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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now, seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:14Oh, my goodness.
00:01:17Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:34Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:24I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27But...
00:02:27Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:20Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair.
00:03:27It sticks to your skin.
00:03:28You have rashes.
00:03:29You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:03:35But it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:40So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:00I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:04and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:08But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:12Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:34That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:37Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:39is on the 29th, so that the divorce
00:04:42becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still
00:04:49married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that,
00:04:58oh, you didn't just have a fling
00:04:59with a woman, no, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:04But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:09Not only does he not know that I've been with women
00:05:12for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't know that I am
00:05:16technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started
00:05:25talking to me, and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:28Because in my heart, I have been free to marry because my ex-wife
00:05:31and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers
00:05:37until now.
00:05:39If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:05:49until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried, Mom.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:05It is getting late, and we need to get to get to.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow
00:06:14try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody
00:06:19before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was to ask you to get married with God,
00:06:30you're in Nigeria, would you keep going against the faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:39I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:25Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:37I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:48We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair.
00:07:56And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:06I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:09That was just, that was it.
00:08:11He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:19And here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more.
00:08:28Hensitating.
00:08:30There ain't nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Big four.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Lemonade.
00:08:48Oh, boy.
00:08:51My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old.
00:08:53And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:08:59I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home.
00:09:05And I like my job.
00:09:08Thank you, Emma.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters.
00:09:15And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:38I call them the three-sixes.
00:09:43And it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55Yeah, it's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:02Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:06So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Aw.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old.
00:10:25And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo.
00:10:29It's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:32Must be something.
00:10:33Yeah, it must be something.
00:10:37We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:40And we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:10:51And we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:17we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:29I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:11:41and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:47and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally,
00:11:54he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:08I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:11I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox,
00:12:18but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend
00:12:23the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:34as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:43Absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:12:49lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years
00:13:05and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:09Uh, the whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:12So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn
00:13:20have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:25And having a marriage online
00:13:28has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Anna,
00:13:37she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:51And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time,
00:14:01I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:03to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:06more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:10But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:13and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:18to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems
00:14:29are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't,
00:14:34I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:36I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:40Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years
00:14:50to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off,
00:14:55but I'm kind of still nervous
00:14:58about what this marriage is going to be.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else
00:15:05I wanted to, like, talk to you about
00:15:07that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:09What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:15Emma.
00:15:34I wanted to get out for a bit this morning
00:15:58and clear my mind
00:15:59because my night with Emma was horrible.
00:16:02I want to be her husband,
00:16:04but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:07I hope things better today.
00:16:14I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him
00:16:19and he would be, like,
00:16:20bringing me coffee in the morning
00:16:21and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually
00:16:25just been completely separate.
00:16:30Zia's behavior last night,
00:16:32it's making me a little suspicious,
00:16:34but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:16:37and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun
00:16:39and I want us to
00:16:41just focus on
00:16:42the positive.
00:16:44I'm really determined
00:16:45to turn things around.
00:16:46How's your night?
00:17:12This is nice.
00:17:14Really?
00:17:14Yeah.
00:17:16That's it. This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:19Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Hello.
00:17:27Hello.
00:17:32She's adorable.
00:17:35My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:38I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:17:40I know, I know.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:44What do you want to start for what?
00:17:46I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:17:50I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:53Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:17:58Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:00Yeah. Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:03I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:06Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:11I don't hear you.
00:18:12I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat?
00:18:14I don't hear what you said.
00:18:15I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:18For running away from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:24Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:29I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got, like, really dramatic,
00:18:31but I think it was just a long day for me because I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:37And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:18:38There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:18:40Actually, there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:18:46What?
00:18:47What?
00:18:48What is this?
00:18:49What's happened?
00:18:50I was just, like, upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like, I've been there for five years and...
00:19:09Yes.
00:19:11Well, I got fired.
00:19:17Really?
00:19:19I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm gonna cry.
00:19:21No, no.
00:19:22You don't need this.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:39No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:42It's, uh...
00:19:43Because I don't know what I'm gonna do.
00:19:45It's just a word.
00:19:46It's a word.
00:19:47It's uttered.
00:19:49And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry.
00:19:55Don't cry.
00:19:56Okay.
00:19:57Don't cry.
00:19:58Okay.
00:20:05I don't know what I'm gonna do.
00:20:06I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:09It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:17Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together and everything will be good.
00:20:31I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now, he's showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you, babe.
00:20:42Yeah, it is.
00:20:43I love you more.
00:20:44What's...
00:20:45What's mean, tornado?
00:20:46Like an earthquake.
00:20:47Like a...
00:20:48Like a natural disaster.
00:20:49So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:54Yeah, yeah.
00:20:55That's an amazing example.
00:20:56Yeah, really.
00:21:01My future hubby.
00:21:03Ah.
00:21:04Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No.
00:21:06Can you explain?
00:21:07What's mean?
00:21:08It's short for husband.
00:21:09Really?
00:21:10Yeah.
00:21:11Hubby.
00:21:13One feet.
00:21:14Yeah.
00:21:15Exactly.
00:21:16I can't believe the trees.
00:21:17How beautiful they are.
00:21:18I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:19I'm probably gonna...
00:21:20I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:21I'm probably gonna...
00:21:22I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:23I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:47Love the way you smile.
00:21:52My heart is racing.
00:21:55All right.
00:21:56See you later, Deb.
00:21:57See you later.
00:21:58I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams
00:22:08after seven years.
