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00:00Previously on Bell Collective.
00:02I lost my mother, her birth me, and then my son.
00:05It's now going on five years since my son's life was taken.
00:10I was angry, I was hurt, I was pissed,
00:13and it's very, very painful.
00:15I am planning a trip to the Secret Coast, baboom!
00:18Oh, God!
00:20So who all will be there?
00:21Everybody.
00:22When I brunch, I brunch on purpose.
00:24Getting back to work and hosting my first brunch
00:28on the Mississippi brunch tour,
00:29it's just a distraction that I need.
00:31I'm ready for this trip!
00:32All right, I am looking forward to going out of town
00:36with the girls.
00:37I'm just sick and tired of people playing in my face.
00:39I'm in a weird space with that.
00:41Two are going to have to bulk together.
00:43Carrie, seriously?
00:45Uh-uh!
00:46Is there anything that Glenn is doing inappropriate?
00:50That's your answer right now.
00:58What?
01:01What about out-of-the-racket assemblers?
01:03Why did neither are they?
01:04You just are red-отив advocacy unchurched?
01:05We've got a man behind theíss wheel.
01:07As you can't escape.
01:08And the happiest on the inanimate답,
01:10make doors, make doorsikal,
01:13and also I've got a knife going bigger and themed noise.
01:16Send back Yay 2 to 5에 Betsy.
01:18I'm done!
01:20I'm confused by Village Obolin.
01:22I'm confused by all my parts that are over Devon'd.
01:23What happened in their mom's life?
01:24After that time, I was waiting down
01:26so my question is like after all of this have you with your eyes seen glenn do anything
01:41inappropriate that you feel like i need to know about
01:45or that you had shared with me i don't think so but with amanda like i always say like i don't
01:53know her to be a liar so you know i don't know what conversations you and glendale have had but
01:58you know whatever conversations definitely take heat if she said something for sure
02:03i'm not satisfied with latrice's answers and she's deflecting putting it on glenn i can handle my own
02:10marriage i just need latrice to take accountability for her own actions and it don't look like i'm
02:16gonna be getting that tonight let's move forward
02:19i'm all about my paper they can't deal with me
02:35them females that be petty they can't chill with me
02:40good morning morning monroe i know you hate i slept in here but i told you i was sleeping in
02:47here with you after dinner last night i mean everybody was pretty much exhausted and we went
02:52home and went straight to bed i was supposed to sleep in the room with latrice but i didn't want
02:57to do that so i'm bunking with marie so how you feel about your latrice conversation last night
03:04my thing is when people show you who they are as they say you have to believe them
03:10things didn't go well at dinner last night and frankly i expected that but it kind of leaves us at
03:26the awkward point so how you feel like you and tisha's on top y'all done talking now i just feel
03:31like they like she wanted me to be a fault for what went on but at the end of the day it's still
03:39damned if i do damn if i don't because at the end of the day tisha you not gonna leave glenn right
03:44and don't try to make it seem like it's my fault for something that your man did i feel for the position
03:51that latrice is in when i first found out about the dms i don't want anything to do with it i don't
04:00want to be the person who you know everybody knows a situation and then we're around latisha like this
04:07is something that i literally wouldn't take to her i wouldn't either i am grateful every day that i
04:13missed that pool party i want to stay out of the drama we're in each other's presence let's be
04:18cordial like i don't need no hostility no animosity i'm not about this and we're gonna see how today
04:24just goes oh god i think today is gonna be good it's gonna be good it's gonna be good because we
04:29make it good
04:30i am in a hard space because latisha is my friend latrice is my friend i've been knowing both these
04:42ladies for years this is definitely not what carrie wanted on this trip can we just all get
04:48alone are you ready for this brunch to get back to your purpose and what god called you to do
04:54absolutely and let's brunch and let's brunch today is very important i am relaunching the mississippi
05:01brunch tour women brunch mississippi and it's not all about entrepreneurship it's also about home
05:06ownership and connecting women together thank you i love you i love you my friend
05:11we're having a brunch yes you should join us i really feel good being able to show up as latisha's
05:33friend and help her with this brunch it is of the utmost importance that this brunch goes well i know
05:39these ladies know that these ladies know that i'm a boss but seeing is believing and this is my chance
