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00:00Just thoughts and OCD.
00:02So you guys found what venue you love.
00:05Yes.
00:06What are you looking forward to the most?
00:09Flowers would be number one.
00:10OK.
00:11Food would be number two.
00:12OK.
00:13I want alpacas.
00:14Alpacas.
00:15Have you guys ever done a queso fountain?
00:17A queso fountain?
00:19We need to manage expectations.
00:22This is what reality is.
00:25I think you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
00:30We can work some magic.
00:46I think that you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
00:50OK.
00:53We just shared exactly what we want our dream writing to look
00:56like, and I'm so nervous that she's going to pull the rug right
01:01out from underneath us.
01:02Rug that bitch out of here, mother .
01:06I think that it's going to be challenging to get to the point
01:10where we can have everything we want for over 100 guests.
01:15And I think that spending a huge portion of our budget on the venue and shuttles
01:22versus putting that towards the food worries me a little bit because I just want to make
01:29sure that we get all of the things we need before we get to the things that we want.
01:35Obviously, the things that we need are photo, hair and makeup, our officiant, music, and all the food.
01:45And the things we want are the alpacas and the flowers.
01:50And we all know it's not cheap and it's easy to get wrapped up in all the things,
01:56snowballing into, you know, all the shiny object, squirrel, you know.
02:02So I think that's going to be our goal is to keep it.
02:05Be in our budget.
02:05Be in budget and not have any regrets afterwards, you know.
02:08You want to feel really good about the whole thing, OK?
02:11We fell in love as soon as we saw the venue.
02:14We just didn't think about all the other expenses with it being a remote location.
02:21Thank you guys so much.
02:22Yes, of course.
02:23See you.
02:24See you.
02:25Bye.
02:26Eat a bag of dicks.
02:27Oh, OK.
02:32Well, that was informative.
02:34Yeah.
02:35Like, literally information overload.
02:38Eat a bag of dicks.
02:39But I'm not going to spend all this money to not get what I want.
02:43I'm not giving up that venue.
02:45We've already put a down payment on it.
02:47Yeah.
02:48And it's a lot of money.
02:49I'm not losing the shuttles.
02:52Five years ago, I was at, like, my worst.
02:54And I never thought that I would be marrying my best friend.
02:58So I want the day to be absolutely perfect.
03:01At the end of the day, I just hope she can give us what we want.
03:06Maybe just volley.
03:07See how many you can get across the net without trying to, like, kill each other.
03:23Oh!
03:24Go ahead, bro.
03:25You got this.
03:26That's your point.
03:27Dad, what's up with the tank top?
03:28Five percent body fat.
03:29You know it's like, my gosh, that would be fantastic until you get sick.
03:30Ninety-eight percent muscle.
03:31Thank you!
03:32Yeah!
03:33That's it right there!
03:34The bowling pins.
03:35Eleven to two.
03:36You got a lot of bounce.
03:37What?
03:38When it comes to pickleball, probably not the best.
03:39But when it comes to grabbing my kids, I'll be all right.
03:41I got it.
03:42I got it.
03:43I got it.
03:44It's just domination.
03:45Oh, the parts are run over the ball.
03:47Hi.
03:48Hey, Mae.
03:49Welcome to the pickleball game.
03:50I miss you.
03:51How's your ride?
03:52It was good.
03:53No ride shares are $150.
03:54It's okay.
03:55Could be worse.
03:56I try to see my parents as much as I can, but I can't, but I can't.
03:57I can't.
03:58I can't.
03:59You can't.
04:00I can't.
04:01I can't.
04:02I can't.
04:03I can't.
04:04I can't.
04:05I can't.
04:06I can't.
04:07I can't.
04:08I can't.
04:09I can't.
04:10I can't.
04:11I can't.
04:12I can't.
04:13I try to see my parents as much as I can, but it makes it hard because me and Collin
04:17live about two hours away and I can't drive.
04:21Just dominate this kid.
04:24Ride shares are crazy expensive and me and Collin are trying to save as much money as we
04:28can for this wedding.
04:29Trying.
04:30We're trying.
04:31We're doing the best we can.
04:34We met with our wedding planner that we got.
04:38We met with for the first time.
04:39Okay.
04:40Yeah.
04:41And with our budget, she doesn't know if she's going to be able to give us what we
04:46want.
04:47She already thinks you have to dial it back.
04:49Yeah.
04:50We know Baylin dreams big and with big comes a price tag.
04:55That wedding venue is their decision.
04:57That's what they pick.
04:58Absolutely.
04:59You know?
05:00Yeah.
05:01So budget smudge it.
05:02They better figure it out now.
05:04That's great.
05:05Are you kidding me?
05:06It's hot flies.
05:07Oh, damn.
05:08So are you excited to finally go dress shopping?
05:11I'm so excited.
05:12So excited.
05:13I wasn't at first, but now I'm like super pumped to just realize like, Baylin, you're
05:17not going to look like this in three months from now.