00:22:10Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:14Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:17Waka waka.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:23Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:25Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:22:28Crazy.
00:22:29This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:22:32If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:22:38It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:22:44Oh, man.
00:22:45Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:48But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:22:51Look at that.
00:22:52That thing is pretty good.
00:22:53This is the jeepney.
00:22:54This is locally here in my country.
00:22:56They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with Americans,
00:23:00so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:04Incredible.
00:23:05You can see the big building there.
00:23:07That's the condo.
00:23:08We're gonna stay.
00:23:10I wish I could stay at your place.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:14Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:19said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:23:23When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their
00:23:27daughter, and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd,
00:23:34especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually just meet her.
00:23:42Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:23:45It's their wishes.
00:23:46I can't really go around that, but I'm not paying them money.
00:23:54This is the place.
00:23:55All right.
00:23:56I got it.
00:23:57All right.
00:23:58Charge.
00:24:00Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:15Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:18Whoa!
00:24:19I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:24:21Oh, my goodness.
00:24:22I can definitely smell him.
00:24:23Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:24:27Don't go for that.
00:24:28Yeah, okay.
00:24:33So, sorry, baby.
00:24:34This is all I could get for you guys.
00:24:37You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:40It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:24:44The place is nice.
00:24:45It's pretty.
00:24:46But it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:24:49I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:24:52It feels good.
00:24:53It's your bag, too.
00:24:54Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:24:56It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:24:59If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down, I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:06Sheena.
00:25:07What?
00:25:08This feels more than online right now.
00:25:09Oh, this is.
00:25:10It's making me more nervous.
00:25:11Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:12I'm hearing with you.
00:25:13Oh, I know.
00:25:14I can see.
00:25:15Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:25:16Oh, yeah.
00:25:17Oh, yeah.
00:25:18Because I got some good stuff here.
00:25:19Excuse me, baby.
00:25:21Boom.
00:25:22What is that?
00:25:23This is something amazing, and I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:25:41Wow, what?
00:25:42That's, what's that thing?
00:25:43That's.
00:25:44I think it is a cloth that goes on your body and accentuates your sexuality.
00:25:56Oh, that's nice.
00:25:57I love the color.
00:25:58Oh, yeah.
00:25:59That's cool.
00:26:00I guess, guess what?
00:26:01There's even more.
00:26:02What?
00:26:03You have more?
00:26:04I have more.
00:26:06Oh, wow.
00:26:07I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:10Wow.
00:26:11To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:26:18But Forrest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:26:22This is another one for you.
00:26:23Oh.
00:26:24In case you want to, you know.
00:26:25Oh, that's pretty.
00:26:26That's cool.
00:26:27That's beautiful.
00:26:29Oh, okay.
00:26:30Oh, okay.
00:26:37You're so handsome always.
00:26:38I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:26:40Okay.
00:26:41Go for it, my love.
00:26:42Deep brush.
00:26:43All right.
00:26:44Do everything, my love.
00:26:46You know, when I was making like sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to like
00:26:51put her at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:26:57I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:01But to be honest, I'm actually, I'm kind of still nervous about what it's going to do.
00:27:05I mean, I'm, I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off, but having sex with Sheena, I feel
00:27:15like it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:27:19It's, it's, it's just a big deal.
00:27:20I love you.
00:27:21I love you.
00:27:22Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:23Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:24It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:40I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:27:43And so I am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:27:49Oh my God.
00:27:50Here we go.
00:27:56We are in the process of landing.
00:27:58And I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or beer con, but I'm excited.
00:28:03So this is the most important day actually in my life.
00:28:18I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting for first time.
00:28:24Everything has to go perfect.
00:28:26So I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:28:32Laura is arriving for today.
00:28:34And today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:28:40Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:28:44I never saw this big of place.
00:28:49It just feels me.
00:28:51Right now I'm staying with different friends.
00:28:57Sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:00That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:03But the privacy of our place is going to be nice.
00:29:08Because we have a lot of things to discuss face to face.
00:29:12It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:29:27I'm so excited now.
00:29:29I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:29:39Oh.
00:29:40Oh.
00:29:43Oh my God.
00:29:44She come early.
00:29:54It's slightly cold that I am having a heart attack or I am excited.
00:29:59Yeah, we will see.
00:30:03I am going to wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:06I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:12I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months.
00:30:17But I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:30:21And so I am nervous that BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:30:26And I think that's a cute dress.
00:30:27All right.
00:30:28The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:30:29My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America, live together and get married.
00:30:47But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:48Nobody knows.
00:30:49This is it?
00:30:50I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:30:51I wasn't fine till you came into my view.
00:30:52Thought I was going inside.
00:30:53Oh my God.
00:30:54Here we go.
00:30:55Oh my God...
00:30:56See my lies and truth.
00:30:57Now the old Chris I am somewhere.
00:31:02Welcome, gorgeous.
00:31:03Any name's for Bill?
00:31:05Hello.
00:31:06A pleasure and I love you.
00:31:08How are you?
00:31:09How are you?
00:31:10Good.
00:31:11How are you?
00:31:12Good.
00:31:13How's your Wildman scene?
00:31:15How are you doing?
00:31:16How are you doing?
00:31:17How are you working with DrT?
00:31:19How are you?
00:31:21I'm good, how are you?
00:31:22I am good.
00:31:24How are you doing?
00:31:25It was so long.
00:31:26Yeah, I know.
00:31:28I am still thinking about how I go to America.
