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Ready To Love S11E08
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00:00Previously on Ready to Love.
00:02This week, I want you to meet their ex.
00:05Oh.
00:06So you feel like you've been holding on for that many years?
00:08When you like somebody and you have a crush on them,
00:10it never go away.
00:11I'm not going to lie, I definitely got feelings for the girl.
00:13Like, duh, I'm here.
00:16I got to meet somebody, right?
00:18Um, we not.
00:20I was mad, like, that I wasn't going to meet her ex.
00:22It makes me feel like that you're trying to hide something.
00:25I'm not saying that it's not going to happen, ever.
00:27Just give me some time.
00:29Let me work it out.
00:30There's a few potentials that have caught my eye.
00:32She's definitely one.
00:33You said a few.
00:35Who are those people?
00:36It's no secret that Unlocking would say.
00:38She can say, oh, who's Tay?
00:39But I can say, who's Fritz, right?
00:41That was her number one.
00:43The fellas have decided you are not ready to love.
00:49I know it took me some time to get to the place
00:54that you wanted me to be.
00:56Oh.
00:58But now I'm ready, I'm ready to love.
01:03I know it took me some time to get to the place.
01:09I know it took me some time to get to the place.
01:10But now I'm ready to go.
01:12I know it took me some time to go.
01:14Don't believe, don't believe
01:16I'm not that good about it
01:18You're no invitation
01:20Ms. Deonna, how you doing?
01:26Good to hear.
01:27I'm good, I'm good.
01:28Ms. Payne.
01:29I'm fine.
01:30All right, all right.
01:31Angie, Rose.
01:33Hey.
01:35I'm walking in the vault,
01:37and I notice each week
01:38there's one less chair,
01:40and I'm like,
01:40yo, my goodness,
01:42this is getting real,
01:43like real, real.
01:44Hey.
01:45Again, it's that little
01:46pinch of nervousness.
01:47Tommy has so many curveballs,
01:49you just never know.
01:51It's the sensational six.
01:53Welcome back, ladies.
01:54Thank you, Tommy.
01:56I guess introducing the men
01:57to your ex
01:58wasn't a cakewalk
01:58for everybody, wasn't it?
01:59I look like some of y'all
02:01still recovering.
02:03This is always my favorite
02:04part of the journey,
02:06when things get real, real.
02:09This week, the power to eliminate
02:10is back in your hands.
02:12Last week, you took the gentleman
02:14into your past.
02:15This week, you are going
02:17to enter into their world
02:18and meet some of their closest friends.
02:21Oh, my God.
02:22I'm ready.
02:23While it may seem like
02:24a small step for something,
02:26meeting your love interest,
02:27friends, is an important moment
02:29in the dating process.
02:31Remember, if you're gonna be
02:33with somebody,
02:34you're also gonna be spending
02:35a whole lot of time
02:36with their chosen family.
02:38Ooh.
02:39At the end of the week,
02:40we're gonna meet back here
02:42to see how everything went,
02:43and we will decide
02:44which of the men
02:46just isn't ready to love.
02:50Bring it on.
02:51Absolutely.
02:52I'm not sure
02:53what I would learn
02:54from Cam's friends
02:55and Hussein's friends,
02:57but I hope it's good,
02:58and I want all the juicy details.
03:01Bye, Tommy.
03:02Bye, Tommy.
03:04Show me your love.
03:07If you show me your name,
03:08I'll show you mine.
03:11Today, I guess I learned
03:13more about my man,
03:14my man, my man
03:15from his friend.
03:16We're getting to the end
03:17of this process,
03:18and I need to know
03:19if he's really ready
03:21to be in a relationship
03:22or if he's still, you know,
03:25lingering on
03:26to his little player ways.
03:27Yo, bro.
03:28What up, bro?
03:29I'm trying to get down
03:30to the nitty-gritty.
03:31You know what I got
03:32you here today, bro?
03:33Yeah, yeah, you told me.
03:34Kiara talking marriage
03:35in three years.
03:36You know me.
03:36I'm like, hold up.
03:38Like, at least she,
03:39at least she, that she
03:39a wifey-type mindset.
03:41You know what I mean?
03:41At least she got that.
03:43Speaking of that,
03:44there's a date right there.
03:45Ah, what's up, man?
03:46I'm a date.
03:48Ooh.
03:49How you doing right here?
03:51That's my friend, Aaron.
03:52Aaron is a childhood friend.
03:54I knew him
03:54for going on 15 years.
03:56Right here.
03:57And he don't hold nothing back.
03:58You know,
03:59what he says was on his mind
04:00and that's all I can ask for.
04:02Nice to meet you.
04:02He told you good stuff
04:03about me?
04:04So far, so good.
04:05What'd he say?
04:06You might be the one.
04:07Okay.
04:09He told me that he was
04:10in a relationship
04:10for 11 years.
04:12And, you know,
04:13he has a little time,
04:14he has a little fun outside.
04:15All it is.
04:16So how would you say
04:17that he is in relationships?
04:19Like, is he like lover boy?
04:21Is he like nonchalant?
04:22I think he was committed.
04:23Like, I think he prioritized that.
04:26Like, even when the homies
04:28was trying to pull him away
04:29from that, like,
04:29you're too young
04:30to be settling down
04:32straight out of high school.
04:33Like...
04:34Right.
04:34If 11 years
04:35don't show you
04:36the capability
04:37to get into something
04:39long-term or committed,
04:40then I don't know
04:41what else to show you.
04:42Yeah, but 11 years
04:43it could be
04:44y'all broke up
04:4515, 11 times.
04:46There's a lot of stuff
04:47that could happen.
04:48It don't matter.
04:48It's like it...
04:49They could have
04:50broke up a million times,
04:51but it was like
04:52that show up.
04:53They fighting for it.
04:54They want to make it work.
04:55Yeah.
04:56It take two.
04:57Okay.
04:57You know what I'm saying?
04:58That's the best answer
04:59I could give you to that.
05:00I feel that.
05:01Hearing that Jay
05:02was in a committed relationship,
05:04you know,
05:05in his high school days,
05:06despite, like,
05:07the chatter,
05:08I really do appreciate that.
05:09I like a man
05:10that can have a mind
05:11of his own,
05:12so...
05:12that was a plus for me.
05:14So I got two kids, right?
05:15And he got two.
05:16So how do you feel like
05:18he would adjust
05:19to being in, like,
05:20a blended family?
05:21I mean,
05:22y'all both got two,
05:23so it would be like
05:24the Brady Bunch.
05:26That's a bunch of my head.
05:28Like the Black Brady Bunch,
05:30I love it.
05:32Do you feel like
05:33you know his love languages?
05:36I can tell, like,
05:37it's physical touch,
05:38because if he touching me,
05:39well, not in the counter,
05:40but I mean,
05:41but...
05:42he always wanna touch me
05:43if he wanna hold my hand,
05:45whether he wanna, like,
05:47put a hand on my leg.
