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Married to Medicine - Season 12 Episode 3 -
The Player’s Ball
The Player’s Ball
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00:00Previously on Married to Medicine.
00:13I think Eugene might be right.
00:14What?
00:14When he say Botox can only be done by pretty people.
00:19We bought a building.
00:20A building.
00:20A building.
00:21We had to just cash out 401ks and everything.
00:24Everything costs money.
00:25Every single thing.
00:26It's a grind.
00:27Yeah.
00:27I basically am working like two full-time jobs.
00:31You can't keep no secrets from me.
00:33If I had to learn about my son being arrested on social media, what else is out there?
00:39And Toya, leave my kids laying out of your mouth.
00:42How can we leave your kids out of our mouth when you dog our whole family?
00:47I know a lot about your family.
00:49I've never said, Toya.
00:50I got a lot of secrets on her ass and you don't want me to drop them.
00:53I got some doozies.
00:54Get down.
00:55That bitch making me act crazy.
00:57Right.
00:57Don't stop it.
00:59Now I see you, Dr. Jackie.
01:01Come on.
01:03Dr. Salone.
01:05Toya.
01:06Dr. D.
01:08Dr. Seta.
01:14Am I going to get some grandkids?
01:22To be honest, I don't want you to get this the wrong way, but I like a lot of girls.
01:27You know?
01:28No.
01:30Get one good one, like your mama.
01:36Did you pick up your iron tablets?
01:38I did yesterday.
01:39Okay.
01:40Start taking those.
01:41They do tend to constipate you.
01:43You know, you'll be full of shit, but don't worry about that.
01:46You see these lips.
01:51He's going to be excited.
01:51He's going to be like, okay.
01:54What did he say last week?
01:55He asked me when I could use them.
01:57When you could use them.
01:59And what did you say?
01:59Did you follow your post instructions?
02:00I did.
02:01Okay.
02:02You have to wait.
02:03All right.
02:03Don't be messing up my work now.
02:05Always big energy.
02:07I'm never going to shrink.
02:08Always time to show when I'm having me a drink.
02:11Always double basketball.
02:17Hey, girl.
02:30Hey.
02:30Wait a minute.
02:33You like it?
02:33You know, we 70s babies, baby.
02:35We are, but we ain't going to tell them about it.
02:37Yes, we do.
02:37We don't look it.
02:38Yes, we.
02:39No, we are redefining what it looks like.
02:41It's everything.
02:42Is that everything?
02:43I'm telling you.
02:44Look, let's do it.
02:45I love it.
02:45So first and foremost, I'm thinking either a red carpet or should I do a purple carpet?
02:50Back in the day, they didn't do a carpet.
02:52They did a Soul Train line.
02:53But yeah, but no, no.
02:55A players ball, they had a carpet, baby.
02:57Look at this beautiful space.
02:59Hello, ladies.
03:00How are you?
03:02Good seeing you again.
03:03This is the last year of my 40s.
03:06I'm a 70s baby, so I really want to do a 70s party.
03:09I chose the thing, Players Ball.
03:11You remember the movie Casino?
03:14Yes.
03:14Okay, you remember it was set in the 70s?
03:16Yeah.
03:16So this is kind of like a hybrid of that.
03:18I want it to be lots of activities.
03:20I want people to come in in their 70s best.
03:23Their furs and their suits and their amazing clothes.
03:26Let's just have a good time.
03:28That's really what it's about.
03:29I just want this to be an opportunity for us to just have fun.
03:34Like I said in my invitation.
03:35You've been invited to Dr. Contessa's Players Ball.
03:42This is so cute.
03:43This is going to be my first birthday party ever.
03:46Throwing it for yourself.
03:47I waited almost 50 years to throw myself a party.
03:50Or have someone throw me a party and it didn't happen.
03:53I don't know if I should be sad or happy.
03:55These husbands definitely need to do more.
03:58Excluding Eugene.
04:00So what I'm thinking is we have a super long runway.
04:05And the dance floor will be here.
04:07Be right here in the middle and the stage will be there.
04:09Yes.
04:09Would that be like 150, 200 people?
04:12Four decades of life.
04:13So 200.
04:14Yeah.
04:14I would love to stay like under $40,000 though.
04:20What?
04:21That's your budget?
04:22That's too little?
04:23That's too high.
04:25I think Contessa needs to take that 40K and finish her office that she working on.
04:29Okay.
04:29It's my party and I can do what I want to do.
04:31I ain't got an answer to you.
04:33I think this is going to be great.
04:34I don't want you to have any drama at your party.
04:37Like it should be positive energy.
04:40I agree.
04:40I feel like the outfits would make people have positive energy.
04:43That's not true.
04:43But what I don't...
04:44You have very low expectations of what you're talking about.
04:47I know.
04:48Oh, so you're not inviting our current group.
04:49I'm inviting everybody.
04:51The last time I saw Evelyn, she was crazy.
04:54Okay.
04:54That dog about the stuff that you bring to the table.
04:57I know a lot about your family.
04:59I've never said to her.
05:00I hope her energy is good.
05:02Because that energy that she had the other day, it was stank.
05:05I want to think that our group is going to be able to put all their differences aside
05:09to celebrate me for the one time in my life I've asked them to do that.
05:13No resting bitch faces.
05:14Exactly.
05:15Don't come in.
05:16That's so annoying.
05:16Critique and everything.
