
09:32It's coming from a good place
09:34It's coming from a very good place
09:36I'm trying to help this girl
09:37It's coming from a very good place
09:38We're all trying to help her
09:39If you're gonna give me a gift, bring me cash
09:40What happened?
09:41Somebody sent them?
09:42Yeah, they're telling me that I'm so fucked up
09:44If we're telling her you don't do that in Palm Beach
09:46Then you just don't do that here
09:47Obviously, everyone wants to bring you a gift on your birthday
09:49It's your birthday
09:50People are gonna bring a gift, right?
09:51Yeah
09:52Thank you
09:53She's still...
09:54I believe she's talking about us to the hostess
09:57Oh, is she talking about us?
09:58Very inappropriate
10:00I'm just like, ugh, like what?
10:01We know you
10:02We didn't think any together
10:03Thank you
10:04Apparently some people did
10:05I knew you were gonna get shit
10:06And I was like, when I see her
10:08I'm like, I had to walk away from the...
10:11I've never walked away from a conversation
10:13Romina needs to be careful
10:14Because sometimes what happens outside of the club
10:16Is more important than what happens inside the club
10:19You just can't be flapping your friggin' dress wings
10:21And screaming at the top of your lungs about the cash
10:24You want to invite us to your house?
10:26You can scream as loud as you want
10:27Don't do it here
10:29Because now you're shitting on my table
10:32Cash, please, she wrote
10:34Cash, please
10:35Please, tell her
10:36Who writes that?
10:37I tried to tell her not to answer cash
10:40And?
10:41And she exploded at me
10:42What did she say?
10:43You're screaming
10:44You're taking some heat right now?
10:45I am
10:46I'm not as, you know, offended as the other people
10:51I think it's funny
10:52Thank you
10:53Cash
10:55My friends will not be offended by that message
10:58If you're offended by that message then you are not my friend
11:01And you don't know me
11:02I think you're right
11:05You meant well
11:07I think Gail Brophy is a phony
11:09I know it might sound mean
11:10But nobody really likes her
11:12And nobody really wants to be around her
11:14She's so against Ramina asking for cash
11:17I just, I just want to cut her right down
11:20You know, so it's like more fun for me to stick up for Ramina
11:23At that point than it is to agree with Gail
11:26I think you're adorable
11:28Aw, thank you
11:29And you know what?
11:30Aw
11:31I would just forget
11:33I was laughing
11:34Aw
11:38Good evening everybody
11:40For those of you who I haven't met
11:42My name is Maria
11:43And I'm delighted to be a part of this wonderful celebration
11:46Alongside my dear friend Coco
11:49I hope everybody's gotten themselves warmed up with a cocktail
11:53This evening supports the Boca Raton Historical Society
11:57I need, like, an order or something before I paint
12:00Because now I'm drinking
12:01I can't drink without food
12:03There's nothing to eat
12:04No
12:05What's there?
12:06It's fake?
12:07No
12:08She's still alive
12:09Dedicated to preserving and sharing the rich history of our city
12:13Through exhibits, education, and community programs
12:16There's nothing to eat
12:17There's nothing to eat
12:18Really?
12:19I can't
12:20I can't
12:21I can't
12:22They're not serving any food
12:26There's no past hors d'oeuvres
12:28Major faux pas
12:30I was about to roast one of the parrots
12:32I was so hungry
12:33And his signature style is woven into so many of the iconic buildings that define Palm Beach and Boca Raton
12:41And it's a big part of what made me fall in love with this area and the whole reason why I moved here
12:46Woo!
12:47Thank you
12:48Thank you
12:53Okay, well, let's go
12:55Should we go, like, seek out some food?
12:57Oh, see
12:58Sorry, you were stepping on me
12:59It's okay
13:00Yeah
13:01I was worried about that
13:11I rode here with Hillary
13:13Okay
13:14And we had a long, long talk
13:17You know, even though you don't know each other that well
13:20But, you know, it doesn't matter about the he said, she said, whatever it is
13:24I just feel like she came strong
13:25I just feel, and she feels the same way about you
13:27Yeah, like, where is she?
13:28Like, bring her, I'll talk to her
13:29I don't know, let's get her
13:30Hillary!
