In this episode of The Never Ever Mets, follow the journey of individuals who have only connected online as they prepare for their first in-person meeting. Tensions are high and expectations are even higher as they navigate the complexities of real-world relationships. Will their virtual chemistry translate into a lasting connection, or will reality prove too much to handle?
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00:00Because at the end of the day, it all leads to one question.
00:03Are you moving forward as a couple or are you walking away solo?
00:08When you get married, your wife goes above all.
00:11I've tried the married life. I was married for three years, but it's very exhausting.
00:16I just want a peaceful house.
00:20I never did this before.
00:21Never.
00:22When you finally move to Atlanta, then, you know, you got a lot of places to go.
00:26Good thing about that.
00:27Yeah, it's a big thing to think about.
00:32Man, you brought me the box.
00:34I say me and this woman is really making steps in the right direction.
00:39But also me and Alexis have had some up and down moments.
00:42When I was rubbing your thighs, I took my time.
00:45You didn't even ask for permission.
00:47Lex did what she wanted to do.
00:49Alexis being controlling, that might become a problem.
00:51So at this point, I don't know what to think.
00:53Now is a better time than any to kind of get this off my chest.
00:58One of the big reasons why I wasn't able to see you for a few years is because I was still involved with my ex.
01:06That's just damn right disrespectful.
01:07Good morning.
01:23No cheese.
01:24Oh, okay.
01:25Good morning.
01:27This is what it comes to.
01:28But we knew this day was coming.
01:31Think it's going to be an emotional day tomorrow?
01:33Hell yeah.
01:34Joyful or sad?
01:36You got some tough decisions to make.
01:38For the past three weeks, we've been doing this process to see if you can take your online relationships and see if they will survive in the real world.
01:47But now, tomorrow, we have to make our decision.
01:50And it's a big day for all of us.
01:52You know, are we leaving together?
01:53Are we going separately?
01:54I don't know.
01:55My mind is going a thousand miles a minute.
01:57I'm excited for whatever.
01:58Oh, it's almost that time.
02:01When we leave the house, you going right or you going left?
02:03I'm going to walk straight in the middle.
02:05And I'm going to cut to the right and swing to the left and back in the middle.
02:09And see if she fall asleep.
02:09I'm going to put a hitter with a zigzag for it.
02:11It's my final four day in the house.
02:15And at this point, I'm like, man, I don't know what the to expect.
02:19We had a house full of people and so many different plot twists and so many secrets unveiled.
02:25At this point, I'm over everybody.
02:27My main focus is to tune in on me and Alexis and see if we can lead this place together.
02:31I'm not going to lie to you.
02:33I think at this point, I think y'all lead together.
02:36We know.
02:36I mean, that's the beauty of this.
02:37I think y'all lead together at this point.
02:40To be honest with you, first three to four days, I would have said no.
02:43But now, it would shock me if y'all didn't.
02:45Yeah.
02:46Brandon and Kiki, I'm going to go ahead and tell you right now.
02:48One walking to the right and one walking to the left.
02:50Yeah.
02:51When it's decision day.
02:52Well, they getting ready right now.
02:55I know where I'm going.
02:56We got to have a plot twist.
02:57I wish you would hit me with a plot twist.
02:59Me?
03:00That turned into the craziest scary movie you ever seen.
03:03None of these couples are leaving this house together.
03:05Not one of them.
03:06They can try to fool themselves, but they don't fool me.
03:08Nothing gets past me in this damn house.
03:10I predict everything that's going to happen.
03:12None of them are going to be leaving together.
03:13It's just going to be me and Cinco.
03:14They can be clapping for us while we walk out together.
03:17Hey, Charlie.
03:19Yes?
03:20Where you walking?
03:21Or you zigzagging?
03:22I don't know.
03:22I guess we'll see.
03:23Oh, sh**.
03:25Sound like a zigzag to me.
03:26Sound like some zigzag to me.
03:28No one knows what I'm doing.
03:30I don't know what his answer is going to be.
03:32I was sure like three days ago, but I have no f*****g idea.
03:34But do you know yours, though?
03:35I'm leaning more towards one than the other.
03:39Tomorrow's doomsday.
03:39We have to make our decision.
03:41I don't even know what to think at this point.
03:42I have no idea whatsoever what he's going to tell me.
03:45So for our final date, I'm just really looking to get out of him.
03:49Where he sees me.
03:51Where he sees us.
03:52If he even sees a future with this.
03:54I just need some type of direction.
03:56I think everybody's heart is what it needs to be.
03:59It will be interesting.
04:02Ready for our date.
04:04I'm ready.
