90 Day Diaries - Season 7 Episode 04- Dear Diary, I've Had Enough
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00:00I got a nice little pop-up tension, nice and easy.
00:09Bye, Nani.
00:11All I can hear is my daughter saying, don't be the crazy cat lady.
00:15Bye, sweetie.
00:16Today's the day, a certain day.
00:18Ready to go.
00:19See you then.
00:21Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird for a date.
00:26Let's do this.
00:27I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office, and I am so nervous.
00:37How are you?
00:39Good to see you.
00:41This is Matthew.
00:43First thing that is really striking me is I've got this long hair.
00:48Is that a wig?
00:49Look at Matthew's hair is still perfect.
00:50Mine's not.
00:51It's blown all over this way.
00:52So, Tyrae, just to go over, we're having the laparoscopic vertical sleeve procedure.
00:58Yep, that's right.
00:59Yep.
01:00I've been overweight my entire life, and I feel like surgery is the only route that I could
01:05take that would help me lose weight.
01:06For the surgery, we do five incisions, four across the abdomen, one up top.
01:11Okay.
01:11And then I get to cut out and remove part of your stomach.
01:12I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half, and I'm scared.
01:17I love the new sunglasses.
01:22I'm sure they serve their purpose.
01:24I'm pretty sorry about it.
01:25You're not a fat girl or anything?
01:27It's been tense with my fiancee, Megan.
01:29If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
01:32You have my location.
01:33I'm wearing this ring.
01:34You're telling me I'm doing all this that I'm not doing.
01:36I feel like it's always excuses.
01:39Excuses?
01:39Guess what, lady?
01:40This is what I think about your excuses, right?
01:42See, the ring's gone.
01:47What the f*** is going on in here?
02:15Some of us are actually working.
02:17I'm John.
02:18I'm 41 years old, originally from Massachusetts.
02:22I'm Megan.
02:24I'm 36 years old from San Antonio, Texas.
02:29Our story began when I was lucky enough to catch a message from this beautiful woman right
02:36here who, you know, used God's gift to tempt Johnny, and, you know, it worked.
02:42That's my heart.
02:44Get ready for the best new thing.
02:46After chatting with Megan for about four months, I went down to San Antonio, and we
02:51got to hang out and get to know each other, and it was good.
02:53I think it went well physically.
02:55I think we had good sex.
02:57Good sex helps.
02:58Next thing you know, I'm moving down to San Antonio to be with Megan and her daughter, River.
03:07Now I'm the family man.
03:08After a few months, Megan was looking for me to make a bigger move.
03:11In three months, it's almost going to be a year, so I would hope that you were wanting some
03:17kind of commitment as far as, like, a ring or something, but...
03:20I have no doubt about who I want to spend the rest of my life with, if that's you guys.
03:24So I decided to take the hint and, you know, make the move at the tell-all.
03:30My timeline, well, you know, you know, it's like whenever it happens, you know what I'm saying?
03:35Because right now, baby, will you do me the honors of being my wife?
03:41I love you.
03:42Love you, babe.
03:43We've been engaged two short years.
03:48And we're still not married.
03:49I mean, it's been tense.
03:51We've been fighting a lot.
03:53We haven't seen eye to eye a lot lately, but we're still here together.
03:57Still holding strong, isn't it?
03:59That gives me hope.
04:03Look, let's go see.
04:04Hey, babe.
04:06What?
04:07What are you doing?
04:08I see that you're working very hard.
04:10Let me show everybody how great you look.
04:13This is my beautiful fiancée.
04:15Hi.
04:16This is your little setup.
04:17Let's take a look.
04:18Oh, yeah.
04:18No, look.
04:19Come to my office.
04:20Welcome to my office.
04:21Make a little look.
04:22I got a facility right here.
04:24It's ready to go.
04:26Well, the good news is you don't have to go find a, right?
04:29Oh, yeah.
04:29No, it definitely saves me time.
04:31So I was in a car accident, which was really scary.
04:35And I ended up suffering from some, like, mild concussions, some cognitive issues.
04:39I've just been having some, like, PTSD and sensory sensitivity.
04:45This little closet right here is soundproof.
04:48Soundproof?
04:49I pretty much set up my stuff in our walk-in bathroom for noise control, because that's one
04:54of my sensory issues.
04:55You know, it's for the best in my interest, you know, even though it might not be the
04:59best for him.
05:02I love it.
05:05I got to get done working, and I got to get this done, and then we can enjoy our time.
