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00:00En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:05It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:11Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:15We've known each other for 16 years.
00:17Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:23Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:29Like a rock on your finger.
00:31She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:35The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:40I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:45Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.
00:50Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
00:54The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:01I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:07We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:12Hmm. Yeah.
01:14I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:30Here they go.
01:31With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:40How are you guys doing? All right?
01:42They're a good looking couple. Yeah.
01:44You look lovely.
01:45Very lovely.
01:46Hi, guys. You all right?
01:48Hi.
01:49I love your shirt. We're almost matching.
01:51Yeah, these guys look fit.
01:55One girl, a bit of you.
02:02I'm excited, but nervous.
02:04Oh, I'm nervous now. Yeah.
02:06Definitely nervous now.
02:07I'm so excited to be here. I really am. I am like, come on.
02:12Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need is just a real big push.
02:19Guiding couples on their journey.
02:22Hello. Come in.
02:23Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:27Take a seat. I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:32So me and Tom had been together for about a year. I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:39Mm-hmm.
02:40I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:46We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
02:56OK.
02:57Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
02:59I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:02Mm-hmm.
03:03I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:10When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:14If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:24I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:37I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:40Yeah, it's been a couple of times, it's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:46I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:49When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
03:54I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself in a rut. I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:04When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy. Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom. It was terrifying.
04:16The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down, die at any point.
04:23It was so, so scary. He got really down. He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:30Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:42You have a terrible relationship with your body. Yeah, definitely, definitely.
04:46It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
04:58Hey, you're okay? Yeah, I'm good.
05:00I wasn't expecting that.
05:05Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:09The fact that I'm just... I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:14So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:30And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:32It's what I want as well.
05:37Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:41I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.
05:45And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
05:51And the same for women as well. But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
05:58Sure, yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things.
06:04Starting with a good old party.
06:06Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:08Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:12I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:21This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:26I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching,
06:33how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:37Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:45And then, be open to things escalating.
06:51That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
06:54When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight sex.
06:58Yeah.
06:59Right.
07:00Right, okay.
07:01It sounds really exciting.
07:02Beautiful.
07:03Yeah.
07:10Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:16So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:22If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:31Oh, wow.
07:33Oh, wow.
07:34I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't, if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go a separate ways.
07:45I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
07:55Previously on Open House.
07:58Ultimately, why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:07I'm so scared.
08:09What's at stake is Alana's, like, feelings and emotions.
08:12I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:14Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
08:17So, we kind of want you to face that threat.
08:22Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome?
08:26That scenario wasn't in my head.
08:28I don't want to do it like I want to live.
08:32If this is going to work, it has to be the right person.
08:35Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie.
08:40He's gorgeous.
08:42Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us?
08:45Yeah.
08:46If it does go wrong, is it something I'd be able to get over?
08:59I did not think this is where we were going to be on, like, our first night.
09:02I knew you were.
09:03This would have literally been my worst nightmare.
09:05Really?
09:06If someone was like, how would you feel about doing this?
09:08I'd be like, no.
09:09We didn't think that we would have been in a hot tub if we were.
09:12Here you are.
09:15How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:24How do you feel?
09:26I'm okay.
09:27Yeah?
09:28In that moment, watching Alex and Georgie kiss, I thought, oh no.
09:40How did that make you feel?
09:41Like, fine.
09:42Like, I was, like, yeah, like, almost a bit turned on by it.
09:55I really want you on me.
09:56Can I, like, want you on me?
09:57Can I, like, want you on me?
09:58I can't believe this.
09:59Are you proud of me?
10:00Yeah.
10:01I can't believe this.
10:02Are you proud of me?
10:03Yeah.
10:04Like, what the hell?
10:05Yay.
10:06Yeah.
10:07Yeah.
10:08I've never seen Alana kiss another woman.
10:09I knew it was part of her life, like, long, long ago, but to see that, like, re-open that
10:35ago but to see that like reopen that door was such a huge turn for me to see
10:39that it was like really hot
10:43oh my god
10:44I'm obsessed
10:46stop it
10:48can we just take you home with us?
