This episode of 90 Day - Hunt for Love continues the journey of individuals seeking love across borders. Viewers follow the couples as they navigate cultural differences, family expectations, and the pressures of a limited timeline. Discover if their international romances can overcome the challenges and lead to lasting commitment.
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
00:00:04Oh my gosh, it's so nice.
00:00:06I'm here at this gorgeous beach resort
00:00:10to try and make a connection with a man
00:00:13that has the whole package with the package.
00:00:18It's hot out here.
00:00:21Hi, I think we've met before.
00:00:23Do we meet before?
00:00:24Maybe, maybe a little bit.
00:00:27I was in Turkey for like a month with Usman,
00:00:31but after the trip, I wasn't sure how he felt about me.
00:00:34I'm like, could this be fate bringing us back together?
00:00:37Cheers, guys, to a really good night.
00:00:38Yes.
00:00:40I was kind of like, okay,
00:00:41there's gonna be other 90 Day people.
00:00:43But I had zero clue who the hell was gonna be here.
00:00:47Oh!
00:00:49Oh my gosh!
00:00:50You gotta be kidding me, man.
00:00:53Jennifer is my ex-girlfriend.
00:00:55Out of all the people, why is she here?
00:01:00Every single time someone sees me in a bikini
00:01:02and they see my ass, they're like,
00:01:03holy , you have a huge ass.
00:01:05Let me see.
00:01:06You want a kiss and I sing my ass.
00:01:08I'm trying not to like, go too crazy
00:01:11on the first interaction, but like, damn.
00:01:17That is a very nice ass.
00:01:21You know that's my ex-ass here, right?
00:01:23Why did y'all break up?
00:01:25Is that true?
00:01:26No, I don't think so.
00:01:27She's a golden .
00:01:29He feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody.
00:01:33But you better watch out, because I know a couple of secrets
00:01:37he wouldn't like anybody to know about.
00:01:39We're going to do some speed dating while in a hot tub.
00:01:45Have you come married before?
00:01:47I have, yeah.
00:01:48I have a thousand thoughts running through my head,
00:01:52because right before I came to the resort,
00:01:54I was hanging out with my friend Ashley.
00:01:57One thing led to another, and Ashley kisses me.
00:02:00Gosh, where's a dating coach when you need one?
00:02:03I really, I liked it.
00:02:07But at the same time, I was so overwhelmed
00:02:11at what it all meant.
00:02:12Does this mean that I'm a lesbian?
00:02:19I came here for love.
00:02:21Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:25See you from across the river.
00:02:29Hey, beat me.
00:02:38I want to go.
00:02:39Yeah.
00:02:40I don't know.
00:02:43Yes.
00:02:44And then so, let me go.
00:02:45I lose the number, Through no way.
00:02:52Oh.
00:02:54Welcome everyone to your very first workshop here at this retreat, Flirting 101.
00:03:17We all know that flirting is hard, right?
00:03:19What works for you one time might not work another time.
00:03:21Like, I signed up for the flirting workshop just because I actually don't know how to flirt.
00:03:26It would feel so unnatural for me to come up to a guy and say like, hey, sugar, how you doing?
00:03:33Like, no.
00:03:35Last night at the masquerade, I met Pornstache.
00:03:39And that guy caught my eyes, but he's not here today.
00:03:43So I want to challenge myself to, like, open myself up a little more to people that I wouldn't usually date and give them a chance.
00:03:50And I would love to see a show of hands who thinks that they might need a little guidance in their flirting game.
00:03:58Everyone.
00:03:59How about this guy?
00:04:00Let's be honest.
00:04:03Oh my god, I'm so, like, awkward and embarrassed, like, flirting so easy.
00:04:07I'm just like, yeah, and, like, smile and nod.
00:04:09What do you think could change that?
00:04:10What do you think could shift that for you?
00:04:13Alcohol.
00:04:13I hate this flirting workshop already.
00:04:20Usually my go-to opener is like, hey, buy me a drink.
00:04:24That's flirting?
00:04:26Yeah.
00:04:29All right, we're going to practice that with you today.
00:04:31We're going to break down your game and give you some feedback on what's working for you and what's not.
00:04:37So I'm going to choose two of you at random.
00:04:40I'm not trying to set you up, okay?
00:04:42So don't get scared.
00:04:44So I am going to go with Usman.
00:04:49Come have a seat, please.
00:04:54And...
00:04:54Cassidy!
00:04:56Yes, girl!
00:05:00Turn on that southern charm, girl.
00:05:02I'm such a laugher.
00:05:04Okay, sorry.
00:05:05You got this, girl.
00:05:05Are you here by yourself?
00:05:10It was for me?
00:05:11Oh, perfect!
00:05:13Perfect!
00:05:14Perfect!
00:05:15You were waiting for me.
00:05:16Yeah.
00:05:17I do not know what's going on between Usman and I right now.
00:05:20I'm waiting for him to make a move, show me he's interested.
00:05:23So watching Usman flirting with another moment.
00:05:28This sucks.
00:05:30What's your name?
00:05:32My name is Usman, but they call me Soulja Boy.
00:05:34Soulja Boy?
00:05:34Yeah.
00:05:35Okay.
00:05:35Not the American rapper.
00:05:37Not the rapper.
00:05:37The Nigerian singer, so yeah.
00:05:39Gotcha.
00:05:40You look beautiful, I must say.
00:05:42You look good, too.
00:05:43What do you like to sing?
00:05:45I mean, all my song is all about love.
00:05:48I preach about love.
00:05:49Beautiful women.
00:05:50You want to sing one for me?
00:05:53I mean, you want to?
00:05:54Yeah.
00:05:55Like right now?
00:05:56Yeah.
00:05:57Ah, okay.
00:05:59Make up one about me.
00:06:01On the spot.
00:06:02On the spot?
00:06:03Yeah.
00:06:03Okay, what's your name?
00:06:04Cassidy.
00:06:05Cassidy.
00:06:08I love you, I love you, I love you.
00:06:11You love me?
00:06:12I love you, my baby Cassidy.
00:06:15I love you, I love you, I love you.
00:06:18I love you, my baby Cassidy.
00:06:20I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, Cassidy, I love you.
00:06:27Usman's song is a banger.
00:06:29I swear, when he started singing that, I was like, all right, there's no way he's not getting this girl.
00:06:33I'm being super sarcastic.
00:06:35There ain't no way that's impressing anyone.
00:06:40This song sucks.
00:06:41I love you, I love you, I love you, okay, great.
00:06:43I don't think anyone would be impressed by his lyrics, let me tell you.
00:06:47I had to listen to the guy I like, seeing that he loves another girl.
00:06:52And he's like, Cassidy, I love you, I love you.
00:06:55I'm like, you don't even say you like her or you're cute, just straight, I love you.
00:07:00If this is Usman's idea about how he falls in love, I'm worried about how he approaches sex.
00:07:05Is he just like, hi, I'm Usman, can I stick it in you?
00:07:09I'm sorry, I'm not going to give you, like, basis like that.
00:07:12Well, once you get to know me more, you can add in the later stuff.
00:07:15Yeah, I mean, why not?
00:07:16Okay, cool.
00:07:19This was fun.
00:07:19Okay, guys, sorry to interrupt you.
00:07:22Usman, great job.
00:07:23You were engaging, you were definitely making eye contact.
00:07:25You're very, very charming.
00:07:27However, where you fell down a little bit is that you didn't ask Cassidy enough about her, right?
00:07:31So you could have asked her, what are you into?
00:07:33What kind of music do you listen to?
00:07:35Keeping that conversation and that energy there, especially on your first encounter,
00:07:39that's when the true connections happen.
00:07:41But both of you did a fantastic job.
00:07:43Good job.
00:07:46You guys can have a seat.
00:07:48Good job.
00:07:59Welcome to the party, gentlemen.
00:08:01What's going on?
00:08:02Come on in.
00:08:03Feel free to pick a hot tub of your choosing.
00:08:06Hey, how are you doing?
00:08:07Fine.
00:08:09Come on this side.
00:08:11I really wanted the speed dating to go well, but my head's not in it.
00:08:16I feel like I'm coming across a little bit awkward, but it's probably because I can't stop thinking
00:08:24about what happened before I came here between me and my friend Ashley.
00:08:29It's complicated.
00:08:30I don't know.
00:08:31Like, I've never dated a woman before.
00:08:34I grew up in an environment where I never considered dating the same sex or even saw it as an option.
00:08:43How are you?
00:08:44I'm doing very well.
00:08:45I'm doing very well.
00:08:46A little bit better than I am.
00:08:47I'm still attracted to men.
00:08:51I am still attracted to men.
00:08:54And I don't know if kissing Ashley was a one-time thing.
00:08:58It's hard for me to put a label on something that I don't even understand right now about myself.
00:09:04So coming here and meeting so many different kinds of people seems like the best way to find out what's right for me.
00:09:12Your two minutes starts now.
00:09:17You know, I think I want to know more about Chantelle.
00:09:20Tell me about you.
00:09:21It's very important for me to have fulfillment in life.
00:09:25You know, I'm doing my dream job right now.
00:09:27What's your dream job?
00:09:29Botox and filler, aesthetics.
00:09:30That's my dream job?
00:09:31Yeah, it's my dream job.
00:09:33I love everything beauty.
00:09:35I'm like, I don't know a ton about, like, the Botox and, like, that kind of stuff.
00:09:38Well, raise your eyebrows.
00:09:40Okay, and then frown.
00:09:42Make an angry face.
00:09:43And then smile real big.
00:09:46Okay, yeah.
00:09:47So, okay.
00:09:47So, you could use...
00:09:49Well, it's all relative to what a person wants.
00:09:56So, if you want to wear your wrinkles, fine.
00:09:58You're telling me I have wrinkles right now?
00:10:00What are you telling me?
00:10:02You got one, but you're very handsome.
00:10:04Oh, thanks.
00:10:04Yeah, you're very handsome.
00:10:06Joe.
00:10:07He's so cute.
00:10:09I could just melt.
00:10:11He's tall, got beautiful eyes.
00:10:14I love the accent.
00:10:15I think there could be something there with Joe.
00:10:18If I'm honest, he could use a little Botox, but it feels good that I could make a connection here.
00:10:24I don't want to go to sleep.
00:10:27Wake up alone tomorrow.
00:10:31Just want to stay inside the heat in the light of your glow.
00:10:36Now, Kourtney, you are going to approach Chad as he sits here at this lovely table dining.
00:10:47Oh my God.
00:10:48Yeah, Chad.
00:10:49Yes, Chad.
00:10:50Can I be the one sitting at the table?
00:10:52Oh, yes.
00:10:53Yes.
00:10:54Yes, Chad.
00:10:55I have to go.
00:10:56Oh my God, like this is my worst nightmare.
00:11:01Like, why I never approach guys, like, I don't know.
00:11:10You got this, Kourtney.
00:11:13I'm like, shaking.
00:11:18I like your red shirt.
00:11:20Um, hey, I'm Chad.
00:11:28What you doing?
00:11:29Can I, yeah, offer me to sit with you or do I have to ask?
00:11:34Okay.
00:11:39So, where are you from?
00:11:41Atlanta.
00:11:42What about you?
00:11:43Orlando.
00:11:44Orlando?
00:11:51You go to school there?
00:11:52Um, I went to school in Illinois.
00:11:55Yeah.
00:11:56What did you go to school for?
00:11:57So, what are you, oh, finance.
00:11:58What did you study?
00:11:59Uh, football.
00:12:01Oh, nice.
00:12:04I mean, I think we're all insecure a little bit.
00:12:06There's definitely anxiety I have when I'm meeting new people,
00:12:09and especially the ladies.
