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Dive into the premiere episode of 90 Day - Hunt for Love, where new hopefuls embark on their quest for romance. Watch as individuals navigate the complexities of international relationships, cultural differences, and the challenges of finding true love. This episode sets the stage for their emotional journeys.

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00:00:00I don't know if there's a word to describe like single but like more
00:00:09super single so maybe your girl does need a little professional help
00:00:19even though I come from the different culture I feel like a love is love
00:00:23everywhere in the world so I'm ready to be let's go yeah yeah yeah
00:00:30welcome welcome to Tulum Mexico the three of us have put together a series of mixers dates and
00:00:38events and in the end hopefully you'll walk away with the one on your arm it sounds like a lot of
00:00:44work I was just planning on getting like white girl wasted the whole retreat so there's gonna be
00:00:55some other 90-day people here and some other singles that I'm not gonna know we're all looking
00:01:02for a love so there's no telling what's gonna happen
00:01:05I really like him like it wasn't very cool but I want to Rob
00:01:24I'm sick and tired of you sound like a little bitch right now I try to be diplomatic with you
00:01:32and it's not working all's fair in love and war sometimes people get hurt
00:01:38I acted impulsively how about are you gonna go behind my back
00:01:46you I feel like sad like I don't really know like what to do at this point
00:01:54I was taking Tiffany out on a date honestly from your state
00:01:58what the f*** did you do come on right now
00:02:01what the f*** happened there was an ambulance over there
00:02:05who's that oh my god it's going to be okay
00:02:09who worries me baby
00:02:10take care
00:02:11all guns blazing I'm perfection I'm amazing look at what my mama gave me I'ma put it in rotation
00:02:36right now I live in Atlanta and the dating pool let's be honest it has piss in it
00:02:48the last few years of my dating life have been my hoe phase because I've dated around I mean I
00:02:56haven't been a hoe but I started duty dating which is dating even if you don't feel like dating
00:03:04throwing spaghetti against the wall and seeing what sticks
00:03:08oh my gosh it's so nice
00:03:13we're here at this gorgeous beach resort and everybody is gonna do the same thing I am
00:03:29look for love we all want that happy ending I have no idea what to expect I love adventure at the end of the day so I'm excited to see where this goes
00:03:39I'm excited but at the same time I never in a million years imagined that this is where I would be at 33 years old I thought I'd have kids I thought I'd have a husband I was married for crying out loud and I never expected for that to end
00:04:01but here I am
00:04:03I don't want to fight no more
00:04:31so what are you gonna do
00:04:33move out as I said
00:04:34that's the first step to divorce Pedro
00:04:37I trusted my husband
00:04:41because he told me that he would not leave me
00:04:45he told me that
00:04:47he told me that
00:04:49since getting divorced from Pedro
00:04:52I haven't quite found my groove
00:04:55I feel like every time when I think I've got it with dating I don't
00:05:02thank you
00:05:05my dating life back home has been all over the place especially recently
00:05:10so I'm here to try and make a connection with a man that's deep and meaningful
00:05:18I also know I don't want to fixer-upper I want to turn key I want you to have the whole package
00:05:27with the package
00:05:29it's hot out here
00:05:33right now I'm super happy where my life is at
00:05:50recently I've lost a total of 110 pounds so that's been super exciting
00:05:56but I think one thing that could be better is my love life
00:05:59I'm single and I haven't dated for over a year
00:06:04so I don't know if there's a word to describe like single but like more
00:06:09super single
00:06:10I was told there was gonna be dating coaches here that kind of guide us through the next couple of weeks
00:06:16maybe a girl does need a little help
00:06:19major relationships in my life
00:06:23just one I got married and it's also the biggest miss never mind I don't want to say mistake
00:06:32everything happens for a reason I learned a lot through that but it's not something that I wanted for myself long term
00:06:37you may kiss your bride
00:06:42do you want to hold your daughter for the first time
00:06:50I'm doing the things that I need to do
00:06:56do the hard things like what no that's your job
00:07:00you're coming or you're staying
00:07:03I'm staying
00:07:04stay
00:07:05if I'm being mistreated guess what the I'm gonna do
00:07:10I'm gonna walk away
00:07:11you can literally go back to America
00:07:12my marriage is over
00:07:15I'm walking into this retreat with no expectations
00:07:21obviously I want to find my man
00:07:25but
00:07:26I know there's other 90 day people here
00:07:31and there's also gonna be like singles that none of us have ever met before guys and girls
00:07:36so I'm curious to see what that's gonna look like
00:07:40oh my god hi
00:07:42oh my goodness Tiffany
00:07:44so beautiful
00:07:45oh my god you look great
00:07:47thank you it's nice to meet you finally
00:07:48nice to meet you in person
00:07:50how the hell did you get through that
00:07:51I was lost
00:07:52oh my god I had a guide
00:07:53luckily
00:07:54luckily you
00:07:55I'm so happy that Chantel's here
00:07:59we know each other just online
00:08:02and I know that she has also had a difficult marriage
00:08:08I definitely think Chantel and I are gonna get along
00:08:11but she's stunning
00:08:14so although it's not a competition
00:08:16I'm gonna be like damn
00:08:17save some place for me
00:08:19my heart's coming out of my chest
00:08:21I'm so nervous
00:08:22yeah me too
00:08:23like I'm like almost like
00:08:25what am I doing here kind of
00:08:26I feel like a little kid
00:08:27I feel like a little kid
00:08:28that's about to like
00:08:28like do a project
00:08:30like in front of the class
00:08:31we're so lucky
00:08:32this is going to be so fun
00:08:34I wish I could say I believe in the idea of soulmates
00:08:48I've been looking for it my entire life
00:08:51I don't want to waste any more time
00:08:53just sitting around wanting something that's not there
00:08:57like I'm ready to go out and get it
00:08:58how you doing
00:09:00can you help me with that back
00:09:02sure
00:09:02I still remember the first peck on the lips in kindergarten
00:09:05what her name was and what she looked like
00:09:07and every crush I had along the way of thinking
00:09:10maybe this girl is who I'll spend my whole life with
00:09:12and now I'm 35 years old
00:09:15and you know I shot my shot
00:09:18I got married
00:09:19I believed in it
00:09:20I put everything I could into it
00:09:21and it failed
00:09:22I miss you so much
00:09:29give me a kiss
00:09:30I miss you
00:09:30you're going to see
00:09:40when you're depressed forever
00:09:41you're going to see
00:09:42I wasn't that bad
00:09:44alright you want me to leave
00:09:45take the squishmallow
00:09:46I was only on a dating app
00:09:51after Sophie told me
00:09:52to go talk to other women
00:09:53and I still deleted that
00:09:55because I care
00:09:56well I think that's pretty much it
00:10:09I appreciate the clarity
00:10:11Sophie and I are not officially divorced yet
00:10:19it is something that is happening
00:10:21and happening soon
00:10:22but the fact that I'm a man
00:10:24who is still legally married
00:10:26I could see that becoming a bigger problem
00:10:29I don't want to lie
00:10:32but if I can avoid talking about it
00:10:34I definitely will
00:10:34hi Mr. Rob
00:10:39oh hi
00:10:40how are you
00:10:41how you doing
00:10:41what's your name
00:10:42Johanna
00:10:42nice to meet you
00:10:43Johanna
00:10:43it's nice to meet you
00:10:44welcome to the single retreat
00:10:46wow
00:10:47I'm glad to be here
00:10:47yes
00:10:48so yeah
00:10:49I'm the event manager
00:10:50and I have a present for you
00:10:52I just want to give it to you
00:10:53yes
00:10:54that's for tonight
00:10:55so we're going to have
00:10:56a party tonight
00:10:58here's your invitation
00:11:00some Illuminati type stuff
00:11:01y'all got going on
00:11:02I've been here
00:11:03okay
00:11:03Johanna
00:11:05she's definitely
00:11:06definitely very hot
00:11:08and if the event coordinator
00:11:09is this pretty
00:11:10then there must be
00:11:12some like very beautiful women
00:11:13that they're going to have here
00:11:14and maybe
00:11:15maybe somebody for me
00:11:17okay
00:11:18so see you at the party tonight
00:11:20all right
00:11:20great
00:11:20I'm looking forward to it
00:11:21yes
00:11:22the invite that Johanna
00:11:24just gave me reads
00:11:25masquerade party
00:11:26casa papaya
00:11:27at 7pm
00:11:28mask required
00:11:29please keep your true identity
00:11:31a secret
00:11:32until otherwise instructed
00:11:33full-blown Illuminati
00:11:34that's a nice little
00:11:37nice little welcome
00:11:38yeah
00:11:38I guess I'm a wolf tonight
00:11:40yeah
00:11:40for sure
00:11:41I'm just coming here
00:11:56to try to find love
00:11:58if it happens
00:11:59amen
00:12:01inshallah
00:12:01even though I come from
00:12:04the different culture
00:12:05I feel like love is love
00:12:06everywhere in the world
00:12:07it's universal
00:12:08and I have my advantage
00:12:10because like
00:12:11I mean I'm African
00:12:12you know like
00:12:13we have it here
00:12:13we like
00:12:14like it's big
00:12:16Africans everybody has
00:12:17big penis
00:12:18everybody has big
00:12:19also women throw their self at me
00:12:26because I'm superstar
00:12:27soldier boy
00:12:27all the way from Africa
00:12:28I'm an artist
00:12:30I can sing
00:12:30I can sing for you
00:12:31every day
00:12:32you know
00:12:32but at the same time
00:12:39I feel like women
00:12:40are not coming to me
00:12:42or they are not
00:12:42throwing themselves to me
00:12:43as for me
00:12:45Usman
00:12:45they just come in for the
00:12:47soldier boy
00:12:48it's difficult actually
00:12:50so difficult
00:12:52oh my god
00:12:54will you marry me?
00:12:59thank you
00:13:00are you really sure
00:13:03that you're going to
00:13:04allow me to have that second wife?
