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90 Day Fiance: The Other Way - Season 7 Episode 14 -
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00:00Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
00:03So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
00:06What the f***?
00:10He's taking the jokes way too far.
00:12What is in your mind, Antoni?
00:16My daughter living here, that means I need to put a lot of trust in you.
00:20And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
00:23I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had infidelity.
00:29Chloe, show me that you can take care of yourself here, please.
00:33All right.
00:34I think when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not,
00:39a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
00:42Okay.
00:42Okay.
00:48That's mom.
00:49She's constantly invading our relationship.
00:54She calls every day.
00:56It's not normal.
00:59I've sat at the table with you girls.
01:01I know, but baby...
01:01You guys act like best friends.
01:02You're saying, is it resolved?
01:04You're saying, you know what, mom, but she is right.
01:09The honest truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
01:13I don't think I love you anymore.
01:18We'll just have a little warm-up first.
01:48Okay.
01:49You ready?
01:50Yes.
01:55Sorry.
01:56A bit hard.
01:56Okay.
01:58Oh!
02:01Don't worry about the ball.
02:02Okay.
02:03You want me to keep going?
02:04Yeah.
02:04I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now, and Dylan's mom invited me to go play tennis with her today.
02:12Ah!
02:13And I kind of feel a little nervous about being with her alone because I still have a lot of issues with how close they are.
02:21I've got one for Tia.
02:24Oh!
02:26Fertie love.
02:27I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
02:31She contaminates Dylan's head.
02:33I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
02:38Whoops, that's a bit me.
02:39Okay.
02:40My point.
02:46What do you love?
02:48I suck!
02:49Oh, God.
02:51She kicked my ass at tennis.
02:57Oh, that was embarrassing.
03:00Just like, oh, God.
03:01Are you thirsty?
03:03Yeah, I'm thirsty.
03:04Let's go.
03:04Have a break.
03:05I'm definitely going to take this opportunity to talk to Joe because Dylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries.
03:13And if he's not going to fix it, I will.
03:17Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis with you today.
03:21It's a beautiful place.
03:23Oh, thanks for coming.
03:25Yeah.
03:25To be honest with you, Joe, like, the other night at dinner, I wanted to say so much, but I'm like, oh, my God, is it too soon to be talking to her about this?
03:36No.
03:37Because I don't want to come off as...
03:38I'm very open.
03:39Listen, I'm very easygoing.
03:41Any other issues, just we bring them up.
03:43Well, how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said, Mom, Patia's going to be moving here, even though you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
03:53Yeah, I was excited for him because he was excited about it, but he did say, Mom, Patia doesn't want to live anywhere near your house or Dad's house.
04:05Did you say that?
04:06I did.
04:07Yeah.
04:08Yeah.
04:09So I was concerned about that.
04:11I said, well, how's that going to work?
04:13I know, that's horrible.
04:14It's how I felt.
04:15Yeah, I know.
04:15I thought it was horrible too.
04:18That's just screwy because I don't mean you any harm.
04:21I know.
04:21I want you both to be happy.
04:22No, seriously, I do.
04:24I never, ever resented you.
04:25Oh, I did because I just, you know, the things that I thought you said about me was horrible.
04:31Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
04:32The main two things has been your hatred for me and the spending.
04:39Well, I stopped spending.
04:40You say you've stopped spending.
04:44You still haven't paid the debt off.
04:45Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
04:47So it's Dylan's fault again.
04:51He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell one of the properties to help you out.
04:58Yes.
04:58I feel like he owes me that.
05:00Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation that he's to sell one of the properties.
05:05That's obviously for the both of you to sort out.
05:08But I really would advise him against selling the property.
05:14This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
05:19Now she's going to tell him to not sell one of his properties.
05:23First of all, it's like none of her business.
05:25She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
05:27I really need for her to back off.
05:30I wanted to say something else.
05:33In order for me to feel comfortable here, I need to set boundaries.
