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00:00I married with Garrick.
00:02Now, I am Meryl Fields.
00:05I think there's still a lot of settling in to do.
00:09I'm wondering how the future's gonna look for all of us.
00:14Has everything been going good? You want some tea on him?
00:17Give me the tea on...
00:18Or the D.
00:21I am feeling jealous.
00:22There is a bit of me that's like,
00:24oof, someone's getting a little...
00:26I'm sorry.
00:27I'm excited.
00:28She really shows facial expressions,
00:30that she's not comfortable.
00:32I want to believe that she won't be jealous,
00:34but we never know.
00:37How did it go last night?
00:40The conversation with Jackie regarding my boundary
00:43with Yesel not having a baby with another woman
00:46didn't turn out the way we wanted.
00:48Did she basically end things with us?
00:50Yes.
00:51Well, that sucks now, doesn't it?
00:55I don't think after tonight
00:57I want to pursue a relationship with you.
00:59So that's her.
01:01She broke up with us.
01:06Okay.
01:07I haven't told my family about our relationship dynamic.
01:11They're extremely opinionated.
01:14But with Shanae being gone,
01:16I might need to lean on my family.
01:18The way that you are about yourself, Teresa,
01:22it's causing disruptions in the harmony of our situation overall.
01:27I think they are getting tired of me running away
01:31and not addressing the issues when they bring them up.
01:34We have reached a sort of a crossroads.
01:37I know.
01:38I got you.
01:39I'm going to go take a moment.
01:41I'm sitting here trying to have an adult conversation.
01:43If you want to get up and act all flustered, all extra,
01:46just get the up and go then.
01:48All right, you ready?
01:49We're heading straight for that bar.
01:50I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curry.
01:55Why am I so anxious?
01:56Today is our second date with Randy and Billy's coming with.
01:59All right, you ready?
02:08We're heading straight for that bar.
02:11I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curry.
02:14Why are you so anxious?
02:16Today is our second date with Randy, and Billy's coming with.
02:20And I'm super excited to see her again and kind of see where her head's at and where this is all heading.
02:27How are you doing?
02:29Hey, I'm doing great.
02:30How about yourself?
02:30Good.
02:31Good, good, good.
02:32We're going to start with a shot.
02:33Yeah, I guess we'll go big or go home.
02:37I want tequila.
02:38And whiskey, please.
02:39All right.
02:40Now that these feelings of jealousy have hit me, I'm anxious to see Randy again.
02:48But at the same time, Reese is super excited.
02:51I don't want to let him down.
02:53He's already got emotions invested.
02:55And obviously, he sees something in her.
02:58Cheers.
02:59Cheers.
03:01So, I want to give it a shot.
03:04My favorite.
03:07Give us.
03:07Oh, my gosh.
03:08Oh, careful, careful, careful.
03:10All right.
03:11Go first.
03:12Oh, I get to go first?
03:13Yeah.
03:13How are you feeling?
03:14Well, I'm really anxious.
03:16So, I mean, obviously, she's kind of interested.
03:20I don't know how this is going to go.
03:22Just pull off the Band-Aid.
03:23I did.
03:25I did it.
03:26Good job.
03:27How about you?
03:27How are you feeling?
03:28I'm more concerned about you.
03:30We just have to make sure we're on the same page, you know?
03:35Hello.
03:35Hello.
03:36Hey.
03:37How are you?
03:38Good to see you.
03:40Hello.
03:41You doing okay?
03:43You doing okay?
03:43Yeah.
03:44Yeah, I'm doing okay.
03:45You guys are playing Jenga.
03:46You're playing a game.
03:48So, I had a great time with Reese on the first date.
03:52He seems like a great guy, but there are some concerns that I have with Billy that I think
03:58need to definitely be addressed.
04:00So, how's the babies?
04:02How's the kids?
04:03Good.
04:04Getting big.
04:05Oh, my gosh.
04:06They're so cute.
04:06It's crazy.
04:07I was looking at pictures from a year ago, and they just look so different.
04:10It's only a year.
04:12So, how are you guys feeling, like, with everything's...
04:17I feel like, um, like, I love being able to get to know you and, like, being able to message
04:22you, and, because now, like, you totally understand him, so I have somebody that I can relate to.
