Married to Medicine - Season 12 Episode 03- The Player's Ball
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00:00Previously on Married to Medicine.
00:18I think Eugene might be right.
00:19What?
00:19When he said Botox can only be done by pretty people.
00:22Oh, thank you.
00:23We bought a building.
00:25A building.
00:25A building.
00:26We had to just cash out 401ks and everything.
00:29Everything costs money.
00:30Every single thing.
00:31It's a grind.
00:32Yeah.
00:32I basically am working like two full-time jobs.
00:36You can't keep no secrets from me.
00:38If I had to learn about my son being arrested on social media,
00:42what else is out there?
00:44And Toya, leave my kids laying out of your mouth.
00:47How can we leave your kids out of our mouth
00:49when you dog our whole family?
00:52I know a lot about your family I've never said, Toya.
00:55I got a lot of secrets on her ass,
00:57and you don't want me to drop them.
00:58I got some doozies.
01:00Get down.
01:00That bitch making me act crazy.
01:02Right.
01:02So stop it.
01:03Now, I'll see you, Dr. Jackie.
01:06All right.
01:08Dr. Jackie.
01:09Toya.
01:11Dr. D.
01:13Dr. Jackie.
01:15I was sick in a tea.
01:21I'm never going to shrink.
01:22Always comes up when I'm having me a drink.
01:24Am I going to get some grandkids?
01:27To be honest, I don't want you to get this the wrong way,
01:29but, like, I like a lot of girls, you know?
01:33No.
01:35Get you one good one, like your mama.
01:39Did you pick up your iron tablets?
01:43I did yesterday.
01:44Okay.
01:45Start taking those.
01:46They do tend to constipate you.
01:49You'll be full of shit, but don't worry about that.
01:54You see these lips.
01:56You're going to be excited.
01:56I'll be like, okay.
01:59What did he say last week?
02:00He asked me when I could use them.
02:02When you could use them?
02:04And what did you say?
02:04Did you follow your post instructions?
02:05I did.
02:06Okay.
02:07You have to wait.
02:07All right.
02:08Don't be messing up my work now.
02:10Hey, girl.
02:35Hey.
02:36Uh-uh.
02:37Wait a minute.
02:38You like it?
02:38You know, we 70s babies, baby.
02:40We are, but we ain't going to tell them about it.
02:42Yes, we do.
02:42Because we don't look it.
02:43Yes, we.
02:44Well, we are redefining what it looks like.
02:46It's everything.
02:47Is that everything?
02:48I'm telling you.
02:49Look, let's do it.
02:49I love it.
02:50So, first and foremost, I'm thinking either a red carpet
02:52or should I do a purple carpet?
02:55Um, where's my favorite?
02:55Back in the day, they didn't do a carpet.
02:57They did a Soul Train line.
02:58That's what I'm saying.
02:58But, yeah, but no, no.
02:59A player's ball, they had a carpet, baby.
03:02Look at this beautiful space.
03:04Hello, ladies.
03:05How are you?
03:06Good seeing you again.
03:08This is the last year of my 40s.
03:11I'm a 70s baby, so I really want to do a 70s party.
03:14I chose the thing, Players Ball.
03:16You remember the movie Casino?
03:18Yes.
03:19Okay, you remember it was set in the 70s?
03:21Yeah.
03:21So, this is kind of like a hybrid of that.
03:23I want it to be lots of activities.
03:25I want people to come in in their 70s best.
03:28Their furs and their suits and their amazing clothes.
03:31Let's just have a good time.
03:33That's really what it's about.
03:34I just want this to be an opportunity for us to just have fun.
03:39Like I said in my invitation.
03:40You've been invited to Dr. Contessa's Players Ball.
03:46This is so cute.
03:48This is going to be my first birthday party ever.
03:51Throwing it for yourself.
03:51I waited almost 50 years to throw myself a party.
03:55Or have someone throw me a party and it didn't happen.
03:58I don't know if I should be sad or happy.
04:00These husbands definitely need to do more.
04:03Excluding Eugene.
04:04So, what I'm thinking is we have a super long runway.
04:10And the dance floor will be here.
04:12Be right here in the middle and the stage will be there.
04:14Yes.
04:14Would that be like 150, 200 people?
04:17Four decades of life.
04:18So, 200.
04:19Yeah.
04:20I would love to stay like under $40,000 though.
04:25What?
04:26That's your budget?
04:27That's too little?
04:28That's too high.
04:30I think Contessa needs to take that $40,000
04:32and finish her office that she's working on, okay?
04:34It's my party and I can do what I want to do.
04:36I ain't got an answer to you.
04:38I think this is going to be great.
04:39I don't want you to have any drama at your party.
04:42Like, it should be positive energy.
04:45I agree.
04:45I feel like the outfits would make people have positive energy.
04:47That's not true.
04:48But when I don't...
04:50You have very low expectations of our friends.
04:52What are the friends that you're talking about?
04:52I know.
04:53Oh, so you're not inviting our current party.
04:54I'm inviting everybody.
04:56Last time I saw Heaven, she was crazy, okay?
04:59That dog has got the stuff that you bring to the table.
05:02I know a lot about your family I've never said to her.
05:05I hope her energy is good.
05:06Because that energy that she had the other day, it was stank.
