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00:00Beating Mother Jo.
00:02Oh, you're joking.
00:03No.
00:04Every day you have to talk to your mom.
00:06It's ridiculous.
00:08Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:09why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you had?
00:12Things are clearly not going well,
00:14and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:17and I think it might make it worse.
00:20How long would it take if we did file the partnership papers
00:24for me to be able to work?
00:27Eight to seven months.
00:28Yeah, it's a long time.
00:30That's a long time.
00:31If you're married, there's no problem.
00:34Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:36but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:41Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:42it's something to think about
00:43so we can be together in the end.
00:48I don't, like, think I love you anymore.
00:54Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
00:56That's the saddest part.
00:59There was no fight.
01:00No.
01:01Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:03I think you should have a talk with her.
01:09Oh, my God, let's get up.
01:13This is not the way I want to start my weekend wearing.
01:17I do feel dizzy and weird.
01:22I told you so many times,
01:23we even be careful when we have sex.
01:26Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:28Yes, and I have a text.
01:30I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:55Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:02After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:05about my relationship with my mum.
02:07I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:10so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway
02:13with some boundaries,
02:14but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:18so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much,
02:22you know?
02:25G'day, mate.
02:26How you going?
02:26How the bloody hell are you?
02:27Well, a long time, mate.
02:29It's a strong hand trick you've got there, mate.
02:36After you, come on, sir.
02:37All right.
02:39Ever since Batia arrived in town,
02:41like every day,
02:42she keeps asking me,
02:43when are you going to propose?
02:45G'day, guys.
02:46I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:48Certainly.
02:49So today I'm going with my buddy Chris
02:51to a jewellery store.
02:52To get the engagement ring
02:55that I gave Batia shined up
02:57so that when I'm ready to propose,
03:00it looks brand new.
03:02Beautiful.
03:03You like that, do you?
03:04Family allure?
03:05Eh, not quite.
03:07He did actually give it to
03:09his partner.
03:12Yes.
03:12Before, and then he took it back.
03:14That's right.
03:15Yeah.
03:15It's a complicated relationship.
03:20The first time I proposed to Batia,
03:23it was very lacklustre.
03:24You know, we were in bed,
03:26it was Christmas morning,
03:27and I just slipped the ring on her finger,
03:28and she said yes.
03:30I mean, I feel like
03:32that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:34Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:36No, I don't.
03:37There is so much history
03:38and so many memories.
03:40So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:42I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:44You don't want to trade it in?
03:45Definitely not.
03:46Perfect.
03:47And then, uh,
03:50give it a clean and polish.
03:51Perfect.
03:52Go grab a coffee.
03:53All right.
03:55After I proposed,
03:57we'd be breaking up
03:58every three or four weeks.
04:00And, um,
04:02at one point,
04:02Batia's spending got so bad,
04:04she started selling all her jewellery
04:07just to fund her shopping habit.
04:09And I thought,
04:11she's going to pawn that.
04:13So,
04:14I took the ring back.
04:15She saw that as, you know,
04:16we're no longer engaged,
04:18which is fair enough.
04:20Okay.
04:21So, the ring.
04:22Yes.
04:23Ten years ago,
04:24you gave her the ring.
04:25And you've been holding on
04:26to that ring ever since.
04:28Yeah.
04:29You haven't proposed to her again?
04:32No, because I'm,
04:33I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:36I don't know, 12 years.
04:37I feel like if you haven't
04:38fixed something after 12 years,
04:40how many more years
04:41is it going to take for you to fix?
04:45I'm not giving up.
04:47Hmm, okay.
04:49I'm just worried
04:49about the personality clash.
04:51You live together in Thailand.
04:53Yes.
04:53So, what happened there?
04:54Why,
04:54why did that not work out?
04:57In the beginning,
04:57it was magical.
04:58And then after a while,
05:00she was miserable,
05:02I wasn't giving her enough money,
05:03and she just,
05:05she just hated it.
05:08I just thought she would be happy
05:10living that life,
05:13that retired...
05:14Lifestyle.
05:14...beach lifestyle.
05:15But she,
05:16that wasn't enough for her.
05:18And her life has been
05:20fast-paced.
05:22Fast money,
05:23fast living.
