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00:00It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.

00:03These curious couples are about to find out.

00:06Oh, that is gorgeous.

00:08They're traveling to a unique retreat.

00:10Hello, you all right?

00:12Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...

00:16Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?

00:21And a group of single, available, and sexually liberated residents...

00:26It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.

00:31They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...

00:35Oh, jeez!

00:37...can become a reality.

00:39We like the idea of group sex.

00:42We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.

00:44And whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos...

00:49I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.

00:54...and have sex with other people.

00:58Oh, my God!

01:00Wow, I was not expecting that.

01:03This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.

01:14Already staying at the retreat, a married couple, Jasmine and Al, from Surrey...

01:19Wow. Get me my Hugh Hefner red robe and a cognac.

01:22They were looking to open up their relationship to spice up their sex lives.

01:27What's the temperature like?

01:28Hot.

01:29Be hotter when I get in there.

01:30But on their date so far, Jasmine's been a little less comfortable with the idea of dating other men...

01:36I guess you're going. What makes you horny?

01:38...while Al's decided to get closer to three other women.

01:42That's dessert right there.

01:44Good stuff, kids. Love it.

01:46You like massages, so I can imagine you like being kissed all over.

01:50Jasmine and Al have been on separate dates for the past hour.

01:54I feel like I'm looking in from outside, my whole situation.

01:59What does that look like?

02:01This is the first time they've been intimate with anyone else since they met eight years ago.

02:06All I know is that...

02:07He needs more Jasmine.

02:08...grace is here and Precious is here.

02:10Yeah.

02:10And there's something else coming out.

02:12Self-confessed prude, Jasmine, is finding it difficult to open up.

02:18Do you like kissing down the neck?

02:21Do you like the earlobe, the butt bitten?

02:24Yes.

02:24Yeah.

02:25All of those things.

02:26I very much enjoy them, yes?

02:28What if I carry on going down your stomach?

02:30Well...

02:30...and I run my fingers down there.

02:33Yeah?

02:34Okay.

02:35So that's what turns you on.

02:36I think we've discovered that.

02:38It's a nice thought because I fucking enjoyed it.

02:40Jesus Christ.

02:41Painting that picture, thinking about that.

02:43It was hard for me to be able to detail that and not actually throw this table across the room

02:48and just take action with that.

02:51This is wonderful.

02:52When you look as gorgeous as you, how is that not possible?

02:55Oh, goodness.

02:57It's all so new and weird, this whole thing, that I've really pushed my personal boundaries.

03:07I'm obviously quite prude and British in my whole hour.

03:13So my nan originally lived in Buxton as she moved down to Maidstone.

03:18Over in Al's yurt.

03:20My nan used to always come round, bless her heart, every Friday and give her sweets.

03:25That was just her thing.

03:26No matter how old we were, she used to come round.

03:28Things have taken an unexpected turn.

03:32So on my mum's side, she's not exactly exciting, but my...

03:37Do you know what?

03:38Sorry, I need to laugh.

03:39This is a really nice chat and I love stories like this, learning about your family.

03:42We're all sat here in sexy lingerie, learning about your family.

03:46Sorry.

03:47No, I find it interesting though.

03:49Al has Jasmine on his mind.

03:52Being away, being apart from her isn't good.

03:55Even now, I'm having a great time with you girls.

03:59A hundred percent.

04:00But I miss my wife.

04:01Cheers.

04:02She's your ride or die.

04:03Yeah, she's your best.

04:04She's your best.

04:05She's your best.

04:06She's your main, main girl.

04:07Yeah.

04:07Both Al and Jasmine decide to call it a night.

04:12Oh, thank you.

04:16You had the best time, literally.

04:17You're just, you're lovely.

04:18You're such a gentleman.

04:22Thank you so much for the greatest night.

04:25As lovely as Josh is and everything, just no one compares to Al.

04:29I just absolutely love him so much.

04:31He's the best.

04:32I've had a great night.

04:33I hope the girls have had a great night, but it's been a long day and it's time to go back

04:38to my wife.

04:39The next morning, Jasmine and Al are due a session with Dr. Laurie.

05:02Did you get any compliments about how you looked?

05:04Cool.

05:05I look like you.

05:06You're fit.

05:07Some of them.

05:08Well, I would love to be my mum, but I'd definitely do you a favour.

05:17Last night was brilliant fun.

05:18Nothing last night was seedy.

05:20It didn't feel wrong because it was done in good, light-hearted fun.

05:25It was good.

05:25We had a good time.

05:26No, I don't want my wife.

05:28I just wanted to go on the stag.

05:29We had a really fun time.

05:31I definitely felt like I was really having to force myself to cover a lot of the topics

05:35that he wanted to cover because I'd never naturally talk to people about certain things.

05:40So, yes, I was certainly pushing my boundaries, but I think that's part of the experience and the journey.

05:46It is just so wild for me.

05:50My desire is driven solely by just purely being a Neanderthal.

05:58Right.

05:59Let's go.

06:00After an eventful 24 hours at the retreat, Dr. Laurie is keen to have a debrief with the couple.

06:10Hi.

06:11Hiya.

06:12Hiya, all right?

06:13Yeah, make yourselves comfy.

06:16Did you have fun last night?

06:18Yeah, just had a laugh.

06:20What did you do, Al?

