Stop making excuses and start taking control of your life.
In this powerful motivational speech, Simon Sinek delivers one of his most impactful messages on accountability, discipline, and personal growth.
Excuses hold you back. Responsibility sets you free. Simon explains how taking ownership of your actions builds trust, leadership, and long-term success. Whether you’re struggling with failure, fear, or self-doubt — this message will inspire you to take charge and move forward with purpose.
🔥 Watch till the end (13:59) — one mindset shift can change everything!
⏱️ Timestamps
00:00 – Introduction: Stop Making Excuses
01:10 – Why Accountability Matters
03:05 – Taking Ownership of Your Actions
05:45 – Turning Mistakes into Growth
08:20 – Building Trust Through Responsibility
11:10 – Simon’s Final Words of Wisdom
13:59 – End
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In this powerful motivational speech, Simon Sinek delivers one of his most impactful messages on accountability, discipline, and personal growth.
Excuses hold you back. Responsibility sets you free. Simon explains how taking ownership of your actions builds trust, leadership, and long-term success. Whether you’re struggling with failure, fear, or self-doubt — this message will inspire you to take charge and move forward with purpose.
🔥 Watch till the end (13:59) — one mindset shift can change everything!
⏱️ Timestamps
00:00 – Introduction: Stop Making Excuses
01:10 – Why Accountability Matters
03:05 – Taking Ownership of Your Actions
05:45 – Turning Mistakes into Growth
08:20 – Building Trust Through Responsibility
11:10 – Simon’s Final Words of Wisdom
13:59 – End
Disclaimer
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00:00Take accountability for your actions.
00:03You can take all the credit in the world for the things that you do right,
00:07as long as you also take responsibility for the things you do wrong.
00:11It must be a balanced equation.
00:16In the 18th century, there was something that spread across Europe
00:22and eventually made its way to America called puerple fever,
00:25also known as the black death of childbed.
00:28Basically, what was happening is women were giving birth
00:32and they would die within 48 hours after giving birth.
00:37This black death of childbirth was the ravage of Europe
00:40and it got worse and worse and worse over the course of over a century.
00:45In some hospitals, it was as high as 70% of women who gave birth
00:51who would die as a result of giving birth.
00:54But this was the Renaissance.
00:55This was the time of empirical data and science
00:59and we had thrown away things like tradition and mysticism.
01:02These were men of science.
01:03These were doctors.
01:05And these doctors and men of science wanted to study
01:08and try and find the reason for this black death of childbed.
01:11And so they got to work studying
01:13and they would study the corpses of the women who had died.
01:16And in the morning, they would conduct autopsies
01:18and then in the afternoon, they would go and deliver babies
01:21and finish their rounds.
01:23And it wasn't until somewhere in the mid-1800s
01:25that Dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes,
01:28father of Supreme Court Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes,
01:32realized that all of these doctors who were conducting autopsies in the morning
01:35weren't washing their hands before they delivered babies in the afternoon.
01:40And he pointed it out and said,
01:43Guys, you're the problem.
01:46And they ignored him and called him crazy for 30 years.
01:51Until finally, somebody realized
01:54that if they simply washed their hands,
01:57it would go away.
01:58And that's exactly what happened.
02:00When they started sterilizing their instruments and washing their hands,
02:03the black death of childbed disappeared.
02:05My point is, the lesson here is,
02:09sometimes you're the problem.
02:12Take accountability for your actions.
02:14You can take all the credit in the world
02:16for the things that you do right,
02:18as long as you also take responsibility
02:20for the things you do wrong.
02:22It must be a balanced equation.
02:24You don't get it one way and not the other.
02:26You get to take credit when you also take accountability.
02:30Nelson Mandela is a particularly special case study
02:33in the leadership world.
02:35because he is universally regarded as a great leader.
02:39He was actually the son of a tribal chief.
02:42And he was asked one day,
02:44How did you learn to be a great leader?
02:46And he responded that he would go with his father to tribal meetings.
02:51And he remembers two things
02:52when his father would meet with other elders.
02:55One, they would always sit in a circle.
02:59And two, his father was always the last to speak.
03:03You will be told your whole life that you need to learn to listen.
03:07I would say that you need to learn to be the last to speak.
03:10I see it in boardrooms every day of the week.
03:13Even people who consider themselves good leaders,
03:15who may actually be decent leaders,
03:17will walk into a room and say,
03:18Here's the problem.
03:19Here's what I think.
03:19But I'm interested in your opinion.
03:21Let's go around the room.
03:21It's too late.
03:23The skill to hold your opinions to yourself
03:25until everyone has spoken does two things.
03:28One, it gives everybody else the feeling that they have been heard.
