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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now, seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:14Oh, my goodness.
00:01:17Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:34Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:24I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27But...
00:02:27Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:20Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair.
00:03:27It sticks to your skin.
00:03:28You have rashes.
00:03:29You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:03:35But it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:40So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:00I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:04and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:08But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:12Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:34That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:37Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:39is on the 29th, so that the divorce
00:04:42becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still
00:04:49married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that,
00:04:58oh, you didn't just have a fling
00:04:59with a woman, no, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:04But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:09Not only does he not know that I've been with women
00:05:12for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't know that I am
00:05:16technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started
00:05:25talking to me, and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:28Because in my heart, I have been free to marry because my ex-wife
00:05:31and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers
00:05:37until now.
00:05:39If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:05:49until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried, Mom.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:05It is getting late, and we need to get to get to.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow
00:06:14try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody
00:06:19before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was to ask you to get married with God,
00:06:30you're in Nigeria, would you keep going against the faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:39I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:25Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:37I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:48We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair.
00:07:56And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:06I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:09That was just, that was it.
00:08:11He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:19And here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more.
00:08:28Hensitating.
00:08:30There ain't nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Big four.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Lemonade.
00:08:48Oh, boy.
00:08:51My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old.
00:08:53And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:08:59I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home.
00:09:05And I like my job.
00:09:08Thank you, Emma.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters.
00:09:15And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:38I call them the three-sixes.
00:09:43And it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55Yeah, it's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:02Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:06So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Aw.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old.
00:10:25And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo.
00:10:29It's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:32Must be something.
00:10:33Yeah, it must be something.
00:10:37We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:40And we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:10:51And we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:17we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:29I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:11:41and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:47and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally,
00:11:54he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:08I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:11I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox,
00:12:18but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend
00:12:23the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:34as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:43Absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:12:49lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years
00:13:05and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:09Uh, the whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:12So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn
00:13:20have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:25And having a marriage online
00:13:28has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Anna,
00:13:37she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:51And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time,
00:14:01I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:03to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:06more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:10But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:13and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:18to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems
00:14:29are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't,
00:14:34I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:36I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:40Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years
00:14:50to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off,
00:14:55but I'm kind of still nervous
00:14:58about what this marriage is going to be.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else
00:15:05I wanted to, like, talk to you about
00:15:07that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:09What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:15Emma.
00:15:34I wanted to get out for a bit this morning
00:15:58and clear my mind
00:15:59because my night with Emma was horrible.
00:16:02I want to be her husband,
00:16:04but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:07I hope things better today.
00:16:14I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him
00:16:19and he would be, like,
00:16:20bringing me coffee in the morning
00:16:21and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually
00:16:25just been completely separate.
00:16:30Zia's behavior last night,
00:16:32it's making me a little suspicious,
00:16:34but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:16:37and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun
00:16:39and I want us to
00:16:41just focus on
00:16:42the positive.
00:16:44I'm really determined
00:16:45to turn things around.
00:16:46Good morning.
00:17:10Morning.
00:17:11How's your night?
00:17:13This is nice.
00:17:14Really?
00:17:14Yeah.
00:17:16That's it.
00:17:17This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:19Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Really?
00:17:26Hello.
00:17:28Show it on the left.
00:17:32She's adorable.
00:17:36My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:38I don't like eggs,
00:17:39but I'll eat it
00:17:40because she cooked it.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:43What do you want to start for what?
00:17:47I mean,
00:17:47it wasn't really like
00:17:48a good start to my trip.
00:17:51I don't like that
00:17:52we were fighting all day.
00:17:53Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected
00:17:55like my first night to go.
00:17:58Can you pour me
00:17:59some more tea, please?
00:18:01Yeah.
00:18:01Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:03I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:05Um, but yes,
00:18:07I did want to say sorry
00:18:08to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:11I don't hear you.
00:18:12I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat
00:18:14I don't hear what you say?
00:18:15I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:16For running away
00:18:20from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:24Walking away from you
00:18:26when you were talking.
00:18:29I mean, I'm sorry.
00:18:30Yesterday got like
00:18:30really dramatic,
00:18:31but I think it was
00:18:32just a long day for me
00:18:33because I was traveling
00:18:35for like 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:38And it was just like
00:18:38a lot going on.
00:18:39There was like
00:18:39a lot in my mind.
00:18:42Actually,
00:18:43there's something else
00:18:44I wanted to like
00:18:44talk to you about
00:18:45that like I didn't
00:18:46tell you yet.
00:18:57What?
00:18:57What is this?
00:18:58What's happening?
00:19:02I was just like
00:19:03upset the past couple days
00:19:04because you know
00:19:06how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like I've been there
00:19:07for five years.
00:19:09And well, I got fired.
00:19:15I don't know if I want
00:19:20to talk about it
00:19:20because I'm going to cry.
00:19:21No, no.
00:19:22You don't need this.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:38No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:42It's a...
00:19:43I don't know what
00:19:44I'm going to do.
00:19:45It's just a walk.
00:19:47It's perfect.
00:19:49And you don't need
00:19:51to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry.
00:19:55Don't cry.
00:19:55Okay.
00:19:56Don't cry.
00:19:57Okay.
00:19:57Okay.
00:19:57I don't know what
00:20:05I'm going to do.
00:20:06I don't have any
00:20:07like options right now.
00:20:09It's difficult
00:20:10and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end,
00:20:12there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one
00:20:16more better than you last.
00:20:18Right now,
00:20:18I want you to enjoy
00:20:20here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together
00:20:23and everything will be good.
00:20:26I think we definitely
00:20:32started this trip
00:20:33like on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now,
00:20:38he is showing me
00:20:39that he cares
00:20:40about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you, babe.
00:20:42Yeah, he is.
00:20:42I love you, Ma.
00:20:44But what's mean, tornado?
00:20:46Like an earthquake.
00:20:48Like a natural disaster.
00:20:50So like when I got off the plane,
00:20:51what happened between us
00:20:52was like an earthquake.
00:20:54Yeah, yeah.
00:20:54That's an amazing example.
00:20:55Like a natural disaster.
00:20:56Yeah, really.
00:21:00My future hubby.
00:21:02Oh.
00:21:03Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No.
00:21:05Can you explain?
00:21:06What's mean?
00:21:07It's short for husband.
00:21:08Really?
00:21:09Yeah.
00:21:10Where's?
00:21:10Hubby.
00:21:12One feet.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:15Exactly.
00:21:16Exactly.
00:21:16God, I can't believe the trees.
00:21:39How beautiful they are.
00:21:41I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:43I'm probably going to...
00:21:43I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:45I'm going to have a sunburn
00:21:46in about 10 seconds.
00:21:47Love the way you smile.
00:21:52My heart is racing.
00:21:54All right.
00:21:57See you later, Deb.
00:21:57See you later.
00:21:59Yeah.
00:22:00I just arrived in the Philippines
00:22:03with my parents
00:22:04and finally met
00:22:06the girl of my dreams
00:22:08after seven years.
00:22:10Just being able to touch
00:22:11and hold her hand,
00:22:12it was so amazing.
00:22:14Did a little more than hold hands,
00:22:16I'd say.
00:22:17Waka waka.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:23Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:25Yeah, there's a lot
00:22:26to take in here.
00:22:28Crazy.
00:22:29This is definitely
00:22:30controlled chaos.
00:22:32If I could describe
00:22:33the Philippines in one word,
00:22:35it'd be hectic.
00:22:38It's got people, like,
00:22:40almost running into each other
00:22:41or running each other
00:22:42over constantly.
00:22:43Oh, man.
00:22:45Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:46Yeah.
00:22:47It's got its own,
00:22:49like, charm to it.
00:22:51Look at that.
00:22:51That thing is pretty good.
00:22:53Yes, this is the jeepney.
00:22:54This is locally
00:22:54here in my cafe.
00:22:56They have converted
00:22:57old jeepneys
00:22:57from the World War II
00:22:58who have been left
00:22:59with Americans,
00:23:00so they converted
00:23:01for, like, taxis.
00:23:03It's incredible.
00:23:05You can see
00:23:06the big building there.
00:23:07That's the condo
00:23:08we're going to say.
00:23:10I wish I could
00:23:10stay at your place.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:13Sheena's parents
00:23:14own her apartment
00:23:15in Manila,
00:23:16but we're not
00:23:17staying there
00:23:17because her parents
00:23:19said we had to
00:23:20pay for it
00:23:21if we did stay.