06:21Ended up going back to a yurt with three of the ladies.

06:25With three of them?

06:26Not from a sexual point of view, but from an easier point of view.

06:30It was nice.

06:31It was more light-hearted, more fun.

06:33So, you had the three of them and you were the centre of attention?

06:37Yes.

06:38Well, I think that there was goodbyes between all of them, to be honest.

06:42Jazz, what did you get up to?

06:43So, I chose Josh.

06:45So, we went in the teepee and we had some drinks and a little bit of something to eat and really just chatted.

06:52What was it like having that kind of time with somebody else?

06:55Absolutely bizarre.

06:56I felt like I was breaking the law.

06:58I felt like a criminal.

06:59You felt like a criminal.

07:01So, what came up?

07:02Obviously, the whole set-up is around kind of romance and lust and all of that kind of thing.

07:07And it's all just very, very alien for me.

07:10And the fact I was sitting down in this situation with someone that wasn't Al was just completely terrifying.

07:17What's one thing I really learned about yesterday?

07:20That if anything going forward with this, that it would be as a unit.

07:23I want to hang out all together.

07:25So, you would love to have a situation where there was a threesome, where it was you and Jazz doing something together.

07:33That would be the only goal at this current time that I would seek.

07:39How would you feel about fulfilling his fantasy?

07:41I'm sure it's a very common fantasy.

07:44So, you have the opportunity to fulfill it in a controlled environment where you have more of a choice, where it's safe versus out in the wild.

07:55Well, it's still very extreme.

07:59Going from being very traditional to actually being offered the opportunity to road test that kind of thing.

08:05It's like, oh my goodness.

08:06So, do you talk about your desires with each other?

08:11I mean, I'll always say things in passing and joking about.

08:15In terms of really, really improving your relationship, you can do an awful lot just talking about the fantasies, let alone acting on them.

08:26Which means you've got to be able to talk about sex without laughing.

08:31She's laughing because it's uncomfortable.

08:33A defense mechanism.

08:34No, it's a release of anxiety.

08:37It's a very strange topic to be talking about for me.

08:41Sex?

08:42Yes.

08:43Right.

08:44I think this whole thing's just highlighted to me how very prudent and British I am.

08:49Okay, that would be a topic I would expect married couples to talk about.

08:53You need to learn how to talk about sex with each other.

08:56Or you will have problems later.

09:00All right, cheers.

09:01Bye.

09:01See you later.

09:02The session was quite interesting.

09:08The dangers of not talking about sex, especially when there's a difference in libido, is that somebody goes and acts on their desires at some point.

09:17You know, that is the recipe for affairs.

09:21So, what would you like from me to enhance our love life?

09:27I suppose it's like any couple, isn't it?

09:30Go back to what it was like at the beginning.

09:32We did used to go out and come back and want to be sexy, but now you've probably just come back and put on something with a care bear on it or something.

09:40That's a buzzkill.

09:41Yes, I need to up my fashion game.

09:43Do I need to get more bulky for you?

09:46No.

09:46Do you want me to six pack it up?

09:47No.

09:48I love you the way you are, darling.

09:50Tonight, Jasmine and Al will have the opportunity to invite a potential sexual partner for some private time as a couple.

09:58Even if we were to...

09:59Explore your fantasy.

10:01Explore my fantasy.

10:03Bring in another female for an evening.

10:05Of your choice.

10:06You actually have exquisite choice in women.

10:09You really do.

10:10For me, going on dates with other men, I just completely ruled it out.

10:14I mean, it's just no way.

10:17Obviously, Al's red-blooded male, so other women are of great interest.

10:22But I still don't want to do anything you wouldn't be up for, so...

10:26Well, I think that we have the opportunity to take part in activities.

10:31Just hang out with just one other girl.

10:33Just see how it feels.

10:34Just to see how it feels.

10:36Good to see how you react.

10:37If that's actually possible for me.

10:40Fun, light-hearted level.

10:42We won't know until we dip our toe in the water, so here we go.

10:55How are you feeling?

10:57Um, I'm curious.

11:00Just an eagerly anticipated wait, to be honest.

11:04The next couple due to check in to this unique retreat are L'Oreal and Khalid from London.

11:09I tell my friends, everyone needs a Khalid in there.

11:13He keeps me chill.

11:15And she keeps me looking fly.

11:17They have been in a loving, monogamous relationship for two years.

11:21Favorite thing about Khalid is his face.

11:23Like, I love grabbing his face.

11:25I love looking at him.

11:26And, like, it's got coolness.

11:28And their sights are firmly set on the long term.

11:33I see me and Khalid together forever, yeah.

11:35Like, this is endgame.

11:37Our relationship for 50 years' time, well, she's going to be a granny.

11:41I'm going to be a granddad.

11:42And this could potentially strengthen our relationship.

11:45This is fun.

11:47L'Oreal and Khalid work hard to keep things fresh in the bedroom.

11:51When it comes to being the kinkiest and, like, bringing that freak side out of me, Khalid has done that.

11:57Yeah.

11:57Sometimes, you know, when they doubt the plus-size guys, but we can come through, you know.

12:02We can actually come through.

12:04But they want to find out if opening their relationship and having sex with other people...

12:09Smith.

12:10...will improve their chances of staying together for life.

12:14Hey!

12:15Nice to meet you.

12:16I'm going to give you a...