05:39Like maybe not call Dylan every day, three times a day.
05:42So that's still bothering you?
05:44Yes.
05:46Oh, my God.
05:47But I thought we got past that.
05:48Yes, we did get past that.
05:49But we haven't if you're still onto it.
05:51Yeah.
05:51Yeah.
05:52I want to get past it.
05:55It just makes me mad because Dylan will like stop everything just to talk to you.
06:00But isn't that a good thing?
06:01Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything to talk to you?
06:04Yes.
06:04Because you're important to him?
06:05Yes.
06:06But unless it's an emergency, you know?
06:08I don't know about that.
06:09Yes.
06:09I mean, unless it's an emergency, I just feel like he can wait till we get home and talk to you.
06:13I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
06:16Oh, you're joking.
06:17No.
06:20Here's the deal.
06:21I'm not needy.
06:22I'm not needy in any relationship.
06:23So I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
06:25So I'm not going to be classed as needy.
06:29I don't think that Patia has a right to tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like.
06:34I think that problem lies within her.
06:37I might back off a little bit, but I don't think Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that, though.
06:41Asking me not to call.
06:44Doesn't seem normal or natural.
06:46But I mean, I'll do it.
06:47I know.
06:47That makes you happy.
06:48And if you think that's going to help the relationship, I'll do it.
06:50It will.
06:50But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night.
06:52I'll say, what do you want, Dil?
06:53And he wants to chat.
06:54So it's not just me.
06:56It could be yes.
06:56You better get in his ear, too.
07:19Grandpa sent me a picture.
07:21Benny's sleeping on Grandpa tonight.
07:23You can probably sleep all night on their bed, since it's probably a lot more comfortable than I am.
07:27Yeah.
07:29So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
07:32I have no idea.
07:34My last couple of attempts have really failed at giving this, like, grand gesture of love to Manon with being a mine and the goat farm.
07:43So tonight, I have a romantic getaway plan.
07:47But this is definitely more along the lines of what's something I know she likes, which is really going to a nice hotel.
07:55But, of course, earlier today, we had a fight.
07:59So I don't know how this is going to be received.
08:02Here, the Terrace du Port, it's open seven days a week.
08:06It's the only stores that are open on Sundays.
08:09That's why tomorrow, maybe I can get my nails done.
08:12I can do them for you.
08:13Has your mom got nail polish?
08:15Okay, not a good joke either.
08:17But that's fine.
08:18It's not a joke.
08:19It's how you save money.
08:21And that, I cannot do it now anymore?
08:22No.
08:23Great.
08:24Oh, my God.
08:24So what do you want to say about this afternoon?
08:29There's nothing to say.
08:30We're on the same page.
08:32We got it.
08:32We're good.
08:33What do you mean we are on the same page?
08:37Earlier today, when we were down in this, like, historic part of Marseille, there was this little shop that had some seashell earrings.
08:45And she didn't have her purse on her, and she was asking if I had my wallet.
08:50And I said I didn't have my wallet so that she would not buy anything.
08:55I'm, like, coming from this, like, sense of you spend money all the time, there's no money coming in, and we're looking to purchase a house.
09:02And then me, being the juvenile sense of humor that I have, kind of flashed my wallet as we're leaving the shop to show her, and I shouldn't have done that.
09:18I could have gone about it a different way and said, hey, maybe don't spend right now because I have something planned.
09:24Voilà .
09:24Or something like that.
09:25But even $20?
09:27Okay.
09:27I know you're saying $30.
09:28$100.
09:29It wasn't just $30.
09:30Max $100, do you think I would have spent like crazy in a small, tiny boutique if you would have said, can you don't buy them, or can you buy just one piece?
09:39I would have not pushed you.
09:42Really?
09:43Yes, really.
09:45Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
09:48Why do you assume that I am such a monster?
09:51You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
09:57Hmm?
