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In this episode of Love Is Blind - UK, the couples continue to navigate the complexities of their relationships after the pods. As they spend more time together in the real world, they must confront their differences and decide if their emotional connection is strong enough to lead to marriage. Tensions rise and emotions run high as the journey towards the altar progresses.
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02:39Vous n'avez pas envie de ne pas rencontrer votre parents' hungover ?
02:43Je ne veux pas rencontrer votre parents' hungover.
02:46Vous n'avez pas rencontré votre parents' hungover ?
02:49Je n'ai jamais rencontré votre parents' hungover,
02:52donc je ne sais pas ce que vous allez être comme.
02:54Parce que vous savez que je n'ai pas d'être stupid enough
02:58à faire quelque chose comme ça.
02:59Mais c'est une nouvelle situation.
03:02Je ne savais pas ce que vous avez fait.
03:04Je voulais voir les gars,
03:06parce que je ne vais pas encore voir les gars.
03:08Vous avez rien à faire.
03:10OK.
03:16Jevenne n'est pas mon past
03:18et je dois lui donner le benefit de la doubt.
03:21Donc, oui.
03:23Je ne sais pas.
03:25Si je ne savais pas, je ne savais pas.
03:27Je ne savais pas.
03:28Je ne savais pas.
03:29Je ne savais pas.
03:31Je ne savais pas.
03:33Je ne savais pas.
03:35Et je ne works.
03:36Je ne savais pas participer.
03:38Je ne peux pas voir que la famille est smellée comme ça.
03:41Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada
03:44...
04:02Look at you go.
04:04Look at us.
04:06A little sidestep.
04:08That's all I got. That's my best move.
04:10Oh, we're cute.
04:12Last night was fun, though. Yeah.
04:14I was quite surprised to see Jav turn up on his own.
04:19Hmm.
04:20I don't appreciate Jav's behaviour last night.
04:23He was quite cosy with some of the pod squad girlies.
04:28Yeah, hmm.
04:30And it wasn't just Sophie.
04:32Like, Anu was like, he has been giving me eyes all night, like...
04:36The girls had said that he was being super flirty as well.
04:39He chatted to multiple girls.
04:42I saw Jav acting in a certain way with some of the pod squad girls.
04:49And he did take one of the girls into a photo booth, which, in my eyes, there is no reason to be doing that.
05:01If it was the other way round, and that was you out and I was here, and Katisha had seen you, then I would definitely want to know.
05:10So, I feel like I need to speak to her.
05:13Yeah, I think it's a difficult situation because, you know, I've gotten close to Jav and I wouldn't want to do anything that sort of puts him in a difficult position.
05:22But ultimately, we've both seen what we've seen and you wouldn't be being a good friend if you didn't mention it.
05:28Yeah, it's not fair.
05:29What are you up to?
05:43Trying to decide an outfit for you to wear tomorrow.
05:46Oh, yeah, picking at you.
05:47Yeah, because it's your first time meeting mum and my sister.
05:51No trackies then?
05:52Not yet. Trackies are later, but no, first impressions, we're going to Mark Cash.
05:57Yeah.
05:58How are you feeling about tomorrow?
06:00Not sure, you know, because I just don't get why your mum and your sisters aren't as excited as my family are.
06:06They obviously didn't sign up for this.
06:08They, I don't think, in their wildest dreams, sort of expected me to turn around and be like, I'm about to get married, you haven't even met him.
06:15I mean, it couldn't have been any more further from what maybe their expectations were for me.
06:20Yeah.
06:21So, my mum at the moment is sending me quite a few messages expressing her worries, her questions.
06:28Because it's not the normal way things are done, not the traditional way things are done.
06:33Until she meets Cal, she's not going to be able to trust someone she hasn't met yet.
06:40That could actually be them now.
06:42Oh, gosh. Literally.
06:43Yeah, there's been a few messages.
06:46That's a lot.
06:49I'm a little bit nervous to meet Sarova's family, in particular her mum, because of the way she's been communicating with Sarova.
06:56These nights never seem to run away.
06:59And I guess don't end our relationship a little bit.
07:02If I've got Sarova's approval, shouldn't that be enough?
07:06Tell me what's been on your mind, babe.
07:09Hopefully they're on board, because I want them on board.
07:12Yeah.
07:13I want your mum's blessing, I want them to be at the wedding.
07:15Yeah, of course.
07:16But I just don't want to have to bend over backwards to get them there, because it shouldn't be like that.
07:21I feel like this is the ultimate function in an Indian family, a wedding.
07:27So with that really does come all of this, and you are getting the full experience.
07:30I'm just not used to the dynamics of a big family, and obviously an Indian family, that's completely new to me, but also a big family.
07:40Yeah.
07:41You decided to marry an Indian girl.
07:43I mean, an Indian girl comes family, and with family comes drama, but drama comes a lot more, so...
07:48Nah, if we can survive the pods, how can your mum and sisters be?
07:52Yeah.
07:53So it's me and you?
07:55Yeah.
07:56On top of the world soon, darling.
08:00Bet you won't.
08:03Don't break the rules.
08:07Finally here.
08:08I'm excited.
08:10I'm nervous.
08:11Be yourself, and they'll love you.
08:13You have nothing to worry about.
08:15That's all the place we started.
08:22Can't believe he's got a fiancée.
08:24I know.
08:25Hopefully it all goes well.
08:27Yeah.
08:30Hello.
08:31Hello.
08:32How are you?
08:33Hello.
08:34Hello.
08:35I'm Ashley.
08:37This is Ashley.
08:38This is Germal.
08:40I'm excited to meet Billy's mum and sister today.
08:43Hi, Mummy.
08:44He's talked so much about them, so I hope they like me, and, you know, I'm just going to be me today, and that's all I can be.
08:52I am a cakey person.
08:53I love sweet treats.
08:54I love tea and cakes.
08:55Oh, perfect.
08:56This is fab.
08:57Yes, yes.
08:58A wee bit of fruit for you.
08:59And a wee bit.
09:01It's all about balance, isn't it?
09:03Oh, my God.
09:04Oh, let me see the ring.
09:06Oh, my gosh.
09:07Oh, that's beautiful.