12:17Hello.

12:17It's only been two years with us, so we're still in the early stages.

12:21Are you excited?

12:22Yeah.

12:23Can't wait.

12:24Curious.

12:25I feel like it will spice it up 100%.

12:27Here to welcome them are host couple Tom and Jess, both veterans of open relationships.

12:34I think the first time that you imagine your partner, like, with somebody else, like, that's tough, right?

12:39Yeah.

12:40Hey, what's up, man?

12:41How are you today?

12:42You all right?

12:43Oh, you guys are beautiful.

12:44Hey, nice to meet you, man.

12:44I'm sorry.

12:45There's so much work to get there, but once you're there, it is so much fun.

12:50I would never go back to monogamy.

12:51Me neither.

12:52None.

12:52I'm glad that we agree on that.

12:55Hi!

12:56You look so good!

12:57Nice to meet you.

12:58Nice to meet you.

12:59As we've come in, like, I felt like a bit of a nurse, and then as soon as I started speaking

13:03to everyone, just, I was like, yeah, I'm actually looking forward to this.

13:06I can't wait.

13:07Excited.

13:09Oh, I'm loving this.

13:10Yes!

13:11Jane or no Jane?

13:25No Jane.

13:26Married couple Jasmine and Al are getting ready for a special date.

13:31I'm getting really hot again.

13:33I think it's the anxiety.

13:34They're going to explore Al's fantasy of a threesome.

13:37We are going on a date with another lady.

13:41A first for us.

13:43It's to explore, get better, grow.

13:46We're looking forward to it.

13:47It's going to be a new adventure, and let's see how it rolls.

13:51Jasmine has been more reserved at the retreat so far, but is starting to warm to the idea

13:57of experimenting with another woman.

14:00I'm very intrigued to try something completely new.

14:03I think, fundamentally, variety is the spice of life, and introducing new factors like

14:09this can be really helpful and beneficial to both parties.

14:13So, it's embracing it.

14:15The couple have invited one of the women Al dated last night, resident Grace, to spend

14:21some time alone with them.

14:23I'm very excited they picked me.

14:24I can definitely bring a lot to the party.

14:26I'm a natural helper.

14:28People probably do look at me and think she's really experienced.

14:30I just want to have a party.

14:32I want to have fun.

14:34Hey.

14:35Hi, guys.

14:36How are you?

14:36I'm good.

14:37How are you?

14:38Come here.

14:39Come here.

14:39Night number two.

14:41Bring it.

14:42No.

14:44I'm good.

14:45Boom.

14:46There we go.

14:47First pop of the night.

14:47Hey.

14:50Your body looks insane.

14:54Have you ever been with another woman?

14:56No.

14:56Never.

14:57No.

14:58No.

14:58Well.

14:58Thanks for inviting me in.

15:01Al wastes no time in pulling out the erotic games.

15:05Come on, ladies.

15:06Come and join me for some naughty dice.

15:08This is your crash course, darling.

15:10Okay, darling.

15:16Lick lips.

15:18So, are we all going to end up with your red lips?

15:20It sounds a bit like that.

15:22Inviting another woman in sexually is a first for Jasmine and Al.

15:26So, who's licking whose lips first?

15:28Grace, you sound very experienced, like you've done this before.

15:31You do this to me first, and then I'll know what to do.

15:33Okay, cool.

15:35Grace seems really cool and fun, and she's very beautiful, so.

15:39Nervous excitement and apprehension.

15:41Married couple Jasmine and Al are sexually experimenting with a woman for the very first time.

16:01Lick the bottom lip.

16:02You can choose upper lip or bottom lip.

16:04And now you've got to do it to me.

16:13It's quite nice, actually.

16:16Al's fantasy of a threesome seems to be turning into reality.

16:22Lick nipple.

16:23Lick nipple?

16:24Lick whipped cream off each of his nipples.

16:27Done.

16:28I'm the chef, ladies.

16:29Don't be shy.

16:32Oh, yes.

16:34Have fun.

16:40It's a lot of green.

16:43Was that fun?

16:45Being a judge?

16:45You're turned up.

16:52Definitely action.

16:55Very nice nipples.

16:57Oh, thank you.

16:58Literally, honestly, I kid you not.

16:59You have perfect hits.

17:00It's the most amazing you have ever seen.

17:04Jasmine seems to be letting go of her inhibitions.

17:08See if that hits.

17:10Boo, Baffer.

17:11Oh, Christ.

17:12Do you want to do it both at the same time?

17:14I think so.

17:14Do you want to do one boob each?

17:15I think so.

17:16Right.

17:17Off you go.

17:18It's like a kitten in a sweet shot.

17:20And Al soon has his hands full.

17:29How's your boob massage?

17:30Lovely boob massage.

17:31Yeah, I really enjoyed it.

17:33It's very relaxing.

17:33Great tits, both of you.

17:35Thank you, darling.

17:36Thank you for the boob massage.

17:38It was lovely.

17:40That was good.

17:41This is all so wild.

17:45Getting a flavour of non-monogamy.

17:50Butt massage.

17:51I do enjoy a butt massage.

17:53Really?

17:53I've never had one.

17:59It's lovely.

18:01Very, very, very nice.

18:01It's very close to other things.

18:03What's great about you both is you both are fantastic in different ways.

18:09It's nice.

18:09Really nice.