05:19Yeah.
05:20I believe that Baylin is definitely procrastinating.
05:24I think it's because she's a little self-conscious maybe with where her body is right now.
05:28But these alterations and customizations can take like eight to nine months.
05:32So I made a few calls and I found an amazing wedding dress shop in the DC area so we can
05:39get this going.
05:40I can't wait to have you, Mima, Leela, Colleen, and Marlene there.
05:45I don't know really about Sammy.
05:47You know, it's not looking good.
05:49How is she doing?
05:50She's still teetering.
05:51Like her thoughts are, you know, they're impediments.
05:55I'm just glad that she was open to finally going to a therapist and the way that she explained
06:01it to me, which makes me sad to think about it.
06:03But she's like, she was exhausted.
06:12The way that Sammy describes her racing thoughts to me reminds me of like, like a tree maybe
06:19where it's like, like you've got like this big trunk and like, that's the thought.
06:23And then it takes a turn this way and just everything just keeps branching off.
06:27Well, like what if this happened today?
06:29Then, then this could happen.
06:30And, um, it's just exhausting.
06:34We can like FaceTime or...
06:36Like she needs to be on FaceTime the entire time because if one dress, one dress she misses,
06:42she could be like, oh my God, that's ugly.
06:43That one's good.
06:44That one's bad.
06:45That one's ugly.
06:46That one's really ugly.
06:47You didn't show me the ugly one.
06:48Oh my gosh.
06:49I know.
06:50Imagining Sammy not being there when I try on wedding dresses just makes it feel more
06:55empty.
06:56Makes me sad.
06:57It makes me hurt more for her than for you.
06:59Yeah.
07:00Because for her to know herself well enough that she can't overcome this hurdle to get
07:06to one of your biggest things.
07:08Yeah, it's sad.
07:09It's like really painful to think about.
07:11There you go, Dad.
07:12There you go, Dad.
07:13I don't want you to tear a vertebrae.
07:14Backner, do you need a new partner?
07:15Yeah.
07:16I'm gonna play.
07:17It probably won't get any better.
07:18I'm just gonna...
07:19I'm gonna pick these tomatoes off.
07:20Yeah.
07:21All right.
07:22It's a lot to a little.
07:23So, Balen just filled me in on a whole whirlwind of information.
07:36Her and Colin had their first appointment with their wedding coordinator.
07:40Oh, Jesus.
07:41Yeah.
07:42And I guess the biggest, like, what you would call reality check was possibly their budget
07:48not fitting into what their desires are for their dream wedding.
07:52Which is, I mean...
07:53That's why they call them dream weddings.
07:54That's like...
07:55Because you gotta be dreaming, I guess.
07:56I don't know.
07:57But I want her to have her dream wedding and she's not gonna make concessions.
08:03We're gonna go wedding dress shopping this week.
08:07But Sammy won't physically be there.
08:09But I feel like I could suggest to her, what if your dad flew out and got you?
08:18The idea of Al picking her up is really more Sammy is accountable to somebody else.
08:24It empowers her.
08:25Yeah.
08:26To say and schedule and be in control, where if she doesn't have that control, she lets
08:32her thoughts control what's going on.
08:34Yeah.
08:35It would mean so much to Balin.
08:36And if she feels open to the idea, then like we're running with it.
08:42I don't want to say anything to Balin because I don't want to get her hopes up.
08:46We gotta pull it off.
08:48You remember the link I sent you on the device?
08:55Yeah.
08:56New pulse.
08:57Yes.
08:58That you wear on your wrist or whatever it is.
08:59Yeah.
09:00It's something that could possibly control that impulse.
09:01Kind of to tick.
09:02It could be life changing for Tourette in general.
09:04Oh, wow.
09:05Oh, my God.
09:06Oh, my God.
09:07I hear the drag gang.
09:09Oh, my God.
09:10Oh.
09:11Oh, my God.
09:12Oh.
09:13Oh, my God.
09:14Oh, my God.
09:15Oh, my God.
09:34Today, I'm meeting up with my friend Anita for the first time in person.
09:48She reached out to me on social media because she has a daughter a few years older than
09:52Baylen that has autism and Tourette syndrome.
09:55Are you okay?
09:56No.
09:57No, you're not.
09:58No.
09:59Well, you're going to have to be.
10:00Oh, my gosh.
10:01You're so beautiful.
10:02Get down.
10:03I'm sorry.
10:04But I think what Anita really wanted was some connection from another parent that is dealing
10:10with some of the same issues that she's dealing with.
10:13Out of all kind of like the requests and DMs I get because people know that Baylen being
10:18on social media and they just know that she's my daughter, you're honestly the only one that
10:24I reach back out to.
10:27It's a blessing for me.
10:29So I reached out to Julie through social media because Baylen experiences some of the
10:35same tics, the severe tics that my daughter Sophia has.
