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00:00Previously on Ready to Love.
00:01This week, you are going to enter into their world
00:04and meet some of their closest friends.
00:06I'm ready.
00:07Here we go.
00:08He had everything I wanted.
00:10Except the call.
00:12I need someone that's also just as stable as I am.
00:15True.
00:15How would this really look?
00:17Are you a touchy person?
00:18I don't think you really are.
00:19I am a touchy person, but I have to have that man
00:22that make me feel like.
00:23All right, you got that man.
00:24My connections now are new, so I'm trying to dig deep
00:26in a short amount of time.
00:28He got options.
00:29I don't think he knows what he wants.
00:31It's kind of hard, because I just
00:32feel like he meshes with y'all really well.
00:35He has to decide.
00:36Choose wisely.
00:38And Naeem has five kids.
00:40Kids ain't going nowhere.
00:41I know.
00:41Can you see yourself in a relationship?
00:43No.
00:44Unfortunately, you are not ready to love.
00:47Sheesh.
00:48I know it took me some time to get to the place
00:52that you wanted me to be.
00:55Oh, but now I'm ready.
00:59I'm ready for love.
01:05You don't want to swap, you don't really want to mob,
01:06you don't want to know your eyes when it comes
01:08to the best.
01:08You ain't never tried, you ain't never tried,
01:10you ain't never tried to survive over time with the best.
01:12You ain't been in for my whole life.
01:14I've been doing this show my whole life.
01:15Will.
01:15Hey.
01:16My man, how you doing, brother?
01:17I'm feeling good, man.
01:18I'm saying.
01:19Fellas, fellas, what's up with y'all?
01:21We're back in the vault with Tommy.
01:22And man, do I need some advice from that brother.
01:24Last week, the ladies put me on a chopping block.
01:26So that really made me feel like, you know,
01:28I got some more digging to do.
01:29I got to make sure that my connections are good.
01:31Uh-huh.
01:33God.
01:34I'm sorry, man, I'm sorry, man.
01:40All right, final five, baby.
01:42Fab five.
01:43Fab five.
01:43There we go.
01:44I just want to take a moment to extend my gratitude to all of y'all.
01:48Because opening yourself up to be judged, man, that ain't easy.
01:53Especially as black men.
01:54Right, right.
01:54Exactly.
01:55OK?
01:56Y'all putting in the work.
01:57That deserved to be recognized.
01:58So come on.
01:59Kudos to yourself.
02:00After you put in some hard work, though,
02:04you have earned some rest and relaxation.
02:07That's what I'm talking about.
02:08So here's what I've decided.
02:09I'm going to send all of you and your lovely ladies on a vacation.
02:15All right.
02:16Yeah, it's time for a ready-to-love getaway.
02:19All right.
02:20I hope y'all ready for some quality time together, man.
02:22Ready, man.
02:23Because listen, when you're going on a trip with somebody special,
02:26this is when you find out what's real.
02:28Mm-hmm.
02:29To get the answers you need, it is right now.
02:31Yeah.
02:32It all comes out in the house.
02:34I want y'all to reach out to the ladies.
02:37Get them all lined up for the getaway.
02:39Make sure you pack your fly PJs, your do-rags, your mouthwash,
02:44drawers.
02:46Whatever you need for this trip, make sure you pack it up.
02:49And I'm going to see y'all out there.
02:50I'm going to come make a business.
02:51All right.
02:52All right.
02:53That's it, man.
02:54Y'all going to do your thing.
02:55All right.
02:55I was excited to go on a trip, but then I remembered
02:58that I have three connections that's all going to be
03:00under one roof now.
03:01I had to figure out how I'm going to split my time
03:03between the three.
03:05So it's going to be crazy, but I'm going to try to manage it
03:08in the best way I can.
03:09Make sure I pack these drawers.
03:13It all comes out in the house.
03:17What you getting into?
03:22What you getting into?
03:23Your ass getting into trouble.
03:25We need a couple days away.
03:27Yeah.
03:28You know what I mean?
03:29Woo!
03:30Crank.
03:31Crank.
03:32Tommy has set up this getaway.
03:34And you know, this process, it has been a lot so far.
03:37So I'm definitely looking at this like a mini vacation.
03:40Hussein said he's skinny dipping.
03:43Woo!
03:44Uh-oh.
03:45Uh-oh.
03:46My plan is to, of course, spend more time
03:49with my strongest connection, which is Hussein,
03:51but still try to get in where I can fit in with Cam.
03:55So going into the house would definitely be interesting.
03:58We out.
04:03You excited to be with me this weekend?
04:04I'm excited to, um, to check your temperature as well.
04:09See how you're going to pull this.
04:11Going into this weekend, it's a very, like, weird spot that I'm in.