05:43to show them that hey carrie's working with something girl it looks really good we're gonna wait for
05:51latisha and them to get here before we get started but they're coming i put on something comfortable
05:57because you know i'll be moving around at the brunches
05:58brunch fashion is very important the fascinators the flowers the southern belle attire all of that
06:12i'm dressed to impress y'all know i'll be extra nice so it's important for me to show up and show
06:18out i think my dress is cute i think people should dress their personality especially when you're showing
06:24up to a brunch when it comes to latrice rogers she steps each and every time i don't care if she's
06:29taking out the garbage so brunch is no different i mean i'm gonna show up as my fabulous self
06:34i am wearing four s collections today and i'm gonna top it off pair it with a cute hat
06:41i am representing jackson very well true southern belle style we are headed to brunch y'all
06:49go brunch it's back
06:52okay
06:55on my way to the brunch i do have mixed emotions because i'm not hands-on with this brunch as i
07:06normally would be i'm nervous but i'm excited it's here hello ladies so you guys have y'all a little
07:20spot right here i love kerry's restaurant i smell food i see people enjoying themselves having a good
07:30time this is what i get excited about black women owning businesses owning your brand can we have
07:38your attention please first i would like to say thank you for coming out it is an honor to be able
07:46to relaunch women brunch mississippi and for those of you who may not know what women brunch mississippi
07:51is it is a platform for female entrepreneurs throughout the state of mississippi to network connect
07:57and we promote collaboration over competition can you say that for me collaboration over competition
08:04i just want to thank you for coming here and highlighting my restaurant and choosing us to have
08:09your launch thank you and i really just love women and i love to see women grow and achieve the
08:17dreams of their heart and y'all know i get i get emotional every time i do this i don't know why
08:22carrie's so emotional right now she didn't even realize her eyelash down here by her nose honey i've
08:29never had an entire lash to come off my eyelids how can you not see it it's right there this eyelash
08:36is just hanging i just want to touch it but i'm too far away okay this is really important to me
08:43i don't have your lashes okay as the line goes one monkey don't stop no show two lashes ain't gonna
09:04stop my you know you cry a lot and so do i that's probably why we're drawn to each other yes thank
09:13you carrie y'all let's give it up again i love it i can't be crying girl you know i get emotional
09:19carrie and our girl crushed over each other for years on social media we've been social media besties
09:25for a long time don't be afraid to slide in somebody's dm don't be afraid to slide in someone's
09:34dms that may not be your ministry right now you may need to try to rephrase it and preach something else
09:41because your husband is practicing what you preach so with that being said um what i've learned um
09:47brunching since 2017 and traveling the world there are so many entrepreneurs and inspiring
09:52entrepreneurs and women in general who can share their story so today i want you guys to actually
09:57tell your story and to inspire me as well and the bells okay thank you what we know is when women
10:05talk that's when things happen yeah when we talk and we get together yes we can become vice president
10:10i'm a realtor i'm in management and consulting and i'm a purpose coach for single moms because i am
10:17a single mom and one thing about women in mississippi we stand for a lot and you see that vision in all
10:25of us yes thank you to everybody for coming this is women brunch mississippi and we are back and i love
10:31you all i feel like the brunch went great anytime there's an opportunity for me to connect with other
10:37women it's a win for me i think that it was a great collaboration between me and carrie and i just hope
10:43that the trip continues to be peaceful and good energy it's time to get out thank you coming up on
10:53bell collective oh lord the bread girl you're burning the bread y'all i thought you could multi-tax i can't
11:01y'all got jackson the city but we got jackson county for all that ratchetness i know you ain't kind of
11:06jackson ratchet now i don't know jackson is ratchet i'm definitely not ratchet we're going in circles so i
11:13really want to know like where we stand
11:19feeling like a million bucks for one we say i'm a baddie and i know i know i know
11:23it let's go the sprinter is here bye shauna love you bye thank you what did y'all think about the brunch
