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Married At First Sight UK S10E06
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00:00I don't struggle to meet women
00:02Previously
00:03I just haven't met the right person
00:06Two more single strangers
00:09I'm really ready to find the one
00:11Married at first sight
00:13But Bailey's bravado
00:166'4
00:18There's no way he's 6'4
00:20Fell flat for bride Rebecca
00:22He's putting on like a bit of a show and it worries me
00:25And Devani's negative nature
00:28Everything is so intense and so deep
00:31Prompted a heated heart to heart
00:33The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas
00:36And then like get into bed with you
00:37Hurling them head first into heartbreak
00:40There's trouble in paradise isn't there
00:42Tonight
00:45I know what I want and what I don't want
00:47It has to be right
00:48One more couple says I do
00:50But expectations
00:53I would like to be matched with someone who is
00:56A silver fox
00:57Sense of humour
00:58Are quickly tested
01:00Here's my rose
01:01Oh you're a joker
01:03He's not the silver fox I had
01:06Bailey seeks a more intimate connection
01:11I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you
01:13I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them
01:16That's just a bit too soon for me
01:18And for Julia, Ruth and Devani
01:21Devani and I slept separately
01:23I haven't seen him since
01:24The road to a honeymoon reunion
01:26You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that
01:29Is heading for a dead end
01:31This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go
01:33Oh my god, look at the sea
01:40It looks so beautiful here
01:42In Mauritius, Rebecca and Bailey have arrived on their honeymoon
01:47Look how romantic this is
01:49Nice big bed
01:52Bailey has described himself as an alpha
01:58But I'm not sure
01:59So I want to spend quality time with him on the honeymoon
02:03And to see if he fits into that alpha mould
02:06Cheers
02:10Cheers
02:10Looking at Rebecca, she looks absolutely gorgeous
02:15I'm definitely hoping it progresses
02:16The next step is hopefully getting that little kiss from her
02:19And that will probably make me happiest man right now
02:21When I turn around
02:23That moment seeing you
02:25Let's just say I had a big smile on my face
02:27Oh good
02:28Yeah
02:28So for me, I'll just
02:30I'll say how I feel
02:32Yeah
02:32I am interested in to see if there is that spark
02:34And we can like kind of build on this
02:36I think the pace that we're taking at is nice
02:38I'm just getting to know, yeah
02:39I do feel like we don't need to put pressure on it
02:41We don't need to label anything
02:43Like it just is what it is
02:44We're still like kissing on the cheek level
02:47I don't see the necessity to rush something like that
02:51I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them
02:54And I've only, like it's our first day of our honeymoon
02:56I've only known Bailey for like a matter of hours really
02:59That's just a bit too soon for me
03:09Devani and I slept separately
03:16And I haven't seen him since
03:17He was really mad at what I said
03:20And what happened at the camel ride
03:21And then last night
03:23When we're travelling back to the resort
03:24Devani just started shouting at me out of nowhere
03:26He was coming at me with a lot of energy
03:30One of my deal breakers that I said is
03:32A temper and anger
03:33I've been very clear about that
03:35And there was no need for it
03:37On the way back
03:41I spoke to Julia Ruth about how annoyed I was
03:43I was just coming from a dinner that was very intense
03:45There was a lot of emotions
03:47And I'm feeling like I've been mugged off
03:49And that's something that I'm not standing for in this experiment
03:51I want to be respected
03:52I told him like I just need space
03:56I just need time
03:56We just need to kind of like back off
03:58Just like step away
03:59This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go
04:02As Julia Ruth and Devani's honeymoon hangs in the balance
04:10Back in the UK
04:13Another couple's journey in the experiment
04:16Is about to begin
04:18Wow
04:19Now then, here we go
04:24I wouldn't know how to purposely flirt
04:28I ain't no peacock
04:30Check that out, girls
04:31And they go
04:33My friends would describe me as
04:38Odd
04:38A bit quirky
04:40Unlovable
04:44Verbal diarrhoea
04:46That's my middle name
04:47My approach to life is carpe diem
04:51It's as simple as that
04:52Being 60 doesn't prevent you from doing anything
04:55It's a state of mind
04:57I'm old school
04:57I'm proud of it
05:00Cheers
05:02Recently we went to Ibiza
05:04Champagne
05:06Cocktails
05:07I don't remember the rest
05:09I think you need someone who's really patient
05:14Really understanding
05:15You keep emphasising the word really there
05:17Really
05:18Really
05:19My outlook on life is just positive
05:21Wake up in the morning positive
05:23Ding ding
05:25But positivity is something that you have to learn
05:30It's not a given
05:32My life's been very tough, very checkered
05:38When I was around five year old
05:40My father walked out and left
05:42And disappeared
05:43Forever
05:45I was desperate for a father figure growing up
05:49I had no contact with him
05:52Period
05:53Then 35 years later
05:56I received the phone call
05:57From the good old Salvation Army
05:58We've found your father
06:02Immediately decided the next day to go and visit him
06:07Got to the front door
06:11And walked away
06:15Didn't knock on the door
06:17Unfortunately
06:22The day my son was born he died
06:26I wake up every day
06:39Every day
06:40Regretting that I didn't knock on the door
06:42I think with hindsight
06:45Not having those values
06:47And those teachings from my father
06:49Has affected me in the long run
06:50I think it's certainly affected my marriage
06:56I don't think I knew how to be a husband
06:58I had no yardstick
07:01I had nobody to follow
07:02My experience of marriage has made me very, very cautious
07:07I haven't dated since
07:09So there's been no dating at all?