18:11I'm very glad to see that.

18:14Variety is the spice of life.

18:16Exactly.

18:19It was amazing.

18:20I feel re-energised.

18:21Lovely.

18:22Lovely.

18:23It's a first for me.

18:25Having a taster of it with Grace actually made me think, maybe it is something we could have

18:28fun with.

18:29You're a dark horse.

18:30That's what I think.

18:31Slow burner.

18:31I can see it in you.

18:33Like, she's so fun.

18:35And I can tell.

18:36I feel like you're a wild card.

18:39You're just waiting for her cherry to pop.

18:41It's already popped.

18:42For the second time.

18:47Also hoping to make their first foray into opening up their relationship are L'Oreal and

18:52Khalid.

18:54Hey, come on in.

18:56And Dr. Laurie is keen to make sure their experience here is a positive one.

19:00How have you settled in?

19:01Good.

19:02Everyone's been so lovely, so nice and welcoming.

19:06So what is it you would like to get out of this experience?

19:09Being in a non-monogamous relationship.

19:11I think that's something that me and Khalid both haven't done before.

19:14So we're going into this, like, you know, being very open-minded about this.

19:19It would be good to try out new things with new people.

19:21And kinky activities, putting, like, blindfolds.

19:25Just the equipment and the props and stuff.

19:27So kink and BDSM, that's an area of interest for you?

19:30Yeah.

19:31Okay.

19:31And so would you be looking for a partner who had more experience to show you the ropes

19:37or explain things or possibly do things with you?

19:41Yeah.

19:41I feel like, because we're both, in that sense, unexperienced, I feel like if there was someone

19:46that had a bit more experience with that, I think that would, like, help lead the way for us a bit.

19:50Yeah.

19:50Okay.

19:51100%.

19:51How jealous are you guys?

19:54In the first six months, I think that was a real big challenge for me.

19:58But I feel like as time went on, trust is a lot more solid.

20:01I get pretty jealous, yeah, no, 100%.

20:04But I think that's just, like, a previous, like, history of, like, my trust with other people.

20:11Do you have specific past traumas?

20:14Before Canada, I just felt like I was given and not, like, receiving the same.

20:20It did make me think, like, is it something to do with me kind of thing.

20:24So that's where you went.

20:26Is this something to do with me?

20:27Yeah.

20:27Am I not good enough?

20:29That's really hard.

20:29But that's where we usually go with these things.

20:35It's emotional, isn't it?

20:38Yeah.

20:43It's a scary feeling and a scary thought when you're not feeling completely confident in yourself.

20:49You're special, man.

20:50She's amazing.

20:51It's just you for the world.

20:53When you were growing up, did you get told that you were pretty,

20:58that you were intelligent, that you were good enough, that you were loved?

21:02It probably did start off, like, in school.

21:04People did the names and stuff, and it's, like, you know, by, like, my lips and appearances and stuff like that.

21:11That definitely held with me.

21:15Yeah.

21:16For so many years, I've been holding that in, and I just let it all out, like, me going back into school and how I felt then and so much things that I didn't know that was there on the surface that I just wanted to let out.

21:29You need to be able to look in the mirror and to love your features the way they are.

21:35Yeah.

21:37I often see couples wanting to open up their relationship and have sex with lots of people as a means of validating themselves or feeling good enough where they haven't felt good enough before.

21:47This isn't necessarily the best starting off point for consensual non-monogamy, and in these cases, you have to tread very carefully.

21:58So the work that you have to do now is in building yourself up.

22:01You are beautiful, and if you're going to do this, you really have to start believing that.

22:05Dr. Laurie has come up with a bespoke plan to ease the couple into their sexual adventure.

22:12So you're going to actually go on a social together so that you have each other's support, because I think that will make it a bit easier.

22:18Then you'll go on dates separately.

22:20Do as much or as little as you want to do.

22:23Consent is the key to consensual non-monogamy.

22:26How are you guys feeling now?

22:28Yeah, I feel good.

22:29Good.

22:29It was nice that you opened up.

22:30I feel like weight has been lifted off my shoulder.

22:32Brilliant.

22:33This is your room.

22:36I know, right?

22:37This is amazing.

22:39Wow.

22:39Anything that you need from us.

22:41So if you have any questions or any emotions that pop up, just give us a call.

22:45I'm looking forward to going in, speaking to people, seeing how it's going to make me feel like actually getting into it.

22:51Make yourselves at home.

22:52Oh, thank you.

22:53I'm so excited for you both.

22:55I've eaten your hug before.

22:56As long as we know that we trust each other, we have a belief in what we actually want to do with each other,

23:01but I think things like this would be a good experiment.

23:04So you know what this feels like?

23:05Romeo and Juliet.

23:16This is nice, right?

23:17That's a very good vibe.

23:18Very, very, very good vibe.

23:20L'Oreal and Khalid are getting ready for a social where they'll meet the retreat's sexually open residence.

23:27Yeah, your bum's just jiggling.

23:28It's going to jiggle, jiggle, jiggle, jiggle, jiggle.

23:30Dr. Lorry wants them to agree a set of ground rules.

23:34Okay, so let's go over the boundaries again.

23:36To sidestep any potential problems further down the line.

23:40When we go out there, you've got to get to know someone and have a good bond first before even thinking of trying to have sex.

23:48Exactly.