00:31:30Yeah.
00:31:38Welcome again.
00:31:42I think everything's perfect.
00:31:44Right now, yeah.
00:31:45That's really sweet.
00:31:46Yeah, it was.
00:31:47I know.
00:31:48I know.
00:31:49I know.
00:31:50Yeah.
00:31:53So let's go this way.
00:31:55OK.
00:31:56These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:31:58He looks amazing.
00:32:00Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing,
00:32:03which is that dark romance male main character.
00:32:07When you look at her, what do you think?
00:32:09She's perfect.
00:32:10I don't need to look at her.
00:32:11I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:32:14I'm complete, so we don't need to see.
00:32:17She's probably the best dancer ever.
00:32:24That was like the best flight I've ever taken.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Seriously.
00:32:28I'm glad.
00:32:29I'm glad.
00:32:30I'm really glad.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:32It's good to see you.
00:32:33You too.
00:32:34I don't know what's happening.
00:32:36It's very awkward right now.
00:32:40I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know, it was like great when we first met.
00:32:41He hugged me, he kissed me, and then we sit on this train, and it's like he doesn't know who I am.
00:32:48And I don't know who he is.
00:32:49And I don't know who he is.
00:32:53I think we're close.
00:32:54I think we're close.
00:32:55I think we're close.
00:32:56I'm hoping that as time moves forward.
00:32:57that this will change.
00:32:58I think we're close.
00:32:59I think we're close.
00:33:00I'm hoping that as time moves forward, that this will turn around.
00:33:02And it will feel more like it did when we were online.
00:33:03But we're really happy.
00:33:04I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know, it was like great when we first met.
00:33:06He hugged me.
00:33:07He kissed me.
00:33:08And then we sit on this train, and it's like he doesn't know who I am.
00:33:11And I don't know who he is.
00:33:14I think we're close.
00:33:23I'm hoping that as time moves forward, that this will turn around.
00:33:28And it will feel more like it did when we were online.
00:33:31But right now, something is off.
00:33:34And it's freaking me out.
00:33:43Anna called me like it were, talking about your brother, your brother.
00:33:48I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:33:53She was just talking about that woman.
00:33:56Uh, yeah.
00:33:59Who is the woman?
00:34:02Yeah.
00:34:03I'm ready to roll.
00:34:04Fully loaded.
00:34:05I'm ready for whoa.
00:34:06Straight up out of the bunker might jump ya.
00:34:07Zombies out here to hunt ya.
00:34:08This is nice.
00:34:09Really?
00:34:10This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:34:13But she doesn't like how you dress, so you gotta do something else.
00:34:16Ugh.
00:34:17Ugh.
00:34:18I think you got some good purchases.
00:34:19Ugh.
00:34:20Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:25It'll be fine.
00:34:26It's gonna be fine.
00:34:27It's gonna be fine.
00:34:28I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley.
00:34:29Because I'm flying to the Philippines in a couple of days to meet my wife for the first time.
00:34:34In person.
00:34:35I'm excited and I'm super nervous.
00:34:36I'm excited and I'm super nervous.
00:34:41Because we've been married for three years.
00:34:42But we've never been in the same room or even the same continent with each other.
00:34:47We don't have a lot of faith in your experiences.
00:34:48She's like oh my God.
00:34:49I'm getting better.
00:34:50Yeah, I'm getting better.
00:34:51We'll be fine.
00:34:52I'm getting better.
00:34:53What are you doing?
00:34:54Okay.
00:34:55Really?
00:34:56Yeah.
00:34:57I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:35:01It'll be fine.
00:35:03It's gonna be fine.
00:35:04I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley because I'm flying
00:35:07to the Philippines in a couple of days to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:35:10with each other so are you all packed up you ready uh i think i'm as ready as i'm ever gonna be
00:35:19and you know me and anna's relationship it's just been this spiraling like up and down loopy loop
00:35:25roller coaster ride but when things are good i'm like really happy to be in a relationship
00:35:30i think anna's very funny yeah like anna seems like she's a good time she's just a lot
00:35:37javon marrying somebody online was actually wild to me i do think they love each other
00:35:46but i don't know like i wouldn't just call this like a normal marriage this is something i've
00:35:53never seen or heard of before you know like anna actually called me you spoke to her
00:36:01she called me like at work i'm working i'm with i'm with customers and she's just you know
00:36:10talking about your brother your brother i don't know what to do with him
00:36:13and i was like can't even get her off the phone yeah she was just talking about that woman
00:36:23uh yeah
00:36:28so who who is the woman
00:36:32so the woman is just like a friend of mine that i've that i've known for a long time
00:36:44we communicate so well and we can stay on the phone for hours i think because we're both having
00:36:52problems in our you know relationship it's it's definitely more easygoing and it's more positive
00:36:58so but what is it that that anna's so like threatened and bothered by her like what what is
00:37:09it because i feel like i'm missing something yeah i mean there used to be this this this this small
00:37:17thing between us but we're bad also that so so javon that's not okay that is no good i i know
00:37:27you know and i'm not so that's why she's so upset then yeah
00:37:30me and my friend we never officially dated but there was feelings for one another
00:37:37we lost touch for a while but i reached out to her because i was going through a rough time