05:17Yeah.
05:18Just come in and have a good time.
05:19It's going to be so fun.
05:20Thank you so much for having me.
05:20You just gave me a moment.
05:21I just thought back like, wasn't everybody high back then?
05:24They were.
05:32What's up?
05:33What's happening?
05:35What you doing?
05:35You need something to eat?
05:36Yep.
05:37As long as you don't eat my food.
05:38I don't want to eat your food anyway.
05:40But you do it all the time.
05:43What you got to say about that?
05:46Absolutely nothing.
05:49Why?
05:50Because you do eat my food all the time.
05:52Well, this is the thing with the leftovers.
05:54Don't assume like, oh, they in the refrigerator.
05:57This my girl and everything is ours.
05:59I'm eating the leftovers.
06:00Then what I'm going to eat?
06:01I don't want to have a whole hour conversation about food.
06:04You're just talking about it.
06:06But guess what?
06:06I have a healthy appetite.
06:08You want it 15 times a day?
06:09Feed me.
06:11Well, he just shut my damn mouth.
06:14I think you need to just take your shot
06:16because your hormones are already like, hmm.
06:18Does the shot make me have, like, mood swings, like rage?
06:21Yes.
06:22No, not rage.
06:23I find myself crying a lot.
06:25I have tried with you.
06:27I don't even know what is the problem.
06:30That's not me being in rage.
06:32King and I are trying to get pregnant.
06:33Any chance there's going to be a baby quad coming?
06:37We're hoping.
06:38You talked about IVF.
06:39Any updates?
06:40Um, I am in the process, for sure.
06:42Are you?
06:42We have a friend who basically got pregnant at 46 with triplets.
06:46And I said, well, wait a minute, where is this doctor?
06:47And she's like, oh, this doctor is in Ghana.
06:50When I heard that, I just felt like this is where I need to be.
06:54I appreciate your grace in this and your understanding.
06:58Jackie had agreed to be my doctor stateside.
07:02She is responsible for all of my lab tracing.
07:05I have nothing but good news for you.
07:07Your pap is normal.
07:08Mammogram is normal.
07:09All your tests have been normal.
07:10We've now had two egg retrievals.
07:13All right, I'm just checking in
07:15and getting ready for my surgery to have the eggs removed.
07:21Let's pray that all goes well.
07:23I spent my whole life trying to dodge this bullet.
07:26It's not a bullet.
07:27It's a blessing.
07:28It's a blessing in disguise.
07:30I'll be happy if we just get another, what do you think, like four?
07:34How about you?
07:35Six.
07:36Six.
07:36So I have to go through this again?
07:38I don't want to either.
07:39You think I want to stick myself?
07:40I'm going back there now.
07:42You finish your food.
07:43I'm going to go ahead and go back here and get prepping.
07:45Get your shot going so I can get ready
07:47for this next 24 hours of hell.
07:49Seeking yourself a couple of times a day,
07:52every single day, gets exhausting and tiring.
07:55But despite all the side effects,
07:58it still will be well worth it to me to become a mom.
08:01Big, bad, tough, misquad is scared of a little needle.
08:05I'm not scared of the needle.
08:07I just don't like other people doing it.
08:09If we get the results that we're seeking,
08:11it'll definitely be worth it.
08:12If not, I could have bought another car.
08:17This, babe, breath.
08:19This smells like a bitch.
08:21Come on, she'll tell you for real.
08:23Babe, you're knocking me out.
08:24Because you got a problem.
08:25You're projecting it on me.
08:27I'm going to stop.
08:31I need CPR.
08:34Coming up.
08:34You did good on this party.
08:37I love all of the parties that you men throw.
08:40Look at how sexist y'all are.
08:42Because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my goddamn self,
08:45y'all talking to me about my husband.
08:47Oh.
08:47Hey, birthday girl.
08:58Ma'am.
08:58That's a tiny.
08:59Ma'am.
09:00Ma'am.
09:01Because I dress to work.
09:03Making me look bad.
09:04Working in an evening.
09:05Let me tell you why.
09:06I said, let me give myself, like, maybe get into the party mode.
09:09I mean, I love it.
09:09And then the universe will feel it.
09:11I love it.
09:12You're fabulous.
09:13Today is the day.
09:14It's my birthday party.
09:15Where are we going?
09:16Right in here.
09:17Right here?
09:17To the left?
09:17I have been working my ass off.
09:20This is so pretty.
09:21Isn't this fabulous?
09:25It's so good.
09:27Yeah, baby.
09:29I love it.
09:29Is that fire?
09:30No, this is beautiful.
09:31She is so awesome.
09:32Brand, right?
09:33No, you did.
09:33You are so awesome.
09:34You did a good job.
09:36Do you see the record?
09:37It has my name on it.
09:39What?
09:39It would be so great if Scott was like, what can I do to help?
09:44It just doesn't connect for him that way.
09:46Hey.
09:46I do need help.
09:48Didn't you say you was bringing home ice cream?
09:51He's a smart guy.
09:52He's book smart.
09:53He ain't got no common sense, but he's book smart.
09:55That's what I'm just saying.
09:57Can I give you one piece of advice?
09:58Please.
09:59Because how long you've been married?
10:00Ten years.
10:01Don't ever say, I got this.
10:03Like, no, you don't have to.
10:04That's too much.
10:05Because once you do that, you kind of create this like, oh, OK.