00:12:10So, watching Kourtney fumble and get nervous about role-playing is so sweet.
00:12:15We kind of have that in common, honestly.
00:12:16She seems very genuine.
00:12:20I know, this is so awkward.
00:12:21So, what are you drinking?
00:12:22A strawberry margarita?
00:12:25See, yep.
00:12:26Looks good.
00:12:27Double.
00:12:31Okay, this flirting exercise is horrible, embarrassing.
00:12:35I never want to show my face at this resort again.
00:12:38I'm just sitting there like, okay, this is so awkward.
00:12:41Like, I want to curl up and fall in the sand and, like, cry and bury myself.
00:12:46Okay, guys, thank you so much.
00:12:47I would love to hear from all of you what you observed.
00:12:50Give them some feedback on what you saw go down.
00:12:54Very...
00:12:54I feel like...
00:12:54Sorry, go ahead.
00:12:55Go ahead, go ahead.
00:12:56I was going to say very interviewish.
00:12:59Chat, it felt a little bit forced, and I could see where the pauses were
00:13:01that you were trying to think of the next thing to say.
00:13:04And Kourtney, don't take it so seriously.
00:13:06You guys didn't do a lot of laughing.
00:13:07Yeah.
00:13:08Okay.
00:13:11When Kourtney and Chad are having the role-play,
00:13:14it's not really that romantic.
00:13:16It's not cute.
00:13:17But at the end of the day, I wanted to end ugly,
00:13:19because I wanted to end good with me.
00:13:23All right, you guys can have a seat.
00:13:25Good job, guys.
00:13:25Good job.
00:13:26Good.
00:13:27Good, Chad.
00:13:36Good job.
00:13:37Good job.
00:13:38Good job.
00:13:38I was kidding.
00:13:39Ladies, welcome to the party.
00:13:40Come on in.
00:13:43So hot tub speed dating sounds fun, except for the hot tub part.
00:13:49I'm not super comfortable, like, in a bathing suit with my shirt off
00:13:53in front of strangers.
00:13:55It's super awkward, really freaking awkward.
00:13:58And now it looks like I'm going to be sitting in a hot tub with Jen,
00:14:01and this is what I've been dreading the entire day.
00:14:04How you doing?
00:14:05How are you enjoying?
00:14:07Jennifer, nice to meet you.
00:14:08Chosen, chosen, chosen.
00:14:09Awesome.
00:14:09Yeah.
00:14:11You're really hard to meet.
00:14:13You're really hard to meet.
00:14:14I get that a lot.
00:14:14I'm Southern, I'm slow, you know, like, I'm a little bit slow.
00:14:18I'm old, too.
00:14:19I'm old, yeah.
00:14:2044.
00:14:21I'm not that old.
00:14:21I was just dating a 55-year-old back at holiday.
00:14:26So why are you looking for mine?
00:14:28I'm looking for what's looking for me.
00:14:31Oh, so anything?
00:14:32Not necessarily anything.
00:14:34I'm the only old guy here, and also, I'm the only guy here
00:14:37with an ex-sitter.
00:14:38You know what?
00:14:39This is, like, your time.
00:14:40You know, I think it's going to be good for you guys to sit
00:14:42and, like, have a talk whenever that happens.
00:14:44Y'all do you?
00:14:44I think they'll do that, yeah.
00:14:45I don't.
00:14:46All right, ladies and gents.
00:14:50Our two minutes has come to an end.
00:14:51But it was nice.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:53What a lot.
00:14:56Yeah, we're so excited.
00:14:58We are.
00:14:58Bye-bye, darling.
00:15:01We are full of slippery.
00:15:05Oh.
00:15:06Do I really have to do this?
00:15:09I don't think so.
00:15:11Why should I endure this situation with a guy that has
00:15:15been just spreading bad rumors about me?
00:15:19For him to say that I am a gold digger, it's so wrong.
00:15:23When he actually didn't give me anything.
00:15:26I mean, I think that that is the way that men can try to feel
00:15:30better with themselves trying to shame women.
00:15:34It's so disrespectful.
00:15:35I don't even want to look at him.
00:15:36I mean, it's just insane, right?
00:16:05Like, I came here to do something I've never done, trying
00:16:08to find a partner.
00:16:09And I got to do this now with literally the only ex that I'm
00:16:12not on cordial terms with.
00:16:18Honestly, Jen being here is making me think about going home
00:16:21real fast.
00:16:23But, you know, I try my best to be a good person.
00:16:26And, you know, I deserve to be happy like anybody else.
00:16:31And the only way I'm ever going to find somebody to share that
00:16:34with is to put myself out there.
00:16:36I don't really have any will towards you.
00:16:39I'm trying to be nice.
00:16:40I feel like you're not.
00:16:43Papa, did you remember the things that you have said?
00:16:48I think that your version of history is different than mine.
00:16:51Like, it's not like you were an angel to me.
00:16:53You're like, we're going to say some bad things.
00:16:55Stop.
00:16:56You're, like, taking little bites that's giving the impression
00:17:03to the other girls that I'm, like, this horrible dude.
00:17:06I don't think that you are not important.
00:17:08I'm not saying the truth.
00:17:10Well, but again, that's not...
00:17:11I'm talking the truth.
00:17:12It's not of mine.
00:17:13I don't, I think you're right, but I don't, I don't think
00:17:15that what you're saying is 100% true.
00:17:17This team attacks like a woman.
00:17:21She likes to gossip and, like, bring rumors.
00:17:23You cannot be talking negative and saying bad things about me
00:17:27and then expect that I'm going to be nice in a hot tub with you.
00:17:32I'm sorry.
00:17:33It's okay.
00:17:46Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict
00:17:48before we even went to the room.
00:17:50I never talked to her.
00:17:51So why would she call this karma?
00:17:53Because she's a woman.
00:17:54I cannot punch her.
00:17:55So why are you able to say that?
00:17:56I'm not going to punch her.
00:17:57Newsman said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.
00:18:01I'd take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.
00:18:03I bet.
00:18:04You guys ready for the next couple?
00:18:18So ready, yeah.
00:18:19Let's do it.
00:18:20Lexi, I'm going to invite you to have a seat, please.
00:18:23Okay.
00:18:24Go, Lexi.
00:18:26And Colt.
00:18:28Oh.
00:18:29I'm going to ask you to come up and introduce yourself to Lexi.
00:18:32See what feels natural.
00:18:33Let's see how it goes.
00:18:34Okay.
00:18:35Come on, Lexi.
00:18:36Go.
00:18:37You got this, Colt.
00:18:38I mean, some would say I have game.
00:18:42I think I have at least some game, maybe half of a game of something.
00:18:46I don't know.
00:18:47Hello.
00:18:48Hi.
00:18:50I do have some magnetism here, but I think everyone will tell you how they want to be treated.
00:18:59You just have to listen and just kind of go with the flow.
00:19:03Oh, you have very interesting piercings and all that.
00:19:08Oh, really?
00:19:09Yeah.
00:19:10Yeah?
00:19:11Why do you think they're interesting?
00:19:12I guess I'm just not really familiar with that.
00:19:13I don't have any piercings myself.
00:19:14You don't have any piercings?
00:19:15Did you ever want to get piercings?
00:19:16I did, yeah.
00:19:17You should take a seat so we can talk about it.
00:19:18Yeah?
00:19:19I would love to talk about it.
00:19:20Yeah.
00:19:21So are you into that type of stuff?
00:19:23I see your tattoo as well.
00:19:25Into what type of stuff?
00:19:27Like piercings and stuff.
00:19:29You know, like a nose or like a nipple or something.
00:19:32Is your body like a canvas pretty much?
00:19:37Is it accessorizing yourself?
00:19:39I mean, let's draw that back.
00:19:40Yeah?
00:19:41Yeah.
00:19:42T on that, bro.
00:19:43Oh, my God.
00:19:46I don't even want to look.
00:19:48Don't ever say that to nobody.
00:19:50Okay.
00:19:51Don't talk about my body.
00:19:52That's a lot.
00:19:53That was so awkward.
00:19:56Yeah.
00:19:57Hold on.
00:19:58Wait.
00:19:59I'm so sorry.
00:20:03I'm not trying to laugh you out.
00:20:06Woo.
00:20:08I feel bad for Colt.
00:20:09Like, that's embarrassing.
00:20:10Like, he's getting laughed at in his face.
00:20:13But at the same time, I think my role play was a lot worse.
00:20:16So I'm giving Colt a pass on that one.
00:20:19I feel like you could have stopped at, like, you like the piercings.
00:20:22Oh, sure.
00:20:23Don't talk about my body the first time you see me.
00:20:24Sure.
00:20:25Yeah?
00:20:25Yeah.
00:20:26All right.
00:20:27All right.
00:20:28Let's reset that.
00:20:29Okay.
00:20:30Okay.
00:20:31So why are you here today?
00:20:32What brings you here?
00:20:33Oh, well, the weather's beautiful, you know, by the beach.
00:20:35I love coming here.
00:20:36Yeah?
00:20:37I love to travel.
00:20:38You love to travel?
00:20:39Oh, super.
00:20:40Are you solo traveling when you do it?
00:20:41Oh, yeah.
00:20:42Oh, yeah.
00:20:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:20:44I love to solo travel.
00:20:45Oh, me too.
00:20:46Okay.
00:20:47Because otherwise, you're on other person's schedule.
00:20:48Yeah.
00:20:49You're going to bring in conflicts.
00:20:50You can't do your own thing.
00:20:51All right, guys, fantastic job.
00:20:56Yes, girl.
00:20:57What did you see happen?
00:20:59I feel like my start was a little rushed.
00:21:01Yeah.
00:21:01Right?
00:21:02I got a little nervous.
00:21:03I'm in front of a pretty girl, you know, obviously.
00:21:05You got it, though.
00:21:06You got it, too.
00:21:07I believe in you.
00:21:08I believe in you.
00:21:09Thank you, girl.
00:21:10Good job, guys.
00:21:12I like Lexi's energy a lot.
00:21:15I feel like Lexi and I have some kind of connection.
00:21:17All right, there you go.
00:21:19Great job.
00:21:20That was great.
00:21:21I'm not sure where that will go.
00:21:24Is there someone you would have rather?
00:21:26Oh, yeah.
00:21:27I actually kind of like Courtney.
00:21:31She's very sweet.
00:21:32She's actually a pretty interesting woman.
00:21:34I was kind of hoping I get to flirt with her a little bit.
00:21:38Yeah, I don't know, but, huh.
00:21:44Okay, Carlo, have a seat, please.
00:21:50And Tiffany, you are up.
00:21:52Yes.
00:21:53Let's see what you got.
00:21:54Good luck, Tiffany.
00:21:55Ready?
00:21:56Let's go.
00:21:57All right.
00:21:58So I never do this, but my name is Tiffany.
00:22:00Oh, hi.
00:22:01I saw you, and I think you're really handsome.
00:22:03Is anyone sitting here?
00:22:05No.
00:22:06Take a seat.
00:22:07Nice to meet you.
00:22:08Carlo, actually, I spoke to him very briefly yesterday.
00:22:11I didn't get a feel for, like, who he is.
00:22:14So I'm a little nervous.
00:22:17Oh, don't be nervous.
00:22:18I don't usually come up to guys, but you're very cute.
00:22:20That takes a lot of confidence.
00:22:21You have a beautiful eye.
00:22:22Okay.
00:22:24You have pretty eyes, too.
00:22:25When I walked up to him, and he first made eye contact with me, immediately I just felt...
00:22:31And then I felt safe to approach him.
00:22:36He's a handsome guy.
00:22:38He's cute.
00:22:40Where are you from?