00:37:45in my marriage and i needed someone that knew me and that understood me i wasn't trying to hide
00:37:53anything so i just came out and told anna and i was talking to this other person
00:37:58i don't think it's a big deal but obviously she does because she's extremely pissed off and upset
00:38:04i'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset but it's just completely platonic
00:38:13you know and she don't have to worry about that have you tried to call her i have but you know
00:38:22she she blocked me for real she gets so aggressive see this is the problem like this is how this is why
00:38:32i had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else about our marriage and it shouldn't
00:38:40be that way obviously anna feels disrespected and i do get that i know that she's one thousand
00:38:50percent unhinged like kind of off her rocker a little bit but i do feel like he presses her buttons
00:38:56javonne just needs to stay sorry and try and talk to her and if they don't know how to talk then
00:39:01they don't need to be married you're about to see your wife for the first time you all don't need to
00:39:07be in the middle of a fight i don't know what to do i don't know what to do
00:39:13i heard some interesting things from your guys's bedroom last night did you guys do the old
00:39:25knock it knock it i just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know now now you're kind
00:39:33of now you're kind of being really disrespectful
00:39:34hey guys we're gonna go down and have
00:40:03some coffee by the pool so uh we'll be up in a little while
00:40:07talk to you in a bit later
00:40:09i arrived in the philippines yesterday
00:40:36and the first night with the woman of my dream sheena was amazing
00:40:42there's a lot of new and fun things i'm finding out uh being with sheena physically
00:40:59i found out there's a night sheena what and uh she's kind of grabby oh really very i'm not
00:41:06you're very uh into being physical night sheena
00:41:10you know just finally being able to hold you and be with you and and kiss you
00:41:18it just felt awesome and i know that i talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like
00:41:25that but i really believe that we should um wait you know till we know each other a bit more
00:41:34you know in person
00:41:35i understand my love
00:41:38i really feel like after seven years me coming here to the philippines and just having sex with
00:41:46sheena straight up it's not what i want to do
00:41:49yeah i agree with that i just want to get to know you much better
00:41:53we all know when the time is right
00:41:55i agree today
00:41:57also probably when my mom's not around
00:41:59yeah
00:42:00we'll see you later
00:42:08i don't need a coat that's for sure
00:42:12oh nice and cool in here
00:42:15i'm excited
00:42:17so where exactly are we you're taking us again
00:42:27so it's a chinatown here manila actually one of the oldest chinatown here in the whole world
00:42:34because chinese people have been trading with the filipinos before spanish people arrived
00:42:41spaniards so there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods
00:42:45i'm ready to eat it all
00:42:48so i got a little curiosity question uh to ask you guys
00:42:56uh i heard some interesting things you know coming for your from your guys's bedroom last night
00:43:03the little giggles
00:43:04so uh did uh you guys uh do the old uh knockin knockin
00:43:12no
00:43:14so why why didn't you guys
00:43:22well just wasn't the right time or place to do that
00:43:27oh okay well
00:43:30you guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions
00:43:35it's not an embarrassing subject to me
00:43:37it's interesting
00:43:39it's life
00:43:39it takes practice to be good at it
00:43:43yeah
00:43:43my parents are just
00:43:48it's a little too much
00:43:51it's a little bit rude and awkward for me i just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know
00:43:58i don't expect you guys for waiting and there's nothing wrong with that there are other things that you can do if you guys didn't want to do the nookie nookie
00:44:08there's oral sex there's fondling now now you're kind of being really disrespectful here mom i get it you're trying to be helpful but you're pushing too far
00:44:18you know if we want to talk about sex with you we'll come up and ask about it
00:44:26okay excuse me
00:44:33it's nice that he was defending her honor that's admirable but i was very shocked by forest reaction
00:44:41thank you very much
00:44:43well forest how why is this a you know a total 180 from our normal discussions where you're right in there using the same language the same talk saying yeah i'm gonna get into that do that
00:44:54it's drastic night and day i see where this is head oh my god i miss this place sales at home
00:45:02sheena already has that control that thumb on him let's not forget she was lying to him for years
00:45:10giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future and i don't know if forest will actually hold her accountable
00:45:17but we need to get some answers
00:45:20you don't need to talk about your past
00:45:31i know i know everything about your life
00:45:33you don't know everything
00:45:35i really want to tell ziad about my last engagement because i think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:45:50oh look at the mirrors wait i want to check my outfit
00:46:01here hold that
00:46:03we look cute
00:46:06i can see you
00:46:09can you see yourself
00:46:10i don't see you
00:46:22i'm excited to go shopping
00:46:25it's always crowded
00:46:28this is an easy place to get lost
00:46:31today i want to take emma to hold me you know
00:46:35it's so bad because emma she loves her job i want to make her feel so better and she loves chopping so
00:46:42oh look at those bags those are cute