13:33Okay
13:34We have a beautiful view
13:35First and foremost, how was the wedding?
13:38I heard it was beautiful
13:39I talked to Roslyn, she said it was beautiful
13:41It was a beautiful night
13:42And I know that you wanted to talk
13:44And I really, I didn't want anything to overshadow it
13:47So I was like, I just wanted you to have the wedding
13:50And for it to be beautiful
13:51And then I knew that we would just, like, talk afterwards
13:54I think we've had a lot of miscommunications
13:57Well, but this is why, this is why I didn't understand it
14:00Because I felt like, I'm like, I started thinking back and I'm like
14:03I really don't feel like there was any time that I really came for you
14:06And I just felt like at some point, it just became like a lot of criticism back
14:10As to how I was conducting myself
14:12The only thing I really actually said to you was about the language
14:17And I said it very nicely
14:19Swear
14:20And genuinely
14:21What I don't think you realize
14:23Is that I have feelings too
14:26And you said a lot of really mean things to me
14:28Like undercutting mean things
14:30And maybe you don't even realize it
14:32No, I did, after the fact
14:33Because I was hurt
14:34Yeah
14:35I own it 100%
14:36Okay
14:37So you know what I want to hear?
14:38I was like really mean
14:39Okay, I'm going to apologize to you
14:40And hurtful
14:41I'm going to apologize to you 100%
14:42But I'm just letting you know
14:43And I was hurt that you wouldn't even speak to me over the phone
14:45And I was like
14:46How are we ever going to be friends if I can't even call you?
14:49Because I felt like it came after a lot of stupidness
14:50But sometimes people don't feel like talking
14:52I didn't feel, listen
14:53Do you know what I mean?
14:54Sometimes people don't feel like talking
14:55Can I say something?
14:56Can I say something?
14:57And so, I want to feel safe around my friends
14:59I don't want to feel like my backup's against the wall
15:01So, listen, if we're going to start fresh, bring it
15:04Because I truly
15:05There are things about you that I truly really do like
15:07Can I have this Marie all the time?
15:09If I could have this Hillary
15:11Yes
15:12Definitely, thanks to me
15:14This is a step in the right direction
15:16They're at least having a conversation
15:19Are you like the Henry Kissinger of Palm Beach?
15:21Do you deserve a Nobel Peace Prize?
15:23Uh, I think I am the Henry Kissinger of this group
15:29Yeah, I do deserve a Nobel Peace Prize
15:32Okay
15:33So
15:34I was looking for you bitches
15:35I just
15:36We're closing
15:37We're closing
15:38We're closing one last thought
15:39Before you
15:40No, just stay
15:41Okay
15:42So I just want to say one thing
15:43Can we both just try to reset and lead with kindness?
15:44Yes
15:45This is a reset
15:46Okay
15:47That's all I want to try
15:48Look at Ramina
15:49Success!
15:50Again!
15:51I just want to be nice
15:52I can't take any not niceness
15:54Like honestly
15:55Me either
15:56You're like bitchy Le Pew
15:57You think you're bitchy Le Pew
15:58I'm bitchy
15:59No, she's like no you're not
16:00I bet I called you that behind your back
16:01Sorry
16:02I can't believe I got home last night and you two were like he was drunk and
16:09Well for every one glass that I have he has three
16:13I'm older than you
16:14He's older than me
16:15Does he look older?
16:16No I look older?
16:17Who looks older?
16:18You both look very young
16:19I haven't spent time with the two of you together my entire life you know that
16:26It's crazy that we're kind of like
16:28You're looking for trouble now
16:29We were married and then I got pregnant and I was reading the book Our Bodies Ourselves that was the bible for all the hippies we were hippies
16:36Long story short we get to the hospital and there was no bed so the doctor goes remember in the book Ronan where they tell you how you were
16:38How the Chinese women in the rice paddy they go like this goes I want you to do that then he checks me standing
16:45My entire life you know that
16:46You know why?
16:47You know why?
16:48You know why?
16:49You know why?
16:50You know why?