10:39So I felt like Julie might be able to help me answer some questions that my daughter could
10:44not because she can't give you details.
10:46She's not nonverbal, but she can communicate to me everything.
10:50She's definitely more complex than Baylen because I know that she has autism and stuff like
10:54that, too.
10:55But you feel like the Tourette is really prominent at this point.
10:59I feel like the Tourette's is kind of ruling her life right now.
11:02OK.
11:03Sophia was officially diagnosed with Tourette's at 16 years old.
11:08Her tics were not as severe in the beginning, but she's 25 years old now.
11:14And she's in a helmet 24 hours a day to protect her eyesight and to protect her head.
11:20When you, um, I'm sorry.
11:22Oh my gosh.
11:23I'm sorry.
11:24To see her beat in her face every day and punch herself in the jaw.
11:39As Baylen says, Tourette looks different on everybody.
11:42So the emotional and physical toll on Anita, specifically because the Tourette is so self-harming,
11:51my heart just actually hurts.
11:54I don't know how you do it.
11:56But it's what I would do a million times over and over again until we find whatever it is
12:03that's going to make her have a better quality of life.
12:06There's no other option, right?
12:08There's, there's just no other option.
12:10I wouldn't have ever thought five or six years ago that we'd be preparing to like walk
12:15Baylen down the aisle.
12:16I know.
12:17Never.
12:18It's definitely a different case than Baylen, but I know that feeling of helplessness.
12:23And I want nothing more than for Anita to stay hopeful that there will be just that one
12:29person that has some idea of something that could help Sophia.
12:33I'm always, always have my nose in a book.
12:36You know, something.
12:37Just trying to look for anything that I think that might be helpful.
12:39Like the next thing.
12:40Yes, the next thing.
12:41Yes.
12:42Do you remember the link I sent you on the device?
12:45Yes.
12:46The new pulse.
12:47Yes.
12:48That you wear on your wrist or whatever it is.
12:49Yes.
12:50Baylen's actually heard of it.
12:51I read an article about this device being in development in the UK.
12:57And so I reached out to the company to ask for more information about this device.
13:01From what I understand, stimulates the median nerve, goes up to the brain.
13:06Kind of like deep brain stimulation, but not deep brain stimulation.
13:09Yes.
13:10Not invasive.
13:11I think this device could be revolutionary because it's not conventional.
13:16When you have DBS, you have actual wires that are connected.
13:19And if you're a self-injurious ticker Tourette patient, there is that chance that you are
13:24going to pull and prod.
13:25So this device that sits no differently on your hand like a watch seems so promising to me for that reason.
13:32What could be life-changing for Tourette in general?
13:35Honestly.
13:36I think you should explore it.
13:38Hmm.
13:40Even though new pulse is not even available in the US, I feel like now would be a great time to get a hold of this team.
13:47Because even though Baylen's doing a great job forging her path into the world, this device could potentially make
13:54her everyday experiences easier, possibly.
14:09Colin.
14:10Yeah.
14:12What type of dress do you think I'm going to be in?
14:14White.
14:16Sure.
14:17If that helps you sleep at night.
14:19I mean, part of it is coming from my traditional values.
14:23Well, let me tell you, with your traditional values, it is not a skimpy dress like you want me to be in, so.
14:30I just said flaunt what you got.
14:32Colin, describe if you could put Baylen in any wedding dress.
14:36What would it look like?
14:37What's it?
14:38Nipple covers.
14:39No.
14:40Just kidding.
14:44And a veil.
14:45Nipple covers and a veil.
14:47I'm not where I want to be to try on dresses, but there's alterations.
14:52Today is wedding dress shopping day, and if my mom didn't set an appointment at the wedding dress boutique.
14:59That wouldn't have happened.
15:00And my mom and my sister are on their way up from Roanoke.
15:04They're going to go with Baylen wedding dress shopping.
15:07So this time around, I'll try on white dresses.
15:10You're welcome.
15:12Love you.
15:14Do you have everything you need to out here?
15:15Have you done the child proof in the past?
15:17I did everything yesterday.
15:21My sister is bringing her littlest up.
15:24She's about one and a half.
15:26And I volunteered to watch her one and a half year old daughter.
15:31But I am excited though.
15:33You got that baby fever going on.
15:35No.
15:36Yeah.
15:37No.
15:38Don't lie.
15:39God's watching.
15:40I don't have baby fever.
15:41I just want kids.
15:42Yeah, now.
15:43Not now.
15:45In a year.
15:48It's just being a dad at like a younger age, you can do more with your kid.
15:53And I would like to have kids sooner than later.
15:56What do you think baby fever means?
15:59Colin's really moving up the timeline here.
16:02The last conversation we even had about kids, you basically almost fainted in the bowling alley.
16:07We've been dating for a little over a year now.
16:09As far as future goes, what do you see?
16:14I'd like to have kids before I'm 25.
16:17You'd like to have kids in the next four years?