05:48To me, that's like,
05:48oh, yeah, we locked in, like...
05:50Oh, we locked in?
05:51We're not locked in now?
05:52No, I was just...
05:53Just a little jokey joke.
05:54A little jokey joke.
05:54A little jokey joke.
05:55Oh, God, I was just...
05:56No, I ain't nobody had
05:56the wrong person up here.
05:57I thought you was locked in.
05:58Keep it cute, okay?
05:59Okay.
06:02After meeting Aaron,
06:04I feel like
06:05it just solidified
06:06how I already felt
06:08about Jay,
06:09because
06:09we have the same values,
06:12and we want
06:13the same things
06:14in relationships.
06:15So I'm gonna see you later?
06:16I like how you try
06:18to stick that in there.
06:19You know what?
06:20I wanna see you later.
06:21You bet.
06:21Bet you do.
06:22Now, what you say?
06:22Not too cute.
06:23I think that I'm coming
06:24to the realization
06:25that it's just only Jay.
06:28I really don't see
06:29nobody else outside of him.
06:31Come on, now.
06:31I'm excited to meet
06:43Cisco's friend
06:44because
06:45I really want to know,
06:47like,
06:47what I'm signing myself up for.
06:49Hi.
06:49Hey, how you doing?
06:51I'm Zach.
06:51Good to meet you.
06:52Hi, Zach.
06:52Nice to meet you.
06:53We already discussed
06:54prior Francisco's
06:56lack of stability.
06:58I guess, like,
06:58I got scared.
06:59And I said,
07:00well, what does this
07:00look like for me?
07:01I'm always gonna focus
07:02on my goals and dreams.
07:04But if I'm with someone,
07:06it sparks a fire even more
07:07because I'm like,
07:08I definitely gotta
07:08step my game up.
07:09You know what I mean?
07:11So now I gotta figure out,
07:13like,
07:13if he can work
07:15to reach his goals
07:16while with someone.
07:17So we'll see how things go.
07:19I speak to them more than nice.
07:21We speak to my family.
07:21So this is...
07:23So that's your family?
07:24Absolutely.
07:24Yeah.
07:25We've been through
07:26a lot together.
07:27I love to hear it.
07:27Absolutely.
07:28What are some things
07:29you like, Bob?
07:30What attracts me to him
07:31is that he's very honest.
07:33He can tell you
07:34how he feels.
07:35Also, just how he treats me.
07:36Like a pure gentleman.
07:38I feel protected with him.
07:40And it was just, like,
07:41an instant connection with us.
07:42I was just so intrigued by him.
07:43I mean, I still am.
07:45That's him.
07:45That's his genuine self.
07:46Okay.
07:47So what do you all know
07:48about, like,
07:49his aspirations
07:49and his dreams
07:50and...
07:51Because, like,
07:51sometimes people
07:52need to, like,
07:53be by their self
07:55to elevate.
07:56And when I met him,
07:57he had everything I wanted.
07:58You know?
07:59It was like,
07:59bam, bam, bam.
08:00Except the cough.
08:03Well, okay.
08:04So we're being honest.
08:05Yeah, that's for a shit.
08:06It did not work for me.
08:07Like, who doesn't want
08:08to feel, like,
08:09financially stable?
08:10You know?
08:10Especially, like,
08:11where I'm at in life now,
08:12like, and the things
08:13that I have going on,
08:14I need someone
08:15that's also just
08:16as stable as I am.
08:17True.
08:18So when I was presented
08:19with that,
08:19it was something
08:20that I really had to juggle.
08:21So as manly as he is,
08:24he still got a heart.
08:25Right.
08:26And he was hurt
08:26by your response.
08:32I apologize plenty of times,
08:33right,
08:34for having that kind of reaction.
08:36But also,
08:36I came into this process
08:37knowing what I wanted.
08:39I don't, you know,
08:40want to hurt his feelings.
08:41I don't want to seem upset.
08:42But I'm trying to
08:43envision my future
08:44with these men
08:44because I'm being
08:45more intentional right now
08:46for myself.
08:48You know,
08:48I just want to make sure
08:49that you understand
08:51he's grinding at it.
08:53You know,
08:53if that was a concern,
08:54even though,
08:56you know,
08:56you're in a certain place
08:57and where he's at,
08:58you're going to get
08:58the best out of him.
09:00And I see his grind.
09:01He's not giving up.
09:02No.
09:03He's not giving up.
09:05Francisco's line brothers,
09:06Zach and Q,
09:07definitely tried
09:08to give me reassurance
09:09about Cisco's
09:11financial situation.
09:12But again,
09:13like, you know,
09:14your actions need
09:16to match with your words.
09:17And if they do,
09:18we're good.
09:19I've known him
09:20over 20 years.
09:21It's very seldom
09:22that he opens up
09:22to anybody
09:23as fast as he opened up
09:24to you.
09:25So I just want to know
09:26from you,
09:27where are you at
09:28in this process
09:28at this point?
09:30I can't lie.
09:31Like, I'm not
09:32great at lying.
09:32I'm not a great liar.
09:34So,
09:35because I do have
09:35another connection
09:36where it's like,
09:38okay,
09:38with that connection,
09:40these are things
09:41I don't have to worry
09:41about with him.
09:43Like, his goals,
09:44you know,
09:45so it's kind of like...
09:47But I've seen him
09:48through a lot
09:49of different steps
09:50in his life.
09:51Yeah.
09:51He's done a lot
09:52of work on himself
09:52personally.
09:53He's going to make it.
09:54At the end of this date,
09:56Cisco is still my top.
09:58I hope that y'all
09:59enjoy this meal,
10:00but I just got to go.
10:01Good to meet you.
10:02Nice to meet you.
10:02Nice to meet you as well.
10:03However,
10:04I still have, like,
10:04two other connections
10:05that I'm trying to figure out
10:07and trying to sort through.
10:08Have a good night.
10:09All right, you too.
10:13I like it.
10:14I like it.
10:14I like her.
10:15I like her response
10:16to all the questions
10:17I asked her,
10:17to be honest with you.
10:18Y'all both know me.
10:19When I lock in on one,
10:21I lock in,
10:22but we deliberating
10:23in the vault
10:24and you just hear
10:25her name constantly,
10:26you know what I'm saying?
10:27It's just like,
10:27Tay, my number one.
10:28Tay, Tay, Tay.
10:30It digs, right?
10:31In the short period
10:32of time that I've
10:33gotten to meet Tay,
10:34man, like,
10:34I've developed,
10:35you know,
10:35some strong feelings
10:36for her,
10:36but the women
10:37are in power this week
10:38and the connection
10:39that she's exploring,
10:40that connection
10:41can actually grow deeper
10:42and grow bigger,
10:43so I feel like
10:44I'm behind the ball
10:45right now.
10:46She still has
10:47a decision to make,
10:48you know what I'm saying?
10:48Because there's another
10:49possibility that
10:50she could go left.