10:09Yeah.
10:09All right, I'm going to talk to Scott.
10:10I'm going to be like, all right, Scott.
10:11Step you.
10:12You're going to have to step up your underwear, huh?
10:13I'm going to tell him.
10:14Because they say panties for girls, so step you.
10:15I'm going to tell him.
10:16Step your drawers up.
10:16I'm going to tell him.
10:21Are you excited about the party?
10:25I am, girl.
10:26But I don't know what to expect, child.
10:28Well, just expect the unexpected, because...
10:31Did you grow up in the 70s?
10:35No.
10:35Uh-oh.
10:35What?
10:41Bringing it all together.
10:42OK, so you got a bell bottle.
10:43Yes, honey.
10:44Boo, boo, boom.
10:45It looks like we were back in the 70s, right?
10:49No.
10:49Jimmy Choo?
10:50No, baby.
10:50I like the way people dressed in the 70s.
10:52I think that they should bring 70s fashion back.
10:55The platform shoes, the makeup, the Afrocentricity of it all.
10:59Now, I was young in the 70s, but I do recall it was free love, honey.
11:05We were very free sexually back in the day, but so was herpes and hepatitis.
11:11So, you know, we paid for the freedom.
11:13And I got a waist trainer just in case, baby.
11:15Hey, look at that.
11:16All I need.
11:17This what you're doing?
11:18That's cute.
11:19That's cute.
11:24One, two, three, two, four.
11:27Get ready for more.
11:29Uh-huh.
11:30I see what you're doing now.
11:32Got my body moving around.
11:34I see what you're doing.
11:36Ooh, baby.
11:37All right.
11:38Sicky, sicky now.
11:39I see what you're doing now.
11:40When I think of the 70s, I think of disco with a little bump action.
11:49Well, you got the hoes tonight, Curtis.
11:50You ready?
11:51Let's go get it.
11:52Hold up.
11:53It's just letting it ride.
11:54That Afro, I do not miss that.
11:56I'm glad that era is gone.
11:58It's so spice.
11:59Feel up.
12:00Feel so nice.
12:01One, two, three, three, four.
12:02This looks beautiful.
12:04Look at that.
12:05Uh-huh.
12:06I see what you're doing now.
12:09Got my body moving around.
12:11How come she got four and I got two?
12:12Because I just...
12:13Back in the 70s, people wore a lot of sequins.
12:17They was wearing the shades.
12:19Man, the 70s for me was baby food, diapers, daycare.
12:25What?
12:25The 70s.
12:26I was born in 1977.
12:28I was a child.
12:34Thank you, honey.
12:36Give me a little bit more.
12:37How about that?
12:37Ew!
12:40When I think about the 70s, a lot of drugs.
12:44Whoa.
12:44Whoa.
12:45Hey, that's what you see on YouTube.
12:48Boots!
12:53I really like the 70s style.
12:56My go-go boots.
12:58My wig was wiggy.
13:01Don't be scared of touch, baby.
13:03And you know my reputation.
13:05I grew up during the 70s.
13:11But I was young.
13:12I wasn't, you know, I wasn't out on the dating scene yet.
13:15I'm not that old.
13:17Talk to Curtis.
13:18I took a picture with Curtis.
13:20He was acting like he didn't want to touch me.
13:21I said, we're not doing all that.
13:23We were clowning too.
13:24Where your hands at?
13:25Where your hands at?
13:26You know, it's my fault.
13:38I should have got him a pimp outfit, but I felt like, you know what?
13:40He pimpin' enough for me.
13:41I wouldn't have wore that.
13:42Pimpin'!
13:43This guy.
13:44This is about as pimpin' as I'mma get.
13:46I know, I know.
13:47I like the shirt.
13:48It's a costume party, dude.
13:50Like, you just don't get it, do you?
13:52There we go, you flair, flair, flair.
13:56This is about as flair as I get.
14:02Hard 12, hard 8, hard 6, all live.
14:07Oh, you gamble, gamble.
14:09I used to.
14:10I don't gamble no more.
14:11I gave it up a long time ago.
14:12You gave it up to the Lord.
14:14To the Lord.
14:14I spoke to the contestant.
14:16Do you know how much you spent?
14:17No.
14:1840 grand.
14:19That's a lot.
14:20Yeah.
14:21If this is the first time she's thrown in a party.
14:23Why y'all, everybody, you saying that
14:25it's because we had some first party,
14:26you gonna spend 40 grand?
14:27$40,000, where?
14:30Where is it?
14:31But I ain't spending 40 grand.
14:33Well, my son's about to graduate in two, three years?
14:35Yeah.
14:35No.
14:36Well, I didn't spend it on Michael,
14:37but I sure, Miles and Michael,
14:39I sure spent five on their little party.
14:41I can see five.
14:42The most Simone has ever spent on a party
14:44is 5,000, baby.
14:46Miles and Michael's graduation.
14:48Won't need no damn balloons.
14:50Won't need no step and repeat.
14:52Won't need no photographer.
14:55Won't need all that.
14:56Well, she told me earlier, I said,
14:57girl, you realize you could have had a little wedding.
14:59But my wedding was $75,000.
15:02Yeah.
15:03In what year?
15:07Shut your mouth.
15:08Nice, Foxy Brown.
15:12Right here, guys.
15:16You got us, ladies.
15:20Okay, we're ready?
15:21Y'all ready?