04:27I know, like, she's had some questions, too.
04:30Yeah, and me, too.
04:31And, um...
04:32Shoot, ask away.
04:33Yeah, I was just wondering, like, how you feel about some things, because it felt like last
04:40time we met that maybe you were uncomfortable.
04:43Got the vibe that maybe it was just, like, not for you, or you weren't sure about me, or just the
04:52whole situation in general.
04:57I really didn't even want to come back.
05:01Oh.
05:02I about...
05:03I, like, basically wanted to cut off contact because of it.
05:08Because of my reaction?
05:09Yeah.
05:10Me?
05:10Oh, okay.
05:11Knowing that Billy did feel jealous, I'm not surprised that Randy is feeling this way.
05:19I would be really disappointed if we had to end things with Randy because of these feelings.
05:26I mean, we've put all this effort.
05:28I have put a lot of emotion, a lot of time and energy, and for it to all just kind of be
05:33flushed away is...
05:35...really defeating.
05:37This is why Mommy's a nurse and not a cake decorator.
05:55I'm going to let it slide because you're cute.
06:02Are you excited for Daddy to come home?
06:04Mommy.
06:05Today's finally the day.
06:07Yessel comes home, and I'm super excited.
06:10But I would say this homecoming feels a little bit more awkward than most because we need
06:17to address that things didn't work out with Jackie, which sucks a little bit.
06:23Daddy's going to be home in, like, 45 minutes, dude.
06:28So Mommy's got to get cooking, okay?
06:29I don't want negative feelings to fester or, like, resentment or anything.
06:35It feels like it might be a little bit in that arena, which is scary.
06:44So I feel like...
06:46I kind of, like...
06:48This is why I'm excited for your Daddy to be home.
06:56It's been a long couple of days of traveling.
07:07I am jet-lagged.
07:08Also, I am feeling a little bit cranky about how it was handled with Jackie.
07:17We've had our struggle with seeking a sister-wife, obviously.
07:21It just didn't really work out with Jackie.
07:23So it's just one of those things that it sucks, especially because it happened while I was away.
07:32Shortly after Danny and Jackie had that conversation, Jackie did reach out to me.
07:37She immediately let me know how very disappointed she was.
07:43Danny and I haven't really talked about what happened at that dinner or after.
07:48I am feeling a little bit bitter.
07:52We have to really hash this out.
07:54So we're back on the same page.
07:57And just...
07:58There's no more awkwardness between us.
08:01Daddy.
08:02Hi, boy.
08:04Oh, my goodness!
08:05Go get home!
08:06No, no, no, no, no, no, no!
08:08Hi, Bobby.
08:09Good job!
08:09Hi!
08:10Good job!
08:11I am so excited to see Danny and the boys.
08:32Coming home is always one of the best days of the year, I guess one could say.
08:44Oh, yeah.
08:46Thank you, babe.
08:47You're welcome.
08:49Good luck.
08:50I'm about to bust this food down.
08:51I am really hungry.
08:52Mm-hmm.
08:53This is mine.
08:55Where's your guys' food?
08:57Okay.
08:58Did you make some for you?
09:00You know how hard I worked making all of that with your two children running around in
09:04the kitchen?
09:04With, like, no other adult help?
09:07I mean...
09:08What?
09:11To be fair.
09:11Mm-hmm.
09:12We could have had a little adult help.
09:17Mm.
09:18You know.
09:18Mm-hmm.
09:22JJ, JJ, JJ.
09:25No, no.
09:25I could have.
09:31Watch that one, huh?
09:33Are you mad about it?
09:34Are you...
09:35I mean, I'm a little...
09:37I'm a little pissed about it.
09:38It happened while I was away.
09:40I wasn't really there to even try to remedy this situation.
09:45I wasn't there to try to support you in this situation.
09:47Right.
09:48So, it sucked.
09:50This is supposed to be a happy time.
09:57I just feel like you're a little hangry, and you should probably eat.
10:00We will talk about it later, when we can sit down, focus, full bellies, kids asleep.
10:06Okay.
10:07Well, let's give them a nap while I eat some food.