09:57I, like, I really don't feel like going down this road because it could lead into some really bad and I just don't want to go.
10:04Oh, wow.
10:04So you have more stuff to say to me?
10:06Do I have more stuff?
10:06It's like, what about you?
10:08Your apologies?
10:10Huh?
10:10Like, we can, this can go on all day of like, you, me, you, me.
10:14It can.
10:17I don't like feeling like the bad guy.
10:19I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything and Manon does not hear how, you know, she comes across to me.
10:26We tried to move away from these problems moving here and they've just followed us from L.A.
10:32And I don't have a support system anymore.
10:36My family's over there.
10:38My only support system is her and there's none.
10:45I apologized.
10:46I said where I'm coming from.
10:48But.
10:48But like I said, you would invalidate the way I felt about it.
10:52Which you did.
10:54I don't invalidate.
10:57You are invalidating your own apology by always saying a but, a but, a but.
11:03Then I guess I'll just never say where I'm, where like my mind was coming from in the moment.
11:07And I'll just say, I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies.
11:11And get on my knees and beg for your forgiveness.
11:15I feel you just don't want this to work out.
11:17You just don't.
11:20You always like have to throw that on me too.
11:23Just like you do.
11:24Because it's how I feel.
11:25Like divorcing.
11:25Oh, we're not compatible.
11:26Go find someone that's good for you.
11:27Because you make me feel this way.
11:29Mm-hmm.
11:30Putain.
11:32You just don't care about losing me then.
11:34You just don't care about saving us then.
11:36You just don't care about me.
11:38Period.
11:42When we talk about money, it's a fight.
11:45Our core beliefs are so freaking different.
11:49Is it even possible for us to be happy long term if we are that different?
11:52I'm telling you, I feel like I need to be a whole different person for you.
12:03But I'm sorry, Antoni.
12:04I cannot change for you.
12:06I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
12:15Today is a big day.
12:16I'm going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
12:18To legalize your status in Naruba, it'll take approximately five months.
12:22Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
12:26Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
12:29Not...
12:30Not at all.
12:31Is it a dog?
12:59Don't tell me.
13:01It's a piece of leaf of a coconut tree.
13:06Looks like a dog, didn't it?
13:08No.
13:08Oh, thank God.
13:09Relax.
13:10When Chloe's mom was here, you know, the pressure that she put on us for the papers and stuff
13:16that I feel like really put both of us in a place like, hey, you know, you got to get
13:19this done.
13:20So today is a big day.
13:22We're going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
13:24And hopefully you can give me some really good information and what steps we should take
13:28next.
13:28Don't touch it, Chloe.
13:39The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply for domestic partnership papers.
13:45I've known people that have done it before.
13:47First thing is partnership papers.
13:49And then for the job, we have to find an employer that wants to hire her and willing to pay for
13:53her work permit.
13:53I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
13:57Yes.
13:58We're kind of just looking to see what the process would be as far as how much it's going
14:05to cost.
14:06And we're very interested in a work permit because without work, I have no money.
14:11So I have to somehow find a legal way to do all of those things.
14:15The main thing right now is trying to legalize your status in Naruba.
14:20Once you are here in Naruba, the work will follow automatically.
14:24Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
14:27How much would the permits cost?
14:30How long is it going to take?
14:33It all depends if it is a partnership agreement or a marriage.
14:37When you marry, he can bring you in automatically.
14:41And the marriage will cost maybe some legal dues to marry at the municipal, but it can go very
14:47fast.
14:48The partnership agreement, maybe $600, $700.
14:54But the thing is, that process will take approximately five months.
14:59Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States to wait for you to come
15:04to Aruba.
15:05Well, there's the bad news.
15:06I knew that was too good to be true.
15:09If you married, there's no problem.
15:11But with partnership, you need to wait abroad.
15:14Yeah, how long would it take if we did file the partnership papers for me to be able to
15:20work?
15:21After you're legal in Naruba, it will take approximately another three months for you to
15:27get a job.
