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90 Day Diaries Season 7 Episode 4
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00:00I got a nice little pop-up tension, nice and easy.
00:10Bye, Nani.
00:11All I can hear is my daughter saying, don't be the crazy cat lady.
00:15Bye, sweetie.
00:16Today's the day, a certain day, ready to go.
00:19See you then.
00:21Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird for a date.
00:26Let's do this.
00:27I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office, and I am so nervous.
00:37How are you?
00:39Good to see you.
00:41This is Matthew.
00:43First thing that is really striking me is I've got this long hair.
00:48It's not a wig.
00:49Look at Matthew's hair is still perfect.
00:50Mine's not.
00:51It's blown all over the place.
00:52So, Tyree, just to go over, we're having the lathroscopic vertical sleeve procedure.
00:58Yep, that's right.
00:59Yep.
01:00I've been overweight my entire life, and I feel like surgery is the only route that I could
01:05take that would help me lose weight.
01:06For the surgery, we do five incisions, four across the abdomen, one on top.
01:11Okay.
01:11And then I get to cut out and remove part of your stomach.
01:13I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half, and I'm scared.
01:20I love the new sunglasses.
01:22Yeah, yeah.
01:23I'm sure they serve their purpose.
01:24I'm pretty sorry about it.
01:25You didn't have that girl over there?
01:27It's been tense with my fiancee, Megan.
01:29If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
01:32You have my location.
01:33I'm wearing this ring.
01:34You're telling me I'm doing all the that I'm not doing.
01:36I feel like it's always excuses.
01:39Excuses?
01:39Guess what, lady?
01:40This is what I think about your excuses, man.
01:42See, the ring's gone.
01:43What you said?
02:08Hey, thanks for the new film.
02:11Oh, God, what the is going on in here?
02:15Some of us are actually working.
02:17I'm John.
02:18I'm 41 years old, originally from Massachusetts.
02:23I'm Megan.
02:23I'm 36 years old from San Antonio, Texas.
02:31Our story began when I was lucky enough to catch a message
02:34from this beautiful woman right here who, you know,
02:37used God's gift to tempt Johnny and, you know,
02:41it worked.
02:42That's my heart.
02:46After chatting with Megan for about four months,
02:49I went down to San Antonio and we got to hang out
02:51and get to know each other, and it was good.
02:53I think it went well physically.
02:55I think we had good sex.
02:57Good sex helps.
03:00Next thing you know, I'm moving down to San Antonio
03:03to be with Megan and her daughter, River.
03:07Now I'm the family man.
03:08After a few months, Megan was looking for me
03:10to make a bigger move.
03:12In three months, it's almost going to be a year,
03:14so I would hope that you were wanting some kind of commitment
03:18as far as like a ring or something, but...
03:20I have no doubt about who I want to spend the rest of my life
03:23with, if that's you guys.
03:24Mm-hmm.
03:26So I decided to take the hint and, you know, make the move at the tell-all.
03:30My timeline, well, you know, you know, it's like whenever it happens,
03:34you know what I'm saying?
03:35Because right now, baby, will you do me the honors of being my wife?
03:40I love you.
03:41Aw.
03:42I love you.
03:43Love you, babe.
03:45We've been engaged two short years.
03:48And we're still not married.
03:49I mean, it's been tense.
03:51We've been fighting a lot.
03:53We haven't seen eye-to-eye a lot lately, but we're still here together.
03:57Still holding strong, isn't it?
03:59That gives me hope.
04:03Look, let's go see.
04:04Hey.
04:04Hey, babe!
04:05What are you doing?
04:06What?
04:07What are you doing?
04:08I see that you're working very hard.
04:10Let me show everybody how great you look.
04:12This is my beautiful fiancée.
04:15Hi.
04:16This is your little setup that's taken away from.
04:18Oh, yeah.
04:18Now, look, come to my office.
04:20Welcome to my office.
04:21I got a facility right here.
04:23It's ready to go.
04:25Well, the good news is.
04:27You don't have to go find a , right?
04:29Oh, yeah.
04:29No, it definitely saves me time.
04:31So I was in a car accident, which was really scary.
04:35And I ended up suffering from some, like, mild concussions,
04:38some cognitive issues.
04:40I've just been having some, like, PTSD and sensory sensitivity.
04:45This little closet right here is soundproof.
04:48Soundproof?
04:49I pretty much set up my stuff in our walk-in bathroom
04:52for noise control, because that's one of my sensory issues.
04:56You know, it's for the best in my interests, you know,
04:58even though it might not be the best for him.
05:02I love it.
05:05I got to get done working, and I got to get this done.
05:08And then we can enjoy our time.
