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90 Day Diaries - Season 7 Episode 4 -
Dear Diary, I've Had Enough
Dear Diary, I've Had Enough
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00:00I got a nice little pop-up tent, should be nice and easy.
00:09Bye, Nani.
00:11All I can hear is my daughter saying,
00:13don't be the crazy cat lady.
00:15Bye, sweetie.
00:16Today is the day, a certain day.
00:18Ready to go.
00:19See you then.
00:21Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird for a date.
00:26Let's do this.
00:27I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office
00:33and I am so nervous.
00:37How are you?
00:39Good to see you.
00:41This is Matthew.
00:43First thing that is really striking me is I've got this long hair.
00:48Is that a wig?
00:49Look at Matthew's hair is still perfect.
00:50Mine's not.
00:51It's blown all over this way.
00:54So Tyree, just to go over,
00:56we're having the laparoscopic vertical sleeve procedure.
00:58Yep, that's right.
00:59Yep.
01:00I've been overweight my entire life
01:02and I feel like surgery is the only route that I could take
01:05that would help me lose weight.
01:06For the surgery, we do five incisions,
01:09four across the abdomen, one on top.
01:11Okay.
01:11And then I get to cut out and remove part of your stomach.
01:13I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half
01:16and I'm scared.
01:20I love the new sunglasses.
01:22I'm sure they serve their purpose.
01:24Oh, sorry.
01:25Did you have that girl over there?
01:27It's been tense with my fiancee, Megan.
01:29If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
01:32You have my location, I'm wearing this ring.
01:34You're telling me I'm doing all this
01:35that I'm not doing.
01:36I feel like it's always excuses.
01:39Excuses?
01:39Guess what, lady?
01:40This is what I think about your excuses, right here?
01:42See, the ring's gone.
02:07What'd you say?
02:10What the f*** is going on in here?
02:15Some of us are actually working.
02:17I'm John.
02:18I'm 41 years old,
02:20originally from Massachusetts.
02:23I'm Megan.
02:23I'm 36 years old from San Antonio, Texas.
02:31Our story began when I was lucky enough
02:33to catch a message from this beautiful woman right here
02:36who, you know, used God's gift
02:38to tempt Johnny
02:40and, you know, it worked.
02:42It was my heart.
02:44Get ready for the best new thing.
02:46After chatting with Megan for about four months,
02:49I went down to San Antonio
02:50and we got to hang out
02:51and get to know each other
02:52and it was good.
02:53I think it went well physically.
02:55I think we had good sex.
02:57Good sex helps.
02:58Next thing you know,
03:01I'm moving down to San Antonio
03:02to be with Megan
03:04and her daughter, River.
03:07Now I'm the family man.
03:08After a few months,
03:09Megan was looking for me
03:10to make a bigger move.
03:12In three months,
03:13it's almost going to be a year,
03:14so I would hope
03:16that you were wanting
03:17some kind of commitment
03:18as far as like a ring or something,
03:19but I have no doubt
03:21about who I want
03:22to spend the rest of my life
03:23with, if that's you guys.
03:26So I decided to take the hint
03:27and, you know,
03:28make the move at the tell-all.
03:30My timeline,
03:31well, you know,
03:32you know,
03:33it's like whenever it happens,
03:34you know what I'm saying?
03:35Because right now, baby,
03:37will you do me the honors
03:39of being my wife?
03:41I love you.
03:42Love you, babe.
03:43We've been engaged
03:45two short years.
03:48And we're still not married.
03:49I mean, it's been tense.
03:51We've been fighting a lot.
03:53We haven't seen eye-to-eye
03:54a lot lately,
03:55but we're still here together.
03:57Still holding strong.
03:59That gives me hope.
04:03Look, let's go see.
04:04Hey, babe.
04:05What are you doing?
04:06What?
04:07What are you doing?
04:08I see that you're working very hard.
04:10Let me show everybody
04:11how great you look.
04:13This is my beautiful fiancée.
04:15Hi.
04:16This is your little setup.
04:17Let's take a look.
04:18Oh, yeah.
04:18No, look.
04:19Come to my office.
04:20Welcome to my office.
04:21Make a little look.
04:22I got a facility right here.
04:24It's ready to go.
04:26Well, the good news is
04:27you don't have to go
04:28find a f***, right?
04:29Oh, yeah.
04:29No, it definitely saves me time.
04:31So I was in a car accident,
04:33which was really scary.
04:35And I ended up suffering
04:36from some, like,
04:37mild concussions,
04:38some cognitive issues.
04:40I'd just been having some, like,
04:41PTSD,
04:42and sensory sensitivity.
04:45This little closet right here.
04:46Oh, right there, yeah.
04:47It's awesome.
04:47Soundproof?
04:48Soundproof?
04:49I pretty much set up my stuff
04:51in our walk-in bathroom
04:52for noise control
04:54because that's one of my sensory issues.
04:56You know, it's for the best
04:57in my interest, you know,
04:58even though it might not
04:59be the best for him.
05:02I love it.
05:02I got to get done working
05:07and I got to get this done
05:08and then we can enjoy our time.
05:11We have a little getaway.
05:12Hopefully, you know,
05:13we get some alone time.
05:15Oh, yeah.
05:15We're going to get some alone time, honey.
05:17Hopefully.
05:17Let's try to make sure
05:18it's a positive,
05:20positive trip.
05:21It takes two to do that, though.
05:22Oh, yeah.
05:23Two to take away.
05:24It takes two to take away.
05:25So, not just me.
05:26You, too.
05:27Right, exactly.
05:27So, while I'm working,
05:28So, while you're working,
05:29why don't you work?