11:33baby it was nice but on tisha for real you're extemporaneous speaking baby you got that down
11:38yes it comes from the heart every time and it just flows carrie you really have a really nice
11:45venue thank you how do y'all like why you tell us don't eat that much what you got planned carrie
11:51y'all know i'm gonna give creole all day long i'm gonna get i love creole i don't eat spicy what you
11:56have for me when i saw martin i knew you liked that unseasoned chicken
12:11thank you oh yeah that was good yes that was really good home sweet home i felt like the brunch went
12:22swimmingly it was great now i've got a few surprises and i don't know what the ladies are
12:29gonna think about it but i'm hoping they're gonna love it oh lord these shoes gotta come out well i want
12:35everybody to go and change into their pjs and we are gonna have what is called a lemon squeeze okay so
12:43a lemon squeeze is something we used to do in our sorority whenever we had like you know something that
12:48needed to come to the surface like just imagine we getting together squeezing lemons together for
12:52the lemonade okay trying to make you know lemonade out of a lemon right so change okay okay and then
12:59we're gonna squeeze the lemon okay okay i don't understand the lemon squeeze this is another scheme
13:05that carrie set up to stir up some drama between me and latrice i just know that anytime they say
13:14let's have a conversation we're about to squeeze some out hey y'all what's y'all got what's y'all got
13:23hey how you doing we got gumbo and rice oh good so i need to get a pot and we need to warm this up oh
13:32do y'all have a pot large enough for the gumbo oh no that is desecration we will not food definitely
13:40brings people together i know that from just being a southern belle myself i think that the
13:45combination of gumbo and the lemon squeeze will bring tons of harmony back to the group at least
13:50we're hoping so we got the family here they done brought the food to us and if you bring food to me
14:04you get an a in my book food is my everything that's why i cannot get rid of these thighs
14:09y'all know i promised y'all some good creole heritage so i brought my creole crew
14:12oh i'm so glad you did all diamond this is my mother-in-law this is matt's mom
14:18oh nice meeting y'all and all that nice meeting you baby bye enjoy we're gonna go ahead and get
14:31started with our lemon squeeze okay i am ready i think y'all bowls gumbo first yes go ahead okay
14:37minus me i'm not eating that we're gonna get the lemon squeeze started as we are multitasking but we're
14:45gonna eat as we go so what exactly is a lemon squeeze it is a time when women get together and
14:51get everything off of your chest we need to put it all out and open so that we can maintain our
14:56sisterhood you know what i mean okay and i must i will say this i smells oh lord the bread girl you're
15:03burning the bread i thought you could multitask i can't y'all need her and put that in a bag and take it
15:09outside oh my god and one fell oh my goodness carol we know you can't cook i can cook i just don't do it
15:19often you burn bread how do you burn bread she's just heating up the food so how do you burn
15:25heated up food i see why her family cooking food for she can't cook um that's probably for me
15:36don't matter what's the door chocolate is who's at the door carrie did you have a stripper or something
15:44i hope not because dr monroe she can't control herself around strippers baby you just have it
15:52oh you remember what happened last time so i hope you know what you're doing oh that might be that's my
16:00pizza that's my food oh carey grab the napkins you want a piece i do okay anybody else want a piece
16:11i have never i would never order food when going to a person's house as a guest i don't know that's
16:19just a little rude to order pizza i think i would have went to bed hungry this is typical marie right
16:25now this piece is the best pizza i've had because i'm starving now that we got the food settled let's
16:32get back to the lemon squeeze so i know we did the brunch today and i enjoyed it i know you guys
16:37enjoyed it now i i can't say though i do think you know jackson shows up and they show out baby oh of
16:45course every time the coast is like more dressed down
16:50oh okay coastal casual so coastal casual it's okay y'all got jackson the city but we got jackson
16:56county for all that ratchetness so if that's what you mean i want you guys i know you ain't kind of
17:02jackson ratchet now
17:10coming up on bell collective when i confide in somebody it's whole heartling and once they cross me
17:16bitch it's up i always get the smoke y'all always coming for me latrice you bring the smoke no more
17:22bull
17:25y'all got jackson the city but we got jackson county for all that ratchetness so if that's what you