05:10I want to think that our group is going to be able to put all their differences aside
05:14to celebrate me for the one time in my life I've asked them to do that.
05:18No resting bitch faces.
05:19Exactly.
05:20Don't come in.
05:20That's so annoying.
05:21Critique and everything.
05:22Yeah.
05:23Just come in and have a good time.
05:24It's going to be so fun.
05:25Thank you so much, friend.
05:25You just gave me a moment.
05:26I just thought back, like, wasn't everybody high back then?
05:29They were.
05:37What's up?
05:38What's happening?
05:40What you're definitely eating?
05:41Something to eat?
05:41Yep.
05:42As long as you don't eat my food.
05:43I don't want to eat your food anyway.
05:45But you do it all the time.
05:47Yeah.
05:48What you got to say about that?
05:49Absolutely nothing.
05:54Why?
05:55Because you do eat my food all the time.
05:57Well, this is the thing with the leftovers.
05:59Don't assume, like, oh, they had a refrigerator.
06:02This is my girl.
06:03And everything was ours.
06:04I'm eating the leftovers.
06:05Then what I'm going to eat?
06:06I don't want to have a whole hour conversation about food.
06:09It's petty.
06:11But guess what?
06:11I have a healthy appetite.
06:13You want it 15 times a day?
06:14Feed me.
06:16Well, he just shut my damn mouth.
06:19I think you need to just take your shot because your hormones are already, like, mm.
06:24Does the shot make me have, like, mood swings, like rage?
06:26Yes.
06:27No, not rage.
06:28I find myself crying a lot.
06:30I have tried with you.
06:32I don't even know what is the problem.
06:35That's not me being in rage.
06:37King and I are trying to get pregnant.
06:39Any chance there's going to be a baby quad?
06:41We're hoping.
06:43You talked about IVF.
06:44Any updates?
06:45I am in the process, for sure.
06:47Are you?
06:47We have a friend who basically got pregnant at 46 with triplets.
06:51And I said, well, wait a minute, where is this doctor?
06:52And she's like, oh, this doctor is in Ghana.
06:55When I heard that, I just felt like this is where I need to be.
06:59I appreciate your grace in this and your understanding.
07:03Jackie had agreed to being my doctor stateside.
07:07She is responsible for all of my lab tracing.
07:10I have nothing but good news for your pap is normal, mammogram is normal, all your tests
07:14have been normal.
07:15We've now had two egg retrievals.
07:18All right, I'm just checking in and getting ready for my surgery to have the eggs removed.
07:26Let's pray that all goes well.
07:28I spent my whole life trying to dodge this bullet.
07:31It's not a bullet.
07:32It's a blessing.
07:33It's a blessing.
07:33It's a blessing.
07:34It's a blessing in disguise.
07:35I'll be happy if we just get another, what do you think, like four?
07:39How about you?
07:40Six.
07:41Six.
07:41So I have to go through this again?
07:43I don't want to either.
07:44You think I want to stick myself?
07:45I'm drained going back there now.
07:47You finish your food.
07:48I'm going to go ahead and go back here and get prepping.
07:50Get your shot going so I can get ready for this next 24 hours of hell.
07:54Sticking yourself a couple of times a day, every single day, gets exhausting and tiring.
08:00But despite all the side effects, it still will be well worth it to me to become a mom.
08:06Big, bad, tough, Miss Quad is scared of a little needle.
08:10I'm not scared of the needle.
08:11I just don't like other people doing it.
08:14If we get the results that we're seeking, it'll definitely be worth it.
08:18If not, I could have bought another car.
08:22This, baby, breath.
08:24This smells like a bitch.
08:26Go brush your teeth for real.
08:28Babe, you're knocking me out.
08:29Because you got a problem.
08:30You're projecting it on me.
08:32I'm going to stop.
08:36I need CPR.
08:39Coming up.
08:40You did good on this party.
08:42I love all of the parties that you men throw.
08:45Look at how sexist y'all are.
08:47Because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my goddamn self,
08:50y'all talking to me about my husband.
08:51Oh.
08:59Hey, birthday girl.
09:03Ma'am.
09:03Birthday tiny.
09:04Ma'am.
09:05Ma'am.
09:06Because I don't know how I'm doing it.
09:07I dress to work, making me look bad.
09:09Working in an evening.
09:10Let me tell you why.
09:11I said, let me get myself, like, maybe get into the party mode.
09:14I mean, I love it.
09:14And then the universe will feel it.
09:16I love it.
09:17You're fabulous.
09:18Today is the day.
09:19It's my birthday party.
09:20Where are we going?
09:21Right in here.
09:22Right here?
09:22To the left?
09:22I have been working my ass off.
09:25This is so pretty.
09:26Isn't this fabulous?
09:30It's so good.
09:32Yeah, baby.
09:34I love you.
09:34Is that fire?
09:35No, this is Vita.
09:36She is so awesome.
09:37Brand, right?
09:38No, you did.
09:38You are so awesome.
09:39You get a good job.
09:41Can you see the record?
09:42It has my name on it.
09:44What?
09:44It would be so great if Scott was like, what can I do to help?
09:49It just doesn't connect for him that way.
09:51Hey.
09:51I do need help.
09:53Didn't you say you was bringing home ice cream?