00:23:23When Sheena told me that,
00:23:25it made me really upset
00:23:26because I'm planning
00:23:27on marrying their daughter
00:23:28and I would be their son
00:23:30and to charge family
00:23:31to come stay
00:23:32at their house
00:23:33is just absurd,
00:23:35especially because
00:23:36we have been saving
00:23:37for the last seven years
00:23:38just to afford
00:23:39the plane ticket
00:23:39to actually just meet her.
00:23:42Sheena said,
00:23:42I know it doesn't make sense,
00:23:43but it's what my parents want.
00:23:45It's their wishes.
00:23:45I can't really
00:23:47go around that,
00:23:49but I'm not paying
00:23:50them money.
00:23:53This is the place.
00:23:54All right.
00:23:55We are here.
00:24:00There you go,
00:24:01Mullen.
00:24:01That's it.
00:24:02The jackpot.
00:24:03I got it.
00:24:05All right,
00:24:05charge.
00:24:08Sheena is an extreme foodie,
00:24:11and she likes to make sure
00:24:12that I'm well fed.
00:24:14Well, that's a cultural thing
00:24:16in my country.
00:24:17Whoa!
00:24:18I'd sure like to open him up
00:24:19and see what he's about.
00:24:21Oh, my goodness.
00:24:21I can definitely smell him.
00:24:23Oh.
00:24:24Yeah, you know,
00:24:25yeah, he's a little excited
00:24:26at the top.
00:24:27Don't go for that.
00:24:28Yeah, okay.
00:24:33So, sorry, baby.
00:24:34This is all I could get
00:24:35for you guys.
00:24:37You can see that
00:24:38we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:40It's like a simple home,
00:24:41but comfy, so...
00:24:43the place is nice,
00:24:45it's pretty,
00:24:46but it could have been
00:24:49a little bit bigger.
00:24:51I state this claim
00:24:53in the name of Forrest.
00:24:54It feels good.
00:24:56It's your bag, too.
00:24:57Here, I'll throw these
00:24:58in here for you.
00:24:59It's not exactly
00:25:00the ideal place
00:25:01to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:03If me and Sheena, you know,
00:25:04decide to get down,
00:25:05I really just hope
00:25:06my parents don't hear us.
00:25:11Sheena.
00:25:12What?
00:25:13This feels more
00:25:14than online right now.
00:25:17Oh, this is...
00:25:17You know, it's making me
00:25:18more nervous.
00:25:21Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:22I'm here right with you.
00:25:23Oh, I know.
00:25:24I can see.
00:25:25Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:28Because I got
00:25:29some good stuff here.
00:25:32Excuse me, baby.
00:25:34Boom.
00:25:35What is that?
00:25:36This is something
00:25:37amazing,
00:25:38and I want you
00:25:40to try it on
00:25:40for me
00:25:41if you want.
00:25:43Whoa.
00:25:44What's that thing?
00:25:46I think it is a cloth
00:25:48that goes on your body
00:25:50and accentuates your sexuality.
00:25:56Oh, that's nice.
00:25:57I love the color.
00:25:59Oh, yeah.
00:26:00That's cool.
00:26:00I guess what?
00:26:01There's even more.
00:26:03What?
00:26:03You have more?
00:26:04I have more.
00:26:06Oh, wow.
00:26:07I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:10Wow.
00:26:12To be honest,
00:26:13I feel quite nervous
00:26:15because I am a virgin.
00:26:18But Forrest makes me
00:26:20feel confident of my body.
00:26:22This is another one for you
00:26:23in case you want to.
00:26:25Oh, that's pretty.
00:26:26That's cool.
00:26:27That's beautiful.
00:26:28Oh, okay.
00:26:30Oh, okay.
00:26:37You're so handsome always.
00:26:38I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:26:40Okay.
00:26:40Go for it, my love.
00:26:41Deep brush.
00:26:42All right.
00:26:43Do everything, my love.
00:26:46You know,
00:26:47when I was making, like,
00:26:49sexy talk with her,
00:26:49I was really just trying to, like,
00:26:51put her at ease,
00:26:52make her laugh,
00:26:53you know,
00:26:54just calm the mood.
00:26:57I've been waiting seven years
00:26:58to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:01But to be honest,
00:27:03I'm actually kind of still nervous
00:27:04about what this is going to do.
00:27:08I mean,
00:27:09I'm not saying I can't
00:27:10pull her socks off,
00:27:11but
00:27:11having sex with Sheena,
00:27:15I feel like it's
00:27:16an important thing
00:27:17for the both of us
00:27:18to be in the right mindset.
00:27:22It's just a big deal.
00:27:24I love you.
00:27:25I love you.
00:27:26Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:28Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:29It's absolutely wild
00:27:36that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:40I still have flaws and imperfections,
00:27:43and so I am nervous
00:27:44that BeerCon won't be
00:27:47as attracted to me in person.
00:27:49Oh, my God.
00:27:50Here we go.
00:27:51We are in the process of landing,
00:27:58and I don't know
00:27:59if it was the cheese sandwich
00:28:01or BeerCon,
00:28:02but I'm excited.
00:28:03So, this is the most important day,
00:28:16actually,
00:28:17in my life.
00:28:18I'm trying to look good,
00:28:20you know,
00:28:20for our big meeting,
00:28:22for the first time.
00:28:24Everything has to go perfect,
00:28:26so I will iron it
00:28:28until it's perfect
00:28:29or it's burned.
00:28:32Laura is arriving
00:28:33on Turkey's Day,
00:28:34and today might be
00:28:37the first day
00:28:38of my rest of my life.
00:28:40Laura rented
00:28:41this Airbnb for us.
00:28:44I never saw
00:28:45this big of place.
00:28:49It just feels me.
00:28:53Right now,
00:28:54I'm staying
00:28:55with different friends.
00:28:57Sometimes Izmir,
00:28:58sometimes Istanbul,
00:29:00that's why
00:29:01Laura couldn't
00:29:02stay with me.
00:29:03But the privacy
00:29:05of our place
00:29:06is going to be nice
00:29:08because we have
00:29:09a lot of things
00:29:10to discuss
00:29:10face to face.
00:29:23It's absolutely wild
00:29:24that I'm finally
00:29:26on the ground here.
00:29:27I'm so excited now.
00:29:30I just want to run
00:29:31out of this airport
00:29:31and leave
00:29:32all my luggage here.
00:29:39Oh.
00:29:40Oh, my God.
00:29:44She come early.
00:29:45She come early.
00:29:54It's slightly
00:29:55cold that I am
00:29:56having a heart attack
00:29:57or I am excited.
00:29:59Yeah, we will see.
00:30:00I am going to wear a dress
00:30:04to meet this man.
00:30:06I think that will be
00:30:07a lot cuter
00:30:07than the hot mess
00:30:09that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:12I'm really proud
00:30:13of the progress
00:30:14that I've made
00:30:15over the last 14 months,
00:30:16but I still have flaws
00:30:19and imperfections,
00:30:20and so I am nervous
00:30:22that BeerCon won't be
00:30:25as attracted to me
00:30:26in person.
00:30:28And I think
00:30:28that's a cute dress.
00:30:30All right.
00:30:31The woman I love
00:30:37is coming,
00:30:38so I'm thrilled.
00:30:40My hopes are
00:30:41we will get engaged
00:30:42and go to America,
00:30:44live together,
00:30:45and get married.
00:30:48But maybe
00:30:49she will hate me.
00:30:51Nobody knows.
00:30:52This is it?
00:30:57I can't believe
00:30:58I'm about to meet him.
00:31:08Oh, my God.
00:31:09Here we go.
00:31:17We're out of town,
00:31:18gorgeous.
00:31:21How about you?
00:31:21You're good, aren't you?
00:31:22I'm good.
00:31:24How are you doing?
00:31:25It was so long.
00:31:27Yeah, I know.
00:31:28I am still thinking
00:31:29about how I go to America.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:38I'm coming in.
00:31:41I think everything's perfect
00:31:43right now.
00:31:45Yeah.
00:31:45That's really sweet.
00:31:46Yeah, it was.
00:31:47I know.
00:31:49I know.
00:31:50Yeah.
00:31:50So let's go this way.
00:31:55Okay.
00:31:56These bumps are a pain
00:31:57with suitcases.
00:31:58He looks amazing.
00:32:00Exactly the aesthetic
00:32:01that I've been describing,
00:32:03which is that
00:32:04dark romance male main character.
00:32:07When you look at her,
00:32:08what do you think?
00:32:08She's perfect.
00:32:09I don't need to look at her.
00:32:11I don't need,
00:32:12because I feel it,
00:32:13you know?
00:32:13I'm complete,
00:32:15so we don't need to see.
00:32:16That's probably
00:32:17the best answer ever.
00:32:23That was like
00:32:24the best flight
00:32:25I've ever taken.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Seriously.