05:10We have a little getaway.
05:12Hopefully, you know, we get some alone time.
05:15Oh, yeah.
05:15We're going to get some alone time, honey.
05:17Hopefully.
05:17Yeah, yeah.
05:18Let's try and make sure it's a positive, positive trip.
05:21It takes two to do that, though.
05:22Oh, yeah.
05:23Two to take away.
05:24It takes two to take away.
05:25So not just me.
05:26You, too.
05:27Right, exactly.
05:27So while I'm working, you can't go away.
05:28So while you're working, why not you work?
05:30And I will go do my thing.
05:33Megan and I are heading to Sal Padre Island for some relaxation,
05:37but more importantly, to work on our relationship.
05:39I'm hoping we can get back to, like, smiling at each other,
05:42laughing with each other, having a good time with each other.
05:45I can't wait for this.
05:46OK.
05:48Yes, I'm ready, too.
05:50Oh.
05:51Oh, so I'm ready.
05:52I hope there's a lot of alcohol,
05:54because I'm going to need a lot of alcohol.
05:58Yeah.
06:01Let me call Pat to see if he's around.
06:13What's up, bro?
06:14What's up?
06:15I'm trying to get some video game action going on.
06:18You know?
06:19I'd like to let out some frustration.
06:21You know what I'm saying?
06:22I got a trip with Megan.
06:23This is our trip to try to, you know, make things better,
06:27and try to, like, work on us.
06:30We fight every night.
06:32It's the trust issues.
06:33It's the, you know, accusations.
06:36I'm talking to someone I'm cheating on her.
06:38I'm doing something.
06:39It's not good, you know?
06:42This is just like, I'm sleeping on the couch every night,
06:44because we're fighting every night.
06:44No, your situation is horrible.
06:48We've had these issues for a while now,
06:50but it's gotten even worse.
06:51If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
06:54If I'm so much as talking to another girl, I'm cheating.
06:58I have to share my location all the time, where I am, who I'm texting.
07:01And worst of all, I have to wear an engagement ring because, you know,
07:04she thinks it's going to keep women from hitting on me.
07:07And, you know, it's taxing.
07:11I mean, you guys are engaged now.
07:13Like, I don't know how you can make it more clear that you're not
07:16other girls.
07:17You don't want to take the next step if things aren't resolved,
07:21because that never works.
07:23I'm just going to let you go, bro, and, uh, I will go dead-stop packing.
07:30So we're going to South Padre, got all this stuff ready, finally.
07:43Let's see how long we can make this.
07:44Let's go on five-hour drive.
07:45Yeah, like, four and a half hours, five hours.
07:48Let's go.
07:48But, um, I'm just looking forward to the destinations that we'll see.
07:53Hi, guys.
07:55Things have been really tense lately.
07:58It's just frustrating, because John's saying that we would be
08:01married within, like, two years.
08:03So, I'm like, clock's ticking, and still nothing.
08:07I don't know, like, does he not want to marry me?
08:09Like, does he want somebody else?
08:11I'm really hoping that we can work on our issues,
08:13just to really see if, like, we even do have a future together.
08:17We are set.
08:24Ready?
08:25All right.
08:26Well, I guess I'll catch you guys later,
08:28and we're going to start our adventure.
08:30Oh, I'm so sorry.
08:32Woo!
08:33We're here.
08:34Hey!
08:35Self-pondering.
08:36Self-pondering.
08:36Look at the beach.
08:43She's smiling.
08:44She's in a good mood.
08:46I'm in a good mood.
08:47So, so far, I think, you know, I think we're on to something, yeah.
08:52We made it!
08:53Woo-hoo-hoo!
08:54Oh, yeah.
08:55Isn't this nice, huh?
08:57Hey!
08:58All right, excited.
08:59Just got to keep that mouth shut.
09:00Oh, no, honey.
09:01That's not going to happen, so we've got to figure something out.
09:04But this will never be quiet, ever.
09:07All right, well, now Megan's going to take a little bit, so I figured Johnny will get
09:19the tent set up.
09:20I got a nice little pop-up tent.
09:22Should be nice and easy.
09:23Hopefully, it better be nice and easy.
09:24Look at that, huh?
09:26Woo!
09:27Look at this dude.
09:28Woo!
09:29In the description when I bought this online, supposedly, you can just toss it in the air.
09:34This thing will open up, so we'll find out.
09:36Well, don't fail me, buddy.
09:39Oh, look at my gorgeous face.
10:05Look, she was getting ready.
10:06I couldn't find myself.
10:08Oh, yeah.
10:09Now, what we have in store for us is, you know, a nice, beautiful day on the beach.