10:53The women are
11:05in power this week,
11:07so meeting Kim's friend,
11:08I'm just hoping
11:09to see deeper
11:11into his life.
11:13We need more time
11:14together
11:15and really explore
11:17one another
11:17outside of that
11:19physical,
11:19sexual attraction.
11:20Oh, my God.
11:23Oh, my God.
11:26What's up,
11:27Miss Angie?
11:27Hello.
11:28This is Nish.
11:29Nish?
11:30Me and Nish,
11:30we went to high school
11:31together.
11:31We always go to each other
11:32for relationship advice,
11:34so hopefully she's
11:34up to the task
11:35of proving to the ladies
11:36what a great guy I am,
11:38because I know
11:38they're in power this week,
11:39so I've got to put
11:39my best foot forward.
11:41They say good stuff
11:41about all good things,
11:42all great things.
11:44I love the chemistry.
11:45Like, it's definitely
11:46there.
11:47Ooh, what do we have
11:49here?
11:51I think the one thing
11:52that I would like
11:53to just make sure
11:54is what type of man
11:55he is in a relationship.
11:57You know,
11:57if he's a man
11:58that really take care
11:59of his woman,
12:00that's very important
12:01to me.
12:03Hola.
12:05Yo, what's going on?
12:06Hi, baby.
12:08Walking into the location
12:10when I see Rose and Angie,
12:13I feel like it's never
12:15personal moments with Cam.
12:17It's always me
12:18and those others,
12:20and I'm not really sure
12:21if he thinks he's
12:22Hugh Hefner or what.
12:25Oh, you're really popular.
12:26Wow, people really like you.
12:28Okay.
12:28Relax.
12:29Relax.
12:30We are.
12:31All right, all right.
12:38Now that Eddie's left,
12:40I'm exploring new connections,
12:42and because of my connections
12:44now are fairly new,
12:45I have to be more intentional.
12:47So I'm trying to dig deep
12:48in a short amount of time.
12:50It's nice to meet you.
12:51Yana and Brian.
12:52Brian.
12:52Okay.
12:53Good to meet you, Brian.
12:54What's up?
12:57From the beginning,
12:58Francisco was my number one,
13:00but right now,
13:01I am a bit doubtful.
13:02So I'm still developing
13:04my connection with Khalil
13:05because he's my number two.
13:07How you doing?
13:08Hey, I'm Ty.
13:08I'm Brian.
13:09Nice to meet you.
13:09Nice to meet you, Brian.
13:10It's my homie, Brian.
13:11Tay.
13:11What's up?
13:12How are you?
13:12My hope is that Brian
13:13can help me make a good
13:14impression on these ladies.
13:16So how long have y'all been
13:17friends for?
13:17So I know him since high school.
13:19Okay.
13:19We've been kicking it for,
13:20yeah, it's been massive years.
13:21Yeah, it's been a minute.
13:22Yeah, we was roommates
13:22at one point in time back in the day.
13:23We lived together.
13:24Yeah, yeah, so.
13:25Do you think he's ready
13:26for a serious relationship?
13:28I think he's ready
13:29for a serious relationship.
13:31Yeah.
13:31He wants to, you know,
13:32do the marriage thing.
13:33He wants to do the kid's thing.
13:35So let me ask you a question.
13:37Bro.
13:38So what do you think
13:39it is about Kim
13:40preventing him from
13:41holding on to that love?
13:43He tends to give
13:44females a lot of time
13:46that really,
13:47that you know
13:47you're not interested in.
13:48Okay.
13:50But I feel like
13:51some people,
13:52they give you
13:53a lot of chances.
13:54Like, okay,
13:54maybe I'll like them
13:55the next day.
13:55Maybe I'll like,
13:56like, you didn't like her
13:57the first day.
13:57Cut it off.
13:58Do you feel like
13:59it's the potential, though?
14:00I feel like he cares
14:01a lot about other people's feelings.
14:03That's what I like
14:03about him.
14:04Yeah, he protects you, dude.
14:05Because he's a helper.
14:06I'm a helper.
14:07So I'm like,
14:07all right, I like you.
14:08It's a partner.
14:10You're leading your partner
14:11in the right way, right?
14:12There go that word again,
14:13Cahat.
14:14What, partner?
14:15No, lead.
14:16Lead, yeah.
14:17You don't want a leader?
14:18We do,
14:19but I never had it.
14:20Right.
14:21Like, do you think
14:21it'll be hard to get used
14:22to him being a leader?
14:24I just know him
14:25as my friend
14:26and also as a man.
14:27He's a protector
14:27and a provider.
14:29So it's like,
14:30even if you don't want it,
14:31I feel like it's gonna be
14:32really hard for him
14:33to not do it
14:34because he's so,
14:35he naturally does it.
14:36It's second nature.
14:36It's in him.
14:37Yeah.
14:38I'm gonna help you
14:39to progress.
14:40Like, I want my partner
14:41to win.
14:42What if I don't want your help
14:43and I want to do it
14:44by myself?
14:44And that's fine.
14:45He's not gonna let you do that.
14:46Well, I'm a, I'm a...
14:47We gonna be your eyes.
14:48Well, no, you know what?
14:49I'll be like,
14:49sit your ass down.
14:50You know what?
14:50It's a part,
14:51but also, though,
14:52it's not just me
14:53making decisions.
14:53Like, I'm gonna check in
14:54with you, like, yo.
14:56For sure.
14:56Because I'm not going
14:57to say what's best for me.
14:58I'm gonna do what's best
14:59for us.
15:00Yeah.
15:00Moving away from
15:01my independent ways
15:03is hard, right?
15:04Um, naturally,
15:05because that's all
15:06that I know.
15:06So, I think that
15:08it's gonna take
15:08a strong man
15:09to give me some grace
15:10and to be able
15:11to be very patient
15:13just to give me
15:14that confidence.
15:15I take care of my man.
15:17You know,
15:17just as much
15:18as he's taking care of me.
15:19Do you think
15:20that's something
15:20that you're ready for?
15:21Because I am a nurturer.
15:23Ah, I don't know.
15:26I'm not used to people
15:27taking care of me.
15:28Right.
15:28Like, waiting on me,
15:30like, being soft towards me,
15:31like, saying, like,
15:32just worrying about my knees.
15:33Like, I never relied
15:34on anybody.
15:34Mm-hmm.
15:35Yeah.
15:37You've seen him
15:38in relationships, right?
15:39Yeah.
15:39So, what is his rule?
15:41He's real cool.
15:42He likes smooth sailing,
15:43so he doesn't like
15:44to deal with a lot of drama.
15:45Okay.
15:46How about you?
15:46Like, what's your typical
15:47dynamic in your relationship?
15:48I'm not the type of nag.
15:49If you wanna do you,
15:50go do you.
15:51As long as I trust you,
15:52I don't care.
15:53Let's say he's busy at work
15:54and you don't call me all day
15:56and you call me,
15:57I don't care.
15:58Like...