09:08Oh, it's gorgeous.
09:09Lovely.
09:10Gorgeous.
09:11It really is.
09:12We did very well.
09:13So, how has the experiment been, then?
09:15It's been an amazing rollercoaster for us, and I think the fact that we connected without seeing each other, I actually found you more and more attractive, and I was more and more falling in love with you.
09:27The Northern Irish accent won me over straight away.
09:32So, what do you do, then?
09:33So, I am a cabin crew, work for Longhall Airline, and work my way up to kind of be a manager now on board.
09:40Oh, very nice.
09:41I've got Billy on the flight doing the demonstration for me.
09:43Oh, my goodness.
09:44I've taught him well.
09:45Did he do well?
09:46He did well.
09:47That's for flying colours.
09:48We'll have to show them the video.
09:49Excuse the pun.
09:50Yeah.
09:51Do you know what would be good?
09:52A wee cup of tea or coffee?
09:53I'll come give you a hand.
09:54How are you feeling about the wedding coming up?
09:58I'm so excited.
09:59I think this experiment was perfect for Billy.
10:03I can see he's let his guard down, but I think you're very confident and strong, and that is what he needs.
10:08Oh, it makes me so happy.
10:13I love Ashley already.
10:14She seems a very lovely person.
10:16I knew you would love her, and she would love you.
10:19How are you feeling about it all?
10:21Actually getting married again?
10:22So, if I'm completely honest, Cassie, deep down I'm scared.
10:28The job is...
10:29It's a hurdle.
10:30She'll go away for three to four days, and then she could be back for maybe sometimes two days.
10:37Mm-hm.
10:38And I don't want a marriage where we live in separate lives.
10:42It is something that's playing on my mind.
10:44I did have doubts about Ashley's job in the pods. I tried to put that aside.
10:50However, the more serious mine and Ashley's relationship is getting, the more I'm worrying.
10:55I'm at a point where I want stability in my life, and with being cabin crew, you're not always promised that.
11:03It's a new start.
11:04Mm-hm.
11:05And you deserve to be happy.
11:06Yeah, we both do.
11:07And I can't wait now for the wedding.
11:08Oh!
11:09Let's have a cuddle.
11:10Oh!
11:11I just can't wait for you to be my mother-in-law.
11:12I know how important marriage is, and how devastating a divorce can be. And because of that, I'm extra cautious.
11:29Mm-hm.
11:30I'm less likely to just jump into things.
11:32It was a lot. It was a hard time for you.
11:34Yeah.
11:35And that would be horrible to see happen again.
11:37I don't want to give up, because I love Ashley. But at this moment in time, I don't know what I'm going to do.
11:58Looking forward to seeing your family.
11:59Very much.
12:00Yeah?
12:01Are you?
12:02Yeah.
12:03Should be fine. I've heard a lot about them, so...
12:04Be prepared. That's all I can say.
12:06I'm always ready.
12:07I'm always ready.
12:10Well, you're just like...
12:14Hi.
12:15Hello.
12:16Hello.
12:17Hello, darling.
12:20Hello.
12:21How are you?
12:22Hello, darling.
12:23Nice to meet you, too.
12:24I'm Caroline.
12:25Nice to meet you, too.
12:26Nice to meet you.
12:27Nice to meet you.
12:28This is Javen.
12:30Mm-hm.
12:31And basically, we got engaged.
12:36And we're getting married.
12:38That's a bit fast, isn't it?
12:41The...the...the wedding is in a couple of weeks.
12:46That's not what you did.
12:48You...
12:50Congratulations, by the way.
12:51Thank you.
12:52Thank you.
12:53Nuh-uh.
12:54Yeah.
12:55Um...
12:57OK.
12:59My family literally mean everything to me.
13:01Have you guys always kissed?
13:03Never.
13:05When...you know, when you're marrying me, not just marrying me,
13:07you're marrying my...my whole family.
13:10Do you play video games?
13:12I can play FIFA.
13:13I can play FIFA.
13:15I've got a question.
13:16When are we gonna get a trampoline?
13:17Then.
13:18You can go whenever you want, honey.
13:19OK, bye.
13:31Alrighty.
13:32So...
13:33I've never gotten involved in her relationships before,
13:36but she's never been engaged before, so...
13:40Um...
13:41Yeah, you and me are gonna have to have some sort of conversations.
13:45How long have you been looking for someone?
13:49Oof.
13:50I would say...
13:52Maybe over the last two to three years.
13:54Interesting.
13:56What I want you to do is look at how my man treats me,
14:00and that is because she is looking for somebody
14:03who treats her like he treats me.
14:06How would you say he treats you?
14:09I'm his queen.
14:11You know, and so she needs to be yours.
14:14And nothing less than that will suffice.
14:21I want my daughter to be happy.
14:22Of course.
14:23That's actually all I care about,
14:25and so if you make her happy,
14:28then welcome to the family, my darling.
14:31I appreciate that.
14:32Yeah.
14:35If you did it once,
14:36if you'll do it again,
14:38I know better.
14:39I know I'm better.
14:42This time I'm a run,
14:43gotta put myself first.
14:45What's the damage you have done?
14:46I'll never be right first.
14:49Oh, my gosh.
14:50There she is.
14:53Oh, my goodness.
14:54Oh, my...
14:56Oh, my...
14:57Oh, my...
14:58Carol, so nice to meet you.
14:59Likewise.
15:00Would you like me to call you Baljinda or Bally?
15:02Bally's fine.
15:03Bally's fine, okay.
15:04I'm definitely expecting a grilling from Sarova's family.
15:06The outcome of this
15:07will have a huge effect on the wedding and the marriage
15:09because it's so important
15:11and I don't know which way it's going to go
15:13and that's a little unsettling,
15:14but it's got to be done.
15:18Oh, gosh.
15:20So?
15:21I'm sure you have a lot of questions and, like,
15:26I'm happy to answer anything.
15:27I know you're a bit sceptical about me
15:29because, obviously, we never met.
15:32Can I ask them, what's so different and unique about Sarova
15:36that made you choose my daughter?
15:38Um...
15:43A couple of things, to be honest.
15:45That would be good to hear.
15:47So...