23:49Touching and stuff of guys from your side, I wouldn't mind too much.

23:54Yeah, with the kissing as well, I know it was a bit crazy, but then again, I wouldn't mind.

23:59As much as we both say, like, we could go in and things could, like, be completely different.

24:06Yeah.

24:06One thing I do feel is sexy.

24:09The couple will arrive together, but we'll both be aiming to make enough of a connection to invite a resident on a separate romantic date.

24:17Hey, you're looking dapper.

24:19Yeah, I'm excited for tonight.

24:21You're going into a party full of hot singles.

24:23I don't know if there is people out there that will appreciate your looks, your personality.

24:27Come in, let's go.

24:29I'm going to just bring the vibe if the vibe's not already there.

24:32Yeah.

24:33Where the vibes?

24:34Yeah, where the vibes.

24:37This is a gathering unlike any other.

24:40Hey!

24:42Come on.

24:43Good evening.

24:45The vibe.

24:47Each one of tonight's sexually liberated guests is keen to find out what the newcomers can bring to the party.

24:54You look really good.

24:56You and your environment where you can speak about anything.

24:59Yeah.

25:00You guys look lovely, though.

25:01You look really nice.

25:02Like your shoes, you look cute.

25:03Oh, thank you.

25:04Outfits.

25:04No, I'm trying.

25:05We're trying.

25:06Oh.

25:08Ice broken.

25:09L'Oreal and Khaled split.

25:11Hey, gorgeous.

25:11I'm going to take you somewhere else.

25:13Yeah.

25:13This way.

25:13Nice.

25:14See you later.

25:15Bye.

25:15They'll socialize with the residents separately to see if they can establish any connections.

25:21Please take care of her very well, okay?

25:24We'll do.

25:24Nice to meet you.

25:25I'm looking for all of you.

25:26L'Oreal, sorry.

25:28Is it L'Oreal?

25:28L'Oreal, yeah.

25:29For L'Oreal, that means having the confidence to open up.

25:35Is there things that you haven't done before that you really want to do?

25:38I haven't used toys before.

25:40You've never used toys.

25:41I haven't used toys.

25:42Oh, my goodness.

25:43Speaking about sex and things that I like and what's my turn-ons and fantasies that I

25:50wouldn't do back home.

25:51So, it's learning that, you know, it's okay, like, to speak about sex and things you like.

25:56I don't know if people find this, but, like, the chat during sex, like, mm, spank me daddy,

26:00like, all of that.

26:01Spank me daddy?

26:01Yeah, like, all of that.

26:02Is that what you said?

26:02Say it for us.

26:03Give us a quick line.

26:04Go on.

26:04Mm, spank me daddy.

26:05Whisper that in my ear, quickly.

26:06Come out.

26:07Just come out on its own.

26:09Spank me daddy.

26:10I can get on by the other.

26:11Yeah?

26:12I think L'Oreal seems very confident.

26:14She seems like a cool girl.

26:15I'd like to get to know a bit more.

26:16Now I've started giving the girls...

26:18L'Oreal isn't the only one enjoying the sexual chat with the residents.

26:22What's your favourite position?

26:23I think you and Lorena should demonstrate.

26:27Reverse cowgirl, 100%.

26:29Yeah.

26:30Leg poncho, dog.

26:31Yeah.

26:31Yeah, like, sometimes it's a great one.

26:33Yeah.

26:33Are you that flexible?

26:35Yeah.

26:35No, you just put it back, you know?

26:37You're fantastic.

26:39You'll find out then, innit?

26:40You'll just know then.

26:41Yes!

26:42While Khaled has never been in an open relationship, he has had sex with more than one person.

26:47This is separate to L'Oreal.

26:49This is way before.

26:50So you've had threesomes before?

26:52We had vibes on that, yeah.

26:53Like two guys and one girl?

26:54No, two girls.

26:55Yes, man.

26:56That's his pussy.

26:57Yes, man.

26:58It's a vibe, man.

26:58It's a vibe.

26:59He's in heaven.

27:02Wow.

27:02It's amazing.

27:03This party is phenomenal.

27:05I met new people, good vibes.

27:07I found out the type of kinkiness people actually have, which is kind of amazing.

27:12I would like to feel that I can have sex with someone that I can literally go for, like, breakfast

27:15with in the morning.

27:17Yeah, yeah.

27:17So, Khaled and L'Oreal are amazing.

27:20As soon as they walked in, everyone had a smile on their face.

27:23They look so cute together.

27:25So, yeah.

27:26They're going to have a great time, for sure.

27:29So you like someone who's a bit dominant?

27:30Yeah.

27:31And I like to switch it up, though.

27:33I get terrified when I meet a dominant girl.

27:35Really?

27:35They're going to scare the shit out of me.

27:37L'Oreal and Louis seem to be making a connection.

27:41I love tying girls up, like, teasing them with toys, like, just more than tees, more than

27:47tees, more than tees.

27:48Okay.

27:48Now I've started giving girls, like, hours and hours of, like, attention versus when I

27:52was a kid, it was kind of like, stick it out, stick it in, done.

27:54Yeah.

27:55Done.

27:55Yeah.

27:55Go to sleep.

27:56Do you want a takeaway?

27:57So I was like, ooh, okay.

27:59I can work with that.

27:59I like that.

