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Love Is Blind - Uk S2E2 Love Is Blind Uk Season 2 Episode 2 – Full Episode
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00:00:01I loved our first dates totally but I think there comes a time where you have
00:00:18to kind of be honest to people I have dated Cabin Crew in the past and it
00:00:24didn't work out what was it about them that didn't work I mean because it's
00:00:34just it was the way how sporadic or shifts were kind of working we tried
00:00:38really hard it just kind of fizzled out and that kind of put me off the idea
00:00:54there's so many common grounds that we've got and I get butterflies with you and I
00:01:05don't get that with every other guy it's funny because we've we found each other in
00:01:12this yeah and the thing that I feel with you is that I've got a future that I
00:01:22think could work
00:01:28I'm still at an age where I want I want kids I want I want that person oh I want
00:01:35my teammate yeah I do want to find my person that I want to marry and you know
00:01:40build a tribe with with with work there is opportunities to go on the ground so
00:01:47nine-to-five work could be in the picture if we wanted to have a family and flying
00:01:51wasn't in our it didn't suit us it obviously means a lot to me the family
00:01:59and the fact you've said that is the massive to me yeah you know I mean it's
00:02:04that was just so that that's me all over so the more we talk about this could
00:02:09work you're my strongest connection with you have I'm always smiling and you're
00:02:17the only one I've connected on and every single level yeah like whenever I come
00:02:22into a room with you you got me laughing straight away I can't stop thinking
00:02:25about going to your mess that set me wow and I just thought of you and like a
00:02:29little sexy dress on my arm just ah I can't wait
00:02:37I'd love to see you at work yeah I bet you would you're thinking about me in your
00:02:43new phone you got me all giddy I'm getting like goosebumps I think we're very
00:02:51much aligned I think I think we ought to yeah my job I don't think it is for
00:03:02everybody but with him I'm getting the feeling that it's gonna be okay I'm
00:03:07gonna touch the screen bye oh I'm falling for Billy definitely definitely
00:03:19good thing for me it's a bit of reassuring is my number one from the first day where you pick him
00:03:32between 15 girls and they're 14 good days she's still no more no she's got mad mad to think as
00:03:37well is that survivor yeah I black a rabbit that lies me it me in our family yeah Pakistan
00:03:43Indian rivalry yeah it's bad I've met I've met Indian girls before who weren't
00:03:49allowed to date Pakistani guys yeah and vice versa honestly I'm so surprised I've
00:03:59connected with somebody so fast so Rova's got her Indian heritage it's obviously very important
00:04:07to her I've got my Pakistani heritage is important to me I hope it's not gonna sort of crop up later
00:04:12and like mess things up because it feels good talking to her and it'll only get stronger
00:04:18how's your day been it's been good let's address the elephant in the room right I just wanted to
00:04:27check because it was on my mind yesterday like there's there's definitely no issues about you
00:04:30marrying guys mixed race but the other side is from Pakistan I always did have it in my head that I need
00:04:38to like make everybody proud yeah I have to make my parents proud I have to make my grandparents proud
00:04:43so for example someone whose background is sort of similar whether they're Indian or long down
00:04:51that route yeah I get you and I almost put what I was looking for so far aside yeah that I lost what
00:04:59I was actually wanting have you only dated Indian guys then yeah and I realized that I need to reset
00:05:07and going back to what does Rova want that undoing so many years of upbringing it took it took a long
00:05:15time it took some work actually my parents turn by turn did apologize to me and sat me down they said no
00:05:21you need your own experiences you shouldn't have had the pressure of what we had over the years
00:05:26honestly even my grandparents are so open and we have such mixed marriages in the family now
00:05:33putting myself first is why this is just so exciting for me
00:05:41love that special isn't it yeah do you ever like pinch yourself and think like what's happened
00:05:47remind yourself what's what's actually happening oh remind yourself of where you are
00:05:51oh for sure what baffles me I feel like even though that glass is there I feel like I'm going to be
00:05:57really attracted to you I'm I'm the feeling is so mutual we had that in it maybe there's certain type
00:06:08of energies we don't fully understand yet it's true I don't put my heart on the line for anybody
00:06:16that I'm glad it's you
00:06:21cow makes me feel so happy cow makes me feel seen and loved and heard and it's crazy all the good crazy
00:06:36so technically I've been single my whole life I've never had like a serious long-term relationship
00:06:58I live on my own right now me and my little kitten panther I'm like a the old cat lady but I'm young
00:07:03and I'm a man everyone sees my big smile it gets me indoors sometimes it gets me thrown out of
00:07:12the door sometimes I'm a trauma I don't find it difficult to date multiple women I'm very
00:07:21competitive naturally I hide your girl hide your girl bro but I don't need to compete for women
00:07:27good luck fellas hello hello ultimately I came here to find my wife they say that men that I married
00:07:39live longer I want to live a long happy life who am I talking to you um Katisha Katisha Katisha yeah it's me
00:07:50who's this Javan Javan oh that's hot I love that thank you you're making me blush cool so where you
00:07:59from I'm from Scotland okay I'm from London London London boy what is it that you do if you don't mind
00:08:08me asking um yeah I'm a nanny oh and I'm a makeup artist we're like bridal events okay so you're
00:08:16multi-tallied is what you're telling me yeah she's multi-passionate yeah what about you what do you do
00:08:20so basically I'm a health and fitness coach what got you into fitness I used to play for Crystal Palace
00:08:26oh nice yeah so I was at Palace for 10 years ages 8 to 18 and then I had a knee surgery and the surgeon
00:08:33told me that I wouldn't be able to play football again and like I always loved training so it was
00:08:38just kind of a natural progression I kind of just fell into it you must be a good teacher then I'm
00:08:42all right I'm all right I got some questions for you though oh yes hit me I got some questions for
00:08:47you so why are you here online dating man I can't cope okay I've been single for six years okay yeah I
00:08:56just feel like I'm in a really good place now and I'm ready to have something sustainable and
00:09:01something genuine why do you feel like nothing's materialized over the last six years for you I feel
00:09:05like I'm quite gentle with my heart because I've had like it messed with a few times like people that
00:09:11I thought that I trusted and I've had a bit of a traumatic breakup what happened you gotta dive into
00:09:17it you can't just skirt over that one you gotta um he was unfaithful like quite a lot and I just
00:09:25believe them like every time right I'm sorry you had to go through that oh yeah it's fine thank you
00:09:30thank you yeah it's just yeah I don't think I asked you about your family so like do you have a big
00:09:36family yeah I'm the oldest of seven wow yeah okay yeah what about you I'm the youngest of five the
00:09:44youngest yeah do you want babies yeah I want babies how many I was like anything between two and three two
00:09:52yeah yeah what about you I think the same Katisha is like a very kind spirit I feel like there's a
00:10:02lot of vulnerability there and she's someone that I could care for speak soon very soon hopefully bye
00:10:07bye bye I like Javin yeah I just felt like I caught a lot of a vibe I'm here to find someone that
00:10:18wants to get to know me like the real me I've had a few mishaps in the past I've had like people not
00:10:29doing very well and I would say I probably had a particular type I feel like I go for a very
00:10:33emotionally unavailable man let's go my usual types not working for me so I'm not gonna go with
00:10:44that I'm looking for the love story now oh hello hello hello I just just walked into the wall my mr.