04:05I don't know what Kiki had planned for our second date because I'm still thinking about
04:08what she told me about the damn it.
04:10But we've been together for four years and I'm big on trying to work things out.
04:16So I'm thinking on this date, if Kiki can show me that she actually does care for me,
04:22I can see us working it out.
04:30Do we just go and play?
04:32I guess we do just go play.
04:34I think we're going to have a good time.
04:41Let's go to air hockey.
04:42So I chose Dave and Buster's for our second date.
04:45In our relationship alone, it's been really tense.
04:48Brandon's been moping around for a couple of days crying.
04:51And so since he wanted to act like a big kid, I took him to play some games.
04:58Did I just win?
05:00Oh, awesome.
05:02At least one.
05:03Get it down.
05:05All right, come on.
05:06Let's go to the other.
05:07The one that you can reach.
05:08She surprised me with Dave and Buster's after passing UCLA, after almost passing the LA Rams
05:20stadium, I'm like, okay, that would have been an ultimate apology, honestly.
05:25I am having fun.
05:27But at the same time, in the back of my mind, I just keep thinking about that damn mix.
05:31You've got the love that nothing can stop us now.
05:35Let's take a ride.
05:36I got you.
05:41I got that door for you.
05:44So setting up this date for Jared, I have to do something I don't like, which is go outside
05:49and be in nature.
05:50I know Jared loves being outdoors and he loves the sunset, so I just wanted to make him happy.
05:54But I also need to have a hard conversation with him.
05:59I want to be with just him and only him, and I want him to feel the same way.
06:04For a while, I thought it was like that, but now I'm not 100% sure.
06:08This is so pretty.
06:12You need help?
06:13I'm good.
06:13I'm good.
06:14Are you sure?
06:17You just don't see this shit in Texas.
06:18Uh-uh.
06:23I almost died.
06:25I'm killing me.
06:26Our time here is coming to an end, so I'm just trying to soak it in and enjoy the moment.
06:34When you first saw me walk into our pottery date, which was not this.
06:39It definitely wasn't this.
06:40This is so perfect.
06:41It definitely wasn't this.
06:43How are you feeling when you saw me?
06:52I was a little starstruck.
06:53You were prettier in person.
06:57You exceeded the expectations that I had.
06:59I was nervous that when I saw you that our fantasy would just end, but right when I saw
07:03you, right when I touched you, I was like, I was perfectly fine.
07:06I don't know.
07:06I just felt like it was where I was meant to be.
07:08Was there anything that you would change about that day?
07:11Probably not do pottery.
07:15I can agree with that.
07:17Pottery's not my thing.
07:18It was cute, though.
07:19I just wanted it to be special.
07:21It was.
07:21You remember that time after we, I sent you the Xbox that I got your name tattooed on
07:26me?
07:26Yeah.
07:27You remember that?
07:28Mm-hmm.
07:28Yeah.
07:29And then you tried to say you did it as a best friend.
07:32Who does that?
07:34I didn't know how to get you to take me seriously.
07:36I wanted you to know, like, I love you.
07:39And that, I think, is what made me start talking to you more seriously.
07:45And I know we always talked about when I would get mine and it just never happened.
07:48But fast forward to this moment.
07:51I'm glad everything happened the way it did because I know that you are my best friend.
07:59I have a lot of guy best friends and I have a lot of girl best friends.
08:06And, you know, I use that term very loosely.
08:08But you are the, the best friend.
08:14I feel like you're friendzoning me right now.
08:15I'm not friendzoning you.
08:16You're the only one on this planet with my name or my initials tattooed on me.
08:24I know you see me as a best friend.
08:26You keep saying I'm your best friend.
08:27But, like, how do you really see me?
08:30Like, what do you really want from this?
08:32Because I'm coming in here giving, like, my 110% thinking, like, I want, I want you as,
08:38like, my man.
08:41Like, what is going through your head?
08:43Best friend, best friend, best friend, best friend, best friend.
08:49The f***?
08:50If you say you love me, love me enough and respect me enough to tell me what's going on.
08:55Don't have me out here looking stupid.
09:02Do you believe in monogamy?
09:05Well, why you don't believe in monogamy?
09:07Goes against human nature.
09:08That s*** don't last forever.
09:10Are you f***ing kidding me?
09:11You got some decisions to make tomorrow.
09:13Are we supposed to go to the boom-boom room?
09:16But it just don't seem like you're in the mood.
09:17I'm going to do what's best for me at the end of the day.
09:20We're good, right?
09:21For what?
09:22As far as us.
09:31Wow.
09:31How you feeling?