00:13:05I never had a child
00:13:07you know what
00:13:07it was nice to meet you
00:13:09but I'm going to go
00:13:09because your ass
00:13:10spits me off
00:13:11so I think it is high time
00:13:16I just go back home
00:13:16and look for somebody
00:13:17who is younger than me
00:13:18I mean at the end of the day
00:13:25I want to have like
00:13:26two or three kids
00:13:27it's possible
00:13:27and there's no way
00:13:29I can get that
00:13:30with older ladies
00:13:31so now
00:13:33no compromising
00:13:34and that's why I'm here
00:13:35but I think maybe like
00:13:37there are 90 days people here
00:13:38I don't want to see
00:13:40bigger here
00:13:40and I also don't want
00:13:42to see Angela here
00:13:43because I know
00:13:44personally I don't want
00:13:45to deal with that kind
00:13:46of drama
00:13:46and I'm ready to put
00:13:49my heart back on the line
00:13:49so I'm ready to do it
00:13:51let's go
00:13:51and yeah
00:13:53yeah yeah
00:13:54man this is beautiful
00:13:57oh I can feel the air
00:14:03condition
00:14:03oh my god
00:14:06you have a hammock outside
00:14:08oh I don't have a pool
00:14:09oh my gosh
00:14:12yeah this is definitely
00:14:15my type of place
00:14:16oh what
00:14:19yeah it's a beautiful unit
00:14:20I got two beds
00:14:22this is crazy
00:14:24oh what is this
00:14:27oh my god a mask
00:14:28masquerade party
00:14:307pm
00:14:31wow oh my gosh
00:14:33maybe this is our reward
00:14:35for enduring
00:14:36and surviving
00:14:37our marriage
00:14:37oh my gosh
00:14:40I watch a movie
00:15:01I think it's a Tom Cruise movie
00:15:03and where they had
00:15:05masquerade party
00:15:05and there was a sex
00:15:06happening there
00:15:07you know like
00:15:07it's like oh
00:15:09now I'm having my own
00:15:09masquerade
00:15:10what's gonna happen
00:15:10is it gonna be this him
00:15:11I don't know
00:15:13but whatever it is
00:15:14I'm here
00:15:15I'm here
00:15:15I'm ready
00:15:15looking around
00:15:24we're all in the mats
00:15:25you know like
00:15:26the body shape
00:15:27is all looking good
00:15:27and I believe
00:15:31that they're all
00:15:31beautiful ladies
00:15:32but I can't tell
00:15:33because I didn't see
00:15:33their face yet
00:15:34hello
00:15:43hi
00:15:45how's it going
00:15:45how are you
00:15:46good
00:15:47nice to meet you
00:15:48nice to meet you
00:15:48nice meeting you
00:15:49nice meeting you
00:15:50nice to meet you
00:15:50welcome to the party
00:15:51yeah let's dance
00:15:52yeah
00:15:53absolutely
00:15:54I'm so excited
00:16:15for the masquerade party
00:16:16and I'm definitely
00:16:18trying to figure out
00:16:19who else is here
00:16:20from the 90 day world
00:16:21can you recognize
00:16:22anyone with their
00:16:23masks on
00:16:24I don't actually
00:16:25cheers to finding
00:16:27our man
00:16:27hi
00:16:29how are you
00:16:31I like your half mask
00:16:32cheers guys
00:16:33welcome
00:16:33cheers
00:16:33cheers girls
00:16:35welcome
00:16:35you look great tonight
00:16:36thank you
00:16:37so beautiful
00:16:39okay
00:16:39half of me
00:16:41all of you girl
00:16:42hi
00:16:43girl
00:16:53walking to the masquerade
00:16:57party
00:16:58is definitely
00:16:59I'm definitely nervous
00:17:00it's kind of hard to drink
00:17:02with this mask on though
00:17:03looking around
00:17:05I can see there's a lot
00:17:06of competition
00:17:07seem like some decent
00:17:09looking guys around here
00:17:10trying to get at all the girls
00:17:11oh look a little cat
00:17:13a little cat came in
00:17:14so the pressure's on
00:17:17what's up
00:17:18hey
00:17:19how's it going
00:17:20what's going on
00:17:21what's your vibe about
00:17:22my vibe
00:17:23I don't know
00:17:24I'm trying to figure
00:17:24these masks out
00:17:25I'm like I'm very envious
00:17:28at how small y'all's masks are
00:17:29for real
00:17:30like I don't know
00:17:30why they gave me
00:17:31this like
00:17:31welder's mask
00:17:33yeah we're gonna have
00:17:33to meet you again
00:17:34I know
00:17:35soon
00:17:35I might check out
00:17:39what's going on
00:17:40over this way
00:17:41I'm gonna sit down
00:17:42next to you
00:17:42because I don't like
00:17:43to stand around
00:17:44and mingle
00:17:44I'm exhausted
00:17:45from it actually
00:17:46I saw you come in
00:17:48with your mask
00:17:48thank you
00:17:49thank you
00:17:50it looks like a cat
00:17:51before but now
00:17:52it's a wolf
00:17:53it's a wolf
00:17:54yeah
00:17:54it's fun
00:17:56meeting all these guys
00:17:57while masked
00:17:58it takes away
00:17:59of a little bit
00:18:00of the pressure
00:18:00I mean I'm just
00:18:01sitting on the couch
00:18:02next to wolf man
00:18:03with the nice eyes
00:18:04and so far so good
00:18:06so you got kids
00:18:08no
00:18:09no kids
00:18:09no just me
00:18:10I live in an apartment
00:18:11with my puppy
00:18:12I'm only 24
00:18:13you're 24
00:18:14holy
00:18:15how old are you
00:18:1744
00:18:17really
00:18:18yeah
00:18:19so you're 20 years
00:18:21older than me
00:18:21yeah
00:18:22hey I'm kind of here
00:18:23for it
00:18:23that just made me
00:18:24feel super old
00:18:25thank you
00:18:27gracias
00:18:28gracias
00:18:29ah
00:18:42this is my first
00:18:43singles retreat
00:18:44and
00:18:45the only physical
00:18:46trait that I think
00:18:47that I'm pretty
00:18:48stuck on
00:18:50is that long
00:18:52straight hair
00:18:53especially
00:18:53darker colors
00:18:55brunettes
00:18:55black
00:18:56you know
00:18:56some guys are
00:18:57butt
00:18:58boobs
00:18:58whatever
00:18:59the first thing
00:19:00I notice
00:19:01is hair
00:19:01and I think
00:19:02that sounds
00:19:02kind of creepy
00:19:03but I like
00:19:04what I like
00:19:05at the end of the day
00:19:06I just want
00:19:07a normal relationship
00:19:09where you know
00:19:10the girl
00:19:10doesn't need
00:19:11like a lot of
00:19:12uh
00:19:13psychiatrists
00:19:14and psychologists
00:19:15at this point
00:19:16in her life
00:19:16I've had my heart
00:19:18broken
00:19:18two or three times
00:19:20and I definitely
00:19:21think
00:19:21for example
00:19:22if you look back
00:19:23at uh
00:19:24Jennifer and I
00:19:25that was probably
00:19:26the worst one
00:19:27hello baby
00:19:29are you excited
00:19:30oh yeah
00:19:32I'm really excited
00:19:33to meet you
00:19:33I'm nervous
00:19:34oh my god
00:19:45first kiss
00:19:46baby this ring
00:19:49is beautiful
00:19:50what did you get it
00:19:51bought the ring
00:19:52for Veronica
00:19:53you're giving me
00:19:54a ring
00:19:55of your ex
00:19:56it's her trash
00:19:58I don't want it
00:19:59I was over you
00:20:04trying to kiss you
00:20:05and you just
00:20:05suddenly changed
00:20:07in the bed like this
00:20:08and it started
00:20:08to be another person
00:20:09I feel like
00:20:10I'm constantly
00:20:11being emasculated
00:20:13by her
00:20:13I don't want
00:20:14to fight with you
00:20:15you didn't
00:20:15enjoy this with me
00:20:17when I wanted
00:20:17so now
00:20:18I enjoy it by myself
00:20:20I didn't realize
00:20:23how much damage
00:20:24that really did
00:20:25to me
00:20:25so getting my heart
00:20:26broke is definitely
00:20:27high on the list
00:20:28of things that I
00:20:29never want to go
00:20:29through again
00:20:30but at the same time
00:20:33I do not want to die
00:20:34alone
00:20:34it's one of my biggest
00:20:35fears
00:20:35so I know
00:20:37obviously the clock
00:20:37is ticking
00:20:38I'm in my mid-40s
00:20:39and I know I need to
00:20:40go ahead and get back
00:20:41out there
00:20:41but something like this
00:20:43where it's like
00:20:44you're gonna go stay
00:20:45with people
00:20:46in another country
00:20:46that's kind of crazy
00:20:47and I
00:20:48we're in for a really
00:20:49wild experience here
00:20:51alright Tim
00:20:53you got this
00:20:54go out there
00:20:56and pretend
00:20:57to like people
00:20:58got it
00:21:00I think most people
00:21:20when they meet me
00:21:20they think I'm dumb
00:21:21but I think
00:21:23it's to my advantage
00:21:24because then later on
00:21:25if people ask you
00:21:26to do stuff
00:21:27you're like
00:21:27oh I don't know how
00:21:29but actually
00:21:32I'm really smart
00:21:33I graduated
00:21:34with my degree
00:21:35in finance
00:21:36and my minor
00:21:37in beer pong
00:21:37I feel like
00:21:40somehow
00:21:41when it comes to love
00:21:42I just keep losing
00:21:43recently
00:21:44I found out
00:21:46the guy
00:21:46I was planning
00:21:47to marry
00:21:48was lying a lot
00:21:49he told me
00:21:50he's never been married
00:21:51he never has kids
00:21:52and he was actually
00:21:53had two ex-wives
00:21:55and four kids
00:21:56so I'm like
00:21:56oh wow
00:21:57yeah
00:21:58whatever I've been doing
00:22:01has not been working
00:22:02so I'm open
00:22:03to the professional help
00:22:04I need it
00:22:06I'm your wife
00:22:15are you happy?
00:22:21stop staring at the waitress's app
00:22:23sorry
00:22:23you know I'm here
00:22:30you know I feel lonely
00:22:31don't drink wine
00:22:34more
00:22:35please
00:22:35around the start
00:22:39of quarantine
00:22:40I started seeing
00:22:41this guy named Andy
00:22:42I'm not used to people
00:22:43yelling at me
00:22:44or like reacting
00:22:45well why do I yell?
00:22:46it's like
00:22:47if it continues
00:22:47I can't keep doing this
00:22:49my mom's like
00:22:54oh I think
00:22:55your expectations
00:22:56are too high
00:22:56I'm like
00:22:57basically like
00:22:58don't cheat on me
00:22:59or lie to me
00:23:00and like pay
00:23:01my bills
00:23:02none of the guys
00:23:09are really
00:23:09catching my attention
00:23:11here
00:23:11but then I look
00:23:13across the party
00:23:14and I see this guy
00:23:15I'm like
00:23:15no way
00:23:16I know who this is
00:23:17I went on vacation
00:23:20with him
00:23:21in Istanbul
00:23:21I started falling for him
00:23:23I stayed the night
00:23:24at his hotel
00:23:25a few times
00:23:26I thought
00:23:28we could be
00:23:29the perfect couple
00:23:30but once we left
00:23:31and went home
00:23:32he just completely
00:23:33like stopped
00:23:33talking to me
00:23:34and now here he is
00:23:36wow
00:23:37this woman
00:23:54with the red dress
00:23:55walking in
00:23:55okay
00:23:59so she's fiery
00:24:00who is this girl
00:24:03hello darling
00:24:05how are you
00:24:06I see this
00:24:09perfect long
00:24:10brown hair
00:24:11and I'm like
00:24:12who the hell
00:24:13is that
00:24:13and I'm like
00:24:15holy
00:24:19I think I know
00:24:23who this is
00:24:24you have now
00:24:31had a chance
00:24:32to meet each other
00:24:33but you will not
00:24:34be wearing a mask
00:24:34for the remainder
00:24:35of this retreat
00:24:36take your masks off
00:24:38oh
00:24:42oh my gosh
00:24:45have you made
00:24:47what you like
00:24:47I like you first
00:24:49already
00:24:50you know I like you
00:24:51oh I do not
00:24:54like this
00:24:54I've read
00:24:55several things
00:24:56on social media
00:24:57about Usman
00:24:58and none of it's good
00:24:59I really
00:25:00I don't trust him
00:25:01at all
00:25:01I'm on the proper
00:25:11thing
00:25:11I rock the star
00:25:12that all the girls want
00:25:13and all the boys like
00:25:14wow
00:25:16look at this beautiful lady
00:25:18the way she walk
00:25:20majestically
00:25:21super hot
00:25:23I'm ready to meet
00:25:34someone special
00:25:35someone that
00:25:37brings that
00:25:38sparkle back to me
00:25:40I'm excited to see
00:25:42who's hiding
00:25:42behind those masks
00:25:44usually I'm a very
00:25:47independent woman
00:25:48I don't like
00:25:48any man
00:25:49or like other
00:25:50people to tell me
00:25:51what to do
00:25:52I believe
00:25:53that you should do
00:25:54what you want
00:25:55and how you want it
00:25:56and when you want it
00:25:57as long as
00:25:58it's consensual
00:25:59do it
00:26:00where are you from?