03:32It gives everyone else the ability to feel that they have contributed.
03:36And two, you get the benefit of hearing what everybody else has to think
03:40before you render your opinion.
03:41The skill is really to keep your opinions to yourself.
03:45If you agree with somebody, don't nod yes.
03:48If you disagree with somebody, don't nod no.
03:51Simply sit there, take it all in,
03:52and the only thing you're allowed to do is ask questions
03:55so that you can understand what they mean
03:58and why they have the opinion that they have.
04:00You must understand from where they are speaking
04:03why they have the opinion they have,
04:05not just what they are saying.
04:08And at the end, you will get your turn.
04:11It sounds easy.
04:13It's not.
04:14So a friend of mine and I,
04:16we went for a run in Central Park.
04:18The Roadrunners organization,
04:20on the weekends, they host races.
04:22And it's very common at the end of the race,
04:24they'll have a sponsor who will give away something.
04:27Apples or bagels or something.
04:29And on this particular day,
04:30when we got to the end of the run,
04:31there were some free bagels.
04:33And they had picnic tables set up.
04:36And on one side was a group of volunteers.
04:38On the table were boxes of bagels.
04:40And on the other side was a long line of runners
04:43waiting to get their free bagel.
04:45So I said to my friend, let's get a bagel.
04:48And he looked at me and said,
04:50ah, that line's too long.
04:51And I said, free bagel.
04:54And he said, I don't want to wait in line.
04:58And I was like, free bagel.
05:01And he says, nah, it's too long.
05:04And that's when I realized that there's two ways to see the world.
05:07Some people see the thing that they want,
05:10and some people see the thing that prevents them
05:12from getting the thing that they want.
05:14I could only see the bagels.
05:16He could only see the line.
05:17All the great leaders,
05:19everybody from Martin Luther King to Steve Jobs,
05:21every single one of them,
05:22those with the capacity to inspire,
05:24they will think, act, and communicate the exact same way.
05:27And it's the complete opposite to the rest of us.
05:29Where the rest of us start with what we do,
05:31these great leaders,
05:32those with the capacity to inspire and lead great change,
05:34all of them always start with why they do what they do.
05:38Every single organization on the planet,
05:40even our own careers,
05:41always function on three levels.
05:42What we do, how we do it, and why we do it.
05:44What we do are the products we make,
05:45the services we offer,
05:46the things we sell.
05:47How we do it are those,
05:49whether you call it your unique selling proposition,
05:51or your proprietary process,
05:52or whatever you want to call it.
05:53It's the things that you think make you different or special
05:55or stand out from the crowd.
05:57But it's this concept of why we do what we do,
05:58this purpose, cause, or belief
06:00that drives every one of us.
06:01Why the company exists in the first place.
06:03We don't need another one of whatever you're selling.
06:05You know, there's plenty.
06:06But why do we need you?
06:08And it's not because of how you do it differently
06:09or what you do.
06:10There's something deeper there.
06:11It was the very reason why the company was formed.
06:13When organizations start with why,
06:14the response they will get
06:15from people who believe what they believe
06:17will be visceral.
06:18It will be deeply personal
06:19and in the emotional part of the brain.
06:20It will be hard for people to explain
06:22why they are so drawn to Southwest Airlines
06:24or Harley Davidson or Apple.
06:26They'll talk about,
06:26oh, it's the design,
06:27it's the quality,
06:28it's the service.
06:29But in the reality,
06:30it's deeper than that.
06:31It's in the part of the brain
06:32that controls behavior,
06:33but not language.
06:34The best they can sum up is,
06:35I don't know, I just love it.
06:36But the reality is,
06:37it actually is one of the things
06:38that helps them define who they are.
06:40Apple is able to inspire loyalty
06:41amongst customers and employees
06:43and shareholders for that matter
06:44because the way they view themselves
06:46is different than the way
06:46most other computer companies view themselves.
06:48Most other computer companies
06:49define themselves by what they do.
06:51They make computers
06:51and everything they try to do
06:53is in an effort to improve upon that thing.
06:55Add more RAM,
06:55add more speed,
06:56make it blue.
06:57Apple defines themselves
06:58by why they exist,
06:59to challenge the status quo.
07:01You know, power to the individual,
07:02think different.
07:02And everything they say
07:03and everything they do
07:04is to advance that idea.
07:06So in the mid-1980s,
07:08a theologian named James Carsey
07:09wrote this little book
07:10called Finite and Infinite Games
07:12in which he defines
07:13these two kinds of games.
07:14Finite games,
07:15which have known players,
07:16fixed rules,
07:17and agreed upon objectives.
07:19There's always a beginning,
07:20a middle, and an end.