05:11We have a little getaway.
05:12Hopefully, you know, we get some alone time.
05:15Oh, yeah.
05:15We're going to get some alone time, honey.
05:17Hopefully.
05:17Let's try to make sure it's a positive, positive trip.
05:21It takes two to do that, though.
05:22Oh, yeah.
05:23Two to do that, though.
05:24It takes two to do that, though.
05:25So not just me.
05:26You, too.
05:27Right, exactly.
05:27So while I'm working.
05:28So while you're working, why not you work, and I will go do my thing.
05:33Megan and I are heading to Sal Padre Island for some relaxation, but more importantly,
05:38to work on our relationship.
05:39I'm hoping we can get back to, like, smiling at each other, laughing with each other, having
05:44a good time with each other.
05:45I can't wait for this.
05:46Yes, I'm ready, too.
05:50Oh, I'm so ready.
05:52I hope there's a lot of alcohol, because I'm going to need a lot of alcohol.
05:58Yeah.
06:01Let me call Pat to see if he's around.
06:13What's up, bro?
06:14What's up?
06:15I'm trying to get some video game action going on.
06:18You know?
06:19I'd like to let out some frustration.
06:21You know what I'm saying?
06:22I got a trip with Megan.
06:23This is our trip to try to, you know, make things better and try to, like, work on us.
06:29We fight every night.
06:31It's the trust issues.
06:33It's the, you know, accusations.
06:35I'm talking to someone, I'm cheating on her, I'm cheating on her, I'm doing something.
06:38It's not good, you know?
06:40It's just like, I'm sleeping on the couch every night because we're fighting every night.
06:44No, your situation is horrible.
06:47I've had these issues for a while now, but it's gotten even worse.
06:51If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
06:54If I'm so much as talking to another girl, I'm cheating.
06:57I have to share my location all the time, where I am, who I'm texting.
07:01And worst of all, I have to wear an engagement ring because, you know, she thinks it's going
07:06to keep women from hitting on me.
07:08And, you know, it's taxing.
07:09I mean, you guys are engaged now.
07:13Like, I don't know how you can make it more clear that you're not other girls.
07:18You don't want to take the next step if things aren't resolved, because that never works.
07:25I will not.
07:26I'm just going to let you go, bro, and I will go dead stop packing.
07:39So, we're going to South Padre.
07:42Got all this stuff ready, finally.
07:44Let's see how long we can make this.
07:45Let's go on a five-hour drive.
07:46Yeah, like four and a half hours, five hours.
07:49But, I'm just looking forward to the destinations.
07:53We'll see.
07:54How are those?
07:56Things have been really tense lately.
07:58It's just frustrating because John's saying that we would be married within, like, two years.
08:03So, I'm like, clock's ticking and still nothing.
08:07I don't know, like, does he not want to marry me?
08:09Like, does he want somebody else?
08:11I'm really hoping that we can work on our issues just to really see if, like, we even do have a future together.
08:21We are set.
08:25Ready?
08:26All right.
08:26Well, I guess I'll catch you guys later, and we're going to start our adventure.
08:31Oh, I'm so sorry.
08:36Wiggy?
08:36Hey!
08:37Self-quadre.
08:38Self-quadre.
08:39Look at the beach.
08:44She's smiling.
08:45She's in a good mood.
08:46I'm in a good mood.
08:47So, so far, I think, you know, I think we're on to something.
08:52We made it.
08:53Woo-hoo-hoo!
08:54Oh, isn't this nice, huh?
08:58All right, excited.
08:59Just got to keep that mouth shut.
09:01Oh, no, honey.
09:01That's not going to happen.
09:02So, we've got to figure something out.
09:04But this?
09:05Never be quiet.
09:06Ever.
09:14All right.
09:15Well, now Megan's going to take a little bit.
09:18So, I figured, Johnny, we'll get the tent set up.
09:20I got a nice little pop-up tent.
09:22Should be nice and easy.
09:23Hopefully, it better be nice and easy.
09:24Look at that, huh?
09:26Woo!
09:27Look at this, dude.
09:28Woo!
09:29In the description when I bought this online, supposedly, you can just toss it in the air.
09:34This thing will open up, so we'll find out.
09:36Well, don't fail me, buddy.
09:38Oh, look who I found.
10:01Hello, beautiful.
10:03Look at my gorgeous face.
10:05Looks like she was getting ready.
10:06Oh, I couldn't find myself.