10:14Now, look at that.
10:15Woo!
10:25Hey, babes.
10:26Hi.
10:26Come on, we're here together in this beautiful, beautiful situation.
10:30Yes.
10:31It's a beautiful, not as beautiful as you can call us, baby, man.
10:36I love the nude black glasses.
10:37Yeah, yeah.
10:38I'm sure they serve their purpose.
10:39What are you talking about?
10:40Wow.
10:41Are you?
10:42Look at you.
10:43Are you?
10:44Oh, look at you.
10:45You're looking at a fat girl, are they?
10:46I know what these glasses are for.
10:47Look at them with a little slime on the...
10:49What are you talking about?
10:50You're sly, aren't you?
10:51What are you talking about?
10:52I'm not here because I'm, like, trying to cover my eyes.
10:59It's a sunny day out poolside, all right?
11:02It's not because I'm trying to stare at other women.
11:04At some point, you just got to trust me because this isn't working.
11:07I really just think you're trying to be sneaky, but, yeah, no, for sure, protect your eyes.
11:15He's smart, I'll give him that, but he's, uh, he'd be smart and stupid at the same time, so.
11:22Hey.
11:28Beautiful.
11:29Beautiful day.
11:30That's a romantic thing, huh?
11:32Yes, uh, nobody in sight, though.
11:34It's place six.
11:37So, apparently, I have something with the coffee lady in this hotel, uh, because I've gone two times.
11:42You know, I love coffee, but, apparently, because she's attractive to me younger, that's the reason why I'm going out for coffee.
11:49I drink coffee every day, every day, but today, I'm a hoe.
11:55I can't be in a relationship if there's no trust in everything I do is a question mark.
12:00I think it's time me and Megan have a serious conversation, because I can't live like this anymore.
12:09I'm feeling lonely, and I think you could help.
12:14I know you won't believe me, if I said how I felt.
12:18Here's the laundromat.
12:19I'm about to wash a few loads.
12:23It's feeling.
12:26What's up, everyone?
12:29I went to Tyree, your boy.
12:30I'm 35 years old, and I live in Modesto, California.
12:33And this week, I'm going to be making a huge life change.
12:36I'm going to be having weight loss surgery.
12:38I'm really excited about that.
12:41I have to go and find something to wear for while I'm in the hospital, so.
12:48My 90-day journey began once I met someone online named Carmella.
12:52I quickly fell in love, and then I ended up finding out that Carmella wasn't who she said
13:04she was.
13:06The person you've been messaging with for the last several years is not the same woman in
13:14the pictures and videos.
13:17Wow.
13:18She was actually a man named Christian who had been catfishing me for four years.
13:22It took a while for me to accept that the girl that I fell in love with did not exist.
13:29I just thought the worst about dating after the whole Carmella situation.
13:33Hell yeah, son.
13:35Cheers.
13:36So me and my brothers ended up going to New Orleans just because we thought it would be,
13:40you know, a fun time and good vibe.
13:42That's all you got to do, brother.
13:44Confirm me.
13:44I could have got the number right down.
13:45You could have.
13:45And while in New Orleans, I ended up meeting a girl named Shannon.
13:50I don't know what to do.
13:51I ended up meeting up again at the tell-all where she gave me my first kiss.
13:58I did want to hang out with her more.
14:01But unfortunately, I live in Modesto, and she lives five hours away in Los Angeles.
14:06I plan on moving to San Diego after the surgery to be closer to her.
14:09So hopefully that's going to be happening really soon.
14:13Always do this to get it off of here.
14:15I'm talking to myself when it walks by.
14:19Let me turn this off.
14:27I made it to the hospital for my pre-surgery testing.
14:32Look at this beautiful view of the rain.
14:36My weight loss surgery is next week.
14:38Today I'm going to the doctor for my final check-in.
14:40I'm super nervous because it is my last weigh-in before surgery.
14:45At my first visit with the bariatric clinic, I was advised to lose 20 pounds.
14:57But honestly, I'm not sure if I did or not.
14:58Just bring up your ankle to get your weight.
15:01Oh, okay.
15:02What if it's too high and it counts on my surgery?
15:04So I have a lot of things going on that are making me nervous.
15:09The scale says that I'm 405 pounds, which is the same amount I was when I first started the whole process.
15:27And we're going to be in this room here.
15:29Okay.
15:32I'm kind of freaking out.
15:34I don't know if they're going to cancel the surgery because I failed to lose any weight at all.
15:39Let me go get a loose love for you.
15:42Okay, perfect.
15:43All right, thank you.
15:46If I can't get this surgery, I don't know what I'm going to do.