05:24How is she going to be happy here?
05:26Long term.
05:28Honestly,
05:28think about that.
05:30She's in a foreign country.
05:31She's got no family
05:32or friends here.
05:34She's just going to be
05:35happy,
05:36hanging around
05:36in Launceston.
05:39But the thing is,
05:41there's a certain limit.
05:42You can't do that
05:43all your life.
05:43You know,
05:44she's approaching...
05:45An age.
05:46An age.
05:47She's getting older.
05:48She can't live that
05:49fast-paced life forever.
05:51I don't know.
05:52Once you're used to something,
05:53it's hard to,
05:54to change,
05:57you know.
05:58I've known Dylan
05:59always to be pretty stubborn.
06:00Like,
06:01he won't change
06:01what he eats,
06:02for example.
06:03It's only chicken and rice.
06:04I tried to get him
06:04to eat a cookie,
06:05wouldn't even need a cookie.
06:06I mean,
06:07he's pretty stubborn.
06:07He won't,
06:08he won't change anything.
06:09So,
06:09I'm worried that
06:10Dylan's stubbornness
06:12is causing him
06:13to live in a family.
06:13fantasy
06:14and not deal
06:15with reality.
06:16I don't think
06:17a ring on the finger
06:18is going to be
06:19the thing
06:21that fixes everything.
06:22I love her.
06:24I just can't
06:25see myself
06:25with anyone else.
06:27I'm not saying...
06:27I'm not even attracted
06:28to anyone else.
06:29I just want her.
06:31Look,
06:32I'm only saying
06:33this because
06:34I care about you
06:36as a friend.
06:38I love Patia.
06:40I know she makes
06:41you very happy.
06:41but
06:43your idea
06:44of happily ever after
06:45is a bit delusional.
06:49I don't think
06:50you've really thought
06:50about the long-term plan.
06:55Chris's concerns
06:56are valid.
06:57Patia and I
06:58still have a lot
06:59of issues
06:59to work through.
07:00but I am feeling
07:02optimistic about
07:03the future
07:04with Patia.
07:05She's come to Australia
07:07and she's given it
07:08a good go
07:08and she's trying
07:10to resolve things
07:11with my mother.
07:12So I think
07:12that's massive, really.
07:14I feel like
07:14it is different now.
07:17Think about it.
07:18I'm confused.
07:43Are you telling me
07:43that you're pregnant
07:44right now?
07:45I can't be.
07:50Holy
07:51this stresses me
07:53out right now.
07:55You don't know
07:56how I'm scared
07:58and stressful I am.
08:01I didn't expect
08:02you to say
08:04that you actually
08:05think that you're pregnant.
08:05I really like
08:12so scared about
08:13if he's positive
08:14because if I have a baby
08:16like I need
08:17to have a spellability.
08:20Stability is the only
08:21thing that I really
08:22ever wanted.
08:24I'm talking about
08:25you don't give it to me
08:26so how are we
08:27going to get
08:28our children
08:29to the war
08:30when you and me
08:31fighting all the time
08:32when you
08:33cheating of me
08:34like how?
08:36I hope that we
08:37can work on
08:38this relationship
08:38but right now
08:39I'm not confident
08:40that we're working.
08:41We talked yesterday.
08:42Hey, like,
08:43are we compatible?
08:44Can we not fight?
08:45And all we've done
08:45is continue to fight.
08:48Who made the fight today?
08:50I didn't try
08:50and fight today.
08:51I said please.
08:54I don't want
08:55to argue.
08:59Do you want
08:59to go try this?
09:00No.
09:02Leave me alone.
09:04I want to know.
09:11I don't know.
09:22You think I'm happy?
09:25Like, you know,
09:26there's a situation
09:26I should be happy.
09:28You look at me happy.
09:30Let's please try
09:30and be happy about this.
09:31Please.
09:32Can we take the time?
09:32See, you think I am like,
09:33you're going to change
09:34your emotions so easy.
09:35Like, how I can
09:36be happy if I am
09:38two days
09:39to supposedly
09:40get married.
09:41If you are pregnant
09:44and we're going
09:49to have a baby,
09:50then this means
09:51that we're having
09:52a family, Madeline.
