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00:00My man, when I was married to him, I even wrote a book about it.
00:04And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners.
00:09Oh, they kiss them too.
00:11In the act.
00:12Motherf***ing.
00:12You are audience people, yo.
00:14How many f***ing cameras are in this room?
00:16Oh my f***ing sonny.
00:18Together with my relationship expert.
00:21He will never value you unless he fears losing you.
00:27And stealthy investigation team.
00:30F***ing who's he talking to?
00:32We won't stop until we find the truth.
00:35Oh, f***ing coming out the window.
00:38Do you in fact want to see what I have to show you today?
00:41Once our investigation is complete, the suspicious lover can team up with the partner's other lover.
00:46He's trying to get me to move my whole family up here.
00:49And he having sex with you.
00:50This is ridiculous.
00:52Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
00:55What the hell is Tammy Roman doing?
00:57I came to find out what y'all was doing.
01:00Cheaters, beware.
01:03You stupid piece of f***.
01:05This is why it doesn't work.
01:07You're communicating like a tyrant.
01:09Oh, f***.
01:10Oh, f***.
01:12Bitch, f***.
01:13I can't take it no more.
01:15Listen to me.
01:16I can't f***.
01:17Take it.
01:18You got me f***ed up, bro.
01:19Both of y'all are acting crazy.
01:23You should be having that energy towards the man playing.
01:27Y'all.
01:28This is Caught in the Act Unfaithful.
01:32Got more gain than a little bit.
01:38Running these plays for the fill of it.
01:40And we show up and we never quit.
01:43That's the definition of true grit.
01:45Hello there, Ava.
01:47Hi, how are you?
01:48I'm loving your finger wave.
01:49Appreciate it.
01:50How are you feeling?
01:52I'm struggling right now.
01:54I'm not supposed to be here.
01:55At all.
01:56I'm not supposed to be here, but I need you.
01:58Okay.
01:59Well, I know you're nervous.
02:02I would like to get you to relax.
02:04Because you probably do need my help.
02:06Yes, I do need your help.
02:07Okay.
02:08So, the woman sitting in front of me has lived a life.
02:14And I'd like to hear about it.
02:17Tell me about your upbringing a little bit.
02:20My mom was a hardworking woman.
02:22And she held it down.
02:24Okay.
02:25Oldest out of five.
02:26So, I had that responsibility as a child to help, you know, clean, cook, make sure everything was together.
02:31I was that person.
02:33I say to people, my mom wasn't there.
02:35Not meaning she wasn't around, she didn't take care of me.
02:39She wasn't there because she worked three jobs to take care of me.
02:41Yes.
02:42Because she's all I know.
02:44We were very close.
02:45And I kept something hidden from her.
02:49I like girls.
02:51So, my mom, she was like, you like girls?
02:55I was like, yes, I do.
02:57And then she brought the Bible out.
02:59And after everything was said and done, I felt less than.
03:03I needed her support.
03:04I needed her support.
03:06I needed her support.
03:06I needed her to let me know it was okay.
03:07That I would be, it's okay to be different.
03:10Okay.
03:10That's what I needed to hear.
03:11It's okay to be different.
03:12You needed her to love.
03:15Kind of like.
03:16A little strength.
03:16A little strength.
03:17Okay.
03:18Until I got a call.
03:20My sister told me that my mom was sick.
03:23And that she's been holding God for four years.
03:26Wow.
03:27When I heard it, I just lost his day.
03:29You know what I mean?
03:29And I was mad at my mom.
03:30You held this day for four years?
03:32She was just like, I did it because I didn't want y'all to know.
03:36And then now to see her deteriorating.
03:39It's hard.
03:40It's so hard.
03:41And that's why I go so hard now for her.
03:44And hopefully there's reciprocity in that.
03:47That your mother is showing you that she loves you too.
03:50She is.
03:51She's showing me that she loves you.
03:52She appreciates me.
03:53She let me know every day.
03:53Ava, thank you.
03:55I get it.
03:56I get it.
03:57Trust me.
03:57I get it.
03:58So what's going on in the relationship?
04:01Maria.
04:03Oh, that smile is big about Maria.
04:05Maria.
04:06Maria.
04:06Maria.
04:07Maria.
04:07How did you meet Maria?
04:09At a fitness convention.
04:11Um, I was actually doing inventories, you know?
04:13And she heard my voice.
04:14It just resonated with her.
04:15It's like, okay, who is this?
04:16Okay.
04:17You know what I mean?
04:17So she came to me and, like, she had this beautiful black curly hair, green eyes.
04:23And she approached me and she was like, what's your name?
04:26You know, we exchanged numbers.
04:28So that's how that happened.
04:30Ever since then.
04:31Now you said it was a fitness convention.
