00:00Sinariwan ang ating kasama rito sa 24 Horas na si Kuya Kim Atienza at ng kanyang pamilya
00:06ang mga hindi malilimutang alaala kasama ang pumanaw na bunso na si Eman Atienza.
00:12Araw-araw nilang isa sa buhay ang aral na iniwan ni Eman na magpakita ng kabutihan o a little kindness.
00:19At hanggang nagagawa niya yan, ayon kay Kuya Kim, mananatiling buhay na buhay sa kanyang puso ang kanyang little Eman.
00:26Babala po maselan ang ilang paksang natalakay sa aming panayama.
00:56At ang dahilan ay maganda. Maganda ang dahilan. I trust the Lord. Pero masakit. Masakit.
01:04Pilit na nagpapatatag si Kuya Kim Atienza sa pagpanaw ng kanyang bunso, ang social media influencer na si Eman.
01:13Ang bangungot ng sino mang magulang ang gumising daw kay Kuya Kim noong umaga ng October 23,
01:20matapos pumanaw ang kanyang anak October 22 sa Amerika.
01:23Oh my gosh. Vicky noong we knew that alam namin na may problema si Eman.
01:29So, we were calling her the next day. Hindi sumasagot. We knew there was a problem.
01:34May kotob ako noon eh. Nung natulog ako noong gabi na yun, ang prayer ko kay Lord Lord, sana huwag.
01:40Sana safe si Eman. Please protect my little Eman.
01:44Napaka excursiating mo.
01:45Paggising ko noong umaga, paggising ko noong umaga, chilekong telepon ako.
01:51Ang sabi ni Feli, Kim, I have terrible, terrible news.
01:56The first thing I did na paluhod, naglumukod muna ako. Sabi ko, Lord, sana hindi ito tunay.
02:02Sana, sana nag-attempt. Sana nasuspital.
02:08So, I called Feli. And then, Feli said, Eman is gone.
02:14Nalambot ako talaga noon.
02:16Ito na yung kinakatakutan ko.
02:18Kung merong isang bagay akong kinakatakutan sa buong buhay ko,
02:21na mangyari, ito yun.
02:26Nangyari na nga.
02:27Nung unang mga araw, tinanong ko si Lord eh,
02:29Lord, bakit? Bakit?
02:31But now, unti-unti lumalabas ang dahilan bakit binawi niya si Eman.
02:38Ang dami kong what if eh.
02:40Nagkulang ba ako sa oras na binigay ko sa anak ko?
02:43Nagkulang ba ako sa pangaral?
02:45I'm out here talking, telling people the gospel.
02:50Was I able to share enough to my family, to my kid?
02:54That gives me pain.
02:55Did Eman leave any note for you?
02:58I didn't read it. It was going to be ugly eh.
03:00So, we want to remember Eman for all the beauty,
03:04for all the good things.
03:11Binalikan na lamang ni Kuya Kim,
03:13ang paborito niyang alaala, kasama ang kanyang bunso.
03:17Yung GMA ball.
03:18GMA ball.
03:19The first one.
03:21The first one.
03:21When she first walked that carpet,
03:24and she felt so beautiful.
03:28And then she felt so important.
03:30And then, the pictures were being taken.
03:36She was posing.
03:37She was so beautiful.
03:39I was so proud of her.
03:41I was so proud of her.
03:44Core memory na kami niya.
03:47I will never forget that.
03:48How beautiful she was that night.
03:50She was blooming.
03:52Eman, I'm so proud of you.
03:53But, you know,
03:55you know that naman eh.
03:56Alam naman niya yun eh.
03:57Hindi lang niya sinasabi sa akin.
03:59Nakukulitan ka sa akin.
04:00Kasi palagi tayo yung sinasabi sa kanya.
04:03She knows that I am proud of her.
04:06Eman knows that Papa loves her so much.
04:09Ang ate ni Eman na si Alyana,
04:12inalala,
04:13ang closeness nilang magkapatid.
04:15She's hilarious.
04:17In a much better fashion sense than I have.
04:20So, we...
04:21I would always go to her and say,
04:25Eman, I don't know what to wear.
04:26Can you dress me?
04:27She would always do it.
04:33She would make me laugh.
04:35What's your favorite memory of her?
04:36Like, whenever you think of her,
04:38it's like the thing that you want to hold on to.
04:39We like to stick our heads out of the car window.
04:44Because we like the ears.
04:45So, we would go down like ETSA or Osmania Highway.
04:49We would move together
04:51and we'd feel the wind on her hair.
04:53What were you doing when you got the news?
04:55Yeah, I was in...
04:57I was in my house and my apartment in Philly.
05:03And I couldn't believe it.
05:07I still don't really believe it.
05:10You know what I mean?
05:10Yes.
05:13Yeah, I don't know.
