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00:00Mainstream society grows up in a sound school living environment
00:06Actually, most of the people I come into contact with are able-bodied.
00:11I always have some ideas
00:14At the beginning, what will my future partner be like?
00:19When I first met him
00:20When we first started talking about whether we should be together, I had that feeling too.
00:23We need to consider whether our family members will sense it.
00:27I think that person was thinking long-term.
00:30I don't want to think about it like I need to open the toilet.
00:32It seems a bit strange to destroy this relationship again.
00:36We still need to think about things more regularly.
00:38He also considered whether his family would accept me.
00:42Some friends feel that you only know things when you live together.
00:47You don't know if it's true or not.
00:48At first, I was a bit shocked, a little afraid that my parents wouldn't be able to accept it.
00:52Because of these problems, I feel that within myself...
00:58I had never experienced this before.
01:00Therefore, I lack these experiences.
01:02Tell me what the result is.
01:04Or what is the actual process?
01:07They would all think
01:07Actually, I just want to be happy and to feel right.
01:11That's fine, that's good.
01:13Why care what others think?
01:14Although reasoning depends on how others perceive it.
01:16Actually, I do care what people think.
01:17A.A.A.K.L. TianON
01:20Ting Gao was happy to continue the conversation.
01:25With self-wandering, my heart is beautiful but not at home.
01:31I want endless happiness
01:33I'll leave, but I'll also go...
01:38Travel across the sea and sky
01:40You will find it eventually.
01:45station
01:47Yes, I've heard of Zhu Ruzheng.
01:52And I am also among the people I know.
01:55Physical characteristics
01:58There were also similar students in my old school.
02:04My feeling is that they live...
02:07In our social facilities
02:09Our daily habits
02:11There are many challenges for them.
02:13I have heard of Zhu Ruzheng
02:15I think it's always been among so many people
02:19I saw some particularly short people
02:21You might take a look too.
02:22But I didn't have anything special.
02:24Because I have researched it.
02:26They are the same.
02:27That is life
02:29It might even extend one's lifespan.
02:32Or all things related to people
02:34They're all the same, actually.
02:36It's purely a matter of height.
02:38I don't think there are any limitations.
02:41I also feel that dating is all about the mundane realities of daily life.
02:44On the contrary, I think if we live together
02:46If living together
02:47Perhaps the design of the home
02:49Or some broken tables and chairs
02:51For example, refrigerators
02:52For example, storage methods
02:55Actually, it's these things that might need to be changed.
02:58Because I value skinship very much
03:00I really want to hold hands often, and use my hands skillfully.
03:04So I would think
03:06Will it be in holding hands, skillful hands
03:08Because of the height difference
03:09So that makes things a bit difficult to do.
03:13Adam, those two guests today
03:19This is us playing badminton.
03:21badminton
03:23I'm ready.
03:24You can do it anytime.
03:25I'm ready anytime.
03:27I miss the last time I played badminton.
03:29It is already...
03:30What did you say?
03:32Before
03:32OK
03:33Therefore, it shouldn't have any technical content.
03:38I'm counting on you.
03:40I will try my best.
03:41Although I don't have much experience
03:42But they are all professionals.
03:44badminton player
03:46Today we'll...
03:49I booked a room on the ground floor and waited.
03:50arrive
03:52Hello…
03:53Hello, Tim. Hello…
03:55Hello…
03:57Hello…
03:58Hello, Sundie, hello…
04:00Hello, Xia...
04:02Hello everyone, I am Huang Zhenyan
04:04You can call him Tim.
04:06I am now a
04:07Full-time disabled badminton player
04:10I have already become a full-time athlete.
04:12Fifth year
04:13I am also very happy to have this opportunity.
04:15Can represent Hong Kong
04:17More than 20 countries
04:19Played more than 100 games
04:21So this is also a part of my life
04:24A very happy phase
04:28The woman next to me is my wife, Cindy.
04:31This is our sixth wedding anniversary.
04:35I rarely get invited to play badminton.
04:39I haven't played in a long time.
04:42Could you please be lenient?
04:44Yes, good...
04:45So now we...
04:46Before we played badminton
04:47Can we go for a drive?
04:50Okay, let's go for a drive.
04:51Can you go for a drive?
04:51Okay, let's go.
04:53Okay, let's go.
04:54Today was the first time I met Tim and Sundie.