07:14Zero
07:14Zero
07:14Period
07:15My last relationship was my marriage
07:1815 years ago
07:19I'd love to have made it work
07:22And I just failed
07:22And I feel a little bit of failure for that
07:24And I don't want to go through that failure again
07:26Right
07:27So tell me why now?
07:29I'm always the life and soul of the party
07:31It's like, hey, what do you want to do?
07:33But I'm actually quite lonely inside
07:35So all my children are in a good place
07:39So my job is done
07:41It's my time now
07:42I know that I've got a lot of love to give
07:48But I'm not sure if I've just found the person yet
07:52That's able to bring that out of me
07:55I would love to be matched to somebody positive
08:01Loving
08:03Funny
08:05I think somebody who has a nice, friendly, smiley face
08:10My future wife should bring a lot of fun to the party
08:16Let's have an adventure
08:17I'm Anita
08:23I'm 54
08:24I'm from Durham
08:25Oh my God
08:27I need cue cards, me
08:30I'm a devoted mother of two children
08:35I love being a mum
08:36But also I love being a grandmother as well
08:38Cheers, big ears
08:39Cheers
08:40My grandchildren probably think I'm a little bit wild
08:43I'm always doing something crazy
08:47Whether it's fire eating
08:48Learning to fly a helicopter
08:51Riding motorbikes
08:53Of course I'm the best grandma
08:56My love life
09:02Is non-existent
09:0518 months ago
09:08My whole world was turned upside down
09:11My mum suddenly passed away in November
09:15I got made redundant the week before Christmas
09:18And my partner walked out Christmas Eve
09:21Within six weeks
09:23I felt like I'd lost everything
09:27I was devastated after the relationship broke down
09:36I had no inkling to think that it was going to end
09:43I thought that we wanted the same thing at the end of the road
09:47Obviously he didn't have the same ending as what I wanted
09:51I just sat and cried to be honest
09:54But then I just thought I've got to get up and start planning for the month ahead
10:00So I had something to look forward to
10:02So I started putting a list together of things I've always wanted to try
10:07First on the list was a super club in Ibiza
10:10Had my eyes opened
10:12I got a tattoo from my thigh right up to my ribcage
10:17And breast enlargement
10:19I would like to be matched with someone who is
10:29Silver Fox
10:30Sense of humour
10:32Adventurous
10:34Someone with the same lust for life who I can grow old with
10:38After everything I've been through I still believe in love
10:42Paul and Anita have so much in common
10:48They've both been married before
10:50They both have grown up children
10:52And they both have a wealth of life experience
10:55Good and bad
10:56Absolutely
10:57Anita's been through some tough times
11:00But she's dealt with them by throwing herself into exciting new adventures
11:04Which speaks to her resilience and strength of character
11:07Her optimism and zest for life are qualities that should really excite Paul
11:12And Paul is a real character too
11:14He's a titan in his friendship group
11:16And his humour and sense of fun should really appeal to Anita
11:19But importantly he also brings a steady laid back energy
11:23Which she should find attractive and grounding
11:26They both want a meaningful connection with a partner they can really embrace life with
11:30And of course their shared family values and life experiences
11:34Are things they can use to connect and build strong foundations
11:37I think this is a fantastic match
11:40Anita and Paul
11:42So how are you feeling?
11:53Nervous
11:53Apprehensive
11:55Worried
11:56Jodie is getting ready with me today
11:59She is my daughter-in-law
12:00She will calm my nerves
12:02And I know she'll just be there having my back
12:05So what are you expecting at the end of the aisle?
12:10What was it?
12:11Silver Fox
12:12James Bond
12:13Bear Grylls
12:14And Finney Jones all mixed into one
12:16And funny as well
12:18And yeah
12:19Sence of humour
12:20Yeah
12:20Good crack
12:21I'm hoping for a Silver Fox
12:22But if he's not what I expect
12:26I'll change my mind any time I want
12:28I've got my trainers in the bag
12:29The day has finally arrived
12:36And I'm feeling like an excitable puppy
12:40Hi
12:43Wow
12:44Stunning
12:46Thanks
12:47Well there's only one person I could choose to get ready with me today
12:50And that's my best man
12:51Emily
12:52My beautiful daughter
12:53When you get married and they say
12:55Oh you may kiss the bride
12:57Are you actually going to kiss her?
12:58Well there's certainly been no tongues
12:59Well
12:59Ew
13:00Like this isn't it?
13:03Ew
13:04Please don't
13:05Something like that
13:06TFI
13:07I get you
13:08I get you
13:08Meh
13:09Even if you just find
13:11One little thing of common ground
13:13I think you're alright
13:14I've been waiting for Dad
13:18Just to find somebody
13:19And he just doesn't have anybody
13:20Apart from me
13:21Basically
13:22I know your
13:24Sort of coping mechanism
13:25Is joking
13:27A lot
13:28For someone that doesn't know you
13:31Yeah
13:31It can come across a bit like
13:32Ooh
13:32Yeah but sometimes
13:34Shurer
13:35Gives a bit light heartiness
13:36To the event
13:37Yeah oh definitely
13:38It was a bit tense
13:38Yeah but don't forget
13:40It is a wedding
13:41So maybe keep it a bit
13:43Not too much humour
13:44My Dad's very eccentric
13:47And loud
13:48And gets like verbal diarrhoea
13:50Basically
13:51But hopefully
13:52That won't come out
13:53And hopefully that will stay hidden
13:54I hope she gets past
13:57Sort of the initial
13:58Just blurting out stuff
14:00You hope or you pray
14:01Pray probably
14:02Wow
14:14You look amazing
14:16Oh my god
14:18I actually can't believe
14:21It's now today
14:23It's happening
14:23It's come around so quickly
14:25Standing in the dress
14:26It's bloody real
14:27What are you doing?