04:33Yeah, it was a fitness convention.
04:34Is that what you do for a living?
04:35Yes, I'm a fitness trainer.
04:37Okay.
04:37Yes.
04:38Okay, now that explains.
04:39Yes.
04:40Yes, I am.
04:41Okay, got it.
04:41And she's a fitness influencer.
04:43How does it go from the fitness convention to y'all actually spending time together?
04:49We had a couple dates.
04:50And the couple dates were great.
04:52We talked on the phone for hours.
04:53And then I ended up moving in with her in a couple weeks.
04:57But she heard me because I've never been heard.
05:00Okay.
05:01So her listening to me was like a breath of fresh air.
05:06So four months into it, she proposed.
05:09That was quick.
05:10Yeah, I know.
05:10And I'm like, okay, you know.
05:12So it made me love her.
05:13I mean, I love her.
05:15See?
05:15That we've been fiancée.
05:16From when she proposed.
05:17I mean, fiancée, yes, when she proposed.
05:18And, okay.
05:19That's a long time.
05:20I know.
05:21I know.
05:23But it's definitely going to happen.
05:26Okay.
05:27And I remember one time when I was a little younger, I asked my mom, hey, mom, would
05:31you come to my wedding?
05:32She said, absolutely not.
05:34But my mom liked Maria a lot.
05:38When I asked her again, she's coming to the wedding.
05:40Hey, baby, neighbor.
05:42So what the hell's the problem?
05:44Oh, man.
05:45All right.
05:46So she takes phone calls.
05:48Okay.
05:49Outside now.
05:50Okay.
05:51And she used to didn't do that because she used to, you know, take it in front of me.
05:54Yeah.
05:54Because everything up until then was fine.
05:56Yes, it was.
05:57Y'all lived together.
05:58There's been no arguments.
06:00No.
06:00There's been no infidelity.
06:01None.
06:01And then out the blue now.
06:04Yes.
06:05Maria's got to step outside and take calls.
06:07She got to step outside the calls.
06:07Yes.
06:08Also, you know, another bread flag that I've seen is I found the boarding pass.
06:13I found that I was cleaning the room and I found it in the drawer.
06:16I thought that was weird.
06:17She was like, oh, I'm just going to do a convention.
06:20I was like, I didn't know about this convention.
06:22So me being me, what do you think I did?
06:24I went to go Google it to see if it was.
06:26And girl, did you know it was no convention?
06:29She going to tell me, oh, you got to look at the wrong one or whatever.
06:33And I'm just me being a people pleaser.
06:35I let it go out one ear after other.
06:37And I didn't revisit the moment again.
06:38That's not a people pleaser, though.
06:40That's you having an issue with avoidance.
06:43Yeah.
06:45Right now, I'm just at a loss.
06:48Okay.
06:48What else?
06:49Um, planning of having a child because I don't know how much time I have with my mother.
06:55You know, so I want to give her that.
06:56So I went to the clinic and I found out that I could not have kids.
07:03Oh, my God.
07:03That I could not bear.
07:04It just took a toll on me.
07:06Mm-hmm.
07:06And so Rhea is supposed to have the baby.
07:09Okay.
07:10So when we talked about that, she agreed.
07:13And now she's backing out?
07:15Yes.
07:16She doesn't want to do it.
07:17Maybe that's these.
07:18I don't know if she got scary feet.
07:20It's just my whole life will be f***ed up if I find out that she's doing some crazy s***.
07:27Because I love Maria.
07:28And for my mom to love her, too.
07:31That lets me know that this has to be right.
07:34Mm-hmm.
07:35I'm going to do my best for you.
07:38As we go through this process, I want you to keep your eyes wide, open, and not shut.
07:46Okay.
07:46You can't continue to make excuses for poor behavior.
07:50You deserve more, okay?
07:53Now, can I put cameras in the house?
07:55Yes, you can.
07:56And then I will call you once they send everything to me.
08:00Okay.
08:02We got a big easel with a bigger attitude.
08:04Moving on up with your face.
08:07All right.
08:09All right.
08:09We got a brand new case from Tammy.
08:11We got out here yesterday.
08:13We rigged the house up with three covert cameras.
08:15And we're going to see what's going on inside this morning.
08:18We're going to see what's going on inside this morning.
08:48Give me the stats.
08:49Give me the fame.
08:50Give me the plaques.
08:50I got to eat.
08:51Give me the fat.
08:52Scraping a plate.
08:53Even a scrap.
08:54Get it by any means.
08:55We about to make a scene.
08:58We followed Maria to the gym.
09:01I'm going to go ahead and grab my water bottle.
09:04There's a camera right behind here.
09:06What I'm going to do is going in like I'm ready to go work out.
