00:00When sometimes I do some things and my parents don't like it, of course they will scold me.
00:06So sometimes the matter goes too far and they hurt me.
00:10The mind is a strange thing. It remembers all the nonsense.
00:15Two hours of a hurtful conversation will be remembered over two decades of a relationship.
00:26That's how the ego operates. Two decades of mother-daughter relationship, the ego will choose to just keep aside.
00:38And it will repeat, repeat, repeat to itself those two hours, not even two hours, it does not last that long usually.
00:4620 minutes. Those 20 minutes of bombardment.
00:51And every single word, hurt, abuse will be not only remembered but magnified.
01:01Your mother said something in two words. The memory will remember it as two sentences.
01:09Even casual glances will be remembered as weapons in sarcasm.
01:17You know, she was not just looking at me.
01:21She was using her eyes as weapons.
01:23There was so much sarcasm and taunt in the way she glanced at me.
01:29And that's all the work of the ego.
01:33Right?
01:34So do engage your parents.
01:37Figure out what is really happening and then talk to them.
01:41It's an art.
01:42It's an art.
01:44It's an art.
01:46It's an art.
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