14:30What am I doing?
14:32Oh honestly
14:32I just want to get out there now
14:34I just want to meet him
14:35I just want to get to know him
14:36For the last few years
14:38Anita has just been to Helen
14:40And I think she's stayed strong
14:41Throughout it all
14:42I think she just deserves the world now
14:44She really does
14:46I'd really like to have a soul mate
15:08Somebody who gets me
15:10I hope she's happy
15:13With what I've got to offer her
15:15Time will tell
15:18We'll soon find out
15:19Won't we?
15:24Wow
15:24I'm Paul
15:35Hi
15:36How is she?
15:45Is she nervous?
15:46I'm not nervous
15:48I'm ready
15:49Is she a bad timekeeper normally?
15:56She'll be here
15:57My only reservation
16:01Would be like
16:02Can he get serious?
16:03Is he a little bit
16:04Too much of a joker?
16:08Woo!
16:16There's a lot riding on today
16:17I'm not in my 20s or 30s anymore
16:19So this is it
16:20It has to be right
16:22The last two years
16:26I've done a lot of soul searching
16:28I know what I want
16:29And what I don't want now
16:30And I'm ready to find my other half
16:34I'm hoping that he's the one
16:40I'm looking for the missing piece of the jigsaw
16:42Hey, hey, hey
17:10Hello
17:11Wow
17:11You look amazing
17:13Thank you
17:13And Paul
17:17I'm in a deck
17:18Where'd I sign?
17:22Wow
17:23Poing!
17:24First impressions of Paul
17:34He's not the silver fox I had in mind
17:38He's not the type I would typically gravitate to
17:41Hey, hey, hey
17:43You ready?
18:00Erm
18:00Anita and Paul
18:05You're going to make your vows to one another
18:07I've not got my glasses
18:12Yeah, thanks
18:14Right, well here's my vows
18:17Are you ready?
18:18Are you joking?
18:19No, I'm kidding
18:20I want to keep mine short and sweet
18:22Although we've never met
18:26We've been matched for a reason
18:29Yeah
18:29Our love will be built on
18:31Patience
18:32Please
18:34Trust
18:35Respect
18:37And unwavering support for each other
18:39Yeah
18:40I'm looking forward to the journey ahead
18:41And the possibilities
18:42It may bring
18:44One step at a time
18:46We can build a loving
18:47Respectful partnership
18:49Till death is due part
18:51Oh, that's really nice
18:52Can I have my glasses back?
18:55Your print was a bit more than that big
18:57I can't see you
18:58Out of all the people we could have possibly encountered in this world
19:08Here we are today standing together
19:10You and me
19:11Two strangers
19:12Two missing pieces of a jigsaw
19:14And I can't wait to get to know you
19:17So as we embrace this crazy adventure together
19:21United as one
19:22There's no doubt we are going to have moments that feel surreal and overwhelming
19:26But hopefully more that feel amazing and just right
19:29Yeah, nice
19:29With mutual respect, trust and honesty
19:31I'm sure we'll be able to grow together
19:33So, Paul
19:35I will laugh with you
19:37Cry with you
19:38Support you
19:39And definitely surprise you
19:40And hopefully we will both find the happiness
19:43We never knew was missing in our lives
19:44Wow
19:45Well done
19:47And I swear
19:48Anita's vows were nice, weren't they?
19:53There was no GBT there
19:54Not a chance
19:56She probably used a quill in paper
19:59Like I did
20:00By candlelight
20:02Ready?
20:03Oh, yeah
20:04Anita, I give you this ring
20:07Wear it with love and joy
20:09As it has no end
20:11Neither show my love for you
20:12I choose you to be my husband
20:30I give you this ring
20:31Wear it with pride and joy
20:33As it has no end
20:35Neither show my love for you
20:36I choose you to be my husband
20:42This day and forevermore
20:43Oh, easy
20:48We will all be delighted
20:51If you would like to seal your commitment to your marriage
20:53With a kiss
20:54Oh
20:55Oh
20:56Crazy, come on
20:57I'm feeling very relieved
21:02Anita is very attractive
21:04Jack Fox
21:06She looks like she's a battle of laughs
21:09He seems very nice
21:12Seems a bit of a joker
21:13He's not the silver fox I envisioned
21:15But I do want to get to know him
21:18So I'm just gonna wait
21:20See what happens
21:21And hopefully
21:23The attraction part will come later
21:26Oh, God, there's another one
21:36You take that one
21:37I'll protect you, don't worry
21:38Right, back off, son
21:40That's my wife, yeah?