10:51well it all flowed very naturally
10:55you got three weeks?
10:56yeah
10:57I honestly don't know what's happening right now
11:08I feel like this is normal
11:10I think like things are feeling good
11:17do you maybe want to come back to our room?
11:20I would love that
11:22just explore things a little bit more
11:25take the next step we'll do baby steps
11:27stop Stuart
11:29I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female
11:34I thought that would be way too intimidating
11:37I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up
11:41yeah
11:43yeah like this has been insane
11:46honestly I can't believe it's such a change
11:48you can't do anything and now we're inviting
11:52I still have to come back to our room
11:54oh my god that's show show
12:10I know I did say my ass like eats them
12:13new arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night
12:17oh
12:23they'll be attending a sexy barn dance
12:25where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block
12:30when it comes to opening up
12:35whenever we've dipped our toes into being open
12:38Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable
12:44they've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience
12:49where the focus is only on foreplay
12:52hey
12:54what
12:55I look fucking ridiculous
12:56with no pressure to perform
12:58the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion
13:02I do foresee hurdles
13:04the residents are all very beautiful
13:06the problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious
13:10if I went there on my own I think I'd probably walk straight back out
13:22how are you guys feeling
13:24how are you guys feeling
13:25how are you guys feeling
13:26yeah great
13:27shit scared
13:28this is out of my comfort zone
13:45the heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room
13:52so what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them
13:56I feel sick inside I don't think I can
13:58okay so listen there's no pressure that's what we're saying
14:01like let's just give it a really good go
14:03this is what we're here for
14:05first to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz
14:09what are you looking for then?
14:11that's the question
14:12so for me you need I need that conversation
14:15yeah
14:16and for you it's obviously just about feeling body confident around
14:18yeah I'm a bit yeah
14:20just lacking in confidence a little bit
14:22that's understandable you know it's really nerve-cracking
14:26if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks it's this environment
14:31we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey
14:35hello you alright? I'm Tom
14:36how are you doing me alright?
14:37how are you doing?
14:38I'm Gaze this is my wife Olivia
14:39what's your dynamic?
14:40so we
14:41when we join here
14:42that's a big word that is
14:43dynamic
14:44that's a very big word isn't it?
14:45that's my favourite word is that
14:46dynamic
14:47why am I saying we've dabbled in it before?
14:49we're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling
14:53you know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared
14:57but when you have that you know responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression of the lifestyle
15:02you want to make it the best
15:04I used to be like really like outgoing going gym seven days I used to have like the abs
15:09and I basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put on the weight now so
15:13you can just like kiss and you can like you can go down on them and you can touch
15:18and you don't necessarily just have the build up but I think it is the part of mentality
15:22you think you've got to go through that natural process
15:25Olivia and Gage they made me feel so like it just felt it just felt natural just talking to her
15:31after a confidence boost from Gage Tom moves on to single resident Aaron
15:37who's no stranger to open conversation
15:40do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?