09:59Can we please
10:00take this test?
10:01No.
10:01Please.
10:09Please, Madeline.
10:10I am not ready
10:23to get the text,
10:26but it's something
10:27like I have to do.
10:30I need to know
10:31what is going on.
10:32This is a good
10:40opportunity for you
10:41to show me
10:42that you're ready
10:42to really take
10:43a serious step.
10:45If you wouldn't
10:46put a ring on my finger
10:47today,
10:48in a sense,
10:48you're not in love
10:49with me.
10:49Like, you're in love
10:50with also an idea.
10:51I feel like this is
10:52a test if I'm actually
10:54wife material or not.
10:58You broke his heart,
10:59Ressa.
11:00You might think
11:01that it's done,
11:01with he wonders
11:03whether you just
11:04need some time.
11:06I know.
11:27Such a beautiful beach,
11:28huh?
11:30It is really pretty.
11:32It's been a few days
11:33since Jonathan and I
11:34have met with the lawyers
11:35and found out that
11:36the fastest and easiest
11:37way for me to stay here
11:38is to get married,
11:40and we're still kind of
11:41processing that information.
11:43I don't think your leg
11:44can support me.
11:45Oh, really?
11:46Come on.
11:47I've been eating a lot.
11:49Yeah?
11:49I don't want to step
11:49on your shoe.
11:50Let's go.
11:51Ow!
11:52I thought giving up
11:53everything and moving
11:54to another country was a lot,
11:55but adding this on top of it
11:56is like, bang.
11:58Do we miss the sunset
12:00or is it just cloudy?
12:02It's a bit cloudy today.
12:04Anyway,
12:05me and Maria are going to
12:06have meatball night tomorrow.
12:08What does meatball night mean?
12:10Are you going to actually
12:11go to a restaurant
12:12and eat meatballs
12:12or are you going to like...
12:13It's just like a girly,
12:15fun night.
12:16Like, it's just where
12:17we can just act stupid
12:18and be in meatballs.
12:19Go to dinner,
12:20have a drink.
12:22Okay.
12:22And be...
12:22It's called
12:23a meatball night.
12:23One drink.
12:26Have a drink.
12:28Maria is my best friend
12:30on the island.
12:31Jonathan doesn't like
12:32when I go out with Maria
12:33because we like to drink.
12:36We like to be stupid.
12:38We like to randomly karaoke.
12:39We like to, like,
12:40climb palm trees
12:41and just do
12:42really harmless things.
12:45With that being said,
12:46if I'm being unrealistic
12:48about something
12:49that happened with Jonathan,
12:50Maria is always the one
12:51to reel me in
12:52and be like,
12:53don't put up with it.
12:54And I think that
12:56makes Jonathan a little nervous.
12:59I don't know
12:59where we're going
12:59to go to dinner yet.
13:00Maybe one of our
13:01go-to spots.
13:04Yeah, well,
13:05we'll find a spot
13:06where we can go to dinner.
13:08Well, I think
13:09me and Maria
13:10are just going to go to dinner
13:11and then...
13:12I'm not going to go?
13:14That's why
13:14it's a meatball night.
13:16Oh.
13:18We were going
13:18to invite you afterwards.
13:20Well, no,
13:22I don't want you
13:23to be, like,
13:24worried about it,
13:25you know?
13:26I know, but
13:26I have a lot of worries
13:27when Maria is here
13:29because when you guys
13:30get together,
13:30it's a real get-together,
13:32you know what I mean?
13:33You guys go all out.
13:36Yeah, but I think
13:37I've chilled out a lot.
13:39Maria,
13:39I met a few years back.
13:41We had the same friends,
13:42you know,
13:42we'd hang out sometimes.
13:44When I introduced Chloe,
13:45they clicked automatically.
13:47It was like the next day,
13:48Chloe was telling me,
13:48I'm going to hang out
13:49with Maria every day now.
13:51The thing about Maria
13:52is that she works abroad,
13:53so when she comes
13:54to Ruby,
13:55she only wants to look
13:55for a party,
13:57you know,
13:57and I don't like that at all.