15:50I've never dated a Southern girl before,
15:52I'm going to be honest,
15:53I like the posture of an accent.
15:55Yeah.
15:56Something new and exciting for me and then...
15:59So...
16:00Yeah.
16:01We're quite...quite...
16:02We're obviously both into fitness.
16:06Hmm.
16:08OK.
16:11But getting married, um,
16:13it's massive, a commitment.
16:16Are you 100% ready?
16:18Yeah, yeah.
16:19As ready as anyone could be.
16:22Obviously, I want to settle down,
16:23I want kids, family, all that.
16:25Hopefully, with this beautiful lady,
16:27who's your daughter.
16:28Good work, by the way.
16:31And, um, yeah, just...
16:37I don't know.
16:39It's, um, can't wait for the wedding now.
16:42A lucky guy.
16:44You know.
16:50The reveal day outfit was, like, an Indian-style jacket.
16:52I brought up for reveal, having no idea
16:54who I was going to propose to,
16:55or if I was going to propose to anyone.
16:57Yeah.
16:58The universe does work in mysterious ways sometimes.
17:02That is surreal.
17:04Can you feel
17:07what I feel
17:11over me?
17:16Oh!
17:18Oh, bless.
17:19Oh, bless.
17:22He seems like a nice boy.
17:25How are you actually feeling about getting married?
17:28It's a process.
17:29We're working on it.
17:31Communication's probably not our strong point.
17:33Obviously, you know, about my past relationships.
17:37They've not been great.
17:39So, I'm not always forthcoming with what I have to say.
17:42Like, cos I'm scared of reactions.
17:44And I know that is something that I need to work on.
17:47And I feel like he's holding back a lot.
17:50So, that's where the difficulties are.
17:52Mm-hm.
17:54How do I communicate with him?
17:57Because I'm struggling.
18:02Some of the boys that she has been with before,
18:06I've maybe thought, hmm, okay.
18:08And relationships that she's had
18:11have affected the way that she deals with things now.
18:14But communication is very important.
18:18Makes me think, hmm, is she doing the right thing?
18:23I wanted you to go into this experiment with your eyes open.
18:29Yeah.
18:31It never hurts to let them remember, you know,
18:34the prize they won.
18:36Can you see that I've been hurt into
18:40Heart of glass
18:42It's all the same
18:49So, how have you felt about the process of it all?
18:54It's all happened very quickly.
18:55Yeah. Yeah.
18:56Usually we get to see...
18:58Meet your... Your journey.
18:59Yeah. Yeah.
19:00The first time you come home and say, like,
19:02oh, I just went on a date with this person.
19:04I did obviously get overwhelmed with the communication from me,
19:08especially mum, to be fair.
19:09Oh, God, I'm the mum.
19:11I get that, but I would expect you to trust me.
19:15I feel like I've never done anything in my life where you feel,
19:18whoa, Suroba's off the rails, or what's Suroba doing,
19:22or questioning any decision I've ever made.
19:24It just felt almost like, do you not trust me?
19:27That's what it was almost coming across like.
19:28This is real. This is us. This is...
19:31Yeah, we want to be awesome.
19:32We are doing this.
19:33This is real.
19:34Yeah.
19:36You just have to trust us and trust the process.
19:39There was a lot of messages from mum, and it could be that all of my family's fears and anxieties become overwhelming.
19:51Cal and I would definitely want my family's approval, but I'm putting my relationship with him first.
19:55Whenever I dated before, I really have gone down the traditional route where I really was thinking, making sure everybody else was proud as well.
20:05Like, I kind of, I think, dated with my head.
20:09I never actually put my heart out there and dated for personality ever.
20:13And I think you know that as well. I've never actually done that for myself.
20:17We've literally been getting on really well. I think we're quite similar, to be honest.
20:20Oh, 100%.
20:21It's both like our own space, but enjoy each other's company as well, and close with family.
20:27I feel like I could have spoken about things with you that I'd never spoken out of anyone previously before.
20:31It's so easy to be around, and I feel like there's also no scientific formula for a successful marriage.
20:38Anyone who gets married is taking a leap of faith in some way.
20:41Even people who date for a long time, there's no guarantee of a lasting marriage.
20:46I guess in that way, we've got as good a chance as anyone.
20:49The foundations are definitely there.
20:51If they wasn't, I wouldn't be here now, meeting you guys.
20:55With Cal, he's very level-headed.
20:57He's a bit of an under-thinker, I'm a bit of an over-thinker.
20:59It balances out so well. It compliments you. Yeah.
21:03Even though it is early stage, we do support each other, and she knows I've got her back, and I know she's got my back.
21:11You seem very confident in how you're talking, and what you see in Sarova, and that connection.
21:17And honestly, for me, it's...
21:23It's massive.
21:29That gives me so much, like, reassurance.
21:31I think you may be the one, but I haven't told you yet.
21:35They seem very solid.
21:37Yeah, he's impressed me.
21:39I'm very surprised how well it's gone.
21:40They're very surprised.
21:42Give me your hands, guys. Yeah, you have one of those.
21:44Aw! Thank you.
21:46Good morning.
21:48As long as you both are happy.
21:49Oh, yeah, yeah.
21:50Support each other always.
21:52Thank you so much. It honestly means the world.
21:54Yeah, it does. It really does.
21:55I honestly cannot be any more happier right now. It feels absolutely perfect having my family on board.
22:04I don't know what you're so worried about.
22:06I know!
22:08Mum could be as involved as she wants, honestly.
22:10Put her in touch with the wedding planner directly and remove myself.
22:14She can have her moment too.
22:16As long as you look after her, she's precious to us.
22:20I'll look after her, shall we? She's in good hands.
22:23Cheers.
22:24Cheers.
22:27I want to fall with you.
22:33It's hard to sleep without you next to me.
22:39So here's to try my first ever Guinness in Belfast.
22:44Sláinte.
22:46Sláinte.
22:47Here we go.
22:48Uh-oh.
22:49Billy wins. Split in the G.
22:50That's good. I was thirsty.
22:51Coffee time.
22:52For Mr. Worky Worky.
22:53There you go.
22:54Thank you very much, honey.
