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00:00.
00:05Previously on Married to Medicine.
00:07I think Eugene might be right.
00:09What?
00:10When you say Botox can only be done by pretty people.
00:13We bought a building.
00:15A building.
00:16A building.
00:17We had to just cash out 401Ks and everything.
00:19Everything costs money.
00:20Every single thing.
00:21It's a grind.
00:22Yeah.
00:23I basically am working like two full-time jobs.
00:25You can't keep no secrets from me.
00:28If I had to learn about my son being arrested on social media,
00:32what else is out there?
00:33And Toya, leave my kids laying out of your mouth.
00:37How can we leave your kids out of our mouth
00:39when you dog our whole family?
00:42I know a lot about your family I've never said, Toya.
00:45I got a lot of secrets on her ass,
00:47and you don't want me to drop them.
00:48I got some doozies.
00:50That bitch making me act crazy.
00:52Right, so stop it.
00:58I got a lot of girls.
00:59You know?
01:00No.
01:01Get you one good one.
01:02Like your mama.
01:03I'm not going to get some grandkids.
01:08To be honest, I don't want you to get this the wrong way,
01:10but, like, I like a lot of girls.
01:11Do you know?
01:12No.
01:13Get you one good one.
01:14Like your mama.
01:15Am I going to get some grandkids?
01:17To be honest, I don't want you to get this the wrong way,
01:19but I like a lot of girls, you know?
01:23No.
01:25Get you one good one, like your mama.
01:31Did you pick up your iron tablets?
01:33I did yesterday.
01:34OK, start taking those.
01:36They do tend to constipate you.
01:39You'll be full of , but don't worry about that.
01:41You never going to change me, that's how I think.
01:44You see these lips.
01:46You going to be excited, too.
01:47I'll be like, OK.
01:49What did he say last week?
01:50He asked me when I could use them.
01:52Well, you could use them.
01:54And what did you say?
01:54Did you follow your post instructions?
01:55I did.
01:56OK.
01:57I told you, you have to wait.
01:57All right, don't be messing up my work now.
02:01Always big energy, I'm never going to shrink.
02:03Always top shelf when I'm having me a drink.
02:06Always double bags for me.
02:11Soul searching in a final groove.
02:20Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
02:21Soul searching.
02:24Hey, girl.
02:25Hey.
02:26Uh-uh.
02:27Wait a minute.
02:28You like it?
02:28You know, we 70s babies, baby.
02:30We are.
02:31But we ain't going to tell them about it.
02:32Yes, we do.
02:32We don't look it.
02:33Yes, well, we are redefining what it looks like.
02:36It's everything.
02:37Is that everything?
02:38I'm telling you.
02:39Look, let's do it.
02:39I love it.
02:40So first and foremost, I'm thinking either a red carpet
02:42or should I do a purple carpet?
02:45Um, where's my big plan?
02:45Back in the day, they didn't do a carpet.
02:47They did a Soul Train line.
02:48That's what I'm saying.
02:49But yeah, but no, no.
02:50Players' Ball, they had a carpet, baby.
02:52No.
02:53Look at this beautiful space.
02:54Hello, ladies.
02:55Hello.
02:55How are you?
02:56Good seeing you again.
02:58This is the last year of my 40s.
03:01I'm a 70s baby, so I really want to do a 70s party.
03:04I chose the thing Players' Ball.
03:06You remember the movie Casino?
03:08Yes.
03:09OK, you remember it was set in the 70s?
03:11Yes.
03:11So this is kind of like a hybrid of that.
03:13I want it to be lots of activities.
03:15I want people to come in in their 70s best.
03:18Their furs and their suits and their amazing clothes.
03:21Let's just have a good time.
03:23That's really what it's about.
03:25I just want this to be an opportunity for us
03:28to just have fun.
03:29Like I said in my invitation.
03:30You've been invited to Dr. Contessa's Players' Ball.
03:37This is so cute.
03:38This is going to be my first birthday party ever.
03:41Throwing it for yourself.
03:42I waited almost 50 years to throw myself a party,
03:45or have someone throw me a party, and it didn't happen.
03:48I don't know if I should be sad or happy.
03:50These husbands definitely need to do more, excluding Eugene.
03:55So what I'm thinking is we have a super long runway,
04:00and the dance floor will be here.
04:01Be right here in the middle, and the stage will be there.
04:03Yes.
04:04Would that be like 150, 200 people?
04:07Four decades of life.
04:08So 200.
04:09Yeah.
04:10I would love to stay like under $40,000 though.
04:15What?
04:16So that's your budget?
04:17That's too little?
04:18That's too high.
04:20I think Contessa needs to take that 40K
04:22and finish her office that she working on, OK?
04:24It's my party, and I can do what I want to do.
04:26I ain't got an answer to you.
04:28I think this is going to be great,
04:29but I don't want you to have any drama at your party.
04:32Like, it should be positive energy.
04:34I agree.
04:35I feel like the outfits would make people have positive energy.
04:37That's not true.
04:38But what I don't...
04:39You have very low expectations of us.
04:41What little friends are you talking about?
04:42I know.
04:43Oh, so you're not inviting our current group.
04:44I'm inviting everybody.
04:45Last time I saw Evelyn, she was crazy, OK?
04:48Crazy!
04:49That joke about the stuff that you bring to the table.
04:51Yes!
04:52I know a lot about your family I've never said, Toya.