15:22Relax, babe.
15:23We're going here and enjoying ourselves.
15:25Just relax.
15:25I got your back.
15:27Don't you dare be trying to take no credit for anything.
15:30Scott did not plan this party.
15:32You're going to have fun.
15:34This player knows what she likes and she knows what she wants.
15:37Don't be copping out.
15:38And everything that I do, she going to reject.
15:41Okay?
15:41So, boom.
15:42Hello, hello, party people and the place to be.
15:45Can I have your attention, please?
15:47All you pimps and players in here,
15:49I want you to make a lot of noise
15:51and give a round of applause to my homegirl, Contessa.
15:55Make some noise for Contessa.
15:58Hey, everybody, Contessa.
16:05What's up?
16:08What's up, man?
16:09What's up, man?
16:10What's up, man?
16:11What's up, man?
16:12Hello, everybody.
16:13Hey, guys.
16:14Hey, how are you doing?
16:15Oh, my God.
16:16You look amazing.
16:18You are pretty as to me.
16:19Happy birthday.
16:20You are almost as pretty as me.
16:22My party today is the party of my dreams.
16:24Hey!
16:25But the price of this party was definitely a bit excessive.
16:32Look at you, too, gorgeous.
16:33I could have cut the cake price in half.
16:35I could have cut the food budget in half.
16:37And we would have had it in my living room.
16:39That was so amazing.
16:40Oh.
16:41Maybe the best thing for you to have done
16:43is to stay out of my way.
16:44That's right.
16:44I believe it.
16:44It turned out exactly the way I wanted to.
16:46I believe that.
16:47You made your inches by your damn self.
16:56Yeah!
16:57Oh, my whole music came in.
16:58Hello, beautiful.
17:01We're dancing.
17:02Come on.
17:02Come on.
17:03I ain't seen you since I started letting my hair grow out.
17:06Come on.
17:06What's happening?
17:08What up with you?
17:09You're looking good, Scott.
17:11You did good on this party.
17:12I tried.
17:13I tried.
17:14I helped out as much as I could.
17:15You know.
17:16You did.
17:16You did.
17:17You sent this out.
17:18Boy, bye.
17:19You know you ain't had nothing to do with this party.
17:24I think that was shade.
17:25I think that was a little shade.
17:26That was a little shade.
17:27That's right.
17:28I love all of the parties that you men throw.
17:32I'm shade.
17:32Because all we got to do is cut shade.
17:33Coming up, you complain all the time about your husband.
17:40What kind of friends?
17:41Focus on the negative.
17:42These, bitch.
17:44Okay, girl.
18:01I think they were shade.
18:02I think that was a little shade.
18:03I don't know what you're saying.
18:04That's right.
18:05No, no.
18:06I love all of the parties that you men throw.
18:09Change.
18:09Because all we got to do is cut shade.
18:12I wouldn't pick up cupcakes if they got them.
18:17Do you think I care what these heckling hands are saying about me not throwing a party for my wife?
18:24No.
18:29I'm going to let y'all know.
18:30These 70 hoes have done a whole lot that y'all probably can't do.
18:34This area here got it up.
18:36Yeah.
18:37Really up.
18:38I back down when we bent over for our men, right?
18:44Went bent over backwards.
18:45Oh.
18:46There's a reason why people of my age can keep a man and the younger people cannot.
18:53They don't want to do that no more.
18:54These young girls, they don't want to do that.
18:56You know Heavenly ain't cooking every meal for her man, nor is she bringing Damon's slippers
19:01to sit.
19:03Girl, get your life.
19:05But I've been on my back with so mine.
19:08If he was a good man, I ain't got no problem with that.
19:11Been it over, bust it over, wide over.
19:15I'm going to talk on the mic and bring you out.
19:17I have two outfits, and if I'm going to change, he needs to change into something else.
19:22Hello.
19:23What's happening?
19:24You changed clothes on.
19:25Just once.
19:26Just once.
19:27Just a little something situation.
19:28My gift to you.
19:30Boy.
19:31Stop.
19:31A little something.
19:32A little something.
19:33Jane, how you been, man?
19:34I'm good.
19:35I'm good.
19:35You think the other night.
19:36Yeah.
19:37A little bit out of town and stuff?
19:38I've been working out of town.
19:40I go out of town.
19:41I work, and then I come back.
19:43I just got back yesterday.
19:44I'm working at five different hospitals right now.
19:46They're all at least two hours away, but every hospital, the nurses, after the first day,
19:51is like, can you work here all the time?
19:56Wait, wait.
19:56Only the nurses?
19:57What about the patients?
19:58Only the nurses?
19:59Only the nurses, I said?
20:00I want to see the nurses.
20:03I just want to see the nurses.
20:05I want to see the nurses.
20:06You want to confirm, man?
20:07You feeding into that pool.
20:09Some of these nurses are actually men.
20:11Are they?
20:12Yes.
20:13Absolutely.
20:13What's his name?
20:13All right.
20:14Paul.
20:14So Paul went up to you and said, man?
20:16Yes.
20:16I want you to stay.
20:18The nurses know how you behave and who they want to work with.
20:22Cool guy.
20:23He actually knows Curtis.
20:24Okay.
20:25So there's proof.
20:26Hmm.
20:27Everybody, eyes over here.
20:29Well, everybody, I'd like to thank each and every one of you for coming out tonight.
20:34Scott's talking.