10:08Oh, yeah.
10:09Now, what we have in store for us is, you know, a nice, beautiful day on the beach.
10:14Now, look at that.
10:15Woo!
10:25Hey, babes.
10:26Hi.
10:26Come on, we're here together in this beautiful, beautiful situation.
10:30Yes.
10:31It's a beautiful, not as beautiful as beautiful.
10:34You know, it's very, man.
10:35I love the names of my glasses.
10:38Yeah, yeah.
10:38I'm sure they serve their purpose.
10:40What are you talking about?
10:40Wow.
10:42Are you?
10:42Look at you.
10:43What?
10:43Oh, look at you.
10:44You're kind of a fat girl, are you?
10:46I know what these glasses are for.
10:48Look at them.
10:48A little sly.
10:49What are you talking about?
10:50You're sly, aren't you?
10:52What are you talking about?
10:52I'm not here because I'm, like, trying to cover my eyes.
10:59It's a sunny day out poolside, all right?
11:02It's not because I'm trying to stare at other women.
11:04At some point, you just got to trust me because this isn't working.
11:07I really just think you're trying to be sneaky, but, yeah, no, for sure, protect your eyes.
11:15He's smart, I'll give him that, but he's, uh, he'd be smart and stupid at the same time, so.
11:22Hey!
11:22Hey!
11:28Beautiful.
11:29Beautiful day.
11:30That's a romantic thing, huh?
11:32What a suck.
11:33Nobody in sight, though.
11:35This place stinks.
11:36So, apparently, I have something with the coffee lady in this hotel because I've gone two times.
11:42You know, I love coffee, but, apparently, because she's attractive to me younger, that's the reason why I'm going after coffee.
11:49Do I drink coffee every day?
11:51Every day.
11:51But, today, I'm a hoe.
11:55I can't be in a relationship if there's no trust in everything I do as a question mark.
12:00I think it's time me and Megan have a serious conversation because I can't live like this anymore.
12:09I'm feeling lonely
12:10And I think you could help
12:13I know you won't believe me
12:15If I said how I felt
12:18Here's a laundry mat, I'm about to wash a few loads
12:20What's up everyone, it's Tyree, your boy, I'm 35 years old and I live in Modesto, California.
12:33And this week, I'm going to be making a huge life change.
12:36I'm going to be having weight loss surgery.
12:37I'm really excited about that.
12:39I have to go and find something to wear for while I'm in the hospital.
12:44So, yeah.
12:46My 90 day journey began once I met someone online named Carmela.
12:52I quickly fell in love and then I ended up finding out that Carmela wasn't who she says she was.
13:05The person you've been messaging with for the last several years is not the same woman in the pictures and videos.
13:15She was actually a man named Christian who had been catfishing me for four years.
13:22It took a while for me to accept that the girl that I fell in love with did not exist.
13:27So, I just thought the worst about dating after the whole Carmela situation.
13:32Hell yeah, son.
13:34Cheers.
13:35So, me and my brothers ended up going to New Orleans just because we thought it would be, you know, a fun time and good vibe.
13:42That's all you got to do, brother.
13:43Confirm me.
13:44I could have got the number right down.
13:45You could have.
13:46And while in New Orleans, I ended up meeting a girl named Shannon.
13:50I don't know what to do.
13:51I ended up meeting up again at the tell-all where she gave me my first kiss.
13:55I don't know what to do.
13:57I did want to hang out with her more.
13:59But unfortunately, I live in Modesto and she lives five hours away in Los Angeles.
14:05I plan on moving to San Diego after the surgery to be closer to her.
14:09So, hopefully, that's going to be happening really soon.
14:13Always do this to get it off of here.
14:15I'm talking to myself when it walks by.
14:18Let me turn this off.
14:27I made it to the hospital for my pre-surgery testing.
14:31Look at this beautiful view of the rain.
14:35My weight loss surgery is next week.
14:37Today, I'm going to the doctor for my final check-in.
14:40I'm super nervous because it is my last weigh-in before surgery.
14:44Hello.
14:45Hi.
14:46At my first visit with the bariatric clinic, I was advised to lose 20 pounds.
14:56But honestly, I'm not sure if I did or not.
14:59Let's try to get your weight.
15:01Okay.
15:02What if it's too high and it counts on my surgery?
15:04I have a lot of surgery, so I have a lot of things going on that are making me nervous.
15:17All right.
15:19You're welcome.
