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90 Day Fiance The Other Way S07 E14
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00:00Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
00:03So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
00:06What the f***?
00:10He's taking the jokes way too far.
00:12What is in your mind, Antoni?
00:16My daughter living here, that means I need to put a lot of trust in you.
00:20And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
00:24I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had infidelity.
00:30Show me that you can take care of yourself here, please.
00:33All right.
00:34I think when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not,
00:39a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
00:42Okay.
00:42Okay.
00:48That's mom.
00:49She's constantly invading our relationship.
00:54She calls every day.
00:56It's not normal.
00:58I've sat at the table with you girls.
01:01I know, but baby.
01:01You guys act like best friends.
01:02You're saying, is it resolved?
01:04You're saying, you know what, mom, but he is right.
01:09The honest truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
01:13I don't think I love you anymore.
01:18We'll just have a little warm-up first.
01:48Okay.
01:49You ready?
01:50Yes.
01:55Sorry.
01:56A bit hard.
01:56Okay.
01:58Oh!
02:01Don't worry about the ball.
02:02Okay.
02:03You want me to keep going?
02:04Yeah.
02:04I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now, and Dylan's mom invited me to go play tennis with her today.
02:12Ah!
02:13And I kind of feel a little nervous about being with her alone because I still have a lot of issues with how close they are.
02:21I've got one for Tia.
02:25Fairly love.
02:27I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
02:31She contaminates Dylan's head.
02:33I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
02:38Whoops, that's a bit me.
02:39Okay.
02:40My point.
02:46Party love.
02:48I suck!
02:51Oh, God.
02:51She kicked my ass.
02:52Oh, that was embarrassing.
03:00Just like, ugh.
03:01Are you thirsty?
03:03Yeah, I'm thirsty.
03:04Let's go.
03:04Let's have a break.
03:07I'm definitely going to take this opportunity to talk to Joe because Dylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries.
03:13And if he's not going to fix it, I will.
03:16Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis with you today.
03:21It's a beautiful place.
03:23Oh, thanks for coming.
03:25Yeah.
03:29To be honest with you, Joe, like the other night at dinner, I wanted to say so much, but I'm like, oh, my God, is it too soon to be talking to her about this?
03:37No.
03:37Because I don't want to come office.
03:38I'm very open.
03:39Listen, I'm very easygoing.
03:41Any other issues, just we bring them up.
03:42Well, how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said, Mom, Patia's going to be moving here, even though you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
03:54Yeah, I was excited for him because he was excited about it, but he did say, Mom, Patia doesn't want to live anywhere near your house or Dad's house.
04:05Did you say that?
04:06I did.
04:07Yeah.
04:08Yeah.
04:08So I was concerned about that.
04:11I said, well, how's that going to work?
04:12That's, I know, that's horrible.
04:14It's how I felt.
04:15Yeah, I know.
04:15I thought it was horrible, too.
04:18That's just screwy because I don't mean you any harm.
04:21I know.
04:21I want you both to be happy.
04:22No, seriously, I do.
04:24I never, ever resented you.
04:25Oh, I did because I just, you know, the things that I thought you said about me was horrible.
04:31Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
04:32The main two things has been your hatred for me and the spending.
04:36Well, I stopped spending.
04:40You say you've stopped spending.
04:44You still haven't paid the debt off.
04:45Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
04:49So it's Dylan's fault again.
04:51He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell one of the properties to help you out.
04:58Yes, I feel, I feel like he owes me that.
05:01Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation that he's to sell one of the properties.
05:05That's obviously for the both of you to sort out.
05:08But I really would advise him against selling the property.
05:11This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
05:19Now she's going to tell him to not sell one of his properties.
05:23First of all, it's like none of her business.
05:25She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
05:27I really need for her to back off.
05:30I wanted to say something else.
05:33In order for me to feel comfortable here, I need to set boundaries.
05:39Like maybe not call Dylan every day.
05:41Three times a day.
05:42So that's still bothering you?
05:44Yes.
05:46Oh my God.
05:47But I thought we got past that.
05:48Yes, we did get past that.
05:49But we haven't if you're still onto it.
05:51Yeah, yeah, I want to, yeah, I want to like get past it.
05:55It just makes me mad because Dylan, well like stop everything just to talk to you.
06:00But isn't that a good thing?
06:01Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything to talk to you?
06:04Yes.
06:04Because you're important to him?
06:05Yes, but unless it's an emergency, you know.
06:08I don't know about that.