15:58I think that's how it should be.
15:59Yeah, yeah, yeah.
15:59Well, I'm kind of opposite
16:00because, um...
16:01You need, like, uh,
16:03like, that constant,
16:04like, reassurance.
16:04Reassurance.
16:06It ain't gotta be reassurance.
16:07I just wanna hear from your ass.
16:08I just wanna know
16:09that you're thinking about me.
16:10Like, like, what's going on?
16:11Because, like,
16:11who you talking to?
16:13Would you consider yourself,
16:14like, to be a clingy person?
16:15I don't even wanna use
16:16the word clingy.
16:16Like, if we're in a serious,
16:18committed relationship,
16:19there's nothing wrong
16:20with doing things
16:20with your partner.
16:21There's nothing wrong
16:21with talking to your partner.
16:22There's nothing wrong
16:23with confiding your partner.
16:24That's what your partner's for.
16:25There's nothing wrong.
16:26I mean, I would...
16:26I definitely want my woman
16:27to be on my top.
16:28I would rather clingy
16:29than not.
16:30Not.
16:31I like that a lot
16:32because I need someone
16:34that's on the same page as me.
16:36So I feel very confident
16:37in, um, our connection.
16:39I don't wanna be the only person
16:41that's reaching out,
16:42communicating and all that.
16:44It's just that I like to preserve.
16:46So it's like a surprise.
16:47Like, all right,
16:48when we get home,
16:48what you do today?
16:49Yeah.
16:49But how do you show affection, though?
16:51I show affection...
16:52Are you a touchy person?
16:53I don't think you really...
16:53I am a touchy person,
16:55but I have to have that...
16:57that man that make me feel like...
16:59All right, you got that man.
17:00I'm starting to realize
17:02that Khalil needs somebody
17:03more affectionate.
17:05I can compromise on that
17:06because we have
17:06a lot of things in common.
17:08We love to travel.
17:09We both like to go to the gym.
17:11So I can see we try
17:12to really venture in
17:13and see what this is about.
17:15And, like, Khalil,
17:15he's a straight-up dude.
17:16Like, that's what I love about him.
17:17Like, I know what
17:18I'm getting myself into with him.
17:20Okay.
17:20I appreciate it, though.
17:22It was so nice meeting you.
17:24It was.
17:25It was nice meeting you.
17:25And I'll see you again.
17:26Call me later, sis.
17:27Okay.
17:28After this date with Cam,
17:31I would like to see Cam
17:32take more initiative.
17:34Just knowing that
17:34I can lean on him
17:35and he can lean on me
17:37would just be
17:38the perfect relationship.
17:39Adios.
17:40Thank you so much.
17:41It was such a pleasure
17:42seeing you.
17:44I still like Cam.
17:45I think he's a great guy.
17:46You know,
17:47he can improve in some areas,
17:48but he's still
17:49one of my stronger connections
17:51along with Hussain.
17:53Friend, he just feels confused.
17:54It's hard.
17:56I don't think he knows
17:57what he wants.
17:58It's kind of hard
17:58because I just feel like
18:00he meshes with
18:00all of y'all really well.
18:04Cam's wisest choice
18:05would be me.
18:06Like, what?
18:07Hello.
18:08Sahara.
18:09I want him
18:10to make the decision.
18:12It's not about nobody else.
18:13It's not about me.
18:14It's not about her.
18:15It's about no one
18:16but him.
18:18He has to decide.
18:20I'm going to leave you
18:20with this.
18:21Choose wisely.
18:22Yeah, yeah, we're going up.
18:32So going to Sis Day
18:33with Naeem,
18:34I'm excited to meet
18:35his best friend.
18:36Me and Naeem
18:37have a good connection.
18:38It's always good vibes,
18:40but the fact that
18:41he has five kids,
18:42that was definitely
18:43weighing in on me.
18:44So I'm taking this
18:45pretty serious.
18:46Hola.
18:47Hiya.
18:48Hiya.
18:49Happy New Year's Day.
18:50Hello.
18:50What's up, babe?
18:51How are you?
18:51How you doing?
18:51Smell delicious.
18:53Good to see you.
18:53Yusef Piana.
18:56Here we go.
18:56My good friend Yusef,
18:58that's my childhood friend.
19:00Yusef is just like
19:01a brother to me,
19:02somebody that's there
19:03for me but also
19:03correct me
19:04and help me
19:06to strive
19:07to become better.
19:08You ain't got to work
19:08today?
19:09Actually, I got off
19:10this morning.
19:10Okay, cool.
19:11Yeah.
19:12She's a fire.
19:13How many years?
19:14Eleven.
19:15Eleven years inside us?
19:16Number after 10.
19:17You stupid.
19:18That's her.
19:19Buffalo chicken?
19:22Hey, that's me.
19:24Hey, Tay.
19:26I'm going to just hug you
19:27while I'm in the seat,
19:28okay?
19:28I'm sorry, though.
19:30Walking into this date,
19:31Naeem and I,
19:32we're a very new connection.
19:34I'm still trying to learn
19:35more about him,
19:36so I want to explore
19:37more with him today
19:38because even though
19:39Sisko and I
19:40are a very strong connection,
19:41I'm just still on the fence
19:42about our future,
19:43so it's a lot
19:44to figure out.
19:46Hi, nice to meet you.
19:47I'm Tess.
19:47Tell you something.
19:48I'm hoping that his friend
19:49will definitely give me
19:50some insight,
19:50especially like with the kids,
19:52their mothers and everything,
19:53like how this will look.
19:54When I met this young lady.
19:56Oh, yeah.
19:57Oh, so you got kids?
19:58How many kids you got?
19:58I said, I got five kids,
20:00three baby mom,
20:01and a partridge
20:02and a pear tree.
20:03She said, really?
20:04That's nice meeting you.
20:06Walked off on me.
20:07He took me off guard.
20:09Like, I was thrown off guard.
20:10Like, I thought he was playing.
20:11Tell me about the type of woman
20:15that he take in
20:17and build a relationship with.
20:19They have to have
20:19a genuine love for children.
20:21Everyone's not a children person.
20:23One of the reasons I feel like
20:24he has a great soul
20:25and great energy,
20:26if you watch him around children.
20:28Yeah, I think me and him click,
20:30but the whole fact
20:31that he has five kids
20:32and I don't have none,
20:33that's going to be
20:34the cutoff factor.
20:36That was the question
20:36in my head, like,
20:37well, I also want kids.
20:39It's like, well,
20:39how does that look?
20:40If I want children,
20:41and then you already have five,
20:43that's six, seven.
20:44My wife and I,
20:45we have seven children.
20:47Yeah.
20:48You ain't too far behind.
20:50Probably two behind.
20:52So it's like,
20:53with me,
20:53that would be too much
20:54because it's many
20:55different personalities
20:56that you got to, like,
20:57attain to,
20:58and I did that before.
21:00Oh, now we get to,
21:01what happened there?