21:41Be over yourself
21:42Bailey and I are now at a point
21:45Where we're really comfortable
21:46In each other's company
21:47But I'm still not sure if he's my type
21:51So the pace that Bailey and I are at
21:54At the moment
21:54Feels absolutely fine for me
21:56Yeah
21:57Come on, son
21:59Let's get some action
22:00Must be on his honeymoon, eh?
22:08Fucking hell
22:09There's tortoises going everywhere
22:11They're having a better time than me
22:13But you don't know
22:13We've still got a bit of time, haven't we?
22:17I would have never imagined falling out with my wife on a honeymoon
22:36Being apart from Julia Ruth today
22:39It was difficult for sure
22:41But I feel like the space was needed
22:46I've reflected
22:48And I feel like there was just a lot of miscommunication
22:51It was a lot of emotions that played a part
22:54I don't want my wife to step away from the marriage
22:59And you don't really get a second chance with a woman like that
23:06But we shall see
23:07Hey
23:10I missed you today
23:30Yesterday was an emotional day
23:35From our previous conversation
23:38At dinner
23:39And then the elevated levels of stress
23:42That she went through the roof
23:43There's just no need for
23:49That situation to happen
23:51Just doing it in the heat of the moment
23:52Mm-mm
23:53There's no need for that
23:55But I do want to apologise for how I approached you
24:02I feel like I came a bit too strong
24:05I just wanted to get things off my chest
24:07But it was the wrong time
24:08And the way I articulated it wasn't the best
24:12So I do understand why we are in this situation
24:15I appreciate that
24:19And I understand that like
24:20It's a lot of emotions to deal with
24:22Next time I just need to just
24:24You know what I mean
24:25Give it some time
24:26100%
24:27Do you forgive me?
24:32It's alright
24:33Baby steps
24:34I feel like it's good to iron
24:36Out and have those things now
24:38But this is the crucial part about relationships
24:40Yeah
24:40We're figuring out each other
24:42That was nice
24:44It does feel like it's got weight and meaning behind it
24:47And it's not just words
24:48I have one other surprise for you
24:51But
24:52It is outside
24:53Okay
24:55Yeah
24:55Yeah
24:57Let's go
24:58I think tonight went well
25:00Obviously going into it was a bit nerve-wracking
25:03But I apologised
25:04So I feel like
25:05We're definitely heading in the right direction
25:07Open your eyes
25:09Okay
25:12Oh
25:14You got the keys
25:16I got the keys
25:17Yeah
25:18I've been writing this for a while
25:20It's just like a little introduction to
25:23Us
25:24Okay
25:25The first time I laid my eyes on you
25:29I turned around
25:31Oh
25:32You made me smile
25:34Don't run away
25:35Don't run away
25:38Don't run away
25:40I'm feeling you
25:42Don't run away
25:44Don't run away
25:46Don't run away
25:48I'm feeling you
25:49I feel like I'm able to appreciate Devon a little bit more
26:08And I think we understand each other's boundaries
26:10And how to communicate with each other
26:11And what we both need
26:12But there is a lot more to still work through
26:16So that's definitely going to be a challenge for us
26:18Thank you for that and sharing with me
26:21Nice
26:21It was beautiful
26:22Yeah
26:23Mm
26:23Hello
26:31Congratulations
26:33I'd like you to try and nuzzle her ear from there if that's okay
26:37What?
26:38No
26:39A bit of like in the crook of her neck there
26:40I'm going to blow it
26:42Are you tickling?
26:42I can't
26:43She's very tickly
26:45Getting the photographs taken
26:49It's a bit too close for comfort
26:51Yeah it's a bit early for that
26:52This is my first top three questions
26:55How many times have you been married?
26:57One
26:57How many children have you got?
26:59Three
26:59Where do you live?
27:01Five miles south of Middlesbrough
27:03Right
27:04That's not too far
27:05Geography wise is good
27:07We've both been married
27:08We've both got children
27:09So hopefully
27:11Got to be some common ground there somewhere
27:14So were you born in Scotland?
27:16Oh I'm jockinese
27:17What?
27:18Jockinese
27:18What?
27:19Oh you better believe it
27:20I dare to leave an arse
27:21He's obviously got a good sense of humour
27:23And that's one of the things I did ask for
27:25Let's get your arm around
27:27Let's get physical
27:28But I think he's going to be one of those people
27:32If it's in here it's going to come out here
27:34Ha ha I got you
27:35I got her
27:36No seriously I've got her
27:38Come on
27:38Obviously I don't know
27:40I've got a lot more to find out about them
27:42But it was a lot
27:44It was really overwhelming
27:45CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:49I need a drink
28:04I thought you were a big one
28:05What did you ask for then?
28:07I asked for Silver Fox
28:09Silver Fox I think so
28:11It's just by DNA Silver Fox
28:13Bit of a beer grill
28:15It's a bit of adventurous
28:16Yeah I like about that
28:17Yeah
28:18Old fashioned values but young at heart
28:20Emily reckons that's one of my failings
28:22Having old fashioned values
28:24Yeah of course she's interested
28:27She'll be interested
28:27Yeah
28:28I think we're maybe two peas in a pod
28:30Jackpot
28:33We have potential in the future my dear
28:35Hi
28:47How are you?
28:48Nice to meet you
28:48Nice to meet you
28:49I'm Rebecca
28:50Nice to meet you
28:51Nice to meet you
28:51Nice to meet you
28:51Some dancers
28:52Yeah
28:52Latin dance
28:53Are you ready for me to
28:55Trodden your toes?
