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Welcome to Plathville - Season 7 Episode 4 -
The Proposal
The Proposal
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00:00I'm trying to surprise Lydia for the proposal in two weeks.
00:07Wow, wow.
00:08The wedding day is going to be in three months.
00:12Oh my.
00:13I'm glad you're sitting down for this one.
00:15Are you crazy?
00:18I don't really know him.
00:20I don't really like him.
00:22Why is that?
00:23I just don't like him.
00:25Sorry.
00:26I think the problem is more, he doesn't know me very well.
00:30And that's a hard reality to face.
00:36Lydia's not supposed to know we're here because we are here to witness her engagement today.
00:41I think Ethan's here.
00:43That's lovely, I need him at now.
00:45There's tension between Veronica and my family.
00:47It's tricky to navigate.
00:49Don't do anything before everything happens with Lydia and Zach.
00:53He's going to do anything to not have me like pop off.
01:00So dad and I are going, we're going out together.
01:18Just the two of us.
01:21So right now Lydia thinks that I am taking her out to dinner.
01:25What is actually happening today is we're going to end up at the cabin where Zach is waiting for her to propose to her.
01:33And this is all a surprise and she has remained in the dark about what's really going on.
01:38Zach called me the other day and was just like, he sounded really sad.
01:42And he was like, it's just hit me.
01:44I only have a few months left with you here.
01:47I want to spend as much time with you as I can.
01:49We just want to make the best of the few months I have left here before I move to Colorado.
01:54I mean, I assume I'm going to get married to Colorado, but I'm not.
02:05Dad, I'm ready when you are.
02:07Where is Zach right now?
02:09Let's see, this weekend Zach is at a going away party with one of his friends who's leaving the country for four months.
02:17In Colorado.
02:18In Colorado, yeah.
02:19I just flew in from Colorado.
02:34I picked up the ring and I'm at the cabin to get ready for the proposal.
02:39Lydia does not know I'm here, but we're looking forward to surprising her.
02:44Hi.
02:44Hello.
02:45So you must be Zachary Wiles, huh?
02:48Good to see you, man.
02:49Nice to meet you.
02:50There's so much coming together and I'm meeting Micah and Veronica for the first time, which is so exciting.
02:56I've been wanting to meet the whole family and Micah's the last one.
03:00It'll be good to have the whole Plath family able to join me and some of her friends are going to be there too.
03:07So it's just so surreal.
03:10Thanks for coming down.
03:11Glad you guys could make it.
03:12Up.
03:13Up, yes.
03:14I guess that's fair.
03:14Down and up.
03:15Yeah.
03:16I guess I was coming down from Colorado.
03:20I can't wait to just be hopefully engaged by the end of the day.
03:24I'm pretty confident in her answer, but we don't know yet.
03:28Well, so what's the plan?
03:31I'm kind of, yeah, what's the plan?
03:33Throwing in a pot and stirred together.
03:35Well, we have these roses.
03:36We're going to actually piece them apart to put on like kind of the peninsula leading to me.
03:42And then.
03:43Oh.
03:43Like rose petals?
03:44Mm-hmm.
03:45Like the rose petals.
03:46I've never met somebody the same day they proposed to like a family member.
03:51Bold move.
03:53So basically, they're going to pull up here.
03:56And, but you guys will already be here kind of between the trees.
04:02I'm assuming they'll just drive up right here.
04:03Anything.
04:04It feels like when the substitute teacher is telling you what to do and not one of the souls listening.
04:08Obviously, I'm excited to get a read on him, try to see what I come up with because I've never met him.
04:14And he like feels like just last month met my sister.
04:18The whole family would stand where you guys are and be facing the driveway for when Leah and Barry come in.
04:24And then she would greet you guys.
04:27Obviously, Micah, Veronica, you guys would be surprised.
04:29So show us where you're going to be.
04:31My first impression.
04:33I don't know.
04:34He's, he's an interesting fellow.
04:35But in terms of just visual for her, it might be better if I'm here.
04:41He is really, really particular about everything.
04:43But I'm also thinking here could be good.
04:56Damn, freaking idiot.
04:58From the moment Zach arrived, he was very, very pushy and like, here's how we're going to do everything.
05:07Here's how everyone's going to stand.
05:08Here's what I want you to do, blah, blah, blah.
05:10Everyone can probably come down and follow her and just still watch anyone.
05:13Didn't really care for it.