04:54Hope her energy is good.
04:56Because that energy that she had the other day, it would stink.
05:00I want to think that our group is going to be able to put all their differences aside
05:04to celebrate me for the one time in my life I've asked them to do that.
05:08No resting bitch faces.
05:09Exactly.
05:10Don't come in.
05:11That's so annoying.
05:12Critiquing everything.
05:13Yeah.
05:14Just come in and have a good time.
05:15It's going to be so fun.
05:16Thank you so much, friend.
05:17You just gave me a moment.
05:18I just thought back, like, wasn't everybody high back then?
05:20They were.
05:28What's up?
05:29What's happening?
05:30Why'd you definitely eat something to eat?
05:31Yep.
05:32As long as you don't eat my food.
05:33I don't want to eat your food anyway.
05:35But you do it all the time.
05:38What you got to say about that?
05:41Absolutely nothing.
05:43Really?
05:44Why?
05:45Because you do eat my food all the time.
05:47Well, this is the thing with the leftovers.
05:49Don't assume, like, oh, they're in the refrigerator.
05:52This is my girl, and everything is ours.
05:54I'm eating the leftovers.
05:55Then what I'm going to eat?
05:56I don't want to have a whole hour conversation about food.
05:59You just tell me about it.
06:00But guess what?
06:01I have a healthy appetite.
06:03You want it 15 times a day?
06:04Feed me.
06:06Well, he just shut my damn mouth.
06:09I think you need to just take your shot because your hormones are already, like, mm.
06:13Does the shot make me have, like, mood swings, like rage?
06:16Yes.
06:17No, not rage.
06:18I find myself crying a lot.
06:20I have tried with you.
06:22I don't even know what is the problem.
06:24That's not me being in rage.
06:26King and I are trying to get pregnant.
06:28Any chance there's going to be a baby quad?
06:31We're hoping.
06:32We're hoping.
06:33You talked about it.
06:34Do you have any updates?
06:35Yes.
06:36I am in the process, for sure.
06:37Are you?
06:38We have a friend who basically got pregnant at 46 with triplets.
06:41And I said, well, wait a minute.
06:42Where is this doctor?
06:43And she's like, oh, this doctor is in Ghana.
06:45When I heard that, I just felt like this is where I need to be.
06:49I appreciate your grace in this and your understanding.
06:53Jackie had agreed to being my doctor stateside.
06:57She is responsible for all of my lab tracing.
07:00I have nothing but good news for you.
07:02Your pap is normal.
07:03Mammogram is normal.
07:04All your tests have been normal.
07:05We've now had two egg retrievals.
07:08All right.
07:09I'm just checking in and getting ready for my surgery
07:14to have the eggs removed.
07:16Let's pray that all goes well.
07:18I spent my whole life trying to dodge this bullet.
07:21It's not a bullet.
07:22It's a blessing.
07:23It's a blessing in disguise.
07:25I'll be happy if we just get another, what do you think, like four?
07:29How about you?
07:30Six.
07:31Six.
07:32So I have to go through this again?
07:33I don't want to either.
07:34You think I want to stick myself?
07:35I'm drained going back there now.
07:37You finish your food.
07:38I'm going to go ahead and go back here and get prepping.
07:40Get your shot going so I can get ready for this next 24 hours of hell.
07:44Sticking yourself a couple of times a day, every single day, gets exhausting and tiring.
07:50But despite all the side effects, it still will be well worth it to me to become a mom.
07:56Big, bad, tough Miss Quad is scared of a little needle.
08:00I'm not scared of the needle.
08:02I just don't like other people doing it.
08:04If we get the results that we're seeking, it'll definitely be worth it.
08:07If not, I could have bought another car.
08:11This, babe, bruh.
08:12This smells like a bitch.
08:13Come brush your teeth for real.
08:14Babe, you're knocking me out.
08:15Because you got a problem.
08:16You're projecting it on me.
08:17I need CPR.
08:18Coming up.
08:19You did good on this party.
08:20I love all of the parties that you men throw.
08:22Look at how sexist y'all are, because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my
08:39goddamn self, y'all talking to me about my husband.
08:42Oh.
08:51Hey, birthday girl.
08:52Ma'am.
08:53Birthday tiny.
08:54Ma'am.
08:55Ma'am.
08:56Because I don't know what I'm doing.
08:57I dress to work.
08:58Making me look bad.
08:59Working in an evening.
09:00Let me tell you why.
09:01I said, let me get myself, like, maybe get into the party mode.
09:04I mean, I love it.
09:05And then the universe will feel it.
09:06I love it.
09:07You're fabulous.
09:08See, today is the day.
09:09It's my birthday party.
09:10Where are we going?
09:11Right in here.
09:12Right here?
09:13To the left?
09:14Yes.
09:15I have been working my ass off.
09:16This is so pretty.
09:17Isn't this fabulous?
09:21It's so good.
09:22Yeah, baby.
09:23I love it.
09:24Is that fire?
09:25No, this is beautiful.
09:26She is so awesome.
09:27Brand, right?
09:28No, you did.
09:29You are so awesome.
09:30You did a good job.
09:31Can you see the record?
09:32It has my name on it.
09:33What?
09:34What?
09:35It would be so great if Scott was like, what can I do to help?
09:39It just doesn't connect for him that way.
09:41Hey, I do need help.