21:02Two baby moms,
21:03and then it came
21:04with two children.
21:05One was really, really decent,
21:07and the other one wasn't.
21:08So it was kind of
21:09tough navigating it.
21:11Honestly,
21:11it felt complicated for me.
21:13It's like, look,
21:14I get it.
21:14Three baby moms,
21:15you're thinking, like,
21:16you know,
21:16what's the relationships
21:17with the moms,
21:18but I've done the work,
21:20you know,
21:20throughout my relationships,
21:22and I don't have any drama.
21:24But at the same time,
21:25who am I to make
21:26a woman compromise
21:27more than what they want to?
21:29I understand where somebody
21:30looking inward,
21:31but I seem like a lot.
21:32But a woman don't need
21:33to play a part in my life
21:35as a mom
21:36or fill in the gaps
21:37with the kids.
21:38Anything you do for me
21:39is adding value to the kids
21:40because I'm doing enough
21:41for me and them.
21:42Right.
21:44What do you think
21:45he needs to work on
21:46when it comes to
21:47his relationships
21:48or his past relationships?
21:50It's trusting women.
21:52I would never guess that.
21:54He covers it well.
21:55I think it only arrives
21:57when it starts to be serious.
21:59Oh, okay.
21:59That makes sense.
22:00When love starts to creep in,
22:01I've watched him shy away.
22:03Yeah.
22:03I've watched him sabotage him.
22:05Okay.
22:05I think me and Naeem,
22:06even though we have
22:07a real good vibe,
22:08a real good connection,
22:09I don't know how it would be
22:10dealing with three baby moms.
22:12That just might be
22:13too much for me,
22:14and I don't know
22:14if I could see myself,
22:15you know,
22:16going any further with that.
22:17With the last relationships,
22:19like, with, you know,
22:21like, you know how we talked
22:22about your children's mother?
22:23I was always wondering,
22:23like, how come you didn't marry them
22:24and stuff like that.
22:25Does that come into play
22:26with that?
22:27So I got three kids' moms, right?
22:28Yeah.
22:29My first relationship,
22:30I was so young and wild,
22:32and so was she.
22:33Right.
22:34The second one,
22:35all I really relied on
22:36my whole life was the streets.
22:38So for me getting with her,
22:39she was different,
22:40and I felt like
22:41I had to be different.
22:42I just didn't know how,
22:43and inside that,
22:44I sort of lost myself.
22:45The same with my last kids' mom.
22:47It just, after a while,
22:48it was just, you know,
22:49things became unhealthy.
22:50I ended up cheating
22:51in that relationship.
22:52I ended up tapping out
22:53in that relationship
22:54and actually doing the work
22:55to figure out, like,
22:56what the,
22:57how am I still doing the work
22:59and ended up still hurting people
23:00that I actually care about?
23:02It's disappointing to hear
23:03that Naeem has been a cheater
23:05because I still kind of believe,
23:06like, once a cheater,
23:07always a cheater.
23:08I've been through before
23:09where, you know,
23:10you're hit rock bottom.
23:11It just really
23:11up the relationship,
23:13and I'm just something
23:13that I'm not interested
23:14in doing right now
23:15in this point in my life.
23:16You know,
23:16I come from a past
23:17because of hurting people
23:18because I was hurt,
23:19but I was like,
23:19yo, this can't keep me
23:20in a pattern.
23:21Yeah.
23:24You're the one,
23:25you're the one,
23:26you're the only one I need.
23:28Tonight, I'm on my way
23:30to go and meet Hussein
23:31and his friends.
23:33Hussein and I,
23:34I feel like every time
23:35we come in contact
23:37with each other,
23:38it's just a breath
23:38of fresh air,
23:39and I do see me
23:41outside of this process
23:42with him.
23:43And so,
23:44I feel like
23:45the more I know,
23:46especially from the people
23:47around him,
23:48the better.
23:49This is Dre.
23:49Hold on.
23:49Hug her, I'm sorry.
23:51Y'all tell me your name.
23:52Can't you do so?
23:53Good to meet you.
23:53The three friends
23:54that I have Angie and Rose
23:55meeting is Dre,
23:56Jax, and Lee.
23:57These three guys
23:58are my closest friends
23:59from college,
24:00from being roommates
24:00and also playing
24:01on the court together.
24:02I mean,
24:02these guys know me best.
24:03If there's any information
24:04they want to get,
24:05they better get it from them.
24:06So, what do you like
24:07about this guy right here?
24:08What do you like?
24:08What don't I like?
24:09I'm like,
24:10where the hell
24:10did this chocolate come from?
24:13You know,
24:13when Hussein and I
24:14sat down
24:15and we actually spoke,
24:17I had my list of questions
24:18and he would answer the one
24:20and then answer
24:21the next one on my list
24:22without me even
24:23having to ask.
24:24I did?
24:24I told you that.
24:25Yeah.
24:26My man checking them
24:27boxes.
24:27So, I was like,
24:28wait a minute,
24:29I'm liking this.
24:30Is there anything
24:31you dislike about him?
24:32He take a little while
24:33to text back sometimes,
24:34but I'm a realist.
24:36Like this morning,
24:37Wayne talk all day,
24:38but the day before yesterday.
24:39I know I was going to see you
24:40though,
24:40so I was trying to
24:41let it build up a little bit.
24:42I was trying to let it build.
24:42I feel like
24:43relationship is about
24:44communication.
24:45It's about those
24:46daily check-ins
24:47just to make sure,
24:48you know,
24:48hey,
24:49we're both still
24:49feeling good about this.
24:50So,
24:51I would really want
24:52Hussein and I
24:53to communicate more,
24:54better response time.
24:56Yeah.
24:56Now,
24:57this is getting
24:57a little personal.
24:58In the bedroom,
24:59intimately,
25:00are you conservative
25:01or are you open-minded?
25:03Respectful.
25:03You can tell me,
25:03Amaya,
25:04you ain't got to.
25:06You can tell him
25:06what you're going to do
25:07with the whipped cream
25:07and all that.
25:08And don't forget
25:09about fruit roll-ups.
25:10And the picnic.
25:11I'm an actions woman.
25:13Okay.
25:14So,
25:15any desires
25:17outside of
25:18bringing in a third party,
25:20I'm down for.
25:20I'm Polly.
25:21So,
25:22I don't feel like
25:23you can find
25:24everything you need
25:25with one person,
25:26personally.
25:27I don't share,
25:28ever.
25:29I don't have any complaints
25:30in what I do
25:31as a woman
25:32for my name.
25:33Yeah.
25:33They got Angie
25:34coming in here.
25:35Oh, my God.
25:36You're coming in?
25:38Okay, here we go.
25:40It seems like
25:41every time
25:41I'm trying to have
25:42a good time,
25:43here comes
25:43somebody else.
25:45This is Jackson Lee.
25:46Hello.
25:47I know you, y'all.
25:48How are you?
25:49I was like,
25:50wait a minute,
25:50what's going on here?