06:09Yes, I mean unless it's an emergency, I just feel like he can wait till we get home and talk to you.
06:13I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
06:16Oh, you're joking.
06:18No.
06:18Here's the deal.
06:21I'm not needy.
06:22I'm not needy in any relationship.
06:23So I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
06:25So I don't, I'm not going to be classed as needy.
06:27I don't think that Patia has a right to tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like.
06:34I think that problem lies within her.
06:37I might back off a little bit, but I don't think Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that though.
06:42Asking me not to call doesn't seem normal or natural.
06:46But I mean, I'll do it.
06:47I know.
06:47That makes you happy and if you think that's going to help the relationship, I'll do it.
06:50It will.
06:50But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night and say, what do you want, Dil?
06:53And he wants to chat.
06:54So it's not just me.
06:56It could be yes.
06:56You better get in his ear too.
06:57Grandpa sent me a picture.
07:21Benny's sleeping on grandpa tonight.
07:24You probably sleep all night on their bed since it's probably a lot more comfortable than I am.
07:27So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
07:32I have no idea.
07:34My last couple of attempts have really failed at giving this grand gesture of love to Manon with being a mine and the goat farm.
07:43So tonight I have a romantic getaway plan.
07:48This is definitely more along the lines of what's something I know she likes, which is really going to a nice hotel.
07:55But of course, earlier today we had a fight, so I don't know how this is going to be received.
08:02Here, the Terrace du Port, it's open seven days a week.
08:06It's the only stores that are open on Sundays.
08:09That's why tomorrow maybe I can get my nails done.
08:12I can do them for you.
08:13Has your mom got nail polish?
08:14Okay, not a good joke either, but that's fine.
08:18It's not a joke.
08:19It's how you save money.
08:21And that, I cannot do it now anymore?
08:22No.
08:23Great.
08:24Oh my God.
08:24So what do you want to say about this afternoon?
08:29There's nothing to say.
08:30We're on the same page.
08:32We got it.
08:33We're good.
08:33What do you mean we are on the same page?
08:35Earlier today, when we were down in this like historic part of Marseille, there was this
08:42little shop that had some seashell earrings and she didn't have her purse on her and she
08:48was asking if I had my wallet.
08:50And I said I didn't have my wallet so that she would not buy anything.
08:55I'm like coming from this like sense of you spend money all the time, there's no money coming
09:00in and we're looking to purchase a house.
09:02And then me being the juvenile sense of humor that I have, kind of flashed my wallet as
09:10we're leaving the shop to show her and I shouldn't have done that.
09:18I could have gone about it a different way and said, hey, maybe don't spend right now
09:22because I have something planned or something like that.
09:25But even $20?
09:27Okay, I know you're saying $30.
09:29It wasn't just $30.
09:30Max a hundred, do you think I would have spent like crazy in a small, tiny boutique if you
09:35would have said, can you don't buy them or can you buy just one piece?
09:39I would have not pushed you.
09:42Really?
09:43Yes, really.
09:45Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
09:48What do you assume that I am such a monster?
09:51You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
09:54I like, I really don't feel like going down this road because it could lead into some really
10:02bad and I just don't want to go.
10:04Oh wow.
10:04So you have more stuff to say to me?
10:06Do I have more stuff?
10:06It's like, what about you?
10:08Your apologies?
10:10Huh?
10:10Like we can, this can go on all day of like you, me, you, me.
10:14It can.
10:14I don't like feeling like the bad guy.
10:20I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything and Manon does not hear how,
10:24you know, she comes across to me.
10:26We tried to move away from these problems moving here and they've just followed us from
10:32LA.
10:32And I don't have a support system anymore.
10:36My family's over there.
10:38My only support system is her and there's none.
10:45I apologized.
10:46I said where I'm coming from.
10:48But.
10:48But like I said, you would invalidate the way I felt about it, which you did.
10:54I don't invalidate.
10:55You are invalidating your own apology by always saying a but, a but, a but.
11:03Then I guess I'll just never say where I'm, where like my mind was coming from in the
11:07moment.
11:07And I'll just say, I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies and get on my knees and beg for
11:13your forgiveness.
11:15I feel you just don't want this to work out.
11:17You just don't.
11:20You always like have to throw that on me too.
11:23Just like you do.
11:24Because it's how I feel.
11:24I don't like divorcing.
11:25Oh, we're not compatible.
11:26Go find someone that's good for you.
11:28Because you make me feel this way.
11:29Mm-hmm.
11:30Putain.