16:19Yeah.
16:20Well, yeah, because it was different at that point.
16:29We weren't engaged.
16:30We didn't live together.
16:32All I'm saying is we get adjusted to the new lifestyle and we get into a rhythm.
16:37Then we can get into the lab and maybe start cooking something up.
16:40What?
16:41Yeah.
16:44I didn't want to say, yeah, let's go to Pound Pound.
16:48Well, you just did.
16:49I was trying to say, like...
16:50You just did.
16:53I'm about to go wedding dress shopping.
16:55I need to be in the wedding dress shopping zone.
16:59This is a conversation for another time.
17:01No.
17:04That's them.
17:07Back up, back up, back up.
17:08Hello.
17:09Hey.
17:10Hey.
17:11Watch out, Flop.
17:12Good, baby.
17:13How are you?
17:14Good.
17:15How are you guys?
17:16Good.
17:17Good.
17:18Good.
17:19So how was it getting up here?
17:20It was pretty good.
17:21Did she sleep at all?
17:22No.
17:23Rough.
17:24Not at all.
17:25I feel a little nervous about Colin watching Lily because she's definitely got that fiery,
17:32feisty, toddler attitude.
17:34So I don't know how she's going to react, but I know she's going to give Colin a run for his money.
17:41For sure.
17:43She eats regular food.
17:45Just still make sure you cut it up into the bite-sized pieces.
17:48Dick.
17:49As far as her diaper, where am I doing that at?
17:54Like, you got something I can put her on?
17:56Right here are, like, doggy pee pads, essentially.
17:59Lay her on that.
18:00Do you have gloves in there?
18:02No, I do not have gloves.
18:04You do it bare hands?
18:05Why would I have gloves?
18:06I use wipes.
18:07I don't get anything on my hands.
18:09She's not, like, scraping it with her hands.
18:11Yeah.
18:12You just wipe it off.
18:15This is a big responsibility, and when I offered to babysit Lily, I didn't realize how much pressure is on me for everything to just go correctly.
18:23All right, bye.
18:24No, I know, I know.
18:25See ya.
18:26I know.
18:27Love you.
18:28Yep, yep.
18:29Yep, love you too.
18:30Oh, God.
18:31Love you.
18:32Oh, God.
18:33I have no idea what I'm doing.
18:37It's going south already.
18:39Lily, it's okay.
18:40Breathe, girl.
18:41Breathe.
18:42Oh, Lord, it's going to be a rough day, isn't it?
18:45Yes, it is.
18:47Come on.
18:48Oh, yeah.
18:50I'm so excited.
18:51Today, I'm pretty pumped.
18:53I like the extra color underneath it, like the nude.
18:55It's so extra.
18:56Oh, wow.
18:57Yeah.
18:58I can barely hold it together thinking about bailing, possibly finding the dress of her dreams.
19:02My oldest daughter.
19:04Yeah.
19:05Woo-hoo.
19:06Woo-hoo.
19:07Woo-hoo.
19:08Woo-hoo.
19:09You have my heart.
19:10Don't let it go.
19:12Open, one-up and the rocks.
19:15So I hope it's...
19:17We're here, you guys.
19:21All right.
19:22You ready?
19:23Let's go.
19:25Hi.
19:26Hi.
19:27Not money, Mom.
19:28Hi.
19:29I'm so excited, but I'm so nervous.
19:32I know.
19:33It's okay.
19:34Don't be nervous.
19:35Hi.
19:36Today, I'm pretty pumped about wedding dress shopping, but I'd be lying if I didn't say
19:41that I had some nervous energy, because I just know how Baelin is feeling about her body
19:47right now.
19:48I can't do this by myself.
19:49And I don't want the most beautiful day to turn into a negative event for Baelin.
19:56Oh, hi.
19:57Hi.
19:58Oh, my gosh.
19:59We're waiting for you.
20:00I'm coming.
20:01Hi.
20:02I love you, please.
20:04Oh, my gosh.
20:05Are you so excited?
20:06Yes, and girl.
20:07Yes, and girl.
20:08Hi.
20:09Good to see you.
20:10I'm so excited to be a part of this special moment with her.
20:11It's not every day that a girl gets to literally play dress up for her wedding.
20:13Let's get it.
20:14Okay, lead us.
20:15There we go.
20:16All right.
20:17No worries.
20:18And despite Baelin's weight game, Baelin is beautiful, and she just could use a little reminder
20:23of that.
20:24My name's on this card.
20:25Stop.
20:26Yes, it is.
20:27My name's on the card.
20:28Oh, wow.
20:29Hi.
20:30Hi, ladies.
20:31Welcome to the scene.
20:32Hi.
20:33Hello.
20:34I'm so excited to have you today.
20:35You're going to follow me.
20:36We're going to head into the showroom, and then we'll get started shortly.
20:39Great.
20:40Perfect.
20:41Oh, look.