09:16What's up?
09:17What's up?
09:18I give it to her.
09:40Maria got charmed.
09:41But right now, I can't say that.
09:43She's a cheater, but she is a flirter.
09:50She's leaving the gym now.
09:52We're in some type of neighborhood about an hour away from her house.
10:12Maybe she's going for a business meeting.
10:14She's got a bag in her hand, so it could be her product that she's trying to sell.
10:27Oh, is this her?
10:30It sure is.
10:31It's her.
10:32She done changed.
10:33Oh, damn.
10:33Who else is this to know you to come to take a shower?
10:37It looks like we're going back to her house.
11:01She's going to come all the way back home.
11:05Hey.
11:07Hey, Max.
11:08How are you?
11:10How was the workout?
11:11It's great.
11:12I actually met with one of you.
11:14Ended up taking this out.
11:16You know what I'm saying?
11:17This chick just lying.
11:19I'm about to go and see my mom.
11:21Are you cool with me?
11:22Damn.
11:41When she's shutting the house down, the house is going dark, so that tells me that she's in for the night.
11:47Just can't put my finger on it just yet.
11:50But there's some lies that's going on that I'm going to have to expose.
11:55Yeah.
11:57I'm coming home.
11:58Been away too long.
12:00Say ain't never safe home.
12:02And the kids all grown.
12:03But I'm coming home.
12:05You know it's been so long.
12:07Say ain't never safe home.
12:09And the kids all grown.
12:10All right, we back out here on day two.
12:11We're going to see what Maria's doing inside the house.
12:14Because we started from nothing.
12:19Had to keep up the hustling.
12:22All right.
12:23Here you go, Maria.
12:25We are on the move again.
12:27Why are we pulling into a furniture store?
12:44Who the hell is this?
12:45I want to get in there and see exactly what's going on, what's being said, and who the hell this girl is.
12:53I'm going to wear a button cam.
12:54This is my camera right in there with a microphone.
12:57I'm going to wear a button cam.
13:27Trying to look away, but you can't resist.
13:30You don't want to play with me like a star check.
13:33Thank you for coming in, Ava.
13:36This gentleman is Coach Ken.
13:38Great to meet you.
13:39Have a seat over there, my love.
13:42When people see the things that I have to show them, sometimes they don't like it so much.
13:47And he's here to help you process some of those emotions in the event that happens with you here today.
13:52Now we're going to dive into business.
13:54Before I show you what I have to show you, I want to make sure that you do, in fact, want to see it.
14:01I'd like to see it.
14:03Good.
14:04Let's get started.
14:05This is our first day of surveillance at your home.
14:10Maria comes out, gets in the car, and so naturally we pick up surveillance by following her.
14:15Okay.
14:15Maria does end up at the gym.
14:20We head inside with our hidden cameras.
14:23What's up?
14:25Check this.
14:27I'm going to call you later.
14:28Yeah, please do.
14:29I will say when people are in customer service oriented positions, they are very friendly.
14:38She's a flirtatious girl.
14:39She is flirtatious.
14:40But once Maria left the gym, she ended up at this location.
14:45Yeah, I have, I don't know whose house this is.
14:47Okay.
14:48Nice little community though.
14:49She's all right.
14:50Well, Maria ended up staying all day into the night.
14:57Into the night?
14:57Came out in a different outfit.
14:59She sure did.
15:00So clearly this is a location where she showered, changed clothes.
15:06You're trying to make me mad.
15:07No, I'm just saying we're looking at what's in front of us.
15:11And she does end up back at home.
15:13She's obviously lying.
15:20Wow.
15:22Lying out her
15:23Well, there you are leaving by yourself.
15:33Like my mom is like sick.
15:36And has she always given resistance towards that?
15:39For over like about a year, you know, her being inconsistent.
15:42Her, right.
15:44Um, but I've, I've been giving her the benefit of the doubt.
15:47Right.
15:47Um, I just kind of let it go.
15:50In other words, keeping you at arm's length for some reason.
15:54And she's obviously lying.
15:56Let's go to the next day of surveillance.
16:00You're with mommy.
16:01We follow her.
16:03And she ends up at this furniture store, Ava.
16:05She meets this woman in front.
16:08Oh.
16:09Do you know who that is?
16:10I don't know who the f*** that is.
16:11Okay.
16:12I found out her name was...
16:14$4,500?
16:21For the couch.
16:22She ain't about to get that couch.
16:28Damn.
16:29Did she just kiss this bitch?
16:30Mm-hmm.
16:31In public, though.
16:32Like, we're talking about this is in public.
16:33Oh, my God.
16:35What the f***?
16:36Bro.
16:50$4,500 for the mother f***ed couch.