00:26:04I'm from Colombia
00:26:04Colombia
00:26:05I'm looking for a man
00:26:08that can keep
00:26:08out with me
00:26:09and never tries
00:26:10to put me in a cage
00:26:11but I haven't
00:26:13found that yet
00:26:14you have her
00:26:27like mommy
00:26:28that was her nickname
00:26:30I just never
00:26:31I don't know why
00:26:33you care
00:26:33I mean
00:26:33we're having like
00:26:34oh my gosh
00:26:39finally
00:26:41oh babe
00:26:44so he paid you
00:26:53to go on a date
00:26:54with him?
00:26:55I deserve someone
00:26:59that looks at me
00:27:00like I am
00:27:01I've been single
00:27:05for two years
00:27:06this is like
00:27:08my first
00:27:09attempt to date
00:27:10I heard
00:27:12there's gonna be
00:27:12some nighty day
00:27:13people here
00:27:14so
00:27:14I think it's gonna
00:27:15be interesting
00:27:16to see the vibe
00:27:18and the energy
00:27:18between the nighty day
00:27:20people
00:27:20and the new singles
00:27:21man we have some
00:27:24interesting masks here
00:27:25look at this one
00:27:26wow
00:27:27hi love
00:27:28how are you
00:27:29good
00:27:30where are you from
00:27:31hi
00:27:34how are you doing
00:27:35Elise
00:27:35Elise nice to meet you
00:27:36I'm proud
00:27:36nice to meet you
00:27:37where are you from
00:27:37I live in LA
00:27:38okay
00:27:39yeah what about you
00:27:40Miami
00:27:40so you're a Miami girl
00:27:42kinda
00:27:43what does that make you
00:27:44like a party girl
00:27:45kind of but I don't want
00:27:46to party anymore
00:27:46like a yacht girl
00:27:47a little bit
00:27:48right now I fell
00:28:04completely out of my
00:28:05elements
00:28:05with all these
00:28:06handsome men
00:28:08and their six packs
00:28:09and their open shirts
00:28:10and the pretty girls
00:28:11the cleavage
00:28:12this is not usually
00:28:13how I spend a Friday night
00:28:14I guess I've been
00:28:18called nerdy
00:28:19I feel like I'm
00:28:19a poor man's nerd
00:28:21you know
00:28:21maybe more of a geek
00:28:22I don't really know
00:28:23I never even talked
00:28:24to a girl
00:28:25until I was like 19
00:28:26basically
00:28:26and right now
00:28:28having the record
00:28:29I do with women
00:28:31I definitely don't
00:28:32have a winning streak
00:28:33the last five years
00:28:34I feel like my heart's
00:28:35definitely gone through
00:28:36the meat grinder
00:28:37and it's definitely
00:28:39in a spotty place
00:28:41Larissa
00:28:45what is the flowers
00:28:47no flowers honey
00:28:48I'm sorry
00:28:49makes me very proud
00:28:52pronounce you
00:28:53husband and wife
00:28:54absolutely delusional
00:28:58who is against
00:29:00the queen will die
00:29:01what respect is
00:29:02okay good
00:29:05so take your
00:29:05ring
00:29:06and
00:29:08okay
00:29:09take the ring
00:29:10hey baby
00:29:15hey
00:29:16hey
00:29:17you lie
00:29:26what are you talking about
00:29:27Vanessa talk
00:29:28you're still friends
00:29:29you talk every day
00:29:30Vanessa
00:29:37wanna get married
00:29:39holy
00:29:39yes
00:29:41no I
00:29:44I just expected
00:29:45things to change
00:29:46this is not what
00:29:47I signed up for
00:29:48I thought you were
00:29:49divorcing
00:29:50when you left the house
00:29:51right now I'm definitely
00:29:55not in the best place
00:29:56in my life
00:29:56recently divorced
00:29:57kind of in between
00:29:58jobs
00:29:59in between
00:29:59homes
00:30:00this is definitely
00:30:02a low point in my life
00:30:03but
00:30:04it
00:30:05I'm gonna give this
00:30:06my all
00:30:06and have a good time
00:30:07and the only thing
00:30:08I really care about
00:30:08is not looking too stupid
00:30:10in front of somebody
00:30:10but
00:30:11chances of me
00:30:13embarrassing myself
00:30:13pretty much
00:30:14guaranteed
00:30:15how you doing
00:30:17just
00:30:17you know
00:30:18chill
00:30:19pretty chill
00:30:20pretty chill
00:30:20yeah
00:30:23have you been to Tulum before
00:30:25no my first time
00:30:26oh okay
00:30:26how about you
00:30:27I have
00:30:28I'm a solo traveler
00:30:29oh yeah really
00:30:30I've traveled most places
00:30:31by myself
00:30:32cool
00:30:33I've been to Vietnam
00:30:33Japan
00:30:34nice
00:30:35Brazil
00:30:36you like bad boys
00:30:37I like bad boys
00:30:39I like a little bit
00:30:39you like a little bit
00:30:40of a like a challenge
00:30:41you wanna make them
00:30:42you wanna make them
00:30:42into a good guy
00:30:43a little bit
00:30:45I also like to get
00:30:46told what to do
00:30:46okay
00:30:48hi
00:30:50hi
00:30:51how are you guys doing
00:30:53you guys are cute
00:30:54how are you
00:30:54cheers guys
00:30:56cheers to a really good night
00:30:57cheers
00:30:57I gotta get a refill
00:30:58you need another drink
00:30:59yeah absolutely
00:30:59I'm gonna go get one
00:31:00cheers
00:31:01when I was trying to figure out
00:31:03what my type is
00:31:04before coming here
00:31:04I said tan skin
00:31:06dark hair
00:31:08big lips
00:31:09and then I meet
00:31:10Hornstache
00:31:11and that guy caught my eye
00:31:13I was like
00:31:14oh who is this
00:31:15guy with this
00:31:16I do like brown eyes
00:31:18but his beautiful blue eyes
00:31:19I'm not gonna complain
00:31:21so I was like
00:31:21I'm saving you for later
00:31:24so I was in Turkey
00:31:38for like a month
00:31:39it was meant like
00:31:40saw all my stories
00:31:41and reached out to me
00:31:42like hey I'm coming to
00:31:43Istanbul
00:31:43do you wanna hang out
00:31:44and I was like sure
00:31:45I didn't know if it was
00:31:46like friendly
00:31:47or if he's trying to date
00:31:49I didn't know what to expect
00:31:50we were going to dinners
00:31:52we were going out for drinks
00:31:53we were having a good time
00:31:54I thought like
00:31:55wow he's really cool
00:31:57and then I thought like
00:31:58oh could I date him
00:32:00is he flirting with me
00:32:01what's going on
00:32:02your mask is so
00:32:04I love it
00:32:05but after the trip
00:32:08I wasn't sure
00:32:08how he felt about me
00:32:09so now
00:32:11I'm like could this be fate
00:32:12bringing us back together
00:32:13but I feel stupid
00:32:15because I was excited
00:32:16to see him
00:32:17and talk to him
00:32:18and then he was pretending
00:32:19not to even know who I am
00:32:20I'm like I've like
00:32:21spent a week with you
00:32:23showing you the city
00:32:24every day
00:32:24sleeping in your hotel room
00:32:26and you don't know me
00:32:26okay
00:32:27maybe in the dream
00:32:29huh
00:32:30maybe in the dream
00:32:31or imagination
00:32:31maybe in my imagination
00:32:33of course I see Courtney
00:32:37and actually I'm just playing
00:32:39I'm just joking with her
00:32:41and pretending not to know her
00:32:43but I don't think she get it
00:32:45hi guys
00:32:46hello everybody
00:32:48hello everyone
00:32:48good evening
00:32:50my name is Nick
00:32:52and this is Tanya
00:32:53hi
00:32:54we will be your
00:32:56personal dating coaches
00:32:57hi
00:32:58hi
00:32:59hi
00:32:59hi
00:33:00between the two of us
00:33:02we have close to two decades
00:33:04of helping people like you
00:33:05build relationships
00:33:07and strengthen those relationships
00:33:08over time
00:33:09now this
00:33:11is Johanna
00:33:12hi everyone
00:33:13hi guys
00:33:14hi
00:33:14and Johanna will be our events coordinator
00:33:18while we're here in beautiful Tulum
00:33:19the three of us
00:33:21have put together a series of mixers
00:33:23dates and events
00:33:24for this retreat
00:33:25it sounds like a lot of work
00:33:28I was just planning on getting like
00:33:29white girl wasted the whole retreat
00:33:30so yeah
00:33:31but my dating life is horrible
00:33:34I need somebody to come help me
00:33:36you have now had a chance to meet each other
00:33:39mix it up
00:33:40and hopefully form some connections
00:33:42the masks on
00:33:43without nerves
00:33:44and the fear of judgment
00:33:45but you will not be wearing a mask
00:33:47for the remainder of this retreat
00:33:49I am now going to ask the gentlemen
00:33:51to line up over here
00:33:53and the ladies to line up over there
00:33:55I'm very curious to see
00:34:00Miami girl in orange
00:34:01and for sure every dude here wants to know
00:34:03how hot the girl in the red dress is
00:34:05I mean
00:34:05I know I do
00:34:06it's like
00:34:06it's like a tale as old as time
00:34:08the woman in the red dress
00:34:09we gotta know
00:34:11so when I say it's time
00:34:14you will all reveal yourselves
00:34:16three
00:34:23two
00:34:26one
00:34:29take your mask off
00:34:33out of all the people
00:34:55why is she here
00:34:56you gotta be kidding me man
00:34:58this is gonna be fun
00:35:01this is gonna be fun
00:35:01yeah
00:35:02don't say I'm blast
00:35:03three
00:35:12two
00:35:15one
00:35:16wow
00:35:22wow
00:35:23oh my god
00:35:26so Tim is here
00:35:32I saw him
00:35:33he's presented like
00:35:36he's not seeing us
00:35:37when I'm looking at Tim
00:35:40and I see his reaction
00:35:41he looks like
00:35:42someone put him
00:35:43in the stomach
00:35:44so I keep him in the boundaries
00:35:47and he was like
00:35:47no
00:35:49hi Rob
00:35:52yeah yeah yeah
00:35:53yeah yeah
00:35:54yeah yeah
00:35:55yeah
00:35:55that's a few of us
00:35:56yeah
00:35:56all the girls
00:35:59are smoking hot tonight
00:36:01I think there's a lot
00:36:02of opportunity here for me
00:36:04but at the same time
00:36:05I started to see
00:36:06this group of guys
00:36:07and girls
00:36:08who knew each other
00:36:08it's about some TV show
00:36:10and I'm really not sure
00:36:12of that group
00:36:13so I'm trying to figure out
00:36:14what's going on
00:36:15Tiffany
00:36:15oh hi
00:36:16hey
00:36:17how are you
00:36:18hey Tiffany
00:36:19I'm good
00:36:20how are you been
00:36:20you look good
00:36:21thank you
00:36:22yeah
00:36:22there's a whole lot
00:36:25going on right now