05:14So you're going to be here when she comes.
05:18Or are you going to be at the end where the chairs are?
05:21I'm thinking about that.
05:23I'm not just giving Lydia a ring.
05:25I'm not just giving her my hand.
05:27I'm, I'm, I'm letting everyone in on this so that she can enjoy it.
05:31And so I think failing to prepare is preparing to fail.
05:35I mean, it seems like down there would look better.
05:38Yeah.
05:39Zach is giving all of us instructions and Ethan, Micah are kind of not paying attention.
05:47Yeah.
05:48So I think having everyone kind of leading into the peninsula just so it's not too tight.
05:53I say we just let it happen today.
05:54And now we just try to give him s**t.
05:58And I'm sure she'll want to just hug me immediately.
06:02Yeah.
06:02So, God, here's the time.
06:06But then it's like more of a moment.
06:08I don't know if, if it like, she probably wants to get to the point, but so that she sees you guys.
06:13Oh, here you go.
06:16Yeah.
06:19Rolling down the hill and knocking somebody over is the sort of thing that my boys would just do, period.
06:27I think Zach is just getting a little taste of what it's like to be in the Plath family.
06:32Is there anything else we need to really set up other than the roses?
06:35Um, we just need to move the chairs.
06:37Yeah.
06:37We want to do that now, I guess.
06:39We could probably do that.
06:40Ethan, go grab a chair.
06:41What the hell are we doing?
06:42We got to follow this freaking idiot.
06:45All of my issues with Zach boil down to two things.
06:50The time frame and the fact that I firmly believe they don't know each other because there's no way that they can.
06:55And so I don't approve of anything going on here.
07:00It's frustrating.
07:00Oh, my God, Ethan.
07:04Oh, he started a fire.
07:05Yeah.
07:06Oh, Ethan.
07:08Hey, Micah.
07:09We can't have it anymore.
07:10It's all on fire.
07:13Ethan, please put this.
07:14Please, Ethan, please don't.
07:17Mom, calm down.
07:18It's okay.
07:19Okay.
07:20Look at all the water.
07:21Yeah, but look at all the pine straw.
07:24I think Ethan didn't mean any wrong by it.
07:28I don't think he was intentionally trying to ruin anything or sabotage anything.
07:31I think he was just going to blow off steam.
07:36Oh, my God.
07:38Which one of them did that?
07:40I think it was your man, not mine for once.
07:41That sounds about right.
07:44Don't you love your children?
07:45Yeah, but I do need you to get the chair, Micah.
07:47I have no idea why they're doing this.
07:54I don't know if there's anger within them that is just wanting to ruin something.
07:59I feel like it's pretty disrespectful, but here we are.
08:04Oh, Ethan's starting another fire.
08:05That's good.
08:06Oh, man, I love fires.
08:08If you want to burn something, can you please do it in the fire pit?
08:11It really makes me nervous.
08:13I'm not burning anything.
08:14I'm seeing friction between Zach and Ethan, almost like a hazing, you know?
08:19Like, maybe he's wanting to see Zach draw a line and a boundary and not put up with stuff.
08:26I mean, I don't know.
08:27There we go.
08:27See, it's smoking.
08:28That means it's almost out.
08:30I don't think we can put it out.
08:34That's the exact spot where I'm proposing to my girlfriend.
08:40And so it's definitely like, oh, my gosh.
08:44It's just a bunch of pine needles?
08:46Yeah.
08:47It would be really good, yeah, if I could get the edge there.
08:50Are you trying to burn the edge of the peninsula so that it's just burned for when Lydia and
08:55are here?
08:56Well, they trim it off.
08:59Mm-hmm.
09:00Oops.
09:01Yeah, can we just put it out, please?
09:03No, I'm going to let it burn.
09:05Why?
09:07Because I want to burn the grass.
09:09Oh, I don't want the grass burned for when I'm proposing.
09:12I was just cleaning up the grass on the edge of the peninsula.
09:17I was going to burn it off and then put some pine straw down.
09:19And I didn't explain to him what I was doing because he was real, like, bossy.
09:23You could maybe say, like, we're going to do this.
09:25I want you guys to do that.
09:26Like, he had, I don't know.
09:27I just never met anybody like him.
09:31Put it out, please.
09:31Because confrontation is necessary, having that be a beautiful location for me to propose
09:38was important to me.
09:40And it wasn't getting any prettier with him burning that fringe.