00:10:54Darcy who am I speaking to I'm Katisha oh lovely hi Katisha how are you
00:11:03I'm good how are you I'm good thank you who's this sorry Demala Demala are you having a good day
00:11:09yes I am I am I am I was a bit nervous but now it's good you speak really quiet I'll try and speak
00:11:19louder if that helps I can hear you but I'm just like it's nice it's like soft it's like I feel like
00:11:26you're whispering in my ear oh I hope that's a good thing yeah do you date much um I would say no not
00:11:35really to be honest um I'm not trying to just settle I want to make sure that the person I am with is my
00:11:42soulmate and I can love her up forever honestly and I mean that um love that and what about you I feel
00:11:49like I wasn't really dating with purpose and I want to find my soulmate I want to be in love I want
00:11:54something genuine like a genuine connection definitely that's a big thing for me where
00:11:59where about you from I'm from Scotland Dunbury St Galloway okay I'm not gonna act like I know where
00:12:05that is but um I want to go up to Scotland that's what the only place in the UK I don't think I've
00:12:10been to so hopefully you can show me around then yeah 100% you've never been to Scotland and literally
00:12:15everyone everyone I speak to from England has never been Scotland what about you I am from
00:12:22Romford but um my heritage is Nigerian is there um I don't know what the language is they speak in
00:12:29Nigerian do you speak Nigerian I can speak Yoruba because that's where I'm from um I used to live
00:12:33with my grandma um she passed away not like a few years ago she was like my best friend oh I'm sorry
00:12:41no no it's okay um oh you are just adorable
00:12:45I was gonna say like what does your um your wedding look like oh I've not had it yet
00:12:55Demola is so nice he's so nice he's really loving he's really kind he's really goofy and funny we have
00:13:08good energy together take care Katisha lovely speaking to you and I'm sure I'll speak to you again
00:13:12you too bye that finished really nicely
00:13:18from the off I just felt good energy she had like a soft Scottish accent I ended up just being drawn to
00:13:27it I just got a little spark and a little feeling and I'm just trusting that stand out do you think
00:13:33you have a standout I got it all written down so who's your standout Katisha really that's interesting
00:13:40no I liked her she was cool hmm there's a saying that the early bird gets the worm if you want a
00:13:46woman you've got to pursue her however you want to do it that's just a part of the game what do you
00:13:50think yeah like if you find someone you really like you're just gonna put all your eggs in one
00:13:55basket there's got to be a bit of a strategy to this basically this is how triangles form it's all
00:14:00part of the game so part of the game it comes Ashley I feel like I'm a teenager back at school I did have
00:14:27doubts about Ashley's job however I want to give it a go I've got a good feeling of moving forward and
00:14:33to be honest I can't wait for the next date every time I go into the room I'm genuinely excited what
00:14:48is this oh my god I've got a pink cowboy hat mustache so this was my idea I was gonna learn to two-step
00:14:55with you I can't believe you've done this I can't put my hat on oh hundred percent oh my god the music's
00:15:03on you so we're holding each other like my arms are out so I've got my hands on your hips at the moment
00:15:09okay right one two tap tap one two tap one two tap all right so I'm doing the last oh yeah so I've got
00:15:21you got you got you got you and I'm pulling you in now pulling the end of me and back in oh my god
00:15:30well done thank you very much so in front of you I yeah I've wrapped something up for you okay it's
00:15:42something that is sentimental to me I collect thimbles from everywhere that I go
00:15:49you got me a little love heart thimble oh my god you're gonna make me cry oh my god I just um oh my god
00:16:05yeah I just want you to know that um yeah I'm your girl like you've taken my heart you've got all of me and
00:16:18I'm just so excited for our future together
00:16:24sorry it's oh it's so much um it's okay wow um thank you so much I absolutely love it oh it just makes
00:16:42me want to see even more and and just start everything start life together yeah oh what's the first thing you
00:16:53want to do when you see me the first thing that came to my mind was I'm going to tell you I love you
00:17:00for the longest time it's been me and you always by your side oh my god I'm literally like oh my god I'm shaking so bad
00:17:20I love you too
00:17:27I I really really really really really love you really oh my god
00:17:41it's such a big thing to me because I haven't said it since I was married and I'm so grateful it's you
00:17:48and I've got to experience this for you because I don't know it just feels right
00:17:54oh my god
00:18:01I'll see you tomorrow I can't wait
00:18:03bye Billy I can't wait
00:18:04love you
00:18:05love you
00:18:06there's a love there's a fire starting up inside
00:18:10oh my god
00:18:11I love him. Yeah, that's it feels so right. So right
00:18:21And for once I've been lucky in love
00:18:31I give up hope on finding love again because I felt that because I had it once before maybe that was it
00:18:38Okay, boy get a drink in this place
00:18:41I
00:18:44Haven't find someone like Ashley ever the fact that the feelings mutual feels incredible good type of me awesome
00:18:53unbelievable
00:19:09Ah
00:19:12Christ it's a lot in it
00:19:14I've no idea what tomorrow brings me. I'm just trying to take it day by day right now
00:19:18Honestly, I know myself. I'm just doing me and I feel like I'm doing the right things so I know it's not going to be the fairy tale for everyone
00:19:26My head has been in a bit of a pickle
00:19:35I have
00:19:37I have strong connections with Megan and Sophie
00:19:43Hello
00:19:44Hello
00:19:45Hello
00:19:45Hello
00:19:46Hi Kieran
00:19:47Hello
00:19:47Hello
00:19:48I want to find someone that I can have that real deep emotional connection with
00:19:55How are you?