05:30And I will go do my thing.
05:33Megan and I are heading
05:34to Sal Padre Island
05:35for some relaxation,
05:37but more importantly,
05:38to work on our relationship.
05:39I'm hoping we can get back
05:40to, like, smiling at each other,
05:42laughing with each other,
05:43having a good time with each other.
05:45I can't wait for this.
05:46Yes, I'm ready, too.
05:50Oh.
05:51Oh, so I'm ready.
05:52I hope there's a lot of alcohol.
05:54Because I'm going to need
05:54a lot of alcohol.
05:58Yeah.
05:59Yeah.
06:00Man.
06:01Let me call Patrick,
06:02see if he's around.
06:13What's up, bro?
06:14What's up?
06:15I'm trying to get
06:16some video game action going on.
06:18You know?
06:19I'd like to let out
06:20some frustration.
06:21You know what I'm saying?
06:22I got a trip with Megan.
06:23This is our trip to try to,
06:25you know,
06:26make things better
06:27and try to, like,
06:29work on us.
06:30We fight every night.
06:32It's the trust issues.
06:33It's the, you know,
06:34accusations.
06:35I'm talking to someone
06:36and I'm cheating on her.
06:38I'm doing something.
06:39It's not good, you know?
06:41This is just like,
06:42I'm sleeping on the couch every night
06:43because we're fighting every night.
06:44No, your situation
06:46is horrible.
06:48We've had these issues
06:49for a while now,
06:50but it's gotten even worse.
06:51If I'm looking at another girl,
06:53I'm cheating.
06:54If I'm so much
06:55as talking to another girl,
06:57I'm cheating.
06:57I have to share
06:58my location all the time,
06:59where I am,
07:00who I'm texting.
07:01And worst of all,
07:02I have to wear
07:03an engagement ring
07:03because, you know,
07:05she thinks it's gonna keep
07:06women from hitting on me.
07:07And, you know,
07:08it's taxing.
07:11I mean,
07:12you guys are engaged now.
07:13Like,
07:14I don't know how you can
07:15make it more clear
07:16that you're not
07:16other girls.
07:18You don't want to
07:18take the next step
07:20if things aren't resolved
07:22because that never works.
07:23I will not.
07:26I'm just gonna let you go, bro,
07:27and I will go
07:29dead stop packing.
07:40So we're going to South Padre.
07:42Got all this stuff ready.
07:43Finally,
07:44let's see how long
07:45we can make this.
07:45Let's go on a five-hour drive.
07:46Yeah, like,
07:47four and a half hours,
07:48five hours.
07:49But,
07:49I'm just looking forward
07:51to the destinations
07:52that we'll see.
07:54I don't know what this.
07:56Things have been
07:57really tense lately.
07:58It's just frustrating
07:59because John's saying
08:01that we would be
08:01married within, like,
08:02two years.
08:03So, I'm like,
08:04clock's ticking
08:05and still nothing.
08:07I don't know.
08:08Like, does he not
08:09want to marry me?
08:09Like, does he want
08:10somebody else?
08:11I'm really hoping
08:12that we can work
08:13on our issues
08:14just to really see
08:15if, like, we even
08:16do have a future together.
08:21Yeah.
08:21On set.
08:25Ready?
08:26All right.
08:26Well, I guess
08:27I'll catch you guys
08:28later,
08:28and we're going to
08:29start our adventure.
08:31Oh, I'm so sorry.
08:33Woo!
08:33Woo!
08:35We're here!
08:36Hey!
08:37Self-pondering.
08:38Self-pondering.
08:38Look at the beach.
08:44She's smiling.
08:45She's in a good mood.
08:46I'm in a good mood.
08:47So, so far, I think,
08:49you know, I think
08:50we're on to something.
08:52We made it!
08:53Woo-hoo-hoo!
08:54Oh, isn't this nice, huh?
08:57Hey!
08:58All right, I'm excited.
08:59Just gotta keep that mouth shut.
09:01Oh, no, honey,
09:01that's not gonna happen,
09:02so we're gonna figure
09:03something out.
09:03But this,
09:05never be quiet.
09:06Never.
09:07Never.
09:14All right.
09:15Well,
09:16now Megan's gonna take
09:17a little bit,
09:18so I figured Johnny
09:18will get the tent set up.
09:20I got a nice little
09:21pop-up tent.
09:22Should be nice and easy.
09:23Hopefully,
09:23better be nice and easy.
09:24Look at that, huh?
09:26Woo!
09:27Look at this, dude.
09:28Woo!
09:28In the description
09:30when I bought this online,
09:32supposedly,
09:33you hear this toxin in the air.
09:34This thing will open up,
09:35so we'll find out.
09:36Well,
09:37don't fail me, buddy.
09:42All right.
09:48Hup!
09:49Hup!
09:51All right.
09:53Oh!
09:54It works.
09:58Oh,
09:59look who I found.
10:01Hello, beautiful.
10:03Yeah.
10:03Look at my gorgeous face.
10:05Look,
10:05she was getting ready.
10:06Oh, yeah.
10:09Now,
10:09what we have in store for us
10:11is, you know,
10:12nice, beautiful day
10:13on the beach.
10:14Now, look at that.
10:15Woo!
10:25Hey, babes.
10:26Hi.
10:27Come on,
10:27we're here together
10:28with this beautiful,
10:28beautiful situation.
10:30Yes.
10:31It's a beautiful,
10:32not as beautiful as you,
10:34you know,
10:34it's very, right?
10:36I love the new set glasses.
10:38I'm sure they serve their purpose.