09:45He very well could be testing me.
09:47I have no idea what his intention was.
09:49But I'm proposing today, no matter if the whole fringe is burned or the whole peninsula
09:55is burned or not, I'm proposing to Lydia.
09:58Well, you can put it out then.
10:00Okay.
10:03off.
10:07I want to go through all the positioning.
10:08So, do we know where Mariah Plath is?
10:14I'm a little bit nervous.
10:16The last time I saw Mike was when I sent him a letter for Veronica.
10:20Off to the cabin to get those towels up.
10:23Okay.
10:24Five minutes out.
10:25Let's go.
10:26All right.
10:26I do have to pee.
10:28Oh, seriously?
10:29Better now than ten minutes from now.
10:31I have to pee, too.
10:38Do you see the audacity that dude has?
10:46I feel like he's going to have a real temper.
10:49You know, he's right there and he can hear me.
10:51I don't like him.
10:52God, I don't like him.
10:55I don't like how he treats other people so far.
10:59I was one shiny, too, honey.
11:00I'm like, calm down.
11:02Zach didn't set a good first impression for a lot of people.
11:05A lot of people, it was the first time he met them.
11:06Ethan and I were like, whoa, why'd he snap at us like that for just lighting a fire?
11:10Ethan loves fire.
11:11Just chill out a little bit.
11:13I still think it's fair that he can just walk in and get Lydia so fast, you know?
11:17Well, he also, like, thinks he calls the shots, which is beyond.
11:20If he talks to me that way, he's going to talk to her like that.
11:24We do need to make sure he's the one for Lydia.
11:26He needs a test to see his true colors.
11:28You know how there's, like, that saying, like, you get the slow internet,
11:31and that's how you know if you're going to marry somebody, how they react to it.
11:34Let's frozzle him up a bit.
11:35Yeah, I totally agree.
11:38Lydia needs to see that side of him, too.
11:40I do feel protective over Lydia.
11:42You know, I feel like an older brother is supposed to be protective.
11:45So I am.
11:45I know Ethan definitely is.
11:47He might be easy to frazzle, because he got frazzled just over the fire on the peninsula.
11:51So I'm not opposed to trying to push his axe buttons and see where he goes.
11:55Veronica thinks we should push his buttons, too.
11:56So she's kind of egging me on.
11:58So what do we do?
11:59You know, maybe light some more fire.
12:01I'm going to go back and light the peninsula on fire again.
12:04Yeah, scorched her.
12:06And then the rose petals will really shine.
12:08You've got to see his personality.
12:11I feel very torn.
12:13I don't like Zach, but my care for Lydia definitely holds me back from doing what I truly want to do to Zach.
12:21Look, I want to throw him in the water so bad.
12:25God.
12:26Okay, well, no comment there.
12:31I'm just counting every minute.
12:33What time is she supposed to get here?
12:34Three-ish.
12:36Oh, okay.
12:36I would have loved to have some of my friends and family here.
12:40It is kind of a quick turnaround thing, so to ask for any of them to join me is kind of an out-of-way venture.
12:48Good to see you guys.
12:50Welcome.
12:51We have the Plath family, a couple of Lydia's friends, Jordan and Mariah, Mariah being her roommate.
12:57And then we have Richard and Darlene.
12:59They're actually our premarital counselors.
13:01And also, Richard will be officiating our wedding.
13:05How are you feeling, Zach?
13:06Good.
13:07Yeah.
13:08Really good.
13:09Boom!
13:10Ready for it.
13:11I know.
13:12I have an idea.
13:14Whatever he says, we don't do.
13:15And we do the opposite.
13:17And then we just have fun.
13:19I'm down.
13:20Ethan, what do you think?
13:22I don't want to ruin Lydia's day.
13:24So I'm thinking of more like talking to him and asking him questions and stuff.
13:31He said after, we'll get a question, a meet-and-greet session with him.
13:36Afterwards.
13:37I didn't know he was a celebrity.
13:40Did you schedule for the meet-and-greet?
13:42No, I didn't know there was a meet-and-greet.
13:46I'll just let him know nicely that before he leaves, that I want to talk to him because
13:52I haven't got to talk to him.
13:56How's that sound, Micah?
13:57I'm done.
13:57I need to talk to Zach soon.
14:03If he is going to marry Lydia and he's going to do it as fast as he wants, then I'm going
14:08to give him a little hell to pay for it, you know?