00:46:46the market place in the media they have a thousand stores there oh my gosh i love all of these clothes
00:46:53you can find anything you want
00:46:57oh look at these rugs those are nice
00:47:00yes oh wait there's bags let's go look at the bags
00:47:04let's let's let's see what you want
00:47:07oh this is so cute can you hold this i want to look at everything look for anything you want i think i like these little wallets
00:47:13for anything you want i think i like these little wallets
00:47:17these are cute
00:47:20i think i'm gonna buy these three
00:47:22not you me
00:47:23you're gonna get them
00:47:24yeah
00:47:25hey
00:47:25it's like my gift to you
00:47:28can i give you a kiss
00:47:29not hair
00:47:30hair kiss
00:47:31maybe
00:47:32is that okay
00:47:33can i do that from now on
00:47:35yeah yeah yeah yeah
00:47:35i'll just give you air kisses whenever i want to kiss you
00:47:37yeah
00:47:38it's really nice to have zied offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me
00:47:46that was so romantic
00:47:47because that's never something i've had in the past
00:47:51it's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than i was feeling yesterday
00:47:55where are you taking me babe
00:47:57this is popular here in marrakesh
00:48:00what is this
00:48:03what is that
00:48:08what's we call them in english
00:48:10snails
00:48:11snails
00:48:12snails
00:48:12i like don't want that
00:48:13really
00:48:14no
00:48:14it's like traditional
00:48:16i'm not trying
00:48:17no
00:48:18i literally would throw up
00:48:21it's so delicious
00:48:26that is the grossest thing i've ever seen in my whole life
00:48:29it's a slimy snail
00:48:31and you just suck it down
00:48:34for me it's delicious
00:48:35that's like really gross
00:48:40what's like the weirdest food you've ever tried
00:48:44like snails would be weird
00:48:46for you for me no
00:48:47so for me sushi for example
00:48:50i love sushi
00:48:51yeah it's
00:48:52we are different
00:48:53it's
00:48:54are we compatible
00:48:55thank you
00:49:03can you hold my other bag actually
00:49:05what else can we do like while we're here
00:49:08did you like horses
00:49:09i love horses
00:49:11i think we have to choose this one
00:49:14i like the white one
00:49:15your head
00:49:16just one by one
00:49:19one by one
00:49:21oh my god this is so romantic
00:49:25this is like a romantic love ride
00:49:29this is three kisses you kiss me today
00:49:37i'm happy that we had a better day today
00:49:42yeah me too
00:49:43it was a big difference between this day and last day
00:49:47yesterday was like really hard for me
00:49:51it like brought up old feelings
00:49:52because you know i've like been lying to a lot
00:49:56like in my past like with past boyfriends
00:49:59so when when you kind of lied to me it was like a trigger for me
00:50:03yeah so you don't need to talk about your past
00:50:07do you not care about my past
00:50:10no
00:50:10i know you right now not in past
00:50:13so
00:50:13yeah but don't you want to know about my life
00:50:15just like things i've been through
00:50:17it's like don't you want to know about me
00:50:19yeah i know i know everything about your life
00:50:21you don't know everything
00:50:22no i know everything i know your family i know
00:50:26uh where did you live i know
00:50:28i know but there are things that like i've
00:50:29that have happened in my life that you don't know about
00:50:32like i thought
00:50:37we can leave the impasse
00:50:38something passers it's passers
00:50:40i want to be vulnerable i want to share you know details about who i am and my past
00:50:48and i really want to be able to tell zied about my last engagement because i think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:50:56but for him to shut me down
00:51:00it does make me wonder if zied just doesn't want to talk about the past
00:51:04because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:51:08since i've gone into morocco i've just felt really rejected by him
00:51:16and so now i'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:51:19i need you to be able to look me in the eye
00:51:28why have you lied to us all along
00:51:32i was so fearful of my parents
00:51:35they would say bad things to me
00:51:37they would say bad things to other people
00:51:38and it affects me emotionally mentally
00:51:41drains me
00:51:42no i need that direct answer
00:51:45as to why
00:51:46you continue to hide it
00:51:49hello javon
00:52:13i'm leaving for the philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife anna for the first time
00:52:28but me and anna we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:52:33my sister talked to anna lynn and she actually unblocked me
00:52:38but she's still really upset that i'm back in touch with a friend i once had feelings for
00:52:44there's so much riding on this trip
00:52:48anna being as angry
00:52:49it's just not good
00:52:52hey what's going on
00:52:56what's going on
00:52:57ask yourself what's going on javon
00:52:59i mean uh you know anna don't don't be so aggressive
00:53:05not being aggressive
00:53:07you told me yourself if we're going to be married
00:53:12we can't be giving anyone special from the past
00:53:17but you're doing it
00:53:20and i'm not saying that you're cheating on me
00:53:24but it's like a baby step
00:53:26for any temptation
00:53:28i'm dealing with so much over here by myself
00:53:32i'm dealing with your problems
00:53:34i'm dealing with my problems
00:53:35and sometimes i don't feel like i'm being emotionally supported by you
00:53:40so you know i kind of felt like i was just a little bit desperate
00:53:44just to just to be understood and just heard
00:53:48if you feel like sometimes you can talk to me
00:53:55you have siblings
00:53:57you have a dad
00:53:59you have a mom
00:54:00i mean but like who could afford therapy right now