15:51I feel like my weight has been holding me back when it comes to dating and, you know, relationships.
16:00Having had a lot of experience with girls, I'm still a virgin.
16:04And I feel like it is mainly due to my weight when it comes to, you know, intimacy.
16:11I want the person I'm dating to want and desire me.
16:14You know what I mean?
16:15I want them to like my body.
16:17And I don't think anyone else will like my body if I don't like my body.
16:22Hello.
16:23Hello, hi.
16:23Hi, happy pre-op day.
16:24Oh, thank you.
16:26So, Tyree, just to go over, we're having the laparoscopic vertical sleeve procedure in a week.
16:31Yep, that's right.
16:32Yep.
16:32Now, your pre-op weight today was 405 pounds, okay?
16:39Your initial weight was 407 pounds.
16:41Okay.
16:44Okay, with all of our patients, we encourage, obviously, any weight loss before will make the surgery safer and overall usually more doable.
16:52Okay.
16:52So, that being said, didn't lose necessarily a ton of weight, all right, before.
16:57However, at least we didn't gain weight.
16:59That is important that way.
17:00So, I will give you credit for that.
17:02Okay.
17:03Other than that, we'll see you the morning of surgery.
17:05The hospital is going to let you know what time you need to be there next week, okay?
17:08Okay.
17:09All right.
17:09You were good to go.
17:10Appreciate it.
17:10You're welcome.
17:11All right, bye.
17:11Bye.
17:12I got approved for the surgery, so I have to be strong and find the discipline to make changes to my lifestyle and my diet so I can reach my weight loss goals.
17:24I got a pizza, I'm going to bake it for my sister.
17:34She's going to come through.
17:36Yummy.
17:36It looks so good.
17:37It's not for me, though.
17:38My sister and my nieces are coming over before my surgery, and I decided to make them some food.
17:44And since tomorrow is my surgery, my dinner is something a little different.
17:49Good old organic broth.
17:51Yummy.
17:53I'll let it simmer.
17:54Hey.
17:58Hi.
17:59How you guys doing?
18:00Hi, bud.
18:01Hey.
18:03Oh, hi.
18:03You're tall.
18:04Where are you coming from?
18:05I don't know.
18:06I made some food.
18:07Get them some food.
18:08Yay.
18:09And a drink.
18:10Sure.
18:11Being around family, there is a lot of temptation, and it is hard to stick to a diet.
18:16Okay, wine glass.
18:17Okay.
18:18Yeah, super big.
18:19But I don't want to avoid gatherings just because I'm afraid that I'll cheat on my diet.
18:25I feel bad eating in front of you like this.
18:27Oh, I'm used to it now.
18:28Is it like chicken broth?
18:30Yeah, chicken broth.
18:31Oh.
18:32So how are you feeling about the surgery tomorrow?
18:35Yeah, I'm excited.
18:36I'm a little nervous, though, just by never being under, you know?
18:40Yeah, I know.
18:40That's the thing that's weird, too, because I always be like, what if I don't wake up then?
18:44Well, you won't wake up.
18:49I'm just most nervous about him, I guess, going under.
18:52I just don't like surgery.
18:54It always makes me so nervous.
18:55You know, I just pray that everything is okay, and, you know, he's in God's hands.
19:00I would say cheers, but...
19:02Yeah, cheers.
19:02I have nothing.
19:03No more broth or anything, but cheers.
19:09Today is the day, surgery day, so I just got up.
19:17It's 5 a.m.
19:19I have to be at the hotel at 6.30, so I'm going to get dressed really quick.
19:22And so I'm just going to wash my face and brush my teeth, so I'm going to do that.
19:25So it's the day of surgery.
19:27I am up and ready to go.
19:28I have my clothes packed.
19:30I have my bag ready.
19:32I'm going to do one final weigh-in.
19:33I'm going to wear it myself on my scale.
19:35Oh, wow.
19:37I lost seven pounds.
19:39This is the start of a new tirade.
19:42Ready to go.
19:43Let's see.
19:50I'm headed to the hospital.
19:536, like 6.35.
19:54I'm a little late.
19:58I am happy to have my family here with me.
20:01Who bought classes?
20:03You brought it together?
20:03You know, my mom and my aunts and my sisters, they both made it.
20:08I have to put on my gown tomorrow and wipe myself down again, so I'm going to do that really quick.
20:13As I put on my surgery gown, it really is real.
20:17Like, I'm really about to have this surgery done, and I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half.
20:23Ooh, sexy.
20:24Sexy.
20:25I really don't know what's going to happen, and, you know, I'm scared.
20:34For the surgery, we do five incisions, four across the abdomen, one up top.
20:38Okay.