16:52That could have went for the IVF.
16:53Yeah.
16:54You know what I mean?
16:54Mm-hmm.
16:55Well, I've got more to show you.
16:59After the furniture store, we follow her, and she comes home.
17:04She real cozy.
17:05You know what?
17:06I can't get home to get the f***ed.
17:07You trying to come here?
17:09Not to my mother f***ed house.
17:11Uh, my cousin actually.
17:14I'm her f***ing cousin?
17:15Oh, that bitch got me f***ed up.
17:17I'll meet you later.
17:18Okay.
17:19I love you.
17:20Wait a second.
17:21I love you.
17:22I'm no shame about to have this f***ed over my arse.
17:25That picture was of you.
17:27Oh, that's of us.
17:28Uh-huh.
17:28And then Jess pulls up.
17:34Jess missed because.
17:35Jess missed because.
17:39So she's been on that.
17:40She's been watching.
17:41This is not the first time.
17:42I'm making sure you're catching it all.
17:44She's breaking something.
17:46She's breaking something.
17:47She's breaking something.
17:51Okay.
17:52And imagine if there was kids.
17:54I think it's okay.
17:57You do only a little.
17:59Shit, shut the f***.
18:01Bro.
18:03Bro.
18:04Oh, my God.
18:04Oh, my God.
18:05Oh, my God.
18:05Oh, my God.
18:06Oh, my God.
18:07And then they go into the bedroom of course where you know we do not have cameras
18:17She's doing this
18:20Exactly
18:22It is to see that she doesn't really want kids. It's like
18:26whoo, I
18:28Don't know how much more time that I have come out with my mom
18:30So having a family is very imperative to me after you already told me that this is what you want it to
18:35For me to hear it like this
18:38Can I tell you what's really going on?
18:41You've always wanted to live up to what your mom wanted you to be
18:45Haven't you? Yeah, having this child would be yeah
18:50Living up to that that thing my mom was yes
18:53Yes, that'll make her happy, you know? Yeah, what you've been doing is called disappointed child syndrome
19:00When a person wants to live up to the expectation of
19:03their parents or somebody and they feel like they've fallen short and they keep trying and now you've come to this one thing that mom
19:14wants
19:15But the truth is mom loves you even if you don't give mom that child
19:21She won't love you any less and you will not have done any less
19:24What you are and who you are is enough
19:27Can I tell you something Ava?
19:32Can I tell you something Ava?
19:35My mother passed away of liver cancer
19:38My entire life was all about I need to make my mom proud come find out. She just wanted me to be by her side
19:47To see her through to the end of her days. I know what you're going through
19:52But the most important thing you can give her right now like coach Ken said is she
20:03So what you want to do
20:07In this moment the young lady Jess we don't know anything about her
20:12We do know that maria got her thinking you hook us
20:17Okay, so she may not have the full picture either, right?
20:22There's something that we have called a team up and
20:27That is where I will take you to meet with Jess
20:30The two of you can go to confront Maria together
20:35Okay
20:37Let's go. I'll do that, okay
20:52My investigative team has informed me that Jess is at a fitness studio, so we're gonna take you over there now
21:08We are here where Jess is
21:11We weren't able to put cameras inside because it's a business establishment the minute she steps outside
21:17You're free to go and have a conversation with her. So how about we turn on these monitors and take a look
21:22All right
21:33That's that's her
21:35Hold on let me help you guys
21:36Okay, come on, come on, come on
21:42She got a friend
21:44Excuse me
21:45What the f*** is a man?
21:46I gotta talk to you for a second
21:48I just want to talk to you for a second. You don't got to hear who the f*** are you?
21:51How do you know Maria?
21:52What do you mean how do I know Maria?
21:53How do you know Maria?
21:54What's it to you?
21:55I'm asking you this right now
21:56What is it to you?
21:57Because she's my fiancée
21:58No the f*** she has s***
22:05How do you know Maria?
22:06What's it to you, wife?
22:07I'm her fiancée, so I want to know who you are
22:09You want f***ing, you want to know who you're trippin'
22:11I'm not trippin'
22:11I'm a drug f***ing
22:12You're not gonna talk to Ava like this
22:14Listen, how long have you been doing-
22:18You're coming all up with the f***ing capital
22:19You're not gonna let me tell you to answer your question
22:21Hi, how are you?
22:22I mean, I was doing good until all of this
22:25Okay, so let me explain to you what's going on today
22:28My name is Tammy Roman
22:30This is a show called Caught in the Act Unfaithful
22:32Ava came to see me because she thought there was some infidelity in her relationship with Maria
22:37Her relationship?