09:35I'm feeling good.
09:38I'm feeling great.
09:39This was fun.
09:39I appreciate this.
09:42You remember when I first missed you?
09:44November 2020?
09:46I did.
09:47I do.
09:49With the hard eyes?
09:51Of course.
09:52I never thought that we would be here.
09:54Our first time in LA together.
09:56First time.
09:59Crazy, crazy, crazy journey.
10:01It has been.
10:02These last couple of weeks have been, honestly, not the best.
10:06But it's been four years, so I hope we'll be able to work through it.
10:10How did you think about our first date?
10:13I thought it was super sweet and thoughtful.
10:16If I'm being honest, I wanted you to like me.
10:18And then I was like, wait a minute, let me make sure I like him.
10:21And I do.
10:23I thought that challenge about knowing each other really shocked me and surprised me.
10:27I was like, wow, she really paid attention to me over the years.
10:30I think that let the people in the house know, like, okay, they got some type of love for each other.
10:37Yeah.
10:38What's been your favorite part about everything?
10:41Was just getting to meet you for the first time.
10:43Brandon?
10:44Is it getting to see your face for the first time, getting to hug you for the first time?
10:48I was like, this could be my future.
10:51Aw.
10:53But how you feeling now?
10:56Um.
10:58Honestly.
10:59I don't know.
10:59I still got a little mixed emotions.
11:02I have a problem with trust issues.
11:07I want you as my man.
11:09Like, what is going through your head?
11:11I like to think of the realistic side of things.
11:19I'll tell you what a yes looks like and I'll tell you what a no looks like.
11:23A yes looks like you go home, I go home.
11:26We could start things off with visits and I look for a job there, but also I have my son's
11:34mom who is established in South Carolina and wouldn't move and that's taken me away from
11:42him.
11:43And then on the other side, a no, I feel like it's kind of the same thing.
11:48If you would allow it, we could still do trips and not put so many expectations on what we
11:53have because, you know, with expectations comes disappointment.
11:57Why do we have to put a label or put everything into a category?
12:00We can just figure it out as we go.
12:01Let's just keep it as best friends.
12:03When we first got to the house, after I told you what happened and your response, it was
12:13absolutely no doubt about it.
12:14Yes, I'm leaving with you.
12:18But as of literally this afternoon, it's an I don't know and leading more towards like
12:22no.
12:23And that's okay.
12:26That's not okay for me.
12:28It's like I'm, I feel like I'm fighting for you, but you're not fighting back.
12:32Am I fighting for my best friend or am I fighting for more than that?
12:35It's not friendzoning me.
12:37You're friendzoning me.
12:39I don't want you to do that to me.
12:41I want to be more than that.
12:43And I thought that's what we came here to figure out.
12:45But it's like, you're not giving me a straight answer.
12:48I don't know.
12:49I need a second.
12:50Okay.
12:53I am so confused at this point.
12:55I gave you me physically.
12:57Like we've had sex.
12:59Like, do you have sex with all your best friends?
13:01Like, why would you put me through that knowing that you just want to be my friend?
13:05It doesn't make sense to me.
13:15I feel so bad about making Charlie cry.
13:17That's the last thing I wanted to do coming here.
13:20And I want to comfort her.
13:22But realistically speaking, I do feel satisfied with the way that conversation went.
13:26Because I got everything I needed to off my chest.
13:31You're going to realize that what we have is bigger than all this.
13:36Like, you're in my life for forever.
13:41This isn't a friend category.
13:43We are more than friends.
13:45You're my soulmate.
13:47Just because I don't know how to handle you now, doesn't mean that.
13:51This is the first time you've ever said that.
13:54Well, I mean it.
13:55I wouldn't say it unless I meant it.
13:59Now I'm more confused than ever.
14:01I'm ready to go.
14:03Okay.
14:03It's just crazy, like, coming into this, like, on this high.
14:10And now I'm at a point where I'm like, damn, I might walk out of here without him.
14:16And it just hit me.
14:19That there's a possibility that I'm going to be walking away from this without, you know, the guy I thought that was going to love me forever.
14:25Blue moon's in the sky Tell me everything's going to be alright
14:30Right now I could die As long as you holding me tight
14:37Blue moon's in the sky Tell me everything's going to be alright
14:43You did something last night that made me have trust issues.
14:48Say we walk out together and I don't instantly move to Atlanta with you.
14:53Or you don't instantly move to Alabama with you.
14:56How do I know you're really done with that ex?
14:58How do I know you're not keeping any more secrets?
15:01Kiki and I have a lot of fun together.