00:54:12she's not taking any accountability that you know she played a part in why i reached out to a friend
00:54:25i need to be able to rely on my wife
00:54:28but she makes it impossible
00:54:30even when i'm like at work
00:54:33you're going through something
00:54:34i always try to be there for you emotionally
00:54:37i try but i don't see you trying for me
00:54:43when do you show up for me in that way
00:54:45oh god
00:54:46like hello i've been i've been waiting for you for six years
00:54:54i have devoted
00:54:56invested so much love
00:54:59if you don't feel like that's understanding enough
00:55:07waiting for you for that long
00:55:09i don't know what is
00:55:12i know you've made you know some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long
00:55:26and i do apologize and i do take accountability for what i've done
00:55:31okay
00:55:34okay
00:55:36so you're gonna stop talking to her
00:55:40i can stop but
00:55:44can we at least work on our communication
00:55:47okay
00:55:50okay
00:55:51that's all i want boo that's that's it
00:55:54with javon coming out to the philippines
00:55:58i do feel like
00:56:00i could let go of some
00:56:02negative feelings about
00:56:04this situation
00:56:05but even though he agreed that he's not gonna talk to that woman anymore
00:56:11do i believe it
00:56:12no not really
00:56:17so i will
00:56:19definitely talk about this
00:56:22again in person
00:56:23do you think we can
00:56:25like move past it
00:56:27like when we see each other
00:56:29i don't know
00:56:30baby
00:56:31whoa look at this place
00:56:50this was a church
00:56:52oh
00:56:521588 man that is old
00:56:55it's old
00:56:56here we got some reasons here
00:56:58what's this you guys
00:56:59yes
00:57:02yeah it's precision
00:57:08oh my goodness
00:57:10we call that fiesta
00:57:11oh yes
00:57:12that's a culture for catholics here in my country
00:57:15goodness
00:57:15yes
00:57:17oh my god
00:57:18yeah it's really cool
00:57:20look at this
00:57:20ah
00:57:21i decided to take
00:57:25boris and his family
00:57:26to chinatown
00:57:27because
00:57:27i'm a chinese mix
00:57:29my mom
00:57:30is chinese descent
00:57:32so i wanted to show
00:57:34how chinese culture
00:57:35interbonded with
00:57:36philippina culture
00:57:37smell that
00:57:40oh that smells
00:57:41so this is a place
00:57:43that they make
00:57:44handmade noodles
00:57:45why can i eat that
00:57:46hello
00:57:47oh
00:57:48yesterday i was quite a little nervous
00:57:51to meet boris parents
00:57:53especially molly
00:57:54okay thank you
00:57:56thank you
00:57:56there's been problems
00:57:58between me
00:57:59and molly
00:58:00but i'm so glad
00:58:01that she happened
00:58:02to accept me
00:58:03and i wanted to provide
00:58:05them the best
00:58:06first day here
00:58:07in the philippines
00:58:08yum
00:58:10oh thank you
00:58:12slurps up
00:58:13slurps up
00:58:13slurps up
00:58:14yeah actually
00:58:16that's here
00:58:16the culture
00:58:17you want to slurp
00:58:17it means
00:58:18you're eating
00:58:18the good noodles
00:58:19so that's a good sign
00:58:20so the loud are the best
00:58:21yeah yes
00:58:22here i go
00:58:23yeah you are the king
00:58:26of slurp
00:58:27slurps
00:58:27i made sure to get
00:58:28on my glasses
00:58:29that's the
00:58:30that's the key
00:58:30this is all good
00:58:31yeah
00:58:32well sheena
00:58:34i wanted to thank you
00:58:38for your apology
00:58:39yesterday
00:58:40i mean that really
00:58:41showed a lot
00:58:42um to me
00:58:44but i did
00:58:45i did want to
00:58:46uh ask you
00:58:48about a few things
00:58:50okay
00:58:53okay mom
00:58:54i'm listening
00:58:55and i need you to be able
00:58:56to look me in the eye
00:58:57and i need you
00:58:58to be truthful
00:59:00with me
00:59:01one hundred percent
00:59:02you lied to us
00:59:07about giving your parents
00:59:09the money
00:59:09this was supposed to be
00:59:13you saving up money
00:59:14so you could come to america
00:59:16to be a family with us
00:59:18and these were the plans
00:59:19all of these years
00:59:21and then for it to just find out
00:59:24now
00:59:25before we come here
00:59:27that hasn't been happening
00:59:29why have you lied to us
00:59:33all along
00:59:34i really owe you
00:59:39millions and thousands
00:59:41of explanations
00:59:42i hope you can listen
00:59:43to my situation
00:59:44the reason why
00:59:47that i happen to
00:59:48give my money
00:59:49to my parents
00:59:50is because
00:59:51being a breadwinner
00:59:53it's a cultural thing
00:59:54in my country
00:59:55that we are obligated
00:59:56to help our parents around
00:59:58i mean i completely understand
01:00:01giving your parents money
01:00:02needing to help your family
01:00:03that's what family does
01:00:04but my
01:00:06issue with it
01:00:08is that
01:00:09you lie
01:00:11to be honest
01:00:17the reason also
01:00:18that's another reason
01:00:19i was so scared
01:00:20because
01:00:21my parents
01:00:22my mom
01:00:23happened to
01:00:24guilt-tripping me
01:00:26from time to time
01:00:27if i don't give them money
01:00:29she makes me feel
01:00:30that i'm such a selfish person
01:00:32and it hurts me a lot
01:00:34okay but if i'm asking you
01:00:36a direct question
01:00:37i need that direct answer
01:00:40and even now
01:00:40you haven't given me
01:00:42a direct answer
01:00:43as to
01:00:44why
01:00:45you continue
01:00:46to hide it
01:00:47watching sheena
01:00:51under my mom's pressure
01:00:52is
01:00:53just awful
01:00:54i'm wanting to step in
01:00:57and defend her
01:00:58and protect
01:00:58sheena
01:00:59but at the same time
01:01:01i i don't understand
01:01:02what fear she had
01:01:04of telling me
01:01:05i was so fearful
01:01:08of my parents
01:01:09they would say
01:01:10bad things to me
01:01:11they would say
01:01:11bad things to other people
01:01:13and it affects me
01:01:14emotionally
01:01:15mentally