22:55You're more than welcome.
22:56So this is my home town?
22:57Yeah.
22:58It's nice.
22:59The river splits the town.
23:00So that's like the posh side.
23:01So you live on the posh side?
23:02Yeah, I do.
23:03All my walls are falling down.
23:04When I'm with it, when I'm with it.
23:05When I'm with it.
23:06When I'm with it.
23:07When I'm with it.
23:08Welcome to Anruha.
23:09Welcome to Anruha.
23:10Thank you very much, honey.
23:11You're more than welcome.
23:12So this is my home town?
23:13Yeah.
23:14It's nice.
23:15The river splits the town.
23:16It's like that's like the posh side.
23:17So you live on the posh side?
23:18Yeah, I do.
23:19All my walls are falling down.
23:20When I'm with it.
23:21When I'm with it.
23:22Welcome to Anruha.
23:24Oh my god.
23:25This is cute.
23:26Yeah?
23:27Yeah, gorgeous.
23:28Living with Bardo in the apartments has been amazing.
23:31But I can't wait to live with her at mine in Essex.
23:33Yeah, I can't wait for her to meet my family.
23:35Oh my god.
23:36And we're in.
23:37Oh my god.
23:38Oh my god.
23:39Oh my god.
23:40Oh my god.
23:41Oh my god.
23:42Oh my god.
23:43Oh my god.
23:44Oh my god.
23:45Oh my god.
23:46Oh my god.
23:47Oh my god.
23:48Oh my god.
23:49Oh my god.
23:50Oh my god.
23:51Oh my god.
23:52Oh my god.
23:53Oh my god.
23:54I'm buzzing for it.
23:55I really am.
23:56So this is Anruha.
23:58Wow.
23:59This is gorgeous.
24:00Yeah.
24:01Living room.
24:02Got the beloved PlayStation.
24:05What's that?
24:06Is it like a decoration?
24:08I thought you were being serious.
24:10I thought you were being serious.
24:12Oh my god.
24:13Um.
24:14Maybe we can find somewhere we can hide this.
24:16Okay.
24:20Um.
24:21Um.
24:22I don't really know what I thought Jed's house would be.
24:24But it's definitely give him bachelor pad.
24:28Obviously the jukebox.
24:29Cute.
24:30That's where the music happens.
24:31That is adorable.
24:32It's really like minimalistic.
24:34Right here we can have pictures of us.
24:37Yeah.
24:38Babies.
24:39And it just needs a bit of a woman's touch.
24:41That's all.
24:44There's a lot of grey going on.
24:45Yeah.
24:46There's no feminine touch in here.
24:47We'll have loads of like cushions on here as well.
24:50Oh.
24:51Yeah, I'm one of those.
24:52No, you're one of those, are you?
24:53To take them off and put them on every day.
24:54Yeah.
24:55Oh no, it's going to be so much fun.
24:56I love it.
24:59Haven't brought a girl home to meet the family.
25:01So, yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
25:03I'm a little bit nervous.
25:04Yeah?
25:05Yeah.
25:06Are you ready for maybe a little bit of grilling?
25:08Absolutely.
25:09Yeah.
25:10Just be you, honestly.
25:11Yeah.
25:12That's more than enough.
25:13Dinner's ready.
25:14I hope you're hungry.
25:15Mama!
25:16Hello.
25:17Let me see where I'm going.
25:18Oh, nice to meet you.
25:19Lovely to meet you.
25:20Lovely to meet you.
25:21I'm really excited to meet Jed's parents.
25:22Hopefully they'll like me.
25:23Hopefully they'll see us together and see how happy we are and just want that for us.
25:37Thank you so much for going to all the trouble.
25:40She's been cooking me loads.
25:41Is Albanian food similar?
25:42Yeah, I'd say, yeah.
25:43It's very similar to Lebanese food, Turkish.
25:44Yeah.
25:45This is why we connected in the first place.
25:46All like the traditional, the heritage kind of stuff coming out.
25:49What was it about Jed that made you think he was your favourite early days?
25:54He was just so easy to talk to.
25:56Yeah.
25:57And he was just himself.
25:58And I think I was just drawn to just how confident he was in himself as well.
26:01I think everything was just so easy to talk to.
26:03Yeah.
26:04And he was just himself.
26:05And I think I was just drawn to just how confident he was in himself as well.
26:10I think everything's just happened so naturally for us, but in the best possible way.
26:15Yeah.
26:16It was like the most easiest thing I think I've ever done.
26:19Yeah.
26:20I think the speed of it worries me because you haven't experienced a lot together.
26:25and what you have, a lot of it's been, you know, beautiful settings and holidays and things like that.
26:31I'm optimistic.
26:32I don't like to think the bad things.
26:34They're always good things.
26:35Yeah.
26:36It just makes you happy and you make Jed happy.
26:38That's important.
26:39Thank you.
26:40That means the world, honestly.
26:42I always try and think through everything and they call me pessimistic, but it's better to be prepared.
26:50I mean, any marriage is a leap of faith, but it's weeks rather than months.
26:55Yeah, literally.
26:56Yeah.
26:57Ugh.
27:03The only thing I'd say about that is this is so intense that it's so full on.
27:08Yeah, it does force you to be in situations that could potentially take years.
27:13Have you had any rails yet?
27:15No.
27:16No.
27:17That's not normal.
27:22I'm not really an argumentative person.
27:24I'm quite laid back and I wouldn't...
27:27I probably wouldn't let it get to an argument.
27:32What worries me is sometimes in a new relationship where everything's rosy
27:36and then a few months down the line it's not and people split up.
27:41I don't take getting married lightly.
27:43It is a lifelong decision.
27:45My parents are also still together.
27:48I think probably around a similar time to how long you guys...
27:51Yeah.
27:52How long have you...
27:5334 years.
27:5434 years.
27:5534 years.
27:56Is it?
27:57Should have asked my dad that first.
27:58It just feels like a fortnight, doesn't it?
27:59It's a lie.
28:00It's a lie.
28:01What a lie.
28:02A lie sentence.
28:03A lie sentence.
28:04A lie sentence.
28:05Are you 100% sure?
28:06Really happy?
28:07Yeah.