20:34I don't know if she's told you guys, but this is her first major birthday party in her whole
20:40life.
20:41And I also will tell you that she did a lot to get this party going.
20:46She said she did a lot.
20:47She did everything she said.
20:48She's a strong force in our household.
20:51I celebrate her for it.
20:52And I'm going to share one more thing with you.
20:55A long time ago, before my mother passed, me and my mother, we would watch movies together.
21:00And she said, Contessa, remind me of Rose.
21:05She's like, Rose will jump back on the boat for your ass.
21:08Just like she did on Titanic.
21:12Why do the women got to go through such a struggle to earn their position with a man?
21:19I'm going now.
21:21I'm Miss Rose, though, but I'm going now.
21:24Like, why?
21:26All right, please, D, and have a good time.
21:28Thank you guys for coming out.
21:29There's fun outside.
21:30There's fun inside.
21:31Enjoy yourself.
21:32Thank you guys for showing up for me.
21:38Why are you in prom gear and we're in 70s apparel?
21:48Because it's my party.
21:49Somebody needs to be able to tell the difference between y'all and me.
21:53Whose party is it?
21:55Whose party is it, right?
21:57Did you have a good time tonight?
21:59I didn't.
22:00Did you want your husband to throw up or were you okay?
22:02I just said this is my last year of my 40s.
22:05And I'm not going to leave my 40s in this first half of my, like, life with any regrets.
22:10And I think I had a vision in my head.
22:12I think, I don't know if it would have been what I was expecting if somebody else planned it for me.
22:17Like, what if he did something, like, in the backyard?
22:19I really wanted to be somewhere where people could get drinks and get food.
22:22But why not just tell him that and then have him do it?
22:25I told him.
22:25I mean, I've been waiting.
22:26You know me?
22:27He's 20 years.
22:28Don't y'all believe that from the beginning of the relationship, we teach the men how to treat us.
22:34That's what I said.
22:35It's so true to me.
22:35And so if the bar of expectation is low, they can jump right over that and they don't move the bar.
22:44Right.
22:44We have to move the bar.
22:45My first Mother's Day, Cecil didn't have a card for me.
22:50And I'm like, I got this little sucker over here sucking on me and you don't have a card.
22:57Marriage is about teamwork.
23:00It is about supporting one another.
23:02But sometimes I feel taken for granted.
23:06Why are we going to reevaluate our marriages after this amazing party right now?
23:10What is happening right now?
23:11No, reevaluating our marriages is major.
23:13He knows that I handle shit, but I handle shit.
23:17And that's what he was probably waiting for me to handle it.
23:19And ultimately, I did.
23:20You got to go home and live with that man.
23:22You got to go and lay in the same bed that he sleeps in.
23:26So I get why you're taking off on him.
23:28You don't want that smoke at home.
23:30I had a great party.
23:31I was very happy.
23:32I learned my lesson with Contessa.
23:34I am not touching her marriage, baby.
23:36I am running for state representative and I just need to be quiet.
23:39Look at how sexist y'all are.
23:41Because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my goddamn self,
23:44y'all talking to me about my husband.
23:46Y'all can't even on my goddamn birthday talk to me about how I made happy birthday.
23:51Still, you were sitting in the best party you have ever attended.
23:54And you're asking me why Scott didn't do it.
23:56You better do the flip, baby.
23:57You better flip that shit, baby.
23:59This is my party.
24:00Because I am the best event planner for my birthday party.
24:03Okay?
24:04My party was empty.
24:06Game changer.
24:07Yes, stop off.
24:08Yes.
24:09Yes.
24:09Yes.
24:11Stop off.
24:12You better come on.
24:13Yes.
24:15Coming up.
24:17If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
24:20That can happen.
24:21I'm done talking about this.
24:22You are so f***ing entitled.
24:24I'm done.
24:30Ow!
24:35You better back up, back up, back up, back up.
24:39Okay, I'm gonna get the plates.
24:45I ordered them some graduation thank you cards.
24:49I'm old school.
24:50I mean, a written thank you note would always be nice.
24:58I need this.
25:01This.
25:03Pow.
25:06Oh!
25:08I'm not gonna lie.
25:09That looks good as hell.
25:14What up, boys?
25:16Haircuts.
25:17Smellin' good.
25:19Haircuts.
25:20You wanna fix some food?
25:22Food.
25:23Food?
25:23We got the food.
25:24We got y'all.
25:25Come on, sit down.
25:25Look at y'all.
25:26This is so sweet.
25:28Like our, this is our celebration to y'all.
25:30We had our graduation party.
25:32This y'all graduation party.
25:33Woo!
25:34We've been waiting for them to get their degrees.
25:37We knew they could do it.
25:39It's impressive.
25:41They definitely took different routes to get there.
25:44He had a gap year.
25:45Malia Obama, she did a gap year in Europe.
25:47Miles just took his gap year in school.
25:49Involuntarily.
25:51Do you want me to help you?
25:53Help me do what?
25:55Help you make your bed.
25:57You're not funny.
25:57I'm gonna warm my food up.
25:59Now, it's time to pay bills, baby.
26:03Bills, bills, bills.
26:04It's a surprise, brother.
26:07You got some food.
26:09Yep, yep.
26:10Oh, this.
26:13That's good.
26:13Hyping hot.
26:15So how does it feel to have one less thing off the plate?
26:19Nothing.