25:51So, I definitely
25:51couldn't wait for her
25:52to sit down
25:52to find out
25:53how them two
25:53knew each other.
25:54Let's get right to that.
25:55Angie and the polygamist Lee
25:57knows each other,
25:58so I think we all
25:59had the same expression
26:00at the same moment,
26:01like, whoa.
26:02So, I'm a professional
26:04dominant.
26:06Okay.
26:07Professional dominant.
26:09How do you know him, Angie?
26:12So, we know each other
26:13because I'm a bartender
26:15and I bartended
26:16a few of his events.
26:18Oh.
26:18That's it.
26:19Luckily, she cleared
26:20it up real quick
26:21and, you know,
26:21let me know
26:22that she just bartended
26:23one of his events.
26:24But, you know,
26:24knowing my guys,
26:26whew.
26:27So, to me,
26:28everything has to be
26:29open-minded.
26:29So, what's to say
26:30the three of y'all
26:31couldn't vibe together?
26:32I'm just saying
26:33hypothetically.
26:35See, that's where
26:36you lost.
26:37I'm just the friend.
26:38I'm giving a hypothetical.
26:39It may not be y'all.
26:41I'm just giving
26:41a hypothetical situation.
26:44It's like
26:45all the questions
26:46in the world,
26:46like, and this is
26:47the one that you asked.
26:48What do y'all think
26:49Hussein could do differently
26:51to help him
26:52not repeat past mistakes?
26:54I think Hussein
26:55loves too hard.
26:57Fast.
26:57I think Hussein
26:58loves hard and fast.
26:59You do?
27:00He do.
27:01I love that
27:01because that's
27:02one of my issues.
27:04I like their response
27:05because I'm someone
27:06that when I'm
27:07in a relationship,
27:08I love hard
27:09and I do have
27:10a tendency
27:10of falling fast.
27:11So, that's good
27:12for somebody like me.
27:14I've never met
27:14a man that fell
27:15as hard as I did.
27:17Now, naturally,
27:17that's enough right there
27:19to have anybody like,
27:21okay, that's it.
27:21I give up on it.
27:22I don't want to do it.
27:23I'm closed off.
27:23Higgled his wall.
27:24But, no,
27:25I'm a hopeless romantic.
27:26I love love.
27:27Meeting Hussein's friends
27:28definitely allow
27:29my connection
27:30with Hussein
27:31to be stronger.
27:32I have to get up
27:34out of here.
27:34Get up out of here.
27:35Give me another hug.
27:36One is never another.
27:37I am definitely
27:38interested in still
27:39learning more about him.
27:41See you guys.
27:43So, what should
27:44I be concerned about?
27:45How can I put this
27:46without him?
27:46I'm going to just say,
27:47he got a high sex drive.
27:49I was just...
27:50Hussein?
27:50I used to hear
27:51the knocking.
27:52Hussein.
27:54Hussein is full
27:55of surprises.
27:56I have never seen
27:57this side of him,
27:58so I feel like
27:59this draws us closer.
28:01That's hot.
28:04I like it.
28:05What is his best quality?
28:07He's dependable.
28:08Like, if I call him like,
28:09yo, I need you, bro,
28:10he there.
28:12Seriously.
28:13If somebody can call on
28:14at any time of the day,
28:15if I needed him,
28:16he'd be there.
28:17Why you don't answer
28:17when I call?
28:18You called
28:21and he didn't answer?
28:22Uh-uh.
28:23So, clearly, once again,
28:24me not texting
28:25and calling her right back
28:27is an issue.
28:27It's not that I'm
28:28not interested
28:29and I don't want
28:29to text her back,
28:30but I'm definitely
28:31working on it.
28:31I knew I was going
28:32to see her today,
28:33and I wanted to spice that up
28:34and I wanted to beat the bill.
28:35You get what I'm saying?
28:36So, that be it,
28:37sometimes it's not like
28:37I'm ignoring you or anything,
28:39but believe me,
28:39I hear this all the time
28:40even from my guys.
28:41Okay.
28:41Because, you know,
28:41I was single for a while.
28:42I got used to really
28:43just doing my own thing,
28:44so it's tough to come up
28:45out of that,
28:46you know,
28:46doing your own thing
28:46to now really considering
28:48somebody else's feelings
28:49and the decisions
28:50that you're used to making.
28:51I feel a little sad
28:52about that
28:53because him not reaching out
28:55or contacting me
28:56is a red flag,
28:58and at this point,
28:59there are no games
29:01to be played.
29:02People have to be
29:03very intentional,
29:04and I know I have been
29:05through this process,
29:07so you've got to seize
29:09the moment
29:10and the opportunities
29:10that you have
29:11if you really want me.
29:13Cheers to you.
29:14Hello.
29:14Oh, let me get this.
29:34This week,
29:35your girl was definitely
29:36booked and busy, okay?
29:38Hi, ladies.
29:39Oh!
29:40Go ahead.
29:42So, going to the vault
29:43with the ladies,
29:44I got a lot to talk about.
29:45I got a lot to share.
29:46I know.
29:46I poured a lot.
29:47Right.
29:48She was busy, too, huh?
29:49You been a busy week?
29:51I was very busy.
29:52The decisions
29:53are definitely
29:53getting a lot harder
29:54because now it's like
29:56real feelings are involved.
29:57This is a part of the process,
29:59but it's never a good feeling.
30:00Oh.
30:01Hey.
30:02Hey.
30:02Hey.
30:03Hey.
30:04Hey.
30:04Hey.
30:05Hey.
30:06Booyal.
30:07Yeah.
30:07You missed us.
30:09Woo!
30:09Welcome back, ladies.
30:10How y'all feeling?
30:11Wonderful.
30:12Everybody looking good.
30:14Gorgeous as usual.
30:16All right.
30:17This week,
30:18you met these guys'
30:19closest friends.
30:20Yes.
30:21I want to hear
30:21who clicked
30:22and who clashed.
30:23Oh, boy.
30:25Let's discuss.
30:27Deanna.
30:27This week,
30:28I met Khalil
30:29and his little bestie.
30:31It's as though
30:31your friend
30:32is a reflection of you.
30:33Khalil,
30:34I like how open he is,
30:36very understanding.
30:37He's what I'm looking for
30:38in the personality.
30:39When it comes to that
30:40laid back alpha,
30:41he has that persona
30:42about him.
30:43Khalil ain't making
30:44loud noise,
30:45but he's strong.
30:45Oh, but he's strong.
30:46Yeah.
30:47Taya,
30:47you walked in on that?
30:48Yes.
30:49And I was like
30:50a little taken back
30:50at first because he was,
30:51he definitely was like,
30:52you know,
30:54coming out with the questions.
30:55And I'm like,
30:55oh, wait,
30:56I didn't know
30:56this was this kind of party,
30:57but okay.
30:58I think everyone should know
30:59that Khalil's here
31:00for the right reason.