15:20The scale says that I'm 405 pounds, which is the same amount I was when I first started
15:26the whole process.
15:27And we're going to be in this room here.
15:32I'm kind of freaking out.
15:33I don't know if they're going to cancel the surgery because I failed to lose any weight
15:37at all.
15:38Let me go get Alyssa for you.
15:41Okay.
15:42Perfect.
15:44All right.
15:46If I can't get this surgery, I don't know what I'm going to do.
15:51I feel like my weight has been holding me back when it comes to dating and, you know, relationships.
15:59I haven't had a lot of experience with girls.
16:02I'm still a virgin.
16:04And I feel like it is mainly due to my weight when it comes to, you know, intimacy.
16:10I want the person I'm dating to want and desire me.
16:14You know what I mean?
16:15I want them to like my body.
16:17And I don't think anyone else will like my body if I don't like my body.
16:22Hello.
16:23Hello.
16:24Hi.
16:25Happy pre-op day.
16:27So Tyree, just to go over, we're having the laparoscopic vertical sleeve procedure in a week.
16:31Yep.
16:32That's right.
16:33Yep.
16:34Now, your pre-op weight today was 405 pounds.
16:38Okay.
16:39Your initial weight was 407 pounds.
16:41Okay.
16:42Okay.
16:43With all of our patients, we encourage, obviously, any weight loss before will make the surgery
16:48safer and overall usually more doable.
16:51Okay.
16:52Okay.
16:53So that being said, didn't lose necessarily a ton of weight, all right, before.
16:57However, at least we didn't gain weight.
16:59That is important that way.
17:00Okay.
17:01So I will give you credit for that.
17:02Okay.
17:03Other than that, we'll see you the morning of surgery.
17:05The hospital is going to let you know what time you need to be there next week.
17:08Okay.
17:09Okay.
17:11You're welcome.
17:12Bye.
17:13Bye.
17:14I got approved for the surgery, but barely.
17:16So I have to be strong and find the discipline to make changes to my lifestyle and my diet,
17:22so I can reach my weight loss goals.
17:31I got a pizza.
17:32I'm going to bake it for my sister.
17:34She's going to come through.
17:35Yummy.
17:36It looks so good.
17:37It's not for me though.
17:39My sister and my nieces are coming over before my surgery, and I decided to make them some
17:44food.
17:45And since tomorrow is my surgery, my dinner is something a little different.
17:49Good old organic broth.
17:51Yummy.
17:52I'll let it simmer.
17:57Hey.
17:58Hi.
17:59How are you guys doing?
18:00Hello.
18:01Hello.
18:02Hey.
18:03Wow, you're tall.
18:04Where are you coming from?
18:05Hello.
18:06I made some food.
18:07You want some food?
18:08Yay!
18:09Can you drink?
18:10Sure.
18:11Being around family, there's a lot of temptation, and it is hard to stick to a diet.
18:16Okay, wine glass.
18:17Okay.
18:18Yeah, super big.
18:20But I don't want to avoid gatherings just because I'm afraid that I'll cheat on my diet.
18:25I feel bad eating in front of you like this.
18:27Oh, I'm used to it now.
18:28Is it like chicken broth?
18:29Yeah, chicken broth.
18:30Oh.
18:31So how are you feeling about the surgery tomorrow?
18:34Um, but yeah, I'm excited.
18:36I'm a little nervous though.
18:37Just, I've never been like under, you know?
18:39Yeah, I know.
18:40That's a thing that's weird to me too, because I always be like, hope I don't wake up then.
18:43Well, you won't wake up.
18:45I'm just most nervous about him, I guess, going under.
18:52Um, I just don't like surgery.
18:53It always makes me so nervous.
18:55You know, I just, I just pray that everything is okay.
18:58And, you know, he's in God's hands.
19:00I would say cheers, but...
19:01Yeah, cheers.
19:02I have nothing.
19:03No more broth or anything, but cheers.
19:14Today is the day.
19:15It's surgery day.
19:16So, just got up.
19:17It's 5 a.m.
19:18I have to get down until it's 6.30.
19:20So, I'm going to get dressed really quick.
19:22I just want to just wash my face and brush my teeth.
19:24So, I'm going to do that.
19:25So, it's the day of surgery.
19:26I am up and ready to go.
19:28I have my clothes packed.
19:30I have my bag ready.
19:31I'm going to do one final weigh-in.
19:33I'm going to wear it myself on my scale.