09:56He's a smart guy.
09:57He's book smart.
09:58He ain't got no common sense, but he's book smart.
10:00I'm just saying.
10:02Can I give you one piece of advice?
10:03Please.
10:04Because how long have you been married?
10:0510 years.
10:05Don't ever say, I got this.
10:08Like, no, you don't have to.
10:09That's too much.
10:09Yeah.
10:10Because once you do that, you kind of create this like, oh, OK.
10:13Yeah.
10:14All right.
10:14I'm going to talk to Scott.
10:15I'm going to be like, all right, Scott.
10:16Step you.
10:17You're going to have to step up your underwear, huh?
10:18I'm going to tell him.
10:18Because they say panties for girls.
10:20So step you.
10:20I'm going to tell him.
10:21Step your drawers up.
10:21I'm going to tell him.
10:24Are you excited about the party?
10:30I am, girl.
10:31But I don't know what to expect, child.
10:33Well, just expect the unexpected, because.
10:37Did you grow up in the 70s?
10:39No.
10:40Oh.
10:40What?
10:41I don't know what to expect.
10:46You're bringing it all together.
10:47OK.
10:47So you got a bill bottle.
10:48Yes, honey.
10:49Boo, boo, boo.
10:50It's a little bit of the shoes.
10:51It looks like we were back in the 70s, right?
10:54No.
10:54Jimmy Choo?
10:55No, baby.
10:55I like the way people dressed in the 70s.
10:57I think that they should bring 70s fashion back.
11:00The platform shoes, the makeup, the afrocentricity,
11:03the of it all.
11:04Now, I was young in the 70s, but I do recall it was free love, honey.
11:10We were very free sexually back in the day, but so was herpes and hepatitis.
11:16So, you know, we paid for the freedom.
11:18And I got a waist trainer just in case, baby.
11:20Hey, look at that.
11:21All I need.
11:22That's what you're doing.
11:23That's cute.
11:24That's cute.
11:29One, two, three, two, four.
11:32Get ready for more.
11:34Uh, I see what you're doing now.
11:37Got a body moving well.
11:39I see what you're doing.
11:41Ooh, all right.
11:43Sicky, sicky now.
11:44I see what you're doing now.
11:45When I think of the 70s, I think of disco with a little bump action.
11:53Well, you get the hose tonight, Curtis.
11:55You ready?
11:56Let's go get it.
11:59That afro, I do not miss that.
12:01I'm glad that era is gone.
12:03She's so spiced.
12:04Feel, uh, feeling so nice.
12:06You look beautiful.
12:07Look at that.
12:10Uh, I see what you're doing now.
12:14Got a body moving well.
12:16How come she got four and I got two?
12:17Because I just...
12:18Back in the 70s, people wore a lot of sequins.
12:22They was wearing the shades.
12:24Man, the 70s for me was baby food, diapers, daycare.
12:30What?
12:30The 70s.
12:31I was born in 1977.
12:33Oh.
12:33I was a child.
12:33Thank you, honey.
12:40Give me a little bit more.
12:42How about that?
12:42Ew.
12:45When I think about the 70s, a lot of drugs.
12:49Whoa.
12:49Whoa.
12:50Oh, hey.
12:51That's what you see on YouTube.
12:53Boots!
12:53Boots!
12:54Boots!
12:54Boots!
12:55Boots!
12:58I really like the 70s style.
13:01My go-go boots.
13:03My wig was wiggy.
13:06Don't be scared of touchwaves.
13:08And you know my reputation now.
13:10I grew up during the 70s.
13:16When I was young, I wasn't, you know, I wasn't out on the dating scene yet.
13:20I'm not that old.
13:22Talk to Curtis.
13:23When I took a picture with Curtis, he was acting like he didn't want to touchwaves.
13:26I said, we're not doing all that.
13:28We would clown it, too.
13:29Where your hands at?
13:30Where your hands at?
13:31You know, it's my fault.
13:43I should have got him a pimp outfit, but I felt like, you know what?
13:45He pimpin' enough for me.
13:46I wouldn't have wore that.
13:47Pimpin'!
13:48This guy.
13:49This is about as pimpin' as I'mma get.
13:51I know, I know, I like the shirt.
13:53It's a costume party, dude.
13:55Like, you just don't get it, dude.
13:58There we go.
13:59Laugh, laugh, laugh.
14:00This is about as flair as I get.
14:07Hard 12, hard 8, hard 6, hard 9.
14:12Oh, you gamble, gamble.
14:14Like, I used to.
14:15I don't gamble no more.
14:16I gave it up a long time ago.
14:17You gave it up to the Lord.
14:18To the Lord.
14:19I told this contestant, do you know how much you spent?
14:22No.
14:22$40,000.
14:24That's a lot.
14:25Yeah.
14:26If this is the first time she's thrown a party.
14:28Why y'all, everybody, you're saying that since we had some first party, you gonna spend $40,000?
14:32$40,000.
14:33Where?
14:35Where is it?
14:36But I ain't spending $40,000.
14:37Well, my son's about to graduate in two, three years?
14:40Yeah.
14:40No.
14:41Well, I didn't spend it on Michael, but I sure, Miles and Michael, I sure spent $5,000 on their little party.
14:46I can see five.