20:39Once that's all free, then I can take a surgical stapler, staple across the stomach, and cut out and remove part of your stomach.
20:44Any questions?
20:45No, no questions.
20:45Perfect.
20:46Thank you so much for talking to you.
20:47Just pray for a fast, safe surgery.
20:51I just got out a mask.
21:21It was beautiful, beautiful service, beautiful day.
21:28Now I'm going to go meet up with my beautiful daughter.
21:32Hi, my name is Nisha.
21:34I'm 45 years old and I am from Blaine, Minnesota.
21:38She asked me to go to brunch with her,
21:41which I absolutely love,
21:42but she also said that she wanted to talk to me
21:44about something, so we'll see.
21:47Seven plus years ago,
21:49I met Nicola online.
21:52We connected over talking about Catholicism.
21:56We started off as friends,
21:57and our friendship ended up turning
22:01into a romantic relationship.
22:03I ended up hopping on an airplane, traveling across the world,
22:10and I met with him for the first time in person in the Holy Land.
22:14I was over in the Middle East for a handful of weeks with him,
22:31and by the end of my trip, we ultimately got engaged.
22:36I'm asking you if you want some more.
22:40Yes, I will.
22:42Oh, my gosh, Nicola.
22:48Nicola ended up coming over to the United States,
22:52and I think right away, we just realized that culturally,
22:56we were so different, we had such different worldviews.
23:00So, a few months ago, we decided to call off our engagement,
23:04and now he is back in the Middle East.
23:07I'm here in America, and my life is moving forward.
23:10All right, pulling in here.
23:16Let me see, is her car here?
23:19Yes, it is.
23:20Interesting, my daughter is never early.
23:28Hi, honey.
23:29Hi.
23:29You see her.
23:31Hi, babe.
23:32How are you?
23:34Are you doing a vlog?
23:35Yeah, I'm doing a diary camp.
23:37Hi.
23:38Hi, sweetie.
23:39Normally, I have to beg my two daughters,
23:42Marea and Svea, to go out to lunch with me,
23:45because they're so busy, away at college.
23:48So, now I am genuinely really interested
23:52as to what this meeting today is all about.
23:55I was so surprised when you were like,
23:57do you want to go to brunch?
23:58I mean, are you sure I shouldn't be nervous?
24:01No.
24:01Well, I don't think you should be nervous.
24:04Well, me and Svea just feel so bad.
24:05Like, we're away all the time,
24:06and we don't see you a whole bunch anymore,
24:08and we're kind of hoping you would get back out
24:11in the dating scene a little bit.
24:13We set you up with a matchmaker.
24:17Oh, Marea, no.
24:19No, I'm not doing that.
24:20Yes.
24:20Yes, you are.
24:22I am not doing that.
24:23My daughter, God love her, but oh, my gosh.
24:26Have you gone mad?
24:28Like, you know that is not who I am.
24:31No.
24:32Just full stop, no.
24:33Yeah, I just don't feel like I need to go out and search
24:38for something like that.
24:39I just want to lean into divine providence and trust God.
24:42Well, you can't, you cannot fail.
24:45It's tomorrow.
24:46What?
24:48Me and Svea put so much effort into this.
24:50We had to put a couple pictures and, like,
24:53talk about you a little bit, and...
24:55To the matchmaker.
24:56Yep, we already have cleared your schedule for you.
24:58What?
24:58Everything is already done, all you have to do is get ready and go.
25:02That's it.
25:04I don't know, honey.
25:05Don't even say that you're going.
25:07You have to.
25:09I will show up there with an open mind for you and Svea.
25:13But I will not promise that I'll walk out of there with a date.
25:18I think you'll have a lot of fun.
25:20I feel very sickly nervous all of a sudden.
25:28So right now, I am on my way to the infamous matchmaker's office.
25:40Oh my gosh, I'm getting so nervous.
25:42Girl, I actually feel sick.
25:45I'm having a lot of internal struggles, a lot of internal battle.
25:50Here we go, here we go.
25:52I'm thinking, like, Anisha, what are you doing?
25:54Like, did you all of a sudden become depressed?
25:56Like, you should not be doing this.
25:59Hi.
26:00Oh my gosh, hi.
26:02Nice to meet you.
26:03You guys are awesome.
26:04Oh, hi, Anisha.
26:06Nice to meet you.
26:06It's such a pleasure.
26:07We're so excited to have you here.
26:08Pleasure is all mine.
26:10It still feels hella weird.
26:13It feels very transactional.
26:15Like, it shouldn't, like, part of me was like, this shouldn't be legal.
26:19God bless you.
26:20Yeah.
26:20Okay.