19:36Oh, wow.
19:37I lost seven pounds.
19:38This is the start of a new tirade.
19:41Ready to go.
19:42Let me see it in.
19:50I'm going to make it to the hospital.
19:52It's 6, like 6.35.
19:54I'm a little late.
19:58I am happy to have my family here with me.
20:01You know, my mom and my aunts and my sisters,
20:06they both made it.
20:07I have to put on my gown in my robe and wipe myself down again.
20:10So, I'm going to do that really quick.
20:13As I put on my surgery gown, it really is real.
20:16Like, I'm really about to have this surgery done.
20:18And I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half.
20:22Oh, sexy.
20:23I really don't know what's going to happen.
20:24And, you know, I'm scared.
20:25For the surgery, we do five incisions.
20:26Four across the abdomen, one up top.
20:27Okay.
20:28Once that's all free, then I can take a surgical stapler,
20:29staple across the stomach and cut out and remove part of your stomach.
20:31Any questions?
20:32No questions.
20:33Perfect.
20:34Thank you so much.
20:37Just praying for it, guys.
20:38Safe surgery.
20:39Safe surgery.
20:47Just praying for it, guys.
20:49Safe surgery.
20:50Safe surgery.
21:15So, I just got out of bed.
21:17I just got out of Mass.
21:21It was beautiful.
21:24Beautiful service, beautiful day.
21:27Now I'm going to go meet up with my beautiful daughter.
21:32Hi, my name is Nisha.
21:34I'm 45 years old, and I am from Blaine, Minnesota.
21:37She asked me to go to brunch with her, which I absolutely love,
21:42but she also said that she wanted to talk to me about something,
21:44so we'll see.
21:47Seven-plus years ago, I met Nicola online.
21:52We connected over talking about Catholicism.
21:56We started off as friends,
21:57and our friendship ended up turning into a romantic relationship.
22:04I ended up hopping on an airplane, traveling across the world,
22:10and I met with him for the first time in person in the Holy Land.
22:16I was over in the Middle East for a handful of weeks with him,
22:31and by the end of my trip, we ultimately got engaged.
22:36I'm asking you if you want to learn it.
22:41Yes, I will.
22:46Oh, my gosh, Nicola.
22:49Nicola ended up coming over to the United States,
22:51and I think right away we just realized that culturally we were so different.
22:58and we had such different worldviews.
23:01So a few months ago, we decided to call off our engagement,
23:04and now he is back in the Middle East.
23:07I'm here in America, and my life is moving forward.
23:10All right, pulling in here.
23:16Let me see, is her car here?
23:19Yes, it is.
23:20Interesting, my daughter is never early.
23:27Hi, honey.
23:29Hi, babe.
23:29You see her.
23:31Hi, babe.
23:32How are you?
23:34Are you doing a vlog?
23:35Yeah, I'm doing a diary camp.
23:37Hi, thank you.
23:39Normally, I have to beg my two daughters,
23:42Marea and Svea, to go out to lunch with me
23:45because they're so busy, away at college.
23:48So now I am genuinely really interested
23:52as to what this meeting today is all about.
23:55I was so surprised when you were like,
23:56do you want to go to brunch?
23:58I mean, are you sure I shouldn't be nervous?
24:00No, well, I don't think you should be nervous.
24:03Well, me and Svea just feel so bad.
24:05Like, we're away all the time,
24:06and we don't see you a whole bunch anymore,
24:08and we're kind of hoping you would get back out
24:11in the dating scene a little bit.
24:13We set you up with a matchmaker.
24:17Oh, Marea, no.
24:19No, I'm not doing that.
24:20Yes, yes, you are.
24:21I am not doing that.
24:22My daughter, God love her, but oh, my gosh.
24:26Have you gone mad?
24:28Like, you know that is not who I am.
24:31No, just full stop, no.
24:34I just don't feel like I need to go out
24:37and search for something like that.
24:39I just want to lean into divine providence and trust God.
24:43Well, you can't, you can't fail.
24:45It's tomorrow.
24:46What?
24:48Me and Svea put so much effort into this.
24:50We had to put a couple pictures
24:51and, like, talk about you a little bit.
24:54To the matchmaker.
24:55Yep, we already have cleared your schedule for you.
24:58What?
24:58Everything is already done.
25:00You guys are like stalkers.
25:01All you have to do is get ready and go.
25:02That's it.
25:04I don't know, honey.
25:05Don't even say that you're going.
25:07You have to.