10:09Okay.
10:10I think in an ideal world, Yessel would want Jackie here to welcome him home.
10:18I don't like feeling like I let someone down.
10:22And just, like, knowing that, you know, maybe I could have prevented the ending of everything.
10:31Kind of feels like I took it away from him, so.
10:34It's just emotional.
10:35I'm, like, disappointed in myself a little bit.
10:37We let Danielle come in, and we let Vera call her mommy.
10:47And then she left.
10:49I don't want to do that again with Teresa.
10:53It's just enough is enough at this point.
10:57There's been some things going on in my family.
11:00I am scared to let my family in on this, because it can go either way.
11:06What is it then?
11:07I want us to be able to have fun and enjoy Jenny's pregnancy and enjoy each other's company.
11:29All the time.
11:30And if every single time we try to talk to her about her...
11:34Self-destructiveness.
11:35Right.
11:35Her self-destructiveness.
11:36Let's go ahead and call it what it is.
11:37Right.
11:37Her self-destruction.
11:38Every time we try to talk to her, she runs away, and then we never get to talk about it,
11:43and then she'll try to come back and act like nothing ever happened.
11:46You know, I love Teresa very much.
11:49We all do.
11:49She's got a special place in our heart, and she's made a place in our family.
11:55I mean, we'd like to have a place for her and our family.
11:57But it's been eight or nine months that we've had to constantly revisit these same issues,
12:04these same topics that she finds herself stuck on and able to move past.
12:09This is not the energy or the mode that we want to sustain.
12:18All we've done is try to help, making sure that she feels secure and...
12:25Supported.
12:25...try to help her cancel out all of those negative, you know, self-talk moments.
12:32I don't want to have that constant energy in the house of being like, oh...
12:36Right, right.
12:37You know what I mean?
12:38Walking on eggshells, worried about if somebody's...
12:40Going to trigger her.
12:42Right, something's going to upset her.
12:43Right.
12:44I mean, and I guess if she's just going to always run away, then maybe we need to just let her run away.
12:49Yeah.
12:50And not keep trying to pull her back in.
12:54It's 100% about Teresa's relationship with herself.
13:00That is the trouble.
13:02Mm-hmm.
13:02There's nothing we can do to help her address the relationship she has inside.
13:10And the thing is, is the baby's going to be here in a few weeks.
13:13And it breaks my heart because we're so concerned about making sure Teresa feels good.
13:19We can't even enjoy Jenny's pregnancy, and I just don't want to keep doing that.
13:24It's like maybe just, you know, keep giving her a chance, and give her a chance, and like, you know, she'll work through it.
13:36But at the same time, we're at the point that we're at, you know, and so that's what's...
13:42That's what has me really torn, you know?
13:44It's like, especially coming up on having a baby, it's like, you know, maybe...
13:50Maybe I'm being too hard, you know?
13:53Maybe it's not a big deal.
13:54Like, maybe, like, I'm overreacting and stuff like that.
13:57It's upsetting and concerning to me for my two beautiful wives to be all emotional and upset.
14:07And I'm really not happy about that at all.
14:13We let Danielle come in, and we let Vera call her mommy, you know, and then she left.
14:19And so it's like, I don't want to do that again with Teresa, and have my child get attached just for you to leave, because you can't get your f*** together.
14:32Yeah.
14:34It's just enough is enough at this point.
14:37Either she's going to commit herself to doing the internal work that she needs to do to help herself heal, or she's not going to be here.
14:49Today I'm going over to my mom's house.
15:06I'm going to be meeting with my mom, my sister Chastity, my Auntie Pumpkin, and my Auntie Tiffany,
15:13so that I can share that me and Matt, we had this polygamous relationship.
15:20Hey.
15:21Do you know what you're ready for a shot?
15:22Here, here.
15:23Um, shot o'clock?
15:24Yeah, I'll take one.
15:24Shot o'clock.
15:25Two or three years ago, I told Chastity that we had this relationship,
15:33but I think I've decided now, after three years, to let my family in on our secret, on our life,
15:41because we just broke up with Shanae, and I'm hurting.
15:47Right now, I need my family more than ever.