11:32You just don't care about losing me then.
11:34You just don't care about saving us then.
11:37You just don't care about me.
11:38Period.
11:42When we talk about money, it's a fight.
11:45Our core beliefs are so freaking different.
11:49Is it even possible for us to be happy long term if we are that different?
11:54I'm telling you, I feel like I need to be a whole different person for you.
12:03But I'm sorry, Antoni.
12:04I cannot change for you.
12:06I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
12:15Today is a big day.
12:16I'm going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
12:18To legalize your status in Naruba, it'll take approximately five months.
12:22Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
12:26Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
12:29Not...
12:30Not at all.
12:31Is it a dog?
12:59Don't tell me.
13:01It's a piece of leaf of a coconut tree.
13:06Looks like a dog, didn't it?
13:08No.
13:08Oh, thank God.
13:09Relax.
13:12When Chloe's mom was here, you know, the pressure that she put on us for the papers and stuff
13:16that I feel like really put both of us in a place like, hey, you know, you got to get
13:20this done.
13:20So today is a big day.
13:21We're going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer, and hopefully you can give me some
13:25really good information and what steps we should take next.
13:28Don't touch it, Chloe.
13:39The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply for domestic partnership papers.
13:45I've known people that have done it before.
13:47First thing is partnership papers, and then for the job, we have to find an employer that
13:51wants to hire her and willing to pay for her work permit.
13:54I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
13:57Yes.
13:58We're kind of just looking to see what the process would be as far as how much it's going
14:05to cost, and we're very interested in a work permit, because without work, I have no money.
14:11So I have to somehow find a legal way to do all of those things.
14:16The main thing right now is trying to legalize your status in Naruba.
14:20Once you are here in Naruba, the work will follow automatically.
14:24Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
14:27How much would the permits cost?
14:30How long is it going to take?
14:33It all depends if it is a partnership agreement or a marriage.
14:36Mm-hmm.
14:37When you marry, he can bring you in automatically, and the marriage will cost maybe some legal
14:43dues to marry at the municipal, but it can go very fast.
14:48So the partnership agreement, maybe $600, $700.
14:54But the thing is, that process will take approximately five months.
14:59Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States to wait for you to come
15:04to Aruba.
15:05Well, there's the bad news.
15:06I knew that was too good to be true.
15:08If you married, there's no problem.
15:11But with partnership, you need to wait abroad.
15:15Yeah.
15:15How long would it take if we didn't file the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
15:21After you're legal in Naruba, it will take approximately another three months for you to get a job.
15:28The whole process is approximately, I think, eight to seven months.
15:33Yeah, that's a long time.
15:34That's a long time, I know.
15:35Mm-hmm.
15:36With a marriage thing, everything goes quicker.
15:39Goes quicker.
15:40But you have to be ready for that, of course.
15:42Right.
15:43No, it's not a little step, you know, it's a big step.
15:50I'm shocked.
15:52This partnership paper is not this easy, sign your cute little signature on a dotted line.
15:57And it's even more shocking that for a part of this, I might actually have to be home.
16:04In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance, he broke my trust once.
16:10My anxiety then is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust again.
16:19So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
16:22Not at all.
16:24Not in the slightest.
16:25Jonathan and I have talked about getting married, and he's definitely someone that I see myself marrying.
16:48But there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
16:52But it would solve a lot of our issues with me being able to stay here legally.
16:58When you're ready, just give me a call.
17:02I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
17:04Maybe we should just go for it.
17:06Be honest.
17:33Be honest, like, truth is that I don't think I love you anymore.
17:40Thank you for being honest.
17:57Relationship isn't always 50-50.
18:01Sometimes it's 70-30.
18:03Sometimes it's 90-10.
18:05But, like, I can't, like, force myself to love you.
18:17And, like, I love you as a person.
18:21And I, like, really, like, only want happiness for you.
18:24Like, I just, like, I just feel like there's just, like, so much about myself that I just, like, need to know about before I can commit to someone.
18:41I just, like, don't think it's, like, a good idea to, like, move forward in this relationship.
18:52It's been three or four days here.
19:02I think we just need to spend a little bit of time together again.
19:05Not worry about getting married or kids or necessarily even where to live.
19:12Just get somewhere.
19:13Just feel it out.
19:16No commitment.
19:18I think there's something to explore still.
19:21I really do.
19:23But, like, I just, like, know what I need right now, like, is to be alone.
19:34It's just all so sudden.
19:37I feel like I was pulling back the past six months.