00:32:28I'm glad.
00:32:29I'm really glad.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:32I don't know what's happening.
00:32:54It's very awkward right now.
00:33:01I really wasn't expecting that,
00:33:03because, you know,
00:33:04it was, like, great
00:33:05when we first met.
00:33:06He hugged me.
00:33:06He kissed me.
00:33:07And then we sit on this train,
00:33:09and it's like
00:33:09he doesn't know who I am.
00:33:11And I don't know who he is.
00:33:13I think we're close.
00:33:23I'm hoping that
00:33:24as time moves forward,
00:33:26that this will turn around,
00:33:28and it will feel more like it did
00:33:30when we were online.
00:33:31But right now,
00:33:33something is off,
00:33:34and it's freaking me out.
00:33:43Anna called me
00:33:45like it were,
00:33:46talking about,
00:33:47your brother,
00:33:47your brother.
00:33:48I know that Anna
00:33:49is 1,000% unhinged,
00:33:51like, kind of off
00:33:52her rocker a little bit.
00:33:53She was just talking
00:33:54about that woman.
00:33:58Uh, yeah.
00:34:00Who is the woman?
00:34:01Ah.
00:34:13This is nice.
00:34:22Really?
00:34:23This is screaming,
00:34:25I failed a pottery class.
00:34:27But she doesn't like
00:34:27how you dress,
00:34:28so you gotta do something else.
00:34:29Ah.
00:34:42I think you got
00:34:42some good purchases.
00:34:44Ah.
00:34:44Yeah, I don't have
00:34:45a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:47It'll be fine.
00:34:49It's gonna be fine.
00:34:51I'm running some
00:34:52last-minute errands
00:34:53with my sister Ashley
00:34:54because I'm flying
00:34:55to the Philippines
00:34:56in a couple of days
00:34:57to meet my wife
00:34:58for the first time
00:34:59in person.
00:35:01I'm excited,
00:35:02and I'm super nervous
00:35:03because we've been married
00:35:05for three years.
00:35:06But we've never been
00:35:07in the same room
00:35:08or even the same continent
00:35:10with each other.
00:35:10So, are you all packed up?
00:35:15You ready?
00:35:15Uh, I think I'm as ready
00:35:17as I'm ever gonna be.
00:35:20And, you know,
00:35:20me and Anna's relationship,
00:35:21it's just been this spiraling,
00:35:24like, up-and-down,
00:35:25loop-de-loop,
00:35:26rollercoaster ride.
00:35:27But when things are good,
00:35:28I'm, like, really happy
00:35:29to be in a relationship.
00:35:30I think Anna's very funny.
00:35:32Yeah?
00:35:33Like, Anna seems like
00:35:34she's a good time.
00:35:36She's just a lot.
00:35:37Mm-hmm.
00:35:40Javon marrying somebody online
00:35:42was actually wild to me.
00:35:45I do think they love each other,
00:35:46but I don't know, like,
00:35:48I wouldn't just call this,
00:35:49like, a normal marriage.
00:35:51This is something
00:35:52I've never seen
00:35:53or heard of before.
00:35:56You know, like,
00:35:56Anna actually called me.
00:36:00You spoke to her?
00:36:02Mm-hmm.
00:36:04And she called me,
00:36:05like, at work,
00:36:06I'm working,
00:36:07I'm with customers,
00:36:09and she's just, you know,
00:36:10talking about,
00:36:11your brother, your brother,
00:36:12I don't know what to do with him.
00:36:13Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:15Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:17And I was like,
00:36:17can't even get her off the phone.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:19She was just talking
00:36:21about that woman.
00:36:26Uh, yeah.
00:36:30So who, who is the woman?
00:36:38So the woman is just, like,
00:36:41a friend of mine
00:36:42that I've, that I've known
00:36:43for a long time.
00:36:46We communicate so well,
00:36:48and we can stay on the phone
00:36:49for hours.
00:36:50I think because we're both
00:36:51having problems
00:36:52in our, you know, relationship,
00:36:54it's, it's, it's definitely
00:36:55more easygoing,
00:36:57and it's more positive.
00:37:01So, but what is it
00:37:03that, that Anna's so, like,
00:37:05threatened and bothered
00:37:06by her?
00:37:07Like, what, what is it?
00:37:09Because I feel like
00:37:10I'm missing something.
00:37:13Yeah, I mean,
00:37:14there used to be
00:37:15this, this, this,
00:37:16this small thing
00:37:17between us,
00:37:19but we're better.
00:37:20Also, that, so,
00:37:22so, Javon,
00:37:24that's not okay.
00:37:25That is no good.
00:37:26I, I know, you know,
00:37:28and I, I'm not.
00:37:28So, so that's why
00:37:29she's so upset then.
00:37:30Yeah.
00:37:33Me and my friend,
00:37:34we never officially dated,
00:37:35but there was feelings
00:37:36for one another.
00:37:38We lost touch for a while,
00:37:39but I reached out to her
00:37:42because I was going
00:37:44through a rough time
00:37:45in my marriage,
00:37:46and I needed someone
00:37:48that knew me
00:37:50and that understood me.
00:37:51I wasn't trying
00:37:52to hide anything,
00:37:54so I just came out
00:37:55and told Anna Lynn
00:37:56I was talking
00:37:57to this other person.
00:37:59I don't think
00:37:59it's a big deal,
00:38:00but obviously she does
00:38:01because she's extremely
00:38:03pissed off and upset.
00:38:04I'm not saying
00:38:08she don't have
00:38:08a valid reason
00:38:09to be upset,
00:38:11but it's just
00:38:12completely platonic,
00:38:13you know,
00:38:14and she don't have
00:38:16to worry about that.
00:38:17Have you tried
00:38:18to call her?
00:38:20I have,
00:38:21but, you know,
00:38:22she, she blocked me.
00:38:25For real?
00:38:28She gets so aggressive.
00:38:30See, this is the problem.
00:38:31Like, this is how,
00:38:32this is why I had to go
00:38:33outside of our marriage
00:38:36to talk to somebody else
00:38:38about our marriage,
00:38:40and it shouldn't be that way.
00:38:43Obviously, Anna feels
00:38:45disrespected,
00:38:46and I do get that.
00:38:48I know that she's
00:38:491,000% unhinged,
00:38:51like, kind of off
00:38:52her rocker a little bit,
00:38:54but I do feel like
00:38:55he presses her buttons.
00:38:56Javon just needs
00:38:57to say sorry
00:38:58and try and talk to her,
00:39:00and if they don't know
00:39:00how to talk,
00:39:01then they don't need
00:39:02to be married.
00:39:03You're about to see
00:39:05your wife for the first time.
00:39:06You all don't need
00:39:07to be in the middle
00:39:08of a fight.
00:39:10I don't know
00:39:10what the to do.
00:39:12I don't know
00:39:12what to do.
00:39:17I heard some
00:39:18interesting things
00:39:19from your guys'
00:39:20bedroom last night.
00:39:23Did you guys
00:39:24do the old
00:39:25knockin' knockin'?
00:39:27I just want to prefer,
00:39:29like, a privacy
00:39:30between us,
00:39:31you know?
00:39:32Now you're kind of
00:39:33being really disrespectful.
00:39:34I don't know
00:39:40how to do it.
00:39:41I don't know
00:39:42how to do it.
00:39:43I don't know
00:39:44how to do it.
00:39:44Hello, sweetie.
00:39:57Oh, yeah.
00:40:01Hey, guys,
00:40:02we're gonna go down
00:40:03and have some coffee
00:40:04by the pool,
00:40:05so we'll be up
00:40:06in a little while.
00:40:07Talk to you in a bit.
00:40:08Later.
00:40:12Mmm.
00:40:16Staring content.
00:40:28Oh, you're crazy.
00:40:30I'm crazy.
00:40:32Do you?
00:40:34I arrived in
00:40:36the Philippines
00:40:36yesterday,
00:40:36and the first night
00:40:39with the woman
00:40:39of my dream,
00:40:40Sheena,
00:40:41was amazing.
00:40:42Oh, you're crazy.
00:40:43Oh, man,
00:40:43you're strong.
00:40:44Oh, yeah?
00:40:45I'm a strong beard.
00:40:46Oh, God.
00:40:51I'm gonna tickle
00:40:52you crazy, baby.
00:40:55There's a lot
00:40:56of new and fun things
00:40:57on finding out
00:40:57being with Sheena
00:40:59physically.
00:41:00I found out
00:41:00there's a night Sheena.
00:41:02What?
00:41:02And she's kind
00:41:03of grabby.
00:41:04Oh, really?
00:41:05I'm not.