15:28The whole process is approximately, I think, eight to seven months.
15:33That's a long time.
15:34That's a long time.
15:35I know.
15:36With a marriage thing, everything goes quicker.
15:39Moves quicker.
15:39Moves quicker.
15:40But you have to be ready for that, of course.
15:42Right.
15:43No, it's not a little step.
15:45You know, it's a big step.
15:50I'm shocked.
15:52This partnership paper is not this easy, sign your cute little signature on a dotted line.
15:58And it's even more shocking that for a part of this, I might actually have to be home.
16:03In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance, he broke my trust once.
16:10My anxiety then is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to
16:16just break my trust again.
16:19So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
16:22Not at all.
16:24Not in the slightest.
16:25Jonathan and I have talked about getting married and he's definitely someone that I
16:46see myself marrying, but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
16:52But it would solve a lot of our issues with me being able to stay here legally.
16:58When you're ready, just give me a call.
17:02I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
17:04Maybe we should just go for it.
17:22The honest truth is that I don't think I love you anymore.
17:40Thank you for being honest.
17:57Relationship isn't always 50-50.
18:01Sometimes it's 70-30.
18:03Sometimes it's 90-10.
18:05But, like, I can't, like, force myself to love you.
18:17And, like, I love you as a person.
18:21And I, like, really, like, only want happiness for you.
18:24I just feel like there's just, like, so much about myself that I just, like, need to know
18:38about before I can commit to someone.
18:41I just, like, don't think it's, like, a good idea to, like, move forward in this relationship.
18:52It's been three or four days here.
19:02I think we just need to spend a little bit of time together again.
19:06Not worry about getting married or kids or necessarily even where to live.
19:12Just get somewhere.
19:13Just feel it out.
19:16No commitment.
19:17But, like, I just, like, know what I need right now.
19:28Like, is to be alone.
19:34It's just all so sudden.
19:37I feel like I was pulling back the past six months.
19:42I was not being very affectionate.
19:44I was not reciprocating your feelings.
19:47I wasn't calling you as much.
19:48I wasn't sharing much about my life.
19:50And I've been, like, like, spiraling about it and wondering if we decided to see each other
19:56in person again and then, like, then I would know.
20:00We've only seen each other with a camera.
20:04It doesn't have to do with the cameras.
20:07Like, like, no, it doesn't.
20:10I just know it in my gut.
20:14Like, I have to listen to my gut.
20:16Like, and it's not fair for me to string you along when I already know it's over.
20:20Like, this is not fair for you either.
20:28Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words.
20:32You don't just suddenly not love someone.
20:39These things build up over time.
20:44And I had no idea it was building up all this time.
20:48There is so much life still ahead of us.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:57I was prepared to spend it all with you.
21:05Every single second.
21:07I will only look back with, like, fond memories of, like, the connection I felt with you
21:33and how we helped each other grow.
21:38And, like, maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
21:42And even if I am, I still feel like I have to make it.
21:45That ring weighed a ton on my hand.
21:56When I put that ring on her finger,
22:00I never intended to take it back.
22:09Well, what do we do now?
22:10We just move forward.
22:20Our individual ways.
22:25I'm just...
22:26I'm sorry.
22:30I'm just a little bit dead inside.
22:32Um, I'm gonna go to a hotel, I guess.
23:01Yes.
23:05Greta is always chasing a thrill in life.
23:13And I think the rollercoaster just ended.