26:19It feels like nothing.
26:20So we talked about, in high school, right?
26:25I got the Jeep.
26:26Boom.
26:26Jeep was cool.
26:27But now we're starting to teeter towards Jeep not being so cool.
26:30So now it's like...
26:31Oh, really?
26:31What makes a Jeep not so cool?
26:33No, it's cool.
26:33But it's just like, I'm tired of seeing it.
26:35I know you tired of seeing it.
26:37Tired.
26:37What we do have to look at, though, is your financial situation to see if you could afford
26:46to make any payments.
26:50I put some numbers.
26:51I did some figures for you.
26:53Hold on one second while I get my iPad.
26:55I just want to say before you go, make sure whatever you bring out on that iPad is not
27:00going to cause me to pick up your pasta off your plate and feed it to the dogs.
27:06Yeah, it might.
27:07Once Miles and Michael told me that they were going to be graduating this year, all I have
27:13been able to think about is moving forward financially.
27:17Basically, what I did was just calculate the Chase bill for last year, month by month.
27:26January...
27:27Mama, can I stop you right there?
27:28You didn't go anything wrong.
27:29Why does this have to be negative?
27:31It doesn't.
27:31It doesn't.
27:32It's factual information.
27:33Michael spent over $60,000 by himself on this card.
27:40The Chase bill?
27:41If I were you and I wanted a car, I wouldn't be arguing with the person you're asking to
27:48buy the car.
27:49But that's me.
27:50This needs to be shared so that he has a clear understanding about the value of money,
27:57about the value of just swiping a mother f***ing credit card.
28:02So have you been thinking about where you want to go to law school, how you're going to
28:08finance your education?
28:09I do have a mother who makes pretty good money.
28:18I don't feel like I should be footing the bill for anything other than the roof over your
28:25head, that sort of a thing.
28:27So when you start talking about law school, graduate school, and so forth, if you're not
28:33getting any support, right, if no one's helping you to do that, and it sounds like, based on
28:40what your mom is saying, that's what would be the ideal situation.
28:44So the only one here at the table with an actual graduate doctorate degree is me.
28:51And how I did it was I got scholarship money and loans.
28:59Your mom was not able to do the things for you that you are able to do for us.
29:06What about all the rich white kids, their parents pay for their way to do everything, and then
29:10they get out of college debt-free and are millionaires?
29:13So what about all the white people who pay for their kids to go to school, be debt-free,
29:23and they still ain't doing ?
29:24Now, Michael's point is still a valid one.
29:31We are blessed.
29:32We are in a situation where we can help.
29:35Who here at the table gives a about how hard I'm working instead of being able to move
29:45towards retirement?
29:47Me.
29:53He said that he thinks every day about how he can, what he can do to be able to give
29:57back to you.
29:58That's what he said.
29:59I understand it.
30:00But then don't...
30:01If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
30:04It can happen because God might take you away.
30:08I'm done talking about this.
30:09Oh, I don't care.
30:11Be done.
30:12I get tired of being the lone man out.
30:15It's always three against one.
30:17I'm jumping in.
30:18You don't jump in.
30:19You can't speak for me because you don't think like me.
30:22After you stink, I'm on the stink.
30:23You don't think like me.
30:24After you stink, I'm on the stink.
30:25You don't support me on shit.
30:26Where did that come from?
30:27It comes from my heart.
30:28Is this a beat?
30:29It comes from my heart.
30:30The bottom line is you are so f***ing entitled is what this revealed to me.
30:36I'm done.
30:38I'm done.
30:39I don't owe you a f***ing thing from here.
30:45I have given you everything I have to give.
30:50I'm done.
30:58I'm done.
30:59I'm done.
31:02Let me turn it tonight.
31:04You want to just rest.
31:06Rest?
31:07Yes.
31:08Don't wake up in the morning.
31:10That's not enough.
31:10And get your day started off right.
31:14And then in the morning, you're going to be, I'm late.
31:16You trying to reverse the big back?
31:26You trying to take my back big?
31:28No, it's not big.
31:28Just wide.
31:29I'm smiling away.
31:31It's cute in the face.
31:32With a big back?
31:38Want me to just rotate it over?
31:39No.
31:39Oh, that's probably a good idea.
31:41See, teamwork.
31:42That's what I'm saying.
31:43Let me be your team right now.
31:44You're going the opposite direction.
31:47Are you going the opposite direction?
31:49No.
31:49D-O-D-D-E-S-S
31:54I'm a divo, I'm a goddess
31:57I know you're shopping, but I'm wondering how to find it
32:00I'm a divo, I'm a goddess
32:02Come on in.
32:04I must be the first to arrive.
32:05You are.
32:06Okay.
32:09I'm going to have a blue daily margarita.
32:13Hey, how are you?
32:15Good.
32:15Hey, missy.
32:17Hey.
32:17Drinking already?
32:18Girl, yes.
32:20When you like, you got yesterday.
32:22Praise God.
32:23Can I get a dirty, Shirley?
32:25So how you been?
32:26You look cute today.
32:26Girl, we had a family dinner that went all the way left, got an attitude, because I'm not
32:35going to pay for law school.
32:37I never said I was paying for law school, dude.
32:40I don't think you should.
32:41Me and him going back and forth.
32:43Cecil was silent, boo.
32:46I get tired of being a bad cop all by myself all the time.
32:50I understand, boo.