28:00I like someone that, you know, kind of knows exactly what they want.

28:03So, yeah.

28:05You're going to watch.

28:07The couple want to ease themselves into being touched by other people.

28:11You just relax and breathe.

28:15And just enjoy the sensations.

28:17And Grace has come up with a game to help them do just that.

28:23Ooh.

28:26Now, Khalid, is there anything that I need to know?

28:29Is there a certain position or a certain way that she likes to be touched?

28:32Definitely around the neck sides and the inner thighs.

28:37Leck and the inner thighs.

28:39Okay.

28:39Cool.

28:40Boy.

28:41How does this feel for you?

28:42Do you enjoy this?

28:43Yeah, no, this is smooth, man.

28:44I'm just here about it, man.

28:45Yeah.

28:46So far.

28:47Just gently touching ever so much.

28:52Watching L'Oreal being touched was quite surreal.

28:56Like, it was, like, I wasn't expecting it.

28:59Now it's L'Oreal's turn to get her first taste of sharing her partner.

29:03How do you feel?

29:06Is the presence okay?

29:07You know, I feel it in the belly because I'm wearing jeans.

29:11How does this feel for you?

29:13There was loads of times where I was thinking, should I be jealous?

29:17Perfect.

29:19So how does this feel for you?

29:20Yeah, I'm in my element right now, you know?

29:27Perfect.

29:28That's what we like to hear.

29:29But I'm that person that I would just create a story in my head.

29:33And I was thinking, trust him.

29:35You know he loves you.

29:36It's going to be okay.

29:38He likes a bit of choking, would you say?

29:39Yeah.

29:40I just kind of just cracked on with it.

29:42The way she was touching me, it was actually amazing.

29:45Let me try to get up now.

29:46Game over and without incident, they can each invite someone to spend some one-on-one time with them.

29:54You can go to your separate and I'll go and I'll link you in there, innit?

29:57Come here, bitch.

29:58Mmm.

29:58Yeah.

30:01Love you.

30:01Bye.

30:03L'Oreal has invited Louis to come on a date with her.

30:06Louis is lovely.

30:07We had nice conversations.

30:09He was funny.

30:10Loved that.

30:10So I'm excited to see what one-on-one chat he has.

30:15Yeah.

30:15L'Oreal is a really nice girl.

30:17She's really cool, nice to talk to.

30:18She's got a bit of bantam, which is nice as well.

30:20She's petite, small, meanness.

30:22If you're small, my heart melts.

30:24It's just that simple.

30:25It's very easy for me.

30:26It's like, aw.

30:28And Khaled has chosen to spend more time with Grace.

30:31One thing I like about Grace is her vibe and the way she is.

30:34She's an amazing character.

30:35She's open.

30:37She makes you feel comfortable in the situation.

30:38So see where it goes.

30:40Khaled seems like such a great guy.

30:43If I'm going to speak with someone's partner, they need to make sure that they have that communication on their side.

30:47For me to come in and be happy to do so.

30:49Last night, married couple Jasmine and Al experimented in the bedroom with another woman for the very first time.

31:08Hi, Dr. Laurie.

31:09How are you today?

31:09I'm good, thanks.

31:10How are you?

31:11Grab a chair.

31:11Good, thank you.

31:12Dr. Laurie is keen to know how they got on.

31:16So, you had a date last night.

31:18We did.

31:19We went on a date and it was really fun and, yeah, I think we all had a really good time.

31:24Yeah, we did have a great time.

31:25Yeah.

31:25She's the easiest.

31:26And to move Jasmine in that direction, you need someone like her.

31:30So what was your favourite bit of the evening?

31:33Massaging boobs, basically.

31:35So you had both of them?

31:36Both of them.

31:38That was a first.

31:39So how was that for you?

31:41Yeah, it was fun.

31:42Yeah.

31:43She's awesome and we played some really silly games and, yeah.

31:47It's always going to be a fun side for us.

31:49Are you surprised?

31:50Yes, I'm surprised I did this.

31:52I'm surprised.

31:54I'm surprised you did it.

31:55I know we're very U-rated or PG compared to a lot of the other activities which we've been going on.

32:00You know what?

32:01Don't downplay the amount of movement it took to get to this place.

32:07Because you didn't think you were going to do anything.

32:09So that's a huge movement.

32:11You enjoyed yourself.

32:12You had a good time.

32:13You were able to relax and it surprised you.

32:15That's a huge movement.

32:17You should be proud.

32:18I'm proud of both of you for doing this, for being willing to actually throw yourselves into it.

32:23So I'm amazed that I went on a date with my husband and another girl and we did all these sexy things.

32:31And, yeah, it's definitely opened my mind to that lifestyle.

32:38I can understand more why people choose that lifestyle.

32:41Whether it's the lifestyle I'm going to lead, I don't know.

32:43So in terms of really improving your relationship over longevity, you can do an awful lot just talking about fantasies.

32:52And one would hope that you're going to have a good sex life for the long haul.

32:55I think that's very important.

32:57Yeah.

32:58Well, thank you for all of your help, Dr. Laura.

33:00It's been fascinating and enlightening.

33:02Absolutely my pleasure.

33:04Thank you very much.

33:05I wish you luck and have a grand time.

33:07We will.

33:08Thanks a lot.

33:09Take care.

33:09See you later.

33:10Bye.