23:17all right grab your bag oh no what the is this i was definitely not expecting a a sex dungeon
23:35yeah i was not expecting a sex dungeon just there's no windows and it's soundproof
23:39oh
23:47i don't want you to change
23:57but it don't feel the same
24:01you say i don't care about you is complete bull
24:05i wouldn't be here in france if that was the case
24:08are we getting out
24:17right on i mean it's been a while since we had any alone time to be intimate and i was looking
24:27forward to having like this nice time and now we're walking up to the hotel not in a good headspace
24:32love room oh no
24:40what the is this
24:45check it out
24:54oh wow that is cool
24:56uh-huh
24:57that's a good jacuzzi huh
25:00uh-huh
25:01cool cool it's just there's no windows that's the thing that's freaking me out right now
25:07and it's soundproof oh when i was asking antoni for a sexy romantic night away i was definitely not
25:19expecting a um how can i put it without uh being uh um insensitive a sex dungeon yeah i was not expecting
25:30a sex dungeon thank you exactly
25:32well it wasn't labeled as a sex dungeon
25:36what a love room for you love room
25:39oh okay a strip ball okay
25:43i get it the effort was it's still better than the mine
25:47so thank you
25:48um so i have a surprise for you
25:54oh so you stay over here
25:56and i'll get that ready
25:58okay
25:59manon loves the fact that i was in the military
26:04i mean i think she just loves a uniform
26:07i'm scared
26:09so i decided to dust off my old army of fatigues
26:13that will at least at a minimum put a smile on her face
26:18which i think is a stepping stone to having a better night
26:22what is he doing
26:23you ready
26:25what the what is it's what you want
26:33yeah but you always said you will never wear it you hate it
26:37i'm doing it for you and opportunity awaits
26:42with the outfit oh yeah
26:43uh-huh let's go
26:45come on
26:46can it hold my weight
26:49oh peter
26:50you ready
26:51i'm not
26:52yeah
26:56oh my god
26:58oh my god
26:58oh my god
26:59oh my god
26:59oh my god
27:00i'm gonna break it
27:00oh my god
27:01where's the military boy
27:03you can't look like who i put like a pole
27:05oh yeah
27:06oh my god
27:08you're a very very rare breed
27:18it's just very cute it's very sexy it's very cute
27:22okay let's go let's go to the hotel
27:24you're a nice guy it's nice i love that i'm a nice guy
27:28yeah you are
27:28yeah anyway and i'm the bad girl we always know that i'm the bad girl i'm the crazy one
27:33i'm the loud one the big one you know i take space we know that dramatic emotional
27:39i'm not dramatic
27:40you are very sexy my dear soldier
27:45yeah but you are also very sexy
27:48sure
27:48you are
27:50mm-hmm
27:50mm-hmm
27:51thank you
27:51you're welcome
27:52mm-hmm
27:54i'm really happy with antoni doing the effort and the thing is like
28:02you know when we are good we are good it makes me feel good you love me and everything
28:07it's just made me feel more like okay my heart can be full of joy full of love
28:12i'm home which is antoni antoni is my home
28:16je t'aime beaucoup
28:20moi aussi je t'aime beaucoup
28:21it's still funny when you said beaucoup he said beaucoup but he said beautiful ass
28:25well also that je t'aime beaucoup beaucoup
28:28oh my god
28:29are you ready to get married
28:35i'm hesitating
28:37is this something really she wants you know
28:42i'm afraid that i'm gonna get too hard you might leave
28:45hungry
28:50i'm just actually starving
29:04i want my sweet potato fries
29:18what are you gonna eat with that
29:19oh the caesar shot with shrimp
29:20okay
29:21so what did you think about the law firm today
29:24i think we got really useful information out of it
29:28yeah
29:28earlier today we found out that it would be a hell of a lot easier for me to start working
29:37and be legal here if we just got married
29:42i don't know how my mom will react when we tell her like it could be potentially eight months before i can work
29:47it definitely probably will be a i told you so moment
29:51we definitely did not see that one coming
29:53oh god
29:54you know what is that gonna look like for us in the meantime if i can't work you know i don't want to put it on you
30:02the eight nine months no problem me taking care of you the problem i have is that the lifestyle that you like to live
30:09you like to go out have drinks go to dinners and stuff like that i can't support that aspect
30:16no i understand everything else i can help you with but you would have to be patient
30:22oh i understand that i think this whole entire situation is about patience at this point
30:28regardless we're going to be waiting around
30:30yeah but if i marry you it's in two weeks
30:33well are you ready to get married
30:38yeah i am
30:41you hesitated