14:14I do understand where Ethan's coming from.
14:16I mean, I've never been an older brother.
14:17and no one in my family is married, but I told myself when I told Ethan I was just going
14:22to keep an open mind, meet the guy, so I could form my own opinion.
14:26Okay, so I want to go through all the positioning and everything.
14:29So do we know where Mariah Plath is?
14:32Zach is proposing to Lydia today.
14:48From what I know, I think everybody's going to be there.
14:52I'm a little bit nervous.
14:55The last time I saw Micah is when I sent him a letter for Veronica.
14:57I haven't heard anything from either of them since then, so I don't know how it was received.
15:05So you're walking into this event and you have zero idea of anything?
15:09Mm-mm.
15:10I think I do need like a tiny bit more wine then.
15:13Just a little bit.
15:16Do you plan to talk to Veronica at the proposal?
15:22I don't know.
15:23I don't know.
15:23I'm really struggling with all this.
15:24I don't know what to do.
15:26I don't want anything to go south on Lydia's proposal day.
15:30I don't ever want anything to go south.
15:32I don't ever want to deal with confrontation and conflict ever again.
15:37You're on the turn to get back again.
15:39You know, my relationships with my family members are all good.
15:44Like, it's better than it's ever been.
15:47It's just like, um, I'm honestly scared of letting people down again and I just need to have enough confidence in myself to know I'm not going to do that again.
15:59I feel like I've done all the healing that I can do here and I just need a fresh start.
16:05So, in about a month, I'm going to move to Montana.
16:11Um, it'll just be me and Blackjack and grizzly bears and moose or elk or buffalo.
16:19Are you scared?
16:22You know, I have no idea why Montana.
16:26I have no idea what's out there or, like, nothing.
16:30It's still like a whole leap of faith, but also, like, I just got to make this work and I'm going to do it.
16:35You're not going to let your mom with your book?
16:37No!
16:39I just know in my heart I need a fresh start.
16:42I need to just close a lot of chapters here and just move forward.
16:46You should probably get going or you'll miss a proposal.
16:49Yeah.
16:50The sun is about to set, so, um, I should probably head over to off now.
16:56Who wants to do all that small talk anyway?
17:02The girls are going to be down here, so Amber, you'll be over here.
17:06Kim, you can be on that side.
17:07It is very awkward just standing there, like, military style.
17:12Honestly, like, more on this side is not bad.
17:14It gave Bredzilla vibes?
17:33You ready?
17:34Yeah, off to the cabin to get those towels up.
17:37Yeah.
17:39So, to get Lydia to the cabin without her asking, why are we going to the cabin?
17:44We had Kim text me.
17:46The cleaners forgot to leave extra towels that are needed at the cabin for the people who are checking in.
17:52Could you swing by?
17:53They need some towels.
17:55Yeah, I just got the text, too.
17:56Out there.
17:57So, we'll deliver those on our way over to Bainbridge.
18:01Yeah, sounds good.
18:02So far, so good.
18:04Lydia's buying everything.
18:09Okay, so, everyone who just got here want to go through all the positioning and everything.
18:13So, if we can stand in the places so we know where everybody is, that'd be great.
18:17Where should I be?
18:18So, you guys, the girls are going to be down here.
18:20So, Amber, you'll be over here.
18:21This is the first proposal that I've been to like this.
18:25We need a couple more people on this side.
18:27Yeah, because it's always just the guy and the lady, maybe a hidden photographer.
18:30It looks like a freaking redneck wedding gown, dude.
18:33It's like, it's just a proposal.
18:34I don't know what everybody was there for.
18:37Kim, you can be on that side.
18:39Micah and Veronica, you guys can stand here.
18:41You don't have to be on separate sides.
18:43And then lined up like this.
18:45Honestly, like, more on this side is not bad.
18:48It is very awkward just standing there, like, military style.
19:00It gave Bridezilla vibes.
19:02I don't know what that is.
19:04I don't know what Bridezilla is.
19:06Like, when they're getting ready for their wedding, they, like, become very, like, aggressive and angry.
19:11Yeah, like, very chokehold on things.
19:13And it was giving Bridezilla today.
19:18So, you know, Lydia, I'm going to really miss you when you go, as are all of your siblings that are here.
19:28Yeah.
19:30Zach and I are leaning towards moving to Colorado when we get married.
19:33And I'll be honest, it's going to be hard.