28:08Yeah.
28:09Not caught up in the excitement of it all.
28:11The wedding's the beginning, it's not the end of it.
28:22And the rest is hard work.
28:24I think it's normal for my mum to have questions about how fast-paced this process is.
28:34I think any normal person would.
28:36But I feel like I get a lot of love from Bada.
28:38The love's there.
28:39The affection's there.
28:40And it's kind of everything that I've wanted in a partner.
28:42And she ticks all them boxes.
28:43So, yeah, I'd be silly not to.
28:45I feel a bit apprehensive.
28:46Yeah, I'd be silly not to.
28:47Yeah, I'd be silly not to.
28:48I feel a bit apprehensive.
29:14About having this conversation.
29:16I don't know how Katisha's going to take it.
29:18But I feel like she absolutely needs to know what Jav's been doing.
29:22I've not seen you since the mixer.
29:24Like, how did you feel about, like, Jav going out after that?
29:27I mean, I was a bit pissed off that he went out.
29:29Yeah.
29:30But we've talked about it and just...
29:33That's fine.
29:35Well, I did want to chat to you.
29:38Oh, no.
29:39Just because I did go out.
29:42OK.
29:44Um...
29:45And I'm not going to lie, I didn't appreciate how Jav was acting.
29:51Oh.
29:52Obviously, all of the pod girls were out.
29:55Yeah.
29:56Like, everyone was out.
29:57And me and Kieran were there, like, with everyone.
30:00He came later and, like, I would have expected him to, like, be with us
30:03or, like, be with people, like, he's been hanging out with, like, the boys.
30:06But I'm not going to lie, like, he went straight to Sophie.
30:09Oh.
30:11Yeah.
30:12And he was chatting to Sophie a lot.
30:14And then I watched them get into a photo booth.
30:17What?
30:18What?
30:19They were taking a photo or just, like...
30:20Well, I didn't see...
30:21Well, I didn't see any photo, like...
30:22Fuck off.
30:23Yeah.
30:24And I spoke to him and he said, oh, we were having a chat.
30:25And I was like, why did you need to have a chat?
30:26Like, what?
30:27He was like, no, it's nothing, nothing.
30:28Like, it's this convo that we had in the pod.
30:31Like, I was like, wait, but why would you need to do that in a...
30:34In the photo booth?
30:36And he honestly, like, it was the weirdest thing that he just kept laughing.
30:39He was just being, like, really, like, yeah, like, nothing, nothing.
30:44After that, he, like, moved on, started talking to Yolanda.
30:48And then eventually started talking to Anu.
30:51What the fuck?
30:52Yeah.
30:53He was doing it and literally, like, it couldn't be more obvious.
30:56All of us watched.
30:57When you could ask any other person that was in the club with us,
31:00like, everyone witnessed him do that.
31:02That's embarrassing.
31:04And then the thing that, like, took me over the edge...
31:07I was like, why was that necessary to hang out with all those girls tonight?
31:11Like, I don't get it.
31:12Like, you had all your boys there.
31:14And he was like, well, Yolanda makes me happy.
31:18What?!
31:19Anu makes me happy.
31:22Because he, she makes me happy.
31:24And I was like, mate, what planet are you on?
31:26I was like, that is literally absurd.
31:29So, was he acting like as if he was, like, moving on them?
31:33He didn't act, he wasn't acting like you were fiancés.
31:36Oh, my God.
31:42I'm shaking.
31:43Yeah.
31:47What?!
31:51He literally said to me, you obviously don't know my character
31:54because I would never do this, I would never do that.
31:57Honestly, like, I'm so mad at him because you've told me what you've been through
32:03and I'm just like, nah, like, nah, nah, nah, nah.
32:05Literally, it's like a play-by-play.
32:07The behaviour is so, like, my ex.
32:09Yeah.
32:10You've basically just done the whole, the same thing.
32:11And the fact that he's listened to you as well, like...
32:13I told him about my history.
32:14Yeah.
32:15You've been cut from the same cloth as every...
32:19Like, I'm not being funny, but you came here to get married.
32:23Mm.
32:24You didn't come here to chase tail.
32:25Yeah.
32:26And here's me thinking I was a bad guy.
32:28But why was you thinking that?
32:30Because...
32:31Like, the whole demolition event thing, how I, like...
32:35He probably played on that, like, as...
32:37Yeah.
32:38Let's be honest.
32:50I just want to say that you're amazing.
32:52And, like, he just doesn't deserve you.
32:56Thanks, mate.
32:58You're an incredible girl.
32:59Thank you.
33:02I just can't quite believe it.
33:04We're engaged to be married.
33:06And you're jeopardising that to quite clearly go and get to know other people.
33:14Love you lots.
33:15Love you too.
33:16It's actually hilarious that you thought you could get away with it.
33:19And...
33:21I just don't understand why you'd want to.
33:25This should be only one person making you happy, and it should be me.
33:30I'm not gonna let another stupid little boy ruin my life.
33:33You all right?
33:34No.
33:35I'm going home.
33:36Why?
33:37Why?
33:38Why didn't you tell me about you hanging around Sophie and Yolanda all night when you went out?
33:53I told...
33:54What do you mean?
33:55Why didn't I tell you that?
33:56I told you that.
33:57What about you and Sophie in the photo booth?
33:58About what?
33:59You and Sophie in the photo booth.
34:01In the what?
34:02In the photo booth.
34:03The photo booth was off.
34:04Why are we in there?
34:05That's just where we ended up arguing.
34:08Were you getting a photo or...?
34:10I just told you the photo booth was off.
34:12So why were you in it if it's not working?
34:14I just told you we was arguing in there.
34:16Why?
34:17The argument already started outside the photo booth.
34:19She walked into the photo booth.
34:20I argued with her in the photo booth.
34:21I already told you.
34:22So you got in the photo booth and closed the curtain then?
34:23It wasn't closed.
34:24It was open.
34:25Okay.
34:26Ask anyone there if it was open.
34:27So I've just been to see Megan.
34:29Yeah, go on.
34:30What did you say?
34:32So Megan said that you were hanging around them all night
34:36and she said that you...