04:56We didn't go up to play badminton right away.
04:58Instead, we went for a drive together.
05:00Because I heard Tim say
05:01His work actually takes up a lot of his time.
05:04So whenever he had a chance
05:06They all go on dates with their partners.
05:08It means driving around to have fun.
05:10They also took the two of us to one
05:11They like to go to the countryside to chat.
05:15Today we've come to such a beautiful place for two.
05:17I also heard that you two are often dating.
05:20One of the places we'll come from, right?
05:23The reason is...
05:24Especially when we first met
05:25We don't really like going to places that are crowded.
05:29Try to avoid giving the impression that you're being seen by many outsiders.
05:33Therefore, they usually choose places with fewer people.
05:36There is still more space
05:38Let us be able to…
05:39It's truly our own private space.
05:40What do you want to do?
05:41Go to these places with so few people
05:42True explanation
05:45But if you ask seriously...
05:47Is it really necessary to select fewer people...?
05:49Because to some extent
05:50You have experienced some uncomfortable looks.
05:53In the early stages of your relationship
05:56It's like taking an elevator.
05:57Some children said with great curiosity
06:01What would they usually say?
06:03Why is this older brother so short?
06:05Why is this older brother so short?
06:07Will you answer him?
06:08generally…
06:09Mom or Dad will help answer.
06:11Yes, usually mom or dad
06:13She would grab his hair and pull him over.
06:15Right there…
06:18Or ask if you have anything.
06:20They usually change the subject quite naturally.
06:23Actually, I understand.
06:24Children are naturally curious.
06:26We will try our best to avoid this opportunity from happening.
06:29It is also the beginning.
06:31Perhaps between the two of us
06:33It's not a very stable time.
06:36Sometimes these positions should be reduced as much as possible.
06:39The problem with your height
06:42Actually, it has always existed since I was a child.
06:45In your daily life
06:47When you are alone
06:49Do you feel afraid of other people's opinions?
06:51Or both of them together
06:53You are more afraid of other people's opinions.
06:55Actually, I was already used to it by then.
06:58Not too many
06:59Sometimes others see
07:00He didn't read it from beginning to end.
07:03Can walk
07:04Sometimes this happens.
07:05Sometimes I look back like that too.
07:06Sometimes he feels embarrassed.
07:10I just don't know where to look.
07:12I think this is also a...
07:14Let me show you what it feels like to look at things this way.
07:17Actually, this was also at the very beginning.
07:19It's a key point for me.
07:22Before playing badminton with disabilities
07:23Actually, I'm just like any other person.
07:25I tried to put myself in a...
07:27Finally, society imitates the things that able-bodied people do.
07:31So in this context
07:33Actually at the beginning
07:35What do the people around me think?
07:38It seems like I'm on the street.
07:39What will others think?
07:41At first, avoid going to crowded places.
07:45Then slowly go to places with more people.
07:48Actually, I feel
07:50It's actually not a big deal.
07:52Then very quickly
07:54I want to say a few months
07:56Actually, everyone is used to it.
07:57Normal boundary
07:58Actually, there's nothing particularly special about it.
08:00What do you think about height?
08:02Have you been dating?
08:04Or the process of getting to know people from childhood to adulthood.
08:07There are difficulties
08:08Growing up in mainstream society
08:09Actually, the people I come into contact with
08:12Both same-sex and opposite-sex individuals have normal heights.
08:15So I also had fantasies when I was little.
08:17My other half
08:19At least not a very tall woman.
08:21I would find it strange otherwise.
08:23You find it strange
08:25I also have a preconceived notion.
08:27It's not a very tall lady.
08:28So I think the whole thing...
08:31It seems to make me feel a little better.
08:33There was some initial shock
08:34I'm just a little worried that my parents won't be able to accept it.
08:37She had thought about it too.
08:37Will your family accept me?
08:41To truly
08:42After she first met her family
08:44Or it may have already been privately opened before.
08:45Later it became more open
08:47Because we didn't actually plan to have children.
08:50And there's no need to worry about genetics.
08:52Go to the next generation of those things
08:54But both of them were happy.
08:56That's fine.
08:57When you first met...
08:59When you find a Cindy who is about the same height
09:03How did you two meet?
09:04Actually, we met at a party.
09:07Then I invited a group of fellow patients.
09:12Let's play badminton together!