16:51I was like you're looking for trouble now
16:52We were married and then I got pregnant and I was reading the book Our Bodies Ourselves that was the bible for all the hippies we were hippies
16:55The long story short we get to the hospital and there was no bed so the doctor goes remember in the book Ronan where they tell you how the Chinese women in the rice paddy they go like this
17:03He goes I want you to do that
17:05Then he checks me standing up to see how dilated I am standing up puts his finger and then he goes we need a bed now
17:14And they said we have to shave you I said no you don't you're not I know my rights I don't have to be shaved and you can't
17:20So so then and he said okay when I say push then you push three pushes three pushes and you were out and I had an orgasm
17:30I said yes this is this is so beautiful
17:35You're so crazy
17:37My parents have been divorced since I'm two years old
17:40My mother was a very young single mother but we were very close my father was absent
17:47I didn't have my daddy when I was young I think girls need their daddy but today they are living in my house in the same room like who would ever believe that that would happen
18:01And then 17 years later your brother I only married Tunisian men you know that
18:05Maybe you'll marry him again
18:08I don't think either one of us want to get married again
18:10No?
18:11We'll just fuck
18:12Oh my god
18:16My relationship with my parents growing up was not easy
18:20I had a very hard childhood because I felt that my father's third wife was not very nice to me
18:26And Kiki always took her side always
18:31Emotionally it made me feel completely alone
18:34God you're so lucky
18:38So this is like a dream come true to have both of you here with me
18:42My significant other and father of my child is David Cohn
18:46Former baseball player, five time world series winner
18:50I mean I could go on and on
18:52David is always on the road traveling especially during baseball season
18:56So I lived my life pretty much as a single mother just like my mom did
19:01Okay
19:03What a gorgeous day
19:04We need some wine now
19:06Wine?
19:07Oh no you had enough wine
19:08Here we go
19:09Never enough
19:10That's enough no
19:11I think you can take a break today
19:13I never want Sammy to feel abandoned by his dad
19:16So I always make sure that they spend quality time together when David is around
19:21Look what your sperm did
19:24Back when we
19:25See what I did?
19:26Look at this
19:27Look at that
19:28And I was sleeping
19:29It seemed to me you were awake
19:30Oh my god
19:32Can you believe that I came from these two hippies?
19:37You didn't bring your bathing suit
19:39We could have jumped in
19:40He'd go skinny dipping
19:41See ya
19:42Uh-uh-uh rich
19:43Is it like, you'reina?
19:44Ha-huh
19:45hurting it
19:49Growing money no problem
19:50Doing what I always do to solve um
19:52Growing power no problem
19:53Just keep my friends close to the problem
19:56Every day is a good day
19:58Off the clock I already got pay day
20:00Growing money no problem
20:02Doing what I always do to solve um
20:04Come on in.
20:05Aw.
20:06How are you?
20:07You look gorgeous.
20:09Here's my outfit.
20:10Palm Beach for you.
20:11Absolutely.
20:12I love that skirt.
20:13What are we doing?
20:14Where are we going?
20:15Why don't we just sit outside?
20:16It's so nice out.
20:17Okay.
20:18Cece has to stay in.
20:19Mango juice?
20:20You like mango?
20:21I do like mango.
20:22Me too.
20:23Let me have your glass.
20:24Oh, thank you.
20:25I also do, like, mango mimosas.
20:26Ooh, that would be good.
20:27Cheers.
20:28Oh, thanks, all of you.
20:29Wow.
20:30Look at the braces.
20:31I have a massage.
20:32Okay.
20:33What are we doing?
20:34Where are we going?
20:35Why don't we just sit outside?
20:36It's so nice out.
20:37Okay.
20:38Cece has to stay in.
20:39Mango juice?
20:40You like mango?
20:41I do like mango.
20:42Me too.
20:43Let me have your glass.
20:44Oh, thank you.
20:46I also, like, sometimes do, like, mango mimosas.
20:48Ooh, that would be good.
20:49Cheers.
20:50Yeah, it's perfect.
20:51Yeah, it's perfect. It's not, like, not too sweet.
20:56Yes, yes.
21:00So the party was fun.
21:02Yeah. At the end, Hillary and Maria were hugging and making up.
21:06Oh, my God, I love that.
21:08I know. I was like, success again. That's how I felt.
21:11So, um, about the party.