14:00Now that, you know,
14:01you're living here
14:01on the island and stuff,
14:02this is a good opportunity
14:04for you to show me
14:05that you're mature
14:06and ready
14:07to really take
14:08a serious step.
14:10You know,
14:10I'm not going to go out
14:11and, you know,
14:12go dance on top of the bar
14:14and, you know,
14:15be crazy.
14:15Like, that's not something
14:16that's respectable
14:17from either of our parts.
14:18Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:20I just don't want you
14:21to want to change,
14:22like, so much about me
14:24to the point where, like,
14:25like, if you wouldn't put
14:26a ring on my finger today,
14:28in a sense,
14:28you're not in love with me.
14:29Like, you're in love
14:30with also an idea
14:31of what, like,
14:32the future can look like
14:34when you have to be
14:35okay with me now also.
14:37Okay.
14:37It's just, um,
14:42I'm used to you
14:43when you're going out
14:43and going heavy.
14:44You know what I mean?
14:45Right, and I think
14:46that's more vacation mode.
14:47Okay, so just,
14:48I want to see
14:49how this mode's going to be,
14:50okay?
14:51So this is the opportunity
14:52to show me, like,
14:52what kind of mode
14:53you're in, okay?
14:55Okay.
14:58I know Jonathan
14:59doesn't like
15:00that I like to go out
15:01and have drinks,
15:02but I feel like
15:03this is more of a test
15:04if I'm actually
15:05wife material or not.
15:06Now that we're
15:07talking about it
15:08more and more,
15:09I can't really tell
15:09if Jonathan wants this
15:10or not.
15:11I feel like he's
15:11throwing up all these
15:12little, little roadblocks
15:14and, like, high obstacles
15:15that I can't jump over
15:18to stall the process.
15:20You're going to let me
15:21live a little.
15:22Okay.
15:23Understood.
15:24Just don't go too crazy.
15:25Okay?
15:26You're not going to go
15:26too crazy.
15:27I'm still a little
15:28crazy.
15:29You are.
15:30Very crazy.
15:30I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:329.
15:32I wouldn't say that
15:33about you.
15:33What would you say
15:34about that?
15:3510.
15:36You're so bad.
15:49Searching for the star.
15:53Searching for the star.
15:58Will I find my way
16:00back home?
16:02Will I find my way
16:04back home?
16:05I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:13I was just kind of like spiraling about everything that happened.
16:22The other night I ended my engagement with Matthew
16:25and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
16:31made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:35And I am filled with immense sadness
16:40because an engagement is a promise,
16:42and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
16:48Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:54I feel really nervous about it
16:56because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
17:00It's going to be difficult because I know it's going to be emotional,
17:03but I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:12Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move and to join the family,
17:16and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:35Hi, Greta.
17:36Mark, how are you?
17:39I'm okay, how are you?
17:40I'm okay.
17:41I'm sorry.
17:43You have to be sorry, ma'am.
17:45I just thought we'd just catch up with each other
17:50because obviously a lot's happened,
17:53and I just want to try and find out where you are
17:57because I can't understand what's happened,
18:01and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:03Matthew's dad.
18:06Matthew's dad.
18:08I've never seen him like it, Greta,
18:10and I'm worried about him because he loves you.
18:15I know.
18:16He does, and you broke his heart, Greta, literally.
18:22That's, like, the worst part about it all,
18:24and that's why I was, like, struggling so much
18:26because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him
18:29because it's so difficult to explain.
18:35I did love him so much,
18:38and I was so excited to talk to him all the time.
18:40I was so excited to see him,
18:42and so I'm confused, like,
18:46why I don't, like, feel like I love him,
18:50like, in love with him.
18:51Is that because you've had so much happening
18:53in the last few months?
18:54You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
18:57Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:01I mean, I know that there was a shift
19:04because I felt like we were not evolving into people
19:08that were still compatible with each other,
19:11and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:18Like, he's a great person.
19:20Like, he, like, I respect him so much.
19:23He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:25Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:29He wonders whether you just need some time
19:31because you don't forget you've just travelled
19:33across halfway over the world.
19:35You've probably not slept properly.
19:37He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:39Yeah.
19:39What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:43You've not been on your own.
19:45So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done,
19:47and you say it is.
19:49But let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:52There's not been given a chance to go any further because...