00:22:41Born and raised in Jersey.
00:22:42No way.
00:22:43Me too.
00:22:44No, what part of Jersey?
00:22:45Red Bank.
00:22:46Are you south or north?
00:22:47It's, like, central.
00:22:48Okay.
00:22:49And what's your background?
00:22:50Well, I'm Italian and Irish.
00:22:51Okay.
00:22:52Are you Italian?
00:22:53I love Italian and Irish boys.
00:22:55So, I'm Colombian and Cuban, but born in the U.S.
00:22:59So, mom's Cuban, dad's Colombian.
00:23:01All right.
00:23:02Bienvenidos.
00:23:03Okay.
00:23:04Check.
00:23:06Colombian, Cuban, crazy and crazy.
00:23:07Are you okay with that?
00:23:08Very cool.
00:23:09Very cool.
00:23:10Irish, Italian is a little crazy, too.
00:23:11So...
00:23:12Are you?
00:23:13Yeah.
00:23:14I can't tell.
00:23:15Well, you may tell soon.
00:23:18All right, guys.
00:23:19Good job.
00:23:20All right.
00:23:21Yay!
00:23:22So, did you guys feel the connection here?
00:23:25Yeah.
00:23:26That was good.
00:23:27What would it take to get the number or to the first date?
00:23:32Ask her.
00:23:33I think, well, hey, we have a lot in common.
00:23:36Why don't we continue this on a night out?
00:23:40Was that you actually asking Tiffany out on a date?
00:23:45Yeah.
00:23:46Yeah.
00:23:47I mean, I would definitely take you out on a date if you're up for it, Tiffany.
00:23:51Yeah.
00:23:52I'm done.
00:23:53Do it, then.
00:23:54There we go.
00:23:55Good job, guys.
00:23:56All right.
00:23:57I was gonna say, I felt like I was interrupting.
00:23:58I did.
00:23:59I felt like I was interrupting.
00:24:00I just seemed like a comment after a while.
00:24:01Me too, my whole little world.
00:24:02Good job.
00:24:03When Carlo asked me out, I was like, yay.
00:24:06Like, oh, my God.
00:24:07I was excited because I was like, I didn't expect it.
00:24:11I definitely still have my eye on Rocky, but Carlo's tall.
00:24:14He's got a nice body.
00:24:15I want to date around and keep my options open.
00:24:18I want to see who works best for me, and that's what I'm gonna do.
00:24:21I think what you guys all learned today, that if you just let go and allow the connection
00:24:26to feel organic, flirting doesn't have to be that serious.
00:24:30And now that you guys have all gained some more flirting skills, I want you to go out tonight
00:24:35and apply them.
00:24:37Mingle, meet each other, use your body language, and most importantly, have fun.
00:24:46I'm just not a national flirt.
00:24:48Because I just felt so, like, nervous and awkward, and yeah, it was not good.
00:24:54I think I learned a lot of helpful tips and tricks today watching the other people go.
00:24:59I was just in my head too much.
00:25:01Don't worry.
00:25:02Good job, guys.
00:25:03I think if I could do it again, I would have taken tequila shots before I showed up to this.
00:25:08Yeah.
00:25:10Oh, how late are we gonna be hot tonight?
00:25:12Yeah, we did a drink now.
00:25:13I want to make notes.
00:25:14We earned it.
00:25:15I don't know.
00:25:16I don't know.
00:25:17I don't know.
00:25:18I do everything for me now.
00:25:19Spirit feeling free now.
00:25:21In the know it.
00:25:22On my way to close the dream house.
00:25:24You can't eat your teeth all.
00:25:26Telling what a lethal.
00:25:27Had to go in deep down and make it back to me now.
00:25:41Everything all right over here?
00:25:42The longest two minutes of my life.
00:25:44The longest two hours.
00:25:46Seems like a mutual readiness to be done.
00:25:49I'm done.
00:25:50I'm done.
00:25:51I'm done.
00:25:52You're good.
00:25:53Yeah, because I mean.
00:25:54Okay.
00:25:55Yeah, you were all this, so I'm gonna just go hang out at the beach.
00:25:58Okay.
00:25:59Let her have her space.
00:26:00Seems like that's the solution.
00:26:01That's super sweet of you.
00:26:03That's what I aim for, Jennifer, being sweet all the time.
00:26:08I'm so glad that's over.
00:26:09I'm so happy that Tim got the hand and left the bathtub.
00:26:22He wants to tell me what to say or not to say about him like it's his business.
00:26:27I don't know how the next three weeks are gonna be, but Tim definitely needs to stay in his lane and leave me alone.
00:26:37Yeah, I love that.
00:26:38I got you.
00:26:39I got you.
00:26:40I got you.
00:26:41So, hey.
00:26:42So, how was it?
00:26:44You look so off.
00:26:47What happened?
00:26:49Well, I'm over here because we, me and Jennifer didn't want to sit in a hot tub at each other.
00:26:54And I was like, I'm gonna go down to the beach now, y'all.
00:26:56That was very uncomfortable.
00:26:58And I'm hoping that this tension goes away because it's kind of like bombing out my trip.
00:27:04Jennifer has already made Tim feel uncomfortable here.
00:27:09I'm not gonna let her cut my friend down in front of me.
00:27:13I will always have Tim's back because I'm like super protective of my friends.
00:27:19And if you cross them, watch your back.
00:27:22Gentlemen, welcome back to the party.
00:27:35Pick a tub.
00:27:37Get yourself settled.
00:27:38You guys already know the drill.
00:27:40Elise and I, we kissed.
00:27:46It was a good kiss.
00:27:48And I did want to see her butt.
00:27:50But, I mean, it's only day two.
00:27:54So, I would hope that the other women here don't like assume that I'm locked in with Elise.
00:27:59I mean, I gotta see where her head's at.
00:28:02I'm still kind of watching to see who she is.
00:28:05How are you?
00:28:06How are you?
00:28:07How you doing?
00:28:08Good.
00:28:09How you doing?
00:28:10What do you mean?
00:28:11Like this thing was two minutes of your school.
00:28:14I don't know.
00:28:15I've heard about it.
00:28:16I mean, more fun because we'll talk one-on-one.
00:28:17Fan-on-one.
00:28:18You're excited.
00:28:19I mean, like, yesterday was fun.
00:28:21I heard you guys were talking about me.
00:28:23I'm a boss.
00:28:24Thanks.
00:28:25Who told you that?
00:28:26Yeah.
00:28:27Yeah, Miss Tim talks about things.
00:28:29We'll keep bringing up our kids yesterday.
00:28:31And I'm like, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill.
00:28:34Don't think too much about it.
00:28:36Leave it alone.
00:28:37So.
00:28:38Do you like one more round?
00:28:39Yeah.
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Give me the one that's the most full.
00:28:43That one, yeah.
00:28:44That's the one.
00:28:46And I'm going for you, lady?
00:28:47I thought you were getting it for me.
00:28:48I thought you were being like, this one.
00:28:50I just gave it to you.
00:28:51All right, I gave it back.
00:28:52Okay.
00:28:53Here, you want it?
00:28:54I like to eat the pot.
00:28:55We can have the most full one.
00:28:56I wanted to make you happy.
00:29:01I don't know.
00:29:02There's this deep connection that we have
00:29:04that I've definitely not experienced with anyone else
00:29:06here at the retreat.
00:29:07But like, not knowing where his head's at
00:29:09is kind of making me a little nervous.
00:29:10Especially, you know, we had some fun last night.
00:29:13Obviously, some alcohol was involved.
00:29:15And we ended up talking the rest of the night.
00:29:17And then this morning, I called him,
00:29:19and we talked a little bit.
00:29:20And now, I kind of want to see what he feels.
00:29:22What do you choose to feel?
00:29:24I'm choosing to, um, let's process and see where it goes
00:29:31and to making connections.
00:29:33Fun.
00:29:34That brings a question.
00:29:35Why?
00:29:36Have you made any connections today,
00:29:37but with anybody else?
00:29:38I don't know.
00:29:39I don't know.
00:29:40I don't know.
00:29:44Obviously, I'm happy with everything today.
00:29:45I would be like, if you weren't here,
00:29:47I'd probably be like,
00:29:48you'd be thinking about me.
00:29:50Probably.
00:29:51And not so too long meeting other people with me.
00:29:54I'm good.
00:29:56100%.
00:29:57Like, I'm either, like, 100% or zero.
00:29:59We weren't really in between.
00:30:03Man.
00:30:04She's tripping.
00:30:05She's tripping like,
00:30:06this doesn't make any sense.
00:30:08We've only known each other for two damn days.
00:30:10And I thought we were having fun.
00:30:13But she's just jumping in head first.
00:30:16This is bad.
00:30:22Hey.
00:30:23Hi.
00:30:24Oh, you look so cute.
00:30:25Oh, thank you.
00:30:26Oh, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.
00:30:29So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.
00:30:32Cheers first.
00:30:33Okay.
00:30:34Salud.
00:30:35Tomamos.
00:30:36I'm actually shocked.
00:30:38Oh, that's sexy.
00:30:39Oh, hi.
00:30:40How are you?
00:30:41How are you?
00:30:42Very good.
00:30:43What drinks do you have available?
00:30:44I have a margarita, mezcalita.
00:30:45I have a margarita.
00:30:46Margarita?
00:30:47Por favor.
00:30:48After the Flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo, and it says, hey, I was in the
00:30:52hotel room.
00:30:53I have a margarita, mezcalita.
00:30:55I have a margarita.
00:30:56Margarita?
00:30:57Por favor.
00:30:58After the Flirting 101, I got a text from Carlo, and it says, hey, I was in the hotel room.
00:31:03Do you want to meet up and have a drink?
00:31:04But in my mind, I'm like, oh, no, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.
00:31:08So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.
00:31:10Okay.
00:31:12Hey.
00:31:13Hi.
00:31:14Oh, you look so cute.
00:31:15Oh, thank you.
00:31:16Oh, you look so cute.
00:31:17Oh, thank you.
00:31:18Oh, you look so cute.
00:31:19Oh, no, I got a text from Carlo, and it says, hey, I wasn't kidding about that date.
00:31:21Do you want to meet up and have a drink?
00:31:23But in my mind, I'm like, oh, no, I hope he's as cool as he was earlier today.
00:31:26So, fingers crossed it doesn't suck.
00:31:36Hey.
00:31:37Hi.
00:31:38Oh, you look so cute.
00:31:41Oh, thank you.
00:31:42Yeah.
00:31:43Yeah.
00:31:44You're totally dressed up, and I feel a little underdressed, but you look great.
00:31:48All right.
00:31:49What are you drinking?
00:31:50A margarita.
00:31:51Margarita?
00:31:52Okay.
00:31:53Getting on these chairs is not easy.
00:31:54No, it's not.
00:31:55It's not.
00:31:56And you're tall, so.
00:31:57Well, thanks.
00:31:58Thanks.
00:31:59How tall are you?
00:32:005'6".
00:32:015'6".
00:32:026'1".
00:32:03Oh, I like that.
00:32:04Yeah.
00:32:06Same thing.
00:32:07Margarita, please.
00:32:08Yeah.
00:32:09The flirting workshop went really, really well.
00:32:10I was happy that Tiffany and I got paired together.
00:32:13Basically, we were the best flirts.
00:32:15I'm attracted to Tiffany because she's like a real person.
00:32:19She's really cute.
00:32:20I really like her eyes, and I think she's feeling my eyes as well.
00:32:24So, I'm just excited to see what comes of it.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:28I feel really nervous.
00:32:29I'm like, I don't like date a lot.
00:32:31So, like, this is weird for me.