01:01:15it drains me
01:01:16and it makes me feel
01:01:18so bad
01:01:19no
01:01:19no
01:01:20sheena
01:01:21i'm not asking you that
01:01:22i'm asking you why
01:01:24you did not
01:01:26tell
01:01:27us
01:01:28i couldn't handle
01:01:31myself anymore
01:01:32because
01:01:33i don't know
01:01:34sheena
01:01:35i can't understand
01:01:36what you're saying
01:01:37i'm sorry
01:01:38oh my god
01:01:38see there's your manipulation
01:01:40put the tears
01:01:42please put your tissue down
01:01:44i'm trying to have
01:01:47sheena
01:01:47acknowledge
01:01:48actions that she did
01:01:50that weren't acceptable
01:01:52so even if she did
01:01:54have good reason
01:01:55to give it all
01:01:56to her parents
01:01:56what's the motivation
01:01:58for hiding it
01:01:59we gotta get answers
01:02:01oh my god
01:02:08this is really happening
01:02:09oh my god
01:02:10oh my god
01:02:11oh my god
01:02:11oh my god
01:02:12oh my god
01:02:13i can't believe
01:02:13i'm doing this
01:02:14i love this
01:02:15but i am worried
01:02:17about some things
01:02:18she was physical
01:02:19with a woman
01:02:20oh my god
01:02:25oh my god
01:02:26oh my god
01:02:27oh my god
01:02:27oh my god
01:02:28oh my god
01:02:29here is
01:02:44awesome
01:02:44here we go
01:02:46yeah
01:02:46here goes everything
01:02:48thank you
01:02:56oh my gosh
01:02:58i'm finally
01:03:00i'm finally on my way
01:03:00to meet the love of my life
01:03:01daniel in nigeria in nigeria for the very first time
01:03:04what am i doing
01:03:05what am i doing
01:03:06i don't know
01:03:07i don't know mom what are you doing
01:03:08certainly not what i would be doing
01:03:10it still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women i'm traveling across
01:03:18the world
01:03:18to meet a man
01:03:20and i love him
01:03:21i love him
01:03:23you're gonna see
01:03:25you're gonna see when i come home
01:03:25how excited and happy i am
01:03:27you're gonna see when i talk to you there
01:03:29how happy i am
01:03:30and you're gonna be happy for me
01:03:32i just
01:03:33i don't want it to ruin
01:03:36your heart
01:03:37i'm gonna pee my pants
01:03:44oh god please don't
01:03:47here we go
01:03:48all right
01:03:53you remember the rules
01:03:55don't get married on the trip
01:03:56even when the divorce comes through
01:03:57yes
01:03:58and i will complain about everything
01:04:01it'll be a foundation
01:04:02and if you have questions
01:04:03i will ask them
01:04:04i love you
01:04:08i love you too
01:04:09i'm gonna miss you so much
01:04:11stay safe
01:04:13oh god
01:04:14this is the biggest risk i've ever taken
01:04:17flying across the world
01:04:19to another country
01:04:20to nigeria africa
01:04:22to be with a man i have never met before
01:04:25i can't believe i'm doing this
01:04:26oh my god this is really happening
01:04:29oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:04:33oh my god i can't believe i'm doing this
01:04:35happy daniel
01:04:37happy daniel
01:04:38i hope daniel will accept me for everything that i am
01:04:43and who i am
01:04:44and that he will become my sixth and final spouse
01:04:48e a girl is coming
01:04:51I don't know.
01:05:21I don't know.
01:05:51I grew up very poor.
01:05:56Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:06:01My family do the best they can do.
01:06:06And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman.
01:06:11I grew up very poor.
01:06:13Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:06:18My family do the best they can do.
01:06:20And I am really close to my family.
01:06:23But some years ago, I lost my mom before she died.
01:06:28She told me that during the war, she nearly be killed, that a white woman protected her.
01:06:32And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman.
01:06:36So I decided I will do it.
01:06:38And that's how I found Lisa.
01:06:40It's like fire burning up.
01:06:44Lisa is 52 years old.
01:06:47She lives in Pennsylvania.
01:06:48She's a beautiful woman.
01:06:49She has a good body structure.
01:06:53She's thick.
01:06:54She has bops.
01:06:55She has what I want.
01:06:59She don't hide anything.
01:07:01She supports me financially.
01:07:03She makes me feel loved.
01:07:05That's why I fell in love with her.
01:07:08Take the top like fire.
01:07:09Take the top like fire.
01:07:09Take the top like fire.
01:07:38In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:08I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:13One, she vaped.
01:08:15Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:19And three, she was physical with a woman one time.
01:08:24This is the worst.
01:08:31We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:38Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:42So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:45She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:49But I love us.
01:08:50I love you.
01:08:52I love you.
01:08:54I love you.
01:08:58I love you.
01:09:03Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:27I'm planning a big surprise for Minister when I meet her at the airport.
01:09:34I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:38If I marry Lisa to make me change the story of my family, and if I should make it to America, this will change my life to good.
01:09:48I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:04Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:06It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:09No straight weather.
01:10:14Wow.
01:10:15Here we are.
01:10:25Oh, we're here?
01:10:29Here you go.
01:10:30I will take this.
01:10:32You're welcome.
01:10:33After all of this excitement and anticipation and build up of coming to Turkey and meeting Birkan face to face, it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:43But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:48It just feels so right.
01:10:52I'm excited to see this.