21:14Yeah, can I? Like, I need to...
21:16I feel like I need to explain myself, sure, a little more.
21:19Great.
21:19Because I don't feel like I was able to get a word out with Gail,
21:23just, like, I felt like I was being attacked.
21:26Okay.
21:27And it's very normal to bring money for birthdays.
21:32Like, that's their gift.
21:33This is, like, how I was raised, what my mom engraved in my head,
21:37because nobody wants to go home carrying bags and things, you know?
21:41Okay, so I hear you.
21:42But I also heard it from Maria,
21:45and she said that the people from her charity
21:49saw that note right away
21:51and said something to her immediately.
21:53Like, oh, my gosh, what a faux pas.
21:56I'm attaching charities to my birthday
21:57and making it a part of my party.
21:59They should be thankful for that.
22:00And as much as I would love to donate $50,000,
22:04because that's how much it's costing me,
22:06I just can't right now.
22:07I have three children.
22:08But basically, you're saying,
22:10well, then the gifts can go towards
22:12covering the cost of the party.
22:14Yes.
22:16I think Romina's logic
22:17that her cash gift
22:19is going towards the money she's spending on her party
22:22is just really bad.
22:24It is not something you say out loud in Palm Beach.
22:28I don't think Romina's broke.
22:30I don't think she's broke.
22:32I think that maybe when somebody is not very generous,
22:35then maybe they want the money from your gifts
22:38to cover the party.
22:40Look, do you care about the charities at all?
22:43Because I do think that we could maybe smooth over the cash
22:47by writing, additionally, I love the great team.
22:52If you would join me in caring about veterans' lives,
22:57I would deeply appreciate a contribution in my honor.
23:01No, I don't feel like I have to do anything.
23:05But you do know that Palm Beach
23:07is a different kind of place.
23:08And that's fine.
23:09So maybe I, you know,
23:10maybe they don't need me in Palm Beach.
23:13Okay.
23:13I mean, that's fine, too.
23:15Like, I just have to be true to myself
23:16at the end of the day.
23:17Yeah.
23:18I think you should be true to yourself.
23:19And if the whole Palm Beach thing is not for you,
23:23then it's not for you.
23:24Well, if they can't accept me for who I am,
23:25I can't be someone completely I'm not.
23:27Otherwise, I won't be happy.
23:29When Donald Trump saw me,
23:31he was very accepting
23:32and definitely took a photo.
23:33Well, you looked beautiful that day.
23:35You know?
23:36And as far as Gail,
23:38she was pretty adamant
23:39that she feels you were very disrespectful to her.
23:43And she feels like you don't like her
23:45and you don't want her advice
23:46and you don't listen.
23:47And I hate to tell you one other thing.
23:49I know you were trying to help her.
23:52She was very offended
23:53about the hair person.
23:56Like, you sent her a hair person.
23:57Just telling you.
23:58For her benefit.
23:58Okay.
23:59And that's fine.
24:01I texted Gail my hairdresser's number
24:04because he creates wigs
24:07and I feel like Gail should get a better wig.
24:11It doesn't look natural.
24:12It doesn't.
24:13And then it moves around her head
24:14and she just looks,
24:16I'm sorry, but it looks ridiculous.
24:18Are you okay?
24:19Did you get hurt?
24:20Oh, no.
24:20You know what?
24:21That was so kind of you.
24:23Hold on.
24:23Here, use it for your favoring at all.
24:25Do this.
24:26Do this.
24:26Yeah.
24:27Why does the queen of the world
24:28have a shitty wig?
24:29It doesn't make sense in my head.
24:31I think you should have a better wig.
24:33I am 100% certain
24:34that Kim Kardashian
24:36would never wear that wig.
24:38I just know
24:39that the price that she paid,
24:41she can get a phenomenal wig.
24:43I mean, that wig was over $4,000.
24:45I think she looks beautiful, though.
24:47I really do.
24:48I know, but I think she looks beautiful.
24:50And that's very sweet of you.
24:50Personally, I really do.
24:51No, I really do.
24:52But Gail is the grand-dom of Palm Beach
24:55and if she says she's done with you,
25:00she has the power to just, like,
25:02blackball someone.