00:41:06You're very
00:41:06into being physical.
00:41:08Oh, no, I'm not.
00:41:09Night, Sheena.
00:41:10Rawr, rawr, rawr.
00:41:13You know,
00:41:14just finally
00:41:15being able
00:41:15to hold you
00:41:16and be with you
00:41:16and kiss you,
00:41:18it just felt awesome.
00:41:21And I know
00:41:22that I talked
00:41:22of a big game
00:41:23last night
00:41:24about sex
00:41:24and everything
00:41:25like that,
00:41:27but I really
00:41:28believe
00:41:29that we should
00:41:30wait,
00:41:32you know,
00:41:32till we know
00:41:33each other a bit more,
00:41:34you know,
00:41:34in person.
00:41:35I understand
00:41:38my love.
00:41:40I really feel
00:41:41like
00:41:41after seven years,
00:41:43me coming
00:41:43here to the
00:41:44Philippines
00:41:45and just having
00:41:45sex with Sheena
00:41:46straight up,
00:41:47it's not what
00:41:48I want to do.
00:41:49Yeah, I agree
00:41:50with that.
00:41:51I just want
00:41:52to get to know
00:41:52you much better.
00:41:54We all know
00:41:54when the time
00:41:55is right.
00:41:56I agree
00:41:56to that.
00:41:58Also,
00:41:58probably when
00:41:59my mom's not
00:41:59around.
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:00We'll see you
00:42:08later.
00:42:09I don't need
00:42:10a coat,
00:42:11that's for sure.
00:42:12Ooh,
00:42:13nice and cool
00:42:14in here.
00:42:16I'm excited.
00:42:17So where
00:42:25exactly
00:42:25are we
00:42:26taking us
00:42:27again?
00:42:27So it's
00:42:29a Chinatown
00:42:29here in Manila.
00:42:30Actually,
00:42:31one of the
00:42:31oldest Chinatown
00:42:33here in the
00:42:33whole world
00:42:34because
00:42:35Chinese people
00:42:36have been
00:42:37trading
00:42:37with the
00:42:38Filipinos
00:42:38before Spanish
00:42:40people arrived.
00:42:41Wow.
00:42:41Spaniards.
00:42:42So there's
00:42:43a lot of
00:42:43historical sites
00:42:44around and
00:42:45good foods.
00:42:46I'm ready
00:42:46to eat it
00:42:48all.
00:42:51So I got
00:42:52a little
00:42:53curiosity
00:42:54question to
00:42:55ask you
00:42:55guys.
00:42:57I heard
00:42:58some interesting
00:42:59things, you
00:43:00know, coming
00:43:00from your
00:43:01guys' bedroom
00:43:02last night,
00:43:03the little
00:43:04giggles.
00:43:05So did
00:43:07you guys
00:43:09do the
00:43:09old
00:43:10knocky
00:43:11knocky?
00:43:14No.
00:43:14No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:16No.
00:43:16No.
00:43:17No.
00:43:17No.
00:43:19So why
00:43:20didn't you
00:43:22guys?
00:43:24Well, it
00:43:25just wasn't
00:43:25the right
00:43:26time or
00:43:26place to
00:43:27do that.
00:43:28Oh, okay.
00:43:30Well.
00:43:31You guys
00:43:31can always
00:43:32come and
00:43:33talk to
00:43:33us if
00:43:34you have
00:43:34questions.
00:43:35It's not
00:43:36an embarrassing
00:43:36subject to
00:43:37me.
00:43:38It's
00:43:39life.
00:43:39It takes
00:43:41practice
00:43:42and be
00:43:42good at
00:43:43it.
00:43:43Yeah.
00:43:46My parents
00:43:47are just
00:43:48it's a little
00:43:50too much.
00:43:51It's a little
00:43:51bit rude and
00:43:52awkward for
00:43:53me.
00:43:53I just
00:43:54want to
00:43:54prefer like
00:43:55a privacy
00:43:55between us,
00:43:56you know.
00:43:58I respect
00:43:58you guys
00:43:59for waiting
00:44:00and there's
00:44:01nothing wrong
00:44:01with that.
00:44:02There are
00:44:03other things
00:44:04that you
00:44:04can do
00:44:04if you
00:44:05guys
00:44:05didn't
00:44:06want to
00:44:06do
00:44:06the
00:44:07nookie
00:44:08nookie.
00:44:09There's
00:44:09oral sex.
00:44:11There's
00:44:11fondling.
00:44:13Now you're
00:44:14kind of
00:44:14being really
00:44:15disrespectful
00:44:15here,
00:44:16Mom.
00:44:16I get it.
00:44:16You're
00:44:17trying to
00:44:17be helpful
00:44:17but you're
00:44:18pushing too
00:44:18far.
00:44:20You know,
00:44:21if we
00:44:21want to
00:44:22talk about
00:44:22sex with
00:44:23you,
00:44:23we'll
00:44:23come up
00:44:23and ask
00:44:24about it.
00:44:26Okay.
00:44:28Excuse
00:44:28me.
00:44:32I thought
00:44:33it was
00:44:33nice
00:44:34that he
00:44:34was
00:44:34defending
00:44:35her
00:44:35honor.
00:44:36That's
00:44:36admirable.
00:44:37But I
00:44:38was very
00:44:39shocked
00:44:39by Forrest's
00:44:40reaction.
00:44:42Thank
00:44:42you
00:44:42very
00:44:43much.
00:44:44Well,
00:44:45Forrest,
00:44:45why is this
00:44:46a total
00:44:47180 from
00:44:48our normal
00:44:48discussions
00:44:49where you're
00:44:49right in there
00:44:50using the
00:44:50same language,
00:44:51the same
00:44:52talk,
00:44:52saying,
00:44:52yeah,
00:44:53I'm going
00:44:53to get
00:44:53into that,
00:44:53do that.
00:44:55It's
00:44:55drastic
00:44:56night and
00:44:56day.
00:44:57I see
00:44:57where this
00:44:58is at.
00:44:58Oh my
00:44:59God,
00:44:59I miss
00:45:00this
00:45:00place.
00:45:01Still
00:45:01at home.
00:45:04Sheena
00:45:04already
00:45:04has that
00:45:05control,
00:45:06that
00:45:06thumb
00:45:06on him.
00:45:07Let's
00:45:07not
00:45:08forget,
00:45:08she
00:45:08was
00:45:09lying
00:45:09to
00:45:09him
00:45:09for
00:45:10years,
00:45:10giving
00:45:10all of
00:45:11her
00:45:11money
00:45:11to
00:45:12her
00:45:12parents
00:45:12instead
00:45:13of
00:45:13saving
00:45:13for
00:45:13their
00:45:14future.
00:45:14And
00:45:14I
00:45:15don't
00:45:15know
00:45:15if
00:45:15Forrest
00:45:16will
00:45:16actually
00:45:16hold
00:45:17her
00:45:17accountable.
00:45:18But
00:45:19we
00:45:19need
00:45:19to
00:45:19get
00:45:19some
00:45:19answers.
00:45:28don't
00:45:29need
00:45:29to
00:45:29talk
00:45:30about
00:45:30your
00:45:30past.
00:45:32I
00:45:32know
00:45:32everything
00:45:33about
00:45:33your
00:45:33life.
00:45:34You
00:45:34don't
00:45:34know
00:45:34everything.
00:45:36I
00:45:36really want
00:45:37to tell
00:45:37Zied about
00:45:38my last
00:45:39engagement
00:45:39because
00:45:40I
00:45:40think
00:45:40it's
00:45:41the
00:45:41only
00:45:41way
00:45:41that
00:45:41we
00:45:42could
00:45:42move
00:45:42forward.
00:45:57Ooh,
00:45:58look at
00:45:58the
00:45:58mirrors.
00:46:00Wait,
00:46:00I want
00:46:00to check
00:46:00my
00:46:01outfit.
00:46:02Here,
00:46:03hold
00:46:03that.
00:46:05We
00:46:05look
00:46:05cute.
00:46:08I
00:46:08can
00:46:09see
00:46:09you.
00:46:09Can
00:46:10you
00:46:10see
00:46:10yourself?
00:46:10I
00:46:11can
00:46:11see you.
00:46:23I'm
00:46:23excited
00:46:23to
00:46:23go
00:46:24shopping.
00:46:25It's
00:46:26always
00:46:26crowded.
00:46:27Yeah,
00:46:27yeah.
00:46:29This
00:46:29is an
00:46:29easy
00:46:29place
00:46:30to
00:46:30get
00:46:30lost.
00:46:31Today,
00:46:32I
00:46:32want
00:46:32to
00:46:33take
00:46:33Emma
00:46:33to
00:46:33old
00:46:34me.
