00:00i mean it's super complicated for me of course you know we've been separated for eight years
00:26right um the kids live with me 100 of the time um and you know there's been lots of just stuff other
00:35stuff and um yeah so i'm i try to stay optimistic though about it all i'm just showing up i'm showing
00:44up and i'm trying to be there for them and i guess time will tell
00:56it's all very humbling um
01:15and i think one piece of this that i hope i'm passing to my kids is the idea that you can
01:30show up for someone and be there for them but you also have to show up for yourself and that this is
01:38life
01:49so