25:08I will show up there with an open mind for you and Svea.
25:13But I will not promise that I'll walk out of there with a date.
25:18I think you'll have a lot of fun.
25:20I feel very sickly nervous all of a sudden.
25:22So, right now, I am on my way
25:36to the infamous matchmaker's office.
25:40Oh, my gosh.
25:40I'm getting so nervous.
25:42But I actually feel sick.
25:45I'm having a lot of internal struggles,
25:47a lot of internal battle.
25:50Here we go.
25:51Here we go.
25:51I'm thinking, like, Misha, what are you doing?
25:54Like, did you all of a sudden become depressed?
25:56Like, you should not be doing this.
25:59Hi.
26:00Oh, my gosh.
26:01Hi.
26:02Nice to meet you.
26:04Oh, hi, Misha.
26:06Nice to meet you.
26:06It's a pleasure.
26:07We're so excited to have you here.
26:08Pleasure is all mine.
26:10It still feels a hella weird.
26:13It feels very transactional.
26:15Like, it shouldn't, like, part of me was like,
26:17this shouldn't be legal.
26:19God bless you.
26:20Yeah, okay.
26:21Welcome to Minneapolis City.
26:23Minneapolis City, cheers, by the way.
26:24I'm so nervous.
26:25So you guys are all making me feel so much better.
26:28I'm so glad.
26:28I know that there are several things that are very important to you,
26:31just kind of as a concrete foundation.
26:35Yes.
26:36I know faith.
26:37Yes.
26:38So talk to me a little bit about that.
26:41Yeah.
26:41So I, my whole life is surrounded by faith now.
26:46I work for the Archdiocese.
26:47So when I say that that is an absolute must, I really mean that.
26:53So we definitely have some great candidates.
26:55Okay.
26:55We have a wonderful gentleman named Matthew.
26:58He has his doctorate.
27:00Okay.
27:00He is a dedicated father to beautiful girls as well.
27:05Okay.
27:06So if, I don't know if this is possible, but can I see the video?
27:09You bet.
27:10Oh, amazing.
27:10I'm saying, I don't know where we'll watch those, but.
27:12Absolutely.
27:14We are not a matchmaking service to the point where we send them out, um, a blind date or
27:20all of that.
27:20We do the research based upon what our clients tell us.
27:23And then we try and match them based upon their key points of what they're looking for.
27:28And then the rest is just going to happen naturally.
27:31Let's click on video here for Matthew.
27:35I'm 41.
27:37I'm a single dad.
27:38I'm a Twin Cities native.
27:39I'm a physician.
27:41I like to play chess.
27:42I like to do arts and drawing.
27:45Um, I'm a great guy, down to earth.
27:49Um, those kinds of things.
27:54Watching Matthew's video, the first thing that is really striking me is it's got this
28:00long hair.
28:01I was like, is that a wig or like a toupee or something?
28:04Men that age just don't typically have hair that long.
28:11And I don't know if luscious is the right word, but I'm questioning if it's a wig.
28:17Um, just kind of excited to, uh, enroll into the Minneapolis singles here.
28:23I'm also noticing that he's pretty timid.
28:29He's acting nervous.
28:30That's always what I'm most fearful of.
28:33Like a stick in the mud and they don't talk.
28:35And I feel like I'm having to like pull questions out of mom.
28:39I'll give it a whirl.
28:40I mean, I don't know.
28:41Poor Matthew doesn't know the crazy he's in for, but, um, I'll give it a go, girl.
28:45Right.
28:47Yes.
28:58Bye, Nani.
29:00Bye, sweetie.
29:02All I can hear in my mind when I say that is my daughter saying, don't be the crazy cat
29:08lady.
29:08Get out and date someone.
29:10Don't just sit at home with your cats.
29:13Here I go, guys.
29:14This is it.
29:15So I am on my way to my big date with Matthew and I'm very nervous.
29:26A pumpkin patch seems a bit weird, especially a pumpkin patch in the morning seems a bit
29:33weird for a date, a first date, but maybe that's cute.
29:39I mean, is that what people are doing nowadays?
29:42Yes.
29:42I think I see Matthew.
29:56Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Yeah.
29:58Yeah.
29:58Hi.
29:59How are you?
30:01Good to see you.
30:03Oh, it's so nice to meet you as well.
30:06Oh, by the way, this is Matthew.
30:08Hello.
30:09How are you?
30:10I'm feeling lovely.