09:43Didn't you say you was bringing home ice cream?
09:45Yes.
09:46He's a smart guy.
09:47He's book smart.
09:48He ain't got no common sense, but he's book smart.
09:50That's what I'm just saying.
09:52Can I give you one piece of advice?
09:53Please.
09:54Because how long have you been married?
09:55Ten years.
09:56Don't ever say, I got this.
09:58Like, no, you don't have to.
09:59That's too much.
10:00Yeah.
10:01Because once you do that, you kind of create this like, oh, okay.
10:03Yeah.
10:04All right, I'm going to talk to Scott.
10:05I'm going to be like, all right, Scott.
10:06Step you.
10:07You're going to have to-
10:08Step up your underwear, huh?
10:09I'm going to tell them.
10:10Because they say panties for girls, so step your-
10:11Yeah, I'm going to tell them.
10:12Step your drawers up.
10:13I'm going to tell them.
10:14Are you excited about the party?
10:20I am, girl, but I don't know what to expect, child.
10:23Well, just expect the unexpected because-
10:27Did you grow up in the 70s?
10:29No.
10:30Oh.
10:31What?
10:36Bringing it all together.
10:37Okay, so you got bell bottles.
10:38Yes, honey.
10:39Boo, boo, boom.
10:40I got the shoes.
10:41It looks like we were back in the 70s, right?
10:43No.
10:44Jimmy Choo?
10:45No, baby.
10:46I like the way people dressed in the 70s.
10:48I think that they should bring 70s fashion back.
10:50The platform shoes, the makeup, the Afro-centricity of it all.
10:54Now, I was young in the 70s, but I do recall it was free love, honey.
11:00We were very free sexually back in the day, but so was herpes and hepatitis.
11:05So, you know, we paid for the freedom.
11:07And I got a waist trainer just in case, baby.
11:09All right.
11:10Hey, have it.
11:11Look at that.
11:12All I need.
11:13This what you're doing?
11:14Cute.
11:15One, two, three, two, four.
11:20Get ready for more.
11:23Uh-huh.
11:24I see what you're doing now.
11:27Got a body moving by.
11:29I see what you're doing.
11:31Ooh.
11:32All right.
11:33Sicky, sicky now.
11:34I see what you're doing now.
11:35When I think of the 70s, I think of disco with a little bump action.
11:42Well, you got the hoes tonight, Curtis.
11:45You ready?
11:46Let's go get it.
11:47Hold up.
11:48It's just letting around.
11:49That Afro, I do not miss that.
11:51I'm glad that era is gone.
11:53She's so spicy.
11:54Feeling, uh, feeling so nice.
11:56One, two, three, four.
11:57This looks beautiful.
11:59Look at that.
12:00Uh-huh.
12:01I see what you're doing now.
12:03Got a body moving by.
12:05How come she got four and I got two?
12:07Because I just...
12:09Back in the 70s, people wore a lot of sequins.
12:12They was wearing the shades.
12:14Man, the 70s for me was baby food, diapers, daycare.
12:19What?
12:20The 70s.
12:21I was born in 1977.
12:22Oh.
12:23I was a child.
12:30Thank you, honey.
12:31Give me a little bit more.
12:32How about that?
12:33When I think about the 70s, a lot of drugs.
12:38Whoa.
12:39Whoa.
12:40Hey.
12:41That's what you see on YouTube.
12:42Right?
12:48I really like the 70s style.
12:51My go-go boots.
12:53My wig was wiggy.
12:56Don't be scared to touch me.
12:58And you know my reputation now.
13:00Who's got it?
13:04I grew up during the 70s.
13:06But I was young.
13:07I wasn't, you know, I wasn't out on the dating scene yet.
13:10I'm not that old.
13:11Talk to Curtis.
13:13When I took a picture with Curtis,
13:14he was acting like he didn't want to touch me.
13:16I said, we're not doing all that.
13:18We were clowning too.
13:19Where your hands at?
13:20Where your hands at?
13:21Where your hands at?
13:23You know, it's my fault.
13:24I should've got him a pimp outfit.
13:25But I felt like, you know what?
13:26He pimpin' up for me.
13:27I wouldn't wear that.
13:28Pimpin'!
13:29This guy.
13:30This is about as pimpin' as I'mma get.
13:31I don't know.
13:32I like the shirt.
13:33It's a costume party, dude.
13:34Like, you just don't get it, do you?
13:35Let me know you laugh, laugh, laugh.
13:36This is about as flair as I get.
13:38Part 12, Part 8, Part 6, all along.
13:57You're a gag, you gamble, gamble, lady.
14:00I used to, I don't gamble no more.
14:03I gave it up a long time ago.
14:06I gave it up a long time ago.
14:07You gave it up to the Lord.
14:09To the Lord.
14:10I told this contestant, do you know how much you spent?
14:12No.
14:1340 grand.
14:14That's a lot.
14:15Yeah.
14:16If this is the first time she's throwing a party.
14:18Why not everybody saying that as soon as our first party,
14:21you gonna spend 40 grand?
14:23$40,000, where?
14:25Where is it?
14:26But I ain't spending 40 grand.
14:28Well, my son's about to graduate in two, three years?
14:30Yeah.
14:30No.
14:31Well, I didn't spend it on Michael, but I sure,
14:33Miles and Michael, I sure spent five
14:35on their little party.
14:36I can see five.