17:30mean
17:30why are you calling jackson ratchet now well what what what what what i would say what are you calling
17:39jackson ratchet yes
17:43jackson is definitely ratchet and i stand on that it can also be sophistoc ratchet as well but for the most
17:49part ratchet and the girls are acting all clutching their pearls but they know good and darn well
17:56that jackson is ratchet too
17:58yeah listen i'm from jackson she's from jackson i have love her she's from jackson nothing ratchet about
18:05me not y'all but y'all know jackson is ratchet well look we ain't look ratchet today okay
18:12shut it shut it down i'm definitely not okay so it opened up saying that people on guv coast
18:20were dressed down so carrie got offended i wasn't offended well why did you say carrie let me help you
18:29i've had enough of the deflection and the projection i'm gonna need y'all get down to the real nitty-gritty
18:35of what's going on in this group but moving along i will ask y'all this the elephant in the room
18:41latrice and latisha are you harboring anything because now is the time to get it off your chest
18:47i don't want y'all to leave the gulf coast and go back to the beautiful squeeze the lemon dry with
18:54anything on your chest so what y'all need to squeeze and get out because we leaving it here okay we done
18:59squeezed we got we need to squeeze some more because we done squeezed out out and squeezed our stuff
19:04this season in my life i'm moving accordingly when people show me who they are whether it's
19:08you trees or whoever when i confide in somebody it's wholeheartedly and once they cross me
19:12bitch it's up if you do that or you mess with my marriage anything that's what i'm saying i don't
19:17want to be surrounded about nobody i have to question and it's okay it's okay for people not
19:22to get along it's okay for people not to like people but it's not okay for people to weaponize
19:27vulnerability latrice definitely violated my trust and trust and a friendship is top priority if you're
19:37friends with someone that means that you have to be able to trust them and you believe that they're
19:42going to be right there to have your back even if you're not in the room i'm telling you your
19:47vulnerability is what makes you you that's what i have grown to love about you and i think it's
19:52beautiful that you do share thank you carrie and i feel like it's a gift and a curse putting your
19:58business out there you know just being authentic in certain spaces well i vibe to not get caught up
20:04in no damn boo no more bull this how i am pretend i'm latrice you my girl and she my girl something
20:11going on with your husband with her right i ain't gonna say nothing to you and i ain't gonna say
20:15nothing to her i'm gonna step to his ass and i'm gonna say look bruh i know what you're doing
20:19i'm gonna check his ass and let him know if you don't stop i'm telling both of them well everybody
20:24held the situation different you're right that's how i'm handling it because i ain't gonna be in the
20:29middle of no latrice why are you so quiet i'm listening to y'all baby i ain't listening to you
20:36riri i knew it was a matter of time before you showed your true colors again i'm tired of being a
20:41scapegoat for this group and especially for glenn and latisha's marital problems family knew the same
20:46information i knew child this is something she's not saying would you you see me and then you see
20:52what he married to yeah but i'm not gonna throw her under the bus marie you asked like why i'm so
21:02quiet it's because each and every time i don't care what it is the sky could be blue yellow pink
21:07i always get the smoke y'all always coming for me latrice you bring the smoke no more if we're
21:13gonna be a collective let's be a collective if it ain't no trust i don't want to be around nobody
21:17that i don't trust where's the sisterhood where's the womanhood marie why are you doing all this
21:23dramatic the life out baby i don't have no more life you don't need to let me squeeze i mean
21:31why we keep doing this latisha because it comes right back to this and that's not where i'm set up in
21:37my life right now because i ain't squeezing no about mandy no more mandy is squeezed out i planned
21:42this lemon squeeze so everybody could work out their differences but things are going downhill
21:47real fast i have one more surprise up my sleeve to bring the group back together we're about to take
21:53it way back is that the door well you know i love a good trick up my sleeve if a man is on the other
22:02side of this door i am calling me an uber and i'm getting to the closest hotel
22:12well hello hi
22:16hello hello how are you come on in miss la cara yes hello ladies you know we've had some issues