04:14Sahara, she's been brought to die since day one.
04:17Angie is growing every day with me, and Rose is still one of my tops.
04:22So I'm definitely going to use this trip.
04:24I need this trip to gain clarity.
04:26It's all right.
04:27I know you're going to stop me this weekend, right?
04:29You beat me in my face the whole time.
04:31It's all right, though.
04:32I like you in my face.
04:34Okay, that's it.
04:35I like you in my face.
04:36All right, let's bet.
04:37I like you in my face.
04:38That's bet.
04:39I like you in my face.
04:40What's up?
04:41You know I'm needing, so give me what I need you.
04:43I do.
04:44I try to.
04:45I think this will be fun, though.
04:46This weekend, Cam needs to show me that it's about me and only me.
04:50He needs to give me more.
04:52I need more time.
04:53I need more energy.
04:54I need more effort.
04:55He has to do more.
04:56He's done nothing.
04:57He's done some things.
04:59I won't say nothing, but it's not enough.
05:02You got a lot of to figure out.
05:06What about you?
05:07I know what I got to do.
05:08Okay, well, do it.
05:09But I don't want you to focus on that.
05:11I want you to focus on us.
05:12You excited for the trip?
05:15I am, yeah.
05:17I'm excited as I'm ever going to be, I guess.
05:20I am nervous about this getaway.
05:22I am going to be in the house with all of these people, all of these different personalities.
05:26And I just know it's going to be some drama.
05:29But keep it cute, you know?
05:31I feel like we had this talk before we came.
05:35I don't know if we did or not.
05:36Oh, you don't know if we did?
05:37I don't know if we did.
05:38We talked about having some decor around.
05:41You are cute, so you are keeping it cute.
05:43Oh, please.
05:46Okay, well, we are going to keep it PG-13.
05:48I mean, should have started coming off.
05:51Sorry.
05:52Not too much.
06:09Hello!
06:10The party who has arrived!
06:14Yes, it is.
06:16Oh, my God.
06:19The house is beautiful.
06:22The windows are from the ceiling to the floor.
06:24Then there's the pool.
06:26So many different rooms.
06:28I'm just blown away.
06:30It's time to unpack and change our clothes, so we can get this party started.
06:34What y'all say?
06:35Unwind, right?
06:36Yeah, it's all fine and romantic.
06:37Let's do that, y'all.
06:38Come on.
06:39No, no, no, no.
06:40Get your head down.
06:41Get your head down.
06:42You don't like to be drunk right now.
06:46I'm going, okay?
06:50I'm trying to find the best room.
06:52Hmm.
06:53Double, double, double, double.
06:56The room?
06:57Where the room's at?
06:58There ain't no room down here.
06:59Where they at?
07:00Oh, no, it is room down here.
07:01Woo!
07:02Khalil!
07:03Time!
07:04Oh, it's lit.
07:05Yeah, it's lit.
07:06Look, Tommy playing us in the house for two days.
07:08I'm like, what the ?
07:10I'm nervous a little bit because I'm still trying to get to know Khalil.
07:15The rest of the guys, that's a great area, so I'm still trying to fill that out.
07:21Oh, they got a sauna?
07:23What's a rat?
07:24I think the women were more anxious to pick out rooms.
07:28I think the fellas were like, we'll just let the chips lay where they fall.
07:31But it just so happened that they approached me and said, you can always room with me.
07:34That was like music to my ears.
07:36Hold on, hold on.
07:37You snoring?
07:38No, do you snoring?
07:40It's so damn weird I snoring.
07:41Where is it, man?
07:42No, what are you going to sleep with over there, then?
07:44What you mean?
07:45Over there.
07:46I like two of you.
07:47I ain't going to lie.
07:48I told you that skinny dipping plan, bro.
07:50I ain't joking.
07:55Hey, hey!
07:57What, what, what?
07:59Come on, man.
08:00This is nice, Tommy.
08:01This is nice.
08:02Tommy, Tommy, Tommy.
08:03What it do?
08:04What's up, Tommy?
08:05Good to see you.
08:06Oh, gather round, gather round.
08:08All right.
08:09Welcome to your luxury getaway.
08:11Thank you for having us.
08:12Yes.
08:13The weather outside is 50-50.
08:15But make your connection 100%, okay?
08:17Ooh.
08:18Ooh.
08:19I like that.
08:20Now, your boy Tommy got y'all a whole ass mansion.
08:22Y'all got your room?
08:23You settle in?
08:24Yes, sir.
08:25Who got the big room?
08:26Tay.
08:27She cheated.
08:28They got the fully loaded.
08:29Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
08:31Hold on, hold on.
08:32Tay raised her hand.
08:33Yes.
08:34But Cisco raised his too.
08:35Cisco!