14:47The most Simone has ever spent on a party is $5,000, baby.
14:51Miles and Michael's graduation.
14:53Won't need no damn balloons.
14:55Won't need no step and repeat.
14:57Won't need no photographer.
14:59Won't need all that.
15:01Well, she told me earlier, I said, girl, you realize you could have had a little wedding.
15:04But my wedding was $75,000.
15:07Yeah.
15:08In what year?
15:12Shut your mouth.
15:15Nice.
15:16Foxy Brown.
15:17Right here, guys.
15:21You got us, ladies.
15:25Okay, we're ready?
15:26Y'all ready?
15:27Relax, babe.
15:28We're going here and enjoying ourselves.
15:30Just relax.
15:30I got your back.
15:32Don't you dare be trying to take no credit for anything.
15:35Scott did not plan this party.
15:37You're going to have fun.
15:39This player knows what she likes and she knows what she wants.
15:42Don't be copping on.
15:43And everything that I do, she's going to reject, okay?
15:46So, boom.
15:47Hello, hello, party people and the place to be.
15:50Can I have your attention, please?
15:52All you pimps and players in here, I want you to make a lot of noise and give a round of applause to my homegirl, Contessa.
16:00Make some noise for Contessa.
16:02Make some noise for Contessa.
16:03Hey, no, not a pressure.
16:06There's some mercy on the country in the country.
16:10What's up?
16:11What's up, man?
16:14What's up, man?
16:15That's what I'm talking about.
16:17Hello, everybody.
16:18Hey, guys.
16:19Oh, my God.
16:21You are amazing.
16:23You are pretty as good me.
16:24Happy birthday.
16:25You are almost pretty as me.
16:27My party today is the party of my dreams.
16:30But the price of this party was definitely a bit excessive.
16:37Look, you're too gorgeous.
16:38I could have cut the cake price in half.
16:40I could have cut the food budget in half.
16:42And we would have had it in my living room.
16:44That was amazing.
16:45Oh.
16:46Maybe the best thing for you to have done is to stay out of my way.
16:49That's right.
16:49It turned out exactly the way I wanted it.
16:51I believe that.
16:59You made your inches like your damn self.
17:01Yeah, you know, I hope you'll be gay, man.
17:03I love you.
17:06We're dancing.
17:07Come on.
17:07Come on.
17:08I ain't seen you since I've got to let my hair grow out.
17:11What was happening?
17:13What up with you?
17:14You're looking good, Scott.
17:16You did good on this party.
17:17I'll try.
17:18I'll try.
17:19I helped out as much as I could, you know.
17:21You did.
17:21You did.
17:22You sent this out.
17:23Boy, bye.
17:24You know you ain't had nothing to do with this party.
17:28I think that was shade.
17:30I think that was a little shade.
17:31I'm trying.
17:31I'm trying.
17:32I'm trying.
17:33I love all of the parties that you men throw.
17:36I love shade.
17:37Because all we got to do is cut and shake.
17:40Coming up, you complain all the time about your husband.
17:45What kind of friends focus on the negative?
17:47These, bitch.
17:48I think that was shade.
17:54I think that was a little shade.
18:08That was a little shade.
18:09That's right.
18:10No, no.
18:11I love all of the parties that you men throw.
18:14Change.
18:14Because all we got to do is cut and shake.
18:17I wouldn't pick up cupcakes if they got there.
18:21Do you think I care what these heckling hands are saying about me not throwing a party for my wife?
18:29No.
18:30No.
18:34I'm going to let y'all know these 70 hoes have done a whole lot that y'all probably can't do.
18:39This area here got it up.
18:41Yeah.
18:42Really up.
18:43Back down a week.
18:44Bits over for our men, right?
18:48Bits over backwards.
18:50There's a reason why people of my age can keep a man and the younger people cannot.
18:58They don't want to do that no more.
18:59These young girls, they don't want to do that.
19:01You know Heavenly ain't cooking every meal for her man, nor is she bringing Damon slippers to sit.
19:07Girl, get your life.
19:10But I've been over backwards to mine.
19:13If he was a good man, I ain't got no problem with that.
19:16Been it over, bust it over, wide open.
19:20I'm going to talk on the mic and bring you out.
19:23I have two outfits, and if I'm going to change, he needs to change into something else.
19:27Hello!
19:28Just had you changed clothes on.
19:30Just once.
19:31Just once.
19:32Just a little something situation.
19:33My gift to you.
19:35Boy.
19:36Stop.
19:36A little something.
19:37A little something.
19:38Gene, how you been, man?
19:39I'm good.
19:40I'm good.
19:40You think the other night?
19:41Yeah, I've been working out of town.
19:45I go out of town.
19:46I work, and then I come back.
19:48I just got back yesterday.
19:49I'm working at five different hospitals right now.
19:52They're all at least two hours away, but every hospital, the nurses, after the first day,
19:56is like, can you work here all the time?
20:01Wait, wait.
20:01Only the nurses?
20:02What about the patients?
20:03Only the nurses, I'm saying?
20:05I want to see the nurses.
20:06I just want to see the nurses.
20:10I want to see the nurses.
20:11You want to be firm?
20:12You feeding into that pool.
20:14Some of these nurses are actually men.
20:16Are they?