09:13then…
09:14No one is allowed to play badminton freely.
09:16Now, thankfully, back then...
09:17How many years ago was this?
09:19Then, in the case of actually playing badminton...
09:22Only one of them
09:24You will definitely be awesome.
09:25You played badminton again.
09:26Don't say
09:27Are you also interested in badminton?
09:29On badminton
09:30The bottom left is not
09:31Isn't the bottom left one?
09:32No.
09:33However, I think he was quite friendly.
09:35Take good care of the people around you
09:37In life, when everyone has shortcomings towards each other...
09:40He can also help me.
09:42I can go and help him again.
09:44For example, things of the heart.
09:45Maybe he was in charge of counseling me.
09:48And he was also very tolerant of me.
09:50Someone who loves me very much
09:51We also prepared one
09:53Different mini-games card games
09:55Go test your teamwork.
09:57The junior officer and I each had some cards.
10:00You can also draw one.
10:01Then just answer our questions.
10:06What did the other person do?
10:08It makes me especially feel that this choice was right.
10:11What did he do that made you feel...?
10:12It's so good to have chosen this man.
10:15Actually, he easily puts me at the center.
10:18What I usually say
10:19He was quite cooperative.
10:22He will listen to what I have to say.
10:24Because he is actually my best friend.
10:26I tell him everything that makes me unhappy.
10:28Actually, I feel very comfortable with him.
10:31I am happy
10:32I used to have health problems
10:35The most heated argument was about...
10:38They really didn't.
10:39There really isn't.
10:39Everyone is so high and so low
10:42Is it because it's difficult to attack each other?
10:44No, I often attack him.
10:46It really wasn't because of the body
10:49Actually, others are very accepting.
10:49I often laugh at him, and that's fine with me.
10:51There really is no physical
10:52It's better to laugh at others.
10:53Actually, when self-esteem is strong enough
10:56When self-confidence is strong enough
10:58I wouldn't mind if someone else brought it to me.
11:00You really haven't changed anything.
11:03Actually, this matter
11:04It seems that saying this hasn't changed anything.
11:06No change
11:07Let's calculate it this way.
11:07Let's play woodball together.
11:08Let's see who wins.
11:09right
11:10Sometimes I have a similar feeling
11:12You are always this amazing.
11:13Have you played a game similar to woodball with me?
11:14Is it really that amazing?
11:15Of course
11:16You really would say that?
11:17and…
11:18Your mindset will be like this
11:19right
11:20And everyone has some
11:21The impressive aspects, the less impressive aspects
11:23It's about attacking his high...
11:24right…
11:25I was just joking when I told him I was short.
11:30right
11:31You're not kidding, you're serious.
11:33right
11:33It's true, but...
11:34But no problem.
11:35But actually used for laughing
11:36I was laughing at him.
11:37However…
11:37Not that kind...
11:39yes…
11:40It's about two people who can exchange smiles.
11:42Not ashamed
11:54The relationship between Tim and Cindy
11:55It was not affected by my physical condition.
11:58on the contrary
11:58Tim now considers himself a professional athlete.
12:01On the contrary, they are more confident.
12:03Cindy is also very supportive of Tim's work.
12:05So even dating activities
12:07He would also come to the sports field to cheer her on.
12:09This is such a rare opportunity.
12:11The junior officer and I, of course, also wanted to experience it.
12:13Tim's activities are so full of confidence.
12:15We should be considered to have played with a good rhythm and methodical approach.
12:18They played very poorly.
12:20I just feel like I'm bad.
12:21But let's really experience it together.
12:23Tim's skills
12:24Do you often talk to her...?
12:26I would also come to such a healthy venue.
12:29Sometimes before
12:31Before the pandemic
12:32Because there are no balls, it doesn't restrict entry and exit as much.
12:35You can come and watch them practice.
12:37I also want to feel what she feels.
12:39But there are fewer now.
12:41Why did she play the game?
12:42I've tried watching matches abroad twice.
12:45That is to...
12:47I will shout
12:48Is it really true?
12:49There is…
12:51The whole audience heard
12:53Today you'll see how she teaches us.
12:57These two useless people who ate porridge at night
13:00Don't worry, she'll feed you the ball, so don't be afraid.
13:02Feeding you the ball
13:03Will she let you play ball with her?
13:05Of course
13:06Is it amazing?
13:07Is it real or fake?