15:44basically have fun, relax and try and not my hair down
15:48to a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up
15:52I think the best thing they can do is talk to us
15:56you know you've come here for the sex but don't forget that the sex comes from a person
16:00I'm a single guy I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women
16:05oh wow
16:06at the same time for two years
16:07oh wow, that's crazy
16:08split 50-50
16:09yeah
16:10there'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence
16:14yeah
16:15and I'll go and play and I won't even get half
16:17but that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around
16:21wow
16:22that's what I'm saying
16:23this is what we're trying to get through to talk
16:25speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say
16:30I don't need my penis basically
16:32I've got my hands and I've got my tongue
16:34and I think Lauren really likes them as well
16:37Aaron has given me fanny photos
16:42so I've never had more than two men at once
16:44so my ideal situation would obviously be more men
16:47I love you
16:48I love you
16:51fresh from meeting Aaron
16:53Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree
16:59Aaron
17:00because he was on the same page as you
17:02even he doesn't get hard
17:03yeah
17:04because I feel like he would understand you as well
17:07yeah
17:08Aaron made me feel really at ease
17:10yeah, he was absolutely brilliant
17:12I'm so scared of the rejection
17:17mainly for Tom
17:18rather than for me
17:19because
17:20is he then going to be really nervous going forward
17:23that little bit inside that if they say no
17:25it'll feel like shit yeah but
17:27you know
17:28you just have to wait and see and see what happens
17:31we just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just
17:35maybe some games
17:37some teasing
17:38some fuddling
17:39if it escalates, escalates
17:40if it doesn't
17:41it doesn't
17:42it doesn't
17:43and that doesn't matter
17:44yeah
17:45okay guys
17:47I'm not going to say that I'm going to play
17:50it's for me at the moment
17:53I take a lot more to get to that point
17:56I was surprised by Aaron
18:00because he said he didn't want to play
18:02Aaron without being rude obviously we have to move along
18:05with being honest
18:06no
18:07not everyone is everyone's cup of tea
18:08but for me I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process
18:13it's like rejection
18:15I'm just yeah I'm shocked
18:24right move all the things of the beds
18:26put them all on the here
18:28here
18:29in their bedroom
18:30Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie
18:34are we going to be weird and go are you okay if we get protection just in case
18:39we'll just have it on the side
18:41they're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap
18:48by having a threesome
18:50I don't know how this is going to go
18:53seeing Alex being with another woman
18:56with where we are now look I'm definitely open to
19:03just seeing how it goes
19:05but as much as this is a really big step for me
19:09it's also a really big step for him
19:11because he's going to potentially be with another woman
19:15this is all new and it's starting to feel very real
19:19so my worries going into this is me being with another woman
19:23and how that might make Alana feel
19:25I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have
19:27but equally it could not be
19:34Hello, come here, come here, come in, you all right?
19:37Oh, it's so nice
19:39It would be devastating if anything went wrong here
19:44for sure
19:47So much better, okay cool
19:48This is a bit more chill
19:50If you don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum
19:54No, I like that
19:55Let's just pick up when we're left off
20:00The sexual chemistry was insane
20:09The fact that I could like
20:12just let go of everything and just really enjoy it
20:15like
20:19I never thought that would have happened
20:22in this experience
20:24what's that?
20:25What is that?
20:35Oh, I'm going to believe that today
20:38Yes
20:41oh, I'm gonna taste it
20:43But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
20:54I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
21:03It was, like, from zero to 100, and it caught me off guard, really.
21:10Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:31I can't quite match that right now.
21:35I've had, like, the best evening.
21:50Yay.
21:51Give me another kiss.
21:52Bye.
21:53I love you so much.
21:54I loved it.
21:55I genuinely loved every minute of that.
21:56There wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable or, like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:06Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:07Did you enjoy it?
22:08I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:09Yeah.
22:10I loved it.
22:11I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:12Yeah.
22:13I loved it.
22:14Do I always seem to get the wet patch?
22:15Do I always seem to get the wet patch?
22:21Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit, like, a little bit, like,
22:50overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
22:56At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:03It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident, Georgie.
23:22You're so quiet.
23:25Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened, but I could feel there was something
23:35a little bit off.
23:36What are you thinking about?
23:49I'm just thinking.
23:50Processing.
23:51Are you sure you're okay?
23:52Yeah.
23:53When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able
24:05to do a full couple swap.
24:07I knew Alex was in his head a little bit.
24:14Even at home, like, he can go a bit quiet sometimes, but today I just knew there was something
24:19kind of underlying.
24:24Hello.
24:25Come in.
24:26Hello.
24:27Take a seat.
24:28Take a seat.
24:29Get comfy.
24:31How was last night?
24:33Like, I'm really happy.
24:35Yeah.
24:36It just, it felt right.
24:38Beautiful breakthrough.
24:39Absolutely.