26:21Welcome to Minneapolis City.
26:23Oh, Sunny, cheers, by the way.
26:24I'm so nervous, so you guys are all making me feel so much better.
26:27I'm so glad.
26:28I know that there are several things that are very important to you, just kind of as
26:32a concrete foundation.
26:35Yes.
26:35I know faith.
26:37Yes.
26:37Yeah.
26:38So talk to me a little bit about that.
26:40Yeah, so I, my whole life is surrounded by faith now.
26:46I work for the Archdiocese.
26:47So when I say that that is, um, an absolute must, I really mean that.
26:53So we definitely have some great candidates for you.
26:55Okay.
26:56We have a wonderful gentleman named Matthew.
26:58He has his doctorate.
27:00Okay.
27:00Um, he is a dedicated father of two beautiful girls as well.
27:05Okay.
27:06So if, I don't know if this is possible, but can I see the video?
27:09You bet.
27:10Oh, amazing.
27:10I don't know where we'll watch those, but.
27:12Absolutely.
27:14We are not a matchmaking service to the point where we send them out, um, a blind date or
27:20all of that.
27:20We do the research based upon what our clients tell us.
27:23And then we try and match them based upon their key points of what they're looking for.
27:28And then the rest is just going to happen naturally.
27:31Let's click on video here for Matthew.
27:35I'm 41.
27:37I'm a single dad.
27:38I'm a Twin Cities native.
27:40I'm a physician.
27:41I like to play chess.
27:42I like to do arts and drawing.
27:45Um, I'm a great guy, down to earth, um, those kinds of things.
27:54Watching Matthew's video, the first thing that is really striking me is it's got this long hair.
28:01I was like, is that a wig or like a toupee or something?
28:04Men that age just don't typically have hair that long.
28:10And I don't know if luscious is the right word, but I'm questioning if it's a wig.
28:16Um, just kind of excited to, uh, enroll into the Minneapolis singles here.
28:23I'm also noticing that he's pretty timid.
28:29He's acting nervous.
28:30That's always what I'm most fearful of.
28:33It's like a stick in the mud and they don't talk.
28:35And I feel like I'm having to like pull questions out of mom.
28:39I'll give it a whirl.
28:40I mean, I don't know, poor Matthew doesn't know the crazy he's in for, but, um.
28:44I'll give it a go, girl.
28:45Right.
28:47Yes.
28:58Bye, Nani.
29:00Bye, sweetie.
29:03All I can hear in my mind when I say that is my daughter saying,
29:07don't be the crazy cat lady, get out and date someone.
29:10Don't just sit at home with your cats.
29:13Here I go, guys.
29:14This is it.
29:15So I am on my way to my big date with Matthew and I'm very nervous.
29:26A pumpkin patch seems a bit weird, especially a pumpkin patch in the morning,
29:31seems a bit weird for a date, a first date, but maybe that's cute.
29:39I mean, is that what people are doing nowadays?
29:46Let's do this.
29:47I think I see Matthew.
29:58Hi.
30:00How are you?
30:01Good to see you.
30:03Oh, it's so nice to meet you as well.
30:06By the way, this is Matthew.
30:08Hello.
30:10How are you?
30:10I'm so glad to meet you.
30:12I'm so glad to meet you.
30:13You too.
30:14I'm shocked.
30:19Matthew is way cuter in person than what I was expecting.
30:22And I can also tell he is not wearing a wig, which is very good news.
30:29So what is that over there?
30:30Like you peel corn?
30:31No, you walk through it like a corn maze.
30:33Oh, that's it.
30:34Try to get lost.
30:34Should we go back there?
30:35I think we'll probably go back there.
30:40Don't worry, Matthew.
30:41If you get kidnapped, I will keep looking for you, okay?
30:43I like it.
30:43I won't give up.
30:45So tell me a little bit about yourself.
30:48I was raised Catholic in kindergarten through eighth grade.
30:51Oh, sorry.
30:52I went to a Catholic private school in St. Paul.
30:54Okay.
30:55I lived in Morocco for the before.
30:58Okay.
30:58So I love that so much because I feel like
31:03you have to have a different kind of heart for that.
31:04My dad actually does a faith formation for fifth graders at the church.
31:09Oh my gosh, he does.
31:10So sweet.
31:10And my mom attends kind of like the adult faith formation group.
31:13Oh my goodness.
31:14I love it.
31:15And kind of does gardening at the church.
31:16That's so awesome.
31:18Wow.
31:19I wouldn't have thought that the matchmakers would have exceeded my expectations,
31:26but they matched me up with someone who's a total sweetheart.
31:31Ready?
31:31Here we go, Matthew.