13:08That's really amazing.
13:10In which aspect
13:11No, kill ball
13:13I learned a little bit at that time
13:16Playing with her back then
13:17She usually asks me to rate her.
13:20We play seven points.
13:21Then I'll take five points first.
13:23I think she'll give it to you.
13:25You got five points.
13:25No, it started 5-0.
13:28I…
13:29Would that be considered an insult?
13:31No, it's actually an insult.
13:34I usually have the opportunity to let me
13:36If we fight you today
13:38When we were playing two against one
13:40Is it possible...?
13:40Let me have it.
13:41we…
13:42No, let me have it.
13:43You're two against two, let me have one.
13:45But you are at an international level.
13:47These are things that even housing estates wouldn't sell.
13:49Okay, I just saw it, that's fine.
13:51Is that so? Okay.
13:52Okay, let's not delay.
13:58Okay, let's go.
14:03Her team is very gloomy.
14:05I'm scared
14:07I'm very afraid to choose me
14:08Then I couldn't hit it.
14:15Actually, I know there are many things...
14:16Because I have to go to training
14:19I have less time to spend with my wife
14:21And throughout the year
14:23There will be at least eight races.
14:25Each time it takes about 10 days
14:28Not in Hong Kong
14:28It lasts about 80 to 100 days a year.
14:30Not in Hong Kong
14:31I didn't spend time with her.
14:33She also talked to me about it.
14:35An athlete's career is always finite.
14:38Actually, I expected it to be relatively...
14:41Now I'm a bit older
14:43So I want to spend my athletic career
14:45Final attempts to break through
14:48Let's see if...
14:49Hoping for a perfect ending
14:51Can make myself retire
14:53I feel very confident.
14:55What I did in the last few years
14:58We, the residents of these housing estates...
15:01Facing world-class athletes
15:02Let's just play around.
15:03We chatted with them quietly.
15:05We've talked a lot about this before.
15:07About their past
15:09Why don't we ask them again?
15:10What are your plans for the future?
15:12We were just defeated.
15:14Send this emoji to Tim
15:15I think it's very reasonable.
15:16Very reasonable
15:17Very reasonable…
15:19Tim, as an athlete
15:22Have you ever thought about how long you'll be able to do this job?
15:25Actually, I'm getting older and older.
15:29Actually, they are all...
15:30They've been retired for the past few years.
15:33After retiring, I actually want to…
15:36Give more time
15:38With family
15:39and the business after development
15:41During the time before retirement
15:43I really want to enjoy myself...
15:45The final years of his athletic career
15:48I hope to achieve some breakthroughs.
15:49Let me retire in a perfect way.
15:52So after you retire
15:53Have you thought about what kind of job you want to do?
15:56I want to do something…
15:58Help some...
16:00People with special needs in society
16:03For example, people from SEN
16:04Lometa is a sports-related...
16:07Or other aspects
16:08Everyone hopes to share my experience
16:11Share with them
16:12Or some...
16:13Let them experience something…
16:14Some things we can do
16:16This made them feel...
16:17Although we are different from some people in society
16:20But they can all achieve some things...
16:22They will have a place of satisfaction
16:24Both can simultaneously enable the public
16:26More are acceptable...
16:28Some of our external people with special needs
16:31No need for sympathy
16:32But after they experienced it
16:33Everyone can have a fair place
16:36Equal opportunities would be best.
16:37I feel today wasn't very fair.
16:39Our answer
16:40Many people will support you.
16:41You raised me
16:44You raised us.
16:45very obvious
16:46And although you've been married for several years
16:51But they didn't move out to have their own private space as a couple.
16:54Is there any expectation?
16:55For the two of them to move out together
16:57It will definitely
16:58Because he started as a full-time employee.
17:00He spent most of his days staying in dormitories.
17:05We only stay with our family on weekends.
17:07In the future, we will have our own home.
17:10That will truly be the time for the two of us to live together.
17:13Perhaps the real opportunity will come in the future.
17:16Buried in his hand, no family member helped.
17:17Those details of life
17:20This might only happen because everyone has shortcomings.
17:23Don't say it's just about personality.
17:24There may be some practical things to do.
17:26Take things
17:27I hope everyone will work together to do a good job.
17:31Does anyone have a way to get out?
17:33Maybe we can do this well.
17:35This reduces friction.