19:43I was not being very affectionate.
19:44I was not reciprocating your feelings.
19:47I wasn't calling you as much.
19:48I wasn't sharing much about my life, and I've been, like, like, spiraling about it and wondering if we decide to see each other in person again, and then, like, then I would know.
20:00We've only seen each other with a camera crew around us.
20:04It doesn't have to do with the camera.
20:07Like, like, no, it doesn't.
20:13I just know it in my gut.
20:14Like, I have to listen to my gut.
20:16Like, and it's not fair for me to string you along when I already know it's over.
20:20Like, this is not fair for you either.
20:28Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words.
20:35You don't just suddenly not love someone.
20:39These things build up over time.
20:41And I had no idea it was building up all this time.
20:51There is so much life still ahead of us.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:57I was prepared to spend it all with you.
21:05Every single second day.
21:07I will only look back with, like, fond memories of, like, the connection I felt with you.
21:33And, like, how we helped each other grow.
21:38And, like, maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
21:43And even if I am, I still feel like I have to make it.
21:50That ring weighed a ton on my hand.
21:53When I put that ring on her finger, I never intended to take it back.
22:09Well, what do we do now?
22:10We just move forward.
22:20Our individual ways.
22:25I'm just...
22:26I'm sorry.
22:30I'm just a little bit dead inside.
22:32I'm gonna go to a hotel, I guess.
23:01Greta is always chasing a frill in life.
23:13And I think...
23:15the rollercoaster just ended.
23:17All right.
23:26Grab your bag.
23:28Oh, no.
23:29What the f*** is this?
23:32I was definitely not expecting a...
23:34A sex dungeon.
23:35Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
23:37Just there's no windows.
23:39And it's soundproof.
23:41Oh.
23:41I don't want you to change
23:57But it don't feel the same
24:01You say, I don't care about you.
24:04It's complete bulls***.
24:06I wouldn't be here in France if that was the case.
24:11We getting out?
24:19Right on.
24:19I mean, it's been a while
24:21Since we had any alone time
24:24to be intimate
24:25And I was looking forward
24:27to having, like, this nice time
24:29And now we're walking up to the hotel
24:31not in a good headspace
24:32Love room?
24:39Oh, no.
24:40What the f*** is this?
24:52Check it out.
24:55Oh, wow.
24:56That is cool.
24:57Uh-huh.
24:58That's a good f*** jacuzzi, huh?
25:00Uh-huh.
25:01Cool.
25:03Cool.
25:04It's just there's no windows.
25:05That's the thing that's freaking me out right now.
25:07And it's soundproof.
25:08Oh.
25:10When I was asking Antoni
25:13for a sexy, romantic night away
25:17I was definitely not expecting a
25:20How can I put it
25:23without being insensitive?
25:28A sex dungeon.
25:29Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
25:31Thank you, exactly.
25:33Well, it wasn't labeled as a sex dungeon.
25:36What a love room for you.
25:38Love room.
25:40Oh, okay.
25:41A strip bowl.
25:42Okay.
25:44I get it.
25:45The effort was
25:46it's still better than mine.
25:47So, thank you.
25:49Okay.
25:52So, I have a surprise for you.
25:54Oh, no, no, no.
25:55So, you stay over here
25:56and I'll get that ready.
25:59Okay.
25:59Manon loves the fact
26:03that I was in the military.
26:05I mean, I think
26:06she just loves a uniform.
26:08I'm scared.
26:09So, I decided to dust off
26:11my old army of fatigues.
26:14That will at least
26:16at a minimum
26:16put a smile on her face
26:18which I think is
26:19a stepping stone
26:20to having a better night.
26:22What is he doing?
26:24You ready?
26:25What the f***?
26:32What is it?
26:32It's what you want.
26:34Yeah, but you always said
26:35you will never wear it.
26:36You hate it.
26:38I'm doing it for you
26:39and
26:40opportunity awaits.
26:42With the outfit.
26:43Oh, yeah.
26:43Uh-huh.
26:44Oh, f***.
26:45Let's go.
26:46Come on.
26:47Can it hold my weight?
26:49Oh, pizza.
26:50You ready?
26:51I'm not.
26:52Woo!
26:55Yeah!
26:57Oh, my God.
26:58Ooh, I'm thinking that.
26:59I'm going to break it.
27:01Where's the military boy?
27:03You can't look like
27:03going for like that pose.
27:05Oh, yeah.
27:06What?
27:06Yeah, that's what you want.
27:08Ooh.