30:43i'm already at an age that i'm ready to get married
30:45it's not about age it's about me like you can marry anyone at any age
30:48no but like i'm looking for someone to marry and i really really love you so i would expect you to be the person i want to marry
30:56but i don't know if you're ready for that because you're very young
31:01no i mean you're nine years you're nine years younger than me
31:05i don't know if you still want to live life and party and all that you know
31:10i wouldn't say that i'm not ready i think we just have some work to do you know
31:19you know of course the marriage is a much easier option but you know is this something really she wants you know because partnership papers is one thing you know if it goes bad hey you know we go separate ways
31:33but if you marry somebody it's much easier to get married than to get divorced
31:38i think you're very concerned about like you're so young you shouldn't settle down and this but
31:43i think the way i grew up and like how blessed i was to travel and do all the things that i have
31:48like i feel so comfortable with the life that i have lived and i've never felt like how i feel with
31:53you with anyone else so why would i want to like put this on the back burner and not go all in
32:00like i'm already where i want to be like i'm still gonna have martini nights obviously but i would like
32:05to have a martini night and then come home like to you i just want you to know for sure what you're
32:13putting yourself into i'm going to tell you right now it's not going to be easy and i'm afraid that
32:20when it gets too hard you might leave because i've been through that situation before and i'm not trying
32:26to compare you to anybody but you know like i was in a relationship for a very very long time and i gave
32:31that person everything and that person at the end of the day left me for something easier so don't
32:37think it's only you risking everything i'm also risking life i think it's frustrating that he keeps
32:45telling me that i'm not ready to get married because he doesn't actually know how i feel in my eyes i
32:52mean i'm pretty in tune with my brain upstairs and i feel that i'm ready to get married i think if i
33:00thought in my head this isn't gonna work would have already left and i'm telling you that i'm more
33:04than okay with it so don't have this you know second doubt of exactly of me and every day you show me
33:12that you love me and you care for me then i won't have that doubt in my mind
33:18i already gave up my entire life and moved to another country so there's nothing else i could really
33:23give up to prove to him how much i do love him i know it's fast and we definitely have our issues
33:29but to me this feels right well i think at the end of the day it's something to think about
33:35so we can be together in the end we'll figure it out
33:43every day you have to talk to your mom it's ridiculous you're just trying to destroy everything
33:49i think you're worried that i'm going to abandon you you better start picking your battles because
33:55you're just going to be nagging me until we're both dead
34:05okay guys i've got to be somewhere we'll catch up another day yes
34:10bye
34:18hi babe hi how are you how's the game we had a ball didn't we yes we did she did she kicked my ass
34:26oh not really we're both we're both winners on the day yeah she's really good okay guys i've got to be
34:32somewhere we'll catch up another day okay yes see ya bye good to see you you too and thank you
34:39yes we'll do it again after tennis i feel a lot better i finally got all the issues off my chest
34:48other side remember we're in australia huh of course where you going oh okay i'm sorry i'm still
34:56trying to get used to the the side she did point out that dylan is part of the reason why they talk so
35:04much so maybe it's not all on her but i'm glad we talked about it and hopefully things can be
35:11different moving forward we had a good tennis match she kicked my ass it's been a long time since i
35:18played she might have to get some frustration out yeah at least she didn't hit me with the ball
35:24i was expecting her to hit me with the ball a couple of times do you feel like all the issues
35:31are resolved with my mother i feel like it's resolved i just said you know like maybe she
35:36not calls so much twice a week twice a week but not every day three times a day that's too much
35:43what do you think about that if you feel like you're i feel like you're bothered by that a little
35:50bit it's your great idea it's not a great idea for me okay it's like we enjoy having a chat here and
35:56there yeah but if it bothers your partner you know but is that it shouldn't bother you that much