14:37The most Simone has ever spent on a party is 5,000, baby.
14:41Miles and Michael's graduation.
14:43Won't need no damn balloons.
14:45Won't need no step and repeat.
14:47Won't need no photographer.
14:49Won't need all that.
14:51Well, she told me earlier, I said, girl,
14:52you realize you could have had a little wedding.
14:54But my wedding was $75,000.
14:57Yeah.
14:58In what year?
15:02Shut your mouth.
15:05Nice, Foxy Brown.
15:08Right here, guys.
15:11You got us, ladies?
15:15OK, we're ready?
15:16Y'all ready?
15:17Relax, baby.
15:18We're doing here and enjoying ourselves.
15:20Just relax.
15:20I got your back.
15:22Don't you dare be trying to take no credit for anything.
15:25Scott did not plan this party.
15:27You go in here and have fun.
15:29This player knows what she likes and she knows what she wants.
15:32Don't be copping out.
15:33And everything that I do, she going to reject, OK?
15:36So, boom.
15:37Hello, hello, party people and the place to be.
15:40Can I have your attention, please?
15:42All you pimps and players in here,
15:44I want you to make a lot of noise and give a round of applause
15:48to my homegirl, Contessa.
15:50Make some noise for Contessa.
15:52Hey, now, I'm not in pressure.
15:54You're OK.
15:56You're doing some work here, you're doing some work here.
15:58You're doing some work here, you're doing some work here.
16:00What's up?
16:01What's up?
16:02What's up, man?
16:03What's up, man?
16:04What's up, man?
16:04What's up, man?
16:05What's up, man?
16:06What's up, man?
16:07Hello, everybody.
16:08Hey, guys.
16:09Oh, my God.
16:11You look amazing.
16:13You are pretty as good me.
16:14Happy birthday.
16:15You almost pretty as me.
16:17My party today is the party of my dreams.
16:19Hey!
16:20But the price of this party was definitely a bit excessive.
16:27Look at you, too, gorgeous.
16:28I could have cut the cake price in half.
16:30I could have cut the food budget in half.
16:32And we would have had it in my living room.
16:34That was amazing.
16:35Oh.
16:36Maybe the best thing for you to have done
16:38is to stay out of my way.
16:39That's right.
16:39I believe it.
16:40It turned out exactly the way I wanted it.
16:41I believe that.
16:47You made your interest by your damn self.
16:51Yeah.
16:52My whole music came in.
16:53Hello to you.
16:54I know.
16:55We're dancing.
16:56Come on.
16:57Come on.
16:58I ain't seen you since I started letting my hair grow out.
17:01Come on.
17:02What was happening?
17:03What up with you?
17:04You're looking good, Scott.
17:06You did good on this party.
17:07I tried.
17:08I tried.
17:09I helped out as much as I could.
17:10You know.
17:11You did.
17:11You sent this out.
17:13Boy, bye.
17:14You know you ain't had nothing to do with this party.
17:19I think that was Shade.
17:20I think that was a little Shade.
17:21I was trying.
17:21I was trying.
17:22I was trying.
17:23I know.
17:24I love all of the parties that you men throw.
17:26I'm Shade.
17:27Because all we got to do is come shake.
17:31Coming up, you complain all the time about your husband.
17:35I'm the kind of friends.
17:36Focus on the negative.
17:37These, bitch.
17:39OK, girl.
17:41I think that was Shade, and I think that was a little Shade.
17:58That was a little Shade.
17:59That's right.
18:00That's right.
18:01No, no.
18:02I love all of the parties that you men throw.
18:04Shade.
18:04Because all we got to do is come shake.
18:07I went and picked up cupcakes today, goddammit.
18:11Do you think I care what these heckling hands are saying
18:16about me not throwing a party for my wife?
18:19No.
18:24I'm going to let y'all know these 70 hoes
18:27have done a whole lot that y'all probably can't do.
18:29This area here got it up.
18:31Yeah, really up.
18:33I'm back down a week, bitch over for our men, right?
18:39We're bitch over backwards.
18:40Oh.
18:42There's a reason why people of my age can keep a man,
18:46and the younger people cannot.
18:48They don't want to do that no more, these young girls.
18:50They don't want to do that.
18:51You know Heavenly ain't cooking every meal for her man,
18:55nor is she bringing Damon's slippers to sit.
18:58Girl, get your life.
19:00But I've been over backwards to a mine.
19:02If he was a good man, I ain't got no problem with that.
19:06They didn't over, busted open wide open wide.
19:10I'm going to talk on the mic and bring you out.
19:13I have two outfits, and if I'm going to change,
19:15he needs to change into something else.
19:17Hello.
19:18What's happening?
19:19We changed clothes on.
19:20Just once.
19:21Just once.
19:22Just a little something situation.
19:23My gift to you.
19:25Boy, stop.
19:26A little something, a little something.
19:28Gene, how you been, man?
19:29I'm good, I'm good.
19:30You think the other night?
19:31Yeah, I've been working out of town.
19:35I go out of town, I work, and then I come back.
19:38I just got back yesterday.
19:39I'm working at five different hospitals right now.
19:42They're all at least two hours away.
19:44But every hospital, the nurses, after the first day,
19:46is like, can you work here all the time?
19:51Wait, wait, only the nurses?
19:52What about the patients?
19:53Don't the nurses, I said?
19:55I want to see the nurses.