00:32:33Do you go on a lot of dates or not?
00:32:34Um.
00:32:35You can be honest.
00:32:36I do.
00:32:37I do.
00:32:38I have my waves of going on dates and kind of just being like, I'm done with dates.
00:32:44Why?
00:32:45Like, if you go on a few bad dates, it's exhausting.
00:32:47It's time consuming.
00:32:48I want to hear a bad date story.
00:32:51A bad date story.
00:32:53You need to.
00:32:54Come on.
00:32:55I'll just tell a brief story.
00:32:56I went out with another girl.
00:32:57Yeah.
00:32:58From Jersey, and I thought, like, we were clicking based on that.
00:33:01Yeah.
00:33:02And I get there, and I hear her voice.
00:33:06And it's, like, the actress from White Lotus.
00:33:10Wait.
00:33:11Jennifer Coolidge.
00:33:12Jennifer Coolidge's voice.
00:33:13No.
00:33:14In, like, hot girl's body.
00:33:16And I'm just like, I feel so shallow right now, but I just, like, am instantly turned off.
00:33:21Oh, so that was a turn off for you.
00:33:22Instantly turned off.
00:33:23That was it for me.
00:33:24So when you're on the dating apps, and you're, like, you know, scrolling through, trying
00:33:28to find your person, what do you go for, really?
00:33:31Okay, what's your type?
00:33:32Um, so I do, like I said, I like exotic.
00:33:36Like, bilingual is really nice.
00:33:37Okay.
00:33:38Like, a little, you said Cuban and Colombian, right?
00:33:40Mm-hmm.
00:33:41So that's a good mix for me.
00:33:42You're just describing me.
00:33:44That's it.
00:33:45That's it.
00:33:46I'm actually learning to speak Spanish.
00:33:48Okay.
00:33:49So that's nice.
00:33:50I'll teach you.
00:33:51I'll be a teacher.
00:33:52Yeah.
00:33:53I'm learning.
00:33:54I'm very teachable.
00:33:55Yeah?
00:33:56Yeah.
00:33:57Behave yourself.
00:33:58Yeah.
00:34:00Spit some game to me in Spanish.
00:34:02Well, cheers first.
00:34:03Okay, salud.
00:34:04Primero, salud.
00:34:05Salud.
00:34:06Okay, that's a good one.
00:34:07I'm actually shocked.
00:34:08Mm-hmm.
00:34:09I thought you'd be like, hola, como esta.
00:34:10No, no, estoy aprendiendo dos veces por semana.
00:34:11Y me siento.
00:34:12Hold on.
00:34:13You, like, know Spanish.
00:34:14Carlos is not generally my type.
00:34:15He kind of looks dorky, but he's sweet.
00:34:16He seems sweet.
00:34:17And there's something sexy about him.
00:34:18He's tall.
00:34:19He's got a nice body.
00:34:20He starts speaking Spanish.
00:34:21And I was like, oh, that's sexy.
00:34:22This guy's smart.
00:34:23He knows a whole other language fluently.
00:34:24So, I feel like he's, like, top contender right now.
00:34:26And I'm actually really excited about him.
00:34:27And I was like, oh, that's sexy.
00:34:28This guy's smart.
00:34:29He knows a whole other language fluently.
00:34:30So, I feel like he's, like, top contender right now.
00:34:32And I'm actually really excited about it.
00:35:02All right.
00:35:03It is time to wrap up your speed date.
00:35:07Close up shop.
00:35:08And, gentlemen, you're going to rotate to the next hot tub.
00:35:11So, say your goodbyes however you see fit.
00:35:14And then move on to the next young lady.
00:35:18Even though we have a compatibility,
00:35:21I may have jumped the gun making out with Elise.
00:35:23I feel like I need to dial it back a little bit.
00:35:27And now Jen is on my mind.
00:35:30I mean, from the moment I saw Jen at the party,
00:35:32I've been interested.
00:35:33And, I mean, since breakfast this morning,
00:35:35I've been waiting for a chance to talk to her one-on-one.
00:35:37Like Usman said, she is hot, man.
00:35:40She's hot.
00:35:42She is.
00:35:43I'm not slipping this thing like I did it was.
00:35:47You're welcome.
00:35:48She almost fell right here.
00:35:50Really?
00:35:51I've got two minutes to shoot my shot
00:35:53with the hottest girl at this retreat.
00:35:54The pressure's on.
00:35:56I haven't got her two minutes.
00:35:58I mean, I didn't expect.
00:36:01I got into it.
00:36:03When we walked into the room yesterday,
00:36:06I started to ignite the shoot.
00:36:08I'm like, what the **** up?
00:36:10You had your mask on though, but
00:36:12I don't look forward.
00:36:14That a beautiful woman.
00:36:15I don't know.
00:36:16What is it?
00:36:18Definitely Rob feels so much better
00:36:20than having Tim in the hot tub.
00:36:22The first glimpse that I had from him,
00:36:24it was like, oh no, he's a player.
00:36:27Because he was making out with Elise the first night.
00:36:30I see a lot of arrogance,
00:36:32but maybe it's just a lot of confidence,
00:36:34which is sexy.
00:36:35So what are you into?
00:36:36Being a girly girl?
00:36:38You like being sexy?
00:36:39Like when it goes in style?
00:36:40What do you like to do?
00:36:41Family of those clothes, actually.
00:36:43Really?
00:36:44Yeah.
00:36:45Rob and Jen are like super close.
00:36:48And then not knowing where Rob's head's at
00:36:50is kind of making me a little nervous.
00:36:52I think Jen needs to stop flirting around
00:36:54with every single man,
00:36:55because I don't like competition.
00:36:57And no one competes against me.
00:36:59If I want something, I get it.
00:37:15Oh my God.
00:37:17Okay.
00:37:18Okay.
00:37:19Okay.
00:37:20Okay.
00:37:21Okay.
00:37:22Okay.
00:37:23Okay.
00:37:24Yeah?
00:37:25Have you made love in any amazing places?
00:37:26Yeah.
00:37:27Have you?
00:37:28Did you see?
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30I know.
00:37:31I know.
00:37:32That sounds like a yes to me.
00:37:34Damn.
00:37:36She's telling me all the right things.
00:37:38What are you trying to do to me?
00:37:39Like, you sure are you trying to like,
00:37:41you're with my head, aren't you?
00:37:43Like, you can't be that girl.
00:37:44Like, that girl doesn't exist.
00:37:46What are you talking about?
00:37:47That's what I've been looking for.
00:37:49So now I have a goal at first.
00:37:53Jen is the only speed date where I'm like,
00:37:56I don't want to get out of this hot tub.
00:37:59I just want to see what this is.
00:38:01And if Jen is interested in me,
00:38:04that I might want to put more interest in Jen
00:38:07and distance myself from Elise.
00:38:09I'm hoping Elise picks up that, you know,
00:38:11I do want to take it slower with her.
00:38:14Yeah.
00:38:15I had a good time with her.
00:38:16Yeah.
00:38:17I had a good time with her.
00:38:18Yeah.
00:38:26What do we do now?
00:38:27I want to eat.
00:38:28I'm so hungry.
00:38:29I'm tired.
00:38:30I want to go home.
00:38:31Are you coming?
00:38:33I'm kind of stuck in the middle between these guys
00:38:36that I'm interested in.
00:38:37So what does that imply?
00:38:39Woo!
00:38:56I thought I'd be more junk and much for college.
00:38:58Hi, hi.
00:38:59Hey.
00:39:00We're about to take shots, y'all.
00:39:01We're about to take shots.
00:39:02Yeah.
00:39:03We need two more.
00:39:04Add two more to the situation.
00:39:05Two more.
00:39:06Hi.
00:39:07How are you?
00:39:08Good to see you again.
00:39:09Hey, brother.
00:39:10What's up?
00:39:11Yeah, I've never take tequila before in my life, so.
00:39:13How does it taste?
00:39:14Is it sugar, bitter, or salt?
00:39:15It's going to be better.
00:39:16It's going to be salty.
00:39:17It's a little stingy, but it's going to be good.
00:39:18You'll be fine.
00:39:19Okay.
00:39:20Courtney and Usman showed up together at the bar,
00:39:22and I am not surprised at all,
00:39:25although they want to keep saying that they've never done anything.
00:39:28I'm like, you guys haven't hooked up,
00:39:30and there's nothing there?
00:39:31I call bull .
00:39:33I think Courtney's not going to hold that secret for long.
00:39:35I'm just going to sit back and sip my tea.
00:39:42Cheers to your first shot.
00:39:45Ready?
00:39:46Go.
00:39:47Get it.
00:39:48Three, two, one, go.
00:39:50Take the lime.
00:39:51Take the lime.
00:39:52Don't throw up.
00:39:53Mm-hmm.
00:39:54Chew on the lime.
00:39:56Okay.
00:39:57Are you okay?
00:39:58Are you okay?
00:39:59Yeah, I'm good.
00:40:00Yeah.
00:40:01See, it's not that bad.
00:40:02Yeah.
00:40:03You got this.
00:40:04Tequila.
00:40:05Tequila.
00:40:06Tastes so bitter.
00:40:07Um, I don't know.
00:40:10It didn't do me anything yet.
00:40:12Maybe it has to go with the process.
00:40:14I hope it's not going to make me go so wild and crazy.
00:40:17Just watch out.
00:40:19Congratulations.
00:40:20Congratulations.
00:40:21Woo!
00:40:22That's coming.
00:40:23I got it.
00:40:24Oh, God.
00:40:25That was so cute.
00:40:26Ladies and gents.
00:40:27Hi.
00:40:28How are ya?
00:40:29Oh, all right.
00:40:30Let's hang out over here.
00:40:31I got some things to chat with you about.
00:40:32Oh, no.
00:40:33Some good.
00:40:34Some not so great.
00:40:35Oh, no.
00:40:36Oh, no.
00:40:37We're all learning here.
00:40:38That's the whole point, right?
00:40:39All right.
00:40:40Sure.
00:40:41Some of you look excited.
00:40:42Some of you look terrified.
00:40:43So this will be fun.
00:40:44Uh, so the first thing is I'll tell you the lowest four rated folks based on these scorecards.
00:40:50And I want to preface this by saying this doesn't mean that you aren't worthy of being here or anything like that.
00:41:11It's just, you know, objective scoring.
00:41:14So if you are in this bottom four, this is about growth.
00:41:18And you have an opportunity to finding the person that you're meant to be here for by the end of this.
00:41:24Okay?
00:41:25So those bottom four people are...
00:41:33Chantel.
00:41:36Nikki.
00:41:37Oh.
00:41:39Tim.
00:41:40And Jennifer.
00:41:43On me?
00:41:46Yes.
00:41:47I don't think that's fair.
00:41:48Who made this?
00:41:50Who came out with those results?
00:41:53It's insane.
00:41:54Now we're going to talk about some specifics.
00:41:56This is just to have a conversation, get some feedback, and we'll move on and have some fun.
00:42:01Okay.
00:42:03Chantel.
00:42:04As mentioned, you were in that bottom four realm, but also looking at some of your scores, you also rated others pretty low.
00:42:10There may have been, like, awkwardness.
00:42:13Sure.
00:42:14Um, with my interactions with other people.
00:42:18It's a tricky situation, because we're trying to accelerate a process that usually happens over six months to a year.
00:42:25It really hurts.
00:42:28I don't feel like I deserve such a low score.
00:42:33Maybe I'm...
00:42:35Maybe I'm delusional.
00:42:36I really did bad in the hot tub.
00:42:37Let's be honest.
00:42:39But I'm still curious about what Joe thought of me, though.
00:42:43Hopefully he didn't rank me too low.