20:42I am a little bit nervous to try on dresses because I just want to feel like a princess.
20:48But putting on 18 pounds for my medication makes it really hard.
20:52So I'm definitely going to latch on to all my lovely people that I brought with me today
20:56because I really need their support.
20:58Oh, I like that dress, too.
20:59All right.
21:00Thanks.
21:01My name is Taya.
21:02Hi, Taya.
21:03Nice to meet you.
21:04Welcome, everyone.
21:06Dildo.
21:08Um, so what we like to do is kind of get to know the bride, get to know what your sort
21:12of vision is.
21:13Oh, boy.
21:15My dream dress?
21:17I don't really know what I want.
21:19That's even better.
21:20That means you are open to, like, trying on different silhouettes, different necklines,
21:25and hopefully lead us to, like, the one.
21:27I don't mean to interrupt.
21:28I don't mean to be rude.
21:29At what point should we FaceTime Sammy?
21:31When we're in that first dress mode, I think that would be perfect.
21:34So we are going to have you take a look at our showrooms.
21:37Point out three gowns that you think you like to get to a really good place.
21:42I definitely want to try it at that one.
21:44It's very pretty.
21:45And remember, you don't have to go with white.
21:48Oh, I know.
21:49Grandma.
21:50I don't know.
21:51Colin knows, too.
21:52Oh, my.
21:53He's like, let's do a more tradition.
21:56Oh, my God.
21:57Come here.
21:58Oh, my God.
21:59Hi, buddy.
22:04Hi, buddy.
22:05Oh, my goodness.
22:07Oh.
22:08Yay.
22:13I don't mean to, like, pat myself on the back, but this is, I mean, it's, I don't have words.
22:20This is the best surprise ever.
22:24So how'd you get here?
22:25Um, dad brought me here.
22:27Wait, dad flew there and came back?
22:29And came back with me.
22:30Oh.
22:31What a good owl.
22:32I know.
22:33Good owl.
22:34What a good owl.
22:35I know she's going to ask for two better daughters and that one of them is willing to put all of her struggles aside because she knows her older sister would love her here and that she wouldn't miss it for the world.
22:46She's all I needed.
22:47Yeah.
22:48Yeah.
22:49I'm over the moon.
22:50I'm over the world.
22:52Sammy's not only my sister.
22:53She is my best friend.
22:56Sammy's my best friend.
22:58I'm ready now.
22:59Oh, my God.
23:01It's important for me to be here because I think she trusts my opinion a lot, which makes me want to be here.
23:07We can get started.
23:08So, remember, just take a walk, let me know what you want to try on, and we'll take you there.
23:13Sweet.
23:14Okay.
23:16Yay!
23:19All the jewels come together and they form a different color.
23:22I don't mean to have, like, honestly, to even, like, bring your Tourette into this at all, but I worry about stuff like that.
23:28And if you're pulling on any of this, if you...
23:30Oh, wait, is see-through at the bottom?
23:31No, Grandma, it's see-through.
23:33Grandma, move on.
23:36Oh, wait, this one's gorgeous, too.
23:38I really like this one.
23:39You're gonna think I'm crazy, bae.
23:41What?
23:42I really want you to try this one on.
23:43I love this.
23:46Hey, Mom.
23:47Yep.
23:48How about this one?
23:49I like the extra color underneath it, like the nude.
23:51So extra.
23:52Oh, wow.
23:53Yeah.
23:54I feel very honored that she wanted to include us, because not all my-in-laws to be get a chance to do this.
24:01It doesn't have to be the first dress I try on.
24:03And knowing Colin, I think he would probably prefer a form-fitting dress.
24:08Yeah, I definitely agree.
24:09But none of my opinions or feedback is based on Colin.
24:14It's not about Colin, it's about Bailyn.
24:16But I do appreciate that she's considering a total white dress, because that's what Colin wants.
24:22This one's getting tried on.
24:24This one.
24:25This one?
24:26Yeah.
24:27Oh, look at that.
24:29Oh, my gosh.
24:31I'm aching for Bailyn to find the one or something close to the one.
24:36All right, so everyone get comfortable.
24:38Have a seat.
24:39We're gonna do a little fashion show.
24:41We're gonna start putting gowns on.
24:42She's gonna come out, and you'll get to see her in a wedding gown.
24:44Yay!
24:45All right, are you ready?
24:46Yeah.
24:47Let's do it.
24:48Sweet.
24:49I can barely hold it together thinking about Bailyn possibly finding the dress of her dreams.
24:56Like, I don't know.
24:58It's just surreal.
24:59My oldest daughter.
25:11She's still back there.
25:12We know she's still back there.
25:13She hasn't left.
25:14She hasn't left.
25:15Oh, my God.
25:16I'm obsessed.
25:20Oh, I hear the dress.
25:21Oh, it's moving.
25:22Oh, she's moving.
25:23I hear the dragging.
25:24Oh.
25:25Oh.