34:38how you were acting, she felt really uncomfortable
34:41because you were not hiding the fact that you were, like,
34:43trying to move to them, basically.
34:45Okay.
34:46Well, there was how many people there?
34:48There was Damola, Patrick, there was all the guys,
34:50all the girls.
34:51She's the only one that said that, yeah?
34:53When I came back, what did I tell you?
34:54I told you.
34:55I spoke to Sophie.
34:56But she said that you were talking to Sophie all night.
34:58Yeah, well, she's lying.
34:59I sat down with Damola and Patrick.
35:02Damola was to my right, Damola was there, Patrick was to my left.
35:05If that story, and I've already come to you and told you...
35:07I'm not finished.
35:11Megan also said that she asked you about it when you were walking home
35:13and you said,
35:14Yolanda makes me happy.
35:16Anu makes me happy.
35:18And Katisha makes me happy.
35:21What?
35:25I don't know what she's talking about.
35:28I'm a little bit confused, to be honest, because Katisha's been fed some misinformation.
35:44I have no idea what Megan's accusing me of, but there's no funny business going on, so to speak.
35:50Megan's my friend.
35:51Okay.
35:52She has no reason to lie.
35:53Okay, so what do you believe?
35:55Do you think I'm getting with you, Yolanda, or do you think I'm getting with Sophie?
35:59Like, is that what you think?
36:05I don't know.
36:06My head is all over the place.
36:13Part of me wants to give him the benefit of the doubt.
36:17We do have a strong connection.
36:20But on the other hand, I'm like, Megan has no reason to lie.
36:25Why would she lie?
36:26Why would she lie?
36:39Say you know when I should say yes.
36:42I've been blind.
36:44Second chance.
36:45No more regrets.
36:52Wow.
36:53Nice dessert.
36:54Yeah.
36:55This is lovely.
36:56Do you say aubergine?
37:01Aubergine?
37:02Yeah, you say it like me.
37:03I would say egg.
37:08Egg?
37:09Just checking.
37:11I definitely feel like Cal and I are our team.
37:15Cal meeting my mum was intense, but it went so much better than either of us expected.
37:21I'm beaming with joy.
37:22It's just such an exciting, warm feeling.
37:25We had a little bit of French about me meeting your mum.
37:29Correct.
37:31But for you to say you've got my back and you stand with me, that meant so much to me and was like...
37:36Yeah, I don't think I've even said it, but that was massive.
37:39I trust you.
37:40I trust our relationship.
37:41Yeah.
37:42And everything we've built so far.
37:45And I trust the future we see together.
37:47So that's why, honestly, I would always stand up for us.
37:50Did you think, after the pods, that we would be sat here today approaching our wedding day?
37:59Honestly, no.
38:01Hmm.
38:02Because I thought the apartment stage would be the toughest for me.
38:06And it's actually been the easiest.
38:08Really?
38:09Just...
38:10I've never lived with a girl before.
38:11Yeah.
38:12And in the past, whenever I'd spent too much time with a girl in their company, I didn't enjoy it.
38:19Like, I would genuinely feel uncomfortable.
38:21But I've never had...
38:22Genuinely never had that once with you.
38:23Do you know how amazing that is for me to hear?
38:25Yeah.
38:26Because I didn't know that was even a thought for you.
38:28As much as I always said, be open with me, I'm kind of glad you didn't tell me this before,
38:32because I feel like maybe I'd have given you more space than what I probably would have done naturally.
38:37I've not needed it.
38:40Aww.
38:41And the fact that we're here now...
38:45I know.
38:46..just shows it was the right decision for both of us.
38:48100%.
38:49Yeah.
38:50You have brought another side out to me when I've realised it's OK to put myself first.
38:55Yeah.
38:56It's OK to speak up for what I feel I need to speak up for.
38:59And I thank you for that, because I have struggled with that a lot.
39:04Everything's always been done by the normal route.
39:06Yeah.
39:07So, the fact for me to finally find the one, to find you, to me stepping out of everything I've known in life,
39:14that's insane.
39:16I do love you and I want you to know that.
39:17Aww.
39:18And I absolutely love you too.
39:21She brings out the best in me and it's so easy to be around and it's so thoughtful.
39:26She just accepts me for the way I am.
39:28I'll be your life.
39:49I have no desire to speak to Trevenne again.
39:51I've been in relationships like this before.
39:55And I've trusted them and I've taken them back again and again and again.
40:00I didn't come here to make the same mistakes.
40:04It's not that I can't decide
40:08If I want you by my side
40:13I'm relieved that he's shown me who he is so I don't have to find out a year down the line.
40:18I wish there was another way to say this
40:23I'm relieved that I can leave controlling the outcome.
40:28I wish we could pretend we have tomorrow
40:32This luck is just surviving on time borrowed
40:37I would be crying a lot more tears in my experience if I stayed.
40:41It's hard to say because I felt like there was always like a niggling in the back of my mind.
40:46But I just wasn't listening.
40:50I wish there was another way to say this
40:54Don't wanna break your heart but I can fake it
40:59I came to this spirit because I wanted to find someone to love, respect and support me.
41:04You're not gonna care what you need
41:08I wanted a happy ending
41:10I wish there was another way to say this
41:14It just wasn't the right path for me and that's okay.
41:17If it makes you happy it's not me
41:34To be honest, I'm pissed off.
41:55It seems Katisha believes Megan over what I'm saying
42:00Megan's told her things that were just simply not true
42:06I know what happened and I've got other people to corroborate what happened
42:13I would like to get Megan, get Kieran
42:17Let's hash it out, let's see what the real truth is
42:19One, two, three
42:37One, two, three
42:39Hey!
42:45Come on babe
42:46One, two, one
42:49Oh my god
42:53We made it!
42:55We made it!
43:05And I'll help out
43:06Jed is gonna do the graphic
43:09What bit would you like madame?
43:10Oh I'll have the leg please
43:12She just said something, I'm like
43:13Yes
43:15Happy wife
43:16Happy life
43:17Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada
43:47Yeah, so, Katisha left yesterday.
43:53She left a note, she left a ring.
43:56What happened, though? Why did she leave? What happened?
43:59You know, the night that we had the mixer and then we went out after.