22:39Yes, we put Maria under surveillance
22:41And found out that Maria was actually in a relationship with you
22:47So she wanted to come and have a conversation with you
22:49Not a confrontation
22:51Exactly
22:51A conversation
22:52We're grown
22:53We're grown
22:54So are you able to do that with us?
22:57I just need to know what's going on
22:58Oh yes, people have to take measures sometimes when they're not getting honesty from their partner
23:03And that's exactly what's happening with Ava
23:05Now Ava's been in a relationship with Maria for about four years
23:08They're engaged
23:09How long have you been with Maria?
23:14We've been together two years
23:16Two years?
23:17As Maria promised you
23:18We're literally about to buy a house together
23:20I don't even know who the f*** you are
23:23She lives with her
23:23That's me
23:24She told me
23:25Yes, I want to let you, not the cousin
23:27But that's what she's telling you that Ava is
23:29And we put cameras in the house
23:31So everything you're saying we know to be true
23:33Cameras in the house?
23:34Yeah
23:34What?
23:35Yes
23:36We're about to have a home bag
23:37I don't f*** know you
23:38Okay, that's funny
23:39That's cute
23:40That's cute
23:40Okay, come over there
23:41So I can talk to Jess
23:43So I can talk to Jess
23:44Take Ava over there
23:45Jess
23:46I need a breather
23:47This is like a lot for me
23:48Take a breath
23:49I want you to understand one thing
23:51You're telling the truth
23:53Everything that you're saying to me
23:55I watched with my own eyes
23:58But I also believe Ava
24:00I think that y'all are arguing
24:02And Maria is the person who's been lying to both of you
24:05It's okay if you still want to be with Maria
24:08But I think you owe it to yourself to ask Maria what's true and what's not
24:13She's over here talking about like that they're going to have a baby
24:15Like we don't even want kids
24:17So there's no way that that's even true
24:18That was the first time she was hearing
24:20That's the first time I'm hearing anything about kids
24:21Because Maria was actually supposed to carry the baby
24:24You're lying
24:26I'm not
24:27Two years she's been lying to you
24:31Now she's making her promises
24:33Just like she's making you promises
24:35The same promises
24:36Same promises
24:37Talking about the future
24:38I just want to talk
24:40I just want to talk
24:41You saying all this and that
24:43You trying to claim everything
24:44Believe it
24:44I need some receipts
24:45I need to know
24:46Listen, listen
24:47Maria still thinks that Ava is out of town visiting her mom
24:53We still have cameras inside your house
24:57So this is what I'm thinking
24:58You set it up with Maria to go visit her
25:03We'll be able to watch y'all's interaction
25:06Then Ava will pop up
25:09And then we can get to the bottom of things
25:12I think that sounds good
25:13That's what I'm thinking
25:14You agree, Jess?
25:17You cool with that?
25:18I think that's the only way it has to be, Jess
25:20For you to get the truth
25:21For you to know that Maria
25:22Definitively loves you
25:24And does not want to be with Ava
25:26So you
25:28Call Maria and get on over to the house
25:30We're going to get back in the van
25:32And meet her over there
25:33All right, okay
25:34We're going to do this
25:35We're going to do it
25:35We're going to do it
25:36You can run
25:37You can hide
25:38But I can see
25:40Through your disguise
25:41Don't be a liar
25:43I know you want to shut up fire
25:47Jess just doesn't want to believe
25:51Anything other than what Maria has told her
25:55Which is very similar to you
25:58Very much to me
26:00You're about to leave me to go moving with her
26:02Like how, you know what I'm saying?
26:03So I have questions for Maria
26:04How is she going to continue this?
26:06Exactly
26:07And she says, look
26:12I was just playing with the little girl
26:13I really love you
26:15I really want to be with you
26:18It's going to have
26:19It's going to take
26:20I feel like it's going to take a lot of time
26:21I don't trust her
26:22You know what I mean?
26:23That trust has really went out the window
26:24Like what's your ultimate?
26:26Like what are you about to do?
26:27You know what I mean?
26:27Like what
26:28Really what is it I want to do?
26:29Honestly
26:29You know what I'm saying?
26:31F*** her
26:31Is really what I want to do?
26:33You know what I'm saying?
