00:00You got married in Serbia, and what we noticed is you decided to be very very private about it.
00:12It's almost like the public's photos of the wedding.
00:16So you went to proof of husband and proof of wife.
00:20Tell us the story.
00:22I guess I just wanted to...
00:25It was a lot of his family and friends because they were in Serbia, and I don't know if they knew about how it is here, in showbiz, and things like that.
00:37They tend to be very private.
00:40Their culture is a lot more private than maybe Pinoy or the most online.
00:45They're kind of like the opposite.
00:48They can be very private people.
00:51So I wanted to be sensitive to their sensibilities in that regard.
00:56And it was just a small gathering.
00:59I wanted to just be present instead of...
01:02On your side, who was present?
01:04My mom and Tito Conrad.
01:06Just the two of them.
01:08But that's...
01:10What about a proof of husband and proof of wife?
01:14I mean, educate me.
01:15I don't know.
01:16I guess because...
01:18I guess what happened was that my mom posted a parang story of me.
01:24Like, picking her up from the airport.
01:26And then it got on the news and stuff.
01:28And people were kind of like...
01:32My husband's name is Alexa.
01:35So parang akala nila babae siya.
01:37It's a very common male name in Serbia.
01:39Okay.
01:39So biglang may nag-troll.
01:42And parang, you know, I just tried to have a sense of humor about it.
01:46Kasi biglang parang wala din naman akong masyadong pinupost.
01:49I guess like maybe like a poem is saying,
01:52My dad here and there and...
01:54Okay, I get it now.
01:55Yeah, oo.
01:56Because his name is Alexa.
01:58Yeah, I think people thought...
01:59People were saying that you had a lesbian relationship.
02:02Yes, oo, oo.
02:04So parang ako din biglang parang...
02:06Oh, I just kind of...
02:07Okay, I get it.
02:08...me confused.
02:09So parang...
02:10And I was like, no, he's not.
02:12So at that point may...
02:14Oh, I don't believe you.
02:15Parang wala naman akong magagawa.
02:18Parang everything I did, yung kamay niya maliit daw.
02:21Parang, you know, so parang ito.
02:23Sorry, diba?
02:25Even when I showed a picture of him,
02:26of course I had to ask him.
02:28Din naman kasi muna.
02:29Permission, yes.
02:30Are you okay with that?
02:31Ganyan.
02:32Kasi I'm not sure din how he might feel about those things.
02:35Pero ito na, medyo...
02:37The thing I was avoiding kind of parang...
02:39Inevitably, parang here's kind of how do you feel.
02:42We talk about that.
02:43Ganyan.
02:44Pero kahit anong paliwanag mo, may nasasabi pa rin ng tao.
02:46Oo, oo.
02:47Even when I showed the picture, parang...
02:49Anong sabi niya?
02:49Parang trans daw siya.
02:50Ganyan.
02:51And it's like...
02:52Parang either way, you can't win.
02:55And he's like a very, you know, masculine guy.
02:58So parang buti nilang hindi naman siya na-affect or ganun.
03:01Parang, you know, yeah.
03:03He must be very sure of himself.
03:04Guapo at paano kayo nagkakilala.
03:07He's very good looking.
03:09I think so.
03:10How would you guys meet?
03:12Online.
03:13Just online.
03:14I'd rather not specify.
03:15Ah, okay.
03:16Because like...
03:17Just because maybe it's still not safe.
03:19You know, like we just met like naturally through...
03:21It's like this.
03:22It's like what's going on.
03:23Yeah, just through like mutual interest.
03:25Because organically may nagkakilala din online.
03:28It happens more nowadays.
03:29But it's also something that can definitely still be unsafe.
03:32Right?
03:33You have to be very cautious.
03:35And I was very sobrang...
03:37Parang praning din ako.
03:38It's the right to protect whatever you want to protect.
03:41Yeah.
03:42Oh, and it's not din kasi...
03:43Parang I'm not even on the mga apps or anything like that.
03:46So I didn't know...
03:47Ano ba yung protocol dito?
03:49Paano makipag-eyeballs?
03:50How do I stay safe?
03:52Okay, maybe.
03:53Okay.
03:54I'll go there.
03:55Like a few months of talking, I was really like...
03:56Okay, I want to go there.
03:58And make sure you're real.
04:00Oh, you're so funny.
04:02Or baka makatfish ako dito.
04:04Or di ba?
04:05Parang maybe that's also why.
04:06Oh, babayo nga ba to?
04:07Diba?
04:08To be sure, di ba?
04:10And I didn't have like a picture of him or anything like that.
04:13Okay.
04:14So what you did?
04:15You went to Serbia?
04:16Yeah, a few months out of talking, we really got along.
04:19We hit it off in a way.
04:20Na parang okay, pupunta ako dito.
04:21Hindi naniwala.
04:22Hindi siya naniwala na ano.
04:24Yeah, sige.
04:25Bunda ka dito.
04:26So ito may ticket ako.
04:27Pupunta ako dyan.
04:28Dyan ka.
04:29And we met.
04:30And he was real.
04:32You know?
04:33Okay.
04:34So we hit it off and like...
04:35Selling love.
04:36Oo.
04:37Ano ang baon mo sa relasyong ito na natutunan mo sa mama at dad?
04:44I don't know.
04:45I guess parang yung communication.
04:48Ganyan.
04:49Just parang everyday they would parang check in with each other.
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