28:56Yeah
28:56Come on
28:57You look lovely
28:59Very lovely
29:00It's saucy dance
29:02Good location
29:03But not used to people
29:04Maybe not fancying me
29:06And it's been so hard to tell
29:07At certain moments
29:08So I'm going to put on the moves
29:09A little bit
29:10Pull her in a bit closer
29:11Show off a bit of my skills
29:12And I'm sure
29:13She'll like that
29:15One, two, three
29:16Five
29:17Five
29:18Five
29:18Five
29:19Five
29:19Five
29:20I've lost my rhythm
29:20Five
29:21One, two, three
29:22You're all right
29:23You're very distracted
29:27Ten, three
29:31Five, six, seven
29:33She's trying to spawn herself
29:34One, three
29:35Oh
29:36You spawned me too
29:37Sorry
29:38I've lost it
29:41You're good, you're good
29:42Fucking freestyle
29:44Oh, this is a bit of me
29:46It's nice feeling that closeness with Bailey
29:52He's huge
29:53He's like a big bear
29:54So it is a nice feeling
29:56When he's got his hands around my waist
29:57He's quite touchy-feely
29:59I'm really starting to see
30:01That alpha side
30:02Come out of Bailey
30:03So today he's been better
30:04This is nice
30:08This is very nice
30:09Do you know
30:10He was actually
30:11This is going to sound so bad
30:13But he was actually better than I thought
30:14Come on, Jim
30:15I feel more comfortable now
30:18With my hands on you
30:19Than off you
30:19Do you know what I mean?
30:20I feel much more comfortable
30:22I feel like today
30:24Probably because of the dance class
30:26Yeah
30:26It's like a physical thing
30:29Isn't it?
30:30You know, like
30:30PDA is
30:31I enjoy it
30:33And I like to know
30:34That somebody who's with me
30:35Like wants to get hold of me
30:37Do you know what I mean?
30:38And I do
30:38Yeah, love grabbing over your hand
30:41Walking about
30:42Having chats with you
30:43And those feelings
30:44Like, I mean, you know
30:45You know, like
30:46I've
30:46Catched a little bit of feelings for you
30:48Do you know what I mean?
30:49It's going in the right way
30:50What?
30:51Well, no, I am
30:52Well, you must be able to feel it
30:53Do you know what I mean?
30:54Like
30:54I like speaking to you
30:56Getting to know you
30:57Do you know what I mean?
30:57But I feel like for me
30:58It's happening a bit like
30:59I like speaking to you
30:59And getting to know you too
31:00Like, I really do
31:01I don't think there's anyone
31:03I'd rather be here with you
31:05Than you
31:05You're very cute tonight
31:07What he said
31:09About catching feels
31:11That vulnerability
31:12Brings you closer
31:13It was nice to hear
31:14I think we both find
31:16Each other attractive
31:17I do think things are progressing
31:19In the right way
31:21Congratulations, Paul
31:31Definitely punching, though
31:32Do you reckon?
31:33100%
31:34You're punching above your weight, man
31:35She's not attracted to last
31:36I don't think she is
31:37A real priest
31:38Is an order to last
31:39Is there a bit of chemistry
31:40Chemistry there, is there?
31:42There's a bit of biology
31:42Coming on
31:43Oh, there's some biology
31:45How are you feeling?
31:48Still a bit nervous
31:48To be honest
31:49Yes
31:50It's overwhelming, isn't it?
31:51It's like
31:51Obviously there's going to be
31:53A lot of laughs
31:54Yeah, definitely
31:56Honestly, I love that
31:57Because he's
31:58He can be serious
31:59But he loves a laugh
32:00He just wants to have fun
32:02Literally
32:02Sometimes it comes across
32:04The wrong way
32:04When he says something
32:06Yeah
32:06And if you're willing to be a bit
32:08Patience
32:09Yeah
32:10Yeah, a bit of patience
32:11Yeah
32:11You know what I mean?
32:12Yeah
32:12There's a lot of the boxes ticked
32:14Yeah
32:14So
32:14And it's an experiment
32:15So we're just going to have to trust the process
32:17And see what happens
32:18Yeah
32:18Yeah
32:19I'm just going to stick with it
32:20Yeah
32:20Give it 100%
32:21Yeah
32:22I really like Emily
32:23Very protective of her dad
32:25And she just said to bear with him
32:27For maybe the silly things that he does come out with
32:29Hopefully the jokes and the nervous energy
32:32There's a mask
32:33And I think I just need to get to know him a little bit more
32:36Hooray
32:37Ah, seat last
32:47Emily, she's very nice
32:51She's very protective of you
32:52Is she?
32:54Yeah
32:54Oh, that's interesting
32:55She knows you best, doesn't she?
32:56She knows that kind of
32:57The jokey nervous energy is kind of a mask
33:01Of course it is
33:02Yeah
33:03I think a couple of times I've been in deep
33:05You know
33:06Relationship-wise
33:07And it's not been the best outcome
33:09And I kind of want to bear it all
33:11But very kindly
33:12Yeah
33:13So what are you expecting
33:16From this marriage then, Paul?