24:40I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed
24:48Alex?
24:49She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
24:52And I actually enjoyed watching it, which I never thought those words were going to come
24:57out of my mouth.
24:59What are you thinking, Alex?
25:01I don't, I don't know.
25:03I don't want to take away because I loved last night.
25:06It was incredible.
25:07Sure.
25:08But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:13Okay.
25:14Yeah.
25:15Tell me about that.
25:16I don't know, like, I don't think I was, I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like,
25:20so that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:22Okay.
25:23Okay.
25:24Okay.
25:25The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again, I don't know if I go all the
25:28way.
25:29So, that's where, I think that's why I've been quiet this morning because I wasn't sure.
25:33For me, there was, like, something missing and I don't know what it was.
25:36I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection based, like, when it comes to sex.
25:40Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:42Sure.
25:43Intimacy?
25:44Is that what you're seeking?
25:46Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:49I do find it better if there's a connection.
25:53And that's where I am right now.
25:54Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
25:56The thing that I want to understand is, how do you feel about that?
26:02Um, I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:10Sure.
26:11Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:14Like, what if you build, like, this really great connection with someone else that you
26:19then feel is, like, better?
26:24That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:30You okay?
26:31Yeah.
26:33It's okay.
26:36You're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of.
26:39And stuff is coming up.
26:40Like, that's all about that.
26:43So, that's scary to you right now.
26:45So, let's just look at it in the face.
26:46Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:49I think it's definitely not, like, deep connection with what I have with you.
26:54It's a lot less than that.
26:56Okay.
26:57It's more familiarization.
26:58Like, you almost want to be friends with that person before it, okay?
27:01Yeah.
27:02I've never been, like, a one-night guy, if you know what I mean?
27:06To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together, like, straight away.
27:10So, I get that.
27:11I know that's not necessarily, like, how you work.
27:15Mm-hmm.
27:16So, what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:20Like, do you want to have, like, one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:27Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:30Like, what does that look like for you?
27:32We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like, one couple that we're, like, best friends with.
27:37Mm-hmm.
27:38And we get on really well with them and, like, play together as well.
27:41So, what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:49But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece.
27:53For you to actually go there and start making a connection.
27:56And for you to feel, like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening.
28:00And spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:02And then, once you feel like you have a connection in place, then you can escalate things in your own time.
28:09And take it from there and you see how it goes for you.
28:11How does that sound?
28:12No, that sounds, that sounds good.
28:14Okay.
28:15Good.
28:16I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?
28:17Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:18Okay.
28:19Okay.
28:20I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:23That was, like, just something I needed to understand.
28:28You're welcome.
28:29You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:30I'm excited to meet some couple today.
28:41But, um, this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:46We'll have to see.
28:51We love each other, right?
28:53Yeah, we do.
28:56At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:16Let your hair down.
29:17Let my hair down.
29:18I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:19I'm not line dancing.
29:20That is not happening.
29:26Oh!
29:27Oh!
29:28Oh!
29:33Oh my God!
29:34Nice world!
29:38I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:40It's what I used to really enjoy.
29:41So, I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
29:44When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
29:53Yeah.
29:54And, like, the fact that he was just busting out the robot and, like, just having so much
29:57fun with it.
29:58And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
29:59And he was just like, yeah, let's do it.
30:00It's the last.
30:01Wow!
30:07I'm buzzing.
30:08I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:15He's so relaxed now.
30:19Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective.
30:23Finding residence for a sensual after-party.
30:26I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:27So, I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and to see if they say yes or no.
30:32You lead the way.
30:45Hello, hello, welcome to my friend.
30:47Hello.
30:48I'm your shirt for tonight.
30:49Have you guys been enjoying yourselves?
30:51Yeah.
30:52But it was basically, we're just wondering if, um, if you'd like to be, to, like, come
30:57back with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:03Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are.
31:05I'll be at the bar.
31:06I wasn't expecting that.
31:08I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a no.
31:12As Tom's confidence grows.