15:51I don't have that extra support to lean on in my relationship, because Matt is also hurting.
15:57He doesn't know how to process my pain and his own.
16:03Shot o'clock.
16:04Shot o'clock.
16:05Shot o'clock.
16:10She's so stupid, I swear.
16:12What?
16:12Sorry.
16:13What you been up to, Angelica?
16:15Nothing, just working.
16:16Mm-hmm.
16:17Raising these kids.
16:18Mm, I'm raising these kids.
16:19Trying.
16:19My family is very judgmental.
16:24They're extremely opinionated.
16:27I am scared to let my family in on this, because it can go either way.
16:33All right, Jeff, go ahead and explain the game, because some of them don't know.
16:37You have to see, you have to put it in the center.
16:40R, you pass it to the right.
16:42Left, you pass it to the left.
16:47There you go.
16:48Center and right.
16:48Oh, I got one back.
16:50All right, so the reason why, you know, I wanted to talk to you guys.
16:54Don't make me fall.
16:55There's been some things going on in, you know, my house, my family.
17:00You can have just one more baby.
17:02No, no more kids.
17:03Where is it?
17:04Where is it then?
17:05So.
17:12Matt and I have actually been dating.
17:16You saw you swinging someone else.
17:19No, girl, don't tell me that.
17:21What, you swing?
17:22Yes!
17:23But we're not swingers.
17:24We're not swingers.
17:25Let her talk.
17:26Yeah.
17:27We're not swingers.
17:29Matt and I have been dating some, a woman and.
17:33What?
17:34As a sister wife.
17:35As a sister wife.
17:36Oh, hell no.
17:37Oh, hell no.
17:40What?
17:41I don't get it.
17:42I don't know what you're saying to me.
17:44I don't know either.
17:44What she's saying?
17:45So essentially, Matt has a second, he has a girlfriend or a second wife.
17:50Do you have a girlfriend?
17:50You sign, you, you're signing up to be, you know, like you're, you and Matt.
17:56Is this the wife, like on TV?
17:57You and Matt are married.
17:59Yes!
17:59Shh.
18:00Yes.
18:01You and Matt are married.
18:02I lost your mom.
18:03You and Matt got married.
18:04How long have you been married?
18:05Since 2019.
18:06Okay.
18:07How you sign up to be a side chick?
18:11You're married.
18:11You're okay with being a married side chick?
18:14I know you love him, but you know what?
18:16I can promise you his ain't that good.
18:18I know.
18:18He don't even got that much money.
18:19It was actually my idea.
18:21Help us, Jesus.
18:24Why?
18:30It doesn't have anything to do with sex.
18:32It's not fueled by sex.
18:34Not for you?
18:35Why?
18:36Why?
18:36Why did you bring it up, though?
18:38Why?
18:39Because I, I'm, I want the relationship.
18:42I want the relationship dynamic, the friendship, the camaraderie.
18:46With Matt or the girl?
18:46No, with the other girl.
18:47You want a friend, so you're going to find a side chick for Matt?
18:51No, no.
18:52Because you're the side chick.
18:53No.
18:55I don't know how she got to this point where she thinks it's okay to find another, a replacement
19:01for herself, because that's what it is.
19:03I love Matt.
19:06I love my son-in-law.
19:07But I just don't think he's worth any of this.
19:13Angelica, whatever happened to just having an affair?
19:17Yeah.
19:18He's throwing that all in your face.
19:20You know what I mean?
19:21Why can't he just have an affair?
19:24Because an affair doesn't involve a full relationship.
19:27Oh, it does.
19:28Like, do you think, okay, do you think he will allow you?
19:32I don't want to be with anyone else.
19:35Yes, you do.
19:35But him, she loves him.
19:36She just wants to make him happy.
19:38That's the way I'm thinking.
19:41I can't say nothing, because the stuff I'm going to say, you're not going to like.
19:45Oh, yeah.
20:01Hey, babe.
20:07Hey.
20:08Boys are down after about seven books.
20:12Two bedtime songs.
20:14The usual.
20:15That looks nice.
20:17Ooh.
20:17A little hot.
20:18A little bit.
20:19A little got me.
20:19Since Yassil's been home, there's definitely some tension in the air.