33:19I'm expecting mutual respect
33:20To rest with
33:22Yeah
33:22I think we've got to have each other's back
33:24I think that's quite important
33:26Because there'll be some
33:27I think there'll be some tough times here and there
33:29He seems like a genuine, lovely
33:32Person
33:33But I'm struggling with the attraction part
33:36So I think talking and being honest and being open
33:40Is going to be the only way forward for me and him
33:43We seem to be cut from the same cloth
33:46In respect of that respect thing
33:48And that kind of
33:49A bit old school
33:50Well that's what I'm hoping from the marriage
33:52A little bit of trust
33:53Yeah, that'd be nice
33:54Respect
33:55Honesty
33:55Good one
33:57Yeah
33:57I'm just going to take one day as it comes
34:00Yeah
34:00Yeah, go with the flow
34:02And just try and enjoy it
34:03I'm feeling super duper pleased
34:14I feel relieved that she thinks I'm something she can get on with
34:17And build with
34:18It's been a little bit of a mixture of funny and serious today
34:23I think the laughs have covered a lot of nerves
34:26For this marriage to work
34:28I think we've got a lot of common ground
34:29But I do think we've got a lot of work going forward
34:32Felt like we got closer yesterday
34:49Did you?
34:50Mm-hmm
34:50There has been slight progression
34:54Bailey and I did kiss last night
34:57I think yesterday was my favourite day actually
35:04Yeah
35:04Had a little kiss for the first time
35:06Which was nice
35:07I think the cheek's firmly gone away now
35:10Those kisses have progressed
35:11Definitely a bit more my style
35:14Look at the size of the waves
35:19It is looking worse and worse
35:20They've literally just put a letter through the door
35:22Let's see
35:23It's about this weather
35:25Right, so class
35:26Three cyclone warning
35:28Fucking hell
35:29Oh my god
35:30For your safety
35:32Any movement outside the resort is strictly prohibited
35:35Please do not leave your room
35:36Unless absolutely necessary
35:38I'm sure we can figure out a few things to do
35:40Yeah, we're going to have to entertain ourselves then
35:41Yeah
35:42If we're in all day
35:43Maybe we can progress on last night a little bit
35:45I feel like the time will go really quick for us
35:48Yeah, we can just sit in all day
35:50Get a bit closer
35:50Yeah
35:56How nice is this?
35:58It looks actually beautiful
36:01Can't wait to get changed and
36:04Oh, if it goes to naked
36:05No
36:05Paul is talkative
36:09He hasn't switched off yet
36:10Oh
36:11I don't know if it's nerves or whether that is truly poor
36:16Have a smell
36:16So the next few days is going to be pretty crucial
36:21The swans together
36:23You've got to be careful about the swans because they look all grey so but underneath they're going
36:27I feel fantastic after arriving, settling in, seeing our beautiful suite, I feel really good
36:34Oh, it's all right actually
36:36Paul is loud, he's brash, but that could be a mask
36:40So I'm looking forward to getting to know the real Paul
36:42But at the minute it's a lot, a lot for me
36:45Because of the cyclone, the restaurants are all closed in the hotel tonight
37:01So Bailey has told me to get dressed up and he's going to sort it
37:05Hello, Trouble
37:08How's it going?
37:09Oh, Bailey, this is so nice
37:11Boy do good
37:12It's so nice to see him be really romantic and gentle and go to loads of effort for the date
37:17You look bloody lovely, by the way
37:19Thank you, you look nice too
37:20Cheers
37:21So, is this what you do for all of your first dates?
37:26No, only for you
37:27Am I right in saying we've both really had one really significant relationship?
37:35No, I've had a couple
37:36Yeah, obviously most recent speakers for me, yeah, because it was the longest
37:40What happened then?
37:41I don't know, we kind of grew apart, I think, yeah
37:43So it's hard, isn't it?
37:45Because when you've got a child, like, I think it gives that different dynamic
37:47You look at your relationships a bit different
37:49I think Bluebell's always kind of in the forefront of my mind, so
37:53Yeah, of course
37:54Yeah
37:54Do you think, like, you would definitely want to have children again in the future?
37:59That's what I want
38:00Yeah
38:01Yeah, but I'd have to be short
38:02Like, I 100% want to be a mum and 100% know that it's in my future
38:08Yeah, and I would have to be with someone who would want to do that too
38:11I want a big family
38:12I want loads of kids, yeah
38:14I love being a dad
38:16Yeah
38:16Honestly, I love being a dad
38:18It's definitely the most important thing that brings me the most happiness is being a father
38:22So, yeah, definitely
38:23It's so nice to hear that Bailey does want to be a father again in the future
38:28And he knows how important that is to me
38:31So, it's something that we're on the same page with
38:34I'm just really enjoying getting close, yeah
38:36It just feels natural
38:37Do you know what I mean?
38:38It does, yeah
38:38And share a few little kisses, which is nice
38:41I've moved past the cheek stage now, haven't I?
38:43Yeah, no more cheeks, yeah?
38:45No more cheeks
38:46You're a good kisser as well
38:48Why are you getting all shy now?
38:50I am shy
38:51I am shy
38:52Being locked up inside all day is helping us getting a little bit closer
38:55I'm being respectful
38:57I'm going at Beck's pace
38:58But, yeah, I'm hoping this cyclone gets the train moving a little bit, though
39:01Let me get this here
39:11Oh, thank you
39:12Come on, madam
39:13Thank you
39:14I'm going to pull it away
39:15Whoosh
39:15Whoosh
39:16There's no spark there yet
39:20But he's certainly a gentleman
39:22He's got that bit right
39:24To finally be here
39:25With a beautiful guy
39:26A girl, sorry
39:27Yeah, yeah
39:27Got that wrong around there
39:28But as far as revealing your emotions
39:32And sharing and all of the intimate stuff
39:35I think he struggles with that a little bit
39:37So, have you been in many relationships, Paul?