20:17Yes.
20:17Absolutely.
20:18What's his name?
20:18All right.
20:19Paul.
20:19So the Paul went up to you and said, man.
20:21Yes.
20:21I want you to stay.
20:22The nurses know how you behave and who they want to work with.
20:27Cool guy.
20:28He actually knows Curtis.
20:29Okay.
20:30So they're proof.
20:31Mmm.
20:32Everybody, eyes over here.
20:34Well, everybody, I'd like to thank each and every one of you for coming out tonight.
20:38Scott's talking.
20:40I don't know if she's told you guys, but this is her first major birthday party in her whole
20:44life, and I also will tell you that she did a lot to get this party going.
20:51She said she did a lot.
20:52She did everything she said.
20:53She's a strong force in our household.
20:56I celebrate her for it.
20:57And I'm going to share one more thing with you.
21:00A long time ago, before my mother passed, me and my mother, we would watch movies together.
21:05And she said, Contessa remind me of Rose.
21:10She's like, Rose will jump back on the boat for your ass, just like she did on Titanic.
21:17Why do the women got to go through such a struggle to earn their position with a man?
21:24I'm going now.
21:25I'm in Rose, though, but I'm going now.
21:29Like, why?
21:31All right, please, D, and have a good time.
21:33Thank you guys for coming out.
21:34There's fun outside.
21:35There's fun inside.
21:36Enjoy yourselves.
21:37Thank you guys for showing up for me.
21:46Hey, how y'all doing?
21:50Why are you in prom gear and wearing 70s apparel?
21:53Because it's my party.
21:54Somebody needs to be able to tell the difference between y'all and me.
21:57I mean, who's part of it?
21:59Whose party is it?
22:00Whose party is it, right?
22:02Did you have a good time tonight?
22:04I did.
22:05Did you want your husband to throw up, or were you okay?
22:07I just said, this is my last year of my 40s.
22:10And I'm not going to leave my 40s in this first half of my, like, life with any regrets.
22:15And I think I had a vision in my head.
22:17I think, I don't know if it would have been what I was expecting if somebody else planned it for me.
22:22Like, what if he did something, like, in the backyard?
22:24I really wanted to be somewhere where people could get drinks and get food.
22:26Why not just tell him that and then have him do it?
22:30I told him.
22:30I mean, I've been waiting.
22:31You know me?
22:32We 20 years.
22:33Don't y'all believe that from the beginning of the relationship, we teach the men how to treat it?
22:40And so, if the bar of expectation is low, they can jump right over that, and they don't move the bar.
22:49We have to move the bar.
22:51My first Mother's Day, Cecil didn't have a card for me, and I'm like, I got this little sucker over here sucking on me, and you don't have a card?
23:02Marriage is about teamwork.
23:04It is about supporting one another.
23:06But sometimes, I feel taken for granted.
23:11Why are we gonna re-evaluate our marriages after this amazing party right now?
23:15What is happening right now?
23:15No, re-evaluating our marriages is major.
23:18He knows, he knows that I handle sh**, what?
23:21I handle sh**, and that's what he was probably waiting for, me to handle it, and ultimately, I did.
23:25You gotta go home and live with that man.
23:27You gotta go and lay in the same bed that he sleeps in.
23:31So, I get why you're taking up for him.
23:33You don't want that smoke at home.
23:35I had a great party.
23:36I was very happy.
23:37I learned my lesson with Contessa.
23:39I am not touching her marriage, baby.
23:41I am running for state representative, and I just need to be quiet.
23:45Look at how sexist y'all are, because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my goddamn self, y'all talking to me about my husband.
23:51Y'all can't even, on my goddamn birthday, talk to me about how I made happy birthday.
23:56Still, you were sitting in the best party you have ever attended, and you're asking me why Scott didn't do it.
24:01You better do the flip, baby.
24:02You better flip that sh**, baby.
24:04This is my party.
24:05Because I am the best at the planner for my birthday party, okay?
24:09My party was empty.
24:11Game changer.
24:12Yes, stop off.
24:13Yes.
24:14Yes.
24:14Yes.
24:16Stop off.
24:17You better come on.
24:18Yes.
24:20Coming up.
24:22If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
24:25That can happen.
24:26I'm done talking about this.
24:27You are so f**king entitled.
24:30I'm done!
24:35Ow!
24:40Back up, back up, back up, back up.
24:44Okay, I'm gonna get the plates.
24:50I ordered them some graduation thank you cards.
24:54I'm old school.
24:55I mean, a written thank you note would always be nice.
25:03I need this.
25:06This.
25:08Pow.
25:11Oh!
25:13I'm not gonna lie, that looks good as hell.
25:19What up, boys?
25:21Haircuts.
25:22Smell it good.
25:23Haircuts.
25:24Haircuts.
25:25Do you want to fix some food?
25:27Food.
25:28Food?
25:28We got the food.
25:29We got y'all.
25:30Come on, sit down.
25:30Look at y'all.
25:31This is so sweet.
25:32Like our, this is our celebration of y'all.
25:35We had our graduation party.
25:37This y'all graduation party.
25:38Woo!
25:39We've been waiting for them, we've been waiting for them to get their degrees.
25:42We knew they could do it.
25:44It's impressive.