20:24I can tell he's upset.
20:26A little more paper doesn't hurt.
20:28I think he's pissed.
20:30I know he's pissed.
20:34I want to touch some grass with my toes, because the last three months, I feel like I need to
20:40be grounded.
20:42The last few months have felt very long.
20:46While I was away, Jackie and I were video calling, messaging, on a pretty regular basis.
20:53Things were going well.
20:54I feel like we had a strong bond.
20:56I felt pretty close to her.
20:58And then in one day, it just blew up.
21:02What happened at that dinner?
21:05What exactly happened?
21:06There it is.
21:07You still a little spicy?
21:09Obviously, things completely fell apart.
21:12Right.
21:13So.
21:13We had the conversation about the no kid thing.
21:17Like, I'm just not comfortable with her having a biological child with you.
21:21What did she say when you brought that up?
21:23I just feel like she was a little too shell-shocked.
21:27And she definitely thought it was unfair.
21:30I feel like, you know, woman to woman, I feel like maybe she could have took it as you asserting
21:42almost like some sort of dominance or something.
21:45She could have took it as a threat.
21:46You don't know.
21:48I could have possibly been the buffer there.
21:50It sounds like her problem.
21:52If you were there, that boundary is not going to change.
21:59Okay, so this is not a her problem.
22:04It's not a her problem.
22:06I wonder every day if Danny really wants this.
22:16I have kept a lot of my opinions to myself.
22:19And I feel like maybe it wasn't the wisest choice to completely let her, you know, give
22:25her the reins.
22:26And I am regretting not being more vocal with my concerns initially.
22:32I don't feel like it.
22:32I just kind of want to ask, like, is it, is it, do you still want to do this?
22:36Or is it the boundary awaited for you to, like, sabotage?
22:42Kind of like the relationship.
22:45So.
22:48You got to look at it from somebody else's point of view.
22:51You're a person coming into an established marriage, an established family.
22:56If somebody's telling you, you cannot have biological kids with my husband.
23:03I mean, wouldn't you see that as a major red flag?
23:06Like, what, what else?
23:07Are they trying to control me, you know?
23:12It's not about control.
23:15Like, it's not, I could, I could see how it would seem unfair to someone.
23:19Absolutely.
23:19And I get that.
23:20But this is not like a new boundary just because it's her.
23:23Is it something that, is it fair to me?
23:27Because, obviously, I want more kids.
23:32Oh, I feel like that's another discussion to have.
23:35And where, we can have it right now.
23:37Do you think it's fair to you?
23:51Just, just, just a thought in my head is all it is.
23:54Well, if I could give you more, I would.
23:55Oh, I know you would.
23:56I just, like I've said multiple times, like, I just don't, my journey's over with it.
24:02My body's done.
24:03My heart is not.
24:04So, to watch another woman have what I want so bad, I can't do that.
24:15I can't do that.
24:17I believe if someone wants this dynamic with us that bad, then they would, you know, be
24:30willing to compromise.
24:35Can you live without having more biological children?
24:38Yeah, absolutely can.
24:47I mean, I have our three boys, I have you, and we're perfectly happy.
24:53I'm perfectly happy.
24:54Okay.
24:54I am more than prepared to sacrifice having another child for the sake of my family, my
25:03boys, and my wife's happiness.
25:07All right, give me this.
25:14During this, during this process, I feel like I've been giving you more of the reins and,
25:19you know, with Jackie and all that.
25:21And I feel like it possibly bit us in the ass, maybe if we are more together in all of it.
25:36I just realized we both kind of did the same thing, in different ways.
25:41Irony!
25:43You know, we got to learn lessons the hard way.
25:46It's true.
25:46During our first attempt at seeking, Yesel took the reins, and I took a back seat, and
25:55it, it blew up in her face.
25:58The second time around, Yesel let me take the reins because I feel like he felt a little
26:03bit guilty, and it blew up in her face again.
26:07We're one for one each.
26:08Dead even one for one.
26:10Yes, we are.
26:10Okay.
26:11Knowing that we're both learning from our mistakes is reassuring, and now it's even.
26:18Moving forward, we should definitely bring up the baby subject in the beginning, you know?