00:36:26and I can kind of catch
00:36:27some people that I know
00:36:28for sure
00:36:29are 90 day people
00:36:29that I know of
00:36:31Courtney is like
00:36:33a sweet girl
00:36:34but I also know
00:36:36she likes her drinks
00:36:37so I'm like
00:36:37oh god
00:36:39Rob is
00:36:40you know
00:36:41he's the pretty boy
00:36:42oh is that
00:36:43soja boy
00:36:44I don't know
00:36:46if any of the women
00:36:47here are his type
00:36:48because so far
00:36:48I haven't seen
00:36:49any women over 50
00:36:50sorry
00:36:52hi
00:36:54how have you been man
00:36:57I'm good
00:36:58how are you doing
00:36:58I'm good man
00:36:59I'm so well you're here
00:37:00it's nice to finally meet you
00:37:01I didn't realize
00:37:02you were single
00:37:02yeah I got divorced
00:37:04when did that
00:37:05in February
00:37:05I'm sorry
00:37:06now that you're unmasked
00:37:08have some fun
00:37:09talk a little bit more
00:37:10and we will see you
00:37:11in the morning
00:37:12see you guys
00:37:13my first thought
00:37:19is like
00:37:19where's the
00:37:20where's the tall
00:37:20model looking girl
00:37:21I gotta see what her face
00:37:22actually looks like
00:37:23and then I kind of like
00:37:25did a quick little glance
00:37:26like
00:37:27okay yeah
00:37:27she is
00:37:28she is very beautiful
00:37:29okay
00:37:29and then
00:37:30my focus went
00:37:31towards this mystery
00:37:33Latina in the red dress
00:37:35everybody seems to know
00:37:36who she is
00:37:37and I'm like
00:37:37shook
00:37:38because I'm like
00:37:39what the
00:37:39she's one of the
00:37:4090 day people
00:37:41realizing that
00:37:43the hottest girl here
00:37:45was also
00:37:45a 90 day fiance
00:37:46I mean
00:37:47we'll see
00:37:48hi how you doing
00:37:50nice to meet you
00:37:51what's your name
00:37:52nice to meet you
00:37:53Rob
00:37:53what a
00:37:55situation
00:37:57they have us in
00:37:58right now
00:37:58this is
00:37:59a little bit
00:38:00awkward
00:38:01isn't it
00:38:02I'm gonna love it
00:38:04and when you get done
00:38:07can I talk to you for a minute
00:38:08yeah
00:38:08she or me
00:38:09no her
00:38:10you guys continue
00:38:11I'll be right back
00:38:11okay
00:38:12you okay
00:38:14like
00:38:15I don't know
00:38:16like you think I should
00:38:17just try to like
00:38:18see where me and her
00:38:19and the last time
00:38:20I talked to her
00:38:21100%
00:38:22no no
00:38:23100%
00:38:24I feel like
00:38:25it's something
00:38:26that you just gotta
00:38:26jump into
00:38:27versus like avoiding
00:38:28and then it gets
00:38:29it becomes this thing
00:38:30do you know her
00:38:31and all those
00:38:31she's like
00:38:31I don't know
00:38:33how to
00:38:33so I'm like
00:38:34sweet
00:38:35but I don't know
00:38:36I don't know
00:38:36she seemed super sweet
00:38:37when I met her too
00:38:38date her
00:38:39and then see
00:38:39if you still think
00:38:40she's sweet
00:38:41out of all the 90 day singles
00:38:43I'm probably closest
00:38:44with Tim
00:38:45I'm so happy that he's here
00:38:46because he's my friend
00:38:47but for Tim's ex
00:38:50to be here
00:38:51I know they don't get along
00:38:53they ended badly
00:38:54Jennifer
00:38:57when we look back
00:39:00on your relationship
00:39:01with Tim
00:39:01you two were never intimate
00:39:02why do you think that was
00:39:04he has been reinforcing
00:39:05the false narrative
00:39:06that he never wanted
00:39:07to have sex with me
00:39:08but anybody
00:39:09everybody can see
00:39:10that that's just
00:39:10BS
00:39:11we actually did try
00:39:13to have sex
00:39:14disgusting
00:39:14I didn't have a condom
00:39:16and the stores were closed
00:39:18I told you
00:39:19I will never have sex
00:39:20with you
00:39:20I told you
00:39:21and you say
00:39:22okay
00:39:22then let everybody
00:39:23think that I'm gay
00:39:24there's no love
00:39:27in this room right now
00:39:27to my fucking god
00:39:28like someone
00:39:29put a muscle
00:39:30through her mouth
00:39:30please
00:39:31I gave you money
00:39:32bought you
00:39:32you shouldn't utter
00:39:34one bad word
00:39:35about me ever
00:39:36you know what
00:39:38you don't even deserve
00:39:39to be called a pussy
00:39:40because you love to act
00:39:41like a little bitch
00:39:42whoa
00:39:43oh
00:39:43I think her presence here
00:39:46just her being here
00:39:47is gonna like
00:39:48put him on high alert
00:39:49and now they're gonna
00:39:50have to date
00:39:50in front of each other
00:39:51let's see how that goes
00:39:53so where do you get
00:39:58to be now
00:39:59in Colombia
00:40:01I'm really curious
00:40:03about Colombia
00:40:04but mostly because of you
00:40:06it's not Colombia
00:40:07oh
00:40:07hey
00:40:08what's going on
00:40:10everything
00:40:11everything and everything
00:40:13I'm shocked to see you
00:40:15I was my husband
00:40:16last time we spoke
00:40:18that was
00:40:18bad
00:40:20I don't want there
00:40:24to be tension
00:40:24I'm trying to have a good time
00:40:25I know you're probably
00:40:27trying to have a good time
00:40:28and I don't want any
00:40:29bad blood
00:40:30you know
00:40:30but
00:40:30do you guys want
00:40:31your privacy?
00:40:32no
00:40:33it's necessary
00:40:34okay
00:40:34we tried at the age
00:40:36a long time ago
00:40:38yeah
00:40:38but it didn't work
00:40:39but what happened
00:40:41is that
00:40:41he has a big mouth
00:40:42so he say a lot
00:40:44of things about me
00:40:45and then I had
00:40:46the opportunity
00:40:46to confront him
00:40:47and he didn't like
00:40:49and he didn't like
00:40:49what I said
00:40:49that's what happened
00:40:51so you
00:40:52you know
00:40:52that's true
00:40:53Tim has always
00:40:56tried to sabotage me
00:40:57in the past
00:40:58he feels
00:40:59that he's so entitled
00:41:00to talk
00:41:01tell me with other people
00:41:03now I can comfort him too
00:41:05I know that he has
00:41:07a lot of secrets
00:41:07so you better watch out
00:41:09or maybe it's gonna be
00:41:11the time to
00:41:11tell them to the world too
00:41:13I know y'all
00:41:14are having a conversation
00:41:15so I don't want to
00:41:16interrupt you
00:41:17but
00:41:17don't mind me
00:41:18we'll stay out of each other's way
00:41:19it'll be good
00:41:19okay
00:41:20all right
00:41:20cool
00:41:20thank you
00:41:21good friend
00:41:21we'll see
00:41:24I thought there was
00:41:26a friendship coming
00:41:26but then the last sentence
00:41:27happened
00:41:28and I was like
00:41:28oh
00:41:28what happened
00:41:30well you know
00:41:31that's my exit
00:41:32that's here
00:41:32right
00:41:33hold up
00:41:36why'd y'all break up
00:41:37the truth
00:41:39she's a gold digger
00:41:41I hate gold diggers
00:41:45that come to the United States
00:41:47for a green card
00:41:49well I don't know
00:41:50if she was using me
00:41:51for a green card
00:41:51but she definitely
00:41:52wasn't happy
00:41:52unless I was buying
00:41:53yeah okay
00:41:54well that's what I hate
00:41:55I just hate for people
00:41:57to abuse the system
00:41:58like are you and Pedro
00:42:00done done
00:42:01done
00:42:02I haven't talked to him
00:42:03since the last time
00:42:04I filmed with him
00:42:05I don't know where he is
00:42:06okay
00:42:07did you think Pedro
00:42:09was your soulmate then
00:42:10honestly ever
00:42:11you really did
00:42:13aw that's heartbreaking
00:42:14I was young
00:42:16I was like 25
00:42:17can I sit here please
00:42:22so
00:42:23are you madame
00:42:25no
00:42:26you're acting like you didn't know me
00:42:28no no no I know you
00:42:29I don't listen
00:42:31I'm sorry about that
00:42:32but I don't mean it that way
00:42:33I want you to understand
00:42:35I actually was joking with Courtney
00:42:40pretending not to know her
00:42:41and I just want to see how she's going to react
00:42:43I am happy to see Courtney here
00:42:45in Istanbul
00:42:47we had some
00:42:48you know like good
00:42:50dinner
00:42:51we come to my hotel
00:42:52and then we were so drunk
00:42:54and it was amazing
00:42:57I appreciate it every minute
00:42:58Courtney is pretty
00:42:59she's beautiful
00:43:00but at the same time
00:43:02she's not here for me
00:43:04and I'm not here for her
00:43:05we're just trying to see
00:43:06what's going to happen
00:43:07I can never pretend like
00:43:09I don't know you
00:43:10I've never met you
00:43:10yeah it does
00:43:11looks like a little rude
00:43:12I really don't mean to hurt you
00:43:14I was just playing
00:43:15I know you're a nice guy
00:43:16I know you're a nice guy
00:43:17yeah I'm just playing
00:43:18and I understand that hurt you
00:43:19so I'm sorry
00:43:19I know you
00:43:20and I will never forget knowing you
00:43:22physically Usman is
00:43:25attractive
00:43:27like he's muscular
00:43:28he's flirty
00:43:29he's fun to be around
00:43:31I'm like okay
00:43:31I guess I'll make Usman my number one
00:43:33but then there's another part of me
00:43:34that's like watch out
00:43:36he could be playing you
00:43:37don't be stupid Courtney
00:43:38like I tend to go for like
00:43:39liars and manipulators
00:43:41I might be the issue
00:43:42I don't know
00:43:43have you made me lie?
00:43:47I mean I'm not gonna lie to you
00:43:48all of you ladies are so beautiful
00:43:50everybody's so beautiful
00:43:51yeah like I didn't see
00:43:52a lot of guys and girls
00:43:53yeah everybody's beautiful
00:43:54so like you just have to figure it out
00:43:56I'm not really into like half guys
00:43:59but who do you think you're like?
00:44:01no
00:44:01tell me
00:44:02no tell me
00:44:05I promise
00:44:06tell me
00:44:07I like you first already
00:44:09you know I like you
00:44:10you act like you didn't know me
00:44:13oh my
00:44:15so you're gonna make up for it
00:44:16you gotta like
00:44:20do more
00:44:21what else do you want me to do
00:44:23so you can't accept my apology?