27:09Ooh!
27:13Yeah!
27:16You're a very, very rare breed.
27:19It's just very cute.
27:21It's very sexy.
27:21It's very cute.
27:23Okay, let's go.
27:23Let's go to the hotel.
27:25You're a nice guy.
27:26It's nice.
27:26I love that.
27:27I'm a nice guy.
27:28Yeah, you are.
27:29Yeah.
27:30Anyway, and I'm the bad girl.
27:31We always know that.
27:32I'm the bad girl.
27:33I'm the crazy one.
27:34I'm the loud one.
27:35The big one.
27:36You know, I take space.
27:37We know that.
27:38Dramatic, emotional.
27:39I'm not dramatic.
27:45Yeah, but you are also
27:46very sexy.
27:48Sure.
27:49You are?
27:50Mm-hmm.
27:50Mm-hmm.
27:52You're welcome.
27:52Mm-hmm.
27:58I'm really happy with
28:00Anthony doing the effort,
28:01and the thing is like,
28:03you know, when we are good,
28:04we are good.
28:05It makes me feel good.
28:06He loves me and everything.
28:08It's just made me feel more like,
28:09okay, my heart can be full of joy,
28:11full of love.
28:13I'm home, which is Anthony.
28:15Anthony is my home.
28:16Mm-hmm.
28:19I love you.
28:20I love you.
28:21I love you.
28:22It's just funny when you say
28:23beaucoup, you say
28:23beaucoup, but you say
28:24beautiful ass.
28:26Well, also that.
28:27I love you.
28:28Boo-boo-boo-boo.
28:29Oh, my gosh.
28:33Are you ready to get married?
28:37Who hesitated?
28:39Is this something really she wants,
28:41you know?
28:42I'm afraid that I'm going to get
28:44if it's too hard you might leave.
29:02Hungry.
29:03I'm actually starving.
29:04If I could make a witch,
29:06it would be for this.
29:08Only you and me.
29:14I want my sweet potato fries.
29:18What are you going to eat with that?
29:19Oh, the Caesar salad with shrimp.
29:21Okay.
29:22So what did you think
29:22about the law firm today?
29:25I think we got really useful
29:27information out of it.
29:28Yeah.
29:30Earlier today,
29:31we found out that
29:32it would be a hell of a lot easier
29:35for me to start working
29:37and be legal here
29:39if we just got married.
29:41I don't know how my mom
29:43would react when we tell her
29:44like it could be
29:45potentially eight months
29:46before I can work.
29:47It definitely probably
29:48would be a
29:49I told you so moment.
29:50We definitely did not
29:51see that one coming.
29:53Oh, God.
29:55You know,
29:56what is that going to look like
29:57for us in the meantime
29:58if I can't work?
29:59You know,
30:01I don't want to put it on you.
30:03The eight, nine months
30:04is not a problem
30:05with me taking care of you.
30:07The problem I have
30:07is the lifestyle
30:08that you like to live.
30:09You like to go out
30:11and have drinks,
30:12go to dinners
30:13and stuff like that.
30:14I can't support that aspect.
30:17No, I understand.
30:18Everything else
30:19I can help you with.
30:20But you would have
30:21to be patient.
30:22Oh, I understand that.
30:24I think this whole
30:25entire situation
30:26is about patience
30:27at this point.
30:28Regardless,
30:29we're going to be
30:29waiting around.
30:30Yeah.
30:31But if I marry you,
30:32it's in two weeks.
30:35Well,
30:36are you ready
30:37to get married?
30:39Yeah, I am.
30:42You hesitated.
30:43I'm already at an age
30:44that I'm ready
30:45to get married.
30:45It's not about age.
30:46It's about me.
30:47Like, you can marry
30:47anyone at any age.
30:48No, but I'm looking
30:50for someone to marry.
30:52And I really,
30:53really love you.
30:53So I would expect
30:55you to be the person
30:56that I want to marry.
30:58But I don't know
30:59if you're ready for that.
31:00Because you're very young.
31:02Why?
31:03You're nine years younger
31:04to be told.
31:05I don't know
31:06if you still want
31:07to live life
31:08and party
31:08and all that,
31:09you know.
31:10I wouldn't say
31:11that I'm not ready.
31:13I think we just have
31:15some work
31:16to do,
31:18you know.
31:19You know, of course,
31:23the marriage
31:23is a much easier option.
31:25But, you know,
31:26is this something
31:27really she wants,
31:28you know?
31:28Because partnership papers
31:29is one thing,
31:30you know.