25:26Oh.
25:27Oh, my gosh.
25:28Oh, my gosh.
25:29Oh, my gosh.
25:30Oh.
25:31I hear the dress coming.
25:40Tip, tip, tip, tip, tip.
25:41Oh.
25:42Oh, my gosh.
25:43Wow.
25:44That's epic.
25:45Oh my gosh.
25:52Wow, that's epic.
26:04I feel like a little cupcake.
26:06I feel like a cupcake.
26:07Love it.
26:08Love it.
26:09I love the veil.
26:10Oh, the veil.
26:11I love the veil.
26:12I don't even want you to try it at night.
26:14It's gorgeous.
26:16It looks so good on you.
26:18Yeah.
26:19Aww.
26:20That is very pretty.
26:22Aylin getting married.
26:24That's like the true rite of passage almost into not being under our wing anymore.
26:33I love the pockets.
26:34I love the corset.
26:35Okay, I was going to say.
26:36I mean, you look this big.
26:38I love it.
26:39You look insane.
26:40It does look really good.
26:41Seriously.
26:42You guys are sweet.
26:43No.
26:44You look insane.
26:47I feel like Rapunzel.
26:48I can't believe how much I loved the first dress.
26:51I was like, holy , I'm actually getting married.
26:53I love it.
26:55I love it.
26:56It's just a little too plain.
26:58Do you want to try Sammy's pick next, which is going to be a very different look?
27:02Very different.
27:03Yeah?
27:04Yes.
27:05Yes.
27:06All right, let's go.
27:07Good.
27:08Good.
27:09Good.
27:10The dress is not enough for Baylin.
27:11I think the tiara gives the dress, you know, that little bit of sparkle.
27:15But Baylin is just full of sparkle.
27:18And I want to see what else is hiding back there.
27:22How was the baby?
27:23I don't know.
27:24I haven't heard from a while.
27:25So.
27:26Call him.
27:27All right.
27:28Maybe I should give him a call.
27:29We're going to need a phone call.
27:30Yeah.
27:31Hey.
27:32Hey.
27:33How's it going?
27:34Um.
27:35It's all right.
27:36I mean, she's down for a nap right now.
27:39She cried a lot.
27:40Tried to give her food.
27:41That wasn't going well.
27:43I even set the plate on the ground.
27:46And thought that she would come over and just grab it whenever.
27:50She'll grab it whenever.
27:52She's won.
27:53She's won.
27:55She's moving too much.
27:57I don't want her to get up.
27:58He's like, please.
27:59I don't want her to get up.
28:00Cut the phone.
28:01Oh, no.
28:02Well.
28:03Oh, no.
28:04No.
28:05Well, good luck.
28:06Just try snacks when she wakes up.
28:08Y'all have a good time.
28:09Okay.
28:10Bye, Colin.
28:11You too.
28:12Bye.
28:13Bye.
28:14Oh, no.
28:15Like, that was from his heart.
28:17Yes, that was.
28:18It's real.
28:19It's not easy.
28:20No.
28:21It's not.
28:22I hear the dress.
28:24Oh, brother.
28:25Okay.
28:26Yeah.
28:27Oh, nice.
28:28This is like a little dance theme.
28:30This one we can get down in.
28:31Yeah.
28:32I love.
28:33The scarf.
28:38Oh.
28:39I love the dress Sammy picked.
28:41I love the texture and, like, how flowy it was.
28:44It's beautiful.
28:45Oh, my.
28:46It's absolutely beautiful.
28:47I love the different, like, layers.
28:52So pretty.
28:53Stunning.
28:54I'm trying to be in love with it.
28:55I feel like the sparkle's missing a little bit.
28:56Yeah.
28:57It's like, hey.
28:58It's like, it's so, like, I'm going out to dinner and I look amazing.
28:59Not like.
29:00Yes.
29:01I'm walking down the aisle.
29:02Yeah.
29:03I love it, but.
29:04I love it as, like, a dancing dress.
29:05That's exactly what you're talking about for the reception.
29:06Yeah.
29:07And not down the aisle dress.
29:08Reception.
29:09I like it.
29:10Yeah.
29:11I personally really do like this dress.
29:12Let's try another one.
29:13Yeah.
29:14Sweet.
29:15Let's do it.
29:16Yeah.
29:17You can tell that she feels confident and that she is really, like, enjoying how she
29:31feels in the dress and I think that is beautiful.
29:34Gorgeous in every single dress.
29:36Yeah.
29:37I'm happy that this appointment is going way better than what they expected though.
29:39Oh, my gosh.
29:40Yes.
29:41Oh, my God.
29:42This is gorgeous.
29:44Like, I'm getting married.
29:46You're the dry king.
29:47She's a-moving.
29:48She's climbing.
29:51Oh, my God.
29:53Oh, my God.
29:54Oh, my God.
29:55Oh, my God.
29:56Oh, my God.
29:59Oh, my God.