32:51I just need a break from the people that last night went more.
32:55I just need a break.
32:56Hey, ladies.
33:03Hey.
33:04How are you?
33:04How are you?
33:05How are you?
33:05I'm so good.
33:06You did that.
33:07You did that.
33:10I have a card for you.
33:12Happy birthday.
33:13I'm doing good.
33:14I don't know you now.
33:15I'm 42.
33:16I don't look at you.
33:17You do not.
33:18It's my birthday.
33:20You're going to have some food.
33:21We're going to have some drinks.
33:22Let's turn up a little bit.
33:23My hubby surprised me.
33:26He was like, invite your friends.
33:27I'm going to pay for y'all to eat, drink,
33:29and have a good night.
33:31So your husband did this for you?
33:33Yes, he did.
33:33But Contessa's husband did not do it for her.
33:36So do you think you should tone it down a little bit
33:38for the people?
33:39Look, I can't tone it down because my man is my man.
33:41That's right.
33:43I'm a man.
33:45I mean, I got a good man.
33:47Happy birthday.
33:50Happy birthday, babe.
33:51Happy birthday.
33:52Yeah.
33:53Good.
33:53Welcome.
33:54Happy birthday.
33:55Hello.
33:57I love it.
33:59Let's come sit down.
34:03What's up?
34:05Where the party at?
34:06Oh.
34:06Where the people at the party?
34:08Hey.
34:09I can't bend over because my is short.
34:11Oh, .
34:12Oh, .
34:13Hey.
34:14Hey.
34:15Hi.
34:15Hi, girls.
34:16So cute.
34:17Hi, girls.
34:18Everybody look good.
34:21Don't feel underdressed.
34:23Y'all look just fine.
34:26Look at Jackie's face.
34:28This brand name biatch is always going to have something to say.
34:35If you're not wearing Gucci, Prada, Fendi or something, girl.
34:40You better get yourself some Zara.
34:44Some of us professional women have more places to go than to the party.
34:49So are you saying that the women that walked in aren't professional?
34:52I'm just talking about you.
34:53What you trying to say?
34:54Oh.
34:56If professional means being you, I want to be me.
34:59I don't want to be you.
35:00Pull it in.
35:01That's all I'm saying.
35:02I can't tell you she was starting already.
35:04The shade has already started.
35:06They didn't even say happy birthday yet.
35:08Look, we done took over.
35:09It's Brandy's day, OK?
35:11So look, so first off, let's get some shots.
35:13Her man paying for this, so he said that I can have all the shots I wanted.
35:17That's what he said.
35:18He did.
35:19He said you could have all the shots.
35:21I love this.
35:22That contestant's party.
35:23I feel like we all didn't get a chance to really, like, kick it.
35:25To me, that's the only negative about having a party.
35:27You don't get to spend any quality time with everybody.
35:30That's why the next day I did a brunch.
35:31I said, if I didn't get a chance to hug you, please come to my house.
35:34And I literally cooked from, like, 10 o'clock in the morning.
35:37You cooked after your party?
35:39Until 9 o'clock.
35:40Where was Scott the next day?
35:41He could cook.
35:42They were outside smoking cigar.
35:47Scott ain't planning ,
35:48but Scott must have been exhausted after getting a chance at this party.
35:53You did good on this party.
35:55I tried.
35:56After wearing that wig and that pimp coat, he was tired.
36:02I enjoy taking care of people.
36:03I know, but somebody needs to take care of you at some point.
36:05I do agree.
36:06I do.
36:07I think paying for that party was kind of taking care of me.
36:09All right.
36:10I'm going to bring it back to me for a second,
36:11because it's my birthday.
36:12Not for a second, for the night.
36:14My husband and my kids on the phone.
36:15So one, all right, y'all.
36:18This is my husband.
36:19Hey, y'all.
36:20I'm with my kids.
36:22Hi.
36:23How are you?
36:24So they wanted to say thank you.
36:26All right.
36:27All right.
36:29Thank you, baby.
36:30I love you.
36:31All right.
36:33Bye.
36:35All right.
36:36I'm so much.
36:37Was this like a really expensive restaurant?
36:41Like, was this a lot of money?
36:43Happy birthday.
36:44Happy birthday, Brandi.
36:45This is an amazing dinner party.
36:47I think you should eat before the food starts getting cold.
36:51Yeah, somebody say a prayer.
36:52Can we pray to God, or do we have to pray to your husband
36:54for thanking him for the food?
36:54Go, go, go.
36:55Go, go.
36:56Go, go, go.
36:57Go, go, go.
36:57Go, go, go, go.
36:59Go, go, go, go, go, go.
37:01You and your feelings, but it's OK.
37:02We thanking these husbands a lot.
37:04These husbands are getting a lot of credit for some basic .
37:10Contessa's retaliating because she's feeling a way that Scott has
37:14never planned a birthday party for her.
37:16We in a strip mall.
37:17I mean, not a pleasant.
37:19She's still upset about that party.
37:21Here's the thing.
37:22My husband paid for this.
37:23He paid for everybody to come and have a good night.
37:26My husband is amazing.
37:27So I get my husband props, and I'll tell anybody.
37:29OK.
37:30So I'm sorry, Contessa, if that's a problem
37:32for you or anyone else, but it is what it is.
37:34I think y'all was with the problem.
37:37Did you hear my husband complain one minute
37:39about how much money I was spent?
37:40No.