25:03Yeah.
25:03And she has very powerful friends
25:05who also can do that.
25:08I do know people
25:09who have been blacklisted
25:10from clubs, parties,
25:13or events in Palm Beach
25:14and they don't live here anymore.
25:17They felt helpless,
25:18very isolated.
25:20Trust me,
25:20when you're done,
25:21you're done.
25:22I don't want you to
25:23not be invited somewhere.
25:28Mm-hmm.
25:29I do what I want
25:34because I got it like that.
25:35Got it like that.
25:37Got it like that.
25:38Yeah, I go where I want
25:39because I got it like that.
25:40Got it like that.
25:41I got it like that.
25:42Yeah, I do what I want
25:43because I got it like that.
25:45Okay, let me put my teabag in.
25:47I got to teabag these for Romina.
25:52Hello.
25:53Hi.
25:54Come on in.
25:55Oh, my God, it's raining.
25:56Andrea, my therapist,
25:59helps me work through expressing myself.
26:02So I'm taking Romina to therapy
26:03because I need to get to a better place with her
26:06because I don't want the friendship
26:07to stay where it is.
26:09Couples go to therapy, right?
26:11That's how it saves relationships, okay?
26:13So why not bring your best friend?
26:16Like, bitches get into fights.
26:17They stop talking.
26:18And then 20 years later,
26:19it's like,
26:19oh, I don't talk to that bitch anymore.
26:21Had they gone to therapy,
26:22they could have salvaged the friendship.
26:2450% of marriages end in divorce anyways.
26:27I mean, a lot of times,
26:27your friends are more worth keeping around.
26:29You could sit here if you'd like.
26:32Sit next to me.
26:33Oh, God.
26:33So then this way,
26:34if I need to strangle you, you're close.
26:35I'm just kidding.
26:36Oh, my God, I cannot believe
26:38that we're in therapy for this right now.
26:40There is no way
26:41that this is going to help the situation.
26:44Let's kind of get some framework
26:45for what you hope to accomplish
26:48and something that you want to cover
26:52in your time together today.
26:55Okay.
26:55You know, I don't consider
26:56a lot of people close to me,
26:58but the people that I do consider
27:00like very close and intimate to me,
27:02I want to know that I can trust them.
27:04So like,
27:05like for you not to say to me,
27:06like, you cry too much.
27:08I expect to hear that
27:09from somebody like frigging Hillary
27:11or somebody like whatever,
27:12but to hear that from you,
27:13that like is hurtful.
27:15Well, it's not like I wanted to hurt you.
27:18It's more of like I have been told
27:21like as a kid,
27:22like, oh, don't cry,
27:23like toughen up,
27:24like be tough.
27:24And that's just like how
27:26I was raised basically
27:27to like be tough.
27:29I completely agree
27:31that crying feels better.
27:32And sometimes it's necessary
27:33to let out your emotions.
27:35I just feel like
27:36that's something that's like
27:37for when you get home
27:39and you cry out.
27:41In a more private setting.
27:44The most memorable time
27:46where I held in my tears
27:47was middle school,
27:48was when, you know,
27:50kids would make fun of me.
27:51I remember one of the boys
27:53in English class
27:55pulled out a book
27:57and it was a picture of a monkey.
28:00And he goes,
28:01oh, look, it's Romina.
28:03Because the monkey's hairy
28:04and so is Romina.
28:05And the whole class started to laugh.
28:07And I just like
28:09brushed it off
28:11as if it's no big deal.
28:12And it was very hurtful.
28:14But I didn't let them
28:16see my weakness.
28:17I went home
28:17and then I cried
28:18and I got over it.
28:21It made me stronger.
28:24I feel like she blows things
28:25out of proportion.
28:26Then you make things bigger
28:28than they need to be.
28:28I feel like I'm being minimized.
28:30I don't want to take away
28:31from, you know, her big deals,
28:32but I do feel like
28:33you make a lot of big deals.
28:34I feel like
28:38the friendship
28:39is not real
28:40and it's not as serious
28:42as I want it to be
28:44because I feel like
28:45we keep resetting.
28:45I feel like we come out the gate,
28:47something happens,
28:48and then instead of
28:49working through it,
28:51like...