31:14And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:17Yeah.
31:18Yeah.
31:19Oh, wow.
31:20So does the after-party.
31:23Wondering if you want to come.
31:25Yes.
31:26I love that.
31:27That's quick.
31:28That's so easy.
31:31And the guest list swells to five.
31:33We were pleasantly surprised.
31:35And it actually feels kind of, like, nice, like feeling.
31:38I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:40I would say I'm definitely attracted to him.
31:43For sure.
31:45They're a vibe.
31:46100%.
31:47I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
31:51Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet.
31:55As the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety.
32:02And successfully open up.
32:05We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:10I'm not promising anything.
32:13I've still got them hurdles.
32:14I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:16The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:21Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up, Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples.
32:43Oh, this looks so cute.
32:45We're just looking for, like, good vibes.
32:48Obviously, going into the couple scenario, it's slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to two different people then.
32:59We'll see, you know, if it's the right people, then it'll be there.
33:07Hello.
33:08Hello.
33:09How's it over?
33:10I'm Joe.
33:11Joe, lovely to meet you.
33:12How are you doing?
33:13We're literally on the walker.
33:14Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?
33:18Yeah, they're definitely good looking.
33:19They're super hot.
33:20Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?
33:23I think coming here might have been more me.
33:26Did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?
33:31What were you initially looking for?
33:33Connections with couples.
33:34Yeah.
33:35Is where we were looking at.
33:36The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of get over, like, insecurities with having another female.
33:42Like, being physical and, like, smash that on the first note.
33:47So we're like, yay!
33:49One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do threesomes because it's easiest.
33:54You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.
33:56Like, foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do.
33:59Hi, I'm Alana.
34:00Hi, Alana.
34:01Lovely to meet you.
34:02So, tonight?
34:03Today?
34:04Tonight?
34:05You're looking for a couple swap?
34:06Yeah.
34:07Just trying to, like, find our way into it, though.
34:08Definitely within the space, it's just finding our, like, place.
34:09Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.
34:10But it's nice because, like you say, everyone's, like, scenarios are different.
34:12Well, it's about you guys, that's the thing, it's like, you're not here to please someone else.
34:29Yeah.
34:30It's what's best for you.
34:31I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.
34:34Yeah.
34:35Um, but actually, like, I've shocked everyone, ended up being absolutely fine with it.
34:41Alex and Alana were quite attractive, actually.
34:44There was definitely a vibe there.
34:46I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.
34:55Can I run for you a chat?
34:56Yes.
34:57Can I run for you guys?
35:00Hi.
35:03Tea.
35:04Ooh, thank you.
35:09How have you found it?
35:11Um, like, it's been nice to speak to couples today.
35:16Like, obviously, that was what we wanted to do.
35:19For me, I feel like, um, Jem and Daz, I just feel like they would be, like, a really great couple to get to know.
35:26I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.
35:30How are you feeling?
35:31Is there anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with?
35:39I've, like, um, honestly, at the moment, I just don't know right now if I can go any further.
35:51OK.
35:52How do you, how are you feeling about that?
35:54Um, yeah, like, I'm a little bit surprised.
35:56Um, what is it that's making you feel that way?
35:57Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:01Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?
36:02Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming?
36:03Mate, I don't know, like, it's more of a me thing, this now.
36:04For, like, for 30 years, I feel like I was feeling like I've gotten a little bit just like I've got my kids.
36:09So what is it that's making you feel that way?
36:10Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:13Do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?
36:20Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming.
36:22I don't know, like, it's more of a me thing, this now, like, for now, that's as far as
36:36I can go.
36:37You've hit, like, a bit of a wall with it.
36:39Yeah.
36:40Okay.
36:41I do want to revisit this.
36:45Okay.
36:46Okay.
36:47That makes them happy.
37:00With Alex unable to continue, the couple's stay at the retreat has come to an end.
37:11Going forward, I do think open up the relationship is for me and Alana, but it's
37:17going to take time.
37:18It will take more time for me.