36:10if it's a problem for me then you should you know you should why should you you should respect how
36:15i would you stop why would you stop the person that you love from doing something that makes them
36:19happy i'm not stop no yes you are okay every day you have to talk to your mom it's ridiculous
36:27i don't talk to you every day yes you talk to her three times a day and it's been an
36:31issue with us for 12 years can't you just work on like getting over that can't you work on like
36:38helping me set boundaries and respecting my feelings
36:44since i was a little kid mom and i have always been close and
36:47patia has never really been close to her mom so she doesn't understand that that closeness
36:54i think patia feels fearful that my mom is going to influence me in some way or take me away from
37:03patia in some way but if respecting the woman that brought you into this world is a problem then
37:09i don't really know what to say i mean if i'm asking if i'm saying hey babe you're talking to your
37:15mom too freaking much you should be like and then what if she what if she dies like how would you
37:20feel stopping me she's not going to die she's she's pushing 70. babe she plays tennis every day are you
37:26kidding she's freaking healthy i don't think it's fair that you're asking me to stop speaking to my
37:32mother i think that's really like that's that's really sad that you'd be concentrating on that over
37:37all things in life you're worried about that why don't you worry about your 20 000 debt that you have
37:45you you got me into it i've already told you about yes you did it's funny that you blame me for
37:49everything that's gone wrong in your whole life i get the blame for yes you caused me a lot of
37:52money no i didn't cause you anything i saved you money i taught you you did not save me money are you
37:59kidding me you've got lots of issues big big big spending excuse me mr controlling you have a lot
38:06of issues you're very controlling you're always like trying to tell me what to do it's always like
38:12my way or the highway just all right i mean you know what i think that's the pot call and the kettle
38:16black because you're the most controlling one of us all you love controlling absolutely you're always
38:22like trying to tell me what to do and that's why you don't like me talking to my mother because you
38:25like to manipulate influence and control me and when i speak to her you feel like she's you know
38:30taking that away from you you're just trying to destroy everything i think you're worried but i'm
38:37going to abandon you no but i'm going to abandon you you don't freaking respect my my wishes dylan tells
38:45me i'm controlling i'm like what how am i controlling you're the controlling one honestly sometimes i think
38:52dylan is a narcissist it's always about him you know it's my way or the highway it's so annoying
39:00whether dylan wants to admit it or not his relationship with his mother is affecting our
39:05relationship i don't know how much longer i can take this it's not that hard you keep fighting me on
39:12it which makes it worse obviously my relationship with my mom's not going to change so you better start
39:19picking your battles because you're just picking this battle and you're just going to be nagging me
39:23till we're both dead and we're going to have a miserable life things are clearly not going well
39:30and there's something that i need to talk to dylan about and i think it might make it worse
39:35next time on 90 day fiancee the other way let me get you some change how much money you have
39:46given back oh you've given them all the change i've given to you you haven't charged anybody she's
39:52saying i don't know how any money works it's a basic man if you are buying something for 60 if
39:58somebody pay you 100 it's easy give them 40 back i don't understand the change
40:05so i guess we didn't make any money on that sale did we
40:11i do feel alone and it's like starting to hit me that i am alone the last thing i want is for you
40:17and greta to split up some things that we're fighting for now i'm upset with greta but i really
40:23want them to work out i think you should have a talk with her when i met with dorian we already
40:33started working together on the skincare brand and we need to invest money we're trying to buy a home
40:42and i feel like this is going to set a lot of things back you're working and living at your parents
40:49how much time before you crack
40:56what's wrong i feel so dizzy you okay no this is not the way i want to start my weekend wedding
41:13i say no no no i don't pregnant i don't pregnant
41:17are you telling me that you're pregnant right now i told you so many times we even be careful
41:22when we have sex
41:34you
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