31:34Look at all that.
31:37Totally.
31:38You can't even tell there's an ace there.
31:39I'm sorry.
31:39We would never have come out of it.
31:40No.
31:43Everything just feels so easy.
31:45And this is resurrecting all these feelings inside of me of like that little school girl.
31:51Like, oh my gosh, like, what's going to happen?
31:53What do I do if he tries to kiss me?
31:55I can't help.
31:59Yeah, I do it.
32:00Okay, ready?
32:01One, two, one.
32:02Here you go.
32:10Good job, Matthew.
32:10Give me a hug.
32:11You did so good.
32:12I won.
32:12Fair sport, yes.
32:14So, you still did so good.
32:17I kind of had a feeling you were going to win.
32:18Oh, you did.
32:19Yes, I did.
32:19It's just me.
32:21Misha, stunningly beautiful, kind-hearted,
32:24caring, and intelligent.
32:27I definitely felt comfortable, and I do feel like there's some chemistry there
32:32between she and I.
32:33That's awesome.
32:34Do you want a piece of gum here?
32:36Sure.
32:41Overall, the day went really well.
32:44Oh, I love about it.
32:47It's like, oh, my God.
32:49I don't know exactly what is next for me,
32:52but I definitely know this.
32:56If Matthew asks me out again, I will not say no.
33:00I will say yes.
33:02I'm giving myself the green light to get back out there a little bit and date,
33:07and I love it.
33:08I can't wait.
33:10Look it.
33:10Matthew's hair is still perfect.
33:11Mine's not.
33:12It's blown all over the way.
33:13Give me a shot.
33:14Okay.
33:15All right.
33:30Let's get out of here.
33:36Hey, I'm John.
33:37I'm 41 years old.
33:38I'm originally from Massachusetts, but now I live in good old San Antonio.
33:43I'm here on vacation with my fiancee, Megan, and things ain't going so well.
33:50I can't stay in a relationship where there's no trust, and everything I do is questioned.
33:55I think it's time me and Megan have a serious conversation,
33:57because I can't live like this anymore.
33:59Well, that was a trip.
34:08Just to say the least, if that was a trip.
34:09I mean, you know, it's like, it always goes the same way.
34:15Never smooth.
34:16All I can say is, you know, I got to be true to myself.
34:25I'm not going to, you know, pretend to be something or
34:29pretend things are better than they are.
34:31I'm not going to just sit here and be quiet.
34:34You know, I've been miserable because of the fighting.
34:37Yeah, I'm excited.
34:37It's every day.
34:38I'm sleeping on the couch.
34:39Because you think I'm literally checking out every goddamn woman there is.
34:46Yeah, well, I mean, you're a very possessive person too.
34:48I am not.
34:49Everybody's...
34:49It goes both ways.
34:50I am not.
34:52I am not that bad.
34:54You have my location.
34:55I'm wearing this ring.
34:56He's telling me I'm doing all this that I'm not doing.
34:59You know, something has to give.
35:00When it comes down to it, like, it all goes back to, like, does he really want to be with me?
35:12Does he really want to marry me?
35:13Because I feel like it's always excuses.
35:15Why would I want to get married?
35:17Why would I want to get married?
35:19If you don't want to get married now, you're not going to want to get married.
35:21No, no, Megan, I told you.
35:22I told you.
35:23I'm coming to the understanding that right now that I'm kind of letting go of the idea of marriage
35:27because I'm getting so turned off of it because all I'm hearing is excuses.
35:32So, and I get it.
35:32Oh, excuses, huh?
35:33Excuses?
35:34Excuses?
35:35Guess what, lady?
35:36This is what I think about your excuses, right?
35:38See, the ring's gone.
35:57I'm kind of confused right now.
36:08I mean, do I take this off?
36:10Like, do I take the ring off?
36:11Take it off.
36:12Take it off.
36:13I'm not making you wear it.
36:14I'm not going to make you tell you you have to wear it while I don't wear mine and mine's gone.
36:19So, yeah, there you go.
36:20Oh, wait, that's mine.
36:21I'll just pawn it.
36:22Oh, there you go.
36:27I'm just trying to figure out, like, what we're doing.
36:45Are we ever going to get married?
36:47And then, and then this happens.
36:50You acting like this and throwing your ring out the window.
36:54Yeah, that's because I keep telling you over and over again.
36:58All I get from you is I'm talking to someone.
37:01I'm f***ing someone.
37:02I'm doing this when I'm doing nothing.
37:04And so, therefore, I'm getting tired.
37:07I'm getting frustrated.
37:09You know, it doesn't matter how much we have sex.
37:11You know, if I'm sleeping on the couch and we're fighting every day, I'm miserable.