15:04But last night was just overshadowing the date, little kid.
15:08I understand.
15:09But because now we know each other, it's more real.
15:13Like, you're tangible.
15:14Now, I can tell it's you.
15:15You get what I'm saying?
15:16Like, I'm not missing anything from this relationship.
15:19I can see myself being fulfilled if things were to continue to go upwards.
15:26Okay.
15:27I actually enjoy you when you're not mad at me.
15:32I was having fun.
15:34I had a good date.
15:35I did too.
15:36Date number two out of, I don't know, hopefully a thousand.
15:41Honestly, I still got a lot to think about.
15:46Me too.
15:47Definitely got some thinking to do.
15:50You ready to go now?
15:51All right, let's go.
15:52All right.
15:57We had our date.
16:05I think I have more questions than answers.
16:08Well, long story short, I came in here with 110%.
16:11Only focused on him.
16:13My vision was, no matter what, I'm walking out with him because, like, that's my ideal
16:17man.
16:18But it's like, he's okay if he doesn't leave with me, you know?
16:21You keep saying that he checked all your boxes.
16:24What boxes did he actually check?
16:26Just the way he treats me.
16:27No one ever treated you better than Jared?
16:30Why, though?
16:31When I'm in bed all day, like, sad, I never had a man check on me.
16:34He brought me breakfast.
16:35Like, little things?
16:36Like, I've never had that.
16:37I guess I don't even know if he's giving me the bare minimum, and I'm like, oh, my God,
16:41he's amazing.
16:43That's why my decision's so hard right now.
16:45Like, when I first got here, it was a hell yes.
16:47Now I'm like, it's almost at a no.
16:50Is it at a no, though?
16:51Almost.
16:51Why would it be no?
16:54Because, like, every woman he dated, he basically got an idea of what their ideal man was, and
17:00he became that man.
17:01Right.
17:02But with me, he didn't do that.
17:04He was like, how do I know if it's actually Jared being Jared or Jared being my ideal man?
17:09You know why?
17:09You know why he could be himself?
17:11Because you will accept all the s***.
17:14Is it a bad thing or a bad thing?
17:15It's a bad thing.
17:18Charlie is in love.
17:20Jared can do no wrong.
17:21He can say no wrong, and he's been saying wrong.
17:25I do anything that I can to help Charlie to see that, but I think she's so far gone.
17:33I would release him.
17:34Let him go home, sort it out, and if he comes back and he really wants you, then you know
17:39it's real.
17:40That's what they say.
17:41You let love go.
17:42This is the hard part, is that we started as friends, so I feel like I'm going to lose
17:45all of that.
17:47And if it really is a friendship, it'll be there.
17:50Yeah.
17:50I think after you leave, even if it's a yes or a no, whatever the case may be, I think
17:56you need to fall in love with yourself first.
18:00Yeah.
18:01And then after that, if he comes, then he comes.
18:04But if he don't come, then you know that it was all bulls***.
18:08Ready for the last supper, my brother?
18:18I'm ready.
18:19I miss y'all.
18:19I don't know who's going to cry more, me or y'all?
18:21Probably Kiki.
18:22No, I'm talking about missing Jake cooking.
18:24Oh, for sure.
18:25Let's go to the table.
18:27What are you going to miss the most about this experience?
18:32Um, sleeping next to somebody every day for these past weeks was nice.
18:38With this whole experience, I love the fact that I got to see him for the first time and
18:42people witnessed it.
18:43So it wasn't just us.
18:44So I got, you know, the perspective is a big thing, I think.
18:47Because if I would have just been me and him, it would have been one way.
18:50But I got to hear, like, what you said, you said, you said, you said.
18:52And it was all different.
18:55The last supper is here.
18:58I was like, you know what?
18:59It's our last night in the house.
19:01Let's just have a great night.
19:03Let's just enjoy each other as this little unit that we've had.
19:06But on the top of my mind, I'm thinking, like, is this the last dinner I'm going to have
19:10with Jared?
19:11Cross a table from him and look at him with these goofy faces that we've been doing every
19:14single night.
19:15I feel like y'all are, like, family at this point.
19:23I think I learned so much about myself and how I am in relationships.
19:28We had some tough moments, but I loved, you know, sharing this experience with you.
19:33It's just been great.
19:34I would do it 10 times again if I could.
19:37Well, to the Elite Eight.
19:38To the Elite Eight.
19:39Yeah.
19:41Hey.
19:42So you got four rooms in this house?
19:43Everybody can get a room today.
19:45The boom boom room is room number four.
19:47Somebody going to use it.
19:48I don't want that room.