10:40What are you talking about?
10:40Wow.
10:42Are you?
10:42Look at you.
10:43Oh, look at you.
10:44You're looking at a fat girl,
10:45are you?
10:46I know what these glasses are for.
10:48Look at him,
10:48a little slime on the...
10:49What are you talking about?
10:50He's sly, aren't you?
10:52What are you talking about?
10:52I'm not here because I'm, like,
10:58trying to cover my eyes.
10:59It's a sunny day out poolside,
11:01all right?
11:02It's not because I'm trying
11:03to stare at other women.
11:04At some point,
11:05you just got to trust me
11:06because this isn't working.
11:07I really just think
11:09you're trying to be sneaky,
11:10but, yeah, no, for sure.
11:12Protect your eyes.
11:15He's smart, I'll give him that,
11:17but he's, uh,
11:18he'd be smart and stupid
11:19at the same time, so...
11:21Hey!
11:28Beautiful.
11:29Beautiful day.
11:30That's no magic thing, huh?
11:32What a sound.
11:33Nobody in sight, though.
11:35It's place six.
11:35So, apparently,
11:37I have something
11:38with the coffee lady
11:38in this hotel
11:39because I've gone two times.
11:42You know, I...
11:43I love coffee,
11:44but apparently,
11:45because she's attractive
11:46to me younger,
11:47that's the reason
11:48why I'm going after coffee.
11:49Even though I drink coffee
11:50every day,
11:51every day,
11:52but today,
11:53I'm a hoe.
11:55I can't be in a relationship
11:57if there's no trust
11:58in everything I do
11:59as a question mark.
12:00I think it's time
12:01me and Megan
12:01have a serious conversation
12:03because I can't live
12:04like this anymore.
12:05I'm feeling lonely
12:10and I think you could help.
12:14I know you won't believe me
12:15if I said how I felt.
12:18Here at the laundromat,
12:19I'm about to wash a few loads.
12:22It's really...
12:23It looks...
12:27What's up, everyone?
12:29It's Tyree, your boy.
12:30I'm 35 years old
12:32and I live in Modesto, California.
12:33And this week,
12:34I'm going to be making
12:35a huge life change.
12:36I'm going to be having
12:37weight loss surgery.
12:38I'm really excited about that.
12:40I have to go and find
12:41something to wear
12:42for...
12:43while I'm in the hospital.
12:44So...
12:45my 90-day journey
12:49began once I met
12:50someone online
12:51named Carmela.
12:59I quickly fell in love
13:01and then I ended up
13:02finding out that
13:03Carmela wasn't
13:03who she said she was.
13:05The person you've been
13:07messaging with
13:09for the last several years
13:11is not the same woman
13:13in the pictures and videos.
13:17Wow.
13:18She was actually
13:19a man named Christian
13:20who had been
13:21catfishing me for four years.
13:23It took a while
13:24for me to accept
13:25that the girl
13:26that I fell in love with
13:27did not exist.
13:29I just thought
13:29the worst about dating
13:30after the whole
13:31Carmela situation.
13:33Hell yeah, son.
13:35Cheers.
13:36So me and my brothers
13:36ended up going to New Orleans
13:38just because we thought
13:39it would be, you know,
13:40fun time and good vibes.
13:42That's all you got to do, brother.
13:43Confirm me.
13:44I could have got
13:44the number right down.
13:45You could have.
13:47And while in New Orleans
13:48I ended up meeting
13:49a girl named Shannon.
13:50I don't know what to do.
13:51We ended up meeting up
13:52again at the tell-all
13:54where she gave me
13:54my first kiss.
13:58And I did want to
13:58hang out with her more.
14:00But unfortunately
14:01I live in Modesto
14:03and she lives
14:04five hours away
14:04in Los Angeles.
14:06I plan on moving
14:06to San Diego
14:07after the surgery
14:08to be closer to her.
14:09So hopefully
14:10that's going to be
14:12happening really soon.
14:13Always do this
14:14to get it off of here.
14:16I'm talking to myself
14:17when nobody walks by.
14:19Let me turn this off.
14:28I made it to the hospital
14:29for my pre-surgery testing.
14:32Look at this beautiful view
14:33of the rain.
14:34My weight loss surgery
14:37is next week.
14:38Today I'm going to the doctor
14:39for my final check-in.
14:40I'm super nervous
14:41because it is my last
14:42weigh-in before surgery.
14:44At my first visit
14:53with the bariatric clinic
14:54I was advised
14:55to lose 20 pounds
14:56but honestly
14:57I'm not sure
14:58if I did or not.
15:01What if it's too high
15:03and it counts
15:04on my surgery
15:04so I have a lot of
15:06things going on
15:08that are making me nervous.
15:08The scale says
15:22that I'm 405 pounds
15:23which is the same amount
15:25I was when I first
15:26started the whole process.
15:27And we're going to be
15:28in this room here.
15:29Okay, thank you.
15:32I'm kind of freaking out.
15:34I don't know
15:34if they're going to
15:35cancel the surgery
15:36because I failed
15:37to lose any weight
15:38at all.
15:39Let me go get
15:40Alyssa free.
15:42Okay, perfect.
15:43Alright, thank you.
15:46If I can't get this surgery
15:48I don't know
15:48what I'm going to do.
15:51I feel like my weight
15:52has been holding me back
15:54when it comes to dating
15:55and, you know,
15:56relationships.
15:58Oh my God.
15:59I haven't had
16:00a lot of experience
16:01with girls.
16:02I'm still a virgin.
16:04And I feel like
16:05it is mainly
16:06due to my weight
16:07when it comes
16:09to, you know,
16:10intimacy.