26:24We.
26:24We.
26:25Together.
26:26Together.
26:26So it's not just one person delivering that very big piece, especially if we know it's
26:32somebody that's definitely interested in having a child, you know?
26:37Put it in our profile.
26:39It's just one of those things I feel like we need to be really upfront about.
26:42Right.
26:43I have learned that keeping quiet doesn't work because emotions are very loud.
26:49And this is for everybody out there.
26:53If your relationship is not solid, on solid freaking ground, try and polygamy out.
26:59It is not for the faint of heart.
27:02No.
27:03No.
27:03Mm-mm.
27:04As long as we commit to being on the same page with each other, then I feel like, you know,
27:12third time might be the charm.
27:14Might be.
27:14Or fourth, fifth, third, sixth.
27:16We're not going to speak.
27:17We're not going to do that.
27:22This experience has made our relationship better.
27:26Learning how to just slow things down a little bit, finding more of those compromises that
27:31we never thought we'd have to make.
27:33Right.
27:34As many times as it takes.
27:36Jesus.
27:39Okay.
27:40I think our needle and haystack is out there.
27:43How far out there?
27:47No idea.
27:48I don't think it'll be easy.
27:51But I'm looking for a lifelong bond with someone.
27:55You don't take the easy road to get that.
27:57Hot young couple, done with kids, but looking for a sister-wise.
27:59You're not wrong.
28:04I am hoping third time is the charm, and we hit a home run.
28:09But in the back of my mind, all I'm thinking is, does she really want to do this?
28:14We'll see what happens.
28:14Well, I'm about done stroking this fire.
28:21Stoke.
28:21Stroke this fire.
28:22I'm going to stroke that fire.
28:24Can we go inside now?
28:24Okay.
28:26How do I know you're not just going to run away with my husband?
28:31I just really hope that Billy can get her feelings in check, because I like Randy.
28:36I felt like last time we met that maybe you were uncomfortable, because, I mean, basically
28:59it was jealousy.
29:01I really didn't even want to come back.
29:03Because of my reaction, because of me.
29:07Okay.
29:12I don't know.
29:13I wanted to talk to you about that a little bit more, if we could, and just make sure.
29:18I've got to run the restroom, so I'm going to leave you ladies so you can sit and chat
29:22for a minute, okay?
29:23All right.
29:26I just really hope that Billy can get her feelings in check, because I like Randy.
29:30I see something there, but this relationship has to work for Billy as well.
29:35So I'm just going to excuse myself and let them talk amongst themselves, because there
29:41are going to be a lot of tough conversations in the future if we do move forward with this.
29:45So I think this will definitely be a test for them to see, I mean, if they're compatible
29:50in this journey.
29:53So...
29:54So...
29:54How do you think that you will handle the jealousy if we do bond and click?
30:03Because I'm not fully convinced right now that you would be able to deal with that.
30:13So one of my biggest fears is how do I know you're not just going to run away with my husband?
30:19What if my husband ends up loving you more?
30:24Because everything is, you know, shiny, it's new, it's fun, and I'm not.
30:30I'm what's been here before, you know what I mean?
30:33Old news.
30:33Like, yeah, like the old news.
30:36I wouldn't do that.
30:39I mean, I can understand those fears.
30:42I don't want to ruin anything that you guys have, you know?
30:45Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't be human, I think, if I didn't have some sort of emotion, you
30:50know what I mean?
30:51I totally agree with that, too.
30:53Like, having all those emotions and fears is natural.
30:57So I know you have your fears, but I have mine, too.
31:03And how, you know, am I supposed to know that I'm not always going to be second?
31:10Yeah, and that's totally legitimate.
31:12And I've told Reese I don't like, like, the terms, like, first wife, second wife,
31:17because I don't want there to be a hierarchy among people.
31:22It's all, it's all of our relationship.
31:25Like, yeah, we got married first, and I understand that, like, when we have history.
31:29But that's why we're going slow and dating, is to build up that rapport,
31:34so that you guys can be just as comfortable.
31:36You have very valid fears, you know?
31:40And as long as we go slow and steady and everyone's comfortable,
31:44I think we'll be on the path to the right way.