19:48I don't want that motel six room.
19:51We the only ones that didn't visit, so we going to visit tonight.
19:54We didn't visit.
19:55Y'all didn't visit?
19:58What?
19:58I'm trying to go up in that mother
19:59I've been kind of confused.
20:04I'm sure as everybody else in the house as to why we haven't been intimate.
20:10And I'm getting fed up over it.
20:14What's funny, Jared?
20:15Why you asking me?
20:17See, I'll just randomly just start all laughing at different at the same time.
20:20Now it's making me look more into things like, damn, can he really handle this?
20:27Or do I even want to give it to him?
20:28You know, because he's not ready for it.
20:33Hello, Never Ever Met.
20:35How y'all doing?
20:36Good evening, good evening, good evening.
20:38I know we kicked this experience off with seven couples, but now we're down to the final four.
20:44That is a huge deal.
20:45So you should give yourself a round of applause.
20:49I came here tonight to let you guys know that tonight is your last night here in the house.
20:57Aw, tears.
20:59I know.
21:00I know it's been a long, bumpy ride, but hopefully you guys learn not only something about your partner,
21:06but you learn something about yourselves.
21:08And hopefully you find what you've been looking for.
21:11Kind of want to pick you guys' brain a little bit, see how you're feeling, knowing that you made it this far.
21:18After day one, I knew we were going to make it this far, so it's not nothing surprising.
21:22We've been good.
21:24Yeah.
21:24Alexis, Chris.
21:26We're grateful for the experience.
21:28Wasn't all the way smooth, but we ended up going through the trials and tribulations, and we've been great.
21:33Charlie, Jared.
21:34Coming in, I'm going to be completely honest.
21:36So that are high, it's been a little difficult the past couple of days, but I have a lot of thinking to do tonight.
21:45She can say what she wants.
21:46I know that's my best friend.
21:48We'll make the right decision.
21:49Kiki, Brandon.
21:50There's been a couple of times where I was like, I don't know, but we're here, so we'll just see what tomorrow brings.
21:56I'm just happy that we've made it this far together, so we shall see.
22:00We'll see.
22:02Amazing.
22:03Well, I am super proud of you guys.
22:05Not only did you stick it out, but you went through the highs and lows to make it this far.
22:11For the past three weeks, the mission was to see if your online relationship could work in the real world.
22:16So tomorrow, you'll be faced with an ultimate decision and some hard truths.
22:21Will you leave here together as a couple?
22:22Or will you say your last goodbyes for good?
22:30Y'all decide that.
22:38So have fun.
22:40Enjoy your final night here.
22:42And good luck tomorrow.
22:44Appreciate it.
22:46Have a good one.
22:48It's a lot of mixed emotions.
22:49It's going to be sad to not see him anymore after this and them enjoying my food and just us having just our little talks and seeing people argue or Chris going to say a funny joke or two.
22:59I'm going to miss it.
23:02Look what I found, guys.
23:03Hey.
23:04The game.
23:05Treasure Hunter.
23:06My God.
23:07Never ever miss.
23:08Use these questions to find out whether you and your partner are in sync.
23:12Draw a card from the bowl.
23:13If your answer is yes, raise the green side of your paddle.
23:16If the answer is no, raise the red side.
23:19Good luck to Rhonda.
23:23What you want?
23:24Yeah, man.
23:25First question.
23:27Can arguing.
23:29Can what?
23:29What?
23:29Arguing.
23:31He's Mississippi.
23:32Be healthy in a relationship.
23:34Yeah.
23:34Yeah.
23:36Do you want children?
23:37If you have children, do you want more?
23:40Don't wait.
23:41Don't wait.
23:41Throw it up.
23:42You don't want more?
23:42Throw it up.
23:45Why?
23:46Well, damn, we know why.
23:46We know why we're talking.
23:47You really got to explain it.
23:50They got too many damn kids to focus on each other here.
23:55Hey, dude.
23:57Would you be willing to share your password with your partner?
24:04Yeah, I said no just because, you know, there's no reason to believe what I'm saying.
24:08I'm not doing anything wrong.
24:09Just believe it.
24:10I said no because it shows lack of trust.
24:14Let's move on.
24:17Do you believe in monogamy?
24:19Okay, Jared.
24:26Why you don't believe in monogamy?
24:29I think monogamy goes against human nature.
24:33That might be your person at the time, but that's your turn.
24:36That don't last forever.
24:37And you can't expect it to.
24:38You're going to set yourself up for disappointment.
24:43When Jared said he doesn't believe in monogamy, like, it made sense, actually, because I feel
24:50like that's why he can't commit to somebody.