25:45They definitely took different routes to get there.
25:49He had a gap year.
25:50Malia Obama, she did a gap year in Europe.
25:52Miles just took his gap year in school.
25:54Involuntarily.
25:55Do you want me to help you?
25:58Help me do what?
26:00Help you make your bed.
26:02You're not funny.
26:02I'm gonna warm my food up.
26:04Now, it's time to pay bills, baby.
26:08Bills, bills, bills.
26:09It's a surprise, brother.
26:12You got some food.
26:14Yep, yep.
26:17Oh, this.
26:18That's good.
26:18Hyping hot.
26:20So how does it feel to have one less thing off the plate?
26:24Nothing.
26:24It feels like nothing.
26:26So we talked about in high school, right, I got the Jeep.
26:30Boom, Jeep was cool.
26:32But now we're starting to teeter towards Jeep not being so cool.
26:35So now it's like.
26:36Oh, really?
26:36What makes a Jeep not so cool?
26:37No, it's cool, but it's just like, I'm tired of seeing it.
26:40I know you tired of seeing it.
26:42Tired.
26:43What we do have to look at, though, is your financial situation to see if you could afford
26:51to make any payments.
26:55I put some numbers.
26:56I did some figures for you.
26:58Hold on one second while I get my iPad.
27:00I just want to say before you go, make sure whatever you bring out on that iPad is not
27:05going to cause me to pick up your pasta off your plate and feed it to the dogs.
27:11Yeah, it might.
27:12Once Miles and Michael told me that they were going to be graduating this year, all I have
27:18been able to think about is moving forward financially.
27:22Basically, what I did was just calculate the chase bill for last year, month by month.
27:31January.
27:32Mama, can I stop you right there?
27:33You didn't go anything wrong.
27:34Why does this have to be negative?
27:36It doesn't.
27:36It doesn't.
27:37It's factual information.
27:39Michael spent over $60,000 by himself on this card.
27:46The chase bill.
27:47If I were you and I wanted a car, I wouldn't be arguing with the person you're asking to
27:53buy the car.
27:54But that's neat.
27:55This needs to be shared so that he has a clear understanding about the value of money, about
28:02the value of just swiping a mother f***ing credit card.
28:07So have you been thinking about where you want to go to law school, how you're going to finance
28:13your education?
28:15I do have a mother who makes pretty good money.
28:20I don't feel like I should be footing the bill for anything other than the roof over
28:30your head, that sort of a thing.
28:33So when you start talking about law school, graduate school, and so forth, if you're not
28:38getting any support, right, if no one's helping you to do that, and it sounds like, based on
28:45what your mom is saying, that would be the ideal situation.
28:48So the only one here at the table with an actual graduate doctorate degree is me.
28:58And how I did it was I got scholarship money and loans.
29:04Your mom was not able to do the things for you that you are able to do for us.
29:11What about all the rich white kids their parents pay for their way to do everything, and then
29:15they get out of college debt-free and are millionaires?
29:21So what about all the white people who pay for their kids to go to school, be debt-free,
29:28and they still ain't doing s***?
29:33Now, Michael's point is still a valid one.
29:36We are blessed.
29:36We are in a situation where we can help.
29:41Who here at the table gives a f*** about how hard I'm working instead of being able to
29:49move towards retirement?
29:52Me.
29:58He said that he thinks every day about how he can, what he can do to be able to give back
30:03to you.
30:03That's what he said.
30:04I understand it.
30:05But then don't...
30:06If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
30:09That can happen because God might take you away.
30:13I'm done talking about this.
30:14Oh, I don't care.
30:16Be done.
30:17I get tired of being the lone man out.
30:20It's always three against one.
30:22I'm jumping in.
30:23You don't f***ing jump in.
30:24You can't speak for me because you don't think like me.
30:27You don't think like me, you don't support me on s***.
30:31Where did that come from?
30:32It comes from my heart.
30:33It comes from my heart.
30:35The bottom line is you are so f***ing entitled is what this revealed to me.
30:41I'm done.
30:43I'm done.
30:44I don't owe you a f***ing thing from here.
30:50I give you everything I have to give.
30:57I'm a D.O.
31:00I'm a goddess.
31:07What do you want me to turn tonight?
31:09You want to just rest?
31:11Rest?
31:12Yes.
31:13You can wake up in the morning.
31:15That's not enough.
31:15And get your day started off right.
31:19And then in the morning you're going to be, I'm late.
31:27You trying to reverse the big back?
31:31You trying to say my back big?
31:33No, it's not big.
31:33Just wide.
31:34I'm smiling away.
31:36It's cute in the face.
31:37With a big back?
31:38I want me to just rotate it over.
31:44No.
31:45Oh, that's probably a good idea.
31:46See, teamwork.
31:47That's what I'm saying.
31:48Let me be your team right now.
31:49You're going the opposite direction.
31:52You're going the opposite direction.
31:53No.
31:54D-O-D-D-E-S-A
31:59I'm a D-O, I'm a goddess.
32:02I'm going to show me what I want to know someday.
32:05I'm a D-O, I'm a goddess.
32:08Come on in.
32:09I must be the first to arrive.
32:10You are.
32:11Okay.
32:14I'm going to have a Blue Daily Margarita.
32:18Hey, how are you?