00:42:45He is a little younger, but I could teach him a few things.
00:42:51Rob, here's what I wanted to ask a question about.
00:42:55You rated the six dates that you had as threes.
00:42:59I rated all the dates the same.
00:43:02Okay.
00:43:03To me, it was, like, every date is us sitting in a hot tub for two minutes, so it all just felt like the same date over and over and over and over and over.
00:43:09So I just kind of rated them all the same.
00:43:11I'm trying to kind of make the least understand that I'm just trying to keep my options open without hurting anyone's feelings.
00:43:19And at the same time, nobody got a different number, so nobody was...
00:43:23Nobody gained favor or lost favor.
00:43:26Because I can't be acting like I'm just going to jump right into trying to get at Jen.
00:43:31I don't want to look like that flaky guy who just, like, one day I'm all over this girl, the next day just like it's nothing, I'm all over that girl.
00:43:38Like, let me put a little pause on where's Rob at?
00:43:42I guess I'm confused because I don't even understand.
00:43:45I guess I'm lost.
00:43:47About what?
00:43:48What you asked Rob.
00:43:50So what Rob was kind of saying was that every date was exactly the same.
00:43:54Uh-huh.
00:43:55It's cookie cutter, you get in, you talk to people for two minutes.
00:43:57Yep.
00:43:58Does that make you feel any kind of way to be described as, like, you're the same as everybody else you talk to?
00:44:02I feel like when I feel it, I feel it.
00:44:05Yeah.
00:44:06I don't know if I, like...
00:44:07Okay.
00:44:08That's fair.
00:44:09I don't know, maybe I need to work a little harder.
00:44:10I don't know.
00:44:11It was the same date six times, so everybody got the same number.
00:44:15I don't understand.
00:44:17Okay.
00:44:19Who wants to go next?
00:44:21Just kidding.
00:44:22We can keep moving forward.
00:44:23But a little bit of homework.
00:44:25Think about the person that you feel like you have the biggest connection with here tonight.
00:44:29And within the next day or so, I just want you to take that vulnerable step.
00:44:33It doesn't mean that you have to fall in love tomorrow.
00:44:36It just means I'd like to get some coffee with you one-on-one.
00:44:39I'd like to go on a date with you.
00:44:41Take a deep breath.
00:44:42Let yourself be yourself.
00:44:43You can't go back and change today, but here we are.
00:44:47So it's been a lovely day of getting to know each other on a deeper level.
00:44:51Why don't we grab our things?
00:44:53And we'll hit the rope.
00:44:54Sound good to you?
00:44:55Sounds great.
00:44:56All right.
00:44:58Absolutely.
00:44:59All right.
00:45:02Rob was just so disrespectful to me.
00:45:05My entire night last night was with him, between us kissing, and making me feel special,
00:45:10and then giving me a score as just another girl.
00:45:15You know.
00:45:18Rob messed with the wrong woman.
00:45:20Rob.
00:45:21Yeah.
00:45:22So after kissing me last night, and you were trying to get me to go you last night.
00:45:27Yo.
00:45:28This chick is crazy.
00:45:29She might be a nutcase.
00:45:30You just want to put your in me?
00:45:35Amigo.
00:45:36I think it's so attractive that you speak, like, granted.
00:45:45Go right now.
00:45:46Have you ever, since it's hard for him to get out of the country, have you ever thought about
00:45:52going to Nigeria?
00:45:53I want to go.
00:45:54Would you be open to that?
00:45:55Yeah, he invited me.
00:45:56Oh my god.
00:45:57I would love that.
00:45:58Oh, you've already talked about that.
00:45:59Yeah.
00:46:00Yeah.
00:46:01Okay.
00:46:02I see.
00:46:03I mean, I possibly would like her.
00:46:04But I'm like, how many secret wives does he have in Nigeria that I'm going to have tonight?
00:46:07Sounds like trust might be an issue here after you've heard that song.
00:46:08I don't know.
00:46:09No, you have nothing to do about it.
00:46:10We're getting another drink.
00:46:11We're getting a Long Island.
00:46:12Hi.
00:46:13Hey, Lexi.
00:46:14How are you doing?
00:46:15Good.
00:46:16How are you?
00:46:17Pretty good.
00:46:18Oh, the happy couple.
00:46:19What's your poison choice?
00:46:20Tequila?
00:46:21Yeah.
00:46:22Okay.
00:46:23You want to do a shot of tequila or something?
00:46:24Oh, I love it.
00:46:25I love it.
00:46:26I love it.
00:46:27I love it.
00:46:28I love it.
00:46:29I love it.
00:46:30I love it.
00:46:31I love it.
00:46:32I love it.
00:46:33I love it.
00:46:34I love it.
00:46:35You want to do a shot of tequila or something?
00:46:37Just a shot, but we can do another one.
00:46:38Okay.
00:46:39Yeah, no, no, no.
00:46:40Because you missed the shot.
00:46:41Okay.
00:46:42Right now, I feel super awkward around Lexi.
00:46:44Said some things that kind of made her upset or triggered at the Flurry Workshop.
00:46:48I feel more comfortable talking to women online.
00:46:51It's definitely nice to have a buffer when you're communicating with somebody.
00:46:54Time delay, texting, you can think about it.
00:46:56You know, have a tea, whatever.
00:46:58Take a , come back to it, you know.
00:47:00But, you know, in this real-time scenario here, time is not an option.
00:47:04I feel like Lexi and I have no romantic interest in each other.
00:47:08But, really, this could be an opportunity to improve my skills talking to women in person.
00:47:13I'm gonna use the bathroom.
00:47:14That's right.
00:47:15I'll be right back.
00:47:16Okay.
00:47:17I heard something about people going back to the room.
00:47:19What happened with that?
00:47:20Yeah, so last night, like, maybe six of us went back to the room and we were, hey,
00:47:24we went back to Tiffany's room last night.
00:47:26Oh, come over, come over.
00:47:27Yeah.
00:47:28Yeah.
00:47:29So, yeah, I got heated in her room last night.
00:47:31Like, I felt like Chantel and Usman, they kind of had, like, a conflict before we even
00:47:35went to the room.
00:47:36And she told me, like, be careful.
00:47:37He's a scammer.
00:47:38And then he got, like, a little butt hurt about that.
00:47:40I'm like...
00:47:41Yeah, but even though I heard about that, she said, oh, be careful.
00:47:43I still wanna like it.
00:47:44That was the main reason why I called her attention yesterday.
00:47:46I was like, hey, what's up?
00:47:47Yeah.
00:47:48You know, I wanna hear the reason why she have that perception about me.
00:47:50Yeah.
00:47:51I never talked to her.
00:47:52So why would she call me a scammer?
00:47:54I've had a fight last night with Chantel.
00:47:57I am still feeling so angry over it.
00:47:59Chantel opened her mouth and said to Courtney in Istanbul that she should be careful with
00:48:03me.
00:48:04I'm a scammer.
00:48:05And I feel like she owe me an apology because why would you call me a scammer for no reason?
00:48:08That's not fair.
00:48:09Well, like, I don't say that because she's a woman.
00:48:11I cannot punch her.
00:48:12So why are you going to say that?
00:48:13I don't want to punch her.
00:48:14Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:48:15Like, if it's a man, then...
00:48:16You gotta take a stand, though, in some way.
00:48:17What I'm trying to say is that she's a female.
00:48:19So what I'm trying to say is that...
00:48:23Hey.
00:48:24Oh, hello.
00:48:25Hey.
00:48:26Hey.
00:48:27Welcome back.
00:48:29Where were you guys at?
00:48:30I couldn't even tell you, like, on a beach or something.
00:48:33The whole time.
00:48:34I haven't seen you the whole time.
00:48:36Hey, yo, what are you doing?
00:48:37How are you doing, bro?
00:48:38I haven't met you yet.
00:48:39Cole.
00:48:40Cole, Rob.
00:48:41Rob, I've been hearing your name all day.
00:48:42I'm like, who is wrong?
00:48:43Really?
00:48:44In your guys' thing or just amongst you guys?
00:48:45Yes, I did.
00:48:46I guess Cole and Jen hit it off at the masquerade ball.
00:48:50But, uh, I ain't worried about Cole.
00:48:52Like, there's different versions of a good-looking guy.
00:48:55There's me.
00:48:56And then there's the good-looking guy that looks like Jack Sparrow before bed.
00:49:01Or lost-at-sea look.
00:49:04I don't know.
00:49:05It's, like, an odd choice.
00:49:07Did you guys have a good day?
00:49:09Yeah, it was all right.
00:49:10I mean, it was...
00:49:11Bro, but where were you at last night?
00:49:12Where were you at last night?
00:49:13Where were you at last night?
00:49:14I was in my womb last night.
00:49:16With who?
00:49:17Pa Maso.
00:49:18Good.
00:49:19Good.
00:49:20Good, how was your day?
00:49:21Good.
00:49:22It's so loud.
00:49:23It is.
00:49:24Yeah, great.
00:49:25It's so hot here.
00:49:28After the speed dating activity, I feel attracted, like, physically attracted to Rob.
00:49:34He has, like, this sexual magnetism, but now it is super nice to see Cole tonight.
00:49:42I see that he's a little nervous around me, and that is super cute.
00:49:46These two men are very attractive, but they're very different from each other, like, two different flavors of ice cream.
00:49:53Now I have to choose which one I want to taste.
00:49:56Do you have a big family?
00:49:58Yeah, I do.
00:49:59You want to tell me a little bit about that?
00:50:00But I am a single, actually.
00:50:02A single coma?
00:50:04Kid.
00:50:05You have a single kid?
00:50:06Yeah.
00:50:07How old is your kid?
00:50:08He's seven years old.
00:50:09It's my daughter.
00:50:10It's a girl.
00:50:11That's beautiful.
00:50:12I'm happy.
00:50:13Well, I'm happy that you told me that.
00:50:14She's a beautiful girl.
00:50:16I have no doubt that's true, looking at mom.
00:50:19Does that make you nervous to tell people that?
00:50:22Um, it's something that has to be put under the table.
00:50:27It's very important.
00:50:28Somehow, and at some place, I think it's important.
00:50:33Being a mom changes everything when it comes to dating.
00:50:36You have to be sure that you're thinking not just about yourself, but what is best for the future as a possible future family.
00:50:44So it's a lot of pressure.
00:50:46Cole seems to not freak out about the fact that I am a single mother.
00:50:50And that is actually a super, super positive sign that I may be able to build a relationship with him.
00:50:57I feel the same way.
00:51:09I think from the very start when I saw you last night, the eye contact and the mask, there was a spark there for me.
00:51:14And I'm happy to hear that maybe that was the same for you.
00:51:17Jen's no doubt a powerful, sexy woman.
00:51:20I am a little nervous to talk to her just because the previous night when we met, it was a little awkward just given the fact that we had the masks on and it was hard to hear.
00:51:28And I wasn't used to her accent.
00:51:30So I kept having to say, like, what?
00:51:31What?
00:51:32What are you saying?
00:51:33Please repeat yourself.
00:51:34When I came to the retreat, I was open minded to the idea that somebody might have a kid.
00:51:38So when Jen said that she had a kid, this isn't a deal breaker for me.
00:51:41I think I'd be a good father.
00:51:43I'd love to give it a shot.
00:51:44And I'm super excited to see where it goes from here.
00:51:49Okay, my biggest, one of my biggest things that I want to do is go to a renaissance fair.
00:51:53To a renaissance fair?
00:51:54Anyone?
00:51:55Anyone.
00:51:56I've been to, like, at least two.
00:51:57I've been to any.
00:51:58They're great.
00:51:59You can throw axes.
00:52:00Hi.