24:52Are you kidding me?
24:53I think monogamy goes against human nature.
25:04That might be your person at the time, but that's your turn.
25:07That don't last forever.
25:08And you can't expect it to.
25:10You're going to set yourself up for disappointment.
25:14Wait, wait, wait.
25:14So monogamy is basically just for the time being.
25:18Being faithful to the person that you're with.
25:19Now, yes, I agree on that.
25:21When you're with your one person, you are with that one person.
25:24Well, back to your mind, you think it's not going to be forever.
25:26Yeah, so when that's over, you get another person.
25:29Okay, but you just don't believe that...
25:31It's going to last forever.
25:32It's going to last forever.
25:33That's not the definition.
25:33Somebody's going to die first.
25:34That ain't what you was talking about.
25:36That's exactly what I was talking about.
25:37You remind us now?
25:38You was talking about death, but you wasn't talking about daytime, meaning that you was
25:40just going to move on when you get tired.
25:43It can go both ways.
25:45I think when you're with someone, you're with that person.
25:49Like, I don't cheat.
25:49I'll leave before I cheat, but I know that all things come to an end.
25:54Everything ends in heartbreak.
25:56So I'm more of a never loved at all type of person rather than loved and lost.
26:01That's just the way I live life.
26:03Great game, y'all.
26:04All right.
26:05Last night, guys.
26:06Let's take a toast.
26:07Let's have some fun.
26:13Christopher!
26:15Yes?
26:16You not opening?
26:18Yeah.
26:18We're supposed to go to the boom boom room, but it just don't seem like you're in the mood,
26:24so...
26:24I mean...
26:25God said, don't go in there, Chris.
26:31She's going to put that food on me tonight.
26:36They say it was all type of whips and chains and s*** in the boom boom room.
26:39Whatever.
26:40We were supposed to go to the boom boom room.
26:43But we're going to do something later.
26:44What?
26:44No, I'm going to give you a body massage.
26:47A body massage?
26:48He's supposed to be getting an oil, some champagne, and some strawberries.
26:53We're spending a night.
26:54We can if you want.
26:56So at first he was with it, and it was like, nope, I don't want to go anymore.
27:00I don't know what triggered it.
27:01But his mood changed.
27:02You know, you still owe me a boom boom.
27:07Yeah.
27:08We're good, right?
27:09For what?
27:09As far as us.
27:11That's a big decision tomorrow for everybody.
27:14I'm going to do what's best for me at the end of the day.
27:17And my honest answer right now is today.
27:19I still don't know.
27:24You know, the fact that he wasn't really sure if he was yes or no.
27:29But to me, when you are indifferent, it's a no.
27:33So I'm preparing for a no.
27:35Oh, it's our last time getting ready in here.
27:55Today's the day.
27:57You know what you're going to say?
27:59Yep.
28:00I've made my decision.
28:02Uh-oh.
28:03Oh, I've got to get the rest of my stuff.
28:06At this point, I'm just so undecided in what I'm going to do.
28:11Because I go to sleep mad because he doesn't believe in monogamy.
28:14But in the middle of the night, he's apologizing and kissing me on my forehead.
28:24None of this is making sense.
28:25What the f***, bro?
28:27I didn't even get to wear half of that f***.
28:29You really don't have, like, no sense of organization with what you got, huh?
28:34Yep, sure don't.
28:36Yeah, man.
28:37It was nice meeting you fellas, brother.
28:39It was nice meeting you too.
28:40This is the biggest day that I could have on this journey.
28:43I got anxiety.
28:44I'm nervous.
28:45I can tell the other men is nervous even though they're not saying anything.
28:49At this point, I just want a clear mind.
28:51And hopefully I come up with the right decision.
28:53And that's all, folks.
28:59Last night was the last supper.
29:01Today is the last breakfast.
29:03How much ass you want?
29:05One more scoop, please.
29:06Is that turkey bacon?
29:08Yeah.
29:08What's up?
29:09What you doing?
29:09I'm getting, like, anxious.
29:14Let's go talk.
29:15Right now, I feel like me and Kiki need to actually sit and have a civilized conversation
29:22because we got some things to work on.
29:25Before this experience, you know, I always wondered where we worked once we met in real
29:31life.
29:32I'm not gonna lie.
29:34Them four times you bailed out on me.
29:36I didn't think it was because of another man or your ex.
29:39I just thought because you was nervous or unconfident or you didn't want to mess up what we had
29:46online.
29:47That was my thought process.
29:50I just feel like it'd be best for us to separate.
29:55I realized this wasn't gonna work with Kiki when she brought out the secret with her ex.