37:24I don't know, I feel, like, emotional now.
37:42What just happened there?
37:43I don't know.
37:44It's just the whole thing's, like, just very overwhelming, isn't it?
37:49Like...
37:50I don't know, because I don't, like, I don't know what to say.
37:57It's just, like, a very emotional few days, isn't it?
38:04The future will, at some point, be a full-open relationship, but at the moment, it's baby
38:05steps still.
38:06I love you.
38:07My house.
38:08It's just been a very overwhelming process, but I don't want to keep crying, but, like,
38:11I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:12Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought.
38:14Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles
38:15and everything that goes with it.
38:16It's not easy.
38:17But, like, I think it's just a very overwhelming process.
38:18It's just a very overwhelming process, but, um, I don't want to keep crying, but, like,
38:19I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:33Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought.
38:36Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and
38:40everything that goes with it.
38:41It's not easy, but, like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
38:47I absolutely love you to pieces, and I'm happy and glad, and I love you so much.
38:54I love you so much.
38:55It just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it, however, it's just
39:09good.
39:10If you hadn't, then why is everyone saying yes?
39:13Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence
39:18playroom.
39:19Ooh!
39:20Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean, like, you
39:25know, they see me and go, actually, no, what the fuck is that?
39:28It's what goes to my head.
39:29I know.
39:30So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time.
39:34Okay?
39:35Yeah.
39:36No pressure.
39:39They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection, a stumbling
39:46block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
39:49I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about, um, for my dick
39:58not to hurt.
39:59It goes back to a hug.
40:00Oh, hi!
40:01Hey!
40:02Oh, Hannah, give it a day!
40:03Hey!
40:04Hey!
40:05Oh, I missed it.
40:06Oh, I missed it.
40:07Isn't it it?
40:08Oh, yeah!
40:09Yeah!
40:10Look at me.
40:11Look at me.
40:12Look at me.
40:13Look at me.
40:14Look at me.
40:15Oh, I can't sleep.
40:16Oh, I can't sleep.
40:17Isn't it?
40:18Whoa.
40:19Fuck it.
40:20What?
40:23Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:26I'm feeling shocked, to be fair.
40:28My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom
40:30is comfortable, because I will get naked and run around.
40:33Like, I am the opposite of Tom.
40:40I know I want to be open, and I'm not planning on changing that.
40:44I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle,
40:47and it's Tom that is.
40:48Should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy, guys?
40:51Oh, yeah.
40:52Let's do it.
40:53I know.
40:54Yeah.
40:55Do you want to roll over it?
40:56Just relax.
40:57Put a blindfold on.
40:58And nice, nice, nice.
41:00Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:03It's basically just taking a top off, aren't you?
41:04Mm-hmm.
41:07I feel weird that I can't see you, bro.
41:09Mm-hmm.
41:10I definitely want to make Lauren happy.
41:13And we'll try anything.
41:15Like, jump this hurdle, basically.
41:17But once it's in my head, I can't afford it.
41:20I freeze.
41:21Once I'm in that rut, I can't get out of the rut.
41:24How are you feeling, mate?
41:26It's weird, but...
41:28You're getting worshipped.
41:29You're getting all the attention.
41:31This is my favourite thing.
41:33I'm working.
41:34I'm working.
41:35I'm working.
41:36I'm working.
41:37This is my favourite thing.
41:38I'm working.
41:38I'm working.
41:39That's definitely a bit too overwhelming.
41:40lets the ladies lead just let us know if it gets a bit too overwhelming
41:59it was putting shivers down my spine i could feel everything
42:11i feel absolutely petrified and sick
42:19next time on open house are you ready for the next level
42:26i feel absolutely petrified yeah is it okay to kiss it's two guys back in there
42:36i have identified as gay today i don't know i've been feeling very naughty never had any experience
42:47with gaming before the worst case now would be reacting in a way which i'm not expecting
42:53this is out of my comfort area for sure
43:06so
43:11you
43:11you
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