31:47Because, I mean, those fears that you have of being kicked out
31:50is the same fears that I have, you know, of being kicked out.
31:53I'm glad that we were able to have this conversation and talk about these things,
32:00because that's really reassuring that things could work, you know?
32:05I'm definitely glad that we had this conversation.
32:10There you go, ladies.
32:12Oh, I'm starving.
32:13Randy seems really receptive to everything I'm saying, which is a good quality.
32:17You know, I want to be able to have a sister wife that I can talk to
32:20and ask hard questions or have hard conversations.
32:23So I feel like it's definitely a good thing.
32:28No, look who's here.
32:29Hey.
32:30Oh, there he is.
32:31Food is here.
32:32Food is here.
32:33Sorry, I was talking.
32:34The man, the myth, the legend.
32:35That's right.
32:38So after, I mean, I guess, so where do we stand?
32:43Like, where are we going from here?
32:46I think that we can continue to talk and see where, explore it,
32:52see where things go, and hopefully it will work out.
32:58Okay, cool.
32:59Okay, I was kind of nervous.
33:00I was like, oh, my God.
33:01I know, I give up vibes, but I promise I'm okay.
33:06I'm really satisfied with the way she handled my concerns.
33:11I feel better knowing that she's willing to communicate and hear my side, too.
33:17And I'm excited to see where this goes, because they're great people.
33:23And Reese is cute.
33:25And he gets cuter, too.
33:27Like, he's one of those people that's like, you get to know their personality, and they get...
33:31So, it's good.
33:33He's so fun.
33:34All right, so what are we thinking for the third date, then?
33:39So we're going to do a third date?
33:40I mean...
33:41Traveling park.
33:42That's what I was thinking.
33:43All right.
33:43Okay.
33:44And...
33:45We're going to do it.
33:46I was really nervous that it wasn't going to happen.
33:49I don't want Billy to be uncomfortable or feeling jealous.
33:53I don't want our relationship to go negatively and get worse while a relationship with someone
33:59else is getting better and forming.
34:02So, you're going to have to speak up, obviously, and then we can address it.
34:13Entend you?
34:14Gravita, dois.
34:15Dois.
34:15No gravita, un.
34:16No gravita, un.
34:17Okay.
34:18If Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.
34:21We're tied to her for life.
34:23Hi, Rob.
34:25No, I'm sister.
34:29Where were you when he met this girl and went on a date?
34:39So, if you let me explain, I can put all that out there.
34:45About three years ago...
34:46Are you kidding me?
34:48We met her on a dating app.
34:50No, he met her, not me.
34:51No, no, we met her on a dating app.
34:54Okay.
34:54I created his dating profile.
34:57I helped him write the biography.
34:59I was the one that was swiping through the photos, and I was the one, I liked her profile.
35:08For him?
35:09For him.
35:11Her name is Shanae.
35:12You know, she's been a great friend to me, and, like, a support system, a sister.
35:18What is this about you don't have a support system?
35:20You need to bring this bitch in because you need support?
35:22When your sister's right across the street, I'm always around the corner.
35:27What do you need support for?
35:29For what?
35:30For Matt?
35:31No, it's more than that.
35:33What?
35:33What is it?
35:34It's a different relationship.
35:36She and I are experiencing the same thing.
35:39We're going through the same thing.
35:41What?
35:41What you're going through?
35:42And it's, like, a frustration with Matt.
35:47She understands how, you know, how he can be and how...
35:50How?
35:51How?
35:51Because they're in a relationship as well.
35:54My understanding is she's looking for her village, her support system.
36:02She has it right here.
36:03I know.
36:04I said it in front of me and hurt my feelings, but when she explained it to me...
36:07That came out of your mouth right now was supportive.
36:10I...
36:10We're in shock!
36:14It does bother me and hurt me to see her sad and tearing up and holding back her feelings.
36:19At the end of the day, I'm not okay with this, but I am okay with my sister's happiness.
36:25So, um, we actually just got broken up with by Shanae.
36:31Good.
36:32And, um...
36:33And you're sad?
36:34I am sad.
36:35Who gives a f*** if she left?
36:37And it's still not going to be you and your husband like it shouldn't be.