19:55I know it seems, like, sudden,
19:58and I know this just sounds, like, crazy,
20:01but I just know it in my instinct, like, that...
20:04that, like, he's not my person.
20:09It's such a shame, you know?
20:10And, like, my honest truth,
20:13which, like, you can accept or not,
20:16I just, like, know I can't make him happy.
20:20And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys,
20:22and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
20:24Like, it really meant the world to me.
20:26Like, thank you, because...
20:28We loved you, Greta.
20:31Yeah.
20:31We really fought a lot of you.
20:33I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:42I don't think there's any hope for Matthew
20:44and Greta at this stage.
20:48I don't understand it.
20:49I can see she's rationalising it in her mind
20:52why she's doing it, and she's justifying it.
20:55But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:00Matthew's always loved you,
21:01and he always probably will for a long time.
21:03Still to come.
21:06Just wish I had a different ending.
21:08Yeah.
21:14I'm nerding my life.
21:16Take a dex of Breta.
21:20We're struggling to cross the finish line
21:23on us getting married,
21:24let alone starting a family together.
21:26I'm really so scared.
21:29We're...
21:30We're...
21:30We're...
21:30We're...
21:35I'm nerding my life.
22:00Take a dex for old pregnant.
22:05And I never think you're going to be like this.
22:15I'm scared of this.
22:17I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line
22:20on us getting married, let alone starting a family together.
22:35What do you want to be?
22:47Honestly, I think like right now, the right time for us to have a baby, probably not.
22:55But it's something that I want with you.
22:57You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children because I love you.
23:05And I think that you would be a very good mom.
23:08Whether it's now or in five years, it's not going to change how I feel.
23:20What does this mean?
23:25Usually, this says pregnant or not pregnant, a smile or a sad face or something.
23:30This says one line.
23:31What does one line mean?
23:35Negative.
23:36This is negative?
23:38That is the result.
23:47But you should be crying.
23:48You don't cry.
23:49That you're negative or positive?
23:52Negative.
23:53It doesn't change how I feel.
23:57I love you and I want this relationship to work.
24:01Yeah, me too, but in the same way, I don't trust you in anything and I'm really so scared.
24:09I just want you to be happy.
24:13And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:16I try really hard and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:20You try so hard.
24:21But what about the conversation today?
24:28This is going to be my name.
24:31Okay.
24:46I don't care about money.
24:49I don't care about money other than the fact that.
24:57You don't?
24:58Other than you.
24:59Every single day mention money.
25:01Every single day mention,
25:02no, you don't push any money in this project.
25:06You don't pay anything.
25:07You never bother me.
25:09I value everything that you do.
25:12But the fact of the matter is,
25:14I try as much as I can to provide for you.
25:18And if you would let me be a man
25:21and make manly decisions,
25:24I'd really appreciate it.
25:26I don't ask much of you.
25:29Just let me do what I need to do
25:32to make our dreams a reality.
25:49I know I am not perfect.
25:51I know I am a difficult person.
25:52And I know I have so many things to deal with.
25:56But I just love everything you've been doing for me.
26:02But at the end of the day,
26:03I really love you, Luke.
26:06I know you do.
26:10And I love you more.
26:12One of my biggest problems in this relationship
26:19is always he show me I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:24So I really push so hard to push my name on, like, the property.
26:31Because I don't know if in the future
26:33he's going to have to change the woman or change me.
26:35And what are they going to have to do?
26:38But when I tell him,
26:40maybe I think I get pregnant,
26:42and he reaction, like,
26:43no, I really want a family with you.
26:45It may make me more comfortable
26:47about everything's going to be good.
26:50And I need to trust him.
26:51I just want you to be happy.
26:57And I'd like for us to be happy together.
26:59It's not the first night we met.
27:16I know.
27:17Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:19Absolutely.
27:20If I'm being honest after being here,
27:22sometimes I miss it.
27:23I want to go back home for, like, six months
27:28and dance that deck off.
27:30You only just got here.
27:47Wow.
27:48Wow.
27:49Oh, this is how you do it like a bro.
27:53All righty.
28:00Look at that.
28:03I've been here a couple of weeks,
28:05and I've been complaining
28:06about how there's nothing to do here.