00:44:26as I'm listening to Usman
00:44:28flirt with Courtney
00:44:29I'm like
00:44:30oh I do not like this
00:44:32I know Courtney
00:44:33I consider her a friend
00:44:35and I know all about her trip to Turkey
00:44:37with Usman
00:44:38I texted Courtney while she was in Turkey
00:44:41and I told her to watch her back
00:44:43because I've read several things
00:44:45on social media about Usman
00:44:47and none of it's good
00:44:48every single time
00:44:55someone sees me in a bikini
00:44:56and they see my ass
00:44:57they're like
00:44:57holy you have a huge ass
00:44:58you're so tempting
00:44:59I'm trying not to like
00:45:01go too crazy
00:45:02on the first interaction
00:45:04bro
00:45:07we're only like an hour
00:45:09into this retreat
00:45:10so
00:45:11that was quick
00:45:12who you got your eye on bro
00:45:24everybody man
00:45:25everybody
00:45:26everybody
00:45:26that's a safe answer
00:45:28be honest
00:45:28like if you could beg any girl
00:45:30tomorrow to be on a date with
00:45:31which one
00:45:32thank you
00:45:34you wanna go out
00:45:34oh
00:45:36I got us on a date
00:45:38look at you
00:45:38yes I would
00:45:39I said the same thing about you
00:45:40yeah
00:45:41let's go
00:45:42I said if you could pick any one guy
00:45:43I was like
00:45:44some of the singles seem to know each other
00:45:48and that caught me off guard
00:45:49I have no idea who any of these people are
00:45:51but Tiffany has been sweeter than honey
00:45:55she's beautiful
00:45:57and on the inside and out
00:45:58I look forward to getting to know her better
00:45:59I'm gonna get a drink
00:46:01Tiffany we'll be back
00:46:02and if all goes well
00:46:06I'll walk home with
00:46:07somebody to put on the Christmas card
00:46:09thank you
00:46:12and you're very kind
00:46:14much more accentuated without the mask
00:46:18the mask was great
00:46:20but
00:46:21was the mask
00:46:22was the mask kind of like a
00:46:24like a sexy
00:46:25serious vibe
00:46:25yeah
00:46:26and then without
00:46:26without
00:46:28it's just
00:46:29it's just beautiful
00:46:30thank you
00:46:32here you are
00:46:34with me again
00:46:35every time I look up
00:46:37I'm like
00:46:38where'd she go
00:46:38I'm the tallest bitch here
00:46:40you can't see me
00:46:41oh I can find you
00:46:43yeah
00:46:43I'm not hard on that
00:46:44but I see where you're at
00:46:45yeah
00:46:46that's okay
00:46:48a lot of people know me
00:46:50as the wild fun party girl
00:46:52if I want something
00:46:53I'm gonna go get it
00:46:54and I'm not scared to get it
00:46:57so when Rob took off his mask
00:47:00and I was in complete and utter disbelief
00:47:03how beautiful his eyes were
00:47:04and how much kind of swag he actually had under that mask
00:47:08he's kind of toxic
00:47:10manipulative
00:47:10swaggy
00:47:11the height is a little bit of an issue
00:47:15but I think they can get over it
00:47:16because we've had a great connection
00:47:19thus far
00:47:20Rob on the roster is number one right now
00:47:23so Rob
00:47:24is on the roster
00:47:26no Rob is number one
00:47:27okay
00:47:28I appreciate you making me feel special
00:47:31yeah
00:47:32you don't need to kiss me
00:47:35you want me to kiss you over
00:47:37girl I am going to have to give it a minute
00:47:40I can't be making out with you here
00:47:43on the first interaction
00:47:44because you supposed to be a good girl
00:47:45you're rejecting me out like that
00:47:47I'm not rejecting you
00:47:48should I get up and go find another guy?
00:47:52definitely no
00:47:52I'm trying not to like
00:47:55go too crazy on the first interaction
00:47:59but like damn
00:48:01this girl is
00:48:02she's a goer boy
00:48:05she's not holding back
00:48:07every single time someone sees me in a bikini
00:48:12and they see my ass
00:48:13they're like holy
00:48:13you have a huge ass
00:48:15I have a big butt for a white girl
00:48:16like actually
00:48:17right now
00:48:18yep
00:48:19no
00:48:19you're not going to stand up
00:48:20you don't want to kiss me
00:48:21you don't want to see my ass
00:48:22you don't want to see my ass
00:48:22you want to kiss
00:48:25and I can show you my ass
00:48:26you're so tempting
00:48:29do it
00:48:30what are you on first?
00:48:37give me the kiss first
00:48:38I met her just like in the movies
00:48:42with friends with my roommate
00:48:43that's a conversation and I swear that she know me
00:48:46yo
00:48:47what's going on?
00:48:50wow
00:48:51Rob found love at first sight
00:48:52we're only like an hour into this retreat
00:48:55so
00:48:56that was quick
00:48:57ass
00:49:11that is a very nice ass
00:49:23that is great
00:49:24I like the booty cheeks
00:49:27they're big
00:49:29it's big butt right?
00:49:32it's Cole
00:49:33Cole
00:49:34C-C-O-L-D
00:49:39hola
00:49:41Cole
00:49:42yeah Cole
00:49:43you can call me Cole if you want
00:49:46actually Cole's look is super handsome
00:49:51without his past
00:49:52I think that Cole is exactly my type
00:49:56he looks Latin
00:49:58has Latin features
00:49:59which I think is super sexy
00:50:01actually I thought before
00:50:03that Rob was super hot
00:50:05but now he's already kissing a girl
00:50:07and they are very like
00:50:09you know into each other
00:50:10and making out
00:50:11this gives me an impression of
00:50:13you know
00:50:15f***ing pie
00:50:17what do you think is going to happen
00:50:20if you had a guess
00:50:22I
00:50:25I
00:50:25I
00:50:25I
00:50:26I
00:50:26I
00:50:27I
00:50:28I
00:50:29I
00:50:30I
00:50:31I
00:50:32I
00:50:33I
00:50:34I
00:50:35I
00:50:36I
00:50:37I
00:50:38I'm ready to put everything on the line
00:50:39because I'm here to push the boundaries
00:50:41to find love
00:50:42and
00:50:43my initial reaction to Jennifer
00:50:45Jennifer is elegant
00:50:47poised
00:50:47beautiful
00:50:48she's got beautiful sharp facial features
00:50:51and she knows how to carry herself
00:50:53that's the one I'm all in on
00:50:55who were you surprised with when you took out the mask
00:50:58was surprised to see some people that I know here
00:51:02um
00:51:04like who and who
00:51:05I was surprised to see Cole
00:51:08but were you surprised to see me here
00:51:11yeah
00:51:12I was surprised to see Tim
00:51:13I was
00:51:14I was happy
00:51:15don't I mean were you surprised to see me
00:51:17here
00:51:18I never met you
00:51:19but you don't know me
00:51:20for real be honest
00:51:21I don't know you
00:51:22I don't know you
00:51:24who are you
00:51:25why Chantal you know me
00:51:26you don't know Kimbali
00:51:28yeah
00:51:29you don't know Jamal
00:51:32oh my god
00:51:34okay
00:51:35so I might have seen some things on social media about you
00:51:38but I've never met you and I
00:51:40that's what I mean
00:51:41like I know you never met me
00:51:42know you
00:51:43but I mean like
00:51:44when you think you don't know me
00:51:45I was like
00:51:46okay
00:51:47that's fine because I know you
00:51:48I mean not really knowing you in person
00:51:50but like I've seen you
00:51:51you guys get to know
00:51:52no no it's fine
00:51:53no I actually just wanted to like
00:51:56like I
00:51:57check out the rest of the party
00:52:00this group of guys and girls
00:52:02this is a little world here where I'm outside of everything
00:52:06it's a really weird dynamic
00:52:07I can sense some tension between some of the people
00:52:10some of the singles there and I really don't know what's going on
00:52:14and things are about to get a little hairy it seems
00:52:18I don't know what you two are fine
00:52:20I don't understand why you two don't like each other what happened
00:52:23no
00:52:24I mean maybe she don't like me but I don't hate anybody
00:52:27so I don't hate anybody but you came up to me and you were like I should know who you are
00:52:32and I'm like I don't know who you are
00:52:35you don't have to know who I am
00:52:37wait hold on hold on hold on
00:52:39I told you that I don't know anybody until I meet them in person
00:52:43I've never met you in my life
00:52:44no we don't need to talk
00:52:45no I don't want to talk
00:52:46I know you don't want to talk but you can listen
00:52:48I know Chantelle know who I am
00:52:51because we have mutual friends
00:52:53but I also know that she's been talking about me
00:52:57why Chantelle
00:52:59and um she doesn't know that I know that
00:53:03why don't you mind your business attacking me for no reason
00:53:06I didn't do nothing to you
00:53:10I'm on high defense I'm on alert
00:53:12what defense you should be defense when it is violence
00:53:15it was violent here
00:53:16because you were defensive towards me
00:53:18you were like I should know who you are
00:53:20but I don't know you I've never even met you
00:53:22you don't have to know who I am
00:53:23it's okay you don't have to worry about that
00:53:24I don't even know this man
00:53:25you are lying
00:53:26you are lying
00:53:28honestly
00:53:31I really
00:53:33I don't trust him at all
00:53:35because it's all over the blogs
00:53:38that Usman is a scammer
00:53:40who just wants a green card
00:53:42Courtney is my friend
00:53:44and I know
00:53:45that she can be a little naive
00:53:47when it comes to dating
00:53:48and if it looks like a duck
00:53:50and quacks like a duck
00:53:51I don't want to talk to you right now
00:54:12I'm going to drop you off
00:54:13and then find me and text me
00:54:16can you open this?
00:54:22like I couldn't do it earlier
00:54:23you could probably get it right
00:54:27thank you
00:54:28thank you
00:54:29have a good night
00:54:37I'll see you tomorrow
00:54:38I will see you
00:54:39bye
00:54:40sleep well
00:54:41thank you
00:54:42day one
00:54:44day one
00:54:45I am
00:54:46I'm feeling good
00:54:48I feel like I had a
00:54:50successful night
00:54:52me and Elise were talking about going on a date
00:54:54and I felt
00:54:56desired
00:54:57and felt wanted
00:54:58and
00:54:59that was
00:55:00that
00:55:01that was something I felt like I wasn't for a long time
00:55:03so
00:55:04I should just leave it at that and not overthink it
00:55:07it's a little messy I'm sorry
00:55:23I love your room
00:55:25so you can sit here
00:55:27don't be shy
00:55:28oh my gosh
00:55:29did you guys have fun
00:55:30tonight was so intense
00:55:33who's here?
00:55:34oh
00:55:36it's
00:55:37oh god
00:55:39welcome
00:55:40happy Easter
00:55:41okay you guys can snuggle up on my bed
00:55:43get comfy
00:55:44hi ladies
00:55:45and gentlemen
00:55:47and gentlemen
00:55:48what up?
00:55:49uh
00:55:50so brother
00:55:51it's been an eventful evening
00:55:52so I invited a couple people over
00:55:54so that we can kind of like
00:55:55chill out
00:55:56relax
00:55:57but
00:55:58I'm gonna be honest
00:55:59I'm like a little angel baby
00:56:01but like I've got my
00:56:02I've got my plans
00:56:03right?
00:56:04so I want to hear about
00:56:05all the drama that everyone else is going on
00:56:07and
00:56:08I want it to not include me
00:56:10I can just be off in the corner
00:56:12observing
00:56:13like the good girl that I am
00:56:16tonight was so intense
00:56:17your
00:56:18your
00:56:19partner is here
00:56:20what do you think about that?