26:34Well
26:34We can't make the decisions for you
26:36What you decide to do
26:38And hopefully whatever you decide
26:40Really is what you want to do in your heart
26:43Liar, liar
26:48And I want to try to fly
26:51Okay
26:53So we are here
26:54So they are inside
26:55Now as you know
26:57We still have the cameras in your home
26:59So once I turn on these monitors
27:01We'll be able to see
27:02What they're doing inside
27:04Okay
27:05When you get ready to go have the conversation
27:07You do just that
27:10And should we need to step in
27:11We will
27:12Okay
27:12Okay
27:13Yes
27:13So let's see what they got going on in this house
27:17Girl
27:17I'm trying to take a new picture
27:19So what we want
27:20I'm thinking
27:22Yeah
27:22I even still have that video
27:25We're getting down
27:27There could be more
27:29All right
27:30Okay
27:31Yeah
27:32Yeah
27:32Yeah
27:33Let me let you out
27:34For real
27:45This what we're doing
27:47Who is this
27:48What the is going on
27:49What the is going on
27:51Who the is she said she's not your cousin
27:53What the this
27:54Yo this
27:55Both y'all can have this
27:57Oh she went in the room
27:58Maria done went in the room
28:00Get the out of your room
28:01But how long is she going to stay in this
28:03Maria come out the
28:04Oh
28:05Maria come out the
28:06Oh
28:09Oh
28:10She went in the room
28:11Maria don't went in the room
28:12Maria come out the
28:13You want to
28:15You ready
28:16Yeah
28:16All right
28:17Let's do it
28:17Come out the room
28:19You supposed to be at your mom's house
28:21What the
28:21Oh she hit this
28:22Maria get the
28:24You
28:25You
28:26You're such a
28:27Where's Maria
28:29She's over there
28:30She won't
28:31Duck down the
28:32I was out with my mom
28:34I was going to be sick
28:34And she got this bitch in my house
28:36Maria
28:37Open the door
28:38Hi baby
28:41It's Tammy Roman
28:42Can I come talk to you
28:43What the is going on
28:45I am here
28:47Because this is a show
28:48Called Caught in the Act
28:50Unfaithful
28:51Ava came to see me
28:54Because she thought
28:55There was infidelity
28:57In your relationship
28:58So we put cameras
29:00In the house
29:01I'm so
29:02F***ing mad
29:03Why you mad
29:04Because
29:04It's like
29:05Yes I make my own
29:06F***ing decisions
29:07But at the same time
29:08That's why
29:09Because of how
29:10F***ing she acts
29:11Look
29:14F***ing
29:14This me
29:15This me
29:17Ho
29:17If you were having
29:18F***ing issues
29:19With Ava
29:20Why didn't you
29:22Tell her
29:23You can't
29:24Tell Ava
29:25F***ing
29:26Have you asked her
29:28About her mother
29:28She always going
29:29Up and down
29:30The f***ing road
29:30For her mom
29:31You can't tell her
29:32F***ing
29:32She's been doing
29:33That f***ing for years
29:34And it's just to the point
29:35Now I don't give a
29:36F***ing
29:36So let me ask you this
29:38Where your mama
29:40So my mom
29:44And my dad had
29:45Me and my brother
29:46Both of them
29:46They were teenagers
29:47Right
29:47They split
29:48My mom was like 21
29:49You know what I'm saying
29:50My dad raised us
29:51You see what I'm saying
29:53So I moved 23 times
29:55I didn't need
29:57Muff*** around me
29:59So when I met Ava
30:00I felt like
30:01Okay
30:01Maybe this could be
30:03Like the situation
30:03Where you actually
30:05Like
30:05You know y'all
30:06Have similar story
30:07And you can build
30:08Something together
30:08I understand
30:10That you had
30:11A very tough childhood
30:12It seems like
30:13You don't understand
30:14Her dynamic
30:15Everything Ava saw
30:17With her mom
30:18Was her mom
30:18Struggling
30:19Trying to provide
30:19Trying to be there
30:20For her
30:20In those ways
30:22Now that she's sick
30:24Baby
30:24You come to the realization
30:26That you only have
30:27One mom
30:28Good, bad
30:29Or indifferent
30:29So I just wanted you
30:31To try to have
30:32A little
30:32But Jami
30:32Maybe my s*** is s*** up
30:35Because I don't have
30:36That type of dynamic
30:36With my family
30:37So I don't give a s***
30:38Because I've always
30:39Had to do my s*** alone
30:40And I don't
30:41I don't attach
30:42To s***
30:42We built some s*** together
30:44And there's gotta be
30:45A balance
30:46Between what you want to do
30:47And how you want to
30:48Reshape the relationship
30:49With your mother
30:49And how you truly
30:51Want this to be
30:52We've been engaged
30:53For a while now
30:55She told me
30:57She took her s*** ring off
30:58What is that saying to me
31:00It feels like
31:00A slap in your face
31:01I'm good on it
31:02I'm good
31:02Keep s*** off
31:03I don't care
31:04I've seen you
31:06With Jess say
31:07I don't want
31:08No damn kids
31:08I'm not trying
31:09To do that
31:10This lady needs
31:11To know why
31:11You don't want them
31:12Because I'm gonna
31:13Tell you something
31:13What I learned
31:14She only want a kid
31:16Because she trying
31:16To have one
31:17Before her mama passed
31:18But how do you
31:20Tell somebody
31:21Who you love
31:22Who just found out
31:23They can't have kids
31:24That this is not
31:25What I want
31:26I wasn't about
31:26To do that
31:27Because like I said
31:27I love her
31:28Now both of y'all
31:30Have been played
31:30It is a form
31:31Of emotional manipulation
31:33So she is
31:34As much a victim