22:30within the group and so my assistant booked miss la cara and she is a minister medium okay so healing and
22:41peace is in the utmost importance to me in relationships i don't play that keeping things
22:49all bottled up i think it's a recipe for disaster so i want to be that person that can help to find
22:56healing and peace with this group and i'm willing to go to extra miles to help to bring these ladies
23:01on a spiritual journey of healing so formally i'm dr la cara foster okay yes and i am a minister and a
23:08medium the mediumship part allows me to be able to connect to loved ones who have passed right to
23:13see if they have any messages that want to come through or they want to share of uh healing closure
23:18or peace and this gift just allows me to be able to tap into that energy um and we're just gonna get
23:23into it okay i'm a little nervous about it i've never interacted with a medium before i don't even
23:30dibble and dabble it i believe there are some you know some legit psychics and mediums but that's
23:38not something that i take lightly or play with it it's a little scary but i'm human and i can't help
23:46but to really want to know if this person has a gift they can tell me something that i'm curious about
23:53i guess we'll see girl i i don't do this like i believe in a higher power and this is just not it so
24:01like i have this huge phobia about psychics because as a baptist like we we grew up and
24:07psychics are not with god so i'm always taught against it and it may be a misconception like i think
24:13it's truly a misconception and i even say jesus was a medium right because jesus was on the mount of
24:21transfiguration communicating with moses who had already passed i think i'm good with just you know
24:28praying about things so i'll tell you guys how it works with me and we'll see what comes up i don't
24:34have any control over who comes through but chances are it's someone that wants to communicate with
24:38you or has a message for you that is usually who does come through did someone here lose a father
24:43a father figure you did and you did did somebody's father i feel like they were sick and then they
24:49passed suddenly or they passed suddenly that's you okay now he shows me like there's a sudden
24:55passing but makes me feel like some people did not get the chance to say goodbye does that make sense
24:59for you yeah are you one of the people that but he's also making me feel like he owes you an apology
25:04and maybe he owes some other people an apology does that make sense for you um would this be your
25:08mother that he owes an apology to gotcha because he's bringing in he's showing me another do you look
25:13like your mom i do gotcha because he's like copy paste right on the face here um and so he's showing me
25:19her but he's like they look just like oh this is interesting here did he pass at home he did i don't
25:26know maybe the sudden that you keep talking about is probably my son because he was suddenly murdered
25:33oh wow wow wow and can i just ask a question yeah production do y'all have did y'all have
25:41have her to write these notes or is this really coming from you oh no i i told him i've never seen
25:46your show yeah i've never seen the show i told them i didn't want to know who you all were i didn't
25:52want to know anything about you all because i i believe in my work for me to be talking to the other
25:59side that's a first for me that's a very fair question but this is this is the work that i do every
26:10single day what's your son's name if i may ask quincy justin
26:17was there not justice for him yet it hasn't been justice yeah he shows me that but he says that there
26:24will be you kept something of his this makes me feel like some type of clothing or some type of i have
26:31i have the clothes that he was murdered in wow i have it at home yeah i couldn't get rid of it no he
26:37and that's what he shows me that you still have it you don't have to get rid of it he does not want
26:42you to grieve yourself to death i can't help it but this is why he's saying it it's so hard yeah
26:51he's like you have to tell her this she has to know i'm with her because she's going to grieve
26:55herself to death that's what i've been doing mm-hmm he doesn't want that for you this is why i'm here
27:02to hopefully bring some level of healing and enclosure so whatever that looks like for you
27:10you got to do it you can't go where he is right now you still have work to do while you're here
27:17hearing the medium tell me that my son do not want me grieving and he will get justice it makes me feel
27:25really good it gives me hope because i have been like grieving myself to death now let's see if we can
27:32connect with your dad as well no ma'am not today no thank you