00:46:34You
00:46:34know,
00:46:34I
00:46:35feel
00:46:35so bad
00:46:36because
00:46:36Emma
00:46:37she
00:46:37loves
00:46:37her
00:46:38job.
00:46:38I
00:46:38want
00:46:39to
00:46:39make
00:46:39her
00:46:39feel
00:46:40so
00:46:40better
00:46:41and
00:46:41she
00:46:41loves
00:46:41chopping.
00:46:42So
00:46:42Oh,
00:46:44look at
00:46:44those
00:46:44bags.
00:46:46Those
00:46:46are
00:46:46cute.
00:46:47The
00:46:48market
00:46:48place
00:46:49in the
00:46:49Medina,
00:46:49they
00:46:49have
00:46:50a
00:46:50thousand
00:46:51stores
00:46:51there.
00:46:52Oh,
00:46:52my gosh,
00:46:52I love
00:46:53all of
00:46:53these
00:46:53clothes.
00:46:55You
00:46:55can
00:46:55find
00:46:56anything
00:46:56you
00:46:56want.
00:46:57Ooh,
00:46:58look at
00:46:59these
00:46:59rugs.
00:47:00Those
00:47:00are
00:47:00nice.
00:47:01Yes.
00:47:02Oh,
00:47:02wait,
00:47:02there's
00:47:02bags.
00:47:03Let's
00:47:03go look at
00:47:04the
00:47:04bags.
00:47:04Let's
00:47:05see what
00:47:06you want.
00:47:09Oh,
00:47:10this is so
00:47:10cute.
00:47:11Can you hold
00:47:11this?
00:47:11I want to
00:47:11look at
00:47:12everything.
00:47:12Hey,
00:47:12look for
00:47:13anything you
00:47:14want.
00:47:14I think
00:47:15I like
00:47:15these little
00:47:15wallets.
00:47:17These are
00:47:17cute.
00:47:19I think I'm
00:47:20going to buy
00:47:20these three.
00:47:22Not you,
00:47:22me.
00:47:23You're going
00:47:23to get
00:47:23them?
00:47:24Yeah.
00:47:25Hey.
00:47:25It's like
00:47:26my gift
00:47:26to you.
00:47:28Can I
00:47:28give you
00:47:28a kiss?
00:47:29Not
00:47:30hair.
00:47:30Hair kiss?
00:47:31Maybe.
00:47:32Is that
00:47:33okay?
00:47:33Yeah,
00:47:33that's
00:47:34okay.
00:47:34Can I do
00:47:34that from
00:47:34now on?
00:47:35Yeah,
00:47:35yeah,
00:47:35yeah.
00:47:35I'll just
00:47:35give you
00:47:35air kisses
00:47:36whenever I
00:47:36want to
00:47:36kiss you?
00:47:37Yeah.
00:47:41It's
00:47:42really
00:47:42nice to
00:47:42have
00:47:43Zied
00:47:43offer to
00:47:44buy me
00:47:44things and
00:47:45buy gifts
00:47:45for me.
00:47:46That was
00:47:47so romantic
00:47:47because that's
00:47:49never something
00:47:49I've had
00:47:50in the
00:47:50past.
00:47:52It's
00:47:52making me
00:47:52feel a
00:47:53little bit
00:47:53more hopeful
00:47:53than I
00:47:54was feeling
00:47:54yesterday.
00:47:55Where are
00:47:56you taking
00:47:56me,
00:47:57babe?
00:47:58This?
00:47:58It's
00:47:59popular here
00:47:59in Marrakesh.
00:48:02What is
00:48:02this?
00:48:07What is
00:48:08that?
00:48:09What's
00:48:09we called
00:48:10them in
00:48:10English?
00:48:10Snails?
00:48:12Snails.
00:48:12I, like,
00:48:12don't want
00:48:13that.
00:48:13Really?
00:48:14No.
00:48:15It's like
00:48:16traditional.
00:48:17I'm not
00:48:17trying.
00:48:17No.
00:48:19I literally
00:48:20would throw
00:48:20up.
00:48:21snails.
00:48:25It's so
00:48:26delicious.
00:48:26That is
00:48:26the
00:48:27grossest
00:48:27thing I've
00:48:27ever seen
00:48:28in my
00:48:28whole life.
00:48:29It's a
00:48:30slimy
00:48:30snail.
00:48:32And you
00:48:32just
00:48:33suck it
00:48:34down.
00:48:34For me,
00:48:35it's
00:48:35delicious.
00:48:39That's, like,
00:48:40really gross.
00:48:41What's, like,
00:48:42the weirdest
00:48:42food you've
00:48:43ever tried?
00:48:44Like,
00:48:45snails
00:48:45would be
00:48:45weird.
00:48:46For you,
00:48:47for me,
00:48:47now.
00:48:48So, for
00:48:48me,
00:48:49sushi, for
00:48:49example.
00:48:50I love
00:48:50sushi.
00:48:51Yeah, it's,
00:48:52we are
00:48:53different.
00:48:54Are we
00:48:54compatible?
00:48:58Mm-hmm.
00:49:04Can you
00:49:04hold my
00:49:04other bag,
00:49:05actually?
00:49:06What else
00:49:07can we do,
00:49:07like, while
00:49:08we're here?
00:49:08Did you
00:49:09like horses?
00:49:10I love
00:49:11horses.
00:49:12I think
00:49:12we have to
00:49:13choose this
00:49:14one.
00:49:14I like
00:49:14the white
00:49:15one.
00:49:15Your
00:49:16heads.
00:49:17Just
00:49:18one by
00:49:19one.
00:49:20One by
00:49:20one.
00:49:23Oh, my God,
00:49:23this is so
00:49:24romantic.
00:49:25Yep.
00:49:26This is, like,
00:49:27a romantic
00:49:28love ride.
00:49:35This is
00:49:35three kisses,
00:49:36you kiss me
00:49:37today.
00:49:38Okay.
00:49:40I'm happy
00:49:41that we had
00:49:41a better day
00:49:42today.
00:49:43Yeah,
00:49:43me too.
00:49:43It was
00:49:44a big difference
00:49:45between this
00:49:46day and
00:49:46last day.
00:49:47yesterday was,
00:49:50like,
00:49:50really hard
00:49:50for me.
00:49:51It, like,
00:49:51brought up
00:49:51old feelings
00:49:52because,
00:49:54you know,
00:49:55I've, like,
00:49:55been lying to
00:49:56a lot.
00:49:57Like,
00:49:57in my past,
00:49:57like,
00:49:58with past
00:49:58boyfriends.
00:49:59So,
00:50:00when you kind
00:50:01of lied to me,
00:50:02it was,
00:50:02like,
00:50:02a trigger
00:50:02for me.
00:50:04Yeah,
00:50:04so you don't
00:50:05need to talk
00:50:06about your
00:50:07past,
00:50:08your bad
00:50:08experience.
00:50:09Do you not care
00:50:09about my past?
00:50:10No.
00:50:11I know you right
00:50:12now,
00:50:12not in past.
00:50:13So...
00:50:13Yeah,
00:50:13but don't you
00:50:14want to know
00:50:14about my life?
00:50:15Just, like,
00:50:17things I've been
00:50:17through,
00:50:17it's like,
00:50:18don't you want
00:50:18to know about
00:50:18me?
00:50:19Yeah,
00:50:19I know,
00:50:20I know everything
00:50:20about your life.
00:50:21You don't know
00:50:22everything.
00:50:24No,
00:50:24I know everything.
00:50:25I know your
00:50:25family,
00:50:26I know where
00:50:27did you live.
00:50:28I know,
00:50:28I know,
00:50:28but there are
00:50:29things that,
00:50:29like,
00:50:29that have
00:50:31happened in my
00:50:31life that you
00:50:32don't know
00:50:32about.
00:50:36Like,
00:50:36I thought.
00:50:37We can leave
00:50:37the impasse.
00:50:38Something
00:50:39passes,
00:50:39it passes.
00:50:44I want
00:50:45to be
00:50:45vulnerable.
00:50:45I want
00:50:46to share,
00:50:46you know,
00:50:46details about
00:50:47who I am
00:50:48and my past.
00:50:49And I
00:50:50really want
00:50:50to be able
00:50:51to tell
00:50:52Zied about
00:50:52my last
00:50:53engagement
00:50:53because I
00:50:54think it's
00:50:55the only way
00:50:55that we
00:50:56could move
00:50:56forward.