19:35Like, just last night, I was driving home and I was just crying, thinking about leaving my family and, like, everything I've known my whole life.
19:43It's going to be a challenge.
19:46Let's go out.
19:47Let's spend some time together because we're not going to have this luxury in a few months.
19:52Um, so, yeah.
20:00Hi, Mariah.
20:01Hi, guys.
20:01I like the all black, all black gang.
20:03Oh, thank you.
20:04Hi, Michael.
20:05Hi.
20:06How are you?
20:06Good.
20:07How are you?
20:07Good.
20:08Good.
20:09Zach, is he getting married already?
20:11Is the wedding actually today?
20:13Good to see you, Mariah.
20:14Good to see you, too.
20:15The last time I saw Mariah was the concert.
20:21It's definitely uncomfortable, but I got to put it all aside, fake it till I make it, and just smile.
20:28And it's already very difficult.
20:30I guess where I'm at with Veronica is sometimes I hurt people, and sometimes that makes me want to run away and not be close with anybody.
20:40And that's how I feel right now.
20:42But Lydia's getting engaged today, and even if I broke my leg, I'd show up.
20:49I'm getting a little hot.
20:50Here, hold on.
20:56You need to take your shoes off.
20:57You're going to help me?
20:58We're going to flash everybody.
21:01Take your shoes off.
21:02There you go.
21:04I was joking around.
21:05I was like, what do I wear?
21:06And Zach was like, bring church clothes.
21:08And I was like, okay.
21:10That's what I'm not going to do.
21:13I don't listen to anybody, never mind a man I've never met.
21:16I am my own mind.
21:17Except it was a little awkward on dressing.
21:21It was a little awkward.
21:22I got stuck on the shoes.
21:23Because you got stuck on her shoes.
21:25You too, huh?
21:27Veronica, take your shoe off.
21:29You're being so uncoordinated.
21:31I think she thought it would be like, oh my gosh, look what she's wearing.
21:35Everyone's going to be paying attention to her, and no one's going to care about their proposal.
21:37It's going to be like, Veronica, what are you wearing?
21:39That's so risky, whatever.
21:41Any questions, anyone?
21:42Are we good?
21:43Okay.
21:44Good stuff.
21:45And I don't think anyone really realized.
21:48And you guys can come right down here, don't they?
21:53Okay, so we're just going to drop these dolls off, and we'll be on our way.
21:58Okay.
21:58Five minutes out.
21:59Five minutes Zach.
22:01Let's go.
22:02All right.
22:03I do have to pee.
22:06Oh, seriously?
22:08Better now than 10 minutes from now.
22:12I have to pee, too.
22:13Yeah.
22:14Run and do it.
22:14I have to go.
22:16Mercy?
22:17I have to go.
22:18Mercy.
22:19Mercy.
22:20Why did Amber and me?
22:23Unbelievable.
22:25I'm not going to try and control 15 people at once.
22:28I know there's a lot going on, and I have to manage what I can control, and I can't control.
22:32And if I can't control it, then what's the use in spending energy on it?
22:37One minute.
22:38One minute.
22:38Everybody in places.
22:40They're on Paracreek.
22:40So, quiet time now.
22:50She's going to say, wait, that's Micah's truck.
22:52What's going on?
23:07What?
23:07Is this Micah's truck?
23:09It looks like Micah's truck.
23:10Let's get out for just a second.
23:16Micah and Veronica?
23:17Oh, my goodness.
23:20Well, hi, guys.
23:22Hi.
23:23Hi.
23:23Hi.
23:24Jordan?
23:27Jordan's here.
23:29Richard's here.
23:30Darlene's here.
23:32Oh, my goodness.
23:37The moment I see Zach, I know exactly why he's here.
23:43And I just, I just can't believe it.
23:50Sorry, Zach.
23:51I can't believe it.
23:53Thank you for coming.
23:55Oh, my goodness.
23:57Oh, my goodness.
23:58Then she hugs every single person.
24:01Hi.
24:03Hi.
24:04I just kept smiling bigger and bigger just because that's totally Lydia.
24:09Like, that's totally her.
24:30Oh, my goodness.
24:32Oh, my goodness.
24:37Lydia Joy Plath.
24:45Um, I could say everything right now, but I'm going to keep it simple.
24:50You are the love of my life, and you are so special to me.
24:55I've been so blessed with the joy of knowing you, and I'm shaking.
25:07Lydia Joy Plath.