05:15I'm having trouble
05:16thinking that it's real.
05:19Did you also share the same fear?
05:21I think so.
05:22And I...
05:23I don't know.
05:24I keep...
05:25being really sad
05:28because I...
05:29we were supposed to grow together.
05:32Right?
05:32Like...
05:33I wish we got to.
05:41What would you want to tell your sister?
05:43Right now?
05:44Come back.
05:46I miss you.
05:47I'm sorry for the lighting.
05:58I look so bad.
05:59But...
05:59And I'm not gonna bother him.
06:02But my favorite...
06:04Kahalo ng kanyang mga kwelang post.
06:06Magandang gabi, mga kababayan.
06:08At mga fit chick.
06:10Love these ballet flats.
06:11Prada gold metallic ballet flats.
06:13I got these in Paris.
06:14Steve Madden kitten heels.
06:15I got them from my mom.
06:16She bought them a long time ago.
06:18Hindi itinago ni Eman
06:19ang diskusyon tungkol sa kanyang mental health.
06:22Guys, if I pass away tomorrow,
06:23I want you to know I love you all very, very much.
06:2514 years old.
06:26So, pinadala namin agad sa professional.
06:29Pinatingin namin.
06:30At na-diagnose ka agad
06:31na meron siyang bipolar disorder,
06:33PTSD, and many others.
06:35So, ang pagiging bipolar kasi,
06:37like Eman,
06:38ano yan eh?
06:40Merong manic happiness.
06:42Sobrang saya.
06:43Matakot kayo pagka sobrang saya.
06:44Dahil ang kabaliktaran yan,
06:45pag bipolar ka,
06:46ay sobrang depressed.
06:48Ang mental health,
06:49ang mga problema sa mental health,
06:50ay tunay.
06:52Kadalasan,
06:54akala natin na ma-arty lang ang mga anak.
06:55Kapag nakitaan nyo ang anak nyo
06:57na may symptoms,
06:59paniwalaan nyo.
07:03Maaring nage-express kadalasan ang anak natin
07:05at akala natin ang artin nyo.
07:07Nung panahon namin,
07:08malalakas kami.
07:09Nung panahon namin,
07:10pinapahalo lang kami,
07:11okay na kami.
07:12Iba sila ngayon.
07:13Iba sila.
07:15Ilagay natin ang ating sarili
07:17dun sa kanilang lugar
07:18at alamin natin,
07:19dapat malaman natin
07:20na ang mental health
07:22ay talagang seryoso
07:23at ang sakit sa utak
07:25ay nakamamatay.
07:29Kaya si Kuya Kim,
07:31kahit papano'y
07:32nabubuhayan ang loob.
07:34Dahil daw kasi kay Eman,
07:35meron ding mga naglakas loob
07:37na pag-usapan
07:38ang kanilang mga
07:39pinagdaraanan.
07:40Marami akong nakuha
07:41mga messages,
07:42Vicky.
07:43I still am on social media
07:44because
07:44pag binuksan ko
07:45social media ko,
07:46I see a lot of these kids,
07:48a lot of people
07:48messaging me,
07:50telling me how Eman
07:51has touched her life.
07:52At may mga nakuha
07:55kung mga messages din
07:55na mga
07:56mga tao
07:57na sabi nila
07:59depressed din ako
08:00at yun ang nakaka-encourage.
08:03Yun ang comforting.
08:08Paalala rin daw
08:09ang nangyari kay Eman
08:11na mas maging
08:12babuti sa kapwa
08:13sa pang-araw-araw
08:14na buhay,
08:15particular sa mga sinasabi
08:17at kinokomento
08:18sa social media.
08:20Ang legacy ni Eman,
08:21mag-ingat ka.
08:22Be a little kinder.
08:24Pwede kang makamatay,
08:25pwede kang makasakit,
08:26pwede kang makasakit ng tao.
08:29But Eman,
08:29I just want to say
08:30that
08:31you did not die in vain.
08:35May dahilan.
08:35There's a reason
08:36why you left
08:37and Papa and Mama
08:38will make sure
08:39that that reason
08:40is spread to as many
08:42people as possible.
08:44And when people
08:45are kinder every day,
08:47then Eman is alive.
08:48When I'm a little kinder today,
08:51Eman is alive in my heart.
08:56Love you, Kuya Kim.
08:57Mga kapuso,
08:58kung kayo po
08:59o may kakilala kayong
09:00may pinagdaraanan
09:02at nangangailangan
09:03ng payo,
09:04suporta,
09:05makakausap
09:05o makakaramay
09:06kaugnay ng mental health,
09:08mari po niyong tawagan
09:09ang mga hotline
09:10na naka-flash
09:11sa inyong mga TV screen.
09:13Bukas ang mga linyang ito,
09:1524 oras.
09:18Sub indo by broth3rmax
09:20You
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