31:35As you are
31:36Are you mad
31:37At Ava
31:38Are you mad at Maria
31:39I feel like
31:40Everything's falling apart
31:41I know we're both
31:42In the same position
31:43We both got played
31:44I don't want to
31:45Argue with her
31:45I just
31:47I'm just kind of
31:48Like just lost for words
31:49You know what I mean
31:50We both are
31:50And
31:51We just gotta just
31:53Get down to the bottom
31:54Of it
31:54Because I love her
31:55We want to have kids
31:56We want to get married
31:57I do think
32:02Honesty would have
32:03Helped in this situation
32:04Sometimes
32:05The truth
32:06Is going to hurt
32:07But it's always necessary
32:09Do you want to be
32:12With Ava
32:12Or do you want
32:14To be with Jess
32:15Do you want
32:21To be with Ava
32:22Or do you want
32:24To be with Jess
32:24I don't want
32:27To be with Ava
32:28You don't want
32:30I don't want
32:30To be with Ava
32:31So I was actually
32:34Like in a couple months
32:36When this was up
32:37I was gonna
32:37Rent this shit out
32:39And move with Jess
32:40That's why we were
32:41Looking at furniture
32:42In two months
32:43In two months
32:44I just was figuring out
32:46How to really
32:46Wrap this shit together
32:48Because again
32:49I care about Ava
32:50But it's from a place
32:51Of like
32:52I don't want
32:52To see her
32:53In a bad space
32:54But the love
32:55I'm not in love
32:56With her
32:56I'm not in love
32:58With her
32:58But you know
32:59You also lied
33:00To Jess too
33:01You tried to say
33:01It's your cousin's place
33:03And all this other stuff
33:04Would you be willing
33:05To come out
33:05And all of us
33:06Have a conversation
33:07Come on Maria
33:14Scooch over baby
33:18I found out
33:20A lot about Maria
33:21In my conversation
33:23With her
33:23She's willing
33:24To be honest
33:25About why she's done
33:27What she's done
33:28I've asked her
33:29To start with Jess
33:31First
33:31Because I think
33:32That's gonna be
33:32The easiest
33:33To explain
33:35First Jess
33:39I wanna say
33:40I'm so sorry babe
33:41Like
33:42I really do care
33:43About you
33:44I didn't know
33:45How to explain
33:45Did you ever
33:46Plan on telling me
33:47I did
33:48I really did
33:49In a couple months
33:50You thought
33:51I was never
33:52Gonna find out
33:53About any of this
33:53And that's why
33:54You didn't want you to
33:55Because it was
33:56Done
33:56I was trying
33:57To figure out
33:58How to
33:58You don't wanna
33:59Be with me
33:59Really
34:01You
34:02Really
34:02Alright
34:03Let's use
34:03Where's your ring at
34:04Every time
34:05You get upset
34:06Or there's something
34:07And you take off
34:08Your ring
34:09You know what
34:09You know what
34:10That means to me
34:10Somebody who really
34:11Don't give a
34:12About commission
34:12You know what
34:13I heard enough
34:15For real
34:15You're full of
34:16Literally
34:19I really too much
34:19Don't care about
34:20What you gotta say
34:21Literally
34:21So you don't care
34:23What I gotta say
34:23So you don't care
34:24About what I gotta say
34:25After everything
34:25That we've been through
34:26Are you picking her
34:27For real
34:27And you won't
34:28Oh my god
34:29Alright
34:30I'm out
34:30I'm sorry
34:31Oh my god
34:33Tammy you see this
34:34Do you see this
34:36I do
34:37You've been looking
34:38Me in my eye
34:39This whole time
34:40Knowing you were
34:42Doing this to her
34:43And to me
34:44Like I am literally
34:46In disbelief
34:47How do you have
34:48The nerve to do that
34:49What did I do
34:50To deserve this
34:51I'm sorry
34:51In my house
34:52In my house
34:53I still love you
34:54But I'm pissed
34:55I don't know
34:56I would talk to you
34:57I'm sick
34:58I can't understand
34:59What I was saying
34:59When I talked to Maria
35:01She told me
35:02Ava was the first person
35:05Who made me want to commit
35:07Cause I don't attach to anything
35:10Rather than latching on to people
35:12She'd be like
35:12I don't give a damn
35:14I'm not gonna get too close
35:15Cause I might have to leave
35:16You were the first person
35:18Who made her feel like that
35:19So she decided to give you a ring
35:22And every time you got upset
35:26You took that ring off
35:30To her it's like
35:32She don't give a f*** about me
35:35Then with your mom
35:36I tried to get her to understand that
35:38She still felt
35:40Why did you have to be the only one
35:43To take on that
35:44Why couldn't it have been
35:46Some of your siblings
35:47So that there was a balance
35:49Between what you were providing
35:50For your mom
35:51And what you were providing to her
35:53The reason I'm pointing these things out
35:57Because that woman just sat there
35:59And said
35:59I do not want to be with you
36:01I want you to hold your head up high
36:06I want you to know who you are
36:08Keep your self-respect
36:10Yes
36:11In this moment right here
36:12Okay
36:13You don't want to be with me
36:14Cool
36:14Cool, yeah
36:15I'm with that too
36:16I'm cool
36:17I'm not about to beg no f***
36:18Be with me
36:18I'm not
36:20Yeah
36:21I'm gonna tell
36:22Again
36:22I'm gonna tell
36:23You gotta know how fabulous you are
36:24Yes, I'm fabulous
36:25Bam
36:26Right now I would like for
36:35Each of you to have your final say
36:37So I'm gonna start with you, Jess
36:39What is your decision in this moment?