31:30If it goes bad,
31:31hey, you know,
31:32we go separate ways.
31:34But if you marry somebody,
31:35it's much easier
31:36to get married
31:37than to get divorced.
31:39I think you're very concerned
31:40about, like,
31:41you're so young
31:41and you shouldn't
31:42settle down and this.
31:43But I think the way
31:44I grew up
31:45and, like,
31:45how blessed I was
31:46to travel
31:47and do all the things
31:48that I have,
31:48like, I feel so comfortable
31:50with the life
31:51that I have lived
31:51and I've never felt
31:52like how I feel
31:53with you
31:53with anyone else.
31:55So why would I want
31:56to, like,
31:57put this on the back burner
31:58and not go all in?
32:00Like, I'm already
32:01where I want to be.
32:02Like, I'm still gonna
32:03have martini nights,
32:04obviously,
32:04but I would like
32:05to have a martini night
32:06and then come home,
32:07like, to you.
32:10I just want you
32:11to know for sure
32:13what you're putting
32:13yourself into.
32:15I'm gonna tell you
32:16right now,
32:16it's not gonna be easy.
32:18And I'm afraid
32:20that when it gets
32:21too hard,
32:21you might leave.
32:23Because I've been
32:24through that situation
32:24before,
32:25and I'm not trying
32:26to compare you
32:26to anybody.
32:28But, you know,
32:28like, I was in a relationship
32:29for a very, very long time,
32:30and I gave that person
32:31everything,
32:32and that person,
32:33at the end of the day,
32:33left me for something
32:34easier.
32:37So don't think
32:37it's only you
32:38risking everything,
32:38I'm also risking life.
32:44I think it's frustrating
32:45that he keeps telling me
32:46that I'm not ready
32:47to get married
32:48because he doesn't
32:49actually know
32:50how I feel.
32:51In my eyes,
32:53I mean,
32:53I'm pretty in tune
32:53with my brain upstairs,
32:55and I feel that
32:57I'm ready to get married.
32:59I think if I thought
33:00in my head,
33:00this isn't gonna work,
33:01I would have already left.
33:03And I'm telling you
33:04that I'm more than okay
33:05with it.
33:06So don't have this,
33:07you know...
33:08Second doubt.
33:09Of me,
33:10exactly,
33:11of me.
33:11If every day
33:12you show me
33:12that you love me
33:13and you care for me,
33:14then I won't have
33:15that doubt in my mind.
33:18I already gave up
33:19my entire life
33:20and moved to another country,
33:21so there's nothing else
33:23I could really give up
33:24to prove to him
33:25how much I do love him.
33:27I know it's fast,
33:28and we definitely
33:28have our issues,
33:29but to me,
33:30this feels right.
33:31Well, I think
33:33at the end of the day,
33:33it's something to think about
33:35so we can be together
33:36in the end.
33:38We'll figure it out.
33:43Every day,
33:45you have to talk
33:45to your mom.
33:46It's ridiculous.
33:48You're just trying
33:48to destroy everything.
33:49I think you're worried
33:50that I'm going
33:51to abandon you.
33:53You better start
33:54picking your battles
33:54because you're just
33:55going to be nagging me
33:56until we're both dead.
34:05Hi, babe.
34:19Hi.
34:19How are you?
34:21How was the game?
34:21We had a ball,
34:22didn't we?
34:23Yes, we did.
34:24She did.
34:25She kicked my ass.
34:26Oh, not really.
34:27We're both winners
34:28on the day.
34:29She's really good.
34:31Okay, guys.
34:31I've got to be somewhere.
34:33We'll catch up another day.
34:34Okay, yes.
34:35Okay, see ya.
34:36Bye.
34:37It's good to see you.
34:38You too.
34:38And thank you.
34:38Thanks for the heat.
34:39We'll do it again.
34:42After tennis,
34:43I feel a lot better.
34:44I finally got
34:45all the issues
34:46off my chest.
34:48Other side.
34:49Remember,
34:50we're in Australia.
34:51Huh?
34:52Backwards.
34:53Where are you going?
34:53Oh, wait.
34:55Yeah.
34:55I'm sorry.
34:56I'm still trying
34:57to get used to the
34:57side.
35:01She did point out
35:02that Dylan
35:03is part of the reason
35:03why they talk so much.
35:05So, maybe it's not
35:06all on her.
35:08But I'm glad
35:09we talked about it
35:10and hopefully things
35:11can be different
35:11moving forward.