31:01So when his friend
31:02was asking all those questions,
31:04like, it was just like,
31:04okay, this is the only
31:05right thing to do.
31:06Tell me about Cisco's friend.
31:07So Cisco,
31:08he had two friends.
31:10He invited his line brothers
31:11and I'd ask questions
31:12about his career.
31:14He is a hustler
31:14and he's definitely
31:15going to try
31:16to make happen.
31:17You know,
31:17he's not hiding anything.
31:18And he wants you
31:19to make a decision
31:21based off everything
31:22and not be like,
31:23okay, you blindsided
31:24or you didn't know.
31:25So far,
31:25the guys have showed up
31:27and represented.
31:28Yes, they have.
31:29So far,
31:29that was two.
31:30Yes.
31:31All right,
31:31Kiara,
31:32did you ask any questions
31:33to the best friend?
31:34Were you able to get
31:34anything out of him?
31:35Yes.
31:35Jay is a relationship
31:37type person.
31:38He's super consistent
31:38and also,
31:40I just feel like
31:41my feelings never switched up.
31:43I feel like
31:43he never switched up
31:45and we literally
31:46was like this
31:47from day one.
31:48So that was good.
31:49Yeah.
31:49That's what's up.
31:51Jay is a gentleman
31:52and I like him.
31:54He's kind
31:55and he's funny
31:57and he has a little vibe.
31:58Is there a romantic vibe?
32:00It's a little romance.
32:01Kiara,
32:01don't be staring at me.
32:02That's what it is.
32:03I don't need to do anything.
32:05I feel it.
32:06It's coming over here.
32:06I'm not.
32:07I actually was shocked.
32:09Like, I didn't think
32:10that Sahara felt like
32:11there was a connection
32:12with Jay.
32:13I don't really look at
32:14anyone as competition,
32:16but may the best one win.
32:18You should have met
32:19his friend, Shyam.
32:20I mean,
32:21obviously not,
32:22but yeah.
32:23Me and Jay,
32:25we share a lot
32:26of similarities.
32:28I'm looking forward
32:28to connecting
32:29a little bit more
32:30with him
32:31because I feel like
32:33Kim,
32:34he's not giving enough.
32:35So Jay is a connection
32:37for you.
32:37There's an interest.
32:38Kim and Jay.
32:39Let's talk about
32:40you and Kim.
32:42Your takeaway
32:43from meeting
32:44Kim's friend.
32:45She's told us
32:46that he usually
32:47give the woman
32:50more chances
32:51than she actually deserves.
32:53Rose,
32:54what did you get?
32:54Because he's used
32:55to being a provider,
32:57he expressed to us
32:58that it would be difficult
32:59for him to be able
33:00to accept the woman
33:01doing for him.
33:02And that's something
33:03that I do.
33:03That's one of my
33:04love languages.
33:04So Kim,
33:06he definitely
33:06has a decision to make.
33:07We have a situation
33:08where he keeps asking me,
33:11am I ready
33:11for him to lead me?
33:13And I told him
33:15that I have never
33:16had that,
33:16like,
33:16for a man to say,
33:17you know what,
33:18I got you.
33:18I'm like,
33:19do you know
33:19all the stuff
33:20I deal with?
33:22My parents
33:23are super old.
33:24I'm the youngest
33:25of 11 kids.
33:26It's not,
33:27my phone
33:28don't stop ringing.
33:31Growing up,
33:32my brothers and sisters
33:33have always been there
33:34for one another
33:35and each other.
33:36But there isn't a day
33:37that I don't get
33:38a phone call,
33:39whether it's
33:40financial concerns
33:41or advice
33:43or emotional support.
33:44I love them dearly,
33:46but sometimes
33:46it is overwhelming
33:47and frustrating.
33:48Have you talked to him
33:49and let him know
33:50what your life is like?
33:52No.
33:53You got homework to do.
33:56You have a lot
33:57of homework
33:57because he has
33:58no earthly idea
33:59what leading you
34:00is going to be like.
34:01And until we have
34:02these tough conversations,
34:03we don't know
34:04where we're going.
34:07To have a man
34:08take over that role
34:09and say,
34:09you know what, babe,
34:10I got it.
34:10Don't worry about it.
34:11That's a little tough
34:12for me because
34:13I really never had
34:14to actually do that.
34:15So just making
34:17an alteration
34:19might require
34:20some uncomfortable
34:22feelings and emotions.
34:24Ruff,
34:25you met Hussein's friend,
34:27right, bro?
34:28Friends.
34:28Friends.
34:29Plural.
34:29One of the questions
34:30I asked his guys,
34:31what's one thing
34:32that, you know,
34:32they felt like he did
34:33wrong in his past
34:34relationships
34:35and they were like,
34:35care too much?
34:36And I'm looking like
34:37I want somebody
34:39to care just as much
34:40as I do.
34:40So if he can remain
34:41that caring type
34:42and that loving person,
34:44that's going to be
34:44great for me.
34:45All right.
34:46And what was your
34:46takeaway from his friends?
34:48He seemed so cool.
34:49Relax.
34:50And like,
34:50just in a different
34:51type of element.
34:52With his boys.
34:54Right.
34:54It was nice
34:55to see that side.
34:57And I thought
34:57we connected,
34:58but then it was
34:59just like crickets.
35:00Like,
35:00his words
35:01is not matching
35:02his actions.
35:03At this point,
35:03I figured if you wanted me,
35:05you should have came
35:05and got me.
35:07That's number one.
35:08So no consistency?
35:09Nope.
35:10All right.
35:10So you also met
35:11Naeem's friend, right?
35:12Yeah.
35:13Naeem's best friend
35:14also has a total
35:15of seven children.
35:17Naeem's best friend?
35:17Yeah.
35:18Naeem got five.
35:19Yeah, he got seven.
35:20They just trying
35:21to outdee with you.
35:21Yeah.
35:22So I'm in a competition,
35:23but, you know, um...
35:25Is Naeem a connection
35:26or not a connection?
35:27He...
35:28Yeah, he is.
35:28Yeah, he's flowing.
35:30He's flowing, yeah.
35:31He that flow, though.
35:32He is.
35:32When it came to the questions,
35:33his friend was giving out
35:34good advice.
35:35Like, me and Naeem flow,
35:36like, definitely.
35:37But he has five kids.
35:39If he didn't have that,
35:40we can really connect.
35:41Kids ain't going nowhere.
35:42I know.
35:43Can you see yourself
35:44in a relationship?
35:45No.
35:46All right, ladies.
35:48With this new perspective,
35:49I want a few of you
35:50to take these men out
35:51and let them know
35:53if they are not ready to love.
35:56Oh, gosh.
35:58Make sure you are heartfelt
35:59and honest
36:00when you deliver this news.
36:01I hate this part.
36:03All right.
36:04I'm going to let y'all talk.
36:05I'm going to call my wife, man.
36:07Call her.
36:09Boy, oh boy.
36:10Group is getting smaller.