00:19:56Yeah, I'm really good. Thank you
00:19:58What would you say your
00:20:00What would you say your biggest insecurities?
00:20:02Um
00:20:05I don't know
00:20:07I don't know
00:20:08I feel like when it comes to relationships and stuff I can be a bit insecure about what I do
00:20:13Because I feel like some people don't think it's a real job
00:20:16Really?
00:20:17How about you?
00:20:18Like everyone I have them of course
00:20:20Um
00:20:23So my parents did get divorced when I was three so I don't really remember them together
00:20:27Right
00:20:28My biggest fear is getting married having kids and getting divorced and that's because that's what I've seen in life
00:20:34Yeah
00:20:35My mum was not a mummy mum at all
00:20:37Right
00:20:38I love her to pieces and we've worked we've worked quite hard in our relationship since I've I've been an adult
00:20:43That's why in a relationship realistically I'm probably a little bit needy
00:20:48And also it makes me want to look at my future wife and say you're going to be a really you know caring mother
00:20:55Because I can't imagine the love I will have for the mother of my children I think you know be off the scale
00:21:00Do you know what I mean?
00:21:01You're just a gorgeous human aren't you?
00:21:05I think that's so important to be able to like share that love with your child
00:21:10Like my mum was always really amazing with me and like I don't know my real dad
00:21:16Okay
00:21:16So she always like gave us everything that we needed
00:21:19So what is the situation with your dad?
00:21:21So my mum and him broke up when I was born
00:21:25Okay
00:21:26I would just see him like once a week and then like when I was about five or six
00:21:30I had zero contact with him whatsoever
00:21:32You don't have any contact with him now?
00:21:34No but a really weird situation happened when I was 17
00:21:38I worked at a pub in Brighton
00:21:40Yeah
00:21:41I was like serving at the bar and this couple came in like really close to the end of the night and I just knew he was my dad
00:21:48That's crazy
00:21:49Yeah and like he just didn't speak
00:21:52Did you say hello?
00:21:53No I just served them like a like normal
00:21:56Yeah
00:21:56And I went back for my shift like the next weekend and he had come back and left me a card
00:22:02Oh really?
00:22:03The card was just like just nothing
00:22:07Yeah that's hard
00:22:08My mum's relationships have definitely impacted how I like open up to men and like how I let people in and like be fully vulnerable because I didn't really see a loving happy relationship growing up
00:22:22I just know my mum's like amazing and has so much potential like and love to give
00:22:33And she's just never ever ever had the right person and has never been treated right and that's just like
00:22:40Yeah I just would never want to be like that
00:22:43And I just like yeah I just hate that my mum's got like
00:22:47Been through all of that
00:22:48Your mum sounds like an amazing person
00:22:50Yeah she is
00:22:51Yeah I can't necessarily say the same for the men that have been in your life
00:22:55Yeah
00:22:56Um
00:22:57Why do you think you're ready now for a long term commitment?
00:23:03I just like
00:23:04I just have like so much faith
00:23:07That like
00:23:08There's like that fairytale ending for me
00:23:13Yeah
00:23:13Yeah I'm just like so ready to meet that right person
00:23:19I'm sorry
00:23:22It's alright
00:23:23Are you okay?
00:23:26Yeah
00:23:26You deserve to have high standards Meg like you deserve to get what you want from your life
00:23:34I feel like I understand you even better
00:23:36So I'm grateful for that
00:23:39Find relief
00:23:42You're just so sweet
00:23:43Making an effort
00:23:46Do it for me
00:23:48Being vulnerable with
00:23:50Someone behind a wall
00:23:52Is just like the most alien thing ever
00:23:54See you soon
00:23:55I'll see you soon
00:23:58I definitely have been very closed off
00:24:01In the past and found it really hard to fully open up
00:24:05But I feel like I've definitely done that with Kieran
00:24:08I need some crying
00:24:09Why am I crying?
00:24:11I think being able to get deep with someone and get open with someone
00:24:16Is such an important part of a relationship
00:24:18And I'm not sure I've had that in the past
00:24:31In my dates with Megan
00:24:33I feel like we haven't been able to open up with each other
00:24:37With Sophie we've got that surface level connection
00:24:41But I think we need a bit more time together
00:24:43I think we're still figuring each other out a little bit
00:24:46Hello hello
00:24:47Hello
00:24:47Sophie
00:24:48Kieran
00:24:50This makes me happy
00:24:52I want to see if we've got anything deeper
00:24:57I'm genuinely like very excited to talk to you again
00:25:01Now that's that's the honest truth
00:25:03I really like you
00:25:04I think you're an amazing person
00:25:06And I am very much ready to open my book
00:25:11And yeah get as deep as we want to get
00:25:14Yeah it's a little bit scary
00:25:17It's kind of the point though isn't it
00:25:18Yeah I know but I don't do this
00:25:21Talk to me about what you want to do with your life
00:25:23Like what are the big things that you feel like
00:25:26I wish I could do that
00:25:27And you know hopefully with me
00:25:29Some of mine are like quite superficial
00:25:32What are those things?