28:51On the contrary,
28:52I think, like,
28:52friends are the kind of people
28:53that they can have an argument
28:55and the next day
28:55they can go back
28:56to, like, hugging.
28:56No, she goes back
28:57to the start line.
28:58She doesn't work through it.
29:00Can we go back
29:01to an argument?
29:02I've never, like,
29:02worked through things
29:03with friends.
29:04I just...
29:05It's not like that.
29:06I don't know.
29:07Can I...
29:07Wait.
29:08Pause.
29:09Are you with me, Maria?
29:10I can't tell.
29:11Yeah?
29:11You hear?
29:12Mm-hmm.
29:12Okay.
29:15On her side,
29:16she gave you clues
29:18that there's something
29:19going on for her
29:21that is all her
29:23and isn't really specific
29:25to you,
29:25and that is,
29:27hey, I really don't
29:28like conflict.
29:29Did you hear her say that?
29:31She didn't say it
29:32the way I just said it,
29:33but she said,
29:34I don't do this.
29:34I've said that many times
29:36in those words, too.
29:37Maybe relationships
29:38are not the strong point
29:41for conflict for her.
29:44She's crying.
29:46It's, like, really stressful
29:47being your friend, honestly.
29:49Okay, can you tell us
29:50what's going on?
29:51All I hear is, like, my mom.
29:53I just feel like my mom
29:54friggin' denied
29:55my whole friggin' childhood
29:56that any of that
29:58ever happened.
29:58Well, can you imagine
29:59how much pressure
30:00that she is?
30:01No, but it's not.
30:02But listen, there's stuff
30:03from your childhood.
30:04There is stuff
30:05from her childhood
30:06that makes her the way she is,
30:08and I don't fuckin' vacate it.
30:11Like, you tell me
30:11how you are
30:12because of how your parents
30:13were in this and that,
30:13and you don't see me
30:14fuckin' taking off on you.
30:16I sit, I listen,
30:17I don't know, like,
30:18I'm just...
30:18Maybe I have more tolerance
30:19than you do.
30:21Like, I feel like
30:22anything I do,
30:23somehow I fuck it up with you.
30:24It's like walking
30:25on eggshells next to you.
30:27Like, how are you supposed
30:28to build a friendship
30:28like that?
30:29I can't be friends
30:31with somebody
30:31that can't accept all of me,
30:33but I also don't want
30:33to lose the friendship.
30:35I'm feeling frustrated
30:36because I feel like
30:38due to the relationship
30:39that she has
30:40with her mother,
30:41she kind of, like,
30:42has me to, like,
30:44fill that void
30:45in a way,
30:46and I can't be her mother.
30:47I have enough kids
30:48and a husband
30:49who's basically another kid.
30:50And as much as I love her,
30:52I will definitely be
30:53a friend to her,
30:53but I, you know,
30:54I can't just be, like,
30:55coddling her
30:56every time she cries.
30:57Something in our dynamic
30:58is happening
30:59that's making you
31:00feel something
31:02that you struggle with,
31:03which is abandonment.
31:04Just because she's
31:05reacting this way
31:07does not mean
31:09that she's not invested
31:12or that she doesn't care.
31:15Like, you can have
31:16conversations
31:17with one another.
31:18No, it's hard
31:18because she doesn't
31:19let me talk.
31:20Well, you did talk today.
31:21Because you were here.
31:23That's why I brought you here,
31:24and I feel the same way.
31:27Yes.
31:27You don't let me talk either,
31:29and that's why I brought her.
31:30Okay, we're gonna...
31:31It's crazy.
31:31We both feel the same way.
31:33We're gonna...
31:33And who's talking
31:34the whole time?
31:35We are both
31:35at the same time.
31:36Yeah, you're talking
31:37at each other.
31:38No, it's not me.
31:39It's you, actually,
31:40because you're just like Roman
31:41and decides,
31:42you fucking don't let me talk ever.
31:43I think you...
31:44Well, you better learn
31:45to put up with us
31:45because you're freaking
31:46married to him.
31:47You both dig in
31:49and don't listen as great.
31:51No.