16:11I want the person
16:12I'm dating
16:12to want and desire me.
16:14You know what I mean?
16:15I want them to like
16:15my body.
16:17And I don't think
16:18anyone else
16:19will like my body
16:19if I don't like my body.
16:22Hello.
16:23Hello, hi.
16:23Hi, happy pre-op day.
16:24Oh, thank you.
16:26So, Tyree,
16:27just to go over
16:27we're having
16:28the laparoscopic
16:29vertical sleeve procedure
16:30in a week.
16:31Yep, that's right.
16:32Yep.
16:32Now,
16:33your pre-op weight today
16:35was 405 pounds.
16:38Okay.
16:39Your initial weight
16:40was 407 pounds.
16:41Okay.
16:44Okay, with all
16:44of our patients,
16:45we encourage,
16:45obviously,
16:46any weight loss
16:46before will make
16:47the surgery safer
16:48and overall
16:49usually more doable.
16:52Okay.
16:52So, that being said,
16:54didn't lose
16:55necessarily a ton
16:56of weight,
16:56all right,
16:57before.
16:57However,
16:58at least we didn't
16:58gain weight.
16:59That is important
17:00that way.
17:00So, I will give you
17:01credit for that.
17:02Okay.
17:03Other than that,
17:04we'll see you
17:04the morning of surgery.
17:05The hospital's gonna
17:06let you know
17:06what time you need
17:07to be there
17:07next week.
17:08Okay?
17:08Okay.
17:08All right.
17:09You're good to go.
17:10Appreciate it.
17:10You're welcome.
17:11Bye.
17:11Bye.
17:12I got approved
17:13for the surgery,
17:14but barely.
17:16So, I have
17:17to be strong
17:18and find the discipline
17:19to make changes
17:20to my lifestyle
17:21and my diet
17:22so I can reach
17:23my weight loss goals.
17:31I got a pizza.
17:32I'm gonna bake it
17:33for my sister.
17:34She's gonna come through.
17:36Yummy.
17:36It looks so good.
17:37It's not for me, though.
17:39My sister and my nieces
17:41are coming over
17:41before my surgery
17:42and I decided
17:43to make them some food.
17:45And since tomorrow
17:45is my surgery,
17:46my dinner is something
17:47a little different.
17:49Good old organic broth.
17:51Yummy.
17:52I'll let it simmer.
17:57Hey.
17:58Hi.
17:59How you guys doing?
18:00Hi, buddy.
18:01Hey.
18:03Oh, hi.
18:03You're tall.
18:04Where are you coming from?
18:05I don't know.
18:06I made some food.
18:07You want some food?
18:08Yay.
18:09Can you drink?
18:09Sure.
18:11Being around family,
18:12there is a lot of temptation
18:13and it is hard
18:15to stick to a diet.
18:16Okay, wine glass.
18:17Okay.
18:18Yeah, super big.
18:19But I don't want
18:20to avoid gatherings
18:21just because I'm afraid
18:23that I'll cheat on my diet.
18:24I feel bad
18:25eating in front of you
18:26like this.
18:27Oh, I'm used to it now.
18:28Is it like chicken broth?
18:30Yeah, chicken broth.
18:31Oh.
18:32So how are you feeling
18:33about the surgery tomorrow?
18:35Yeah, I'm excited.
18:36I'm a little nervous, though,
18:37just by never being, like,
18:39under, you know?
18:40Yeah, I know.
18:40That's the thing
18:41that's weird to me, too,
18:41because I always be like,
18:42hope I don't wake up then.
18:44Well, you won't wake up.
18:49I'm just most nervous
18:50about him, I guess,
18:51going under.
18:52I just don't like surgery.
18:54It always makes me so nervous.
18:55You know, I just pray
18:57that everything is okay
18:58and, you know,
18:59he's in God's hands.
19:00I would say cheers, but...
19:02Yeah, cheers.
19:02I have nothing.
19:03No more broth or anything,
19:04but cheers.
19:05Cheers.
19:09Today is the day.
19:15It's surgery day,
19:16so just got up.
19:17It's 5 a.m.
19:19I have to be at the hospital
19:20at 6.30,
19:21so I'm going to get dressed
19:21really quick.
19:22I'm just going to wash my face
19:23and brush my teeth,
19:24so I'm going to do that.
19:25So it's the day of surgery.
19:27I am up and ready to go.
19:28I have my clothes packed.
19:30I have my bag ready.
19:32I'm going to do one final weigh-in.
19:33I'm going to wear it myself
19:34on my scale.
19:36Oh, wow.
19:37I lost seven pounds.
19:39This is the start
19:40of a new tirade.
19:42Ready to go.
19:43Let's see you then.
19:50I made it to the hospital.
19:536, like 6.35.
19:54I'm a little late.
19:58I am happy to have
19:59my family here with me.
20:01Who won't pass this?
20:02You're free.
20:03I know my mom
20:05and my aunts
20:05and my sisters.
20:06They both made it.
20:07I have to put on my gown
20:08and my robe
20:09and wipe myself down again,
20:10so I'm going to do that
20:12really quick.
20:13As I put on my surgery gown,
20:15it really is real.
20:17Like, I'm really about
20:18to have this surgery done
20:19and I'm about to
20:19get my stomach chopped
20:21in half.
20:22Oh, sexy.
20:24I really don't know
20:30what's going to happen
20:31and, you know,
20:32I'm scared.
20:34For the surgery,
20:35we do five incisions,
20:36four across the abdomen,
20:38one up top.
20:38Okay.