00:50:56But for
00:50:59him to
00:50:59shut me
00:51:00down,
00:51:00it does
00:51:01make me
00:51:01wonder if
00:51:02Zied just
00:51:03doesn't want
00:51:03to talk
00:51:03about the
00:51:03past because
00:51:04maybe he
00:51:05has something
00:51:06that he's
00:51:06hiding or
00:51:07that he
00:51:07doesn't want
00:51:08to tell
00:51:08me.
00:51:12Since
00:51:12I've gotten
00:51:13to Morocco,
00:51:14I've just
00:51:14felt really
00:51:15rejected by
00:51:15him.
00:51:16And so
00:51:17now I'm
00:51:17just feeling
00:51:18a little
00:51:18concerned
00:51:19about
00:51:19everything.
00:51:26I need
00:51:27you to
00:51:27be able
00:51:27to look
00:51:28me in
00:51:28the eye.
00:51:29Why
00:51:29have you
00:51:30lied to
00:51:31us all
00:51:31along?
00:51:32I was
00:51:33so fearful
00:51:34of my
00:51:34parents.
00:51:35They would
00:51:36say bad
00:51:36things to
00:51:37me.
00:51:37They would
00:51:37say bad
00:51:38things to
00:51:38other people.
00:51:38And it
00:51:39affects me
00:51:40emotionally,
00:51:41mentally,
00:51:41drains me.
00:51:42No,
00:51:43I need
00:51:44that direct
00:51:44answer as
00:51:45to why
00:51:46you continue
00:51:47to hide
00:51:48it.
00:51:56Hello,
00:52:13Javon.
00:52:20What do
00:52:21you want
00:52:21now?
00:52:23I'm
00:52:24leaving for
00:52:25the Philippines
00:52:25tomorrow to
00:52:26meet with
00:52:26my wife
00:52:27Anna for
00:52:27the first
00:52:28time.
00:52:29But me
00:52:30and Anna,
00:52:31we haven't
00:52:31spoken to
00:52:32each other
00:52:32in about
00:52:32a week.
00:52:34My sister
00:52:35talked to
00:52:35Anna Lynn,
00:52:36and she
00:52:37actually
00:52:37unblocked
00:52:37me.
00:52:38But she's
00:52:39still really
00:52:40upset that
00:52:40I'm back
00:52:41in touch
00:52:42with a
00:52:42friend I
00:52:43once had
00:52:43feelings
00:52:44for.
00:52:45There's
00:52:45so much
00:52:46riding on
00:52:47this trip.
00:52:48Anna being
00:52:48as angry,
00:52:50it's just
00:52:50not good.
00:52:54Hey,
00:52:54what's
00:52:55going on?
00:52:56What's
00:52:57going on?
00:52:57Ask
00:52:58yourself
00:52:58what's
00:52:58going
00:52:59on,
00:52:59Javon.
00:53:01I mean,
00:53:02you know,
00:53:03Anna,
00:53:04don't be
00:53:04so aggressive.
00:53:06Not being
00:53:06aggressive.
00:53:08You told
00:53:09me yourself
00:53:10if we're
00:53:11going to be
00:53:11married,
00:53:12we can't
00:53:13be giving
00:53:14anyone special
00:53:15from the
00:53:16past,
00:53:17but you're
00:53:19doing it.
00:53:20and I'm
00:53:22not saying
00:53:23that you're
00:53:23cheating on
00:53:24me,
00:53:24but it's
00:53:25like a
00:53:25baby step
00:53:26for any
00:53:28temptation.
00:53:29I'm dealing
00:53:30with so much
00:53:31over here
00:53:32by myself.
00:53:33I'm dealing
00:53:33with your
00:53:34problems,
00:53:34I'm dealing
00:53:34with my
00:53:35problems,
00:53:36and sometimes
00:53:36I don't feel
00:53:37like I'm
00:53:38being emotionally
00:53:38supported
00:53:39by you.
00:53:41So,
00:53:41you know,
00:53:42I kind of
00:53:42felt like
00:53:43I was just
00:53:43a little bit
00:53:44desperate
00:53:44just to,
00:53:45just to be
00:53:46understood
00:53:47and just
00:53:47heard.
00:54:09I mean,
00:54:09but like,
00:54:10who can afford
00:54:11therapy right
00:54:12now?
00:54:17She's not
00:54:18taking any
00:54:19accountability
00:54:20that,
00:54:20you know,
00:54:21she played
00:54:22a part
00:54:22in why
00:54:23I reached
00:54:23out to
00:54:24a friend.
00:54:26I need
00:54:26to be able
00:54:27to rely
00:54:27on my
00:54:27wife,
00:54:28but she
00:54:29makes it
00:54:29impossible.
00:54:31Even when
00:54:32I'm, like,
00:54:33at work,
00:54:33you're going
00:54:34through something,
00:54:35I always try
00:54:36to be there
00:54:36for you
00:54:37emotionally.
00:54:37You know?
00:54:39I try,
00:54:41but I don't
00:54:41see you
00:54:42trying for me.
00:54:43When do you
00:54:43show up for
00:54:44me in that
00:54:44way?
00:54:46Oh, God.
00:54:47Like,
00:54:51hello,
00:54:51I've been
00:54:52waiting for
00:54:53you for
00:54:53six years.
00:54:55I have
00:54:55devoted,
00:54:58invested
00:54:58so much
00:54:59love.
00:55:04If you
00:55:05don't feel
00:55:05like that's
00:55:06understanding
00:55:06enough,
00:55:07waiting for
00:55:08you for
00:55:08that
00:55:08love,
00:55:11I don't
00:55:11know what
00:55:12is.
00:55:17I know
00:55:21you've
00:55:21made, you
00:55:22know,
00:55:22some sacrifice
00:55:23by waiting
00:55:24for me
00:55:25for this
00:55:26long,
00:55:26and I do
00:55:27apologize,
00:55:28and I do
00:55:29take accountability
00:55:30for what I've
00:55:31done.
00:55:34Okay.
00:55:35Okay?
00:55:36I can
00:55:43stop, but
00:55:44can we
00:55:45at least
00:55:46work on
00:55:46our
00:55:47communication?
00:55:49Okay.
00:55:51Okay.
00:55:52That's all
00:55:53I want,
00:55:53boo.
00:55:53That's it.
00:55:56With
00:55:56Javon coming
00:55:57out of the
00:55:57Philippines,
00:55:58I do feel
00:55:59like I
00:56:01could let
00:56:01go of
00:56:01some
00:56:02negative
00:56:03feelings
00:56:03about
00:56:04this
00:56:04situation,
00:56:06but even
00:56:07though he
00:56:07agreed that
00:56:08he's not
00:56:09going to
00:56:09talk to
00:56:10that woman
00:56:10anymore,
00:56:11do I
00:56:12believe it?
00:56:16No,
00:56:16not really.
00:56:17So I
00:56:18will
00:56:19definitely
00:56:20talk about
00:56:21this again
00:56:22in person.
00:56:24Do you
00:56:25think we
00:56:25can,
00:56:25like,
00:56:26move past
00:56:27it?
00:56:27Like,
00:56:28when we
00:56:28see each
00:56:28other?
00:56:30I don't
00:56:30know.
00:56:31Maybe.
00:56:33Whoa,
00:56:49look at
00:56:50this place.
00:56:51This was a
00:56:52church.
00:56:52Oh!
00:56:531588,
00:56:54man,
00:56:54that is old.
00:56:55It's old.
00:56:56Here,
00:56:56we got
00:56:57celebrations here.
00:56:58Dad,
00:56:58what's this,
00:56:59you guys?
00:57:02Yes!
00:57:02Yeah,
00:57:07it's
00:57:07precision.
00:57:09Oh,
00:57:09my goodness.
00:57:10We call
00:57:11that fiesta.
00:57:12Oh,
00:57:12yes!
00:57:13That's a culture
00:57:13of a Catholic
00:57:14here in my
00:57:15country.
00:57:15Goodness!
00:57:17Yes,
00:57:18my God!
00:57:18Yeah,
00:57:19it's really cool.
00:57:20Look at
00:57:20this!
00:57:21Ah!
00:57:22I
00:57:22decided to
00:57:25take Boris
00:57:25and his
00:57:26family to
00:57:26Chinatown
00:57:27because I'm
00:57:28a Chinese
00:57:29mix.
00:57:29my mom
00:57:30is
00:57:31Chinese descent
00:57:32so I wanted
00:57:33to show
00:57:34how Chinese
00:57:35culture
00:57:35interbonded
00:57:36with Filipino
00:57:37culture.
00:57:39Smell that?
00:57:40Oh,
00:57:40that smells
00:57:41so good.
00:57:42So this is a place
00:57:43that they make
00:57:44handmade noodles.