25:09Will you marry me?
25:11Oh, I should pull out the ring.
25:13Please say no.
25:26Oh, I'm just going to say yes.
25:28I feel like I'm trapped here.
25:34They all want to pretend that they didn't treat me like s***, and I think that others will treat it this way as well.
25:40Who are you talking about?
25:41Olivia.
25:42Um, I was going to give her a call.
25:44Right now?
25:44Yeah.
25:45On the family farm?
25:46Yeah, why not?
25:47Yeah.
25:47Lydia Joy Plath.
25:59Will you marry me?
26:02Please say no.
26:04Yes.
26:10Yes.
26:11She said yes!
26:29We're engaged.
26:35You and me, engaged.
26:37This is more than I ever imagined in a proposal.
26:41You went above and beyond.
26:45That's gorgeous.
26:49I was just really thrilled that we pulled it off.
26:52I could see that she was genuinely surprised.
26:55She couldn't believe it.
26:57Good job, Bryn.
26:58You did great.
26:59Lydia is just so in love with him, and he's so in love with her, and he came up with this great plan, and it was pulled off really well.
27:09I still am going to take you out for dinner.
27:11We're just postponing that a week.
27:14Okay?
27:15My concern is, if the proposal was this much work, what's the wedding going to be like?
27:25Well, we're not keeping the wedding a surprise, so.
27:27Right, right.
27:28But it's less than three months away.
27:31That's crazy too soon.
27:32Is it less than three months?
27:33Yeah, we've got like 80 days or something like that.
27:35Oh, two months.
27:36And I have a notebook full of things I have to get done before the wedding.
27:42Yeah, there's a long way to go and a short time to get there.
27:48Congrats, Lydia.
27:49Thank you.
27:50It may take me years to warm up to Zach.
27:59It's just all very fast, but I'm happy for her.
28:02I want her to be happy.
28:05Spend time with Zach.
28:07Get to know him.
28:11I'm happy you're happy.
28:14Since there's a little bit of conflict between Veronica and I, and I don't want any of that
28:26coming up on Lydia's special day, I kind of want to get away.
28:31You know, they call that an Irish goodbye.
28:34Is that where people leave because they don't want to be a problem?
28:38Is that where people leave without telling people that they're leaving?
28:41Oh, that, I must be Irish.
28:50Where are you going?
28:52Um, I'm just going to go take a walk, make some calls.
28:57I don't normally find myself hiking in the woods in South Florida.
29:03What can we do?
29:06Cassia, do you want to be one of my bright lights?
29:09Yes.
29:09There's a lot going on.
29:14They all want to pretend that they didn't treat me like s***, and that none of it ever
29:17happened, so I sort of feel bad.
29:20Okay.
29:21I think that others were treated this way as well.
29:25When you say others, who are you talking about?
29:27Olivia.
29:28Um, I was going to give her a call.
29:29Right now?
29:30Yeah.
29:31On the family farm?
29:32Yeah, why not?
29:33I look like a mirror ball today.
29:46Hey.
29:48Hello.
29:49How are you?
29:49Oh, the service?
29:50Oh my God, your hair looks so...
29:51So what is yours?
29:52I just have been dealing with chaos here.
29:55My best friends here are the cows, and that says something.
29:59How are you hanging in there?
30:00The welcome is colder than the weather.
30:03And it's freezing, but Barry and Mariah have been lovely.
30:07She doesn't talk to you in how many months?
30:09Eight?
30:10Yeah.
30:11She's talked about me, though.
30:12She doesn't talk to us, but they do talk about us.
30:17I think you can come.
30:18Just make sure you're not yelling.
30:19Oh yeah, make sure I'm not yelling.
30:20I'm a loud person.
30:21Mercy.
30:22You can be a bridesmaid?
30:23Yeah!
30:26Mercy has been asking, like, for weeks, everyone, like,
30:29do you think I'm old enough to be a bridesmaid?
30:32So.
30:34I had a chat with Ethan, and he told me to forgive them.
30:37I said, well, I have to start apologizing first.
30:40Are you, like, speaking your mind up there?
30:41Are you just, like, staying quiet so you don't get crucified?
30:44A bit of both.
30:45Like, definitely covert, like, snarkiness.
30:48I didn't want to speak to Mariah.
30:49I didn't want to, like, ruin her engagement.
30:51But I also threw in, like, some sass.
30:55The family has a complete social structure of a high school.