00:56:21that was my partner
00:56:22six and a half years ago
00:56:25the whole problem with her
00:56:26was that I bought
00:56:27and bought and bought
00:56:28like I spent tons of money
00:56:29when you start sending money back
00:56:31but you know how it is
00:56:32they make you feel like
00:56:34that's that's
00:56:35they're gonna not eat
00:56:36that's a load of
00:56:37dude
00:56:38but I can tell you what
00:56:39I'm about done talking about it
00:56:40because I'm
00:56:41this is gonna get in my head
00:56:42and I don't want to let her
00:56:43ruin my trip
00:56:44no no no
00:56:45so Colt you like me
00:56:46I noticed you were talking with her
00:56:47yeah she's pretty interesting
00:56:48yeah impressive
00:56:49she's from Macau
00:56:50I saw you guys talking
00:56:51and I was like
00:56:52she speaks eight languages
00:56:53there's one thing I don't like
00:56:54what?
00:56:55she's a vegan
00:56:56oh yeah
00:56:57that's a very intimate thing
00:56:58cooking for each other
00:56:59enjoying meal
00:57:00oh not for me that's a chore
00:57:01well for me it is
00:57:02I like that
00:57:03I hate you
00:57:04you can't find matching things to eat
00:57:05she might like to
00:57:06seven times a day like you Colt
00:57:07oh wow
00:57:08oh
00:57:09she might be a nympho
00:57:10well I'm not a nympho
00:57:11I mean I would say you're a nympho
00:57:12I'm a healthy sex driver
00:57:13yeah seven times a day I would say
00:57:15well you know on a good day
00:57:16yeah
00:57:17seven times a day?
00:57:18it can be
00:57:19yeah
00:57:20seven rounds with Hu himself
00:57:22and his computer
00:57:25you seem like if you have sex
00:57:26seven times a day
00:57:27because that's like good exercise
00:57:29he would be in better shape
00:57:32I have a very healthy sex drive
00:57:34and from what I understand
00:57:35it's better than Tim's
00:57:37better than Tim's
00:57:38by a country mile
00:57:40I think most IT guys are like closet and freaks
00:57:46alright so I've got pornstash guy
00:57:48you've got May
00:57:49I'm TBD
00:57:51I need more time honestly
00:57:53like I gotta look
00:57:54what about you?
00:57:55who's the sexiest?
00:57:56all the ladies are beautiful there
00:57:57I think so
00:57:58number one
00:57:59number one
00:58:00Luzman told me outside that
00:58:01before he came here
00:58:02he was like
00:58:03yeah I was
00:58:04Chantel's really pretty
00:58:05I just hate the way you approach me
00:58:06wow
00:58:07because
00:58:08I was having so much good vibe about you
00:58:10I'm not saying like I'm
00:58:11because like
00:58:12it's not about loving
00:58:13I think you approached me
00:58:15like a little aggressive
00:58:18to me that was not an aggressive day
00:58:20because I was sitting down
00:58:22you sit down and I just look at you
00:58:23I'm like a Chantel
00:58:24you know I was trying to let another
00:58:26know you and I was expecting her to say
00:58:27oh yeah I recognize you too
00:58:29she said no she don't know me
00:58:30she don't know where I come from
00:58:31but she
00:58:32I didn't recognize you
00:58:33you don't have to
00:58:34but I was introducing myself to you
00:58:37I didn't judge you
00:58:38and I feel like
00:58:39you have some kind of perception about me
00:58:43so Luzman's mad
00:58:44because when I was hanging out with him a symbol
00:58:47and remember you were like
00:58:48oh he's a scammer
00:58:49so he's like butthurt
00:58:51yeah you call me a scammer
00:58:52like why wouldn't you call me a scammer?
00:58:55I have every right to believe he's a scammer
00:58:58he did target Kim
00:59:01wanting a green card
00:59:03and when we were at the masquerade party
00:59:07he was telling Courtney that
00:59:09she's his number one
00:59:10she's his number
00:59:11oh Courtney you're my number one Courtney
00:59:13but he was just telling Tim
00:59:15how beautiful I am
00:59:17and Courtney needs some
00:59:19bull repellent
00:59:22and until proven otherwise
00:59:24I don't trust Usman
00:59:25and I'm going to protect my friend
00:59:27last night I was with Tim
00:59:30he was just saying that how
00:59:32you know like inviting you everything
00:59:33being supportive to your family
00:59:35he feels so entitled to talk
00:59:37about me with everybody
00:59:39so I know a couple secrets
00:59:41he wouldn't like anybody to know about
00:59:43let me tell you the team
00:59:45tell me the team
00:59:46the real team
00:59:49let me tell you the team
00:59:51tell me the team
00:59:52the real team
01:00:04you call me a scammer
01:00:05like why would you call me a scammer
01:00:07what do I scam?
01:00:09what do I scam?
01:00:10did you call him a scammer?
01:00:13for real
01:00:14I saw a bunch of things coming up
01:00:16on the internet
01:00:17about you being a scammer
01:00:19can't believe anything on the internet
01:00:22I have this perception that I hate
01:00:25about how people see me
01:00:26because I come from Africa right
01:00:28I'm from the place where people see us
01:00:30like a scammer
01:00:31but that's not what you need to invest on
01:00:33you need to invest on what I say
01:00:35I feel like this conversation
01:00:38we need to have it when we're less tired
01:00:41yeah
01:00:42we're fully rested
01:00:43and we can like talk about it
01:00:44and with that being said
01:00:45yeah
01:00:46I'm going my ass to sleep
01:00:47yeah for real
01:00:48thanks Tiffany
01:00:50I mean I don't think the country of origin
01:00:52really affects if you're a scammer or not
01:00:54I think it's more of the fact that Usman
01:00:57prefers you know older ladies I guess
01:01:00you know
01:01:01I mean that's fine
01:01:02you know as they say
01:01:03all cats are great in the dark
01:01:05but at the end of the day
01:01:07Usman has a track record
01:01:09and it's old white ladies
01:01:10that gave him playstations
01:01:11Hi! Good morning Jennifer!
01:01:12Nice to meet you!
01:01:13Hi! Nice to meet you!
01:01:14Hi!
01:01:15Nice to meet you!
01:01:16Hi!
01:01:17Nice to meet you!
01:01:18Hi!
01:01:19Good morning Jennifer!
01:01:20Nice to meet you!
01:01:21Hi!
01:01:22So welcome to my office!
01:01:23So every day we have two options for you
01:01:24what you can do and for today we have flirting 101 or the speed dating
01:01:26How is your flirting game?
01:01:27How is your flirting game?
01:01:28I think it's good!
01:01:29Okay!
01:01:30So then you probably should do the speed dating
01:01:32Well let me ask you something first
01:01:33Okay!
01:01:34Do you know which one team choose?
01:01:37Let me take a look
01:02:06I mean he wasn't here yet
01:02:09so he didn't sign up for anything
01:02:11but it shouldn't like you should still file your own decision
01:02:16I feel like
01:02:17I'm not so sure if I want to go through that again
01:02:20That's why I'm happy
01:02:23I think it's speed dating with a twist
01:02:26but what is that twist?
01:02:27The twist?
01:02:28I don't want to tell you too much information yet
01:02:31just bring a bathing suit
01:02:33I think that team definitely needs to keep a distance
01:02:37and be respectful
01:02:38and I think team will never have the chance with anybody here
01:02:42So maybe they should be choosing 13-1-1 to be honest
01:02:46That boys game is so low
01:02:48He sucks
01:02:52I think he sucks
01:02:53So I sign you up
01:02:54Yeah
01:02:55Perfect
01:02:56And then I'm gonna see you later
01:02:57Okay, thank you
01:02:58It's amazing
01:02:59Have a great day
01:03:00If they go left
01:03:01We go right
01:03:02Couldn't be like us if they tried
01:03:03I like it that way
01:03:04I like it that way
01:03:07I like it that way
01:03:09I like it that way
01:03:11I like it that way
01:03:12So how was the night?
01:03:14It was good
01:03:15It was an interesting night
01:03:16Alright?
01:03:17Yeah
01:03:18Usman
01:03:19Usman
01:03:20You know, I don't really know him very well
01:03:21but like
01:03:22I know Usman's past relationship with Kimberly
01:03:24because I'm close friends with her son Jamal
01:03:26He seems like a good guy
01:03:28but I've only ever known him to date Cougars
01:03:30So I'm curious as to why he's here
01:03:33to meet all these young singles
01:03:35He might have better luck at a retirement home
01:03:37Yeah, so last night I see you
01:03:41I see you the lady
01:03:43Can I call it like
01:03:44hook up?
01:03:45I don't know
01:03:46It's just a kiss
01:03:47You can tell me
01:03:48Tell me more
01:03:49It's just a kiss, man
01:03:50Hello, good morning
01:03:51Hey
01:03:52Good morning
01:03:53How you doing?
01:03:54Good morning
01:03:55Did you have a good night?
01:03:56Yeah, you look nice today
01:03:57How are you?
01:03:58Thank you, you look good too
01:03:59So what have you been up to this morning?
01:04:01Um, actually, I put myself into a class
01:04:05and I choose speed dating
01:04:07Yeah?
01:04:08You guys choose
01:04:09I'm supposed to do that
01:04:10You too?
01:04:11Yeah
01:04:12The dating 101, yeah
01:04:13Yeah
01:04:14The plurgeon
01:04:15The plurgeon
01:04:16The plurgeon class
01:04:17So you can tell us what that's like
01:04:18Talking about relationship
01:04:19So last night I was, um, with Tim
01:04:21And, um, like a couple of us, you know, just having this past relationship conversation
01:04:26And, um,
01:04:27Was he talking some
01:04:28I'm
01:04:29Yeah, he said a lot
01:04:30He said a lot
01:04:31He said a lot
01:04:32He's just a big talker
01:04:33He needs to do this
01:04:35To show up
01:04:36Like, in the past at all
01:04:39He talked so much, so bad about me
01:04:42Yeah, so last night
01:04:43He was just saying that how much supportive he was
01:04:46You know, like, buying you everything
01:04:48Being supportive to your family
01:04:49Yeah, I never received anything from him
01:04:51Like, a couple of gifts
01:04:52But that wasn't like
01:04:53He sent me money
01:04:54To support my family
01:04:55I mean, that's bull
01:04:57I'm always being independent
01:04:58I never need a man to support myself
01:05:00Wow
01:05:01He has me till here
01:05:02Saying that I am a gold digger
01:05:04Tim and I actually broke up and stopped talking like six years ago
01:05:10And he's clearly not over it
01:05:12And he's so frustrating because he feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody
01:05:18So he's actually giving me motivation to play the same game that he wants to start
01:05:23I know a couple of secrets he wouldn't like anybody to know about
01:05:29How long you guys have been together?
01:05:31We were mostly online dating
01:05:33So when we met personally
01:05:35Mm-hmm
01:05:36We were a disaster
01:05:37Have you guys had anything sexually?
01:05:39No, nunca
01:05:40Really?
01:05:41No
01:05:42Nunca
01:05:43Why not?
01:05:45I think he's just sexually prick
01:05:50Let me tell you the team
01:05:52Tell me the team
01:05:53The real team
01:06:03I mean
01:06:04One time we went to a strip club
01:06:15Okay
01:06:16And he paid to a guy to dance for me
01:06:20Oh
01:06:22As he was watching
01:06:23And I was like
01:06:24What are you into?
01:06:25Wait, you went to a men's strip club?
01:06:27Yeah
01:06:28Stop
01:06:29Yeah, like a lap dance
01:06:30Oh my God
01:06:31And he was very excited about it
01:06:32But I'll leave you there
01:06:33That was the most excited you saw him?