35:14We had a good
35:15tennis match.
35:15She kicked my ass.
35:17It's been a long time
35:18since I played.
35:19She might have had
35:20to get some frustration
35:21out.
35:21Yeah.
35:22At least she didn't
35:23hit me with the ball.
35:24I was expecting
35:25her to hit me
35:27with the ball
35:27a couple of times.
35:29Do you feel like
35:31all the issues
35:32are resolved
35:32with my mother?
35:33I feel like
35:33it's resolved.
35:35I just said,
35:36you know,
35:36maybe she not
35:37calls so much.
35:38Twice a week.
35:39Twice a week?
35:40But not every day,
35:41three times a day.
35:42That's too much.
35:46What do you think
35:46about that?
35:47I feel like you're
35:49bothered by that
35:50a little bit.
35:51It's your great idea.
35:53It's not a great idea
35:54for me.
35:54Okay.
35:54It's like,
35:55we enjoy having
35:55a chat here and there.
35:56Yeah,
35:56but if it bothers
35:57your partner,
35:59then how is that
35:59enjoyable?
36:00It shouldn't bother
36:02you that much.
36:10If it's a problem
36:11for me,
36:12then you should,
36:13you know,
36:13you should respect
36:14how I do.
36:16Why would you stop
36:17the person that you love
36:18from doing something
36:19that makes them happy?
36:20Listen,
36:20I'm not stopped,
36:21no.
36:21Yes, you are.
36:23Babe,
36:23every day
36:24you have to talk
36:25to your mom.
36:26It's ridiculous.
36:27I don't talk to you
36:27every day.
36:27Sometimes it's
36:28three times a day.
36:29Yes,
36:29you talk to her
36:29three times a day
36:30and it's been
36:31an issue with us
36:32for 12 years.
36:34Can't you just
36:35work on,
36:35like,
36:35getting over that?
36:36Can't you work
36:37on, like,
36:38helping me set
36:38boundaries
36:39and respecting
36:40my feelings?
36:44Since I was
36:44a little kid,
36:45mom and I
36:45have always been
36:46close and
36:47Patia has never
36:48really been close
36:49to her mom,
36:50so she doesn't
36:51understand
36:52that closeness.
36:54I think
36:55Patia feels
36:56fearful that
36:58my mom
36:59is going
36:59to influence
37:00me in some
37:01way or
37:02take me away
37:03from Patia
37:03in some way,
37:04but if respecting
37:06the woman that
37:06brought you into
37:07this world
37:07is a problem,
37:08then I don't
37:10really know
37:10what to say.
37:12I mean,
37:13if I'm asking,
37:14if I'm saying,
37:14hey, babe,
37:15you're talking
37:15to your mom
37:15too freaking
37:16much,
37:17you should be
37:17like,
37:18what?
37:18And what if
37:18she dies?
37:20How would
37:20you feel
37:20stopping me
37:21to talk?
37:21She's not
37:22going to die.
37:23She's pushing
37:2470.
37:25Babe,
37:25she plays
37:25tennis every
37:26day.
37:26Are you kidding?
37:27She's freaking
37:28healthy.
37:29I don't think
37:29it's fair
37:30that you're
37:30asking me
37:30to stop
37:31speaking to
37:32my mother.
37:32I think
37:32that's really
37:33sad that
37:36you'd be
37:36concentrating
37:37on that
37:37over all
37:38things in
37:38life.
37:39You're worried
37:39about that.
37:40Why don't
37:40you worry
37:40about your
37:41$20,000
37:41debt that
37:42you have?
37:45You got
37:45me into it.
37:46I've already
37:47told you about it.
37:47Yes,
37:47you did.
37:48It's funny
37:48that you
37:48blame me
37:49for everything
37:49that's gone
37:50wrong in your
37:50whole life.
37:50I get the
37:51blame for it.
37:51Yes,
37:52you caused
37:52me a lot
37:53of money.
37:53No,
37:53I didn't
37:53cause you
37:54anything.
37:54I saved
37:55you money.
37:56I taught
37:57you.
37:57Oh,
37:57you did not
37:58save me
37:58money.
37:59Are you
37:59kidding me?
38:00You've
38:00got lots
38:01of issues.
38:02Big,
38:02big,
38:03big spending
38:03issues.
38:04Excuse me,
38:04Mr. Controlling,
38:05you have a lot
38:06of issues.
38:07You're very
38:08controlling.
38:10You're always
38:10trying to tell
38:11me what to do.