30:59They just don't know it because they don't go to high school.
31:03You have your brainless jocks.
31:05You have the nerds.
31:07You have the young kids.
31:09You have a social outcast.
31:10You have the pariahs.
31:11And you have Veronica and Olivia.
31:13Like, under the pyramid, in, like, a mud chamber they put us in.
31:19Amber?
31:20Yeah?
31:21Be a flower girl.
31:22Would you?
31:24I would love to be a flower girl.
31:26Would you do the honors of being my maid of honor?
31:29Lydia!
31:30Lydia!
31:32Lydia!
31:32If there's no one else, I'd rather be with you.
31:36I mean...
31:36You've been there.
31:38I...
31:39For me.
31:39I feel like...
31:41I...
31:44Just say yes.
31:46Yeah.
31:47Yes, I guess.
31:48Are you sure?
31:49Because, like, I haven't really.
31:51You have.
31:51I haven't really been.
31:52You have.
31:53That's what you're saying.
31:54I'm very sorry.
31:56I should have warned you when you were driving up there to pack a couple bottles of wine in your suitcase.
32:02Because you were going to need them and you wouldn't be able to buy them.
32:04I feel like I'm trapped here.
32:07I don't want to be in any family event.
32:09Like, I don't want to go to the wedding.
32:10I know the wedding's going to be chaos, though.
32:13Just bring me as your plus one and we can share a drink together.
32:17Yes.
32:19I got to run because they're coming for me.
32:21Talk soon.
32:21Bye.
32:23Bye, girl.
32:23Drive safely.
32:25Have fun.
32:29Well, at least I'm not alone in this woods.
32:32There's so much barbed wire for a friendly farm.
32:40Me and Mike are going to talk to Zach tonight.
32:43Just to feel him out.
32:46Ask him some questions.
32:48See if we can make him crack.
32:51I don't know this guy at all.
32:52I've got many things rolling around in my head that are possible scenarios and I want to rule them out as best I can just because it's so fast.
32:59And I know my dad didn't grill him that hard and I feel like maybe Ethan and I should.
33:04I mean, we all know Lydia's like whole world is in ministry in the church and that's wonderful.
33:10But I don't think that Zach and Lydia were divinely put together by God and there's no one else and it was just destined intended to be.
33:17When in reality, it's just a crush and you're probably making the crush bigger by not kissing or doing anything.
33:23So you're just like...
33:24They don't really know each other.
33:26I mean, I mean, like Lydia said, he's a nice guy.
33:30But I mean, Lydia wouldn't know any better.
33:34Lydia's like the sweetest person ever.
33:37I don't want her to change.
33:39I saw people hurt Mariah and Mariah is a broken person now.
33:44So I don't want to see Lydia get heartbroken at all.
33:48It's a mean, tough world and you don't want to be sucked into something you can avoid.
33:55Hey guys, how's it going?
33:56Hey Zach.
33:57I really am going in with expectations that they're going to ask hard questions and they're here to know every little thing.
34:04When you think of Lydia, what do you feel?
34:08I feel...
34:09I mean, just confident.
34:11Confidence?
34:15What does that mean?
34:17Um, I'm trying to think.
34:19I mean, um...
34:31So, are you ready to talk to Zach?
34:34I mean, there's things that we don't like about him for sure, but I mean, he clearly makes Lydia happy.
34:39Yeah, that's crazy.
34:41Hey guys, how's it going?
34:45Hey Zach.
34:46We were just talking about you.
34:47Yeah.
34:49The proposal was over and Micah and Ethan wanted to have a conversation with me.
34:54I really am going in with expectations that they're going to ask hard questions and they're here to know every little thing.
35:00I just wanted to let you know that as Lydia's bigger brother, I know you make Lydia happy and that's what matters to me.
35:10Yeah.
35:10But if I ever find out that you did anything to hurt her or anything like that, you ever let her down or anything?
35:16Yeah.
35:17No consequences.
35:20Yeah, I mean, I actually would love to hang out and just open up the floor to any questions you guys have or anything.
35:27Why is it so damn fast?
35:31Well, we felt that it was really natural.
35:32We didn't feel like we were forcing anything.
35:35My concern is there's more to lose, in my opinion, than there is to gain by getting married very quickly.
35:45And I just don't want Lydia to be hurt.
35:50Well, since the time we really met and having all the experiences together, I don't know how much you guys know,
35:57when she was out visiting in Colorado, we basically spent every day together.