30:01Oh, my God.
30:02Oh, my God.
30:03Oh, my God.
30:04Literally.
30:05Oh.
30:06I've already lost it.
30:08Yeah.
30:09I have a feeling like this.
30:11Yeah.
30:19Oh, my God.
30:20Oh, my God.
30:27Wow.
30:28Like, it's literally like that dress is, like, made for you.
30:36Wow.
30:37I'm loving this.
30:41What do you guys think Colin would say?
30:46It's- you look unreal.
30:47Speechless.
30:48Speechless.
30:49Yeah.
30:50It's all gonna be.
30:51There's nothing that he would say.
30:52This is me.
30:53It's beautiful.
30:54This is me.
30:55It's beautiful.
30:56This is me.
30:57You can just tell that it makes you feel confident.
30:58Uh-huh.
30:59You know, like, you can just tell that, like, makes you feel good.
31:01I know.
31:02I love it.
31:03I see a princess.
31:05It's exactly what I wanted to be on my wedding day.
31:11Oh, babe.
31:13I really just don't have words.
31:14It's beautiful.
31:15It was a big moment to see really just how joyful she felt when she put on something that made her feel like the Queen of England.
31:25this kid.
31:26them kids.
31:28Oh, my gosh.
31:29Honestly, in reality, it's not a bad tick day.
31:32My ticks haven't been triggered by the dresses.
31:35It was just the veil.
31:36Sorry.
31:37Would you like it on or should I take it off for you?
31:39Will you care if we take it off?
31:40Yeah.
31:41That way you can see it all filled out.
31:42Because it was touching my head instead of touching my hair, if that makes any sense.
31:46Like, it was really in there.
31:48And I think that you knew, too, before you even, like, fully saw yourself in it.
31:55But I would like to come back before I purchase it.
31:59Yeah.
32:00Yeah.
32:01I want to see if I keep thinking about it.
32:03Because if I keep thinking about it, then I'm just not going to try it anymore.
32:06I'm just going to come back and buy that one.
32:08All right.
32:09You've got the floor.
32:10Careful.
32:11Okay.
32:12I'll take you back and you can get dressed.
32:14I love that she found something that was like, bomb.
32:17Like, Valen bombshell.
32:18Oh, my gosh.
32:19Oh, my gosh.
32:20Was that cringy?
32:21Yeah.
32:22Okay.
32:23Yeah.
32:24What a good day.
32:25Today was phenomenal.
32:27I'm not going to lie.
32:28I came in here very anxious because I've gained 18 pounds and I'm not confident.
32:33But thank you guys for coming.
32:35Because I wouldn't be able to pick out my dress without you guys.
32:38It meant everything to have my closest people there.
32:41Bye.
32:43Oh, thank you for inviting us.
32:44And they can tell me, oh, they wouldn't miss it for the world.
32:46I know that, but they deserve to know how thankful I am that they were there for me.
32:52Bye.
32:53I love you.
32:54It means everything.
32:55Hey, guys.
32:56Thanks for coming.
32:57Thanks for coming.
32:58You looked beautiful.
32:59I love you.
33:00Love you, too.
33:01Well, let me sit on my throne.
33:03On my throne?
33:04No, I'm just kidding.
33:05What do you think?
33:06I just picked the perfect people to be here.
33:08Honestly.
33:09Good liars.
33:10You're going to leave a little bit of room open to maybe try some more on?
33:15Or the favorite is the favorite?
33:16My favorite is the favorite.
33:18I'm still willing to come back and try more dresses on.
33:22What would be a reasonable time that you would be able to be back here?
33:26Do you have anything tomorrow?
33:29Yeah, you and Colin are going to Boston for your-
33:32Yeah, we have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, so-
33:34Dr. Flaherty.
33:35Don't-
33:36Because it would have to be in a month.
33:38It would have to be like-
33:39Oh, I could do a month.
33:40I just need a little bit of time to-
33:42We know.
33:43To come back.
33:44We know.
33:45I don't know.
33:46Sounds crazy.
33:47Yeah, that's so-
33:50It doesn't sound crazy.
33:52It's called anxiety.
33:53And you started therapy, which is a huge step too.
34:00You're doing the right thing.
34:04I was resistant to a therapist before because I was thinking that I could just fix it myself.
34:09But ultimately, my OCD and anxiety.
34:12I got to a point so bad of like why I wanted to go to therapy was because like I couldn't walk out of a room.
34:18Because I couldn't put like one left foot down and then one right foot down.
34:23So it feels good to talk to somebody else about it and not be shamed or not be embarrassed.
34:33What I didn't know about therapy and after my first session of it was the validation that I would feel.
34:41Baylen's, I feel like she's definitely spot on when she says like she's a prisoner in her own mind.
34:45It's like, yeah.
34:47I was just finally ready to focus on me and what I needed.
34:51I feel like I'm starting to learn.
34:54I can only control certain things.