44:03Megan essentially told her that, apparently,
44:06I was with Sophie and Yolanda all night.
44:09So she's saying that I spent the whole two, three hours with them.
44:12With them?
44:13That's what she said.
44:15That's not the truth, is it?
44:16Truly, truly, so, so, so bad.
44:18That's craziness, really.
44:20You spent the whole time with myself, with Damola,
44:23but there were other people as well.
44:24Everyone was there, we were all together.
44:25That's a bit mad to hear.
44:27But if Katisha's listening to that,
44:29she's obviously someone who values other people's opinions,
44:31like, way more than, I guess, even her own.
44:34Like, you can just hold your head held high, you know,
44:37and just believe in yourself and know that
44:39you've been true to this girl, you've been nothing but honest as well.
44:42Yeah, just like, this is nothing that's, you know,
44:45going to put you in a low vibration.
44:47You know how to make a man feel good, Patrick.
44:51No problem, man.
44:52Take care, brother.
44:53Appreciate you bouncing.
44:53All right. Take care.
44:55Bye.
44:55I have to apologise.
45:09If we only get three days of summer, no, Nad.
45:11Do you know what?
45:12Rain, shine, sun, whatever.
45:15As long as I'm here and I'm with you
45:16and I'm seeing where you've come from,
45:18I just...
45:19I'm just so excited to spend the weekend here with you.
45:22Wedding's in under two weeks.
45:24So, let's check in.
45:25Like, how are you feeling?
45:27So, I've always been honest to you from the start.
45:30Don't want to lead you astray.
45:33Part of me saying we need to jump in with a little bit of risk,
45:37I need to be realist about it,
45:39and I am torn down the middle.
45:45Um...
45:46I'm not going to lie, like, I feel, like, really sick.
45:51Um, my heart feels like it's in my mouth right now.
45:55Um...
45:56I wasn't really expecting you to say, like, it was 50-50.
46:03I think it's just a shock.
46:04I don't know.
46:05Yeah.
46:06Hearing that.
46:07It's just scary thinking this could all go pear-shaped
46:11in six months if our jobs don't align.
46:22I love you so much, and I see a future with us.
46:25I see it working with us.
46:27I see the first six months being bloody hard.
46:30Yeah.
46:31I'm willing to try and get as many weekends off as I can with you,
46:34and I'm ready to settle down, I'm ready to marry,
46:36I'm ready to have a family now.
46:38And I think we've cemented that pretty much in the pods.
46:45I don't think it's ever been cemented.
46:47Yes, like, we talk to each other around saying,
46:50yes, this can work, it will work.
46:51Yeah.
46:51But it can never have been cemented.
46:53We always talked about it being an ongoing thing
46:56that we're going to have to battle.
46:59I guess it's just really hard hearing, like,
47:03that it could be a no.
47:05Are you just going to jump into this regardless, then?
47:08Because it could be a no from you as well.
47:12I'm so yes right now, Billy.
47:14I'm so yes.
47:14I know we've got more to experiment to live and breathe and...
47:18Let me love you.
47:19I want to do this.
47:21And my chest hurts.
47:34I'm willing to adapt and make this work.
47:36Makes me think, what the hell?
47:38Like, you know, I've been told I've not been good enough before
47:41and I'm ready to be good enough for Billy.
47:45I thought I was good enough for Billy,
47:47and it frustrates me that my job, again, is getting in the way.
47:55I know my job is going to be hard.
47:57I know it is,
47:58but my job's always put me back in relationships.
48:02It's always been a negative,
48:03and this time I'm not letting it be.
48:06I'm looking, being realist about it.
48:13It's not a no.
48:15It's just I'm looking at all I know.
48:17It's just I'm looking at all I know.
48:17Like, I did not come into this experiment
48:25to just date and date.
48:27Like, I've done that on the outside world.
48:29I've come into this experiment and been vulnerable,
48:31and I'm just really confused right now.
48:33Ripping out the pages
48:35All that we created
48:38We're such thought we could be friends
48:42Slipping away
48:46But you couldn't wait to let me go
48:53You're ripping out the pages
48:56Hello, mate.
49:01Thanks for coming in.
49:02All right?
49:02No worries.
49:02Just go upstairs.
49:04Whatever Megan told Katisha
49:05definitely got into her head
49:07and ultimately is the reason why she's not here.
49:10Take a seat.
49:12I want to clear my name.
49:13It's only right that I express myself
49:15and give them my side of the story.
49:17Thank you guys for coming.
49:18Appreciate it.
49:18It's all right, mate.
49:19Obviously, a few things to discuss.
49:21I'm sure you guys are aware
49:22Katisha's no longer here.
49:23And a lot of that is predicated
49:26based on, from my understanding,
49:27what you've discussed with her.
49:29Yeah.
49:30And I just want to dissect some of that
49:32because from what she told me,
49:34there were some half-truths
49:36to what was said.
49:38Okay.
49:39Apparently, I spent all night with Sophie and Yolanda.
49:42What, at the club?
49:43At the bar, yeah.
49:44All I ever saw you with was
49:46I saw you with Sophie, Yolanda and Anu.
49:49So, you never saw me sitting and chatting to Patrick.
49:52You never saw me sitting and chatting to Damala.
49:53Personally, no, I didn't.
49:54Okay, so, would that equate for all night, then?
49:57Because all night, I was there for about two or three hours.
50:00Well, I was enjoying myself, you know.
50:01I'm not here to watch you all night.
50:02Okay, so then, if you was enjoying yourself all night,
50:05then how can you tell someone
50:05that you saw me with them all night?
50:07The thing is, it doesn't matter how...
50:08It doesn't even matter the amount of time.
50:09No, but it does.
50:09It does matter, because the way that you say something,
50:11it matters.
50:12If you say something in a way that isn't true,
50:14then you're insinuating something.
50:16And if you're insinuating something that isn't true,
50:18then it's a lie.
50:19Okay, well, I haven't insinuated anything.
50:21I literally just told Katisha the fact of what I saw.
50:24And I saw you with the girls every time I saw you.
50:28Every time I looked over, you were either with Sophie,
50:30you were with Yolanda, or you were with Anu.