28:07But tonight, Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
28:13I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:15I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:19There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
28:21Something that's open past 10.
28:23OMG.
28:34Do you think you can do that?
28:36Definitely not.
28:40I feel like this is even like the first night we met.
28:42I know, right?
28:43Except you're wearing a little bit less
28:44than what you're wearing now.
28:46And no more clothing.
28:47Yeah.
28:48This is awesome.
28:50It's a great club.
28:51G'day, g'day.
28:53Hey, beautiful.
28:54Oh, my God.
28:54She's hot.
28:56She's definitely good with the pole.
28:59You're loving this, aren't you?
29:02I do.
29:02Giving your elements.
29:03This is the happiest I've seen you
29:05since we got here.
29:06Shut up.
29:06Seriously.
29:07Shut up.
29:08I have everything we've done.
29:09Yeah.
29:10You know why I love it?
29:11Why?
29:12Tell me.
29:12This is my life.
29:13I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:14It's like my second home.
29:17You know what it's like to perform.
29:18I love it.
29:19You feel good.
29:19Yes.
29:19You get all the, you know,
29:20the compliments is awesome.
29:23It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:24Yes, exactly.
29:27Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:28Absolutely.
29:29Why?
29:30Well, even though, you know,
29:33you were happy doing it
29:34and it lit you up,
29:35it's still not my favorite thought
29:37to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:40It's not my favorite thing.
29:42But you know it's just work.
29:45Yeah, I'd rather you do a different job.
29:49I get that he doesn't like me
29:51being around other men,
29:52but it's just a job
29:53and the money is fantastic.
29:55And if I'm being honest after being here,
29:58sometimes I miss it.
30:00It's going to be hard for me
30:01not making this kind of money, you know?
30:05I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:08Yeah?
30:11It scares me sometimes.
30:13I'm just going to have to look at, you know,
30:15some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:18You know, all the online shopping
30:20and the excessive spending,
30:22that's going to have to stop.
30:25Do you worry about the financial stuff?
30:27You're worried about the money,
30:28the debt.
30:30So,
30:31I just think
30:33I want to go back to the States,
30:36home for like six months
30:38and dance that debt off.
30:41Then you won't have to worry about paying that off.
30:43It would be okay with that.
30:46I don't like that thought, love.
30:48You only just got here
30:50and you're talking about leaving
30:51and going back to dancing.
30:52To be honest,
30:53I know that
30:54it's fun for you
30:56and
30:56I dance too.
30:59But like,
31:00I don't dance in a champagne room
31:02with just me and another person.
31:05No.
31:06I work with another girl.
31:07I'm up on stage.
31:07But I work with another girl.
31:08It's always me and another girl.
31:10Sometimes you don't.
31:11But the thing is...
31:1190% of the time, maybe.
31:13Okay, well, 10% you don't.
31:15Very rare.
31:16It's like,
31:16it bothers me a little bit.
31:18Sorry.
31:21Even though, you know,
31:22we're both strippers,
31:23it's a very sensitive topic
31:26and makes me look like a hypocrite.
31:28But I feel like it is different in a way.
31:32I'm up on stage
31:33with a room full of women.
31:35But with Patia's,
31:37she goes out,
31:38she finds a guy
31:39and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
31:42I know they're both entertainment,
31:44they're both stripping,
31:45it's both a transaction,
31:47but they're two different things.
31:49And so,
31:50I don't like the thought of Patia
31:51going back to dancing.
31:53It kind of feels like an excuse
31:54just to leave Tasmania.
31:56It's like,
31:57this place sucks,
31:58it's too quiet,
31:59I don't want to be near your family,
32:00so I'll just go back and dance in the U.S.
32:04Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:07Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:10I just sometimes don't think
32:11that I'm enough for you.
32:12You are enough.
32:13I know that I'm enough,
32:15but sometimes I think
32:17that you're addicted to that lifestyle,
32:19that easy, fast money,
32:21and that's kind of what I'm scared of
32:22because I retired you in Thailand
32:25and you were just completely bored.
32:28I was bored.
32:28All you talked about the whole time
32:30was going back to dancing.
32:31I did, I did.