39:40Like, seriously
39:42Serious ones?
39:42Yeah
39:43Four
39:43Four
39:43Four
39:44You've only been married once
39:46Yeah
39:47And how long were you married?
39:51Six years, five years, six years
39:52I mean, I was married when I was 17
39:54Two children
39:55Divorced by the time I was 22
39:59I didn't lose my virginity
40:00I didn't lose my virginity until I was in my early 20s
40:01I think Paul's trying to be as honest as he possibly can
40:07However, I wish Paul had asked more questions about my life
40:11I've prompted him to talk about his life
40:13And he hasn't delved back
40:15I feel frustrated
40:16Because it feels like he doesn't really want to get to know us
40:19So, why don't you think your past relationships have worked out then?
40:23Well, different ones, different reasons, really
40:25Yeah
40:25Could be a common thread
40:27I've never had a serious relationship for 15 years
40:30Since the divorce
40:31Never
40:32So, you haven't actually had a relationship for 15 years?
40:35No
40:35Crikey
40:37No, I haven't had a girlfriend in 15 years
40:40You haven't had a...
40:42Oh, right
40:42So, not...
40:44Right
40:44So, you actually haven't had a girlfriend for 15 years
40:46Correct
40:47Right
40:48Paul was last in a relationship 15 years ago
40:52It's a very long time to be single
40:54And then all of a sudden be wanting a wife
40:56What does marriage actually mean to you?
40:59To me?
40:59Yeah
40:59I don't know what the template says for marriage
41:02I've not read the book
41:03Tell me, what is...
41:07What am I meant to do?
41:09I'm here to find a husband
41:10But I don't think Paul's ready for marriage
41:13So, feeling a little bit apprehensive
41:16Going forward with a relationship
41:17I'm not sure how that's going to work out, to be honest
41:20But yeah, that's worrying
41:24It does look a bit brighter
41:41Oh yeah, that looks so much better
41:42I think we'll get out and brave it, yeah?
41:44Yeah, amazing
41:44Sound like a plan?
41:45Yeah, let's go
41:46Last night was really cosy
41:47I think the little date, Beck really liked that
41:50The cyclone did help
41:51So, yeah, safe to say
41:53We definitely got a bit closer last night
41:55Bailey is firmly out of the frenzo
42:01And I do feel like the spark has ignited, you know
42:05I think we're going back to the park
42:07I'm going back to the park
42:07I'm going back to the park
42:08I'm going back to the park
42:09I'm going back to the park
42:10I'm going back to the park
42:11Let's go
42:12You ready, lad?
42:18Yee-haw!
42:20Perfect!
42:21Where you going, man?
42:23I think kayaking's an analogy to life
42:31You've got to have good teamwork
42:32We're off, kids
42:33Yee-haw!
42:34I think we stroked well together
42:36Mind you, at some points
42:37We were stroking differently
42:38And going round the circles
42:39That was a challenge, wasn't it?
42:44Yeah, it's a bit windy
42:45That's why, I think
42:46I think the key to a tandem
42:48Is you've got to...
42:50Communication
42:50I think I communicate all the time
42:53Do you know what I don't think I do?
42:54Listen enough
42:55Yeah, maybe
42:57I'm like that
42:57La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la...
42:59It's like white noise, innit?
43:02You're non-stop
43:03I think the experts have...
43:05You see why they've matched us
43:06Oh, definitely
43:07Yeah
43:07For the outgo-ness
43:09The sense a humour
43:11Don't take life too serious
43:13Yeah
43:13But then when it comes to the L word
43:15And the relationship
43:16What word, sorry?
43:17The L word
43:17No, anyway
43:18L word
43:19Oh, right, yeah
43:19Oh, this one?
43:20No, not that one
43:22I think the...
43:23Vì vậy, bạn hãy đều như thế nào
43:24Vì vậy, bạn có thể nhìn thấy mọi người tốt hơn
43:27Phòng em có thể nhìn thấy mọi người tốt hơn
43:28Do you think you've ever been in love?
43:31I'm not really sure what in love means
43:38We joined this experiment
43:40We are married
43:41Uh-huh
43:42So are you actually ready for marriage?
43:44I don't know what not ready is
43:45So therefore I don't know what ready is
43:47You never give one answer
43:49Because I don't know the answers
43:51If I had the answers I'd give you the answers
43:52I don't have the answers
43:54I came on here looking for love
44:00He's even admitted he doesn't know what love is
44:02So it's really hard
44:04To kind of move forward
44:22I'm feeling very good about my final honeymoon dinner
44:28Oh it's unreal
44:29This is so nice
44:30Things with me and Becca are really good
44:32I'm looking forward to a beautiful meal
44:35With very beautiful company
44:36Honestly I'm sitting here
44:38Big smile
44:40Couldn't have asked for anything more
44:42Yeah wouldn't want to do it with anyone else
44:45We are each other's kind of comfort blanket
44:48It's only been a week
44:49But it's a really nice feeling
44:52But also really like
44:52Not vulnerable but a strange feeling
44:54Do you know what I mean?