36:02We hiked like five mountains together and then went skydiving.
36:05There was a lot of time together and a very compressed thing, and so it felt like months had happened in, you know, like a week.
36:15I don't know what psychedelics you're on, but the fact is, you still only spent a week with her, and I don't like it.
36:27Two months is two months, and I don't care enough.
36:29I object.
36:30I object.
36:33My biggest concern is stability, I guess.
36:36Yeah.
36:36Just like, what's work looking like?
36:39I've coached tennis for over a year, and so I have a passion for tennis and a passion.
36:45And for coaching.
36:46And then?
36:47I would love to, I have a passion to own like a coffee shop.
36:53I just want to make sure you're going to be breaking your back for Lydia.
36:56Yeah.
36:57I want Zach to have, you know, a pretty good plan, and I wanted to hear what he wanted to do, what his passions were, what he's done in the past.
37:02Make sure he has a pretty good work ethic.
37:04It's not really what you do for work, it's your hustle.
37:06What do you, like, when you're with Lydia, when you think of Lydia, what do you, what do you feel?
37:12I feel...
37:15She, I mean, just confident.
37:21Confidence?
37:24What does that mean?
37:25Um, I guess I'm just, it's hard to put into words because there's so many.
37:35I would, I'm trying to think, let me, um.
37:40Well, the reason why I ask is because, so you guys are saving your, your first kiss for your wedding.
37:46Yeah.
37:46How do you do that?
37:49Yeah, it's, it's not, it's not anything I expected to make a commitment to, but because of who Lydia is, it changed my heart and was like, yeah, no, that's something I really do want to commit to, to honor her.
38:04Because I just, I couldn't do that, and I don't know who could.
38:08I was expecting, like, we said that we're going to save our first kiss, but, you know, if I'm being completely honest, I kind of, I really want to.
38:14I was looking for some answers, some more along the lines of things I've experienced in the past with women.
38:22A lot of that's tied to the core belief that we do have in Jesus Christ and through the Spirit.
38:27So, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
38:34It's in the Bible.
38:35But, I don't think it's honest to say I'm not kissing her because, you know, of the fruit of the loom or the seven fruit.
38:44of whatever.
38:46F*** off, you big holy bastard.
38:48It's like, I think that's a bull**** answer.
38:52Our faith is very important, and kind of building our relationship off of that foundation was kind of big for us.
38:59Mm-hmm.
39:00Something, I, dude, I've kissed someone before, and I was like, totally like, yeah, I'm okay with kissing again.
39:07But then meeting her, I want to show her other ways of my love for her instead of just touching her butt or whatever.
39:14I don't know.
39:15So.
39:16Mm-hmm.
39:16Yeah, but I feel like you don't get to know half of a person if you don't know that side of them.
39:22I don't know.
39:22I guess that might just be me.
39:23Yeah, it's hard, for sure.
39:26I bet it is.
39:29Yeah, I just want to make sure that there's actually a physical compatibility and passion for each other, you know?
39:35Absolutely, yeah.
39:36I want to make sure you have that.
39:38When Ethan asks if I have a passion or a yearning for Lydia, I absolutely do.
39:44I just have understood in my previous relationships that it has become a distraction for me.
39:51I've seen physical intimacy get in the way of truly getting to know someone, and so we're doing it differently.
39:59So do you want to kiss her?
40:01Yeah, but I know that's not, that's not everything.
40:06I've never in my life met a straight man who voluntarily gives up the opportunity to be intimate with a woman.
40:14Kissing, making out, just, you know, everything.
40:17It just doesn't compute in my own mind, especially as a young man, I mean.
40:24I mean, everything that you and Lydia have said is great and sounds amazing, but I've got to ask you.
40:29Yeah.
40:33Are you gay?
40:36Okay, here we go.
40:49I'm sorry.
40:50I'm sorry.
40:51I can't talk about this.
40:52It was so gross.
40:56Your sister lies about me.
40:58Like, I know what happened.
41:00I know what I've seen.
41:01But I also think you build up everything in your head, and you exaggerate sometimes, or you interpret things the wrong way.
41:07I don't get why she's talking trash about my family.
41:10That just doesn't make sense.
41:12I feel like I'm so lost.
41:13I don't know what to do.
41:14I love Veronica, and I want nothing more than to make things work, but I wanted to let you know that she did reach out to Olivia.
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