32:32I thought I was going to get a ring there
32:34and you didn't give it to me
32:35and I was like,
32:35you know what,
32:36what's the point?
32:37I'm done.
32:38If you really love me,
32:40you should just stick by my side
32:41no matter what.
32:45Listen,
32:45part of our problem in the past
32:47was because you didn't want to commit.
32:49So once you get a ring,
32:50like everything's magically going to change,
32:53you're going to become...
32:53It's not going to magically change.
32:55It's going to make me feel better.
32:58It's hard to commit to you
33:00if you can't commit to us being together.
33:03Hey, I want to commit to us being together.
33:06I love you.
33:06You're not committing.
33:07You're just like running off to dancing already.
33:09Put a ring on it.
33:11I want this to work,
33:14but Patea's saying
33:16she wants to go back to the US.
33:18Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind
33:21because she left me.
33:24If things get tough,
33:25is Patea just going to leave?
33:28I just want to know
33:29that you're going to stick by me
33:31no matter what.
33:37You marrying him is the worst idea.
33:41you've probably ever had.
33:42Before, it looked so bad.
33:44Still is.
33:46In the year that they've been together,
33:48I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:50Probably every week.
33:51Don't hit me with your car.
34:14Please.
34:17Or do.
34:19Bye.
34:20I love you.
34:23Girls night.
34:24Girls night.
34:30Hi.
34:33My best friend Maria
34:34is finally back in town
34:35and we're going to get dinner
34:36with our other friend Kamilah
34:37and I'm so excited
34:38to just have some girl time.
34:40How are you, Pookie?
34:42You look fabulous.
34:43Oh, Pookie, too.
34:44They are my go-to girls
34:46to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:48They know everything
34:49from the highest high
34:50to, like, the lowest low.
34:53Did you guys get wine?
34:54Did you order anything?
34:55I'm not sure.
34:56We're already starting
34:56with tequila.
34:57Yeah.
34:58Oh.
34:58Between my mom
34:59cutting me off financially
35:01and everything that's going
35:02on with Jonathan,
35:03I think we have a lot
35:05to catch up on.
35:06I actually haven't seen you.
35:07This is so funny.
35:08And the last time I saw you...
35:09I barely saw you.
35:10You were six, so I...
35:12And then my phone broke.
35:13I got a new phone.
35:14Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:15No.
35:16Oh, wow.
35:17Haven't gone that far.
35:18I got a plan with my mom now
35:20instead of my, like, own
35:21because she has the business one
35:23so I can, like, internationally...
35:24Oh, I have the same.
35:25Roam it up.
35:26I have the same, yeah.
35:27But my mom said, you know,
35:29I'm not going to keep, you know,
35:31financing your journey.
35:34She was like, I'm not.
35:35Like, which is understandable.
35:37But now, it's like,
35:39if my mom's not going to help me out,
35:42we can't keep going to dinner
35:43every single night
35:44like we were when I was here,
35:46which is thousands and thousands
35:48of dollars at this point.
35:50Can Jonathan give you that?
35:53No.
35:53He can't give me...
35:55He cannot give me the financial aspect
35:56that I'm used to.
35:57He can't.
35:58No.
35:59And he knows that.
36:00It's going to be a lot harder.
36:02Are you willing to risk that?
36:05It's a lot.
36:06It's going to take a lot of work.
36:08I'm okay with that.
36:10I want to do that
36:11because I know at the end of the day,
36:12like, I do want to be happy with him.
36:15I want us to work.
36:16How long has it been?
36:17Not even a year or a year?
36:19It's been a year almost now.
36:21I have love goggles on.
36:22It's going to be a year.
36:24You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:26I wish I could rip him off your face.
36:30I want us to work.
36:32I want to build something together.
36:34I want a work permit.
36:36So we went to our first appointment
36:38with an immigration lawyer.
36:39What happened?
36:40The easiest way for me to be legal
36:45is to get married.
36:54Do you want to marry him?
36:55I do.
36:56I really do.
36:59Chloe, no.
37:00You marrying him is the worst idea
37:05you've probably ever had in your life.
37:08You see yourself long-term
37:10settling down with him.
37:11But you find out about a random girl
37:13every single week.