30:01Not that I didn't know if I could trust Kiki and I don't want to trust issues in my relationship.
30:06I think we both need to go hear from our traumas.
30:10I think we both need to go hear from ourselves.
30:13Yeah, definitely agree.
30:14And sometimes things don't work and you just gotta roll with the punches.
30:19I think I came into the house thinking you were one way and then I was very disappointed
30:24because I felt like I was kind of walking on eggshells a lot in the house.
30:29You know, you were moody.
30:31Okay.
30:32Very moody.
30:33I don't want to dance around your triggers all the time.
30:35That's not fair to me.
30:36That's not fair to the person I am.
30:39Brandon and I really never had issues until here, until we met in person.
30:43I had such high hopes for us and for us to leave the way that we are.
30:48It's really heartbreaking.
30:50I feel like our values are different.
30:53I felt really lonely a lot of times in the house.
30:56But that's what you do.
30:56You come and learn each other to see if it'll work.
31:00And sometimes it just don't.
31:05You look nice.
31:17How are you?
31:18I'm feeling good.
31:19Huh?
31:20You okay?
31:21Yeah, I slept good.
31:23I had a long night last night.
31:25Did a lot of thinking, a lot of reflecting.
31:28Alexis has taken me on a roller coaster.
31:30And I'm pretty sure I've done the same to her in ways.
31:32But at this point, I feel like my mind is made up.
31:37I knew today was the day that we had to make that big decision.
31:40I prayed about it and I thought about the good and the bad.
31:43I still feel like, you know, we both got a lot of groin to do on both sides.
31:49I ain't gonna lie, the first week was a lot.
31:52But I really think that you are a very nice guy.
31:55And I appreciate your honesty about stuff like my aggression and how you processed it.
32:01So I'll be more mindful of everything for sure.
32:05This process was deeper than just me and you.
32:08It took the time for me to really see some things and learn a lot about myself.
32:12Don't let what I've been through through my childhood close people off
32:16because maybe I can miss someone who really care about me, you know?
32:22I feel like no relationship is gonna be perfect.
32:25Everybody's gonna have trial and error.
32:27I feel like we both learned that we can withstand a storm together.
32:31Right.
32:31And, you know, with that being said, with your blessings,
32:34I would love for you to leave with me today.
32:38Of course I'll leave with you, Christopher.
32:43That's perfect.
32:43You can get rid of me that leaves with me?
32:45Not at all.
32:47Christopher gave me the yes, let's do it.
32:51And I'm just excited to get closer as time goes on.
32:56Oh, the forehead kiss?
32:58The forehead kiss.
32:58You ready to pack up?
32:59Yeah.
33:00All right.
33:01Let's go.
33:06Come on.
33:08I do think I may date online again, but do I think that I want to do long distance again?
33:14Absolutely not.
33:15Long distance relationships, eh, done.
33:18Zero out of ten.
33:19Are you guys leaving together?
33:21No.
33:22Unfortunately, we are not leaving together.
33:25We're leaving separately.
33:26That's crazy, girl.
33:27You gonna make me chase you?
33:28Oh, it was so lovely to meet you.
33:30Oh, my dog, yes, sir.
33:32I was not going to cry.
33:35I'm not.
33:35We wish y'all the best.
33:37Adios, people.
33:38You're on your own.
33:40Bye.
33:42We ain't the governor, no more.
33:46Damn.
33:47Can you help?
33:47He just left her.
33:49He just left her.
33:51He didn't give a fuck.
33:51That's crazy.
33:53He just left her.
33:56This is a lot.
33:59After being here a couple of weeks, getting to know Kiki in person, nah, I don't think we're
34:04compatible at all.
34:05Oh, man.
34:06You're not going to say bye?
34:08Adios.
34:09Not going to give me a hug?
34:10Adios, Kiki.
34:12I wish Kiki would have been appreciative of my time, and I wish she would have cared when
34:19I tried to show her that I care.
34:23Good.
34:26All right, nice knowing y'all.
34:28Wish y'all the best, man.
34:29Wish you the best, man.
34:30My boy.
34:32Y'all travel safe.
34:33Are y'all going in the same car?
34:35Of course.
34:35Okay.
34:36You better get in that same car.
34:40Us standing together and leaving the house together after this experience was a no-brainer.
34:44From the first meeting, the chemistry is still there, so everything was just moving up.
34:48I'm ready to take our relationship from here to the real world and continue to build what
34:53we already started.
34:54He's been in love for a very long time.
34:57That's his clearest day.
34:59We're already in love, but he's definitely been in love for a very long time, right?
