00:00Girls say I'm married.
00:02I find American men for a visa.
00:04We met online.
00:06After five days, I said,
00:08okay, we can try to be in a relationship.
00:10We get a lot of hate comments.
00:12That she wants to take advantage of me.
00:14Green cards.
00:16Future security. Gold digger.
00:18They are saying that my husband is
00:20abnormal. Where is family?
00:22For sure struggling with
00:24disability. This is disgusting.
00:26The jeans don't look too good there.
00:30Alright.
00:32Maybe that one. Which one?
00:34This one. Okay.
00:36Yeah, I like that one.
00:38I'm Lynn. I'm Brett.
00:40People call me an AFAM.
00:42A fat American man.
00:44They say she only married me for a visa.
00:46I'm 24.
00:48I'm currently waiting for
00:50my work because
00:52I just apply. I am
00:5425 and I am an
00:56engineer. We met online
00:58on a dating app called
01:00OkCupid.
01:01Way back pandemic
01:022022.
01:04When I first saw him in the
01:06dating app, I was
01:08thinking that he is cute
01:10because he messaged me first
01:12and I gave him my WhatsApp.
01:14And after five days
01:16I said, okay, we can try
01:18to be in a relationship.
01:20We first met like after two years
01:22longest in relationship. I realized
01:24that he is a very good man
01:26because how he worked hard
01:28for our future
01:30that time. I know that he's the right
01:32man for me.
01:33The first time I
01:34saw her in person, I was walking
01:36down a ramp with a bunch of people
01:38and I saw her in the crowd.
01:40We're finally together
01:42and had a great night.
01:44We're getting ready to make
01:46a TikTok online.
01:48We get a lot of hate comments
01:50but we're still filming.
01:52I love to do content
01:54so it's my idea.
01:56So we look for
01:58something trending usually.
02:00For a couple?
02:02Yeah.
02:03Mostly we got a lot of judgment
02:05and TikTok
02:06and it was a lot like
02:08she's with him for the green card
02:10and that the only reason she's there
02:12is because I'm an American
02:14and just she wants to take
02:16advantage of me
02:18and that she's just using me.
02:20I think it really just started
02:22when we got that first
02:24viral video at the airport.
02:26The worst reaction that we deal
02:28is they are saying that
02:30my husband is abnormal.
02:32I accept whatever he is
02:34and I love him whatever he is
02:36that's why I'm here
02:38with him.
02:40For his family, he for sure
02:42struggles with disability.
02:44I don't really have any disabilities
02:46at all.
02:48I'm fully functioning.
02:50My only disability
02:52is worrying about comments like that.
02:54Are genes an extra chromosome?
02:56I mean, I don't think so.
02:58I have the exact 22 you need
03:02and nothing more.
03:04Nothing else to do in life.
03:06So they want to just comment.
03:08He's so funny.
03:10Get those genes, Queen.
03:12Yeah, we'll get all the genes he had
03:14because he belongs to me
03:16and I am happy with him.
03:18The genes is good for me.
03:20As long as he's a good man,
03:22he's a hard-working man.
03:24This is disgusting by the way.
03:26No, this is not disgusting.
03:28This is love.
03:30We prove that we are for each other.
03:32I don't think I'm quite a victim
03:34or anything, but if you think that,
03:36Green Card, no.
03:38Future security.
03:39Gold digger.
03:40Oh.
03:41It's really hard for me
03:43if I was just after Green Card
03:45to leave my family in the Philippines.
03:47It's not really easy.
03:48After the money.
03:49I'm not after money, right?
03:51Yeah.
03:52I'm after love.
03:53And after genes.
03:55If she was after money,
03:56she'd go after him.
03:57Someone lay richer.
03:58Stepping stone.
04:00No.
04:01Run for the long haul.
04:03Sorry to break it to you.
04:05So, we went to a beach
04:08near Sorciguan City.
04:10And that's where we proposed.
04:12And, yeah.
04:13Obviously, she said yes.
04:14Yeah.
04:15And history.
04:18When he proposed that time,
04:21I know that I will leave my family
04:24in the Philippines,
04:25that I need to be with him in the USA.
04:27It's kind of hard for me to leave my family
04:30in the Philippines.
04:31So, there's a lot of adjustment.
04:33But, because I love him,
04:35I want to be with him.
04:36I will do that for him.
04:38We have a beautiful love story.
04:40They are different and unique.
04:42It seems like he wants to learn your culture
04:46that's love.
04:47It's this beautiful love story.
04:49Why is everyone so mean?
04:51They look happy that's all the mother.
04:53Yeah.
04:54I don't care.
04:55Yeah.
04:56Right?
04:57We don't care.
04:58So, today we're going to cook some chicken...
05:00Lumpia.
05:01Lumpia.
05:02Yeah.
05:03Which is like a traditional Filipino dish.
05:06It's her favorite food from the Philippines.
05:09Lumpia wrapper on their lips.
05:11Yeah, yeah.
05:12And this cabbage, onion, and carrots.
05:14Yes, yes.
05:15This is ground pork.
05:17We can face adversity together,
05:19and we're stronger together against all the donors.
05:23Our relationship works because he's very patient to live,
05:27because even if it's a long-distance relationship,
05:30he don't give up.
05:31My family is very supportive to our relationship.
05:34They are proud because I'm with him now,
05:37and he proved that he will bring me in the U.S.
05:40I think, generally, people saw our relationship as a good thing.
05:45Some people thought maybe she was, like, after me for money,
05:50but I think they realized over time that she wasn't.
05:53Now, seeing what it is that she's a genuine person,
05:56and long-distance relationships are an actual viable relationship.
06:01I always cook.
06:03I love cooking, and I love baking.
06:05I don't think judgment has really affected me ever,
06:08because I don't really take it too seriously.
06:10I just realized that instead of being hateful or angry or whatever,
06:15you should just be hopeful to them
06:18that they can kind of find a better light in their life
06:22and find a better focus.
06:24Kindness is free.
06:25So, yeah, we are very positive as a couple.
06:29I will be able to work here because I already have my green card.
06:33I already applied.
06:34I've been here, like, five months in the U.S.A.,
06:37and it's kind of hard for me because it's very cold, you know?
06:41I need to adjust everything here because I need to speak English all the time.
06:46It's really hard, but as long as I'm with my husband and supporting me for everything,
06:52we will be happy and contented in life.
06:56We both are working.
06:57She's about to be working, and we kind of both help each other clean
07:01and help her, like, prepare food sometimes and help her do laundry and stuff.
07:07We're kind of going to, like, balance that 50-50, split it down the middle,
07:11bills are 50-50 and everything like that and rent and stuff.
07:15I think our future holds mostly just Lynn studying in school for her nursing career
07:22and just trying to make the best out of her life.
07:27Being able to be independent in the U.S.A. and let her experience her freedom here.
07:33What I love most about Brad is he loves my family the way he loves me
07:39and he's very supportive for all the time.
07:42She's just a really kind woman and really sweet and really hardworking.
07:46I think just overall a great person.
07:49I don't see any flaws in her and I think she was perfect.
07:53So I think we're just a match made in heaven.