36:43As much as I'm like f*** her
36:46I hate her
36:47Call me stupid
36:48But I still want to make it work
36:52If that's your decision and that's what you want to do
36:56That will be up to y'all to do the work
36:58You want Jess?
36:59It's gonna take a lot for me to trust you
37:00So you've told Jess you want to be with her
37:03Do you have any final words you want to say to Ava?
37:06Ava, I am sorry
37:08I don't know whether you hear me or not
37:10But
37:10You don't even sound sorry
37:12You sound like a sorry
37:13You're sorry
37:13She doesn't want to receive it
37:15That's fine
37:15She doesn't have it
37:16Cool
37:16People do not have to accept your apology
37:18Since this is where you want to be
37:21This is what needed to happen
37:23And honestly, this is my baby
37:25This is who I want to be with
37:26And I should have done it earlier
37:27And I know I got a lot to make up for
37:29If she forgives me
37:31But this is where I want to be at
37:33So
37:33I like
37:34I still want to be with her
37:35But there's definitely a lot that we need to work on
37:38It was time for the truth to come to life
37:40And it came out in like the worst way possible
37:43But it had to come
37:44What's up?
37:46Maria, she manipulated me this whole time
37:48With the IVF
37:50I was wanting to have kids
37:52And I don't need that
37:54I'm better than that
37:55I'm going to leave this
37:56And be happy
37:57Start my own life again
37:58Start over
37:59And it's okay to start over
38:00I want you guys to know
38:00That it's okay to start over
38:02I was feeling kind of lonely
38:03And I think I might have lost my mind
38:06I like to let get through the talking
38:08And the red flags watched them slide
38:10Hello there, Ava
38:14Woo!
38:17I wasn't sure you were going to want to talk to me
38:19After everything we went through together
38:23Have you spoken to Maria?
38:25We have not spoken to her
38:27She is blocked for now
38:28Until I feel like I'm ready to let her into my space
38:33Because my life is blowing right now
38:35I'm talking to someone new
38:36Taking things very slowly
38:38Very slowly
38:39What did you learn by going through this process
38:43That you're now applying in your new situation?
38:48People pleasing
38:49I don't want that anymore
38:50So I'm putting myself first
38:51I'm making sure that I do what I want
38:53How I want to do it
38:54And this person that I'm talking to
38:56She respects that
38:57You see?
38:58I'm hammock
38:59Now, how is mommy?
39:02Mommy's doing great
39:03I did tell her the news
39:06She was just like
39:08Get her out of here
39:08It was more so
39:10And all this time
39:11You trying to stay with her for mommy
39:13Oh, girl
39:14All this whole time
39:16But she told me
39:16My mom is me
39:17She wants me
39:18I'm glad mommy released you from that
39:21I am so proud of you
39:23I want you to know
39:24That there are greater things ahead
39:27And mommy, I am praying a speedy recovery
39:31And healing over her
39:33All right?
39:34Thank you for letting me check in with you
39:36My pleasure
39:36Okay, bye
39:38Bye
39:39Cheaters, beware
39:41How long is it going on?
39:43Six plus years
39:44Oh, Lord
39:45Next time you want to be unfaithful
39:47Think again
39:48Because I just might
39:50Kick out this damn Trump
39:52Catch you in the ass
39:53You a teen ass female
39:55Yeah
39:55He playing me
39:56I would play your ass too
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