20:39Once that's all free,
20:40then I can take
20:40a surgical stapler,
20:41staple across the stomach
20:42and cut out
20:43and remove a part of your stomach.
20:44Any questions?
20:44No, no questions.
20:45Perfect.
20:46Thank you so much.
20:46I'm just praying for
20:48if it has
20:49safe surgery.
21:10There's no stopping up.
21:16I just got out of Mass.
21:21It was beautiful.
21:24Beautiful service,
21:26beautiful day.
21:27Now I'm going to
21:29go meet up
21:30with my beautiful daughter.
21:32Hi, my name is Nisha.
21:34I'm 45 years old
21:35and I am from Blaine, Minnesota.
21:37She asked me to
21:39go to brunch with her,
21:41which I absolutely love,
21:42but she also said
21:43that she wanted to talk
21:44to me about something,
21:44so we'll see.
21:47Seven plus years ago,
21:50I met Nicola online.
21:52We connected
21:53over talking about Catholicism.
21:56We started off as friends
21:57and our friendship
21:59ended up turning
22:00into a romantic relationship.
22:04I ended up
22:06hopping on an airplane,
22:08traveling across the world,
22:10and I met with him
22:11for the first time
22:12in person
22:13in the Holy Land.
22:14I was over in
22:28the Middle East
22:29for a handful of weeks
22:30with him,
22:31and by the end
22:33of my trip,
22:34we ultimately
22:35got engaged.
22:36I'm asking you
22:37if you want to learn it.
22:41Yes, I will.
22:46Oh, my gosh, Nicola.
22:49Nicola ended up
22:50coming over
22:51to the United States,
22:51and I think right away,
22:54we just realized
22:55that culturally,
22:57we were so different.
22:58We had such
22:59different worldviews.
23:00So a few months ago,
23:02we decided
23:03to call off
23:03our engagement,
23:04and now he is
23:06back in the Middle East.
23:07I'm here in America,
23:09and my life
23:10is moving forward.
23:13All right.
23:15Pulling in here.
23:16Let me see.
23:17Is her car here?
23:19Yes, it is.
23:20Interesting.
23:21My daughter
23:21is never early.
23:24Hi, honey.
23:29Hi, sweetheart.
23:31Hi, babe.
23:32How are you?
23:33Are you doing a vlog?
23:35Yeah, I'm doing
23:36a diary count.
23:37Hi, thank you.
23:39Normally,
23:40I have to beg
23:41my two daughters,
23:42Maria and Svea,
23:44to go out to lunch
23:45with me
23:45because they're so busy,
23:47away at college.
23:48So now,
23:49I am genuinely
23:50really interested
23:52as to what
23:53this meeting today
23:53is all about.
23:55I was so surprised
23:56when you were like,
23:56do you want
23:57to go to brunch?
23:58I mean,
23:59are you sure
23:59I shouldn't be nervous?
24:00No.
24:01Well, I don't think
24:02you should be nervous.
24:04Well, me and Svea
24:04just feel so bad.
24:05Like, we're away
24:06all the time,
24:06and we don't see you
24:07a whole bunch anymore,
24:08and we're kind of hoping
24:10you would get back out
24:11in the dating scene
24:12a little bit.
24:13We set you up
24:15with a matchmaker.
24:17Oh, Maria, no.
24:19No, I'm not doing that.
24:20Yes, you are.
24:21I am not doing that.
24:22My daughter
24:23God love her,
24:25but oh my gosh.
24:26Have you gone mad?
24:28Like, you know
24:29that is not who I am.
24:31No.
24:31Just full stop, no.
24:34I just don't feel like
24:35I need to go out
24:37and search for something
24:38like that.
24:39I just want to
24:40lean into divine providence
24:42and trust God.
24:43Well, you can't,
24:44you cannot fail.
24:45It's tomorrow.
24:46What?
24:46Me and Smeya
24:49put so much effort
24:50into this.
24:50We had to put
24:51a couple pictures
24:51and, like,
24:53talk about you
24:53a little bit.
24:54To the matchmaker.
24:56Yep, we already
24:56have cleared your schedule
24:57for you.
24:58What?
24:58Everything is already done.
25:00You guys are like stalkers.
25:00All you have to do
25:01is get ready and go.
25:02That's it.
25:04I don't know, honey.
25:05Don't even say it.
25:06You're going.
25:07You have to.
25:08I will show up there
25:10with an open mind
25:11for you and Smeya.
25:13But I will not promise
25:15that I'll walk
25:17out of there
25:17with a date.
25:18I think you'll have
25:19a lot of fun.
25:20I feel very sickly
25:22nervous all of a sudden.
25:32So right now
25:34I am on my way
25:36to the infamous
25:37matchmaker's office.
25:40Oh, my gosh.
25:40I'm getting so much.
25:42I actually feel sick.
25:45I'm having a lot
25:46of internal struggles,
25:47a lot of internal battle.
25:50Here we go.
25:51Here we go.
25:52I'm thinking, like,
25:53Anisha, what are you doing?
25:54Like, did you all of a sudden
25:55become depressed?
25:56Like, you should not
25:57be doing this.
25:59Hi.
26:00Oh, my gosh.
26:01Hi.
26:02Nice to meet you.
26:04Oh, hi, right here.
26:06Nice to meet you.
26:06It's such a pleasure.
26:07We're so excited
26:08to have you here.
26:08Pleasure is all mine.
26:10It still feels
26:11all hella weird.
26:13It feels very transactional.
26:15Like, it shouldn't, like,
26:16part of me was like,
26:17this shouldn't be legal.
26:19God bless you.
26:20Yeah.