01:06:34Oh yeah, he was so excited
01:06:36He just likes weird
01:06:38He said that with his ex-girlfriends
01:06:41He'd love to go to suit girls
01:06:45Okay
01:06:46Yeah
01:06:47That's just something else
01:06:48That's interesting
01:06:49Yeah
01:06:50I never watched Tim and Jen's season
01:06:52So I was very surprised to find out that they were exes
01:06:55They just don't really look like they would go together
01:06:57Like, you know, they just
01:07:00And then they never even hooked up
01:07:02I mean, this is like Gino and Jasmine territory
01:07:04Words of the wise to all the fellows out there
01:07:06If, uh, if you're not
01:07:09Snooping your wife
01:07:11She's gonna probably find it from somebody else
01:07:14I mean, that definitely sounds like
01:07:15If he would let a guy give you a lap dance
01:07:17And he likes that
01:07:18That he would let a guy
01:07:19Yeah
01:07:20You
01:07:21And he would watch
01:07:22That was so confusing
01:07:23Like, are you trying to flirt with me?
01:07:25Or are you trying to like
01:07:26Show me to other guys?
01:07:27Like, why are you trying
01:07:28There are guys who enjoy watching their girl
01:07:30Get by other guys
01:07:32Really?
01:07:33Yeah
01:07:34Yeah
01:07:35Maybe because they can sexually work?
01:07:36Or perform
01:07:37I don't know
01:07:38Any number of reasons, right?
01:07:39I don't know
01:07:40Maybe it's like too much pressure for them to be the one
01:07:42And
01:07:43Or maybe they just really like to see their girl satisfied
01:07:46I don't know
01:07:48I'm not gonna judge Tim, you know, to each their own
01:07:51But I just don't
01:07:52I
01:07:53I couldn't do it
01:07:54I couldn't
01:07:55Watch another man, you know, give my girl a lap dance
01:07:59And I definitely wouldn't want to watch my girl do anything more with a guy
01:08:03I could never
01:08:04And
01:08:05How the hell does Tim, first of all, get a girl like this
01:08:08Second of all, how does he go all the way to Columbia to see her
01:08:11And not
01:08:12Like, be all in that the whole time?
01:08:15That's surprising
01:08:16Because I would not be able to keep my hands off that girl
01:08:19I have to get changed, I hope to see you later
01:08:23All right
01:08:24See you later
01:08:25Bye
01:08:26See you later
01:08:27Bye
01:08:31She's hot
01:08:32She is?
01:08:33She is hot
01:08:34She's hot
01:08:35You're right about that
01:08:37Yeah
01:08:38I need it to be near the air
01:08:51Now
01:08:52Yeah
01:08:53But it's gonna make a nice and quick
01:08:55A.C. A.C.
01:08:57We're on our way to speed dating with a twist
01:09:00And everybody looks so good on this bus
01:09:02And I'm just wondering which one of these guys is gonna be attracted to me
01:09:05Because we've got a buffet of women here and they're all looking good
01:09:09When you speed date, do you ask a question or you just let them ask you?
01:09:13You know
01:09:14I'm so shy
01:09:17That I kind of feel it out
01:09:20Wait, so did y'all find any girl last night that you were interested in?
01:09:24Eh
01:09:25What's that?
01:09:26The girl, what's her name in the red dress last night?
01:09:29My ex?
01:09:30Jennifer?
01:09:31Word
01:09:32So wait, your ex is
01:09:34Jennifer
01:09:35Damn
01:09:36That's crazy
01:09:37That's crazy
01:09:38Yeah
01:09:39Have fun with that one
01:09:40What is that guy?
01:09:41From last night that you were talking to?
01:09:43Oh
01:09:44What's that?
01:09:45Who is he again?
01:09:46He had the light blue shirt on today and he was wearing
01:09:48Oh, I don't know his name
01:09:49All white, all white yesterday
01:09:51Did you learn his name?
01:09:52I think it's Rob, yeah
01:09:53Okay
01:09:54I don't know, we'll see
01:09:55I don't know
01:09:56I just met him last night
01:09:57Rob and I kind of were hot and heavy the first night
01:10:00I think we have a lot of sexual tension
01:10:02He would be a great lay
01:10:04He would be something I would go for
01:10:06And he texted me the entire night
01:10:08Making, you know, sure I was okay
01:10:10I would really love to have a talk with him
01:10:12Just like a one-on-one talk with him
01:10:14To get to know him more
01:10:15I'm totally open to see where this goes
01:10:18You know when it's like super easy to talk to someone
01:10:21Yeah
01:10:22It felt like that
01:10:23And that's what I'm looking for
01:10:25A best friend
01:10:26Like I'm sick of
01:10:27The bull , you know?
01:10:29I like this man though
01:10:31Oh yeah, Rob
01:10:32Rob there
01:10:33We're neighbors, bro
01:10:34I haven't even seen you
01:10:35You better have been banging out some
01:10:37Like you
01:10:38What?
01:10:39Nah, come on, bro
01:10:41Nah, I had to slow it down
01:10:43Honestly
01:10:44Yeah, I'm sure you did
01:10:45She was a char, bro
01:10:46I had to simmer it down
01:10:47She was a char
01:10:48It was cute
01:10:49Because I kept talking and telling him things
01:10:51But like she remembered everything I said
01:10:53But at least you know that girl likes anal
01:10:55Yeah, she does like anal
01:10:57She does like anal
01:10:58She said that
01:10:59That's one of the first things she told me
01:11:00She said that
01:11:01She said that to everybody
01:11:02Yeah
01:11:03Yeah
01:11:04Elise was literally at the party last night
01:11:06And I think said like
01:11:07I've been to this resort before
01:11:09And it was the first time I had anal
01:11:12And I'm just kind of like
01:11:13Wow, man, this girl is bored
01:11:15She's direct
01:11:16And she
01:11:17It's like
01:11:18Kind of like hanging out with one of the bros almost
01:11:19Like she's got a very bro personality
01:11:22Which I kind of like
01:11:23Like she said that her ex brought her to this resort
01:11:26And banged her
01:11:28Yeah, I know
01:11:29She told everybody
01:11:30But how are you introducing yourself like that, bro?
01:11:32That kind of worries me with Elise
01:11:35We've all only been here for like two days
01:11:38So it seems a little really early
01:11:40And super forward to be talking about
01:11:42Where you've had anal
01:11:44With a bunch of strangers
01:11:45And I'm thinking
01:11:47I probably shouldn't have kissed this girl
01:11:54I have this like crazy personality
01:11:56Whoa, wait, wait, wait
01:11:57What's your longest relationship?
01:11:58I've been proposed to five times
01:12:00I've been engaged three times
01:12:02Three times
01:12:04I don't think Elise looks like an insecure person
01:12:07If you want to be a slut, be a slut
01:12:12That was the longest you've been
01:12:13Gosh, where's your dating coach?
01:12:15Will you leave one?
01:12:16I'm overwhelmed
01:12:19And have a thousand thoughts running through my head
01:12:22Because right before I came to the resort
01:12:25Something did happen
01:12:26And I was so overwhelmed
01:12:29At what it all meant
01:12:30I don't know
01:12:31I don't know
01:12:32I don't know
01:12:33He's done
01:12:35I don't know
01:12:36I don't know
01:12:37You're mine
01:12:38Welcome to the first mixer of our singles retreat.
01:13:05You guys excited?
01:13:06Yeah.
01:13:07All right, beautiful.
01:13:08We're going to do some speed dating, but with a twist, if that's okay with you guys.
01:13:13We want you to lower your guards and build some of those connections while in a hot tub.
01:13:23So we hope that the warm water and soothing jets will help you open up, relax, and have
01:13:28some deeper conversations with the people that you're in those hot tubs with.
01:13:31Oh, my God, guess who is here to see?
01:13:37This is not fair.
01:13:38I definitely don't want to share a hot tub with him, never in my life.
01:13:44Each date will last two minutes.
01:13:46When your two minutes is up, you will then rate the date.
01:13:49Once everyone has had a chance to speed date everyone else, you'll tally your scores up
01:13:54and see how we did.
01:13:55Don't waste time.
01:13:56Don't keep it on the surface and be yourself, because there's no point in pretending to
01:14:00be someone else while you're here.
01:14:01Speed dating in hot tubs, I've never heard of anything like this before.
01:14:06I am as comfortable with my body as I've been in a long time.
01:14:10However, Jen is here.
01:14:12And then on top of that, I'm looking around.
01:14:15I've got Edwin, who literally looks like an African-American Schwarzenegger.
01:14:20Rocky looks like a beach yoga model.
01:14:24Rob is a good looking dude.
01:14:26These guys are not going to help me at all.
01:14:29So as you all might know, when you do a speed dating event, the ladies stay put and the
01:14:34men rotate.
01:14:35So with that in mind, the three ladies that are going to hop in these hot tubs first are
01:14:39Mae, Chantal, and Nikki.
01:14:43And the three lucky gentlemen that are going to be joining them in those hot tubs are Rob,
01:14:47Chris, and Edwin.
01:14:50And for my friends that were not called, you're going to walk down to the beach with Johanna.
01:14:54You're going to have some fun, chat it up, have some drinks, and we'll see you when it's
01:14:58your turn.
01:14:59Okay?
01:15:00You guys go on ahead.
01:15:01Vamanos!
01:15:02Ooh, that sounds like fun.
01:15:05Speed dating is a great way to kick this thing off because they've just kind of met over
01:15:09the last day or so.
01:15:11This will be an intentional way for them to pretty quickly get a read on if there's some
01:15:16form of connection there.
01:15:17Obviously, the hot tub itself is an intimate space.
01:15:20It's not like a rigid dining room table that you're sitting at and trying to have a conversation.
01:15:25So they get right to the business and really dig in.
01:15:28All right, friends.
01:15:30Now that you're in your hot tubs, here's a few drinks so you can take a sip, relax, and
01:15:35enjoy.
01:15:36Now once everybody has their drinks, I'm going to start this timer and game on.
01:15:42I can admit that I need work when it comes to the opposite sex and dating.
01:15:48But I'll take out the girls, poke them out, and maybe I can attract a man.
01:15:53All right, you guys got your drinks?
01:15:56Yeah.
01:15:57Okay, your two minutes starts now.
01:16:00Okay, you got a question?
01:16:01All right, got it.
01:16:02I'm glad you had a good question.
01:16:03What is it?
01:16:04Do you believe in polygamy?
01:16:05Polygamy?
01:16:06No, man, it's hard enough to keep one woman happy.
01:16:10I mean, that's a lot.
01:16:11I'm just curious if that's something you're into.
01:16:14I think it makes things pretty complicated.
01:16:16It can.
01:16:17It can.
01:16:18What were the core values I'd like to look out for?
01:16:20It's extremely important to me that someone is first and foremost open-minded.
01:16:26Because I'm really open-minded about who I'm interested in these days.
01:16:32This cherry is huge.
01:16:33Oh.
01:16:34Oh.
01:16:35How long have you been seeing that?
01:16:36Four years.
01:16:37Four years.
01:16:38Why so long?
01:16:39Just haven't met someone?
01:16:40Yeah, a little bit.
01:16:41I can't even make it up.
01:16:42You're right.
01:16:43You're right.
01:16:44It's a girl.
01:16:45It's a girl.
01:16:46It's a girl.
01:16:47It's a girl.
01:16:48Okay.
01:16:49Actually, the glasses.
01:16:50Cheers to love.
01:16:51Cheers to love.
01:16:52Cheers to love.
01:16:53To love.
01:16:54To love.
01:16:55To love.
