00:00People break up, you know, I come from some place, Assam, that fellow comes from Gujarat and he went to the kitchen and actually put sugar in the curry.
00:13Before he could serve it to me, I served him divorce notice.
00:18Such an improper guy, putting sugar in curry.
00:22What's proper or improper about it?
00:25And you feel justified, raising away like that.
00:28Why can't they cook it properly?
00:31Now what is this properly?
00:33This is just your conditioning.
00:35Because you have been fed like that since 15 years by your mother, so for you that has become proper.
00:42But what's proper about any kind of conditioning?
00:46Conditioning is conditioning.
00:48But when chemicals, feelings, hormones, biases, they rule, then you lose all this objectivity.
00:59Then you forget that whatever you are taking as dear to yourself is dear to you just because it has been with you since long.
01:13Otherwise, there would have been no dearness.
01:15That's what each relationship translates into.
01:20With you since long.
01:22That's it. Nothing more than that.
01:23Nothing more than that.
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