00:52:01How was your day?
00:52:02It's out of, like, you're like...
00:52:03Oh, my God.
00:52:04You've been down.
00:52:05It's, like, right away.
00:52:06Anyone you like?
00:52:07No.
00:52:08I don't think you said that last night.
00:52:10That sounds good.
00:52:11I think I can talk to Rob.
00:52:12Huh?
00:52:13Rob.
00:52:14See, ours was fun until, but we had to, like, rate everybody.
00:52:17Rob.
00:52:18Rob.
00:52:19Yeah.
00:52:20Why did you say that our date was the same as everyone else is?
00:52:23You just...
00:52:24I knew you didn't get it.
00:52:25Everybody got the same thing.
00:52:26Okay.
00:52:27So after calling your last date...
00:52:28You guys are dating each other.
00:52:29Wait, wait.
00:52:30We didn't have to date each other.
00:52:31You guys are dating the date?
00:52:32Yeah, but I didn't really like that particular question.
00:52:34Okay, but Rob, I don't really care what you like.
00:52:35Okay.
00:52:36So after kissing me last night, calling me on the phone for an hour and a half, and you
00:52:42were trying to get me to go you last night on the phone...
00:52:45We were upset because I gave every girl the same number on one particular...
00:52:49Okay, but we kissed last night.
00:52:52You're here for the wrong reasons.
00:52:55You're telling me to go you last night?
00:52:57I did not say that.
00:52:58Yeah, you did.
00:52:59No, I didn't.
00:53:00I said you could hang out.
00:53:01You told me to come to your place.
00:53:02Pull up your receipts.
00:53:03Pull up the receipt then.
00:53:04Did I not just say, I want to hang out?
00:53:05I was just kidding.
00:53:06Show me, show me.
00:53:07Yeah, show the receipts.
00:53:08Show the receipts then.
00:53:09Elise is a model for Miami, and you're going to give her three?
00:53:12Are you kidding me?
00:53:13Like, his game.
00:53:14Like, I could help him with his flirting.
00:53:16Elise is throwing herself at you, like showing her ass, making out with you, and you still
00:53:21managed to this up?
00:53:22How?
00:53:23How did this conversation start?
00:53:25She's like, started coming at me.
00:53:28She's mad that I rated everybody the same.
00:53:30So she's pissed off at me.
00:53:32But I think that's ridiculous.
00:53:33Really?
00:53:34So why did, why were you...
00:53:35Because you're refusing to understand my perspective and why I rated everybody the same.
00:53:39You should rank her number one.
00:53:46I was going to give Elise the benefit of the doubt.
00:53:49I mean, at least for now, it's only been a couple of days.
00:53:52But after acting like this, I mean, I'm like certain that this girl is not somebody that
00:53:58I could be with.
00:53:59Like, that is the biggest, the biggest red flag for me.
00:54:03The absolute biggest worst thing that you could do if you think that I'm going to be
00:54:07interested in you is accuse me of what I haven't done in front of people that don't know.
00:54:11Do you see where she's saying, though?
00:54:13No, I see her being childish.
00:54:15How would you feel if she ranked all of you equal?
00:54:18But you guys have like...
00:54:19No, no, no, no.
00:54:20Get why?
00:54:21Because I'm not a f***ing emotional person that can't get why.
00:54:23You just want to put your d*** at me.
00:54:24You want to take me behind doors and f*** me so no one thinks you're a dog.
00:54:28There you go.
00:54:30It's a thing too.
00:54:31That's why your relationship is going to work out.
00:54:33I'm not a f***ing emotional person that can't get why.
00:54:46You just want to put your d*** at me.
00:54:48There you go.
00:54:49It's a thing too.
00:54:50You're an a**hole.
00:54:51I mean, you're here for the wrong intentions.
00:54:54You hurt me.
00:54:55It's rude.
00:54:56This altercation right here.
00:54:57You're making me feel like a no one more explosive.
00:54:58I have a feeling that you were going to do this.
00:54:59No, I'm going to hear this.
00:55:00But it's fine.
00:55:01I think that we should keep it around and respond.
00:55:03No, you're good.
00:55:04You're good.
00:55:05You're good.
00:55:06In 24 hours, we've gone from we're vibing, we have a connection.
00:55:11But because I ranked her a 3, she is now yelling at me in my face, just yelling at me.
00:55:17And I'm just like, yo, this chick is crazy.
00:55:21She might be a nutcase.
00:55:23Look at these time calls.
00:55:25FaceTimes me.
00:55:2610.43 a.m.
00:55:28Calls me at 10 a.m.
00:55:30Incoming call for an hour and 20 minutes.
00:55:32Wow.
00:55:33But I'm just another girl, right?
00:55:34On the ranking board.
00:55:36Why is she?
00:55:37Jesus Christ.
00:55:38I don't know why.
00:55:39Oh, my God.
00:55:40I don't know why.
00:55:41I was like, yes, we talked on the phone.
00:55:42Yes, I told her like, yeah, we should probably not be baking out on the first day and it is
00:55:52a bad look and let's not do that.
00:55:54And let's kind of like slow it down.
00:55:56And now she's saying, you want to me behind closed doors.
00:55:59You want to hide me.
00:56:00Like I broke her heart because I put a three for everybody.
00:56:05Because you didn't have sex with her.
00:56:08Probably.
00:56:09I don't know.
00:56:10Which is fine.
00:56:11So now to make me into the dog who wanted to when I didn't want to .
00:56:15Elise is upset because Rob didn't sleep with her.
00:56:18She wanted to get and Rob didn't her.
00:56:24She wanted her cheeks clapped and is let down because Rob didn't do it.
00:56:32I think.
00:56:35But yeah, I was just not expecting this.
00:56:38Maybe take it as a red flag.
00:56:40Oh, I'm definitely not interested anymore.
00:56:42Yeah.
00:56:43I could not talk to somebody like that.
00:56:44You dodged a bullet.
00:56:45It's only the second day.
00:56:46So right, I'm glad that this is what happened on the second day because this is way too excessive.
00:56:52I think I'm going to go to bed.
00:56:54All right.
00:56:55Sweet dreaming.
00:57:02So you're not going to say bye to her?
00:57:03No, I'm not going to talk to her ever again.
00:57:05Why?
00:57:06Because that was insanity.
00:57:12Why can't I not have drama?
00:57:14I didn't even do anything.
00:57:16I just got here, man.
00:57:18I don't even know.
00:57:22I'm tired of being taken advantage of.
00:57:24I feel like when I start liking a guy a little bit, he does this to me.
00:57:29After all this time that he's tried to talk to me and make me feel special as just another girl, you know, I know that was fake.
00:57:39Sometimes I speak quickly and I should think probably before I speak and I get ahead of myself, but I'm a real lovable human with a big heart that's just really scared of getting hurt.
00:57:53And it just happened.
00:57:54They get mad because you don't want to them.
00:57:59And then they start, you know, blah, blah, blah, speaking all this nonsense.
00:58:02Happens all the time.
00:58:03That's crazy because, like, if that's what she wanted, she really just tanked it and shot herself in the foot.
00:58:07Like, that is never going to happen.
00:58:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:58:09Why would you do that if that's what you want?
00:58:11I was not envious of you during that, bro.
00:58:16My day was the worst one.
00:58:17I think, like, out of everybody.
00:58:18No, it wasn't.
00:58:19No connection.
00:58:20No, because I felt, like, so awkward.
00:58:22Just, like, anxiety.
00:58:23You do well.
00:58:24You do well.
00:58:25Yeah, but...
00:58:26I feel like I did the worst.
00:58:28I really don't know if I am good at flirting or I'm not, but I am honestly better than Courtney because at the flirting one-on-one, she was crashing.
00:58:38Oh, my God.
00:58:39So I'm just trying to be that gentleman because I like Courtney and I don't want her to feel bad about it.
00:58:45I'm really surprised, Rob, that you got into something because I really thought it would have been Chantel and Usman.
00:58:51Yeah.
00:58:52Right?
00:58:53Because he said if you were a guy, he would have hit you.
00:58:56Damn.
00:58:57Yeah.
00:58:58What?
00:58:59Calling him a scammer.
00:59:00Yeah, calling him a scammer and all that .
00:59:02We're talking about .
00:59:03I'd take Brazilian jiu-jitsu.
00:59:05I bet.
00:59:06Yeah.
00:59:07Yeah, I wouldn't want to mess with you.
00:59:08I understand where Usman's coming from, being offended or hurt by what someone's saying, but he escalated too far.
00:59:16And it goes to show you that you're just gonna be an asshole for no reason.
00:59:21And I'm hoping Courtney realizes that because I don't want that flower to blossom.
00:59:26I'm trying to throw as much interference in there as I can.
00:59:31I mean, it's all about deflating.
00:59:33They say deflating 101.
00:59:34So, like, if you don't know how to flate.
00:59:36Can I interrupt for a little bit?
00:59:38I want to talk to you, Usman.
00:59:40Okay.
00:59:41Because I heard that you said something behind my back that wasn't very nice.
00:59:44Actually, it was very aggressive.
00:59:47You told people that you would want to punch me.
00:59:51If you're a man, I will.
00:59:52If I was a man.
00:59:53Yeah.
00:59:54But you're a woman, so I can't.
00:59:55I would never touch a woman in my life.
00:59:56Why would you say that?
00:59:58Why would you say something to her about me in allegation that you don't know?
01:00:02Because I felt like they were true.
01:00:04Just for example.
01:00:05How is it true?
01:00:06Like, where did I scam?
01:00:07Did you say anything?
01:00:08I'm very protective of my friends.
01:00:10And I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to them.
01:00:12You act so, like, childish.
01:00:14I don't know.
01:00:15How?
01:00:16Me?
01:00:17Childish?
01:00:18No.
01:00:19Never.
01:00:20No, you did.
01:00:24You gonna punch me in the face?
01:00:25Or, like, what's up?
01:00:27You guys are not fighting.
01:00:30Do you want to fight me?
01:00:31No.
01:00:32I don't want to.
01:00:33Please.
01:00:34I don't want to fight you.
01:00:35Do you want to fight me?
01:00:36No.
01:00:37All right.
01:00:38I gotta go to bed.
01:00:39You okay?
01:00:40I'm done.
01:00:41It's hard.
01:00:42I'm fine.
01:00:43Boy, did you just come here at us, Alma?
01:00:44I don't like you.
01:00:47This is some bull .
01:01:07You know what?
01:01:08Yes.
01:01:11I tried to own up to my misunderstanding.
01:01:14And some man says that they want to punch me in the face.
01:01:17I didn't come here for this.
01:01:19I have every right to believe he's a scammer.
01:01:22He did target older American women.
01:01:28I've never been so disrespected by a man in my life.
01:01:33Usman better check himself or he's going to be in for a world of hurt.
01:01:39How?
01:01:40How?
01:01:47I feel like you're gonna kill the mood if you guys don't make up the rest of the trip.
01:01:51You guys just need to shut up.
01:01:52I'm not trying to deal with this.
01:01:53I'm not trying to deal with this.
01:01:54I want to be having fun.
01:01:55Like, you guys are killing my back.
01:01:56She's tired.
01:01:57But the thing is that I'm just not taking anything that has to do with coming easy.
01:02:00We don't think that about yourself.
01:02:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:02:03I mean, I didn't say you, you know, but a lot of people think that and that's fighting.
01:02:08It doesn't matter.
01:02:09It doesn't matter.
01:02:10It doesn't matter.
01:02:11This is bull .
01:02:13I feel like Chantelle is kind of like trying to ruin the whole trip for me.
01:02:18I'm finding someone.
01:02:20I'm dipping too, man.