00:25:34There's a few designer bags on that list
00:25:36That I want to hit before I turn a certain age
00:25:39Right
00:25:39And then other things is just traveling
00:25:41I've done quite a few
00:25:42And took quite a few of Japan was top of my list
00:25:44Oh it's just one of those places
00:25:46I've always wanted to go to
00:25:48Yeah I can't believe you did that I'm so jealous
00:25:50Uh oh yeah this one's a big one
00:25:53What does like
00:25:55What does success look like for you?
00:25:57Um I feel like a minute right now if I'm honest
00:26:01Yeah I always say I've got success in my life
00:26:03But not in my love life like it's literally the only thing I'm not successful at
00:26:07Which is which is hard
00:26:08Yeah
00:26:09But I don't let people in if I'm honest
00:26:15Yeah I've written that down
00:26:16Yeah
00:26:17Okay interesting
00:26:21To be honest with you I'd say there's a lot more to explore
00:26:24Like in order for us to connect on a level where you could fall in love like there's
00:26:28Yeah we're not obviously not we're obviously not there yet right
00:26:30Summer rain hits different when you're in it
00:26:35Do you think I'm open? Do you think I'm more open now than day one?
00:26:38I feel like the door is creaking open
00:26:40That's kind of what I'm that's what I'm looking for safe
00:26:43I'm now trying to question am I self-sabotaging?
00:26:54I sit there and it's nice and I feel safe to be open and vulnerable with him
00:26:59But it's a very alien feeling for me
00:27:02Ultimately that's what I want
00:27:04I want to find a husband that I feel like I can be my authentic vulnerable self with
00:27:09So I feel like that's gonna have to change
00:27:13I've felt this way a while
00:27:23I've fallen for like
00:27:26It's cute
00:27:28Big kid mate
00:27:28Big kid
00:27:36Being married before I was convinced at the time that she was the one I never married to get divorced
00:27:42One day I'm married forever
00:27:45This time around I'm I'm getting butterfly feelings again
00:27:48I could feel the love in my heart and it excites me and I'm hopeful that me and Ashley can get it right
00:27:56We are as one you can't break us
00:28:02Hello
00:28:03Hi Billy
00:28:05Hey you
00:28:05Hey
00:28:06How are you
00:28:07I'm good
00:28:08I just feel overwhelmed with love right now
00:28:13Yeah
00:28:14And I don't think I've truly been myself with anybody romantically or intimately
00:28:21The fact that you've been able to do that and
00:28:26Make me feel the way I do about you which is that I
00:28:30I love you
00:28:31I just can't believe it and I'm so grateful for meeting you and you letting me be me for once
00:28:44I know we're sitting down but if you don't mind standing up and come to the the window
00:28:52Oh gosh
00:28:56I came in this experiment
00:28:58Hopeful but I honestly didn't think it was on the cards for me anymore
00:29:02I thought my time would come and pass and I would never find this feeling again
00:29:06However
00:29:09You've blown me away with your kindness
00:29:12Your trust your sense of humor and the love you've shown me so far
00:29:19Before this I was unsure if love was blind but it has truly taught me that love can be blind so on that note
00:29:30I'm taking a knee and I want to say Ashley
00:29:33I love you and I want to ask you to marry me
00:29:46Billy oh my god oh my god oh my god
00:29:51Yes, I will marry you. I can't wait. I'm touching the glass Billy. I just oh my god
00:30:03I just can't tell you how hard like it is for me to let somebody in like
00:30:11That's just been a massive insecurity for 30 years and the fact that I've just followed my heart
00:30:16In this experiment and it's led me to you is just amazing
00:30:22I'm just so happy to hear
00:30:24I didn't think anybody could make me feel like this but you've done it
00:30:28Just by the sound of your voice and meeting you has absolutely changed my life
00:30:33I feel really lucky really lucky right now to have met you
00:30:39Me too
00:30:39Oh my god, you've said yes to marry me. You're my fiance. I can't believe it
00:30:49I'm counting down the minutes and the hours until I get to see you
00:30:54I love you Ashley. I love you Billy. I'll see you later. I'll see you soon
00:30:57Oh, I feel like I need a minute
00:31:05Oh my god
00:31:10It's happened for me
00:31:16Oh my god, it's happy to
00:31:20I never thought that I would be sat here with a engagement going on
00:31:27There is a million and one emotions going through my head going through my heart
00:31:34I am on cloud now
00:31:43Oh
00:31:57I don't give up
00:32:01Oh
00:32:04Oh
00:32:09Yeah
00:32:09Yeah
00:32:09Yeah
00:32:11Yeah
00:32:11Yeah
00:32:12Yeah
00:32:12Yeah
00:32:12Yeah
00:32:13Yeah
00:32:13With Patrick
00:32:14It's easy
00:32:15Let's get deep bro
00:32:16yeah
00:32:17A lot of people are saying he's too spiritual for them
00:32:19You know
00:32:20I'm more spiritual than him
00:32:21So with Patrick
00:32:22I think the chemistry is growing it's there's a lot of a mental like connection and for me that's like important
00:32:29Hello good morning morning you I feel very like safe with Patrick and I think that's like wow
00:32:36What a beautiful quality for me you're the most intelligent person here
00:32:40Emotionally intelligent emotion emotional awareness. Well, thank you so much for real. Yeah
00:32:47I'm a straight shooter pow pow
00:32:52And he's the only person that I want to see I'm pretty content. So yeah
00:32:59Whenever I talk to you I feel like it's always like growth. It's always I believe someone there in the future who can push me to be better
00:33:09I know you call it your smelic your smelic awareness. Yeah, I call that the holy spirit
00:33:14Wow, but I know this is going to another realm here. That's powerful. I love that
00:33:18You always go back to christianity and that's so interesting like you put it to your faith
00:33:21Obviously, I'm a christian, but I'm not perfect. Mm-hmm. I still got a long way to go me too
00:33:27But like my heart is willing, you know
00:33:30Thank you. Thank you. I think in terms of marriage and stuff. I've been thinking very heavily me to me too
00:33:36Yeah, and would you want to wait till marriage before consummating the relationship?