31:52You allow your wounds
31:54to do the listening,
31:55but maybe if you could
31:56approach one another
31:57less forcing to be
32:00the version of themselves
32:01that you find
32:03most acceptable.
32:04Well, I'm perfect,
32:05so it definitely
32:06has nothing to do with me.
32:07I think that's how we end.
32:09Okay.
32:10She's totally kidding.
32:12I'm very hurt.
32:14I don't understand
32:15why Romina's being so cold.
32:17It feels very cold,
32:18and I feel like
32:19she's just not
32:21concerning herself
32:23with the interests
32:24of, like,
32:24who I truly am.
32:26She doesn't want to see it.
32:27She's over it.
32:29I know
32:30when I'm not listening,
32:31I'm still...
32:32I still heard things.
32:34But I feel like
32:36no matter what I do
32:37with you,
32:38like, you get upset
32:39or sound good enough
32:40or you get angry
32:41or whatever it is,
32:42you have all these feelings.
32:44So maybe it feels
32:45bigger than it is,
32:46to be honest with you.
32:47I think there was, like,
32:48two times
32:49that I was really
32:49in my feelings,
32:50and I actually sent you away.
32:52So...
32:52Um, Rosalyn called me
32:54a few times.
32:55Let me call her.
32:58Hi.
33:00Romina.
33:01Hi, babe.
33:01Hi.
33:02Hi.
33:03I'm with Maria.
33:05Hi, girlfriend.
33:06Hi, Maria.
33:07How are you?
33:08You look cute.
33:08How's it going?
33:10Oh, I invited Romina
33:11over for a friggin'
33:12BF therapy session,
33:14and, um...
33:15She made me do
33:16therapy with her.
33:17How'd it go?
33:18It was okay.
33:20Oh, okay.
33:21So, anyway,
33:23um, today
33:24we don't have to go
33:25to the grade team
33:26because there's no reason
33:28to really go there
33:29in person.
33:31I just feel like,
33:31you know,
33:32I'm giving you
33:33all this advice,
33:34and, um,
33:35I don't know.
33:36It's...
33:36I don't like to say
33:37anything negative.
33:39That's nice.
33:39I don't...
33:40But I don't think
33:41giving advice is negative.
33:43I appreciate all
33:44of the advice
33:45that you guys are giving me,
33:46but I don't have to
33:47always agree with it.
33:48But you were yelling at us.
33:49I told you about how we...
33:51I thought the invite
33:51was, like, not in good taste,
33:53and it looked bad.
33:54And I asked my Russian friend,
33:56and she said,
33:57no, that's so low-class
33:59and trashy.
33:59And I said,
34:00are you sure...
34:01Oh, please.
34:02I can't believe
34:03this is, like,
34:04being blown
34:05into this fucking proportion.
34:07I've taken all of the...
34:08But you're yelling
34:09at us in the moment.
34:10Yes, for this,
34:11because I feel strongly
34:12about it,
34:13because I have an opinion
34:14about it.
34:15I know, but we're not.
34:15Because I don't agree with this.
34:16Listen, let me say this.
34:17In the moment
34:17when we're at Coco's house
34:19and you're yelling back,
34:20when Lori Simmons
34:21is there from the Big Dog Ranch
34:22and Coco's there
34:23and all the people
34:23from the committee,
34:24I'm sorry.
34:24I can't have it.
34:26Okay, so don't invite me anymore.
34:29If I am such a fucking embarrassment
34:31to all of you,
34:32then don't fucking invite me anymore.
34:34Seriously.
34:35I'm all right.
34:36You guys,
34:37what are you fucking doing?
34:39Nobody wants you
34:40to cry over me now.
34:41We're just saying.
34:42Don't give a shit.
34:44Oh, my God.
34:45I can't.
34:59Fuck.
35:05Can she freaking
35:06get out of her car?
35:13First of all,
35:14I don't want you driving
35:15like this, number one.
35:16Okay?
35:16Listen.
35:17I'm going to keep talking
35:17about this over it.
35:19I know, but listen to me.
35:20You're telling me
35:21that I'm embarrassing you.
35:22Meanwhile, everyone else
35:23fucking only gives me compliments
35:24and says the nicest things.
35:26That's not what I said.