01:02:22You want to go too?
01:02:23Yeah, I'm gonna go back to the room.
01:02:25Okay.
01:02:26Great.
01:02:27But I mean, I'm just having my time to shoot my shot and then Courtney is right here.
01:02:32And then you keep on saying all these negative things about me.
01:02:35It's not my fault that Chantelle picked the wrong guy.
01:02:40Maybe he stayed with us because of green card.
01:02:43She should be smarter than that.
01:02:45Good night.
01:02:46Good night.
01:02:47Good night.
01:02:48All right, bro.
01:02:49Be safe.
01:02:50Yeah, ma'am.
01:02:51Hey, ma'am.
01:02:52What's up?
01:02:53What a night.
01:02:54Yeah, it's hot.
01:02:55You just need to just let it all go.
01:02:58But you're here being like negative now to you.
01:03:05Am I being negative to you?
01:03:07Okay, I'm sorry.
01:03:08You're like, yeah, you're fighting with my friend.
01:03:10I want you guys to all be cool.
01:03:11I want to have a great vibe and get along.
01:03:13Okay, I'm sorry.
01:03:14This is not a situation I want to be in.
01:03:21Like, I'm kind of stuck in the middle between my friend and a guy that I'm interested in.
01:03:26Usman's mad.
01:03:28Chantelle's mad.
01:03:30And Chantelle's terrified when she gets mad.
01:03:33I don't want to be caught in the crossfires because I don't want to go to Mexican jail.
01:03:37Good night, guys.
01:03:42Buenas noches.
01:03:43Bonita.
01:03:46Night, Jennifer.
01:03:47Good night.
01:03:50Thank you, it's here.
01:03:51Yeah.
01:03:52Hey, Jennifer.
01:03:53Mind if I walk you home?
01:03:55Can I accompany you?
01:03:56Okay, let's go.
01:03:57Yeah, sure.
01:03:58Where do you live?
01:03:59I think it's this one.
01:04:01I'm trying to figure out.
01:04:02Okay.
01:04:03It's a maze out here.
01:04:05Cole is the hottest pilot I've ever seen.
01:04:08And he's already, like, locked in on Jen and just following her around like a little puppy.
01:04:13But at the same time, I'm curious how genuine and sincere he is because most pilots, you know, have girlfriends in every city.
01:04:22I need to feel him out a little bit before I judge him.
01:04:26This time of night, you've got to be careful.
01:04:28So big.
01:04:30Yeah, of course.
01:04:31Just want to make sure you're safe from these Mexican raccoons.
01:04:34You're too cute, though.
01:04:36It's very clear that I'm going to have a lot of competition when it comes to dating Jennifer.
01:04:42I'm not the type of guy to give up easily.
01:04:44I'm not afraid to fight for what I want out of this.
01:04:47Jen is like a Greek goddess, and that's the one I'm all in on.
01:04:51Is this where you're staying?
01:04:53Yeah, this is my place.
01:04:54Okay.
01:04:55Yeah, so thank you.
01:04:56Let's get you inside.
01:04:57Yeah, of course.
01:04:58I'm so happy that we had the opportunity to get a little on time and talk about things other than...
01:05:03You're a great job.
01:05:04I like it.
01:05:06I appreciate it.
01:05:08All night.
01:05:09Of course.
01:05:10Sleep well.
01:05:11Hopefully see you tomorrow.
01:05:12All right.
01:05:13Bye.
01:05:14Hello, everyone.
01:05:15Ho pop up, you're welcome.
01:05:16Oh my god.
01:05:19Wow.
01:05:20It makes me really happy to hear Cole's feelings and thoughts towards me, because I really like
01:05:31him.
01:05:32Rob and I definitely had a good night with speed dating, but I have to say, my favorite
01:05:37is Cole.
01:05:38And it's good.
01:05:39I love how we are talking.
01:05:42Also, like, it's very sweet of them
01:05:43to take me to my door and say goodnight
01:05:46and protect me from the Mexican raccoons.
01:05:52All right.
01:05:53You guys have a good night.
01:05:54All right, cool.
01:05:55Of course.
01:05:57Love is in the air.
01:05:59They had the best date of all of us, so I'm happy for this.
01:06:03Well, what do we do now?
01:06:05I'm going to eat.
01:06:06I'm so hungry.
01:06:07I'm tired.
01:06:08I want to go home.
01:06:08I just want to go to my room and just go to bed straight.
01:06:10OK.
01:06:11Are you coming?
01:06:15You said you want to go to bed straight.
01:06:17Yeah.
01:06:17So what does that imply?
01:06:21Maybe you should dial it down a little bit
01:06:23and be more subtle about things.
01:06:24I don't know.
01:06:25I'm just trying to enjoy Courtney's company, get to know her.
01:06:28And if he's trying to take her away and keep her all to herself,
01:06:32well, good luck, Usman.
01:06:37I think it's kind of feeling like this Jen and Rob thing.
01:06:42Any time you talk about Jen, the only to not remember
01:06:44is what she told us yesterday.
01:06:46What?
01:06:47So you know, like, it's not something
01:06:49that I actually should tell you?
01:06:50No, tell me.
01:06:51No, tell me.
01:06:53I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor,
01:06:56they want it to get out.
01:07:08I'm tired.
01:07:09I want to go home.
01:07:10I just want to go to my room and just go to bed straight.
01:07:12OK.
01:07:13Are you coming?
01:07:17You said you want to go to bed straight.
01:07:18Yeah.
01:07:19So what does that imply?
01:07:20No, you didn't get the point.
01:07:20I have my laptop.
01:07:21Who can watch a movie?
01:07:23That's like 1 o'clock, dude.
01:07:24I'm just going to go to my room and eat and go to bed.
01:07:28I don't know.
01:07:29I'm tired.
01:07:30OK.
01:07:31That's fine.
01:07:31I feel like me and Courtney already have the connection.
01:07:38And I'm kind of trying to see what will happen tonight.
01:07:42And the cold has been so weird.
01:07:44It's so annoying.
01:07:46I don't feel threatening from cold.
01:07:48But I start to think, like, what's going on here?
01:07:53So what did you think?
01:07:55I think the night was good.
01:07:56It was eventful.
01:07:56There was a lot going on.
01:07:58My favorite part was her thing.
01:08:00Yeah.
01:08:00It's a great day.
01:08:01I felt very attracted to Tiffany and, like, everything
01:08:06that she was giving off.
01:08:07And I'm just excited to see what comes of it.
01:08:10I think there may be a kiss in the future if things
01:08:12keep progressing this way.
01:08:14This is you here?
01:08:15Yeah.
01:08:16All right, cool.
01:08:16Right here.
01:08:17Cool.
01:08:17That was so much fun.
01:08:19Aw, I had so much fun.
01:08:20It's a great first date.
01:08:21Aw, thank you.
01:08:22Aw!
01:08:24Aw.
01:08:24Thank you for being so respectful and so easy to talk to.
01:08:28I really, really enjoyed myself, honestly.
01:08:31Genuinely.
01:08:31Same.
01:08:32And I hope to keep getting good anymore.
01:08:35OK.
01:08:35Yeah?
01:08:36We will.
01:08:36Yeah.
01:08:37Night.
01:08:37All right.
01:08:39All right.
01:08:40Bye.
01:08:40Bye.
01:08:52He's cute.
01:08:53I want to learn more about him before I can say I like him,
01:08:56like him.
01:08:56But do I get excited around him and happy around him?
01:08:59Yes.
01:09:00I feel like, I don't know.
01:09:02It's always nice to know that someone's like into you.
01:09:04I'm going to change.
01:09:06What a weird, bizarre ending.
01:09:11What a weird, bizarre ending.
01:09:12What a weird, bizarre ending to the night.
01:09:24I was not expecting that.
01:09:28Um, I think it was pretty insane.
01:09:45I mean, we just got here.
01:09:46I just met this girl and I'm really caught off guard.
01:09:49I don't know why I'm defending myself against a girl that I just met.
01:09:52Hopefully, today's or tomorrow's a better day and we can, uh, forget all about tonight.
01:09:58Cause, I don't know, I need some sleep alone, for sure.
01:10:05Standing in the middle of a big crowd turning on.
01:10:19What am I to do when everything feels too good?
01:10:25It's day three.
01:10:29We did a hot tub speed dating yesterday and that did not go so well because, you know,
01:10:36I'm sure that everybody has realized that my ex is here and that has been super awkward.
01:10:43Uh, man, talk about, like, the last person on earth I expected to see here.
01:10:49So far, I don't think there's any girl that is, like, super into me.
01:10:54And I get, I'm, like, a very acquired taste.
01:10:57But, um, I'm really hoping that things turn around and, you know, maybe I can, you know, connect with somebody.
01:11:03Because so far, I don't know, it just feels like, like, people aren't getting my vibe.
01:11:08And I'm not feeling down, but I'm starting to get a little worried.
01:11:12Oh, my God. This way, this way, this way, this way, so we can hide from the rain.
01:11:24Yeah. Yeah.
01:11:25I've had a fight last night with Chantelle.
01:11:27I'm worried that I up with Courtney.
01:11:29And I'm scared that I'm going to lose her for another guy.
01:11:34Woo!
01:11:36So I asked Courtney to meet me this morning.
01:11:39And then I'm trying to see what I can get from Courtney if she would say yes to me.
01:11:44Yesterday, we were having some argument and misunderstanding with Chantelle.
01:11:49Because I feel like when I was trying to explain myself over there, nobody would understand me.
01:11:53And everybody was like, ah, I'm tired of this guy.
01:11:55Yeah, you were being annoying after that.
01:11:57Despite that, you are her close friend, you still, you know, like, being...
01:12:02You on her side, you are still at the same time on my side.
01:12:05Yeah, okay.
01:12:06I do appreciate that. I feel, like, love from you.
01:12:07I feel like you're showing me love. Like, I don't mean, like, love-love.
01:12:10But I'm saying that when everybody's trying to, like, pull back, you're still being there.
01:12:14So, you know, like, for me, I feel like, yeah.
01:12:16Of course.
01:12:17So I appreciate that.
01:12:18It's giving me, like, a growing light.
01:12:19But I don't know. I don't want to be, like, assuming.
01:12:22I would like to know if what I think is what it is.
01:12:27I mean, like, let's see where things go.
01:12:32What do you feel about...
01:12:35all these guys?
01:12:40Right now, I'm not having anything romantic.
01:12:46No guys have taken me on dates. Nobody's done anything.
01:12:49Like, I'm just talking and getting to know everybody.
01:12:51And that's fucking...
01:12:53I want to ask you this question.
01:12:57What are we?
01:13:01So you're trying to DTR right now?
01:13:03What DTR means?
01:13:04Define the relationship.
01:13:06Oh, I mean...
01:13:09It's early, but I know you before now.
01:13:11I know you know me before here, so...
01:13:13I mean, we're in a different level compared to them.
01:13:17So what do you think?
01:13:18I don't think there's anybody who is beautiful more than you.
01:13:23Like, they are all below you.
01:13:24That's how I see you.
01:13:25You are more beautiful than anyone.
01:13:26Yeah.
01:13:27You're sweet.
01:13:29Okay, on down note, can I kiss you?
01:13:33Um, you haven't even taken me on a date.
01:13:35You're kissing me something,
01:13:36because I think I was showing so much...
01:13:38Um...
01:13:39...effort on moving forward.
01:13:44So can I kiss you?
01:13:49My cheek.
01:13:51Cheek?
01:13:52You haven't done anything romantic for me.
01:13:54I mean, you just say that you're taking me.
01:13:56And you think we're gonna kiss?
01:13:57Okay.
01:13:58Let me give you...
