00:00So I would ask him for money for stuff.
00:02Obviously, being the stay-at-home mom, I have years of debt from when we would not be together
00:07and I had to scrounge up money for myself.
00:10So most of that debt is mine.
00:12She has to ask for money, but it's not like a permission thing.
00:14It's, hey, I need money for this.
00:16Okay, here.
00:17Why would she have to come to you, though?
00:19You guys aren't legally married.
00:21If we was all together, it would be spent.
00:23You guys wouldn't be able to sit down and do the budget on a monthly basis?
00:25No chance.
00:26I don't even think we can do that.
00:27We were supposed to sit down this last weekend to talk about our stuff for the next coming
00:31week, so I'm not overstressed and we couldn't even do that.
00:34Well, why aren't we communicating anything, guys?
00:37No wonder we've broken up twice.
00:40I know.
00:40I'm just making excuses, but it's easier.
00:43It is easier, but guess what?
00:45It makes it actually harder long-term because this gets worse and worse and worse, and eventually
00:49you do lose the house.
00:50Eventually you do lose the car.
00:51That's what happens to people.
00:53Detroit's not walkable, so you need that car.
00:56Okay.