00:33:41Personally um
00:33:42No, okay, however, um if you decide you want to wait of course I can wait. That's no problem
00:33:49I'm not an issue whatsoever
00:33:53Also, I want to ask is it is it hard for you to fall in love or
00:33:56I think so, you know, it's not something I take lightly so
00:34:04This is marriage. This is something so
00:34:08Sacred, you know when I think of my parents i'm like wow like they got married because they saw something
00:34:14That they didn't see with anyone else in the world and they thought wow
00:34:19I'll make this commitment to you. Oh
00:34:21You just got to choose that person and then
00:34:24Consciously every day be like yep. I choose you. I choose you. I choose you
00:34:28For real
00:34:30And you're you're number one anu. Oh same
00:34:43The reason why i'm
00:34:45Very attracted to anu is the growth mindset when I think about marriage
00:34:49I think about my best friend my partner and that has to be someone who brings me something. I don't know
00:34:55I feel like i'm finding a life partner someone that I can explore with make memories with make money with
00:35:01Have beautiful children with we're really on the same mindset really curious to see how how the life would look like with him
00:35:08No, one in this experience has given me
00:35:11A feeling apart from one girl. I knew yeah, she gave you that feeling yeah, yeah, it's just who challenges you who gives you something different, you know
00:35:24Oh
00:35:28Never used to when you're calling my name
00:35:31Drop your left. Maybe i should not over complicate it
00:35:34Wait what knee is it again?
00:35:35Let's make sure i make sure i'm comfortable there's no doubts that's that's the mad thing can't wait to do life with sorora
00:35:42You've got this man. Thank you, mate. Appreciate it
00:35:45I
00:35:48Know she's the one because of the excitement i feel before i'm getting to speak to her
00:35:55That excitement it doesn't happen very often and i feel lucky that we've met actually
00:35:59I feel like maybe we was i don't want to say meant to be is a little bit cheesy, but the universe at play maybe who knows
00:36:05Even though there are the cultural differences as long as i'm doing right about her
00:36:15Being respectful being a good husband. I think that's the main thing any girl's parents could ask for on once
00:36:24Princess oh, how are you feeling good?
00:36:28I feel like we do come from different backgrounds, but we're also so similar
00:36:34To have made this connection with you and not let like
00:36:38Culture traditions
00:36:40Ethnic is getting away. I think that's a beautiful thing. I know
00:36:44So i'm gonna i'm gonna speak from the heart
00:36:53Coming into this experiment
00:36:57I was skeptical whether
00:36:58Love could be blind for me. Yeah, but I wanted to come give it a go anyway
00:37:03and then
00:37:05The unfathomable happened the unthinkable
00:37:09Fell for somebody who had never even laid eyes on
00:37:14And there is something that I would like to ask you
00:37:26But nothing could prepare me for just how much
00:37:31You could
00:37:32Uh-oh
00:37:33When I
00:37:35Know you feel
00:37:36Like I feel
00:37:37It's all over
00:37:38But you fight against the tide
00:37:40Will you join me on this insanely crazy beautiful rollercoaster we call life
00:37:49And marry me
00:37:53There'll never be a good time to fall in love
00:38:02I will
00:38:03100% no doubt i'm so so ready for our next chapter together
00:38:14i'm grinning from ear to ear right now
00:38:16I'm literally like shaking
00:38:20Will you blow me a kiss through the glass
00:38:23I feel like i could even touch the glass and feel like i don't know if you could feel it
00:38:27I've got my palm on the glass
00:38:34I never thought i had this in me to be like this princess
00:38:38this has been a day i will remember for the rest of my life
00:38:43can't wait to see you oh my god as a fiance
00:38:47goodbye goodbye fiance goodbye fiance
00:38:49i want to see us rise up i found my wife here 100 conviction i can say that and roll on the big day
00:39:03got some bad news oh for the single girls out there because i'm off the market
00:39:13it's just an overwhelming sense of excitement and happiness and joy and
00:39:18there's not one emotion that's just not positive that's oozing out of me right now
00:39:24i'm a fiance
00:39:27i know i know i know
00:39:31this process and being with him has just changed me i put myself first now i've dropped expectations
00:39:38i dropped those voices i was hearing about having to make everybody proud oh i'm so happy i'm very very happy
00:39:47great you
00:39:59how you feeling yeah good yeah i'd like to think that i could uh fall for someone here and
00:40:05and get on one knee for someone it'll be lovely um i just i want to get that deeper i'm not here for
00:40:10just jokes i'm not here to make friends serious time now i think that's it crunch time you're right
00:40:13yeah i'm a little bit cheeky when i want to be essex lads are just known to be a bit naughty i dress
00:40:25maybe like an essex lad and obviously the slick back hair maybe gives it away as well but i've got
00:40:29more to me i'm half lebanese it gives me a little bit of a spice a little bit of a difference
00:40:33maybe we can get this right for me i feel like i'm quite set i've got a good job i've got loving
00:40:39family great a bunch of friends and all that's missing for me is obviously the wife that's
00:40:43obviously why i'm i'm in this experiment
00:40:47i'm very family orientated my mom's cooking is unreal so i'll go around on a sunday we have our
00:40:53sunday roast if you guys don't know hummus on the roast ah game changer
00:40:57bringing my wife back to the roast ah it it actually means everything to me it's almost
00:41:08like a last piece of the puzzle for me on a sunday my brother's got his girlfriend and the kids mum
00:41:13and dad are still together and it's just me lonely me deep down i'm i'm quite a softy i'm a bit of a
00:41:19marshmallow like when it comes to love hello hello hi who do i have here it's barda barda
00:41:27i want someone that i can spend the rest of my life with someone i can grow a family with someone
00:41:31that i can trust and someone to feel like home i would love nothing more than to bring my wife back