44:55It is scary
44:57Yeah
44:57I feel like there's a massive spark between us
45:01Don't you?
45:02I do, there is
45:02There is some
45:03Sparky
45:04There's a big one isn't it
45:05There is like a big connection
45:06A big spark
45:07Because of like past relationships
45:10I'm so worried about
45:12Being in a place where like
45:14That spark does die
45:16Yeah
45:16That's why I chased the spark initially
45:19Yeah
45:19I've never gone into anything
45:21That isn't like that
45:22Yeah
45:22So then when we met
45:23And the spark was there
45:24Like the tiniest amount
45:25It's mad now
45:27To be in a position
45:27Where we're like
45:28It's grown
45:29Now it's so deep
45:31It means so much more
45:33Than just like that instant
45:34Like
45:34Yeah
45:34Sexual attraction
45:36Or that instant spark
45:37I wanted to just continue
45:39And just be as like powerful
45:41And energetic
45:42Powerful yeah
45:43We're the powerful couple
45:43I like that
45:44Let me keep it going
45:45Yeah
45:46Power couple
45:47When I first met Bailey
45:51I wasn't sure if he was an alpha
45:53But over the past few days
45:55I see that side to him
45:57He 100% is an alpha man
45:58And today it feels like I've known Bailey for forever
46:04Yes
46:05Fucking beautiful
46:10Look at her
46:11Really beautiful
46:12You look fucking beautiful
46:13One more
46:14Last one
46:15Going home tomorrow
46:25Are we?
46:26Yeah
46:26Back to reality
46:27Well
46:28Back to the apartment
46:29It's more like
46:30Do you know what I'm going to do
46:32For the first two days?
46:34Sleep
46:34Alright
46:35Yeah
46:36What do you think?
46:38Mees and I are getting around
46:39Like a house on fire
46:40I think we've got a good understanding
46:42Of where we're coming from
46:43So hopefully tonight
46:44Could be a perfect end
46:46To a perfect week
46:47You've hardly asked any questions about me
46:52Any particular question you want to ask me about?
46:54No I want you to tell me
46:55I don't want to ask
46:57Do you know what I mean?
46:58I want you to say to me
47:00Well
47:00That's what I think about that
47:02And I don't agree with that
47:04There must be something about me
47:06That you've wondered about though
47:07374 things yeah
47:10Ask is one then
47:11But
47:13Why can't you tell me
47:14Like I tell you
47:15Why can't you open up to me?
47:17Our class now has been interested
47:18I always feel
47:20If people want to tell you
47:21They'll tell you
47:21I struggle sometimes
47:26To understand
47:27Your train of thought
47:29When I ask you questions
47:31It's like
47:33What do you think of love?
47:34I don't know what love is
47:35There's never just kind of like
47:37This is how I feel
47:38Or this is what it is
47:39Can I ask you a question?
47:41Mm-hmm
47:41What is love?
47:44Love is
47:45See the pause?
47:48I can't pray
47:48But you see the pause though?
47:50Yeah yeah
47:50It's not that simple
47:51Right
47:52Well love to me is
47:53All couples in the 80s
47:55Still holding hands
47:56That's what I want
47:57That's affection
47:58Yeah
47:59That's showing love
48:00But what is love?
48:03Just at my age
48:04I need somebody
48:05Who knows what they want
48:07You've actually said
48:08You don't know what love is
48:10You don't know
48:11How you're supposed to be feeling
48:13So why did you want to get married?
48:18I wanted to have a life experience
48:19And take myself out of the comfort zone
48:22Which I've definitely done
48:23So you didn't
48:24You didn't join the experiment
48:26To find love?
48:27I don't know what love is
48:28How can I find something
48:29I don't know what it is?
48:31I think the key word is experiment
48:33I think if you look at
48:35The Google definition
48:35Of an experiment
48:36It's to test something
48:37To see if it works or not
48:38So
48:39If we said earlier
48:41I'm not sure what love is
48:42Then I don't think
48:44I'd join it to find love
48:45I find Paul very frustrating
48:50I really don't know
48:52What he wants
48:53To be honest
48:54I enjoyed that steak
48:58I can't have that bit
49:03Too much
49:04You enjoyed yours by the way
49:05Nah I'm not going to do that
49:08I'm done
49:09I don't know if there's all for the marriage
49:13Truthfully
49:16Don't think there is
49:18Next time
49:29I'm hot
49:30Our newlyweds
49:32Move in together
49:34We're so cute
49:36But for some couples
49:38Exhaust to come in a little bit real now
49:40Domestic harmony
49:42I know your three children's names
49:44Do you know my two
49:46Is short lived
49:47It's crunch time
49:48For me
49:49At the first dinner party
49:54Of the experiment
49:55Oh she's on her own
49:56It's showtime for Dean
50:00Here we are on this mad experiment
50:03Seeing things not in our element
50:04But Sarah serves a scathing review
50:08He has me if I'd ever slept with anyone
50:10He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid
50:13He's like a care bear
50:15That's not a very hot thing to say about your partner
50:18No
50:19And while some are falling head over heels
50:22I've got that like fuzzy feeling in me
50:24Others are falling apart
50:28To apply for future series of Married at First Sight
50:42Go to channel4.com forward slash take part
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