19:58I just want to see the nurses.
20:00I want to see the nurses.
20:01I didn't want to confirm this.
20:02You feeding into that boom.
20:04Some of these nurses are actually men.
20:06Are they?
20:07Yes, absolutely.
20:08What's his name?
20:08All right, Paul.
20:09So then Paul went up to you and said, man.
20:11Yes.
20:12I want you to stay.
20:13The nurses know how you behave and who
20:15they want to work with.
20:18Cool guy.
20:18He actually knows Curtis.
20:19OK.
20:20So there's proof.
20:21Hmm.
20:22Everybody, eyes over here.
20:24Well, everybody, I'd like to thank every, each and every one
20:27of you for coming out tonight.
20:29Scott's talking.
20:30I don't know if she's told you guys,
20:32but this is her first major birthday
20:34party in her whole life.
20:36And I also will tell you that she did a lot to get this party going.
20:41She said she did a lot.
20:42She did everything she said.
20:43She's a strong force in our household.
20:45I celebrate her for it.
20:47And I'm going to share one more thing with you.
20:50A long time ago, before my mother passed, me and my mother,
20:53we would watch movies together.
20:55And she said, Contessa remind me of Rose.
20:57She's like, Rose will jump back on the boat for your ass,
21:02just like she did on, on, on, on Titanic.
21:07Why do the women got to go through such a struggle
21:10to earn their position with a man?
21:13I'm going now.
21:15I'm Miss Rose though, but I'm going now.
21:18Like, why?
21:20All right, please dance.
21:21Have a good time.
21:22Thank you guys for coming out.
21:23There's fun outside.
21:24There's fun inside.
21:25Enjoy yourselves.
21:26Thank you guys for showing up for me.
21:37Hey, how y'all doing?
21:39Why are you in prom gear and we're in 70s apart?
21:42Because it's my party.
21:43Somebody needs to be able to tell the difference
21:45between y'all and me.
21:46Whose party is it?
21:49Whose party is it, right?
21:51Did you have a good time tonight?
21:53I did.
21:54Did you want your husband to throw up or were you okay?
21:56I just said, this is my last year of my 40s.
21:59And I'm not going to leave my 40s in this first half of my life
22:03with any regrets.
22:04And I think I had a vision in my head.
22:06I think, I don't know if it would have been what I was expecting
22:10if somebody else planned it for me.
22:12Like, what if he did something like in the backyard?
22:14I really wanted to be somewhere where people could get drinks
22:16and get food.
22:17But why not just tell him that and then have him do it?
22:19I told him.
22:20I mean, I've been waiting.
22:21You know me?
22:22We 20 years.
22:23Don't y'all believe that from the beginning of the relationship,
22:27we teach the men how to treat it.
22:29That's what I said.
22:30It's so true, Simone.
22:31And so if the bar of expectation is low,
22:35they can jump right over that.
22:37And they don't move the bar.
22:39We have to move the bar.
22:41My first Mother's Day, Cecil didn't have a card for me.
22:45And I'm like, I got this little sucker over here sucking on me
22:48and you don't have a card.
22:50Marriage is about teamwork.
22:54It is about supporting one another.
22:57But sometimes I feel taken for granted.
23:01Why we gonna reevaluate our marriages
23:03after this amazing party right now?
23:04What is happening right now?
23:05No, reevaluating our marriages is major.
23:08He knows that I handle shit.
23:10He knows what?
23:11I handle shit.
23:12And that's what he was probably waiting for me to handle it.
23:14And ultimately I did.
23:15You gotta go home and live with that man.
23:17You gotta go and lay in the same bed that he sleeps in.
23:21So I get why you're taking up for him.
23:23You don't want that smoke at home.
23:25I had a great party.
23:26I was very happy.
23:27I learned my lesson with Contessa.
23:29I am not touching her marriage, baby.
23:31I am running for state representative.
23:33And I just need to be quiet.
23:34Look at how sexist y'all are.
23:36Because even in the midst of the party that I threw
23:38for my goddamn self, y'all talking to me about my husband.
23:41Y'all can't even on my goddamn birthday talk to me
23:43about how I made happy birthday.
23:45Still, you were sitting in the best party you have ever attended.
23:48And you're asking me why Scott didn't do it.
23:51You better do the flip, baby.
23:52You better flip that shit, baby.
23:53This is my party.
23:55Because I am the best at the planner for my birthday party.
23:58Okay?
23:59My party was epic.
24:00Game changer.
24:01Yes.
24:02Stop off.
24:03Yes.
24:04Yes.
24:05Yes.
24:06And stop off.
24:07You better come on.
24:08Yes.
24:10Coming up.
24:11If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
24:15That didn't happen.
24:16I'm done talking about this.
24:17You are so entitled.
24:19I'm done.
24:20I'm done.
24:30Back up.
24:31Back up.
24:32Back up.
24:33Back up.
24:34Okay, I'm gonna get the plates.
24:36If you're gonna cry, then go, come on, come on.
24:39Yep.
24:41Back up.
24:42I ordered them some graduation thank-you cards.
24:44I'm old school.
24:45I mean a written thank-you note how to always be nice.
24:51Wow.
24:54I need this.
24:55... this.
24:57Pow.
25:01Oh!
25:03I'm not gonna lie, that looks good as hell.
25:05What up boys, haircuts, haircuts, haircuts, haircuts.