37:41I don't think, but I don't think you're...
37:42The only thing that my husband did not do was plan it.
37:45But I'll be honest, if he would have did this
37:47as my birthday party, I would have been underwhelmed.
37:54This is not a birthday party, in my opinion.
37:56Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
37:57Let's bring this back.
37:58Let's bring this back.
37:59It's not a comparison.
38:01That was a party.
38:02This is not a party.
38:03This is a dinner.
38:04It's getting out of hand.
38:15This is not a party.
38:16This is a dinner.
38:17Right.
38:18Brandi spent zero.
38:19My husband paid for it.
38:20I brought some money just in case.
38:21This is not a party.
38:22This is not a party.
38:23This is a dinner.
38:24This is a dinner.
38:25Right.
38:26Brandi spent zero.
38:27I brought some money just in case.
38:28Yeah.
38:29Money for what?
38:30Put your stuff back.
38:31You brought all your birthday money.
38:32I mean, we got a joint bank account.
38:33I got access.
38:34Get your coin first.
38:35Put it back.
38:36Baby, the shade is real, baby.
38:37The shade is very real.
38:38Why are you throwing money on the table?
38:41If I'm not a party, I'm not a party.
38:43It's not a party.
38:44It's not a party.
38:45It's not a party.
38:46It's a dinner.
38:47Brandi spent zero.
38:48My husband paid for it.
38:49I brought some money just in case.
38:50Y'all what?
38:51Money for what?
38:52Put your stuff back.
38:53You brought all your birthday money.
38:54I mean, we got a joint bank account.
38:56I got access.
38:57Put your coin first.
38:58Put it back.
38:59Baby, the shade is real, baby.
39:00The shade is very real.
39:02Why are you throwing money on the table?
39:04If I'm not mistaken, at your party,
39:06you said you wanted somebody to do something nice for you.
39:10He knows this is a big deal.
39:12I doubt he's gonna come in here
39:13and didn't have anything planned for you.
39:15I hope not.
39:15Here you go.
39:16It may not be from Scott,
39:18but you're getting wined and dined with a nice meal.
39:22Be grateful.
39:23Really?
39:25Contessa was upset.
39:27What am I, what's I upset about?
39:29Scott not throwing a party for you.
39:31And I don't know why you forgot.
39:35Me saying I'm throwing a party for myself?
39:38The question becomes,
39:39what is this paternalistic world
39:40that some man has to throw some shit for me?
39:42I make just as much money as him.
39:47Not only does Contessa complain about Scott to her friends.
39:51So he's cheating?
39:52Is that what's...
39:52I don't know what nobody's ever doing.
39:55Then she switches her story.
39:56She get mad if you remember what she said the day before.
40:00Keep your opinions about my spouse
40:02to your goddamn motherfucking self.
40:05And I've learned to just accept it.
40:07Stay up out of Contessa's if you know better.
40:09Why focus on the negative?
40:11What kind of friends focus on the negative?
40:13These, bitch.
40:15Okay, girl.
40:17All we're saying at the end of the day
40:19is that you complain all the time about your husband.
40:22You complain all the time about your husband.
40:26It is all right, bitch.
40:30Now, can we move on?
40:31Where the is the case?
40:32This is over-singling.
40:33This might be normal behavior for everybody.
40:40I think this is what I'm learning.
40:41And eventually, we probably all hug and laugh.
40:44I didn't even say shit to tell y'all.
40:47Y'all get me all hot.
40:49Till next time.
40:50So, do you think
40:52that there is ever a time
40:55where maybe you are frustrated,
40:58maybe you do...
40:58We all are.
40:59Say, be quiet.
41:01I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
41:02Be quiet.
41:03We've been married for 20 years,
41:05and if I spent all of my time
41:07focusing on the negatives,
41:08I would be like many of my girlfriends
41:10out here who are single.
41:12And maybe at 30 years,
41:14he's going to do some of those things
41:16that I've asked for.
41:17I've been married 29.
41:18You get it.
41:19He's not going to do anything.
41:20Right.
41:23Dang.
41:23I was like, please enlighten her.
41:26So, yes, I would be great
41:27if he would sometimes buy me a Rolls Royce,
41:30but I like the ring better.
41:31Some people here married
41:31and then don't even want to damn
41:33be married no damn more.
41:35I don't know how I got in it.
41:37All I know is I can go in my safe
41:39and I see I have a wedding ring, too.
41:41The marriage ain't just all of that.
41:43Difference is,
41:44I have a wedding ring and a Rolls Royce,
41:45and I don't have a headache.
41:47Now clock that tea.
41:51Well, what?
41:51Who here doesn't want to be married
41:53anymore other than me?
41:57What?
41:58Yes, you do.
42:00Yes, you do.
42:01You have no idea.
42:06Don't say that.
42:07Don't say that.
42:08Don't say that, Simone.
42:09Next time on Married to Medicine.
42:15People file for divorce
42:16for all kind of shit all day.
42:19I lost my boy out in love.
42:21I don't know who the is.
42:24Dr. Jackie want to see you.
42:26Look how he smiled.
42:27You probably delivered him.
42:29You're supposed to have your shirt off.
42:32Bro, I love the house,
42:33but I'm a little bit uncomfortable.
42:35Why they naked men?
42:35Don't cuss at me.
42:37But the ladies next to you
42:38took it personal, too.
42:39Don't them bitches.
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