00:41:37home what's your name my name's jed jed jed hi jed where are you from i'm from essex essex okay i am
00:41:49i lived in lebanon for four years when i was younger no way yeah because i'm half lebanese do you think
00:41:54arabic i used to i'm very rusty now why do you speak arabic i speak albanian are you albanian i am
00:42:03bada say something in albanian to me uh i like that
00:42:12i was actually born in kosovo okay cool um but i've been here most of my life so i feel like i've got
00:42:20the best of both cultures that's nice yeah and i was brought up muslim as well okay yeah my dad's
00:42:25muslim but my family is i'm not really religious myself i try to eat mainly halal i'm a bit of a
00:42:31foodie and i eat anything okay we know the best um places to get halal food so don't worry about that
00:42:36amazing i make sure that my wife is taken care of in every aspect i make sure she's happy already
00:42:41i'm here for it we're not here to mess about girl have you got any siblings yeah i've got one brother
00:42:49he's um been kind enough to give me two nieces oh i have two nieces oh they melt me honestly yeah yeah
00:42:57they call me the unpaid entertainer oh my god i'm the aunt that spoils them always we would be a good
00:43:02team brother i think so just running around after kids that aren't ours i know for now oh oh i have to
00:43:10have kids like that oh great that's a must i'm gonna put that in capitals have to you think i'm
00:43:17joking you literally have taken the words right out of my mouth and especially if they're albanian
00:43:23and lebanese as well imagine how cute they're gonna be i'm just gonna put that out there i mean
00:43:30you have such a soothing voice do i yeah i can honestly talk to you all day yeah me too i feel
00:43:35really safe i'll be you make me smile i'm sure that i'm actually i'm trying to talk a little bit
00:43:42done sorry i'm done sorry can you say a little bit louder i'm done off the market
00:43:49bada what are you doing to me
00:43:51bada has given me wifey vibes and it just makes me want to have more dates with her it was good to
00:44:01speak to you enjoy the rest of your day a little shimmy let's go oh he's gone i've always wanted to get
00:44:11engaged and get married as much as i am you know very independent i've always wanted the traditional
00:44:17way of doing things i think it like stems back from like my culture i just met my husband
00:44:22no my husband what what happened i don't want to leave that part i want to go back in no stop
00:44:30with jed we have got the same backgrounds it's very very early but he seemed just as excited as i did
00:44:38and i couldn't stop smiling the whole way through like i'm feeling kieran like and this is what i want
00:44:54and he was basically on the same page do you feel this could be your me and kieran yeah like me and
00:45:01kieran are like solid yeah like solid can't fault the man it's hard to hear that someone else is
00:45:09dating someone that you're interested in kieran makes me want to give my heart to him like i've
00:45:15not had this with someone else before and i'm going to try and not be close-minded
00:45:20hello hello hello sophie hi i'm trying not to repeat the mistakes i've made in previous
00:45:34relationships there's a lot more for us to explore at some point i feel like i can feel myself letting
00:45:41my guard down with you that's nice yeah i think it's just my personality to be honest like all the
00:45:48things i've done in my life has molded me to be who i am but equally i'm a daddy's girl so like i'm
00:45:54always trying to make him proud of me are you yeah what's your mom like um we have a good relationship
00:46:02now we've had a bit of a rocky relationship yeah we didn't speak for a few years after my mom and dad
00:46:11divorced she had a new partner and ultimately she chose him her relationship with him was more
00:46:19important than the one with me there's a lot in there i didn't really know how much it affects me
00:46:28until doing this process actually yeah i feel like i'm really scared to give my heart to someone because
00:46:35like the one person in your life that's supposed to love you unconditionally decided something else
00:46:41was more important than me so how is my husband not going to do that
00:46:47i i by you just going through that this for me like i feel like i understand you even better
00:46:52so i'm grateful for that i'm melting slowly yeah yeah slowly you know one of those tango
00:47:01ice blasts that you have yeah you've slapped up all my juice and now it's just like ice you've got
00:47:10to wait for it to melt again to have some more juice i am actually a cute girl are you yeah yeah he
00:47:17pretends to be an ice queen yeah yeah it's just a front it's just a god
00:47:32i see that she's clearly trying to open up and that's a massive thing in a relationship
00:47:38i don't know what to think i've been back and forth on this in my head
00:47:43so many feelings to process it's a lot to think about
00:48:01i've been waiting for so long i always felt that we would stay so strong
00:48:09i thought my second chance would never come to be honest ashley has given me that second chance of
00:48:15love oh my god
00:48:21i actually feel nervous right now but i trusted the process and i just listened to my heart the
00:48:28whole way through and it led me to billy my whole body feels in love not just my heart it's it's a
00:48:36really magical feeling
00:48:43not everyone has the chance to fall for someone so deeply without even seeing them
00:48:54ashley could have pink her she could have blonde her she could be a brunette
00:48:58i haven't got a clue it's not gonna matter i just hope that she feels the same on the other side
00:49:06i've been having dreams about billy but i don't know what he's gonna look like i really don't
00:49:18nice legs would be nice nice sexy legs
00:49:25i can't wait to be close physically look into his eyes and tell him that i love him in front of him
00:49:30it's just going to be the best feeling
00:49:46oh my god billy oh ash you're real
00:49:51i don't know what to do i just take you in oh my god you're just perfect like i just
00:50:10just let me spin you around let me spin you around let me spin you around wow you weren't
00:50:17just the voice like this is just crazy you have hair i thought maybe you wouldn't have hair