32:20Good.
32:21Hey, Missy.
32:22Hey, drinking already?
32:23Girl, yes.
32:24When you like cute, I am yesterday.
32:27Praise God.
32:28Can I get a dirty Shirley?
32:30So how you been?
32:31You look cute today.
32:32Girl, we had a family dinner that went all the way left.
32:38Got an attitude because I'm not going to pay for law school.
32:42I never said I was paying for law school, dude.
32:45I don't think you should.
32:47Me and him going back and forth.
32:48Cecil was silent, boo.
32:50I get tired of being a bad cop all by myself all the time.
32:55I understand, boo.
32:56I just need a break from the people that last night went for.
33:00I just need a break.
33:01Hey, ladies.
33:08Hey, how's your birthday, girl?
33:11You did that.
33:12You did that.
33:15I have a card for you.
33:17Happy birthday.
33:18I'm doing good now.
33:19I don't know you now.
33:20I'm 42.
33:21You look amazing.
33:21I don't look at you.
33:22You do not.
33:23It's my birthday.
33:25You're going to have some food.
33:26We're going to have some drinks.
33:27Let's turn up a little bit.
33:28My hubby surprised me.
33:31He was like, invite your friends.
33:32I'm going to pay for y'all to eat, drink, and have a good night.
33:35So your husband did this for you?
33:38Yes.
33:38But Contessa's husband did not do it for her.
33:41So do you think you should tone it down a little bit for the people?
33:44Look, I can't tone it down, because my man is my man.
33:46I don't know what I'm doing right now.
33:47I don't know what I'm doing right now.
33:49I mean, I got a good man.
33:52Happy birthday.
33:55Happy birthday, babe.
33:56Happy birthday.
33:57Yeah.
33:58Good.
33:58Welcome.
33:59Happy birthday.
34:02I love it.
34:04Let's come sit down.
34:08What's up?
34:09Where the party at?
34:11Oh, yeah.
34:12Where the people at party?
34:14Hey.
34:15I can't bend over, because my is short.
34:17Oh, .
34:18Oh, hey, girl.
34:20Hi.
34:21Hi, girls.
34:22So cute.
34:22Oh, my God.
34:23Oh, my God.
34:25Everybody look good.
34:27Don't feel underdressed.
34:29Y'all look just fine.
34:32Look at Jackie's face.
34:35This brand name, Biatch, is always going to have something to say
34:41if you're not wearing Gucci, Prada, Fendi, or something, girl.
34:45You better get yourself some Zara.
34:47Some of us professional women have more places to go than to the party.
34:54So are you saying that the women that walked in aren't professional?
34:57I'm just talking about you.
34:59Oh.
35:01If professional means being you, I want to be me.
35:04I don't want to be you.
35:05Pull it in.
35:06That's all I'm saying.
35:07I can't tell this shit was starting already.
35:10The shade has already started.
35:12They ain't even saying happy birthday yet.
35:14Look, we done took over.
35:15It's Brandi's day, okay?
35:16So look, so first off, let's get some shots.
35:18Her man paying for this, so he said that I can have all the shots I wanted.
35:22That's what he said.
35:23He did.
35:24He said you could have all the shots.
35:25I love this.
35:27At Contessa's Party, I feel like we all didn't get a chance to really, like, kick it.
35:31To me, that's the only negative about having a party.
35:33You don't get to spend any quality time with everybody.
35:36That's why the next day I did a brunch.
35:37I said, if I didn't get a chance to hug you, please come to my house.
35:40And I literally cooked from, like, 10 o'clock in the morning.
35:43You cooked after your party?
35:45Until 9 o'clock.
35:46Where was Scott the next day?
35:47They were outside smoking a cigar.
35:52Scott ain't planning shit, but...
35:55Scott must have been exhausted because he had this party.
35:59You did good on this party.
36:00I'll try.
36:01I'll try.
36:02Wearing that wig and that pimp coat, he was tired.
36:07I enjoy taking care of people.
36:08I know, but somebody needs to take care of you at some point.
36:10I do agree.
36:11I do.
36:12I think that paying for that party was kind of taking care of me.
36:15All right, I'm going to bring it back to me for a second.
36:16Okay.
36:17It's my birthday.
36:18Not for a second for the night.
36:19My husband and my kids on the phone.
36:21So, one.
36:22All right, y'all, this is my husband.
36:24Hey, y'all.
36:26All of my kids.
36:27Hi.
36:28How are you?
36:29So, they wanted to say thank you.
36:31All right.
36:32All right.
36:35Thank you, baby.
36:36I love you.
36:37All right.
36:38Bye.
36:40All right.
36:41Why is she thanking him so much?
36:42Was this like a really expensive restaurant?
36:46Like, was this a lot of money?
36:48Happy birthday.
36:49Happy birthday, Brandi.
36:50This is an amazing dinner party.
36:52I think you should eat before the food starts getting cold.
36:56Yeah, somebody say a prayer.
36:57Can we pray to God or do we have to pray to your husband for thanking him for the food?
37:00You and your feelings, but it's okay.
37:08We thanking these husbands a lot.
37:10These husbands are getting a lot of credit for some Asian s***.
37:12Contessa's retaliating because she's feeling a way that Scott has never planned a birthday
37:21party for her.