01:16:56To love.
01:16:57To love.
01:16:58To love.
01:16:59To love.
01:17:00To love.
01:17:01To love.
01:17:02Okay.
01:17:03Tell me.
01:17:04Who did you like last night?
01:17:05I just wanted to see what vibes were and say who people were.
01:17:07Who did you want to talk to last night?
01:17:10Rob, apparently.
01:17:11Rob?
01:17:12No.
01:17:13Rob really caught me by surprise.
01:17:15Oh, yeah.
01:17:16Like, he's not typically a guy I would go for.
01:17:18Really?
01:17:19No.
01:17:20Physically?
01:17:21I totally see you with a guy like him.
01:17:22Really?
01:17:23Yeah.
01:17:24So funny.
01:17:25No.
01:17:26I have this, like, crazy personality when you first meet me.
01:17:27Like, I'm wild.
01:17:28I'm crazy.
01:17:29I say stuff I shouldn't be saying.
01:17:30Behind closed doors, like, I'm a real person and I'm super insecure.
01:17:32I think it's just, like, I'm so scared of getting hurt.
01:17:35Wait, wait, wait.
01:17:36What's your longest relationship?
01:17:38I've been proposed to five times.
01:17:41I've been engaged three times.
01:17:43Three times.
01:17:45Keep the rings.
01:17:46Keep the rings.
01:17:47Keep the rings.
01:17:48Keep the rings.
01:17:49Keep the rings.
01:17:50Keep the rings on my neck.
01:17:51Keep the rings on my neck.
01:17:52I don't think Elise looks like an insecure person.
01:17:54She's super hot.
01:17:55She was making out with Rob on the first night.
01:17:59Also, it's like, if you want to be a slut, be a slut.
01:18:02You can enjoy it.
01:18:03What would your ex say about you?
01:18:14My ex.
01:18:19He probably would have a lot of words to say.
01:18:23Um, one of which would probably be, where's my money?
01:18:30What are you doing?
01:18:31You took my money.
01:18:32Did you pay his money?
01:18:33I took my money out of the bank account that we...
01:18:36Oh.
01:18:37It was yours, right?
01:18:38I believe.
01:18:40Yeah.
01:18:41I feel like he still owes me money.
01:18:43Okay.
01:18:44When Chris asked me what my ex would say about me,
01:18:47I'm taken back by it because my ex was a seven-year marriage,
01:18:52not just a boyfriend.
01:18:53And you don't know what's behind that door when you go knocking,
01:18:57and it wasn't good for me.
01:18:59All right, ladies and gents.
01:19:01That is our time for this particular round.
01:19:05Time to get up and rotate around to the next young lady.
01:19:09Well, nice talking to you.
01:19:11It was good talking to you, too.
01:19:12Cheers.
01:19:13Cheers.
01:19:14Cheers.
01:19:15Cheers.
01:19:16Have fun.
01:19:17You too.
01:19:20This speed dating is a lot harder than I thought it was going to be.
01:19:23I'm overwhelmed and have a thousand thoughts running through my head.
01:19:29That was a long two minutes.
01:19:31I don't know how to flirt.
01:19:33It can get a little awkward, especially for me.
01:19:36I want to hear that I heard you two dated.
01:19:37Yeah.
01:19:38That was a long time ago.
01:19:39It was seven years ago.
01:19:40Okay.
01:19:41Okay.
01:19:42It's good that you guys can be here in the same space and be cordially.
01:19:43You're not acting each other's throat.
01:19:44It's day two.
01:19:45That's hope.
01:19:46It's definitely good that I can be in the same space.
01:19:47You know, not everybody's like that.
01:19:48Yeah, I mean, we will have to be.
01:19:49But it's a surprise, man.
01:19:50Like, I never expect.
01:19:51Well, y'all did not expect to see each other.
01:19:52No.
01:19:53We haven't talked in years.
01:19:54Like, six years.
01:19:55Yeah, and he had a lot to say.
01:19:56So did you.
01:19:57He said super mean things.
01:19:59I mean, things that you do especially when you're like, oh, put a leash in her, like,
01:20:05and things like that.
01:20:06Did I pull him into his place and love for myself.
01:20:07Is there anything I do that?
01:20:08I can't go in the same space.
01:20:09Yeah.
01:20:10I can't go in the same space.
01:20:11I can't go in the same space, you know?
01:20:12I can't go in the same space.
01:20:13You know, not everybody's like that.
01:20:14Yeah, I mean, we will have to be.
01:20:15But it's a surprise, man.
01:20:16Like, I never expect.
01:20:17Oh, yeah, I did not expect to see each other at all.
01:20:18We haven't talked in years.
01:20:19Like, six years.
01:20:20I pull him in his place and love him for myself.
01:20:24Is there like a chance that you guys reconnect or no?
01:20:28No, I can't.
01:20:29No, I wish I was like, oh, no, I'm not.
01:20:31Like I don't even think that we're gonna be friends.
01:20:34Not interested in his friendship.
01:20:36Okay.
01:20:38Yeah.
01:20:38Bro.
01:20:40I don't wanna be the guy that goes and fights with my ex,
01:20:43but at the same time, I don't want my ex to be going around
01:20:46saying bad traits about me to these new women.
01:20:51It's pretty clear that Jennifer is openly sabotaging
01:20:55my chances here, and I'm trying my best
01:20:58to not blow a gasket at this point.
01:21:16It's my first morning in Tulum.
01:21:18Half the singles are at speed dating,
01:21:20and I'm getting ready to go to Flirting 101.
01:21:23It starts in an hour.
01:21:24I'm like, get it, boo.
01:21:26I don't know what happened last night.
01:21:28I felt like everybody was attractive and nice,
01:21:32but right now, I think my strongest connection is Guzman
01:21:35because sometimes Guzman will be like a little flirty with me,
01:21:38but I don't know if he's flirting with everybody
01:21:39because then he also told me like,
01:21:41Chantel's beautiful, Tiffany's beautiful.
01:21:42So I think he's just calling all the girls beautiful.
01:21:44I don't know.
01:21:45I'm confused if Guzman's just flirty
01:21:49and this is just a friendship to him,
01:21:50but he hasn't said anything that makes me think
01:21:53he wants to take our relationship to the next level.
01:21:56Maybe Guzman's trying to keep his options open,
01:21:58so okay, so you can play that game.
01:22:00We'll see what happens at the workshop today.
01:22:02I'm a little nervous, though,
01:22:05because whenever I try to flirt with somebody,
01:22:07I just feel so, like, ew.
01:22:09I think yesterday I was, like, convincing the guys
01:22:11that they don't want to date me, honestly.
01:22:13It is very humid here.
01:22:29You know, I come from Vegas.
01:22:30I'm used to the heat, but the humidity is a whole other beast.
01:22:32I mean, look at me. I'm sweating my balls off.
01:22:43Oh, my God. This is different from those.
01:22:45I almost just, like, drowned just now.
01:22:47I almost went under and wouldn't have come back up.
01:22:49I was very impressed. You didn't know anything.
01:22:51She was so sad.
01:22:52Of course. I would never.
01:22:56You are, like, such a fit body.
01:23:00Are you planning to get more tattoos?
01:23:02Maybe, uh, in my legs a little bit.
01:23:06I always think, I have a friend, she has a tattoo.
01:23:08It's, like, Chinese letters in red.
01:23:11I think about a little red tattoo all the time,
01:23:14but I don't have any.
01:23:15No?
01:23:16I guess I'm too chicken.
01:23:21A little ant, it's like, gosh.
01:23:22He's already, look at him.
01:23:23At least I'm a dad .
01:23:25See, I could just...
01:23:27Oh, my gosh.
01:23:29Here you go. Please don't bite me.
01:23:31You could not be trying to rescue ants.
01:23:33You must watch where you step, like, all day long.
01:23:36Oh, my God, I do.
01:23:37I do.
01:23:38You do.
01:23:39I hope he doesn't bite me.
01:23:40He's so big.
01:23:41Right, because he looks like a fireman or something.
01:23:45Have you been married before?
01:23:46I have, yeah.
01:23:47I see your tattoo on your ink.
01:23:49Yeah.
01:23:52I realize that question was kind of not
01:23:56appropriate for, like, getting to know a person.
01:24:00I wish I could take it back.
01:24:01We're not talking about past relationships.
01:24:05Things with Edwin go south quickly
01:24:08because he's kind of a brick wall.
01:24:12But let's be honest.
01:24:14Eight years ago, when I got married to Pedro,
01:24:16I hung up my dating skills,
01:24:18and I never thought I would need them again.
01:24:22Gosh, where's a dating coach?
01:24:23When you need one?
01:24:24Ha, ha, ha, ha.
01:24:25Great, great.
01:24:27I mean, that's one of the reasons.
01:24:30Another would be that right before I came to the resort,
01:24:36something did happen with one of my friends.
01:24:39I was hanging out with my friend Ashley,
01:24:41and we were drinking wine.
01:24:43And she explains to me that she has feelings for me
01:24:49that are actually romantic.
01:24:52Well, one thing led to another, and Ashley kisses me.
01:24:57I almost fainted.
01:25:01I was so shocked, and I really, I liked it.
01:25:06It felt like my first kiss ever.
01:25:11But at the same time, I was so overwhelmed at what it all meant
01:25:16because I have not ever thought about dating a woman.
01:25:22What would that mean?
01:25:24What would that mean for me and my dating life
01:25:27and my sexuality?
01:25:31Does this mean that I'm a lesbian?
01:25:37Just like that?
01:25:40I don't know.
01:25:46You make me feel so wild.
01:25:50This season on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
01:25:55The next few weeks are going to be insane.
01:26:01There's already love triangles.
01:26:03People are trying to mark their territory.
01:26:05Like, we're in for it.
01:26:12Go, Rocky.
01:26:13Go, go, go.
01:26:14Rocky is the first person that I've seen here
01:26:16that I was like,
01:26:20this is the weirdest thing I've found.
01:26:22And then there's Carlo.
01:26:24And I don't know how I'm going to juggle this,
01:26:25but wow, what a wonderful problem to have.
01:26:32What the am I looking at?
01:26:33I think I literally am seeing an A-lock answer.
01:26:37Love is like the craziest emotion in the world.
01:26:40I haven't felt like this in a long time.
01:26:43I'm a little rusty, okay?
01:26:44So, you know.
01:26:48I just want you to know that I truly, honestly,
01:26:51I don't even like you, I love you.
01:26:53I mean, she's confused,
01:26:55but no any smart lady will look at me
01:26:57and look at Cole and pick him over at me.
01:26:59I don't think you should compete with me
01:27:00because you lose.
01:27:01You think you're better than him?
01:27:02I'm more man than you.
01:27:04You're nothing.
01:27:08Well, who's Fleetman with Rob?
01:27:11Rob Ryan.
01:27:11I think Tiffany's a story rumor, story word.
01:27:14Me?
01:27:15How about everybody?
01:27:15Where did the rumor come from?
01:27:17Where did the rumor come from?
01:27:22Tonight is about making some decisions.
01:27:25And now it is time to get serious.
01:27:29I feel that I have strong feelings for two men here.
01:27:34I got kind of off to a rocky start.
01:27:38And if I could have it my way,
01:27:40I would like to see something continue.
01:27:43this.
01:27:45this.
01:27:47This.
01:27:47I got you a gift.
01:27:51Hey!
01:27:51You are who I think of every morning I wake up.
01:27:55Like, I see a future with you.
01:27:59This is so hard.
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