07:21The objective is to win the game.
07:22And then there's infinite games.
07:23Infinite games are defined
07:25as known and unknown players.
07:27You don't necessarily know
07:28who all the other players are.
07:29The rules are changeable.
07:30Play however you want.
07:31And the objective is
07:32to perpetuate the game,
07:33to stay in the game
07:34as long as possible.
07:35We are players
07:35in multiple infinite games
07:37every day of our lives.
07:38There's no such thing
07:39as being the winner in the merit.
07:40There's no such thing
07:41as winning global politics.
07:43And there's definitely
07:43no such thing
07:44as winning business.
07:45Finite mindset is
07:46everything is about
07:47this transaction,
07:48this listing.
07:49An infinite mindset is
07:50I may win or lose this game.
07:52I may win or lose this transaction,
07:53and there'll be another one.
07:54And another one.
07:54And another one.
07:55And the goal is not
07:57to win this one.
07:58The goal is to be better
07:59and better and better
08:00and better.
08:01Let me give you
08:02a real-life example
08:02that sheds some light
08:04on what I'm talking about.
08:05I spoke at an education summit
08:08at Microsoft.
08:09I also spoke at
08:11an education summit
08:12at Apple.
08:13At the Microsoft summit,
08:15the vast majority
08:16of the executives
08:17spent the vast majority
08:18of their presentations
08:19talking about
08:20how to beat Apple.
08:21At the Apple summit,
08:22100% of the executives
08:25spent 100%
08:26of their presentations
08:27talking about
08:28how to help teachers teach
08:29and how to help students learn.
08:30One was obsessed
08:31with where they were going.
08:33The other one was obsessed
08:34with their competition.
08:35At the end of my talk
08:36at Microsoft,
08:37they gave me a gift.
08:38They gave me the new Zoom
08:39when it was a thing.
08:40This was Microsoft's response
08:42to the iPod.
08:43And this little piece
08:44of technology
08:44was absolutely incredible.
08:47It was beautifully designed.
08:49The user interface
08:50was intuitive
08:50and very simple to use.
08:51It was really brilliant,
08:53I have to say.
08:54So at the end
08:55of my Apple talk,
08:56I was sharing a taxi
08:57with a very senior
08:57Apple executive
08:58and I decided
08:59to stir the pot.
08:59I couldn't help myself.
09:00I turned to him
09:01and I said,
09:01you know,
09:02Microsoft gave me
09:03their new Zoom
09:04and it is so much better
09:06than your iPod Touch.
09:09To which he said,
09:10I have no doubt.
09:13And the conversation
09:13was over.
09:14Because the infinite player
09:15understands
09:16sometimes your competitor
09:18has the better product
09:19and sometimes
09:19you have the better product.
09:20And sometimes you're ahead
09:22and sometimes you're behind.
09:24But there's no such thing
09:25as best or first
09:26or beating your competition.
09:28There's only ahead
09:29and behind.
09:31And the reality
09:32of an infinite game
09:33is you're actually
09:33only competing
09:34against yourself.
09:36That the objective
09:36every single day
09:37is how do we become
09:38a better version
09:39of our own institution
09:40this year
09:41than we were last year?
09:42How do we improve
09:42the quality of our culture?
09:44How do we improve
09:44the quality of the way
09:45we provide the service
09:46that we claim to be providing?
09:48How do we improve ourselves?
09:49That is the main point
09:50of being an infinite game.
09:51Because at the end of the day,
09:53we don't have the same metrics
09:54as everybody else.
09:55And we're not even necessarily
09:56playing to the same ends.
09:57We've all had the experience
09:58where one of our colleagues
09:59got a promotion
10:00and we got upset.
10:01We got angry.
10:02We got angry
10:03at somebody else's success.
10:04Think about that for a second.
10:06Why couldn't we share
10:06in the joy?
10:07Right?
10:07What is it about them
10:08that's being revealed in us?
10:10That's the problem.
10:11Comparison is the deadliest thing
10:13we can do to ourselves
10:14because we will always
10:15come up short.
10:16All it does is exaggerate
10:17all of our insecurities.
10:18It's fun and exciting
10:20to try and beat our competitors.
10:21But to have to face
10:23our own weaknesses every day?
10:25That's exhausting.
10:26It's much easier
10:27to direct all of that discomfort
10:29and anxiety we have
10:30about competitions
10:31and our weaknesses
10:31at others.
10:33But the problem is
10:34if we become so obsessed
10:34at winning,
10:35sometimes we do things
10:36that are quite unethical.
10:38It's like being a runner
10:38in a race
10:39when we're obsessed
10:39with winning in a race.
10:41We may trip the other runner.
10:42We may trip the other competitor.
