00:00How did you make a marriage?
00:05How did you make a marriage?
00:08I always tell Lucy,
00:10I'm very fortunate that you're my husband
00:14because I'm a better man now.
00:16I'm more mellow.
00:18And then when it comes to decision-making,
00:21I really take my time more to come up with the decision.
00:25No.
00:26How do you say it?
00:28What's the proper word?
00:30Ah.
00:31Yes.
00:32You can decide. I'll finish it.
00:34Sometimes you're very aggressive.
00:36Right. Yes.
00:37Very aggressive.
00:38Sometimes reckless.
00:39Reckless.
00:40Yes.
00:41I think that's a better word.
00:42I didn't think about it.
00:44When I married Lucy, I became mellow.
00:47Yes.
00:49Wasn't it a problem that you were a superstar for Lucy?
00:53That she had to...
00:54She's very beautiful.
00:56I mean, the first time I saw Lucy,
00:58I remember when she was doing commercials.
00:59I said,
01:00I'm like,
01:01I'm not really beautiful.
01:03Really beautiful.
01:04But was that a problem to Lucy?
01:06That you were the Richard Gomez?
01:09Ah, it was not a problem with Lucy.
01:11What I thought was,
01:13at one point,
01:14before we got married,
01:16I thought,
01:17yung mga fans is seloso eh.
01:18Oh.
01:19Or selosa.
01:20Oh.
01:21Diba?
01:22Richard Gomez,
01:23may love to you.
01:24Snokey Sarnash,
01:25Sharon Cuneta,
01:26Don Silueta,
01:27yung mga gano'n.
01:28I thought,
01:29how will people react
01:30if,
01:31si Lucy yung mapapangasawa ko,
01:32inisip ko rin yung one time.
01:33Okay.
01:34Magsiselos ba yung mga fans?
01:35But alam mo,
01:36natuwa naman ako kasi,
01:38the reaction of most people
01:40were very positive.
01:42Sabi lang,
01:43uy,
01:44ganda naman ni Lucy,
01:45bagay kayo.
01:46Alam mo yung tao,
01:47unat nating dinan yung appearance eh,
01:48yung physical,
01:49before nating dinan yung ugali mo,
01:51yung pagkatao mo.
01:52I should be asking Lucy this,
01:54pero ano yung tingin ni Lucy sa'yo noon?
01:56Eh si Lucy kasi eh,
01:58she's a,
01:59she's,
02:00she was a fan.
02:01Talagang,
02:02Richard Gomez fan siya.
02:04Ah, talaga?
02:05Oo, in love talaga siya sa akin.
02:06Lagi niya sabi,
02:07alam mo,
02:0812 years old pa lang ako,
02:09in love na ako sa'yo.
02:10Sa'yo,
02:11ang swerte ko naman.
02:12Di ko alam yun?
02:13Oo.
02:14Oo.
02:15So, at a very young age,
02:16high school pa lang siya,
02:17pag pumipirman na siya gano'n,
02:18Lucy Torres Gomez na siya noon.
02:20Di ba?
02:21Ha?
02:22Ang swerte ko, di ba?
02:23Ang galing.
02:24Ang swerte ko talaga.
02:25Marunong mag-manifest.
02:26Oo.
02:27Siya.
02:28Ang gagawin mo?
02:29Lucy Torres Gomez.
02:30Ang galing.
02:31Okay.
02:32So, we have to be very careful with what we say.
02:34Correct.
02:35The power.
02:36Our words are very powerful.
02:37I agree.
02:38Kumusta ka bilang asawa?
02:40Ako?
02:41Mabait naman ako ng asawa.
02:43May-may takot ka sa asawa mo?
02:45In a way, yes.
02:46Talaga?
02:47Oo.
02:48Natatakot ako na magalit siya sa akin.
02:50I don't want na magalit siya sa akin.
02:51Oo.
02:52That's takot and love.
02:53Oo.
02:54Gusto ko na, pag magkasama kami ni Lucy,
02:55gusto ko masaya lang kami.
02:57Right.
02:58But you know, we're not the perfect couple.
02:59We're not the perfect family.
03:01Also, we also have our differences.
03:03But we know how to resolve them.
03:05Oo.
03:06And, siguro yung isang natutunan ko boy,
03:08in times na may differences kami ni Lucy,
03:11you have to resolve it na kahin dalawa lang.