17:37When I was an athlete
17:38Sometimes I really do overlook my partner.
17:43We didn't allocate that much time.
17:46I also hope to have more free time after retiring.
17:49The time we spent together
17:51Cindy also said...
17:53I hope we can do it every year.
17:57At least one trip can do it
17:59Now we also need to take care of things at the right time.
18:03There just happened to be no competition again.
18:04And it just so happens that someone is leaving.
18:06And it also requires a lot of coincidences.
18:08Only then can you go on a trip
18:10I hope we can spend more time together.
18:14You have also entered into married life.
18:18It's actually quite difficult for the two of them to be together.
18:20Let's not talk about the issue of childbirth.
18:23We actually talked about it behind the scenes.
18:25You also have some unique perspectives.
18:28For having a baby
18:29Could you share some information?
18:31I think it's because of having a child
18:33Besides very real problems
18:36People usually ask if it will be inherited.
18:38This is relatively
18:41There is a one in four chance of inheriting it.
18:43However, technology is very advanced now.
18:44It can actually be avoided
18:47But another problem is
18:49If I really have a child
18:50Future education and the entire package
18:55How is it?
18:56I think this is a big responsibility.
18:58I think firstly
19:00What do children think of us?
19:03I would think that way again.
19:04I also wonder what it would be like for children in such an environment.
19:07For example, seeing other children say
19:11How should we handle it when his parents are like this?
19:14In these environments
19:16It makes me feel this responsibility.
19:18I don't want to...
19:23This forces him to bear these responsibilities.
19:25To a large extent, it's because you two have been through this before.
19:27Too
19:29Because of height
19:31There are some growth-related issues that need to be addressed.
19:33Yes
19:34But it doesn't matter.
19:36The most important thing for you is to buy a home shoe-making machine.
19:40right
19:42So you're all right now.
19:44We filmed so many episodes today.
19:46Those people's partners
19:49They argued the most.
19:52Then each other
19:54Those are the parts that are connected by tongue.
19:56The most couple
19:57But they also saw
19:59Their relationship is very happy.
20:01They gave me a kind of
20:02I don't know why
20:03It has a feeling of teenage dating.
20:04That kind of lively
20:06Or will I ambush you from behind?
20:08withered neck
20:09Then those who chime in with a couple of words
20:12Then hugged again.
20:13But those weren't romantic.
20:17But those who are very studious
20:19You are my best friend
20:20Then everyone came out together.
20:22Light hook
20:22That kind of natural interaction
20:24When I saw
20:25I think their relationship
20:27We get along very comfortably.
20:29What impressed me most was
20:31Actually, when I was interviewing while sitting on a camping bench just now...
20:35Cindy quickly said one of them.
20:38That is to say
20:39She is my best friend
20:41That moment left a deep impression on me.
20:43Because in my understanding
20:47My ideal relationship
20:49Actually, the other person is my best friend.
20:52Because the other person is your best friend.
20:54Only then can you tell her everything.
20:57Talk to her about everything
20:59That's the feeling that will stay with you forever.
21:01Because many times
21:02The feeling of dating is so romantic.
21:05Many times I feel that once it's gone, it's gone.
21:07But actually, the relationships that grew up around me
21:10The last and longest, besides family members
21:12Actually, he is my best friend.
21:14I am very grateful for her presence in my life.
21:18Because in many ways, in the details of life
21:19She's always very helpful.
21:22It allows me to be very focused on my work.
21:25When I was an athlete
21:27This is like my parents.
21:28She would always help carry it.
21:30Therefore, many details are located in the position
21:33Actually, I'm very grateful for her help.
21:36I have a rather irritable personality.
21:39But I'm very grateful to Ah Tian.
21:41She listens to me very attentively at all times.
21:44Also, she knows that we can't lose our tempers together.
21:47Actually, I've known her for so long
21:48She has never truly lost her temper.
21:51She is very tolerant of me in everything.
21:53I can often tell my friends that she really loves me.
21:55I often feel that no one is perfect.
21:59Everyone has their own shortcomings.
22:02Some people may have seen it.
22:03Just like us
22:04There might be some deficiencies in the body.
22:07I think the most important thing is happiness between the two of them.
22:10Actually, there's no need to care about how others perceive us.
22:12And although you will see the outside world's perspective.
22:15However, if two people truly like each other...
22:18Actually, the opinions of others are nothing.