26:20Okay.
26:21Welcome to Minneapolis City.
26:23Minneapolis City.
26:23Cheers, by the way.
26:24I'm so nervous.
26:25So, you guys are all
26:26making me feel so much better.
26:27I'm so glad.
26:28I know that there are
26:29several things that are
26:30very important to you,
26:31just kind of as a concrete
26:33foundation.
26:35Yes.
26:36I know faith.
26:37Yes.
26:38Yeah.
26:39So, talk to me a little bit
26:40about that.
26:41Yeah.
26:41So, I, my whole life
26:44is surrounded by faith.
26:45Now, I work for the
26:46Archdiocese.
26:47So, when I say that
26:48that is an absolute must,
26:51I really mean that.
26:53So, we definitely have
26:54some great candidates.
26:55Okay.
26:55We have a wonderful
26:57gentleman named Matthew.
26:58He has his doctorate.
27:00Okay.
27:00He is a dedicated father
27:02to beautiful girls as well.
27:05Okay.
27:06So, if, I don't know
27:07if this is possible,
27:08but can I see the video?
27:09You bet.
27:10Oh, amazing.
27:11I don't know where
27:11we'll watch those, but.
27:12Absolutely.
27:14We are not a matchmaking
27:16service to the point
27:17where we send them out
27:18on a blind date
27:19or all of that.
27:20We do the research
27:21based upon what
27:22our clients tell us,
27:23and then we try
27:24and match them
27:25based upon their key points
27:27of what they're looking for,
27:28and then the rest
27:28is just going to
27:29happen naturally.
27:31Let's click on video
27:32here for Matthew.
27:35I'm 41.
27:37I'm a single dad.
27:38I'm a Twin Cities native.
27:40I'm a physician.
27:41I like to play chess.
27:42I like to do arts
27:44and drawing.
27:46I'm a great guy,
27:47down to earth,
27:49those kinds of things.
27:51watching Matthew's video,
27:56the first thing
27:57that is really striking me
27:58is it's got this long hair.
28:01I was like,
28:01is that a wig
28:02or like a toupee
28:03or something?
28:06Men that age
28:08just don't typically
28:09have hair that long,
28:11and I don't know
28:12if luscious
28:13is the right word,
28:14but I'm questioning
28:15if it's a wig.
28:17Um,
28:18just kind of
28:19excited to, uh,
28:21enroll into the
28:22Minneapolis singles here.
28:26I'm also noticing
28:27that he's pretty timid.
28:29He's acting nervous.
28:30That's always
28:31what I'm most fearful of.
28:33It's like a stick in the mud
28:34and they don't talk
28:35and I feel like
28:36I'm having to, like,
28:37pull questions out of mom.
28:39I'll give it a whirl.
28:40I mean, I don't know.
28:41Poor Matthew
28:41doesn't know
28:42the crazy he's in for,
28:43but, um,
28:44I'll give it a go, girl.
28:45Right.
28:47Yes.
28:57Bye, Nani.
29:00Bye, sweetie.
29:01All I can hear
29:04in my mind
29:04when I say that
29:06is my daughter saying,
29:07don't be the crazy cat lady.
29:08Get out and date someone.
29:10Don't just sit at home
29:11with your cats.
29:13Here I go, guys.
29:14This is it.
29:15So I am on my way
29:17to my big date
29:20with Matthew
29:20and I'm very nervous.
29:26A pumpkin patch
29:27seems a bit weird,
29:30especially a pumpkin patch
29:31in the morning
29:31seems a bit weird
29:34for a date,
29:37a first date,
29:38but maybe that's cute?
29:39I mean,
29:40is that what people
29:41are doing nowadays?
29:46Let's do this.
29:47I think I see Matthew.
29:56Yeah.
29:58Hi.
30:00How are you?
30:02Good to see you.
30:04Oh, it's so nice
30:05to meet you as well.
30:06By the way,
30:07this is Matthew.
30:08Hello.
30:09How are you?
30:11You look lovely.
30:11Nice to see you.
30:12I'm so excited.
30:13You too.
30:16I'm shocked.
30:19Matthew is way cuter
30:20in person
30:21than what I was expecting
30:22and I can also tell
30:24he is not wearing a wig,
30:26which is very good news.
30:29So what is that over there?
30:30Like you peel corn?
30:31No, you walk through
30:32like a corn maze.
30:33Oh, that's cool.
30:34Try to get lost.
30:34Should we go back there?
30:36Okay, we'll totally
30:37go back there.
30:40Don't worry, Matthew,
30:41if you get kidnapped,
30:41I will keep looking
30:42for you, okay?
30:43I won't give up.
30:45So tell me a little bit
30:47about yourself.
30:48I was raised Catholic
30:49in kindergarten
30:50through eighth grade.
30:51Oh, sure.
30:52I went to a Catholic
30:53private school
30:54in St. Paul.
30:54Okay.
30:55I lived in Morocco
30:56for the people's war.
30:58Okay, so I love that so much
31:00because I feel like
31:01you have to have
31:03a different kind
31:04of heart for that.
31:05My dad actually does
31:06a faith formation
31:07for fifth graders
31:08at the church.
31:09Oh, my gosh, he does.
31:10So sweet.
31:10And my mom attends
31:11kind of like the adult
31:12faith formation group.
31:13Oh, my goodness.
31:14I love it.
31:15And kind of does
31:15gardening at the church.
31:16That's so awesome.
31:18Wow.
31:19I wouldn't have thought
31:20that the matchmakers
31:22would have exceeded
31:24my expectations,
31:26but they matched me up
31:28with someone
31:29who's a total sweet,
31:30heart.