50:31I personally didn't see you with the boys at all.
50:33You can say you were, but that's all I saw.
50:35When I came in, what was I doing?
50:37I was arguing with Sophie.
50:38Were you arguing, though?
50:39Yes, I was.
50:40Didn't look like arguing to me.
50:41What does it look like?
50:42It looked like you were chatting to each other.
50:44We was arguing.
50:45And why did you go into a photo booth to argue?
50:46The photo booth was open, and the first thing is that
50:49I didn't want to argue on the dance floor,
50:51screaming and shouting in front of everybody.
50:52I don't know.
50:53It didn't look like that to me.
50:54Well, it doesn't matter what it looked like to you,
50:55because obviously your perception was wrong,
50:57because the photo booth was open.
50:58It wasn't like a photo booth where there's a curtain
51:01or it can hide.
51:02I'm pretty sure that it was.
51:04I saw you and Safi chatting.
51:06I saw you going to the photo booth,
51:07and the curtain was closed.
51:09There was no curtain!
51:10There is a curtain.
51:11What do you think I was doing?
51:12Do you think that I'm stupid enough to be trying to,
51:15I don't know.
51:16I don't even know.
51:17I don't actually know what you were insinuating
51:19that I was doing.
51:20Everything that Meg has said to Katisha
51:22is what she saw,
51:23and I also saw that.
51:24Okay, but no, but then...
51:25No, it's bullshit.
51:26No, it is bullshit.
51:27No, no, it's bullshit.
51:28Because to say that you was with someone all night,
51:30bro, I was there for three hours.
51:31No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
51:33Why were you chatting to Yolanda?
51:34It doesn't matter.
51:35Tell me why you were chatting to Yolanda.
51:36I spoke to Yolanda for about 10, 15 minutes.
51:38You were chatting, you were all over Yolanda.
51:40No, I wasn't.
51:41You were all over Anu.
51:41It doesn't even make sense.
51:42You also mentioned how Sophie is someone
51:44that you'd like to fuck,
51:45but you were just leaving her.
51:46I never said that.
51:47You did.
51:48You did.
51:49Yolanda was right here.
51:51Mate, I don't care.
51:52I saw, I saw.
51:53I told Katisha.
51:54Don't be mad about it.
51:55All I think is Katisha deserve to know
51:56what you were doing,
51:57because you weren't...
51:58I already told her that on a Wednesday morning.
51:59Well, then what's the issue?
52:00I already told her that.
52:01Then what's the issue?
52:02I don't know what the issue is.
52:03It's an issue that we obviously lied.
52:04You're the one that's brought us around, mate,
52:06to have a conversation.
52:06Because you lied about something.
52:08I literally told Katisha what I saw.
52:09I don't care if you don't believe it,
52:10to be honest.
52:11I don't care.
52:11It doesn't matter.
52:12I don't care.
52:13If you want to see her and deny it,
52:14I don't care,
52:15because I told her what I saw,
52:16and that's that.
52:20See you never, Jav.
52:21Have a good life,
52:22you fucking prick.
52:32I've had many arguments
52:33with people like Jav,
52:35who just go over and over
52:37the same thing
52:39and trying to, like,
52:39deflect the argument
52:40onto the other person.
52:42So I had to remove myself
52:43from the conversation,
52:45because we were going nowhere.
52:48I think he knows what he's done.
52:51So agree to disagree.
52:53You live your life, Jav.
52:55I never meant to make her cry,
52:57so I apologise.
52:57I apologise to making your missus cry.
52:59That was not my intention.
53:00Yeah.
53:00But I wanted to make sure
53:01I had this conversation
53:02so you guys knew where I stood.
53:03That is literally it.
53:04And you call people out,
53:11they don't want to face the facts.
53:21You do right by him, mate.
53:22That's what you can do.
53:26In hindsight,
53:27the easiest thing would have been
53:28for me to just not go out
53:29and just stayed in that night.
53:36Definitely still feel very strongly
53:38about Katisha.
53:38I don't think you can go through
53:39this whole process
53:40and it just ends just like that
53:41and you don't feel anything.
53:45To come this far
53:46and just say it's over
53:48and like not talk,
53:50it kind of just reaffirmed
53:51what I kind of felt already.
53:54If we can't communicate effectively
53:56at this stage,
53:58it wasn't meant to be.
53:59Will you say I do
54:06to the person
54:07you chose to get engaged to
54:09sight unseen?
54:11Or will you decide
54:12to walk away forever?
54:14You are the most
54:15kind
54:16and respectful man
54:18that I've ever met
54:19and I'm so lucky
54:20to have found you.
54:22We're living out
54:23our fairy tale right now
54:24and Megan,
54:25you are my happily ever after.
54:38Are you worried
54:39that Megan might say no?
54:41If she does say no,
54:42I actually have a zero idea
54:43how I deal with that.
54:45We did actually
54:46have an argument yesterday.
54:48Right now,
54:48it does feel really uncomfortable.
54:50We were on two different pages.
54:51If I feel like I'm not heard,
54:53it'll be a problem.
54:54I'm about to make
54:56the biggest decision
54:57of my life.
54:59I've been in this
54:59honeymoon period before.
55:01I don't want to get
55:01six months in
55:02and go cold
55:03and break off the relationship.
55:05Why do I need to rush
55:06into something
55:07if I don't know him enough?
55:10And to be honest,
55:10Mum,
55:11I have to be selfish up there.
55:13I hope she can forgive me.
55:14I am scared
55:15of him saying no.
55:17That will be really hard
55:18to hear at the altar.
55:21I fell in love
55:21with how you make me feel.
55:22I have her.
55:24I have to be selfish up there.
55:25I have to be selfish up there.
55:26I have to be selfish up there.
55:27I have to be selfish up there.
55:28I have to be selfish up there.
55:29I have to be selfish up there.
55:30I have to be selfish up there.
55:31I have to be selfish up there.
55:32I have to be selfish up there.
55:33I have to be selfish up there.
55:34I have to be selfish up there.
55:35I have to be selfish up there.
55:36I have to be selfish up there.
55:37I have to be selfish up there.
55:38I have to be selfish up there.
55:39I have to be selfish up there.
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