03:14Dapat hindi niyo sinasama yung parents niyo,
03:16o hindi mo sinasama yung kapatid mo.
03:18Because, in a lot of the people we know,
03:22na yung mag-asawa, nag-away.
03:24Sinumbong sa parents.
03:26Oo.
03:27Eh, bati na kayo eh.
03:28Galit pa yung parents sa'yo.
03:30Tama.
03:31Yung ganon.
03:32Meron din mga psychologists who believe in the idea
03:36na pag angkopos daw nag-aaway,
03:38you have to fight, resolve problems na nakahubad.
03:42Ay, saya.
03:46Sa pag-away?
03:47Hindi.
03:48Kasi mas vulnerable.
03:49Ah, ganon ba talaga?
03:51I read about that somewhere many, many years ago.
03:53I will tell Lucy.
03:55Kunyari, nag-aaway tayo.
03:56Okay.
03:57Ganito dapat natin ni-resolve yung problema natin.
04:00Ha?
04:01Sabihin mo na lang hindi galing sa akin.
04:02But you've been married for 28 years.
04:04Yes.
04:05I remember an interview with Lucy.
04:06Sabi niya,
04:07there was a point when she would pray over you.
04:10Ano yun?
04:11Ano?
04:12Eh, si Lucy kasi madasalin.
04:13Pero,
04:14so when she prays,
04:15as a couple,
04:16husband and wife,
04:17sinasama na niya ako,
04:18pinipray over niya ako na ganyan.
04:20Habang natutulog.
04:21Oh, habang natutulog ako ha.
04:22Okay.
04:23So when she prays yan,
04:24minsan nagigising ako kasi,
04:26nararamdaman mo,
04:27ang totoo!
04:28Ang totoo!
04:29Okay.
04:30Wala, pinagdadasal na ako ulit.
04:32Ganun, no?
04:33Pag halimbawa,
04:34within the marriage,
04:35may mga umali-aligid.
04:36Hindi lang sa'yo.
04:37Kahit kay Lucy.
04:38Oo.
04:39How do you guys manage that?
04:41Sa atin,
04:42in our business,
04:43in show business,
04:44grabe yung temptation, di ba?
04:46Right.
04:47Not necessarily from,
04:48from our peers,
04:49our colleagues,
04:50but you know,
04:51from outside forces.
04:52Pero siguro,
04:53there's a way of just,
04:54turning away,
04:56turning a blind eye.
04:57Ganun na lang ginagawa ko.
04:58Oh, and that love has to be bigger than that temptation.
05:01Yes.
05:02That marriage is very sacred.
05:03Oo.
05:04Pero kayo ni Lucy,
05:05bukas talaga yung pag-uusap.
05:07The line of communication namin.
05:08Yeah.
05:09Oh, very open.
05:10No matter how difficult,
05:11uh, the subject matter is,
05:12you guys talk to.
05:13We talk about it.
05:14As a matter of fact,
05:15I was so happy last night because,
05:17uh,
05:18she's,
05:19she's mayor of Ormoc.
05:20Oh.
05:21And then I'm here in Manila.
05:22Ang tagal namin nag-uusap kagabi sa phone.
05:24Sabi niya,
05:25alam mo,
05:26ang tagal natin,
05:27walang katagal na conversation sa phone.
05:28Sabi niya?
05:29Oo.
05:30Siguro, we're talking for more than an hour.
05:31Hmm.
05:32Kwento lang kami ng kwento,
05:33over the phone.
05:34Then,
05:35sa ko rin ka,
05:36it's 2 o'clock in the morning,
05:37matulog na tayo.
05:38Thank you,
05:39ma'am.
05:40Jasand san amener to the room,
05:41all right?
05:42No,
05:43sisal perfect,
05:44rowdy.
05:45Ta-ra yuk.
05:46Ta-ra yuk.
05:48Ta-ra yuk.
05:49Ta-ra yuk.
05:50Ta-ra yuk.
05:51Ta-ra yuk.
05:52Now we're talking about it.
05:53Ta-ra yuk.
05:55Ta-ra yuk o'clock in the morning,
05:57ho-clock in the morning.
05:59Ta-ra yuk.
06:00Ta-ra yuk.
06:01Ta-ra yuk.
06:02Ta-ra yuk.
06:03Ta-ra yuk.
06:04Ta-ra.
06:05Ta-ra yuk.
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