33:15Jasmine came here saying she was willing to try an open relationship.

33:20But at the start, I'm not sure that she really was.

33:23Having gone through the process, I think she realizes that she's less of a prude than she thought she was.

33:29And if they go along the same trajectory, getting more comfortable with talking about sex, who knows where their relationship will go?

33:36What we've taken from this is that a lot more people, people certainly that have thought about this, should take this opportunity, go on this journey.

33:45Don't think of it as the stigma that I think society gives it.

33:48Open yourself up to it.

33:50Try it out.

33:51Maybe we should get on some swinging websites.

33:52But for someone like me, who's super traditional, super conservative, typical prude British, I think I've really opened that door more than I ever thought I would.

34:03Man and woman seeking bisexual lady.

34:09It's given us an opportunity to learn and actually, hopefully, give longevity to our relationship rather than letting it stagnate.

34:16So, I take massive positives from it.

34:24Committed couple L'Oreal and Khalid are about to take the next step in opening up their relationship.

34:30OK.

34:32Buon abode.

34:38Keen for more kink, Khalid has chosen to go on a date with Grace.

34:42What are we cheers into?

34:44New experiences?

34:45New experiences, new vibes.

34:46New experiences, new vibes.

34:47Chin, chin.

34:48Yeah, chin, chin.

34:48Go on.

34:49While L'Oreal is taking the next step with self-confessed charmer, Louis.

34:57Do you like girls?

34:58I've never been with a girl before.

34:59What did you get with a girl?

35:01Do you know what?

35:01Before I came here, I was like, I've never gone there with one, so I don't know.

35:06I'm not saying no.

35:08Are you guys happy?

35:09Yeah.

35:10Yeah.

35:12What if something didn't happen?

35:14Just out of curiosity.

35:17Like, I go off vibes, so if I get a good vibe straight away with you, then we can just,

35:22like, click.

35:23Louis really did, like, reassure me, like, yes, I'm hot, I've got this.

35:30I'm a stripper, and I'm a dominatrix.

35:33What's a domin...

35:35Dominatrix.

35:36What's that?

35:37My clientele will approach me with, like, their kinks, spanking, humiliation, foot worship,

35:45things like footstification.

35:47So, like, you'll pinch their nose and, like, shove your foot in the mouth.

35:50Grace is offering Khaled a no-holds-barred journey into kink and BDSM.

35:55You want to spice it up?

35:57Yeah.

35:58I'm here at your disposal.

36:00Meanwhile, L'Oreal and Louis...

36:02Oh, fuck me!

36:04...are getting to know each other more intimately.

36:07You better keep going.

36:09No!

36:09This is what happens when you lose.

36:28Yeah!

36:28It was weird being on a date with someone that wasn't Khaled.

36:32It definitely took, for me, a lot of easing to getting into, but Louis made me feel so comfortable.

36:39After a couple of Proseccos and a couple of games...

36:43Well done.

36:44You know what?

36:45You can take a bet.

36:46Well done.

36:48All the walls just broke loose.

36:51Over in the other yurt...

36:52We have handcuffs, we have restraints, and then we also have a flogger and your friend from earlier.

36:58Oh, OK, OK.

37:00Grace has taken control of the situation.

37:03It's up to you, really, what you want to do.

37:05Oh, I'm very happy to guide.

37:07But, yeah, if there's anything you've ever wanted to explore, something that you would want to try out...

37:14Good question.

37:15...and trust me that you're going to have a good time, and I'll look after you.

37:19The couple came to the retreat to explore kink and sex with other people, but now Khaled is having second thoughts.

37:26The only thing is, like, obviously going through all of this and L'Oreal not knowing the steps I'm making.

37:33Right.

37:33It might be a problem, if that makes sense.

37:36Me dressing it afterwards.

37:38So instead of it being, like, a blindfold and me doing anything to you and you're going to be to me, we can just talk through the steps of how you might execute things instead of actually doing it?

37:46Is that something that you'd be more comfortable with?

37:47You know what?

37:47We can go off doing that.

37:49Yeah.

37:49I think that's more smooth, but then the fact that she's not here and the whole situation's happening, like, you know how it is, like...

37:55It started off, it was quite light, it was good vibes, but it started getting pretty fruity to, like, the kinkiness level.

38:02It was quite surreal.

38:03I was thinking, L'Oreal, L'Oreal, come here.

38:05Bring it in.

38:06You're amazing, you're amazing.

38:07You're amazing, honestly.

38:09While Caleb's evening is drawing to a close...

38:14How do you feel?

38:15Morning.

38:17L'Oreal's is just getting started.

38:19Oh, my God.

38:20Does that feel so nice?

38:22It's all big as your hands.

38:23How are you feeling?

38:25Relaxed.

38:26Good.

38:26You guys, you know, can just explore your own sort of relationship in any way you want, whether that's going in and fucking someone, or going in and meeting someone new, or going in and kissing someone, whatever it is.

38:41Yeah.

38:41Try it and see how it goes.

38:43L'Oreal and Khalid came to the retreat to get a taste of opening up their relationship.

39:05But despite the boundaries they agreed, after their separate dates, Khalid's mind is racing.

39:12Hi, baby.

39:13I'm sorry.

39:17You okay?

39:21What are you doing there?

39:23We did a massage.

39:25So it was like this.

39:26See, the pink top was on.