10:43And yes,
10:44we will win the race,
10:45but we're still a slow runner.
10:46And the problem is
10:47in this infinite game,
10:48there's another race,
10:48another race,
10:49another race,
10:50and it never ends.
10:51When we have competitors
10:52in business,
10:52we adopt this mindset
10:54of needing to win
10:54or needing to beat them.
10:55The problem is
10:56this is not a finite game.
10:57There's no such thing
10:58as winning.
10:59A worthy rival
11:00is another player
11:01in the game
11:02that is worthy
11:03of comparison,
11:05that in some way,
11:06shape, or form
11:06reveals to you
11:07weaknesses that you have
11:08that are opportunities
11:09for you to work
11:11to improve yourself.
11:12You get to pick
11:14your own worthy rivals.
11:15You can have many of them.
11:16They can be entire companies.
11:18They can be individuals.
11:19They don't even have to be
11:19in your industry.
11:21But there are people
11:21that you respect.
11:22You don't have to like them,
11:23but you respect
11:24that they are better
11:25at things than you are,
11:26and it shows you
11:27where your opportunities
11:29to improve are.
11:31And remember,
11:31in the infinite game,
11:32the only true competitor
11:33is yourself.
11:33And if the game
11:35of an infinite mindset,
11:36if playing with
11:36an infinite mindset
11:37is a game
11:38of constant improvement,
11:40what better way
11:40to discover your weaknesses
11:41than from those
11:43who are better
11:44than us
11:44at so many things?
11:46To be organized
11:47for the infinite game,
11:48it takes courage
11:49because we're going
11:50to be swimming upstream
11:50in a world
11:51that is very finite-driven.
11:52And it is incredibly difficult
11:54to have the courage
11:55to stand up
11:56to all of the pressures
11:57in our lives
11:58that are telling us
11:58to stay finite,
12:00to advance ourselves
12:01beyond others,
12:02to make as much money
12:03this year as possible,
12:04to be the best,
12:05to be number one
12:05in all these artificial rankings
12:07with arbitrary ratings
12:08and arbitrary time frames.
12:09You know,
12:10the pressures on us
12:10are overwhelming
12:11from Wall Street
12:12or our own egos
12:13or from internal
12:14incentive structures
12:14or our bosses,
12:16whatever it is.
12:17The pressures are overwhelming
12:18for us to play
12:18the finite game.
12:20And so how do you
12:20stand up to
12:21a massive external pressure?
12:23Carriage.
12:24And courage is something
12:25that comes from relationships.
12:27You know,
12:27it's external.
12:28The absolute confidence
12:29that someone will be there
12:30for you in a time of need
12:31is what gives us courage
12:32to be there for other people
12:33when they need it.
12:35There are days
12:36we're going to doubt ourselves.
12:37There are days
12:37we're going to get
12:38knocked on our ass.
12:39There are days
12:39that storms are going to rise
12:41and we have to have people
12:42who say,
12:43I got your back.
12:45You need to do this.
12:46We need you.
12:47The world needs this.
12:48Keep going.
12:49Which all raises
12:50the very interesting question.
12:52What does it mean
12:52to live an infinite life?
12:54Clearly our lives
12:55are finite,
12:56but life is infinite
12:57and we are simply
12:58the players
12:58in this infinite game.
13:00And in every other
13:01infinite game,
13:02though we don't get
13:03to choose the rules
13:04of the game,
13:05we do get to choose
13:05if we want to play
13:06and we do get to choose
13:07how we want to play it.
13:08In the game of life,
13:09however,
13:09we don't get to choose
13:10if we want to play.
13:11Once you're born,
13:12you're a player.
13:12The only choice we get
13:14is how we want to play.
13:16We can choose
13:17to live our lives
13:18with a finite mindset,
13:18to advance our own careers
13:21at the expense of others,
13:21to try and outdo
13:22all of our friends,
13:23make more money
13:23than everybody else we know
13:25and accumulate
13:25as much power as possible
13:27and when we die,
13:28we leave it all being.
13:30Or we can choose
13:31to live with an infinite mindset,
13:32which is to commit ourselves
13:34to see that those around us rise,
13:36to see that those around us
13:38have experiences
13:38that they cannot get
13:39anywhere else.
13:39and isn't that
13:41sort of the point
13:42of an infinite life?
13:43To leave this world
13:44in better shape
13:44than we found it?
13:45To leave the companies
13:46that we work for
13:46in better shape
13:47than when we started?
13:48To leave our families
13:48stronger and better capable
13:49than they can do
13:51without us?
13:53Isn't that what it means
13:54to live an infinite life?
13:55That we can literally
13:56live on beyond our own lives?