36:12It's getting real at this point.
36:14I think it's hard
36:15because everybody
36:15got, like, real feelings
36:16now, isn't it?
36:17Yeah.
36:17This is the first time
36:18in this process
36:19that I feel like
36:20things are getting hard.
36:22I'm nervous.
36:23I'm overwhelmed.
36:25This is too much
36:26all at one time.
36:27Yeah.
36:37So upon walking in,
36:39I see Angie.
36:39Good to see you.
36:40Good to see you.
36:41I'm definitely excited
36:42going into this date
36:42because, you know,
36:43the main thing about me and Angie
36:44is when we get one-on-one,
36:45we definitely have some,
36:46you know, some good times
36:47and it feels real intimate.
36:48Well, how's your day going?
36:49You good?
36:49Everything is good.
36:51I got a lot of stuff done today.
36:52Oh.
36:53Yes.
36:55Salud.
36:57It's here.
36:57It's somewhere.
36:58Yeah, somewhere.
36:59Somewhere it's 5 o'clock.
37:00All right.
37:01Yeah, you can pull up on me.
37:05Yeah, you can always call me
37:07if you need me.
37:09Hey, mamas.
37:11Hey, mamas.
37:12No.
37:14I'm good.
37:15Okay.
37:15Going into this date with Tay,
37:17I was really looking forward
37:18to spending time with her
37:19and I was just ready
37:19for a good time.
37:20How are you doing today?
37:21Um, I'm good as I'm going to get.
37:24Oh, you look nice.
37:25Let's cheers.
37:26Woo, let's cheers.
37:27Let's cheers to us.
37:28Look at your nails.
37:29Your nails are beautiful.
37:32So this week, you know,
37:34y'all had the power
37:34and how you feel about that?
37:35Feeling pretty good?
37:36I hate it.
37:37Yeah, I think it's really getting real
37:38and I think the connections
37:39are deep with, um,
37:42a lot of the same people.
37:44So, I mean, that can cause kind of...
37:46Fighting for their love.
37:46Yeah, definitely.
37:48It was a pleasure actually
37:50meeting Yusuf.
37:52I told you, like,
37:53your best friend reminded me
37:54my best friend, like,
37:55the yin and yang.
37:56I can see how close y'all are, too.
37:57Yeah, we've grown together.
37:58You look at me all these years.
37:59I can see that.
37:59He's my man.
38:00He's a great best friend
38:01for you to have.
38:02Appreciate it.
38:03Yeah.
38:05We met with Tommy this week
38:06and some feedback,
38:08the ladies really think
38:09that you don't communicate well.
38:12Um, you got this wall up.
38:14No calling and texting.
38:17That's not a good thing.
38:18I love when a person
38:19is open and honest with me.
38:20But one thing,
38:21and this is, like, 2024,
38:22I guess this is a new thing.
38:23I prefer you to talk to me
38:25and tell me what your issues are.
38:26One thing I hate
38:27is when somebody texts you.
38:29Oh.
38:31So the ladies and I
38:33met with Tommy.
38:35Talk to me.
38:36You have amazing energy.
38:37Mm-hmm.
38:38Bringing a smile
38:38to people's faces
38:39and just happy.
38:41Um,
38:42you should wear
38:43a badge on your shoulder.
38:44I know you do.
38:45It's that you are
38:45an amazing father, okay?
38:47And it shows.
38:49But
38:49you have more children
38:51than we prefer.
38:52For sure.
38:53Gotcha.
38:56So,
38:56the ladies feel...
39:00...
39:01...
39:02...
39:04We all concluded that
39:06...
39:06...
39:07...
39:08You are
39:10still ready to love.
39:12That this is
39:12something new for all of us
39:14in this, you know,
39:15kind of space.
39:15So I'm gonna
39:16do my homework
39:17and, you know,
39:18just be ready for,
39:19you know,
39:20this to come.
39:21I was actually really relieved
39:22I'm not going home this week.
39:23Something that I need to,
39:24I guess,
39:24personally work on,
39:25I guess,
39:25is just communication.
39:27Be, you know,
39:27a little more open,
39:28not hold back my words,
39:29and, you know,
39:29just give a little more of myself.
39:31That's the point of it all, though.
39:33Yeah.
39:33In life.
39:34Just learning.
39:34Yeah.
39:35Definitely growth.
39:36Goals, like,
39:37that's big.
39:38Nice.
39:39Nah, shout out to those.
39:39Let's get you to this dick.
39:41Yes.
39:42Enjoy this.
39:43I'm a toast to that.
39:46Unfortunately,
39:47you are not ready to love.
39:50Sheesh.
39:51I'm sorry.
39:52Being told that
39:53I'm not ready to love,
39:55it's a lot,
39:56but at the same time,
39:57you know, like,
39:58I'm here for the feedback.
39:59I'm here for the
40:00constructive criticism.
40:02Definitely thank you
40:02for the feedback.
40:03I try to be genuine,
40:04meet genuine people,
40:05and I think we all
40:05can just take the information
40:06that people give us
40:07and learn from it.
40:08I think, for me,
40:09I've done a lot of work
40:10on myself,
40:10you know,
40:11just willing to be that
40:12for somebody else,
40:13special, unique,
40:14and somebody I can build with.
40:15So I think where I'm at
40:16in my journey,
40:17I am ready to love.
40:18All right, call me.
40:19I will.
40:20Call me.
40:20You need me.
40:21All right, I'm around
40:22like a servant.
40:22I know you are.
40:23All right.
40:24All right, drop seat.
40:25All right, babe.
40:27Next time on Ready to Love,
40:29I'm going to send
40:29all of you and your lovely ladies
40:31on a vacation.
40:33All right.
40:34Ooh.
40:36Woo!
40:38God!
40:43I have three connections
40:46that's all going to be
40:47under one roof.
40:48It's a very, like,
40:49weird spot that I'm in.
40:50Tosic is like,
40:51you're trying to bust
40:51the windows out of my car,
40:52like, oh, you're not doing it.
40:54I mean, what the
40:55did you do?
40:58You bust a window before?
41:00Yes.
41:01I'm all about
41:02protecting my peace,
41:03and I can't have
41:04I can't have it.
41:05Oh, yeah.
41:07Get into it.
41:09That was great.
41:11That's with a little
41:12stress knots and all that.
41:13I'm pissed.
41:14Look over you,
41:15massaging her neck.
41:16I'm living, actually.
41:18I said, don't do nothing
41:19to make me look stupid.
41:20You still did it?
41:21Yes, it does.
41:22Oh, my God.
41:23No.
41:24I thought it would be good.
41:25I'm in.
41:36I thought it would be good.
41:38I thought it'd be good.
41:39I know.
41:40I thought it would be funny for me,
41:41I was pitching that one more team.
41:42I thought that one of
41:43long, but it's good for me for me.
41:44Because I told them, for me,
41:45I was thinking about it,
41:46then, because I haven't taken down my john.
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