00:57:45Why can't I eat
00:57:46that air?
00:57:47Hello!
00:57:48Oh!
00:57:49Yesterday,
00:57:50I was quite a little
00:57:51nervous to meet
00:57:52Boris's parents,
00:57:53especially Molly.
00:57:55Okay,
00:57:55thank you,
00:57:56thank you.
00:57:56There's been
00:57:58problems between
00:57:58me and Molly,
00:58:00but I'm so glad
00:58:01that she happened
00:58:02to accept me.
00:58:04And I wanted
00:58:05to provide them
00:58:05the best first
00:58:07day here
00:58:07in the Philippines.
00:58:09Yum!
00:58:10Oh,
00:58:11thank you.
00:58:12Slurps up!
00:58:13Slurps up and
00:58:13slurps up, huh?
00:58:15Yeah,
00:58:15actually,
00:58:16that's here.
00:58:16The culture,
00:58:17if you want to
00:58:17slurp,
00:58:17it means you're
00:58:18eating the good
00:58:19noodles,
00:58:19so that's a good
00:58:20sign.
00:58:20So the loud
00:58:21are the best,
00:58:21right?
00:58:21Yeah,
00:58:21yes.
00:58:22Here I go.
00:58:25Yeah,
00:58:25you are the
00:58:26king of slurps,
00:58:27slurps.
00:58:28I made sure
00:58:28to get on my
00:58:29glasses.
00:58:29That's the key.
00:58:30This is all good.
00:58:32Yeah.
00:58:33Well,
00:58:33Sheena,
00:58:34I wanted to
00:58:37thank you
00:58:38for your apology
00:58:39yesterday.
00:58:40I mean,
00:58:40that really
00:58:41showed a lot
00:58:42to me.
00:58:44But I did
00:58:45want to
00:58:46ask you
00:58:48about a few
00:58:49things.
00:58:53Okay?
00:58:53Okay,
00:58:54Mom,
00:58:54I'm listening.
00:58:55And I need
00:58:56you to be
00:58:56able to
00:58:56look me
00:58:57in the eye
00:58:57and I need
00:58:58you to be
00:58:59truthful with
00:59:00me 100%.
00:59:02You lied to
00:59:06us about
00:59:07giving your
00:59:08parents the
00:59:09money.
00:59:11This was
00:59:12supposed to
00:59:12be you
00:59:13saving up
00:59:14money so you
00:59:15could come to
00:59:15America to
00:59:16be a family
00:59:17with us.
00:59:18These were the
00:59:19plans all of
00:59:20these years.
00:59:21and then
00:59:22for it to
00:59:23just find
00:59:23out now
00:59:25before we
00:59:26come here
00:59:27that hasn't
00:59:28been happening.
00:59:31Why have you
00:59:32lied to us all
00:59:34along?
00:59:38I really owe you
00:59:39millions and
00:59:41thousands of
00:59:41explanations.
00:59:42I hope you
00:59:43could listen to
00:59:44myself.
00:59:44The reason why
00:59:47that I happen
00:59:48to give my
00:59:49money to my
00:59:50parents is
00:59:51because being a
00:59:52breadwinner, it's
00:59:53a cultural thing
00:59:54in my country that
00:59:55we are obligated to
00:59:57help our parents
00:59:58around.
00:59:59I mean, I
01:00:00completely understand
01:00:01giving your parents
01:00:02money, needing to
01:00:02help your family.
01:00:03That's what family
01:00:04does.
01:00:06But my issue
01:00:08with it is
01:00:09that you
01:00:10lie.
01:00:16To be honest,
01:00:17the reason also,
01:00:18that's the
01:00:19other reason I
01:00:19was so scared
01:00:20because my
01:00:21parents, my
01:00:23mom happened
01:00:24to guilt
01:00:25tripping me
01:00:26from time
01:00:26to time.
01:00:27If I don't
01:00:28give them
01:00:29money, she
01:00:30makes me feel
01:00:30that I'm
01:00:31such a selfish
01:00:32person, and
01:00:33it hurts me
01:00:33a lot.
01:00:35Okay, but if
01:00:36I'm asking
01:00:36you a direct
01:00:37question,
01:00:38I need
01:00:38that direct
01:00:39answer, and
01:00:40even now, you
01:00:41haven't given
01:00:42me a direct
01:00:43answer as to
01:00:44why you
01:00:45continue to
01:00:46hide it.
01:00:50Watching Sheena
01:00:51under my mom's
01:00:51pressure is
01:00:53just awful.
01:00:55I'm wanting
01:00:56to step in
01:00:57and defend
01:00:57her and protect
01:00:58Sheena, but
01:01:00at the same
01:01:00time, I don't
01:01:02understand what
01:01:03fear she had
01:01:04of telling me.
01:01:06I was so
01:01:08fearful of
01:01:08my parents.
01:01:09They would
01:01:10say bad
01:01:10things to
01:01:11me.
01:01:11They would
01:01:11say bad
01:01:12things to
01:01:12other people,
01:01:13and it
01:01:13affects me
01:01:14emotionally,
01:01:15mentally,
01:01:15drives me
01:01:16every day.
01:01:17And it
01:01:18makes me feel
01:01:18so bad.
01:01:19No.
01:01:20No.
01:01:20Sheena, I'm
01:01:21not asking
01:01:22you that.
01:01:23I'm asking
01:01:23you why
01:01:24you did
01:01:25not tell
01:01:27us.
01:01:30I
01:01:31couldn't
01:01:31have
01:01:31myself
01:01:32anymore
01:01:32because
01:01:33I don't
01:01:34know.
01:01:34I can't
01:01:34Sheena, I can't
01:01:35understand what
01:01:36you're saying.
01:01:37I'm sorry.
01:01:38Oh, my God.
01:01:39See, there's
01:01:40your manipulation.
01:01:41Put the tears.
01:01:42Please put your
01:01:43tissue down.
01:01:46I'm trying to
01:01:47have Sheena
01:01:47acknowledge
01:01:48actions that she
01:01:50did that weren't
01:01:51acceptable.
01:01:53So even if she
01:01:54did have good
01:01:55reason to give
01:01:55it all to her
01:01:56parents, what's
01:01:57the motivation
01:01:58for hiding it?
01:02:00We gotta get
01:02:00answers.
01:02:01Oh, my
01:02:02Jesus.
01:02:02Oh, my God.
01:02:08This is really
01:02:09happening.
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:11Oh, my God.
01:02:12Oh, my God.
01:02:13I can't believe
01:02:13I'm doing this.
01:02:15I love this,
01:02:15but I am worried
01:02:17about some things.
01:02:18She was physical
01:02:19with a woman.
01:02:22My jaw
01:02:22leg and
01:02:23open.
01:02:24How did you?
01:02:25Mm-hmm.
01:02:26My one
01:02:26even again.
01:02:28Oh, my
01:02:29lady.
01:02:30My
01:02:30lady.
01:02:31Yeah.
01:02:32Yeah.
01:02:32Yeah.
01:02:32Oh, my God.
01:02:41Oh, my God.
01:02:41Oh, my God.
01:02:42Oh, my God.
01:02:43Here he is.
01:02:44Awesome.
01:02:45Here we go.
01:02:46Yeah.
01:02:47Here goes
01:02:47everything.
01:02:57Oh, my gosh.
01:02:59I'm finally
01:03:00on my way
01:03:00to meet
01:03:00the love
01:03:01of my life,
01:03:01Daniel
01:03:02in Nigeria
01:03:03for the very
01:03:03first time.
01:03:05What am I doing?
01:03:07I don't know,
01:03:07mom.
01:03:07What are you doing?
01:03:09Certainly not
01:03:09what I would be doing.
01:03:10It still feels
01:03:13surreal to me
01:03:14that after 21 years
01:03:15of only being
01:03:16with women,
01:03:17I'm traveling
01:03:17across the world
01:03:18to meet a man,
01:03:20and I love him.
01:03:22I love him.
01:03:23You're going to see
01:03:25when I come home
01:03:25how excited
01:03:26and happy I am.
01:03:27You're going to see
01:03:27when I talk to you
01:03:28there how happy
01:03:29I am,
01:03:30and you're going
01:03:31to be happy for me.
01:03:33I just,
01:03:34I don't want it
01:03:35to ruin your heart.
01:03:43I'm going to
01:03:43pee my pants.
01:03:44Oh, God,
01:03:45please don't.
01:03:47Here we go.
01:03:48All right.
01:03:54You remember
01:03:54the rules.
01:03:55Don't get married
01:03:56on the trip
01:03:56even when the divorce
01:03:57comes through.
01:03:58Yes,
01:03:59and I will come clean
01:04:00about everything.