34:57You can control dick.
34:59I can't control if a plane falls out of the sky.
35:02I love that Sammy's focusing on herself and her health.
35:07My girls have morphed into the most amazing adults.
35:12And it's really...
35:13Well, we had you as a mommy.
35:14It's like really like being with your very, very best friends.
35:18If it's helpful for somebody to fly with you, we'll always make that happen.
35:23You forgot your dildo in the airport.
35:27Okay, wait, hold on.
35:28Yeah, mom needs a minute.
35:29She's never heard dildo out of your mouth.
35:30She needs a minute.
35:31Hold on.
35:32Mom needs a minute.
35:33Dildo!
35:35Hi!
35:37I'm on the struggle bus with the dildo tech.
35:40We're not even just saying it.
35:42We're screaming dildos.
35:44Oh, no.
35:46I think she was holding it in from also Colleen and Marlene.
35:49She was holding what in?
35:50Oh, boy.
35:51Oh, shit.
35:57You're tired?
35:58You're tired.
35:59We're exhausted.
36:00Oh, my bum hurts.
36:01Sitting on this.
36:02Oh, poor.
36:03Whoa.
36:04I just drank a lot of shea bean.
36:05Today was awesome.
36:06But I'm exhausted.
36:07And I'm ready to go home.
36:08I wonder how babysitting went, to be honest.
36:10Hopefully it was birth control.
36:12Because he needs to stop that baby fever .
36:14Oh.
36:15Hey, mom.
36:16Hey, babe.
36:17What's up?
36:18Currently traveling to Boston.
36:19Having Collin in the car, now is the perfect time to reintroduce New Pulse to her.
36:24Because he will make sure that she talks to Dr. Flaherty about it.
36:29Let's just add it to the list of things we need to talk to Dr. Flaherty about.
36:34I actually have a question for the doctor.
36:36Here we go.
36:48We're out of business, you mother .
37:01Marlowe bitch.
37:02It said Marlowe's was going out of business.
37:04What do you want me to do?
37:05It was right in front of my face.
37:07Oh.
37:08My mom's calling.
37:09Hey, mom.
37:10Hey, babe.
37:11What's up?
37:12Currently traveling to Boston.
37:15Good little trip ahead of us.
37:16Oh, my gosh.
37:17Are you excited?
37:18I am excited.
37:19Collin's more excited than me, personally.
37:21He should be.
37:22Yeah.
37:23This is like his first time into the doorway of Baelin's crazy doctor visit.
37:28Yes.
37:29Life.
37:30Yes.
37:31I'm excited about going to a doctor's appointment for the first time with Baelin.
37:36Because the torch or the responsibility of taking care of Baelin is kind of being passed
37:41down.
37:42And I feel good about that.
37:44So I think while you're there, it would be a great time to ask her about the new pulse.
37:51The device?
37:52The wrist device.
37:53Okay.
37:54I've been wanting to talk to Baelin about my lunch date with Anita.
37:59But I know with having Collin in the car, he will make sure that she talks to Dr. Flaherty
38:04about it.
38:06I think it would be good to get her opinion.
38:09She's such a scholar.
38:10And if she doesn't know anything about it, that means it's not a good thing.
38:13This is true?
38:15Okay.
38:16I love you.
38:17I love you and I will talk to you soon.
38:19Okay.
38:20That sounds good.
38:21I'll let you know when we get there.
38:22Okay.
38:23Bye.
38:24Okay.
38:25Bye.
38:26I'm glad my mom brought it up.
38:27I was actually with Baelin when she was told about New Pulse.
38:30So at least we can find out if and when it might be available in the U.S.
38:36And if Baelin can benefit from it.
38:38Let's just add it to the list of things we need to talk to Dr. Flaherty about.
38:42I actually have a question for the doctor.
38:46Do ya?
38:50How your medications would work when you're pregnant.
39:01What part of not pressuring me to have kids before a wedding isn't clicking?
39:06I wasn't pressuring you.
39:08It's good knowledge to have.
39:10Good knowledge for who?
39:13For me.
39:16For the future.
39:18You got a mind of your own.
39:22I'm so frustrated between wedding planning and Colin's career change.
39:27We can't add a baby into this mix.
39:31We're not talking about this right now.
39:34We're not talking about this right now.
39:35We're not talking about this right now.
39:45Miss it, bitch!
39:50Oh my God!
39:51Josh, tell me you're thinking about getting the real estate.
39:54Yeah, I am.
39:55More than 80% of people who get their real estate license stop, you know, in less than five years.
40:00Five years.
40:02It makes me worried for Colin because there is so much potential to succeed in this field, but there's even more potential to fail.
40:09There's this device I heard about called New Pulse that helps your tics.
40:15It's not available here.
40:16If you did want to try it, you'd have to go to the UK, I'm afraid.
40:19Yeah.
40:21So she's basically like, give it a go.
40:24Except for it's in the UK.
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