39:28And I was like, I slay my back.

39:30And then we played Jenga and he lost.

39:32That was it.

39:33Was he naked?

39:34He had, you know, he started off in his boxes and then he started running.

39:39He's like a go-for-girls that are like petite and stuff.

39:42Hugged.

39:43What do you mean, hugged?

39:44Like, what was a hug?

39:45Okay, come.

39:47No, just do it.

39:47Just do it there.

39:48No, I didn't touch her.

39:52You touched her.

39:53What did you do?

39:54Nothing.

39:55Absolutely nothing.

39:57You can easily say, oh, yeah, we trust each other and we won't be jealous or we might be, but everyone can have their insecurities.

40:03Do you want to cuddle?

40:05No.

40:07Do you want to cuddle me?

40:08Baby.

40:10Do you want me?

40:13Please.

40:14I love you.

40:16I don't even know how to actually.

40:22Baby, are you mad at me?

40:23If Khaled did form a bond with someone else, I would feel jealous, but we've had this conversation and we've set our boundaries already, so I think I should trust that it's going to be okay.

40:35Last night, Khaled gave L'Oreal the cold shoulder following her date.

40:52Now reassured she didn't overstep the mark, he's ready to kiss and make up.

40:57Ah, you're doing what you've done in there.

41:00Yeah, let me see.

41:02My headache's slowly going away.

41:03She's moving like a strip.

41:07Oh, my God.

41:08Mm-hmm.

41:15Oh.

41:23It must have been something I've done right.

41:25Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple understand the emotions uncovered last night.

41:36Hey, come on in.

41:37Hey.

41:38So how was the social for you?

41:40And what was your date like?

41:41Well, it was nice to let myself go and just have fun and enjoy the evening.

41:46And even when Lewis was giving me the massage, he was saying that I would be someone that he would date.

41:54Did it feel nice to have somebody really giving you that positive attention and knowing that they were attracted to you, even though you weren't acting on that?

42:03Yeah, it did, it did make me feel, it did make me feel nice. And then it was funny to see him lose.

42:08How is it for you knowing he was running naked?

42:10It was just weird to be honest. For that to happen, I was like, rah, they had some serious connection.

42:15You assumed connection just because he got naked.

42:19You know what it is? It's because he's naked and running out, so there must have been banter, like, fun vibes, more so like the chemistry.

42:26It is possible that they built chemistry.

42:28It's also possible that they didn't. But for you, the place you go is, there must be a connection.

42:35Yeah, yeah, exactly.

42:37What happened when you got back?

42:38I tried to sleep. It just didn't work. All it is is just me and my thoughts.

42:43That's right.

42:43And I feel like that's what was kicking in.

42:45You found it difficult to be back on your own, knowing that she was on a date.

42:51You were jealous, right?

42:53Okay, yeah.

42:54Yeah, that's okay. I mean, you know, that's something that takes work, right?

42:59But, you know, when you're fully comfortable in that sort of situation, you're not thinking, where are they?

43:05You know, your thought is, I hope they had a good time. I'm tired. I'm going to bed.

43:09Maybe trying to overthink might be a problem.

43:11Yes, that is exactly the problem.

43:13Yeah.

43:13We've explored some of it with you, L'Oreal.

43:17Dr. Laurie thinks the couple may have underestimated how hard it can be to move away from monogamy.

43:23You know, bringing other partners isn't the be all and end all, right? Works for some people, isn't great for others. Maybe now is not the right time for you to open up your relationship.

43:32You can work on your jealousy on a day-to-day level without challenging it in the way that you have, and then revisit this if you choose to later on.

43:40It's been an amazing experience.

43:42Absolutely brilliant.

43:43Thank you so much. Thank you.

43:45My pleasure. Take good care of each other.

43:47Oh, no, 100%.

43:48This couple are solid and very much in love, and I'm glad that this experience has helped them to confront their insecurities head-on and grow.

44:00I don't think opening up is right for them right now, but maybe in the future, this is something that they'll want to explore.

44:07I don't want to do life with you, baby.

44:12You're shaking your bum more after this whole experiment.

44:15What's this?

44:15I'm more confident. I'm more confident. Confident. Confident.

44:19Confident.

44:20We came in here with an open mind, but I think at this point in our mind and college relationship, we're not looking to open it up further.

44:28But we have learned stuff that we can take and apply for our relationship together.

44:33Using handcuffs, using the whip, and that feathery amazing item.

44:40Yeah, that was cool.

44:41That was awesome.

44:42This experience has just made me love Khalid more, and we're just happier than ever and just stronger than ever.

44:49Yeah, and to actually appreciate you as well, which is so important.

44:52Yeah.

44:52Come on, man.

45:03Next time.

45:29I'm nervous.

45:30New arrivals, Caius and Ellie.

45:32Very excited. See what's to come.

45:35Try and kiss monogamy goodbye.

45:39Love it.

45:40And dorset couple, Steve and Helen.

45:43Look at the size of that lake.

45:44Don't have too many drinks, Steve. You'll be skinny dipping in there.

45:46Damn right I will.

45:47Are thrust into the experience.

45:49Oh, my God!

45:50Oh, my God!

45:51Oh, my God!

45:52Oh, my God!

45:53Oh, my God!

45:54Oh, my God!

45:55Oh, my God!

45:56Oh, my God!

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