00:50:22you're blonde i didn't know did you not know i was going to be blonde brunette
00:50:25blonde i didn't know what to think so i want to actually do this for real and i want to take a name
00:50:30so remind me ashley oh my god
00:50:40yes yes oh i'm shaking i can't even stick it on oh my god
00:50:48oh that's so good on you
00:50:50wow wow wow she left me speechless her smile was unbelievable i was just blown away
00:51:03i can't believe you're real look at this he's everything everything and more i just want to
00:51:09take you all in billy's got lovely lips billy's a good kisser you've got really long eyelashes i love
00:51:15them they're like mine they're nearly as long as mine a bit of competition for you yeah although
00:51:23i didn't say it but i love you i love you too so much like oh you're making me all shy again
00:51:37you're such a good kisser too
00:51:38i love you i love you really it just felt like it was just me and her in the room nobody else no
00:51:51outside noise
00:51:52this is it this is it are you ready for our future i can't wait i cannot wait i can look at
00:52:11this view all day long this is your view forever now love you babe i love you
00:52:15oh my god get in i can honestly say that ashley has fully and truly stolen my heart and she's the
00:52:30one i want to spend the rest of my life with oh i feel like i found the gold at the end of a rainbow
00:52:40wow ashley's found love like ashley has found true happiness in love
00:52:50what just happened
00:52:54i'm marrying the love of my life ashley today is the beginning of the rest of mine and ashley's life
00:53:09love it is yes that's good come on give it hold on give it us give us so far this is what i've got
00:53:15sitting in the lounge talking about going on a date young fly boy going on a pod date to meet my wifey
00:53:21now she my right hand pal love is blind i'ma find my girl oh yeah yeah see i'ma cook something up
00:53:28i'ma cook something don't worry about it
00:53:30when i say i'm an accountant normally people just think i'm boring love numbers but there's more to
00:53:39me i can be emotional i can be sensitive and also just be real deep
00:53:50i'm a sucker for love i love love when you see two people who love each other it's just so beautiful
00:53:55when i look at my mom and dad for how many years they've been married to still have that love and
00:54:00at the same time still argue because that's what relationships bring i just love seeing it and i
00:54:05want that for myself let's go lad i want to love up my future wife as much as possible hello hello hi
00:54:13how are you i'm good how are you i am good thank you i'm ready to kick the dating world out of here and
00:54:21um i don't want to see another dating app i'm ready to leave it all the way behind just paint
00:54:26me a picture of your childhood um so i moved out of my family home when i was 16. okay at the time it
00:54:33was like yay but actually i'm still a child yeah that must have been um like a lot to be honest yeah it
00:54:42was it was a bit wild i don't really know what i was doing but there i was i got a job um i started
00:54:49working quite young i think i started working like 14. oh wow sound like you have done a lot i won't
00:54:53lie no i've done loads i've lived like six lives honestly what about you okay i grew up in east london
00:55:03lived with my older brother my younger sister mum and dad it was like a real loving home where we just
00:55:11you know kind of had fun lived with my grandma as well she was getting old i used to walk with my
00:55:17grandma around the block and i just have chats about her life really and you know i really just
00:55:23enjoy doing that stuff that's so love i love the way that you talk about your grandma and i'm really
00:55:28close to mine as well you know oh it's got me my feels i love my grass so much when my grandma passed
00:55:36the way i was pulling my eyes out to be honest but like um she was like my best friend oh but um
00:55:48she's always with me and yeah that's why like yeah
00:55:53but yeah no sorry i didn't want to no don't apologize no please don't apologize that's amazing
00:55:58thank you for sharing honestly
00:56:05demla is sweet kind caring he's very family orientated i feel like i can talk to him quite
00:56:11openly yes it's a good time it's a good feeling honestly i can't wait to speak to you again yeah
00:56:16me too sweet soon but i also really like javin javin is a cool guy i guess more like my usual type
00:56:29i'm glad i'm talking to you right now i was looking forward to this yeah me too
00:56:34this is something that i wanted to ask go ahead so are you close to your family yeah yeah so me and
00:56:38my sister's brother is very very close all my extended family is in jamaica wow and i'm trying to
00:56:44make it a habit to try and go every two years oh okay just to make sure i see them yeah of course
00:56:51so my mum is jamaican spanish really are you in touch with like the jamaican side of your family
00:56:57not really okay i wish that i was though maybe i can help you explore that yeah but you know what i
00:57:03do want to know like in a marriage for you how important is sexual chemistry i would say it's pretty
00:57:08important yeah i would say having an emotional connection and emotional intimacy is more
00:57:14important okay i feel like if i feel like emotionally connected to you then obviously i'm going to be
00:57:18physically connected to you too what does emotional intimacy mean to you though sharing with your
00:57:23partner but like working on getting this relationship how we both want it to be yeah no i understand that
00:57:29what about you i think they're so intertwined they kind of go hand in hand in my opinion yeah um so i
00:57:35say i kind of value them equally i guess on the sexual side do you feel like you is there any do
00:57:40you feel like you have any requirements per se you feel like okay you know in a thriving relationship
00:57:46i want to be active every day once a day once a week two times a week um i actually don't know it's
00:57:55something that i i'm like looking forward to navigating i will say that like i like i don't have any like
00:58:02fake headaches or anything it's all good it's all good i'm built for high energy so okay good that's