31:31Ready?
31:31Here we go, Matthew.
31:34Look at all that.
31:37You totally have it.
31:38You can't even tell
31:38there's a maze there.
31:39I'm sorry.
31:39We would never have
31:40come out of it.
31:40No.
31:41We would have literally
31:41just been able to do it.
31:43Everything just feels
31:44so easy,
31:45and this is resurrecting
31:47all these feelings
31:48inside of me
31:49of, like,
31:50that little schoolgirl,
31:51like, oh, my gosh,
31:52like, what's gonna happen?
31:53What do I do
31:54if he tries to kiss me?
31:58I can't help.
31:59Yeah, I do it.
32:00I'll catch you.
32:00Okay, ready?
32:01One, two, five.
32:02Okay, yeah.
32:02Hey, yeah, I'm back
32:05and you'll never, ever,
32:06ever gonna stop that
32:07of us.
32:08Oh, when we come back...
32:10Good job, Matthew.
32:10Give me a hug.
32:11You did so good.
32:12I won.
32:13Fierce part, yes.
32:14You still, you still
32:15get stronger.
32:16I kind of had a feeling
32:18you were gonna win.
32:18Oh, you did.
32:19You did.
32:19You did.
32:19You did.
32:19You did.
32:19You're too sweet.
32:21Misha is stunningly
32:22beautiful,
32:23kind-hearted,
32:25caring,
32:26and intelligent.
32:27I definitely felt
32:28comfortable,
32:29and I do feel like
32:31there's some chemistry
32:31there between she and I.
32:33That's awesome.
32:34Do you want a piece of
32:35down here?
32:35Sure.
32:41Overall, the day
32:42went really well.
32:46I love it, Matthew.
32:47I was like,
32:47oh, my God.
32:48I don't know
32:50exactly what is next
32:52for me,
32:53but I definitely
32:54know this.
32:56If Matthew asks
32:57me out again,
32:59I will not say no.
33:00I will say yes.
33:01I'm giving myself
33:03the green light
33:04to get back out
33:05there a little bit
33:06and date,
33:07and I love it.
33:08I can't wait.
33:10Look at Matthew's
33:11hair is still perfect.
33:11Mine's not.
33:12It's blown all the way.
33:14Give me a shot.
33:29Let's get out of here.
33:36Hey, I'm John.
33:37I'm 41 years old.
33:39I'm originally
33:39from Massachusetts,
33:40but now I live
33:41in good old San Antonio.
33:46I'm here on vacation
33:47with my fiancee, Megan,
33:48and things ain't going
33:49so well.
33:50I can't stay
33:51in a relationship
33:52where there's no trust
33:53and everything I do
33:54is questioned.
33:55I think it's time
33:55me and Megan
33:56have a serious conversation
33:57because I can't live
33:58like this anymore.
33:59Well, that was a trip.
34:07Just to say the least,
34:09if that was a trip.
34:10I mean, you know,
34:12it's like it always
34:13goes the same way.
34:15Never smooth.
34:21All I can say is,
34:22you know,
34:22I've got to be true
34:23to myself.
34:24I'm not going to,
34:26you know,
34:26pretend to be something
34:27or pretend things
34:30are better than they are.
34:31I'm going to just sit
34:32here and be quiet.
34:34You know,
34:34I've been miserable
34:35because of the fighting.
34:37It's every day.
34:38I'm sleeping on the couch
34:39because you think
34:42I'm literally checking out
34:44every goddamn woman
34:45there is.
34:46Yeah, well, I mean,
34:47you're a very
34:47possessive person, too.
34:48I am not.
34:49Everybody's...
34:49It goes both ways.
34:50I am not.
34:52I am not that bad.
34:54You have my location,
34:55I'm wearing this ring.
34:56He's telling me
34:57I'm doing all this
34:58that I'm not doing.
34:59You know,
34:59something has to give.
35:04When it comes down to it,
35:05like,
35:06it all goes back to,
35:07like,
35:08does he really
35:08want to be with me?
35:11Does he really
35:12want to marry me?
35:13Because I feel like
35:14it's always excuses.
35:15Why would I want
35:16to get married?
35:17Why would I want
35:18to get married?
35:19You don't want
35:19to get married now.
35:20You're not going
35:20to want to get married.
35:21No, no, Megan,
35:21I told you.
35:22I told you.
35:23I'm coming to the
35:24understanding that right
35:25now that I'm kind
35:26of letting go
35:27of the idea
35:27of marriage
35:27because I'm getting
35:28so turned off of it
35:29because all I'm hearing
35:30is excuses.
35:32Oh, excuses, huh?
35:34Excuses?
35:35Excuses?
35:35Guess what, lady?
35:36This is what I think
35:37about your excuses.
35:38See, the ring's gone.
35:55I'm kind of confused
36:05right now.
36:08I mean, do I take
36:09this off?
36:10Like, do I take
36:11the ring off?
36:12Take it off.
36:12Take it off.
36:13I'm not making you wear it.
36:15I'm not going to make you
36:16tell you you have to wear it
36:17while I don't wear mine
36:18and mine's gone.
36:19So, yeah, there you go.
36:20Oh, wait.
36:21That's mine.
36:21I'll just pun it.
36:22Oh, there you go.
36:23I'm just trying to figure
36:42out, like, what we're doing.
36:45Are we ever going
36:46to get married?
36:46And then, and then
36:49this happens.
36:50You acting like this
36:52and throwing your ring
36:53out the window.
36:55Yeah, it's because
36:56I keep telling you
36:57over and over again,
36:58all I get from you
37:00is I'm talking to someone.