37:14He wants a relationship
37:16while he's out cheating.
37:19I remember that day
37:20that we were at Clubhouse
37:23and he said he was at work all day
37:24and his coworkers were like,
37:26Jonathan didn't work today.
37:27It wasn't his location
37:30at Jolly Pirate
37:31because Kainer has his phone.
37:33Because Kainer has his phone.
37:35And Clubhouse is there.
37:38There's definitely been
37:39a few other times
37:40where I've questioned
37:41where Jonathan was,
37:43what he was doing,
37:44where I thought something was going on.
37:46But a lot of the times
37:47I couldn't prove it.
37:49So I understand their side.
37:51But I feel like
37:52since I've been here
37:53that Jonathan is being faithful.
37:56I feel like
37:56before it looked so bad.
38:00Like it was bad.
38:01Before.
38:02You see, you're making
38:03an excuse for him again.
38:05I don't want to make...
38:06No.
38:07It was bad.
38:08Still is.
38:09I think we're moving
38:11in a better direction.
38:13Like I think we've had growth,
38:15but no.
38:16Like our...
38:17So he has been cheating?
38:19Lately, no.
38:20What's changed?
38:22I mean...
38:23Is he just lying better?
38:24I don't know.
38:26Chloe has talked about
38:28marrying Johnny before,
38:29but I never thought
38:31it was actually serious
38:32because everybody on the island
38:34knows that Johnny
38:35has a reputation
38:37with girls.
38:38He's proud to have
38:39a lot of girls on him.
38:40I think it feeds his ego.
38:43In the year
38:43that they've been together,
38:44I think Johnny
38:45has cheated on her.
38:46Probably every week.
38:48You know what he's doing.
38:50You know what he's doing.
38:51You know, like...
38:52Are you willing
38:54to put up with that?
38:55Is this...
38:56I know.
38:56Right.
38:57So this is the person
38:58you want to marry.
39:00What I am baffled about
39:02is that you're just okay
39:03with what he says.
39:05Okay.
39:06I love you.
39:07I want to marry you.
39:09How about you don't
39:09cheat on me?
39:10What would it take
39:13for you to be like,
39:15okay, actually,
39:16I'm going to take
39:17my best friend's advice,
39:18my mom's advice,
39:19everybody else's advice
39:20that this is a bad idea.
39:23If something were to happen,
39:24I would pack my
39:26so fast.
39:28Just prepare yourself.
39:29That's all I'm saying.
39:37Next time on
39:3890 Day Fiance,
39:39The Other Way.
39:40We're going to play.
39:41We're going to play.
39:42Even if you work a lot,
39:43you have to take time
39:45for your time.
39:46Hearing from Anthony
39:47and from my mother,
39:49you focus too much
39:50on career.
39:51The thing is like,
39:52we still need to provide
39:53and pay the bills.
39:54We're not rich.
39:55But we never know
39:56if you continue
39:57in this rhythm.
39:58You can say it again.
40:00There's a lot of things
40:00with your child.
40:04How are you doing?
40:05Good.
40:06This is Madeline.
40:07Hi, Madeline.
40:08Madeline,
40:09calling the wedding off
40:10three, four times.
40:11I mean,
40:11that's not a very good
40:12indicator going into a marriage.
40:16You're going to be marrying
40:16my son,
40:17but the two weeks
40:18that he's been here,
40:20it's a f***ing turn.
40:20Is this really what you want?
40:26You haven't really changed
40:27doing what you do.
40:29You're going to do anything.
40:30It's just a matter of time
40:32until he just does it again.
40:33Like, it's a habit.
40:34You didn't physically do anything.
40:36Exactly.
40:36You should not have
40:37messaged another girl.
40:39I didn't have messaged another girl.
40:41I'm not getting into this.
40:43I just feel like
40:47it's one thing
40:48after another.
40:49Your mom is complaining
40:50about how I do things.
40:53I can't live like this.
40:54I knew that it's going
40:55to be hard for Jenny
40:56because my mom
40:57has a list of expectations
40:59for everybody in the house.
41:02I can't take this anymore.
41:08There's no making
41:10this woman happy.
41:14Someone needs to put her
41:15in her place.
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