Never Say These 9 Things to Your Kids, No Matter How Old They Are

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00:00Never say these nine things to your kids, no matter how old they are.

00:05Number one, because I said so.

00:07This shuts down dialogue, breeds resentment, and blocks understanding.

00:12Calmly explain reasons to teach critical thinking and cooperation.

00:16Number two, you're just like negative comparison.

00:20Negative comparisons damage self-worth and fuel rivalry.

00:24Avoid them, highlight your child's individuality and strengths to nurture confidence instead.

00:28Number three, stop crying or big boys, girls don't cry.

00:34Invalidating tears suppresses emotions and harms development.

00:38Acknowledge feelings, name them, and guide children in healthy emotional expression and coping.

00:44Number four, you're so lazy.

00:47Labeling laziness promotes a fixed mindset and low effort.

00:50Address specific behaviors and collaborate on tasks to encourage improvement.

00:55Number five, I wish you were more like...

00:57This implies conditional love and rejection, causing deep insecurity.

01:02Affirm their worth and celebrate their distinct talents and personality.

01:08Number six, because other kids can do it.

01:11Comparisons create shame and pressure, undermining intrinsic motivation.

01:16Respect individual pace, set personal goals, and celebrate progress toward mastery instead.

01:21Number seven, you always mess things up.

01:26Global criticism fosters anxiety and low confidence.

01:29Normalize mistakes, emphasize effort, and focus on problem solving to build resilience.

01:35Number eight, you're too sensitive.

01:38Shaming sensitivity discourages empathy and openness.

01:41Validate feelings.

01:43Reframing sensitivity as strength that supports creativity, kindness, and deep connections too.

01:48Number nine, don't be stupid.

01:52Insulting intelligence damages self-esteem and curiosity.

01:55Offer constructive feedback, praise persistence, and encourage questions to support brave, ongoing learning habits.

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