35:28Rosalind also believes
35:29that fucking Gail
35:30is the granddad.
35:31And if she wants to pretend
35:32like she fucking asked someone
35:33and make me look stupid,
35:34oh, no, I asked my friends.
35:36That's not what they do.
35:37That's bullshit.
35:38Ask them.
35:39That's what you do.
35:40You bring a fucking card
35:41with cash.
35:42Here, can we call my best friend?
35:44I think, listen,
35:45I think that's what
35:45they're probably saying.
35:46How about let's fucking call?
35:48Let's just,
35:49if we need to fucking
35:50ask these questions.
35:51I just like to say
35:52when you told me
35:52freaking things are too much
35:53sometimes,
35:54this is too much for me,
35:55but I'm staying with you.
35:56So just know that.
35:57Diana, Diana, question.
36:00What?
36:00When someone has a party
36:02at a Russian restaurant
36:03or any restaurant,
36:05what do you bring them?
36:06We bring the money,
36:08cash money,
36:09because that cash is king.
36:11Why?
36:15Pause.
36:16This has been
36:17the biggest fucking topic
36:18of conversation
36:18that I put on my invitation.
36:20Gifts are not necessary,
36:22because that's what I fucking put.
36:23But if you want to bring me a gift,
36:25bring me cash.
36:26I'm apparently
36:26the most fucking
36:27incompetent fucking bitch
36:30for writing this shit.
36:31Am I wrong?
36:32Can you please?
36:33So that they can hear
36:34that this is not me
36:35being crazy?
36:36So in the Russian culture,
36:38it is widely accepted
36:41and preferred
36:42that we bring cash,
36:43you know,
36:44cash is king.
36:45I didn't think
36:47it would be this much work
36:48to fit into the Palm Beach world,
36:49but with all the things
36:51that are happening right now,
36:52I'm starting to second guess,
36:54you know,
36:54how much I really want
36:55or need this in my life.
36:57At the very least,
36:58you're still going to
36:58frigging list the charities
36:59and make money for the charities.
37:01We don't need to go deep on this,
37:02and we will work on it.
37:03Can we just put up
37:04the back burner for now?
37:05And the only thing
37:06I want to ask you is this.
37:07I'm already like,
37:07I don't freaking care
37:08about these fucking charities
37:10right now.
37:11Like, I don't fucking want
37:12to add them to my fucking party
37:13because it's caused...
37:14Why did you do it?
37:14Did you feel like
37:15it was going to make you look good
37:16or did you really care?
37:17I do care.
37:18Okay, well then still do it.
37:19But obviously,
37:20everybody else is fucking judging me
37:21or fucking telling me
37:22how I should care.
37:23I'm telling you
37:24that I don't want it
37:25to reflect poorly off of me.
37:27That's literally
37:28what I just told you.
37:29Don't fucking bring me.
37:31If I'm such an embarrassment,
37:33don't bring me.
37:34I've always said to you
37:35that I believe in you,
37:36you fucking asshole.
37:37I believe in you
37:38more than you believe in yourself.
37:40And you know why I do it?
37:40Because freaking,
37:41I don't believe in myself sometimes.
37:43And I know I'm fucking putting
37:44my fucking brokenness on you
37:45and I know I shouldn't
37:46be calling it brokenness,
37:47but you're frustrating sometimes.
37:48Like, I want to fucking hug you
37:49and fucking strangle you
37:50at the same time.
37:51We need to be united.
37:52We need to be on the same page.
37:53I can't.
37:53I don't feel comfortable.
37:54Like, listen,
37:55it's taken me a while
37:56to build this girlfriend.
37:57Don't do this to me.
37:59I don't know
38:00if I can take it anymore.
38:01Like, I feel like
38:01I've done everything I can
38:03and I'm still being criticized.
38:04Like, I am ready to give up.
38:06And I feel like nobody
38:07even, like, wants me here.
38:08So I don't know
38:09if I want to be here anymore.
38:10Maybe I don't need to be a part
38:12of the Palm Beach Society.
38:19God damn it.
38:20Oh, my God.
38:22What the fuck?
38:27Oh, my God.
38:50God damn it.
39:20God damn it.
39:50God damn it.
39:50God damn it.
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