37:16I already told you, miserable.
37:19This fricking ring doesn't mean nothing.
37:24I'm in my room.
37:39I get to relax for a while.
37:41So that's my plan.
37:43My name is Tyree.
37:44I'm 35 years old and I live in Modesto, California.
37:47Today, I'm finally going to get my gastric sleeve surgery.
37:50I am terrified and nervous and scared.
37:55I'm just praying for a fast, safe surgery.
38:09So...
38:10Oh, it's so hard.
38:13I like to be burping a lot because it's a lot of gas coming out.
38:16Coming out of surgery, the first thing I remember is the anesthesiologist trying to wake me up.
38:23He's calling my name and I'm having a hard time breathing.
38:30I just was really...
38:32I felt like I was high.
38:35And everything was just like a blur.
38:37I have a heartburn or gas or something.
38:40There's a lot of stuff in there.
38:44But I finally got the surgery done and I did it.
38:48This is a big step towards some of the goals that I want to accomplish.
38:52Everything's good.
38:53My blood work.
38:53High blood pressure under control.
38:55So if you guys didn't understand me.
38:58But yeah, I want to eat some jello.
39:02Okay, so it's day four.
39:12I had surgery on Thursday.
39:13Right now it's Monday.
39:15I'm feeling pretty good.
39:17I was able to down an entire protein shake.
39:19Haven't had that much pain.
39:22Other than like the gas pain occasionally.
39:24With the surgery, I know that the weight loss isn't going to be instant.
39:28But the goal is to lose five pounds every week.
39:31So I really have to be strong and find the discipline to stick to this strict diet.
39:37My decisions are good.
39:38Looks good.
39:39I went and I changed them.
39:41I like made them extra secure.
39:44Yesterday we had a party for my niece.
39:46She turned 13 and went over to my sister's house.
39:49And everyone was eating and drinking.
39:51I just sipped on my Gatorade all day.
39:53So yeah, it's not easy.
39:55And yeah, that's it.
40:01It fits.
40:07Yes.
40:08Oh my God.
40:10When I first got this shirt, it was like stuff on me.
40:14I couldn't even breathe in it.
40:15So it's been three months since my weight loss surgery.
40:21How am I looking?
40:24Not yet.
40:25Still big, but getting there.
40:28Now I can fit it.
40:29And I feel really good.
40:31You know?
40:31Oh my God.
40:33I just feel so much better.
40:34It makes me feel great.
40:37Man, it's really emotional.
40:39I feel a lot more confident.
40:45I feel a lot more comfortable.
40:46I've been doing really good with the lifestyle changes.
40:49And I've been working out, going to the gym.
40:51And I'm officially down 80 pounds, which is amazing.
40:54I feel great.
40:56I'm feeling like a whole new person.
40:58I'm still not exactly where I want to be at, but I know that it's a process.
41:02And I'm really happy with the progress that I've made so far.
41:04I feel like I'm finally in control of my life.
41:07And now it feels like the world is finally my oyster.
41:11Oysters are good.
41:13This is just the beginning, guys.
41:15So stay tuned.
41:16Yeah, I think it looks pretty good.
41:18Yes.
41:20All right, go.
41:30The bees are head-butting me.
41:33Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
41:35Come in to the grand foyer.
41:37Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom.
41:40Which is also our .
41:41I mean, is that?
41:41Yeah.
41:42Is this a PG program?
41:44No, don't do.
41:46We try to put Gokhan in his crib, but he ends up in our bed.
41:52He's kicking us.
41:54He's crying.
41:56And we can't be intimate.
41:57We really need to change our sleeping ranges.
42:00What?
42:01I'm tired of not having this ex-wife.
42:05I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
42:09I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro.
42:15I'm just going to, like, chop it off at this point.
42:17For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola.
42:20You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo or hypersensitivity.
42:25There are a lot of risks that go into getting your boobs reducted.
42:29That I could lose nipple sensation, have an ugly scar, or maybe be lopsided.
42:35Oh, my God, I'm getting anxious.
42:37I see this.
42:38Hmm.
42:39Hmm.
42:41Come on, come on.
42:42Come on, come on.
42:42Come on, babe.
42:43Bye.
42:44Come on, babe.
42:45Come on, babe.
42:46Come on, babe.
42:46Come on, babe.
42:47Come on, babe.
42:47What'd you say?
42:48I feel like Sied is completely withdrawing from me and this marriage.
42:53And it just makes me really suspicious, especially after finding him with another woman.
42:58I was kind of hoping we'd get to enjoy having a Saturday off together.
43:02Good.
43:02Right together.
43:04Are we?
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