35:03So with me first?
35:04Of course.
35:06Good job.
35:06Hey, good luck.
35:09Man, we appreciate it.
35:10Of course.
35:11We're going to be leaving this party together.
35:13Okay.
35:14We're in the same car.
35:15Wow.
35:17Leaving with Alexis, I feel good.
35:19I'm happy that we gave each other a chance to meet each other in the physical.
35:23There was most definitely moments where we thought we weren't going to make it.
35:26But we worked through it.
35:28And we walked away happily ever after.
35:30I'm hoping to relocate to Dallas.
35:36I'm excited.
35:37I'm happy.
35:38Like, you know, see where it goes from there.
35:40To be continued.
35:46And then there was one.
35:49There is one.
35:50You want to take head down to the trauma table?
35:52Sure.
35:53I still hit it.
35:55Kind of sad.
35:56It is.
35:56It's very sad.
35:57I didn't think it was going to be this sad.
36:02God, this is like bringing back memories of me telling you my secret, walking down here
36:07with you, we're the last couple in the house and I'm just nervous and anxious and we're
36:13back.
36:14But I have to stop thinking about what's going to please him.
36:18I'm a mom with four kids.
36:19I need for ones in my life to be selfish.
36:22But on the other hand, I love this man with all of me and I can't even imagine life without
36:28him.
36:29So what the do I do?
36:33So.
36:36The time has come.
36:38We're the last ones here.
36:40We are.
36:43Um.
36:45But this has to be a yes and no decision.
36:52And.
37:01So.
37:03The time has come.
37:06We're the last ones here.
37:07We are.
37:09First things first, I want to tell you, um, it was a blessing to meet you.
37:15You're the most lovely woman I've ever met inside and out.
37:19But this has to be a yes and no decision.
37:22And I'm going to have to go with no, you deserve somebody that's all in on you.
37:35And I don't think I can be that, um, I low-key feel like you wasted my time.
37:46You know, you dragged me along this whole process.
37:59You just told me what I wanted to hear.
37:59You treated me exactly how you treated the other girls when I thought I was different.
38:02And I've been nothing but honest and upfront with you and you know that I was all about
38:08you, but you clearly weren't about me.
38:12It was one-sided from the jump.
38:13I do deserve better than that.
38:18Absolutely.
38:19A hundred percent.
38:20And I know you're going to find it one day.
38:21I feel like a fool.
38:27I don't have anything else to say.
38:28All right.
38:31Like, you're supposed to tell me everything.
38:33Now I know you're, like, not really honest with me.
38:35You should be like, f*** everyone else in the house, f*** this.
38:38I'm going to be honest with you so I don't hurt you.
38:40But you broke my f***ing heart.
38:44I hope one day that you can see that this comes from love.
38:47Okay, Jared.
38:48Do I feel like I wasted four years with Charlie?
38:53Absolutely not.
38:54That's my best friend.
38:55So I'm going to get the f*** out of here.
38:59I've tried the married life, but after a while, I just, you know, I got tired of waking up
39:04to the same person every day.
39:06I thought that maybe Charlie could change my mind and how I see relationships and I was
39:13wrong.
39:13I think that she fell victim to how I am with every other relationship.
39:20That I'm always the first to leave.
39:23And I'm sorry she had to go through that.
39:25Finally, for the first time since we've been here, Jared has been clear about what he wanted.
39:43And it was not me.
39:44Because it was so easy to get up and leave me.
39:50Now I'm stuck in thinking about tomorrow.
39:54You weren't trying to protect me.
39:56If you were trying to protect me, you would have said in the beginning, I can't handle
40:00the fact that you have more than one child.
40:03Let's work on our relationship as best friends.
40:05That could maybe turn inside.
40:06You didn't do that.
40:07You made me think that you loved me, that you were in love with me.
40:11You strung me along this journey where I'm thinking like everything's fantastic.
40:17What are you, Charlie?
40:17I'm not going to force any man to be with me.
40:31I gave him me.
40:33I gave him the best version of me.
40:35And if he doesn't want it, that's on him.
40:47On the Never Ever Mess reunion, we'll find out if the couples who lasted are still going
41:04strong, and if the others are looking for closure.
41:07There was a lot of secrets in this house.
41:08Clay, is that sweat on your brow?
41:10Wow.
41:11That's the gaslighting part.
41:13That is gaslighting.
41:14Mind your business.
41:16He slapped me in the ass so hard, my teeth stick together.
41:19You didn't say, oh, I like that.
41:20That feel good.
41:21You are a soul that I would love to keep in my life.
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