27:43coming up on bell collective just don't bring people around me because everybody you bring around
27:48they come for me what you were saying basically tisha not over it she's still mad she still got
27:53animosity my concern is where i am in this season of my life who for me and who not i trusted you
28:04now let's see if we can connect with your dad as well
28:07if you don't have to yeah she said we don't have to okay okay i promise you we don't okay i'm a little
28:14on edge when it comes to the medium um her talking to selena has me contemplating but i don't want to
28:21go against my morals and values was there anybody else that wanted like had a question or wanted to
28:27tap into anything i have an aunt who passed tragically from an accident you could say it was an accident
28:35okay let's try to tap into that energy here
28:38um i'm seeing like the question marks right around the passing i don't know there's just
28:45did just make me feel like there's a lot of blame going around what is that that i'm feeling i don't
28:50know maybe sometimes when people are going through something and you you see them and you want to help
28:55them but you don't know how yeah yeah and the blame might be like could we have stepped in
29:02mm-hmm was this like the overdose or suicide with your aunt it was suicide there's a lot of trauma
29:12that your aunt is showing me does that make sense you know how like in families we sweep a lot of stuff
29:17under the rug
29:23my cousin and i talk all the time and we lament the fact that our family sweeps things under the rug and we
29:30use that term all the time it hit way too close to home it did something to me i was not expecting
29:37that i'm not gonna lie i was wondering if you were legit i mean i i was sitting here like i think i want
29:41to do my dad you should said i'm ready now why did why did you say you're ready motivated me
29:49carrie got so emotional when it came to the media connecting with her family and i felt like she really
29:56got something out of it maybe it was closure it was something that she needed and maybe that's
30:02something that i need we'll try to tap in with your dad this is interesting was there a very
30:08complicated situation with your mom yeah but he also shows me he walks away it feels like he doesn't
30:15have a right to say this all right but he's like proud of you right but doesn't feel like he contributed
30:20to whatever your success is does that make sense he's making an apology and saying like i failed i
30:26failed you all at his funeral like i didn't even cry because you know i felt so much anger towards my
30:39father he wasn't ever there like i didn't know whether he was proud of me i didn't know whether he
30:45was happy for me so actually hearing her say that my father apologized like that means a lot
30:53hmm who's the woman on the other side for you my grandmother grandmother were you very close to her
30:59yes she just adores you she's whispering in my ear that you're her favorite but it's like she can't
31:04say it out loud does that make sense but she's like you knew that and other people know it too but
31:09it's like can't say it out loud yeah we literally always joke about that like me being a favorite yeah and
31:14she's acknowledging that you are indeed the favorite the favorite even though me and latrice
31:22are not in a great place at the moment i still love her i spoke to her when she was helping plan
31:28her grandmother's funeral so of course i have empathy for her how you feeling feel good okay wasn't so
31:34scary huh yes okay well that is what i have thank you all for having me so i'll make sure you all you
31:42all get my information for sure thank you thank you you're so welcome it's a pleasure to meet you
31:48guys i'm gonna walk you out yes y'all have an amazing night now that it's over i am really glad that i
31:56planned the minister medium to come in and speak with all of us i feel that the ladies who got something
32:02from it really did feel deeply about what she shared with us and even for the ones who decided
32:09not to partake i respect that too even for me i had no choice but to receive it because what she said to
32:15me was so real and it hit so close to home i really feel good about how it went latrice what you think
32:22because i know you said you know you don't really believe in that a lot of stuff that she did say was
32:26very factual i think it's stuff that we are kind of already know but hearing it from somebody else
32:32that don't know you you know it kind of hits different yeah i'm still trying to process everything
32:39but i'm glad you invited her carrie when she said that my son will get justice that was everything that
32:47part everything yes yes coming on this trip i'm just thinking we're just gonna have fun go to the
32:54brunch and just chill but talking to this medium and being able to talk to my son and my father