38:11It's always
38:12like my way
38:12near the
38:12highway.
38:13You know
38:14what?
38:14I think that's
38:15the pot
38:15call in the
38:15kettle black
38:16because you're
38:16the most
38:17controlling
38:17one of us
38:17all.
38:19You love
38:19controlling
38:20me.
38:21Absolutely.
38:22You're always
38:22like trying
38:22to tell
38:23me what to
38:23do.
38:23And that's
38:24why you
38:24don't like
38:24me talking
38:24to my
38:25mother
38:25because
38:25you like
38:25to
38:25manipulate
38:26influence
38:26and control
38:27me.
38:27And when
38:27I speak
38:28to her
38:28you feel
38:29like she's
38:30you know
38:31taking
38:31that away
38:32from you.
38:34You're
38:34just trying
38:35to destroy
38:35everything.
38:36I think
38:36you're worried
38:37that I'm
38:37going to
38:38abandon you.
38:39No,
38:42my wishes.
38:44Dylan tells
38:45me I'm
38:45controlling.
38:46I'm like
38:46what?
38:47How am I
38:48controlling?
38:49You're
38:49the controlling
38:49one.
38:51Honestly,
38:52sometimes I
38:52think Dylan
38:53is a
38:53narcissist.
38:54It's always
38:54about him.
38:55You know,
38:56it's my way
38:56or the
38:57highway.
38:58It's so
38:59annoying.
39:00Whether
39:00Dylan wants
39:01to admit it
39:01or not,
39:02his relationship
39:03with his
39:03mother is
39:04affecting our
39:05relationship.
39:06I don't
39:07know how
39:07much longer
39:07I can
39:07take this.
39:09It's not
39:10that hard.
39:11You keep
39:11fighting me
39:12on it,
39:12which makes
39:12it worse.
39:13Obviously,
39:15my relationship
39:15with my mom
39:16is not going
39:16to change.
39:18You better
39:18start picking
39:19your battles
39:19because you're
39:20just picking
39:21this battle
39:21and you're
39:22just going
39:22to be nagging
39:23me until
39:23we're both
39:23dead and
39:24we're going
39:25to have
39:25a miserable
39:25life.
39:28Things are
39:28clearly not
39:29going well
39:29and there's
39:32something that
39:32I need to
39:33talk to Dylan
39:33about and I
39:34think it
39:34might make
39:35it worse.
39:39Next time
39:40on 90-day
39:41fiance
39:41the other
39:42way.
39:42Let me
39:43get you
39:43some change.
39:45How much
39:45money you
39:45have given
39:46back?
39:46All?
39:47You've given
39:48them all
39:49the change
39:49I've given
39:50to you.
39:51You haven't
39:51charged anybody?
39:52She's saying,
39:53I don't know
39:53how any money
39:54works.
39:54It's a basic
39:55man.
39:55If you buy
39:57something for
39:5760, if somebody
39:58pay you 100,
39:59it's easy.
40:00Give them 40
40:00back.
40:01I don't
40:02understand the
40:02change.
40:05So I guess
40:06we didn't make
40:07any money
40:07on that
40:07sale, did
40:08we?
40:11I do feel
40:12alone and it's
40:13like starting to
40:14hit me that I
40:14am alone.
40:15The last thing
40:16I want is for
40:17you and Greta
40:17to split up.
40:18Some things
40:18are worth
40:19fighting for.
40:20I am upset
40:21with Greta,
40:22but I really
40:23want them to
40:24work out.
40:25I think you
40:26should have
40:27a talk with
40:27her.
40:30When I met
40:31with Dorian,
40:32we already
40:33started working
40:34together on
40:35the skincare
40:35brand.
40:37And we
40:38need to
40:39invest money.
40:40We're trying
40:41to buy a
40:42home and I
40:43feel like this
40:43is going to
40:44set a lot
40:44of things
40:45back.
40:46You working
40:47and living
40:48at your
40:48parents,
40:49how much
40:50time before
40:51you crack?
40:56What's wrong?
40:57I feel so
40:59dizzy.
41:00You okay?
41:00No.
41:02This is not
41:03the way I
41:03want to start
41:04my weekend
41:05wedding.
41:07I say no,
41:14no, no,
41:15I don't
41:15pregnant,
41:16I don't
41:16pregnant.
41:17Are you
41:18telling me
41:18that you're
41:18pregnant right
41:19now?
41:19I told you
41:20so many times
41:20we even be
41:21careful when we
41:22have sex.
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