01:10:56Here you go.
01:10:57Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:58Yeah, of course.
01:10:59Okay.
01:11:01Oh, my God.
01:11:02This is huge.
01:11:03Oh, yeah.
01:11:05This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:09This is amazing.
01:11:10This kitchen is bigger than almost my every house, so.
01:11:17This is incredible.
01:11:20You like this?
01:11:21Oh, my God.
01:11:22I love this.
01:11:23I'm going to move here.
01:11:25You can see the sea.
01:11:28Everything?
01:11:29Oh, my God.
01:11:30Wow.
01:11:34This is amazing.
01:11:35I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:38Did it worth it?
01:11:41All the trip?
01:11:43Yeah.
01:11:45I know it's worth it.
01:11:46Yeah, I know.
01:11:48So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59All right.
01:12:00Okay.
01:12:03This is the best part of his mirror.
01:12:07This is incredible.
01:12:09I would love to, like, live right there.
01:12:11Like, with this view every day.
01:12:14Yeah.
01:12:15I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do, too.
01:12:18Yeah.
01:12:21Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:28That's, like, really profound.
01:12:29Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:30Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things and he has a way of taking things that are just very simple and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:43It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:45When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:52Sometimes it's a little exhausting because I'm like, oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:55I guess we gotta go this way.
01:12:57Go back this way?
01:12:58Yeah.
01:12:59I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:01Actually, not you.
01:13:03The people are.
01:13:04Not me.
01:13:05They have no idea where I'm going.
01:13:08I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:11I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it.
01:13:19Ugh.
01:13:20How was your day?
01:13:22Yeah, it was good.
01:13:24I enjoyed it.
01:13:26How about you?
01:13:27I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:29I traveled a ton to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights and...
01:13:42I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:45Okay.
01:13:47You wanna go to bed?
01:13:51Actually, it's just 9 o'clock and I have no sleep.
01:13:57Okay.
01:13:58So why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV and join you after.
01:14:07Good night.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09Alright, good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12All right, good night.
01:14:13Okay.
01:14:14Good morning.
01:14:19I'm on Tuesday, so you should be sharing my food?
01:14:20I'm on Tuesday, so you...
01:14:21There's no public.
01:14:22Um, Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:45And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:48I said, everything's good.
01:14:50And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:56So I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:02But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:12It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:17I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:20It just feels off.
01:15:23I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:24It just feels off.
01:15:26It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:38And so, I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:42And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:46Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:51But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:55Right there, Collins.
01:16:08Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:11I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:13No.
01:16:13It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:15Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:17I want to end this now.
01:16:19You're acting all hostile?
01:16:20I'm not.
01:16:21Yeah, you are.
01:16:22Of course.
01:16:31My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:37Forrest, they should be helping me around.
01:16:39They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:42We can't understand you.
01:16:43You have to speak.
01:16:47You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:52I need you to really please point blank.
01:16:57You were giving your parents money.
01:17:00Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:05Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:22They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:26Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:33Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:38I can't handle it anymore.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:43The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:45I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:47It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:04Oh, you were scared.
01:18:05Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:08Mom, I got to get it on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:11I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:12But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:17and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:22Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:30A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:33I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:38you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:41Forrest.
01:18:43It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:46That still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:49It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:58I believe Sheena's not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:02I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:04And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is, you know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:16I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:22Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:26What's your goal here?
01:19:28Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:31I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:38Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:46Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:55I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:01It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:04Which is what she should have done to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:09Yeah, we could sit there and we could talk about the past and he said, she said he could do that, she cannot do that.
01:20:14It's time to move forward now.
01:20:16Forrest?
01:20:17I want to add this now.
01:20:22I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:24I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:26You're acting all hostile.
01:20:28I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:30And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:33You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:35I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:39Disaster.
01:20:42It's okay, babe.
01:20:47I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:50He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:20:56Now he sees us as the big, bad, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:02But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:08And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:24This is so surreal.
01:21:26Come on.
01:21:28Where are you?
01:21:29This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:37Mommy!
01:21:39Are you nervous?
01:21:40A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:42Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:47I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:53This part is best as possible.
01:21:55But I'm immediately regretting having Fear Calm come with me.
01:21:59I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:00I've been looking at your page.
01:22:09Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:11Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13No, no, there isn't also.
01:22:14Yeah.
01:22:14I downloaded this extension on my laptop.
01:22:17And it shows you who people follow.
01:22:21This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:25So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:28Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
01:22:33and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:38I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:42I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:46Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:52Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:54Now the story changes again.
01:22:56I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:03What the heck?
01:23:07I can't get out of there.
01:23:10I love him with everything I am.
01:23:13But he doesn't know that I've been married five times and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:19What are you doing?
01:23:21I love him with everything I am.
01:23:23I love him with everything I am.
01:23:24I love him with everything I am.
01:23:25I love him with everything I am.
01:23:26I love him with everything I am.
01:23:27I love him with everything I am.
01:23:28I love him with everything I am.
01:23:29I love him with everything I am.
01:23:30I love him with everything I am.
01:23:31I love him with everything I am.
01:23:32I love him with everything I am.
01:23:33I love him with everything I am.
01:23:34I love him with everything I am.
01:23:35I love him with everything I am.
01:23:36I love him with everything I am.
01:23:37I love him with everything I am.
01:23:38I love him with everything I am.
01:23:39I love him with everything I am.
01:23:40I love him with everything I am.
01:23:41I love him with everything I am.
01:23:42I love him with everything I am.
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