33:04it just makes me feel a lot better carrie really did her big one with this one i don't know about
33:09you me personally i just think i didn't connect with her that was and that just could have been our
33:14energy frequencies whatever i just it's the same you know what i'm saying it might be i've been wearing
33:21the hell out of my incelso they probably like skip her so what are we going to do are we going to
33:27i'm going to go to bed yes yeah let's pack i can start packing too
33:33let me talk to you okay
33:38speaking with the media she brought a lot of things to perspective especially holding things in and not
33:43expressing how you feel to people so with that i want to pull a teacher to the side and express to
33:50her exactly how i feel yes okay well y'all better get some of this bread pudding before y'all go
33:55right now she gonna force that bread put down y'all's throat golly you're gonna thank me later
34:02thank me later that was a lot baby i know after the minister medium leaves latrice asked me to join her
34:12outside oh my god this is so nice i knew it was gonna happen just in no end i wanted to talk to
34:19you one-on-one because you know we've been around the collective like the entire trip and we just never
34:23had a chance to just you know talk one-on-one basically yeah because i know your biggest thing
34:29is you know plenty of your face and i could have told you right but especially you because we talk
34:35every day about everything else we do tisha we do with moving forward like i can't go back and
34:43correct what's already to happen yeah and i just feel like you know we're going in circles and you
34:50know i'm constantly saying okay tisha i didn't know about this or you know that was not my intention
34:55like you know you know i wouldn't do anything to harm you but i just feel like by me saying that and even
35:00you saying the stuff that you're saying like it's kind of like okay you know still trees so i really
35:05want to know like where we stand
35:15i just feel like by me saying that and even you saying the stuff that you're saying like it's kind
35:19of like okay you know still trees so i really want to know like where we stand and it's no like no
35:26No piggybacking, no beating around the bush.
35:29It's just like, bitch, I...
35:30Let's just have a conversation.
35:31Yeah, it's like, bitch, I ain't with you or, bitch, I don't.
35:33Yeah.
35:34I want to clear the air with Latisha
35:36because I want her to completely understand
35:39that I had nothing to do with this.
35:42I'm not malicious.
35:43I meant her no harm.
35:45From day one, it's been solid.
35:46Like, anything, I just straight shut it down off the rip.
35:49You know what I mean?
35:50And for me, I'm not going to lie, it started bringing back,
35:53like, well, dang, everybody that you
35:56be a friend or, you know, that you bring around a group,
35:59they come for me.
36:00Respectfully, in front of God and everybody,
36:03Latisha Pearson is so full of .
36:06You so full of .
36:07Your husband cheating on you.
36:10He a liar.
36:10You're a .
36:12What?
36:12What?
36:15How do you say that?
36:16Why do you say that?
36:17Regardless if Antoinette come around, Mandy come around,
36:21you feel like I got them in my space to come at you.
36:25That's how I felt.
36:26And then it was constant, like, you know, just coming for me,
36:29coming for me.
36:30That was so hurtful.
36:32It was very hurtful.
36:33It was humiliating.
36:35So I just felt like in the house, how we be on the phone
36:38and everything, like, boo, this is what we going to do.
36:40This is how we roll.
36:41You got my back.
36:41And in that moment, it was like, you said nothing.
36:45Mm-hmm.
36:45You know what I'm saying?
36:46And I'm not going to lie to them.
36:48I'm not going to cry.
36:49But that did, like, where my girl at?
36:52It just really, really hurt me that you know what I've
36:55gone through in my marriage.
36:57And for you to allow someone to weaponize that and make a
37:01mockery out of that and embarrass me in your home
37:04and you say nothing, that was just wrong.
37:07And it was very hurtful.
37:08Like, if I had a bird's eye view now, like,
37:11I would go back and do so many different things.
37:13But at that moment, at that present moment, like,
37:15it was just like, it was so many things happening so fast.
37:19And I wasn't thinking, like, drinking and not thinking.
37:22So it was just one of those moments, like, you know,
37:26I don't know.
37:28Like, I didn't know what the going on.
37:30My concern is where I am in this season of my life,
37:33who for me and who not.
37:35You know, and if I'm not for you and you're not for me,
37:38we have to be in a space to say, baby, let's keep it moving.
37:41Ain't no love.
37:41That's the point of this whole conversation.