30:11Nice to meet you.
30:12I'm so excited.
30:12Are you too?
30:13Are you too?
30:14I'm so excited.
30:15I'm so excited.
30:19Matthew is way cuter in person than what I was expecting and I can also tell he is not wearing
30:26a wig, which is very good news.
30:28So what is that over there?
30:29Like you peel corn?
30:30No.
30:31You walk through it like a corn maze.
30:32Oh, that's...
30:33Try to get lost.
30:34Should we go back there?
30:35I think...
30:36Okay.
30:37We'll totally go back there.
30:38Don't worry, Matthew.
30:39If you get kidnapped, I will keep looking for you.
30:41Okay?
30:42I won't give up.
30:43I won't give up.
30:44So, tell me a little bit about yourself.
30:47I was raised Catholic in kindergarten through eighth grade.
30:50Oh, sure.
30:51I went to a Catholic private school in St. Paul.
30:54Okay.
30:55I lived in Morocco for the...
30:57Okay, so I love that so much because I feel like you have to have a different kind of heart
31:04for that.
31:05My dad actually does a faith formation for fifth graders at the church.
31:08Oh my gosh, he does.
31:09So sweet.
31:10My mom attends kind of like the adult faith formation group.
31:13Oh my goodness.
31:14I love it.
31:15And kind of does gardening at the church.
31:16That's so awesome.
31:17Wow.
31:18I wouldn't have thought that the matchmakers would have exceeded my expectations, but
31:26they matched me up with someone who's a total sweetheart.
31:30Ready?
31:31Here we go, Matthew.
31:33Look at all that.
31:35Totally.
31:36You can't even tell there's amazement.
31:38I'm sorry.
31:39We would never have come out of it.
31:40No.
31:42Everything just feels so easy.
31:44And this is resurrecting all these feelings inside of me of like that little school girl.
31:50Like, oh my gosh, like what's going to happen?
31:53What do I do if he tries to kiss me?
31:55I can't help.
31:56Yeah, I can't help.
31:57I'll get you.
31:58Okay, ready?
31:59One, two, three.
32:00Here you go.
32:01Good job, Matthew.
32:02Give me a hug.
32:03You did so good.
32:04I won.
32:05Fair sport, yes.
32:06You still did so good.
32:07I kind of had a feeling you were going to win.
32:08Oh, you did.
32:09Yes, I did.
32:10Too sweet.
32:11Misha, stunningly beautiful, kind-hearted, caring and intelligent.
32:26I definitely felt comfortable and I do feel like there's some chemistry there between
32:31she and I.
32:32That's awesome.
32:33Do you want a piece of donut?
32:35Sure.
32:36Three, two, three.
32:37Whoa.
32:38Overall, the day went really well.
32:43I love it, Matthew.
32:46I was like, oh my God.
32:47Oh my God.
32:48I don't know exactly what is next for me, but I definitely know this.
32:55If Matthew asks me out again, I will not say no.
32:59I will say yes.
33:01I'm giving myself the green light to get back out there a little bit and date and I love
33:07it.
33:08I can't wait.
33:09Look it, Matthew's hair is still perfect.
33:11Mine's not.
33:12It's blown all the roadway.
33:13Give me a shot.
33:26All right.
33:28Let's get out of here.
33:31Hey, I'm John.
33:36I'm 41 years old.
33:38I'm originally from Massachusetts, but now I live in good old San Antonio.
33:46I'm here on vacation with my fiance Megan and things ain't going so well.
33:50I can't stay in a relationship where there's no trust and everything I do is questioned.
33:54I think it's time me and Megan have a serious conversation because I can't live like this
33:58anymore.
33:59Hey, I'm sorry, how are you going to take a spot?
34:02Oh, that was a trip?
34:07Guess to say the least, that was a trip?