25:15You want to fix some food?
25:17Food?
25:18Food?
25:19We got the food.
25:20We got y'all.
25:21Come on, sit down.
25:22Look at y'all.
25:23This is so sweet.
25:24Like our, this is our celebration of y'all.
25:25We had our graduation party.
25:26This y'all graduation party.
25:28Woo.
25:29We've been waiting for them to get their degrees.
25:32We knew they could do it.
25:34It's impressive.
25:35They definitely took different routes to get there.
25:39He had a gap year.
25:40Malia Obama, she did a gap year in Europe.
25:42Miles just took his gap year in school.
25:44Involuntarily.
25:45Do you want me to help you?
25:48Help me do what?
25:49Help you make your bed.
25:51You're not funny.
25:52I'm gonna warm my food up.
25:54Now, it's time to pay bills, baby.
25:57Bills, bills, bills.
26:00It's a surprise, brother.
26:02And got some food.
26:04Yep, yep.
26:05Oh, this is hyping hot.
26:09So how does it feel to have one less thing off the plate?
26:14Nothing.
26:15It feels like nothing.
26:16So we talked about in high school, right?
26:19I got the Jeep.
26:20Boom, Jeep was cool.
26:21But now we starting to teeter towards Jeep not being so cool.
26:25So now it's like...
26:26Oh, really?
26:27Jeep not so cool.
26:28No, it's cool.
26:29But it's just like, I'm tired of seeing it.
26:30I know you tired of seeing it.
26:32Tired.
26:34What we do have to look at, though, is your financial situation to see if you could afford to make any payments.
26:44I put some numbers.
26:45I did some figures for you.
26:48Hold on one second while I get my iPad.
26:50I just wanna say before you go, make sure whatever you bring out on that iPad is not gonna cause me to pick up your pasta off your plate and feed it to the dogs.
27:00Yeah, it might.
27:01Okay.
27:02Once Miles and Michael told me that they were gonna be graduating this year, all I have been able to think about is moving forward financially.
27:12Basically, what I did was just calculate the Chase bill for last year month by month.
27:21January...
27:22Mama, can I stop you right there?
27:23This is going on wrong.
27:24Why does this have to be negative?
27:25It doesn't.
27:26It doesn't.
27:27It's factual information.
27:29Michael spent over $60,000 by himself on this card.
27:36The Chase bill?
27:37If I were you and I wanted a car, I wouldn't be arguing with the person you're asking to buy the car.
27:44But that's me.
27:45This needs to be shared so that he has a clear understanding about the value of money, about the value of just swiping a mother credit card.
27:57So, have you been thinking about where you wanna go to law school, how you're gonna finance your education?
28:05I do have a mother who makes pretty good money.
28:14I don't feel like I should be footing the bill for anything other than the roof over your head, that sort of a thing.
28:22So, when you start talking about law school, graduate school, and so forth, if you're not getting any support, right, if no one's helping you to do that, and it sounds like, based on what your mom is saying, that would be the ideal situation.
28:38So, the only one here at the table with an actual graduate doctorate degree is me.
28:47And how I did it was I got scholarship money and loans.
28:52Your mom was not able to do the things for you that you are able to do for us.
29:01What about all the rich white kids, their parents pay for their way to do everything, and then they get out of college debt-free and are millionaires?
29:08So, what about all the white people who pay for their kids to go to school, be debt-free, and they still ain't doing ?
29:20Now, Michael's point is still a valid one. We are blessed. We are in a situation where we can help.
29:31Who here at the table gives a about how hard I'm working instead of being able to move towards retirement?
29:40Man.
29:41He said that he thinks every day about how he can, what he can do to be able to give back to you.
29:53That's what he said.
29:54I understand it.
29:55But then don't.
29:56If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
29:59That can happen because God might take you away.
30:02I'm done talking about this.
30:04Oh, I don't care.
30:06Be done.
30:07I get tired of being the lone man out.
30:10It's always three against one.
30:12I'm jumping in.
30:13You don't jump in.
30:14You can't speak for me because you don't think like me.
30:17After you stink, I'm gonna speak.
30:18You don't think like me.
30:19After you stink, I'm gonna speak.
30:20You don't support me on .
30:21Where did that come from?
30:22It comes from my heart.
30:23Is this a beat?
30:24It comes from my heart.
30:25The bottom line is you are so entitled is what this revealed to me.
30:31I'm done.
30:33I'm done.
30:34I don't owe you a mother thing from here.
30:36I give you everything I have to kill.
30:41I give you everything I have to kill.
30:48?
30:50?
30:51?
30:52?
30:54?
30:55?
30:56?
30:57?
30:58?
30:59?
31:00?
31:01?
31:02?
31:03?
31:04?
31:05?
31:06?
31:07to get your day started off right.
31:09And then in the morning, you're going to be, I'm late.
31:18You trying to reverse the big back?
31:21You trying to say my back big?
31:23No, it's not big, just wide.
31:25I'm smiling away, so cute in the face.
31:27With a big back?
31:33Want me to just rotate it over?
31:34No.
31:35Oh, that's probably a good idea.
31:36See, teamwork, that's what I'm saying.
31:38Let me be your team right now.
31:40You're like, you're going the opposite direction.
31:42You're going opposite direction?
31:44No.
31:58Come on in.
31:59I must be the first to arrive.
32:00You are.