37:44Because like I said, I feel like we was going in circles.
37:46And you were saying, like, OK, Trice, you know, we're good.
37:49We're good, or whatever.
37:50But I was feeling like, you know, what you was saying,
37:53basically, was some BS.
37:55I was like, Tisha, not over it.
37:56Like, she still got, you know, she's still mad.
37:59She still got animosity.
38:00Not animosity.
38:01Just the I am, I am still, like, hurt about.
38:05And I trusted you.
38:07I now more so understand where she's coming from.
38:11And it's still going to take a lot for us to get back to where
38:15we once were, if we ever get back.
38:19With the husbands not talking, it's definitely a lot pending.
38:22I don't know how Glendale feels towards my husband.
38:25We'll just take this entire situation back to Jackson.
38:28The Pearsons and the Rogers definitely need work.
38:30I don't want to have any doubts, just like you don't want
38:32to have any doubts.
38:33Mm-hmm.
38:34Everybody that's around me, especially
38:35in this season of my life, I want it to be solid.
38:37I want it to be real.
38:38I want it to be genuine.
38:40I want us to have, like, a real super friendship,
38:42because I do have love for you.
38:44And whatever consequences happen, that's what happens for me.
38:47But I'm standing 10 toes behind people
38:50that I genuinely care about.
38:51And all I ask for is the same.
38:53Even though Latrice and I have talked,
38:56it's going to take some time.
38:57That was a hard hit.
38:59I don't hold grudges, but I don't think
39:01that I can be 100% back in the friendship like before.
39:06I can't trust her.
39:08I just can't trust her.
39:09Come on, ladies.
39:11Let's go.
39:12Overall, despite everything that happened
39:15with me and Latisha, the girls' trip went great.
39:19I love all the energy that Carrie put into the girls' trip.
39:23But you're going to have to quit talking about Jackson.
39:26Carrie did good.
39:27She don't have to step her A game up with the boys.
39:29Like, for real.
39:30She was playing with me with that fool.
39:33I'm headed out, honey.
39:36Carrie definitely fits in with this group of ladies.
39:39And the trip proves it.
39:41I feel like a more established part of the group,
39:44after experiencing this group trip with them,
39:47it gave us plenty of time to bond and to get down to what
39:51makes each other tick.
39:53But let me be honest, baby.
39:54I walked in as a bell, and I'm going to walk out as one.
39:57So it didn't really take much.
39:58OK.
39:59Come on.
40:00I got what I needed out of the trip.
40:02I mean, I had my brunch.
40:04I was able to get away from the house for a little while.
40:08I had a conversation with Latrice to get a little clarity.
40:12I think that this trip allowed us to really think
40:16about what we mean to each other.
40:19And is this worth fighting for?
40:21Tamara!
40:22Yes!
40:23Come on!
40:24OK.
40:28Next on Bell Collected.
40:30Honey, I'm home.
40:32Home.
40:33This ain't home.
40:34I know when I was on a trip, my husband
40:35did tell me he was staying home.
40:38But I honestly think he stayed at the condo.
40:40And that is not OK.
40:42This move out of your shoes.
40:45And we're going to put my stuff in.
40:47I'm coming to you, man, the man that you should have
40:49my back more than that.
40:50I ain't going to lie.
40:51My house out of that shit down from the jump.
40:55I feel like y'all playing in my face.
40:57Coming back here to Prentice, where my son was murdered,
41:00it's a big step for me.
41:02We love you, baby.
41:03Yes, we know.
41:04Love you.
41:05I don't know what I'm doing or where I'm going.
41:08I'm just asking, what's wrong with people showing up for me
41:09like I show up for everybody else?
41:11You know what, Tisha?
41:12Forget it.
41:13We ain't got to do nothing.
41:13So you can't take responsibility.
41:15Nah, I'm not taking responsibility.
41:15You waited until the last minute.
41:17Oh, really?
41:18Don't worry about it.
41:18it.
41:19Lord have mercy.
41:20it.
41:21I'm done.
41:22OK.
41:22Man, bro, turn that up, bro.
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