37:01I'm f***ing someone.
37:02I'm doing this
37:03when I'm doing nothing.
37:04And so, therefore,
37:05I'm getting tired.
37:07I'm getting frustrated.
37:09You know, it doesn't matter
37:09how much we have sex.
37:11You know, if I'm sleeping
37:12on the couch
37:13and we're fighting every day,
37:14I'm miserable.
37:16I've already told you,
37:17miserable.
37:19This freaking ring
37:19doesn't mean nothing.
37:20I'm at the hospital.
37:38I'm in my room.
37:39I get to relax for a little while.
37:41So that's my plan.
37:43My name is Tyree.
37:44I'm 35 years old
37:45and I live in Modesto, California.
37:46Today, I'm finally going to get
37:49my gastric sleeve surgery.
37:51I am terrified
37:52and nervous and scared.
37:55Just praying for a fast,
37:57safe surgery.
37:58I like burping a lot
38:14because it's a lot of gas coming out.
38:17Coming out of surgery,
38:19the first thing I remember
38:20is the anesthesiologist
38:21trying to wake me up.
38:23He's calling my name
38:24and I'm having
38:25a hard time breathing.
38:30I just was really...
38:33I felt like I was high.
38:35And everything was just
38:37like a blurb.
38:39Heartburn or gas.
38:41There's a lot of
38:42back up in that.
38:44But I finally got
38:46the surgery done
38:46and I did it.
38:48This is a big step
38:49towards some of the goals
38:50that I want to accomplish.
38:52Everything's good.
38:53My blood work.
38:53High blood pressure
38:54under control.
38:55So if you guys
38:57didn't understand me,
38:58but yeah,
38:59I'm up to eat some
39:00jello.
39:09Okay, so it's day four.
39:12I had surgery on Thursday.
39:13Right now it's Monday.
39:15I'm feeling pretty good.
39:17I was able to down
39:17an entire protein shake.
39:19Haven't had that much pain.
39:21Other than like
39:23the gas pain occasionally.
39:25With the surgery,
39:25I know that the weight loss
39:27isn't going to be instant.
39:28But the goal is to lose
39:30five pounds every week.
39:31So I really have to be strong
39:33and find the discipline
39:34to stick to this strict diet.
39:37My decisions are good.
39:38Looks good.
39:39I went and I changed them.
39:41I like made them extra secure.
39:44Yesterday we had a party
39:45for my niece.
39:46She turned 13
39:46and went over
39:48to my sister's house
39:49and everyone was eating
39:50and drinking.
39:51I just sipped on
39:52my Gatorade all day.
39:53So yeah,
39:54it's not easy.
39:55And yeah,
39:58that's it.
40:04It fits.
40:08Yes.
40:09Oh my God.
40:10When I first got this shirt,
40:11it was like
40:12stuffed on me.
40:14Like I couldn't even breathe in it.
40:18So it's been three months
40:19since my weight loss surgery.
40:21How am I looking?
40:24Not yet.
40:25Still big,
40:26but getting there.
40:28Now I can fit it
40:29and I fit it really good.
40:31You know?
40:31Oh my God.
40:33I just feel so much better.
40:34It makes me feel great.
40:37Man.
40:38It's really emotional.
40:39I feel a lot more confident.
40:45I feel a lot more comfortable.
40:46I've been doing really good
40:47with the lifestyle changes
40:49and I've been working out,
40:50going to the gym
40:51and I'm officially down 80 pounds,
40:54which is amazing.
40:55I feel great.
40:56I'm feeling like a whole new person.
40:58I'm still not exactly
40:59where I want to be at,
41:00but I know that it's a process
41:01and I'm really happy
41:03with the progress
41:03that I've made so far.
41:04I feel like I'm finally
41:05like in control of my life.
41:07And now it feels like
41:09the world is finally my oyster.
41:11Oysters are good.
41:13This is just the beginning, guys,
41:15so stay tuned.
41:16Yeah, I think it looks pretty good.
41:19Yes.
41:25All right, go!
41:30The bees are head-butting me.
41:33Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
41:35Coming.
41:35I mean, it's the grand foyer.
41:38Which is also our living room,
41:39which is also our bedroom,
41:40which is also our...
41:41I mean, is that...
41:42Yeah.
41:42Is this a PG program?
41:44No, don't do...
41:46We try to put Gokhan in his crib,
41:48but he ends up in our bed.
41:52He's kicking us.
41:54He's crying.
41:56And we can't be intimate.
41:57We really need to change
41:59our sleeping arrangements.
42:00Why?
42:01I'm tired of not having a sex life.
42:03I hate you grabbing my ass
42:07on your finger.
42:09I would like it
42:10if you didn't have
42:10your stupid ex-wife's initials
42:13on your finger, bro.
42:15I'm just gonna, like,
42:15chop it off at this point.
42:17For the nipples,
42:18the scar goes around the areola.
42:20You can't ever guarantee
42:21that you won't get hypo
42:23or hypersensitivity.
42:25There are a lot of risks
42:26that go into getting
42:28your boobs reducted.
42:30I could lose nipple sensation,
42:32have an ugly scar,
42:34or maybe be lopsided.
42:36Oh, my God, I'm getting anxious.
42:37I see this.
42:38I feel like Siyad
42:49is completely withdrawing
42:51from me and this marriage.
42:53And it just makes me
42:54really suspicious,
42:55especially after finding him
42:57with another woman.
42:58I was kind of hoping
42:59we'd get to enjoy
42:59having a Saturday night together.
43:02You're right together.
43:04Are we?
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