00:58:08not a problem good yeah i like that i like javin i just quite liked his honesty i feel like he was just
00:58:19like yeah cool this is how i am i'm gonna see you soon yes all right speak soon but i also really like
00:58:28demola so i'm exploring both connections and i'm enjoying it kind of
00:58:43love is a matter of the heart isn't it it is really it's gonna be interesting
00:59:13you stay there mixed emotions today
00:59:20my approach to this entire experiment has been that i'm going to trust the process
00:59:29i'm going to give my 100 in every date and what will be will be but it's getting to the point where
00:59:38i put my cards on the table of where my head is actually at
00:59:45hello hello oh i've been waiting to hear that voice
00:59:52i'm actually a bit nervous i'm not gonna lie really oh my gosh what is this
00:59:57um that's my little sentimental gift it's a japanese ornament call it an omori okay which are supposed
01:00:07to bring good fortune to your life and that's mine thank you so much and i hope it brings you good
01:00:14fortune slash us good fortune i'm actually obsessed with that and also i did also spread with my
01:00:20mouth shave yeah i was gonna say it smells well that's how i smell it smells nice i feel like i
01:00:26needed to put my cards on the table and that's what i'm doing oh my gosh i'm like flustered i've just got
01:00:35such a good vibe from you from literally the first time we spoke to each other which is madness
01:00:40i feel like super comfortable with you like you make me feel very like safe and i feel like i can
01:00:48definitely be open with you which is amazing that's not easy for me and i don't think we would have ever
01:00:53got here like if we had just met in london yeah i just want to continue to go on this journey with
01:01:02you like wherever it takes us oh you're adorable i feel really excited about kieran i feel like yes
01:01:15like he's the one i think the gift has definitely you know stepped up the relationship a notch and
01:01:25it was something that was like really sentimental to him it meant a lot to me that he wanted to give it to
01:01:30me happy boy
01:01:39i've told a few people about kieran but yeah not too not too much information
01:01:45i generally don't know what's your idea i think
01:01:51has someone been proposed to
01:02:00i'm back she's back do you feel like you're the only one that has kieran as
01:02:05like number one at the moment i think megan likes kieran oh yeah
01:02:09oh my god what's in your hand so cute so basically it's like a little japanese ornament that they use
01:02:17and he's like i'm giving it to you and i was like stop it and i spread it and i could look like
01:02:24oh
01:02:26so
01:02:26i agree with you i think that's not good really good good good good good good times i think that's for me
01:02:30thank you chris why is that for you give it a gift
01:02:33oh really went down very well really yeah very happy
01:02:36I'd love to see her face on Sophie now, as she might have walked out.
01:02:40I've got this present from Karen!
01:02:45Yay!
01:02:47She's had the show with you!
01:02:49Sweetheart! That's lovely!
01:02:51Imagine a girl screaming like that about your man.
01:02:54Oh, is that? Well, he's screaming about...
01:02:56He's screaming about Karen.
01:02:58Well, I presume it's him, because he's been to Japan,
01:03:00and they're on about some Japanese thing.
01:03:02Yeah, so cute. So cute.
01:03:04That's so sweet. I'm so happy with you too, girl.
01:03:07Literally!
01:03:08That's my man, and then he's giving her some Japanese teddy on a date.
01:03:13That's also very territorial as well, isn't it?
01:03:15Yeah, that's, like, your mind.
01:03:16I wouldn't let that get in your head, though.
01:03:18Nah, that's big. Like, I'm not a dickhead.
01:03:20I ain't doing that.
01:03:24This is a joke.
01:03:25It's a very bold statement to be like,
01:03:27this is my person, I've just gifted them.
01:03:29He's naive if he thought that was never going to get back to me.
01:03:32Being someone's second best.
01:03:35That's not me.
01:03:36I ain't being like,
01:03:37oh, it's between me and another girl.
01:03:39Fuck that.
01:03:41Look at the mess you've made.
01:03:43Love me to pick up the pieces.
01:03:46If you don't think I'm the one for you, fine.
01:03:49But don't sit there and feed me loads of bullshit
01:03:51and then pick some off a girl.
01:03:53Look at the mess you've made.
01:03:56Look at the mess you've made.
01:03:58Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:00Left me to pick up the pieces.
01:04:01Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:02Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:03Left me to pick up the pieces.
01:04:05Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:07Full of all the things you did left me speechless.
01:04:08Yeah.
01:04:09Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:10Look at the, look at the, look at the room.
01:04:11This is the worst mistake.
01:04:13Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:16Look at the, look at the, look at the room.
01:04:19This is the worst mistake.
01:04:26Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:28Left me to pick up the pieces.
01:04:32Look at the mess you've made.
01:04:35Full of all the things you did left me speechless.
01:04:38Yeah.
01:04:39This is your worst mistake.
01:04:41How do you save the night knowing what you did to me?
01:04:50Look at the mess you've, look at the mess you've, look at the mess you've made.
01:05:11That's never my good news and you look back at Ichabby.
01:05:14Look at the mess what happened.
01:05:15Look at the mess you've made it.
01:05:16That's why I thought the mess you've made it.
01:05:17Look at the mess you've made it.
01:05:18Look at the mess you've made over that mess you've made.
01:05:20Look at the mess.
01:05:21Look at the mess you've made over that mess.
01:05:22Cleaning it man matter who's never轉.
01:05:23Long morning McCray, Song?
01:05:24It's been effected the mess proudly.
01:05:25Oh, that was the mess.
01:05:26I'm working at the mess.
01:05:27Well, or the mess you've made me too long before I roll.
01:05:28I'm working on my desk.
01:05:29All that's kind of mess sliding through them down.
01:05:30I'm working on my desk for that career.
01:05:32And when I'm working at the rest as well.
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