34:11you know it's like it always goes the same way never snooze
34:21all you can say is uh you know i gotta be true to myself i'm not gonna you know pretend to be
34:27something or pretend things are better than they are i'm gonna just sit here and be quiet
34:34you know i've been miserable because of the fighting it's every day i'm sleeping on the couch
34:39because you think i'm literally checking out every goddamn woman there is yeah i mean you're a very
34:47possessive person too i'm not everybody it goes both ways i am not i am not that bad you have my
34:54location i'm wearing this ring he's telling me i'm doing all that that i'm not doing you know
34:59something has to give when it comes down to it like it all goes back to like does he really want
35:08to be with me does he really want to marry me because i feel like it's always excuses why would
35:15i want to get married why would i want to get married you don't want to get married now you're
35:20not going to want to get married no no megan i told you i told you i'm coming to the understanding that
35:25right now that i'm kind of letting go of the idea of marriage because i'm getting so turned off of
35:29it because all i'm hearing is it's excuses so oh excuses excuses guess what lady this is what i think
35:37about your excuses are you is it rings god
35:51i'm kind of confused right now
36:08i mean do i take this off like do i take the ring off take it off take it off i'm not making you wear
36:14it i'm not gonna make you tell you you have to wear it while i don't wear mine and mine's gone
36:18so yeah there you go oh wait that's mine i'll just pun it
36:41i'm just trying to figure out like what we're doing are we ever gonna get married and then
36:48and then this happens you acting like this and throwing your ring out the window yeah it's
36:55because i keep telling you over and over again all i get from you is i'm talking to someone i'm
37:02someone i'm doing this when i'm doing nothing and so therefore i'm getting tired i'm getting frustrated
37:09you know it doesn't matter how much we have sex you know if if i'm sleeping on the couch and we're
37:13fighting every day i'm miserable i've already told you miserable this freaking ring doesn't mean nothing
37:28i'm at the hospital i'm in my room i get to relax for a little while so that's my plan my name is
37:43tyree i'm 35 years old and i live in modesto california today i'm finally going to get my gastric sleeve
37:50surgery i am terrified and nervous and scared just praying for a fast safe surgery
38:04so sorry i like burping a lot this is a lot of gas coming coming out of surgery the first thing
38:20i remember is the anesthesiologist trying to wake me up he's calling my name and i'm having a hard time
38:26breathing i just was really i felt like i was high um and everything was just like a blur
38:39heartburn or gas or something but i finally got the surgery done and i did it this is a big step
38:49towards some of the goals that i want to accomplish everything's good my blood work high blood pressure
38:55under control so if you guys didn't understand me but yeah i want to eat some jello
39:09okay so it's day four um had surgery on thursday right now it's monday i'm feeling pretty good i was
39:17able to down an entire protein shake haven't had that much pain um other than like the gas pain
39:24occasionally with the surgery i know that the weight loss isn't going to be instant but the goal is to
39:29lose five pounds every week so i really have to be strong and find the discipline to stick to this
39:35strict diet my decisions are good looks good i went and i changed them i like made them extra secure
39:44yesterday we had a party for my niece she turned 13 and um went over to my sister's house and everyone was
39:49eating and drinking i just sipped on my gatorade all day so yeah it's not easy and um yeah that's it
40:06it fits yes oh my god when i first got this shirt it was like stuffed on me like i couldn't even breathe in it
40:15keep that smile on your face so it's been three months since my weight loss surgery how am i looking
40:24not yet still big but getting there now i can fit it and i feel really good you know oh my god
40:33i just feel so much better it makes me feel great man it's really emotional
40:39i feel a lot more confident i feel a lot more comfortable i've been doing really good with the
40:48lifestyle changes and i've been working out going to the gym and i'm officially down 80 pounds which is
40:54amazing i feel great i'm feeling like a whole new person i'm still not exactly where i want to be at but
41:00i know that it's a process and i'm really happy with the progress that i've made so far i feel like
41:05i'm finally like in control of my life and now it feels like the world is finally my oyster the oysters
41:12are good this is just the beginning guys so stay tuned but yeah i think it looks pretty good yes
41:24the bees are head-butting me yeah they're not happy we're here coming to the grand foyer which is
41:38also our living room which is also our bedroom which is also i mean is that yeah this is a pg program no
41:45don't you we try to put gokhan in his crib but he ends up in our bed
41:52he's kicking us he's crying and we can't be intimate we really need to change our sleeping
41:59ranges what i'm tired of not having a sex life i hate you grabbing my ass on your finger i would like
42:09it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's initials on your finger bro i'm just gonna like
42:15chop it off at this point for the nipples the scar goes around the areola you can't ever guarantee
42:21that you won't get hypo or hypersensitivity there are a lot of risks that go into getting your boobs
42:28reducted i could lose nipple sensation have an ugly scar or maybe it be lopsided oh my god i'm getting
42:37anxious i see this i feel like siad is completely withdrawing from me and this marriage and it just
42:54makes me really suspicious especially after finding him with another woman i was kind of hoping we get
42:59to enjoy having a saturday off together play together are we
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