32:01OK.
32:02I'm going to have a sweet dairy margarita.
32:08Good day, Marie.
32:09Hey, how are you?
32:10Good.
32:11Hey, Missy.
32:12Hey, drinking already?
32:13Girl, yes.
32:14When you like, you got yesterday.
32:17Praise God.
32:18Can I get a dirty Shirley?
32:20So how you been?
32:21You look cute today.
32:22Girl, we had a family dinner that went all the way left.
32:29Got an attitude, because I'm not going to pay for law school.
32:33I never said I was paying for law school, dude.
32:35I don't think you should.
32:37Me and him going back and forth.
32:38Cecil was silent, boo.
32:41I get tired of being a bad cop all by myself all the time.
32:45I understand, boo.
32:46I just need a break from the people that last night went more.
32:50I just need a break.
32:57Hey, ladies.
32:58Hey.
32:59Hi.
32:59Birthday girl.
33:01You did that.
33:02You did that.
33:05I have a card for you.
33:07Happy birthday.
33:08I'm doing good now.
33:09I don't know you now.
33:10I'm 42.
33:11I don't look at the door.
33:12You do not.
33:13It's my birthday.
33:15You're going to have some food.
33:16We're going to have some drinks.
33:17Let's turn up a little bit.
33:18My hubby surprised me.
33:21He was like, invite your friends.
33:22I'm going to pay for y'all to eat, drink,
33:24and have a good night.
33:26So your husband did this for you.
33:28Yes.
33:28But contested husband did not do it for her.
33:31So do you think you should tone it down a little bit
33:33for the people?
33:34Look, I can't tone it down, because my man is my man.
33:36That's right.
33:37I don't know what you were laughing.
33:40I mean, I got a good man.
33:41So happy birthday.
33:45Happy birthday, babe.
33:46Happy birthday.
33:47Yes.
33:48Good.
33:49Welcome.
33:50Happy birthday.
33:51Hello.
33:53I love it.
33:54Let's come sit down.
33:58What's up?
34:00Where the party at?
34:01Oh, hey.
34:02Where the people party?
34:04Hey.
34:05I can't bend over, because my short.
34:07Oh, .
34:08Hello.
34:09Hey.
34:10Hi.
34:11Hi, girls.
34:12So cute.
34:13Hello.
34:15You might look good.
34:17Don't feel underdressed.
34:18Y'all look just fine.
34:21Look at Jackie's face.
34:23OK.
34:24OK.
34:25This brand name, Biatch, is always going to have something
34:30to say if you're not wearing Gucci, Prada, Fendi, or something.
34:34Girl, you better get yourself some Zara.
34:38Some of us professional women have more places to go than to the party.
34:43So are you saying that the women that walked in aren't professional?
34:46That's what you're trying to say.
34:47I'm just talking about you.
34:48Oh.
34:49Oh.
34:50If professional means being you, I want to be me.
34:53I don't want to be you.
34:54Oh, man.
34:55That's all I'm saying.
34:56I can't tell these shoes starting already.
34:59The shade has already started.
35:01They didn't even say happy birthday yet.
35:03Look, we done took over.
35:04It's Brandi's day, OK?
35:05So look, so first off, let's get some shots.
35:08Her man paying for this, so he said that I can have all the shots I wanted.
35:12That's what he said.
35:13He did.
35:14He said you could have all the shots.
35:16I love this.
35:17That contestant's party.
35:18I feel like we all didn't get a chance to really, like, kick it.
35:20To me, that's the only negative about having a party.
35:22You don't get to spend any quality time with everybody.
35:25That's why the next day I did a brunch, I said,
35:27if I didn't get a chance to hug you, please come to my house.
35:29And I literally cooked from, like, 10 o'clock in the morning.
35:32You cooked after your party?
35:34Until 9 o'clock.
35:35Where was Scott the next day?
35:37He could cook.
35:38They went outside smoking a cigar.
35:39Scott ain't planning , but Scott must have been exhausted after your chance at this party.
35:48You did good on this party.
35:50I tried.
35:51After wearing that wig and that pimp coat, he was tired.
35:55I enjoy taking care of people.
35:57I know, but somebody needs to take care of you at some point.
36:00I do agree.
36:01I do.
36:02I think paying for that party was kind of taking care of me.
36:04All right.
36:05I'm going to bring it back to me for a second.
36:06Okay.
36:07Because it's my birthday.
36:08Not for a second for the night.
36:09My husband and my kids on the phone.
36:10So, one.
36:11Oh, my husband.
36:12All right.
36:13Y'all, this is my husband.
36:14Hey, y'all.
36:15All of my kids.
36:16Hey.
36:17Hi.
36:18How are you?
36:19So they wanted to say thank you.
36:20All right.
36:22All right.
36:24Thank you, baby.
36:25I love you.
36:26All right.
36:28Bye.
36:30All right.
36:32Why is she thanking him so much?
36:33Was this like a really expensive restaurant?
36:35Like, was this a lot of money?
36:37Happy birthday.
36:38Happy birthday, Brandi.
36:39This is an amazing dinner party.
36:41I think you should eat before the food starts getting cold.
36:45Yeah.
36:46Somebody say a prayer.
36:47Can we pray to God or do we have to pray to your husband for thanking him for the food?
36:55No.
36:56You and your feelings, but it's okay.
36:58We thanking these husbands a lot.