01:14:01Yeah.
01:14:05Right now, Usman's my number one.
01:14:06He just needs to step up his game.
01:14:08He needs to do more than just talk.
01:14:11Talk is cheap.
01:14:13I think he's a smooth talker,
01:14:14and he may just want something physical.
01:14:16I don't want to just hook up.
01:14:18I want something more,
01:14:19and he needs to figure out if he feels the same.
01:14:21So, what's up with Rob and Jen now?
01:14:24I was like, what the hell happened?
01:14:25Like, kind of feeling like this Jen and Rob thing.
01:14:28Yeah.
01:14:29But then it's like Jen and Cole,
01:14:30and I like Cole and Jen,
01:14:32like, they were liking each other too,
01:14:33so I'm like...
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:36What do you think?
01:14:37So like, well, yesterday,
01:14:38any time you talk about Jen,
01:14:39the only thing I remember
01:14:40is what she told us yesterday.
01:14:42Yeah.
01:14:43Yesterday, me, her, and Rob
01:14:46were sitting down over there having breakfast.
01:14:49You know, she was saying a lot about Tim.
01:14:52I was like, what?
01:14:53What?
01:14:54So, you know, like,
01:14:55it's not something that I actually should tell you?
01:14:57No, tell me.
01:15:00I cannot say that.
01:15:01Like, I don't know if I should say that.
01:15:06Tell me.
01:15:07Okay, okay, okay.
01:15:08You know she's his ex.
01:15:09Yeah.
01:15:10She said he don't want to watch her.
01:15:13Wait, she told you about their sex life?
01:15:15Tell me what.
01:15:16He traveled to her country.
01:15:17He met her there,
01:15:18but he refused to torture her.
01:15:20It's like, what?
01:15:21I don't...
01:15:22Why, though?
01:15:23Why?
01:15:24So she was saying that he was ready
01:15:25to pay for somebody.
01:15:27Like, because it's a male strippers, right?
01:15:29So he was ready to pay for somebody
01:15:31to give her, like, lap dance.
01:15:35And he did it,
01:15:36and he watched it happening,
01:15:38and he liked it.
01:15:40No way.
01:15:45You know, Elise,
01:15:47the way that she's been coming at me,
01:15:49it's way too early for all this.
01:15:50I mean, yesterday,
01:15:51the tensions are probably high.
01:15:54Well, hopefully, she doesn't continue
01:15:56to come at me about anything.
01:15:57Elise, she's just a wrecking ball
01:15:59of who knows what you're gonna get.
01:16:03You're on.
01:16:09I don't need nobody,
01:16:10I don't need nobody.
01:16:12Conversation is an art
01:16:13in which very few excel.
01:16:16So few know when to proceed
01:16:17and when to stop.
01:16:19I like that.
01:16:21Right now,
01:16:22I'm bringing my book on etiquette.
01:16:24It's called Etiquette of Today.
01:16:27Looks like it was published in...
01:16:321806 and 1896, something.
01:16:35Before the 1900s, at least.
01:16:37I don't know.
01:16:39There's some things in here,
01:16:40like tip your hat
01:16:41when you meet a lady,
01:16:42you know?
01:16:43That makes sense, you know?
01:16:53So, he was ready to pay
01:16:54for somebody to give a, like, lap dance.
01:16:57And he did it,
01:16:59and he watched it happening,
01:17:01and he liked it.
01:17:03I wonder if he's a cuckold.
01:17:05What cup is?
01:17:07It's like a guy
01:17:09that wants to watch their woman
01:17:12have sex with another guy, basically.
01:17:14You do that in this shit?
01:17:16That's, like, something.
01:17:17We don't do that in Africa.
01:17:18I don't do that.
01:17:19I don't do that.
01:17:20Yeah, you shouldn't do that.
01:17:21Like, no, I'm not doing that,
01:17:22but that's something.
01:17:23It's like if he's not wanting to sleep with her,
01:17:25but then he's paying other guys
01:17:26and, like, enjoying watching other guys be with her.
01:17:30Probably.
01:17:31It's just so weird,
01:17:32the whole story.
01:17:33Like, I just don't understand it.
01:17:36No.
01:17:39I'm not shocked
01:17:40that Tim is into some kinky stuff sexually.
01:17:44I wonder if they take the stripper back home
01:17:47because I could see Jen, like, dominating both the men.
01:17:50I can't believe you waited 24 hours to tell me
01:17:57it's a cuckold.
01:17:58Like, when you find out this shit,
01:17:59you guys come, like, tell me.
01:18:01I didn't tell you anything.
01:18:03I did not tell you anything.
01:18:05Okay.
01:18:06That they came to the ocean.
01:18:07Mm-hmm.
01:18:09I'm sorry, but there's very little chance
01:18:11I'm gonna keep this a secret.
01:18:13I think if people are coming to tell me a rumor,
01:18:16they want it to get out.
01:18:18Everybody here is gossiping,
01:18:19and this is some hot tea.
01:18:21Do you think I'm not gonna share this?
01:18:23Also, Tim's a friend.
01:18:24I would want to know
01:18:25if people are talking to me behind my back.
01:18:27And then, honestly,
01:18:28I want to know if this rumor is true,
01:18:30so I'm gonna go directly to the source.
01:18:36Man, it's starting to really rain out here.
01:18:37Yeah, you guys brought in the storm last night,
01:18:39then you're bringing it back today.
01:18:40That's not my fault.
01:18:41We need to fluff your energy.
01:18:42Have you guys seen that?
01:18:43Yeah, do that, let me see.
01:18:45Do that, do that, let me see.
01:18:46Oh, yeah, I'll receive it.
01:18:48I'll receive it.
01:18:49I'll receive it.
01:18:50Good energy, good energy.
01:18:51I'll receive it.
01:18:52All right, help me out.
01:18:53I saw this.
01:18:54It's like fluffing your aura.
01:18:55Yeah.
01:18:56Don't do too much.
01:18:57It's okay, it's okay, it's okay.
01:18:58It's okay.
01:18:59It's okay.
01:19:00I'm kind of jealous.
01:19:01He's like, stop fluffing your aura.
01:19:02Mm-hmm.
01:19:03That's crazy.
01:19:04I appreciate her positive vibe,
01:19:08but I don't know if Courtney's ever
01:19:10heard the word fluffer before.
01:19:12I feel like that word is used in other ways
01:19:17that sounds kind of crazy for her to walk up to two guys
01:19:20and go, I'm going to fluff you guys.
01:19:22It sounds crazy.
01:19:25So, I fluffed your aura.
01:19:28Do you feel better now?
01:19:29I guess so.
01:19:30I mean, this thing just started,
01:19:31so I'm going to try not to feel negative about it.
01:19:34But, you know, Elise, the way that she's been coming at me,
01:19:38like, it's been so messy.
01:19:40It's way too early for all this.
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:42It's just, it seems like another messy situation.
01:19:44Yeah.
01:19:45Where I'm, I don't know, I don't know what to,
01:19:47what to do or what to think or where to go with it.
01:19:50I mean, yesterday the tensions are probably high.
01:19:52It's like a weird situation that somebody I like,
01:19:54and you're watching him flirt with multiple, like, hot girls
01:19:57and do stuff.
01:19:58Like, I think eBay would be like.
01:20:00But at the same time, that, that reaction is way too extreme.
01:20:03It's too much, yeah.
01:20:04I was interested all the way up until she blew up on me
01:20:07over here last night.
01:20:08Yeah.
01:20:09Personality over beauty, you know?
01:20:10Hey.
01:20:11Yeah.
01:20:12Especially if it's going to be like that.
01:20:14Well, hopefully she doesn't continue to try to, to, like,
01:20:18come at me about anything.
01:20:19And hopefully she doesn't bad mouth me about, uh, to other people.
01:20:23I think you guys should go.
01:20:25Well, yeah, she needs to talk to the dating coach.
01:20:28I think she needs to talk to the dating coach.
01:20:29Right.
01:20:30I think she's got some really unhealthy dating habits.
01:20:32Yeah.
01:20:33I don't want to give her more ammo to, to attack me with.
01:20:36Like, clearly she is very unstable and ready to attack somebody
01:20:39that she barely knows over things that are trivial.
01:20:42Like, oh, you talked to me on the phone this morning.
01:20:45As if I'm like wrong to do that.
01:20:47I came here to find love.
01:20:49Like, to find a real connection with somebody that brings me peace.
01:20:52And it's like, on the second day, I got somebody yelling at me,
01:20:54in my face.
01:20:55And it's like, that's, that's what my marriage was.
01:20:57And moving on from that, I don't want to waste my time again.
01:21:02I can't be with somebody like that.
01:21:04Somebody who doesn't, who just like turns on me.
01:21:07Elise, she's the wrecking ball of who knows what you're going to get.
01:21:11And she's very demanding and very like aggressive.
01:21:14I don't want extra drama for no reason.
01:21:17She's, she's going to figure it out one day that if she did like me,
01:21:21she shot herself in the foot.
01:21:23Hopefully, I can redeem myself with some of the other ladies here
01:21:27and we'll see what happens.
01:21:29Just, just take it easy, you know?
01:21:31Yeah.
01:21:32Rob.
01:21:33Hi.
01:21:34Next time on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
01:21:36Talk to me about the pillow.
01:21:37This pillow.
01:21:38Is that you?
01:21:39That is me.
01:21:40I love that you have that with you, knowing that you were going through a rough time.
01:21:43Learning 101 was a disaster, but I still got game when it comes to turning on the charm.
01:21:48Do you think you have the courage to ask May out tonight?
01:21:51Or Kourtney?
01:21:52Ha, ha.
01:21:53Ha.
01:21:54Ha.
01:21:55Ha.
01:21:56Ha.
01:21:57Ha.
01:21:58Ha.
01:21:59Let's go!
01:22:00Party time!
01:22:01Yes!
01:22:02Woo!
01:22:03Rocky!
01:22:04Rocky!
01:22:05Do you have the courage to ask May out tonight?
01:22:08Or Kourtney?
01:22:09Ha, ha.
01:22:10Ha, ha.
01:22:11Let's go!
01:22:12Party time!
01:22:13Yes!
01:22:14Woo!
01:22:15Rocky!
01:22:16Rocky!
01:22:17Do your handstand!
01:22:18Woo!
01:22:19Woo!
01:22:20Woo!
01:22:21Woo!
01:22:22Woo!
01:22:23Woo!
01:22:24Woo!
01:22:25Woo!
01:22:26Woo!
01:22:27Woo!
01:22:28Woo!
01:22:29Woo!
01:22:30Woo!
01:22:31Hey guys.
01:22:32How's it going?
01:22:33With Gin, I feel like there's definitely, like, a connection.
01:22:34Like, we're vibing.
01:22:35I like Gin a lot.
01:22:37But Cole's not letting anybody talk to Gin.
01:22:38Hopefully it has good intentions.
01:22:40But yeah.
01:22:41It seems like it's pretty messy.
01:22:42So, mother .
01:22:44Even though I feel like I'm not in my league, I'm going to ask Mayow on a date.
01:22:52But I'm still keeping my eyes on Courtney.
01:22:55Do you have any dates planned?
01:22:57No, not yet.
01:22:59I heard that you paid for a Swiffer and you like to watch.
01:23:06For six years, I've been having to defend my sexuality.
01:23:10It's like low-hanging fruit.
01:23:11He knows that that's an easy way to upset me.
01:23:15Wasn't you going around saying all this about me to everybody that I like men?
01:23:19Everybody knows the truth.
01:23:20No, because you're telling everybody stuff.
01:23:23You've been talking about me too for the last seven years and now it's my turn.
01:23:28Throw the up.
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