36:40And your kids.
36:41But I've developed a really good and close relationship with her and friendship.
36:44That's fine.
36:44You can still be her friend.
36:45You can still be her friend.
36:46Well, that's...
36:46You can be your best friend.
36:47You know?
36:48That's what I was getting at.
36:49Okay.
36:49Okay.
36:50What?
36:50She's...
36:51You guys are...
36:51You and her are going to still be friends?
36:54Hopefully, yeah.
36:56You know, this...
36:57There was a lot of love and a lot of...
37:00A lot that went into this.
37:02I'm in a lot of pain.
37:04You know, I am in a lot of pain.
37:05I'm hurting.
37:06And I'm looking for my community, my support system.
37:10And I'm coming to you guys asking for that.
37:14That's why I'm here today.
37:16That's...
37:16I love you.
37:17That's what I need.
37:19I don't agree with any of this stuff you're doing, but I'll be here for you.
37:30You can maintain her friendship.
37:32Just keep her out of your bed.
37:34At this point, I'm completely over even attempting to have a conversation with them.
37:39Maybe this wasn't the best way to go about telling my family about our situation.
37:49It just reminds me why we're on this journey.
37:52And if anything, it's pushing me to continue down this path even more.
37:59I...
38:00I...
38:00I need Shaday.
38:04I...
38:04I cannot lose her.
38:06Okay, sister.
38:19You, Pippi.
38:20Mm-hmm.
38:21Un, dois, tres, cuatro, cinco.
38:24Aquí.
38:25This.
38:26This.
38:26No, gosh.
38:27Oh, God.
38:27You, Pippi.
38:28You, Pippi.
38:29Yeah.
38:30Three weeks after Lorena and Garrick got married, Garrick and my brother Sam ended up having
38:35to go out to Wisconsin to help my grandma with some remodel work for her house that she's
38:40trying to sell.
38:41Cap e flat.
38:42Necessito.
38:43Yeah, sim.
38:44Necessito.
38:45So, shortly after Garrick left for Wisconsin with my brother, Lorena realized she was a
38:53little bit late with her period.
38:55E...
38:56Grávida?
38:57Dois.
38:58Entende?
38:59Grávida?
39:00Dois.
39:01No, grávida.
39:02No, grávida.
39:03No, grávida.
39:04Okay.
39:05Eu sempre quis engravidar, mas não que eu quisesse engravidar tão rápido chegando
39:11aqui.
39:12Eu estou um pouco preocupada, realmente, se eu estiver grávida, porque vai ser muita mudança.
39:20Principalmente, eu ainda não estar nativa no idioma do inglês e ter um bebê e também
39:27a minha família longe de mim me deixa um pouco preocupada se vai mudar as coisas muito,
39:34tanto pra mim e pro Garrick, mas também pra família.
39:38Oh, meu Deus.
39:40Lorena's only been in the USA for three months, and Garrick and her literally just got married
39:45like three weeks ago, so everything is really happening fast.
39:49To be honest, everything with the relationship with Lorena has happened fast.
39:53Immigration, like, it's kind of surreal how fast everything is going.
39:57Let's see it out.
39:59How do I do?
40:00Garrick and I have never been to this point in polygamy where he's having a child with
40:05another woman, and so I really don't know how I'm going to feel.
40:10The reality is that if Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.
40:14We're tied to her for life.
40:16So I'm fine, Lorena.
40:19No, I'm just...
40:21Okay, any minute now she should be here.
40:24I have no idea what to expect from this conversation, this interaction we're about to have with Teresa.
40:29Oh, she's here.
40:31I just hope that we can all leave from this experience still being friends at the very least.
40:38I see my house over here.
40:47I see her house over here.
40:50I feel like we're getting really close to having our dream, you know, our village, our family.
40:55Now, would you be okay, though, knowing I'm right next door with a sister wife?
41:03How are you?
41:04I'm doing all right.
41:06You?
41:07Yeah.
41:08I went with Matt to see another woman, and I didn't tell Shanae.
41:13I think what broke the camel's back for me is, you met this person.
41:18I'm not ready to lose her at all.
41:20I'm angry, Angelica.
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