36:59You and your feelings.
37:00These husbands are getting a lot of credit for some Asian .
37:05Contessa's retaliating because she's feeling a way that Scott has never planned a birthday party for her.
37:12We in a strip mall.
37:13I mean, not a pleasant.
37:15She's still upset about that party.
37:17Here's the thing.
37:18My husband paid for this.
37:19He paid for everybody to come and have a good night.
37:22My husband is amazing.
37:23So I give my husband props and I'll tell anybody.
37:25Okay.
37:26So I'm sorry, Contessa, if that's a problem for you or anyone else.
37:29But it is what it is.
37:30I think y'all wasn't with the problem.
37:33Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
37:36No.
37:37I don't think, but I don't think you'll...
37:38The only thing that my husband did not do was plan it.
37:40But I'll be honest, if he would have did this as my birthday party, I would have been underwhelmed.
37:50This is not a birthday party in my opinion.
37:52Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
37:53Let's bring this back.
37:54Let's bring this back.
37:55Let's bring this back.
37:56It's not a comparison.
37:57That was a party.
37:58This is not a party.
37:59This is a dinner.
38:00It's getting out of hand.
38:01There he was with that build.
38:02This isn't a party for you.
38:03Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
38:11Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
38:19But I'll be honest, if he would have did this as my first birthday party, I would have been underwhelmed.
38:28Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
38:29Let's bring this back.
38:30Let's bring this back because this is getting out of hand.
38:33No, this is not a party.
38:34This is a dinner.
38:35This is a dinner, right.
38:36Brandi spent zero.
38:37My husband paid for it.
38:39I brought some money just in case.
38:41Y'all, money for what?
38:46Put your stuff back.
38:47You brought all your birthday money.
38:49I mean, we got a joint bank account.
38:50I got access.
38:51Get your coin purse.
38:52Put it back.
38:53Baby, the shade is real, baby.
38:55The shade is very real.
38:57Why are you throwing money on the table?
38:59If I'm not mistaken, at your party, you said you wanted somebody to do something nice for you.
39:05He knows this is a big deal.
39:06I doubt he's going to come in here and didn't have anything planned for you.
39:10I hope not.
39:10Here you go.
39:12It may not be from Scott, but you're getting wined and dined with a nice meal.
39:17Be grateful.
39:18Really?
39:20Contessa was upset.
39:22What am I upset about?
39:24About Scott not throwing a party for you.
39:26And I don't know why you forgot.
39:28Me saying I'm throwing a party for myself, the question becomes, what is this paternalistic
39:35world that some man has to throw some shit for me?
39:37I make just as much money as him?
39:39Not only does Contessa complain about Scott to her friends.
39:46So he's cheating?
39:47Is that what's...
39:48I don't know what nobody is ever doing.
39:50Then she switches her story.
39:52She get mad if you remember what she said the day before.
39:55Keep your opinions about my spouse to your goddamn mother self.
40:00Now I've learned to just accept it.
40:02Stay up out of Contessa if you know better.
40:04Why focus on the negative?
40:06What kind of friends focus on the negative?
40:08These, bitch.
40:10Okay, girl.
40:11All we're saying at the end of the day is that you complain all the time about your husband.
40:18How are you complaining all the time about your husband?
40:21It is all right, bitch.
40:25Now can we move on?
40:26Where the is the cake?
40:27This is over-selling.
40:29Wow.
40:31This might be normal behavior for everybody.
40:35I think this is what I'm learning.
40:36And eventually we probably all hug and laugh.
40:39I ain't even saying shit in the town of y'all.
40:41She always confesses.
40:42Shit, y'all getting me all hot.
40:44Till next time.
40:45So do you think that there is ever a time where maybe you are frustrated?
40:53Maybe you do say be quiet.
40:56I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
40:57Be quiet.
40:58We've been married for 20 years.
41:00And if I spent all of my time focusing on the negatives,
41:03I would be like many of my girlfriends out here who are single.
41:07And maybe at 30 years, he's going to do some of those things that I've asked for.
41:12I've been married 29.
41:13You get it.
41:14He's not going to do anything.
41:16Right.
41:18Dang.
41:19I was like, please enlighten her.
41:21So yes, I would be great if he would sometimes buy me a Rolls Royce,
41:25but I like the ring better.
41:26Some people here married and then don't even want to damn be married no damn more.
41:30I don't know how I got in it.
41:32All I know is I can go in my safe and I see I have a wedding ring too.
41:36The marriage ain't just all of that.
41:38Difference is I have a wedding ring and a Rolls Royce.
41:41And I don't have a headache.
41:42Now clock that T.
41:46Well, quiet.
41:47Who here doesn't want to be married anymore other than me?
41:53What?
41:53Yes, you do.
41:55Yes, you do.
41:56You have no idea.
42:01Don't say that.
42:02Don't say that.
42:03Don't say that to mom.
42:07Next time on Married to Medicine.
42:10People file for divorce for all kind of shit on there.
42:14I lost my boy out.
42:16I don't even know who the is.
42:19Dr. Jackie want to see you.
42:21Look how he smiled.
42:22You probably delivered him.
42:24He let up.
42:25You supposed to have your shirt off.
42:27Bro, I love the house, but I'm a little bit uncomfortable.
42:30Why they naked men?
42:31Don't cuss at me.
42:32But the ladies next to you took it personal too.
42:34Don't them bitches.
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