37:22We in a strip mall.
37:23I mean, not a pleasure.
37:25She's still upset about that party.
37:27Here's the thing.
37:28My husband paid for this.
37:30He paid for everybody to come and have a good night.
37:32My husband is amazing.
37:33So, I get my husband props and I'll tell anybody.
37:35Okay.
37:36So, I'm sorry, Contessa, if that's a problem for you or anyone else, but-
37:39I think y'all ones with the problem.
37:42Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
37:47No.
37:47I don't think-
37:47The only thing that my husband did not do was plan it.
37:51But I'll be honest, if he would have did this as my birthday party, I would have been underwhelmed.
38:00This is not a birthday party, in my opinion.
38:02Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
38:03Let's bring this back.
38:04Let's bring this back.
38:05It's not a comparison.
38:07That was a party.
38:08This is not a party.
38:09This is a dinner.
38:10It's getting out of hand.
38:11I know.
38:11It's getting out of hand.
38:12Let's do it.
38:12Let's do it.
38:25Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
38:29But I'll be honest, if he would have did this as my first birthday party, I would have been
38:33underwhelmed.
38:38Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
38:39Let's bring this back.
38:40Let's bring this back.
38:41Because this is getting out of hand.
38:42This is not a party.
38:43This is a dinner.
38:44This is a dinner.
38:45Right.
38:46Brandi spent zero.
38:47My husband paid for it.
38:48I brought some money just in case.
38:54Y'all, money for what?
38:56Put your stuff back.
38:57You brought all your birthday money.
38:58I mean, we got a joint bank account.
39:00I got access.
39:01Get your coin first.
39:02Put it back.
39:03Baby, the shade is real, baby.
39:04The shade is very real.
39:06Why are you throwing money on the table?
39:09If I'm not mistaken, at your party, you said you wanted somebody to do something nice for
39:14you.
39:15He knows this is a big deal.
39:17I doubt he's going to come in here and didn't have anything planned for you.
39:20I hope not.
39:20Here you go.
39:21It may not be from Scott, but you're getting wined and dined with a nice meal.
39:27Be grateful.
39:28Really?
39:30Contessa was upset.
39:32What am I, was I upset about?
39:34Scott not throwing a party for you.
39:36And I don't know why you forgot.
39:40Me saying I'm throwing a party for myself, the question becomes, what is this paternalistic
39:45world that some man has to throw some shit for me?
39:47I make just as much money as him.
39:52Not only does Contessa complain about Scott to her friends.
39:56So he's cheating?
39:57Is that what's...
39:57I don't know what nobody's ever doing.
40:00Then she switches her story.
40:01She get mad if you remember what she said the day before.
40:05Keep your opinions about my spouse to your goddamn mother self.
40:10Now I've learned to just accept it.
40:12Stay up out of Contessa's if you know better.
40:14Why focus on the negative?
40:16What kind of friends focus on the negative?
40:18These, bitch.
40:20Okay, girl.
40:20All we're saying at the end of the day is that you complain all the time about your husband.
40:27You complain all the time about your husband.
40:31It is all right, bitch.
40:35Now can we move on?
40:36Where the is the case?
40:37This is overstimulating.
40:38This might be normal behavior for everybody.
40:44I think this is what I'm learning.
40:46And eventually we probably all hug and laugh.
40:49I need big shit to tell to y'all.
40:51We always come back.
40:52Shit, y'all get me all hot.
40:54Till next time.
40:55So, do you think that there is ever a time where, where maybe you are frustrated?
41:03Maybe you do say, be quiet.
41:06I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
41:07Be quiet.
41:08We've been married for 20 years.
41:10And if I spent all of my time focusing on the negatives, I would be like many of my girlfriends
41:15out here who were single.
41:17And maybe at 30 years, he's going to do some of those things that I've asked for.
41:22I've been married 29.
41:24You did it.
41:24He's not going to do anything.
41:26Right.
41:28Dang.
41:28I was like, please enlighten her.
41:31So, yes, I would be great if he would sometimes buy me a Rolls Royce, but I like the ring better.
41:35Some people here married and then don't even want to damn be married no damn more.
41:40I don't know how I got in it.
41:41All I know is I can go in my safe and I see I have a wedding ring, too.
41:46The marriage ain't just all of that.
41:48Difference is, I have a wedding ring and a Rolls Royce.
41:50And I don't have a headache.
41:52Now clock that tea.
41:55Well, what?
41:56Who here doesn't want to be married anymore other than me?
42:02What?
42:03Yes, you do.
42:05Yes, you do.
42:06You have no idea.
42:11Don't say that.
42:12Don't say that.
42:12Don't say that, Simone.
42:14Next time on Married to Medicine.
42:20People file for divorce for all kinds of shit on there.
42:24I bust my boy out and left.
42:26I don't know who the is.
42:29Back to Jackie, I want to see you.
42:31Nice to meet you.
42:31Look how he smiled.
42:32You probably delivered him.
42:34He let up.
42:34Let up.
42:35You supposed to have your shirt off.
42:36Bro, I love the house, but I'm a little bit uncomfortable.
42:40Why they naked men?
42:41Don't cuss at me.
42:42But the ladies next to you took it personal, too.
42:44Don't them bitches.
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