01:04:01It'll be a foundation.
01:04:02And if you have questions.
01:04:03I will ask them.
01:04:07I love you.
01:04:08I love you, too.
01:04:09I'm going to miss you
01:04:10so much.
01:04:12Stay safe.
01:04:13Oh, God.
01:04:14This is the biggest risk
01:04:16I've ever taken.
01:04:18Flying across the world
01:04:19to another country,
01:04:21to Nigeria,
01:04:22Africa,
01:04:22to be with a man
01:04:23I have never met before.
01:04:25I can't believe
01:04:26I'm doing this.
01:04:27Oh, my God.
01:04:28This is really happening.
01:04:30Oh, my God.
01:04:31Oh, my God.
01:04:31Oh, my God.
01:04:32Oh, my God.
01:04:32Oh, my God.
01:04:33Oh, my God.
01:04:34I can't believe
01:04:34I'm doing this.
01:04:36Happy dance.
01:04:38Happy dance.
01:04:40I hope Daniel
01:04:41will accept me
01:04:42for everything
01:04:42that I am
01:04:43and who I am
01:04:44and that he will become
01:04:46my sixth
01:04:46and final spouse.
01:04:50Daniel is coming.
01:04:51I'm coming.
01:05:13Please, give me $500.
01:05:26I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe we have traditions and we believe in
01:05:55traditions as an Igbo man we love competition we work hard and we have to be honest I grew up very poor
01:06:13sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food my family do the best they can do and I am
01:06:21really close to my family but some years ago I lost my mom before she died she told me that during war
01:06:29she nearly be killed that a white woman protected her and I have to make sure that I get married
01:06:35to a white human so I decided I would do it and that's how I found Lisa this side is 52 years old
01:06:46she lives in Pennsylvania she's a beautiful man she has she has a good body structure she stick
01:06:53she has buffs she has what I want she don't hide anything she supports me financially she makes me
01:07:04feel loved that's why I fell in love with her
01:07:08have we could and get it right here
01:07:15here's
01:07:35In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:05I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:12One, she vip.
01:08:14Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:18And three, she was physical with a woman.
01:08:22One time.
01:08:23This is the worst.
01:08:25We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:37Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:41So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:45She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:48But I love us.
01:08:49We don't live now.
01:08:51We don't live now.
01:08:52We don't live now.
01:08:53We don't live now.
01:08:55This is my life.
01:08:56We know the son of the are.
01:08:59This is my life.
01:09:00This is my life.
01:09:04Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:28I'm planning a big surprise for Melissa when I meet her at the airport.
01:09:34I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:39If I marry Lisa to make me change the story of my family, and if I should make it to America, this will change my life to good.
01:09:49They will.
01:10:01I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:04Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:08It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:10No straight weather.
01:10:15Wow.
01:10:24Here we are.
01:10:26Oh, we're here?
01:10:29Here you go.
01:10:30I will take this.
01:10:32You're welcome.
01:10:32After all of this excitement, anticipation, and buildup of coming to Turkey and meeting Birkan face-to-face, it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:44But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:49It just feels so right.
01:10:52I'm excited to see this.
01:10:56Here you go.
01:10:57Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:58Yeah, of course.
01:10:59Okay.
01:11:00Okay.
01:11:00Oh, my God.
01:11:02This is huge.
01:11:04Oh, yeah.
01:11:05This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:09This is amazing.
01:11:11This kitchen is bigger than almost my every house, so.
01:11:17This is incredible.
01:11:20You like this?
01:11:21Oh, my God.
01:11:22I love this.
01:11:23I'm going to move here.
01:11:25You can see the sea.
01:11:28Breathing?
01:11:29Breathing?
01:11:30Oh, my God.
01:11:31Wow.
01:11:34This is amazing.
01:11:35I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:39Did it worth it?
01:11:42All the trip?
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:45I don't know if it's worth it.
01:11:46Yeah, I know.
01:11:47So, how about you change and we will see the colors?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59All right.
01:11:59Okay.
01:12:04This is the best part of this mirror.
01:12:08This is incredible.
01:12:10I would love to, like, live right there, like, with this view every day.
01:12:15Yeah.
01:12:15I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do, too.
01:12:19Yeah.
01:12:21Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:28That's, like, really profound.
01:12:29Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:31Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things, and he has a way of taking things that are just very simple and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:43It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:45When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:52Sometimes it's a little exhausting, because I'm like, oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:56I guess we've got to go this way.
01:12:58Go back this way?
01:12:58Yeah.
01:12:59I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:02Actually, not you.
01:13:03The people are.
01:13:05Not me.
01:13:05They have no idea where I'm going.
01:13:07I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:12I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it, and I wouldn't change it.
01:13:17I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:29I traveled a ton to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights.
01:13:35I'm exhausted, and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:46Okay.
01:13:47You want to go to bed?
01:13:52Actually, it's just 9 o'clock, and I have no sleep.
01:13:57So, why don't you go some sleep, and I will watch some TV, and join you after.
01:14:08Good night.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09All right. Good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:27Who's texting you?
01:14:34Um, Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:45And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:48I said, everything's good.
01:14:51And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:56So, I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:02But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:12It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:17I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:21Just feels off.
01:15:23I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:24Just feels off.
01:15:26It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than
01:15:34I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:38And so, I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:42And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:46Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:51But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:55Right there, Collins.
01:16:08Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:11I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:13No.
01:16:13It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:15Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:17I want to end this now.
01:16:19You're acting all hostile?
01:16:20I'm not.
01:16:21Yeah, you are.
01:16:22Of course.
01:16:22My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:37For they should be helping me around.
01:16:39They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:42We can't understand you.
01:16:45You have to speak.
01:16:46You have to be strong and you've got to speak clearly.
01:16:52I need you to really, please, point blank.
01:16:57You were giving your parents money.
01:17:00Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:05Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:22They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:26I was afraid that I was running, running, running.
01:17:30Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:33Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:38I don't want to have any more.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:43The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:45I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:47It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:02Oh, you were scared.
01:18:05Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:08Mom, I've got to get it on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:11I've got to go over there and save her.
01:18:13But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:17and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:22Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:24A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:33I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:38you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:42Forrest.
01:18:42It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:46That still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:49It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:57I believe Sheena's not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:02I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:06And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is,
01:19:09you know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:12I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena
01:19:19if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:24Obviously she knows she did wrong.
01:19:27What's your goal here?
01:19:28Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:31I think what we have to do
01:19:33is we need to get Sheena away from her parents
01:19:38because ultimately the root of this nasty tree
01:19:43is the parents.
01:19:46Sheena, we need to hear from you
01:19:49that you're ready to move forward
01:19:51and confront your parents
01:19:53about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:55I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:02It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:04Which is what she should have done
01:20:06to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:09Yeah, and we could sit there
01:20:09and we could talk about the past
01:20:11and he said, she said he could do that,
01:20:13she cannot do that.
01:20:14It's time to move forward now.
01:20:16Forrest?
01:20:17I want to end this now.
01:20:22I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:24I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:26You're acting all hostile.
01:20:28I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:30And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:33You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:35I tried to have a nice dinner
01:20:36and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:39Disaster.
01:20:42It's okay, baby.
01:20:44I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:50He's just got the blinders on,
01:20:53only wanting to believe her.
01:20:56Now he sees us as the big, bad nasties
01:20:59that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:02But still, I have to always protect Forrest
01:21:05because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:09And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:14Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:24This is so surreal.
01:21:26Come on.
01:21:28Where are you?
01:21:29This is like ordering something online
01:21:32and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:37Are you nervous?
01:21:40A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:42Before I came to Turkey,
01:21:44I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:47I have some, like, loose skin in places
01:21:49that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:51Let's start as fast as possible.
01:21:55But I'm immediately regretting
01:21:57having Fearcom come with me.
01:21:59I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:00I've been looking at your page.
01:22:08Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:11Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13No, no, there's no surprise.
01:22:14Yeah.
01:22:14I downloaded this extension on my laptop
01:22:17and it shows you who people follow.
01:22:21This morning, I saw that he was still following
01:22:23thousands of women.
01:22:25So since we've been dating,
01:22:26have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:30She and I had a discussion
01:22:31about going by ourselves to meet your parents
01:22:34and how it's important that I meet them
01:22:35before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:38I can't even imagine what her parents
01:22:40would try and do
01:22:41if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:42I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:46Sheena, your parents are going to do
01:22:48the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:52Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:54Now the story changes again.
01:22:57I still don't know if this isn't something
01:22:59that you're involved in either.
01:23:01I love him with everything I am.
01:23:13But he doesn't know that I've been married five times
01:23:16and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:19What are you doing?
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