08:35Good things come to those who wait.
08:40Okay.
08:41And she said, come on through.
08:42Yeah.
08:43Come on through.
08:44Sounds like it's going to be a long weekend.
08:46Yes.
08:47It's going to be like him when I grow up.
08:49Me and Tay, I feel like I was a number two connection and all that.
08:52So it ain't too surprising that they wind up bunking up.
08:54But right now, I'm looking at my connection with Deanna.
08:57I can't tell if we have a romantic connection or if it's more of a friendship.
09:02So I got to figure it out to do because I'm not locked in 100% with nobody at this point in time.
09:07All right.
09:08Some of y'all still got more than one log on the Ready to Love campfire.
09:12Mm.
09:13Gosh.
09:14This getaway is about figuring it out because in the end, there can only be one.
09:21Decisions got to be made.
09:23Yes.
09:24Okay.
09:25This is not Ready to Love polyamory edition.
09:28Oh, yes sir.
09:30Where's Mr. Frisk?
09:31All right, so listen.
09:32I want y'all to have some fun.
09:33But listen, don't break nothing.
09:34All right.
09:35I swear.
09:36I put a deposit down.
09:37I need all my money back.
09:39You know how black people are when they ain't have to put their money down.
09:42All right, we'll catch up with y'all later.
09:45Bye, Tommy.
09:46Bye, Tommy.
09:47Bye, Tommy.
09:48Bye, Tommy.
09:49Hey, we just gonna toast the love.
09:52Break weekend.
09:53Break weekend.
09:54Yes.
09:55Connection.
09:56Cheers, y'all.
09:57I love y'all.
09:58Salute.
09:59Cheers.
10:00Salute.
10:01Okay, so I have a game.
10:03We gonna play rock, paper, scissors, shoot because I have my heavy bag that I need to take to my room.
10:08Okay.
10:10Rock, paper, scissors.
10:16Y'all are crazy, y'all.
10:18Come on.
10:22Y'all are crazy.
10:26I'm not sure how Cam is going to manage all the many connections that he has this weekend.
10:32But Cam told me to focus on myself, so that's what I did.
10:37Well, this is your own Desi.
10:39This is your own Spishy.
10:42Where you at?
10:43Two times.
10:44Two times.
10:45Woo!
10:46Me and Jay definitely connected on a block party.
10:50You a round-the-way girl, but I love a round-the-way girl.
10:53We share a lot of similarities on different subjects.
10:59I like that.
11:00So how are you feeling being in this space?
11:03You know, you got...
11:04With everybody.
11:05You got Kiki.
11:06You feel me?
11:07I feel like you a little nervous.
11:08I ain't nervous.
11:09You chillin'.
11:10Me and Sahara, we real tight.
11:12I don't want to say, like, sister, because that takes away totally of us ever having anything.
11:16But I never stepped over that boundary line with Sahara.
11:19Don't call her bae, but we do things that, you know, might come off to the outside world.
11:23Like, we may be a thing, but right now, at this moment, she's definitely a cool friend.
11:28I'm feeling like, you know, you was a little tense.
11:30Is your hamstring sore?
11:31Oh, but you doing that got me.
11:33I'm about to owe you back.
11:35Yeah.
11:36But I'm going to give you the whole joint.
11:37You got to be naked with the owe you.
11:38Oh, whoa.
11:39All right, we're going to talk about it.
11:41Come on, get back to the neck.
11:43Oh, yeah.
11:44Mm-hmm.
11:45You didn't do it.
11:46I feel better already.
11:47Mm-hmm.
11:48You know how you threaten me with a good time on massage.
11:50Mm-hmm.
11:51That feels great.
11:53That's with the little stress knots and all that.
11:55Damn.
11:56You're going to go down.
11:57Squeeze me.
11:59Oh, that's good.
12:00Oh.
12:02Talk to me.
12:03Nice.
12:04Oh, is that another knot right there?
12:06Yeah, I feel it.
12:07Why you so tight right here?
12:08What you doing?
12:09I'm tense.
12:10Me and Jay's connection was 100% before we even got to the getaway.
12:14So I'm confused.
12:16Like, why is legs being intertwined?
12:20Why is there any physical touch?
12:22And I'm pissed.
12:24Who told you that?
12:26Ooh.
12:28I didn't even know there was a team.
12:29What's going on over there?
12:30Them.
12:31Yeah, I'm confused.
12:32I'm livid, actually.
12:34Jay, you lucky I can't whoop your ass.
12:36I go for the print, too.
12:38Oh, and then it turned into something else.
12:40Have mercy.
12:41Let's see.
12:50What you in here with?
12:51Me by my lonesome.
12:52You ain't in here by yourself.
12:54Me by my lonesome.
12:55You are not in here by yourself.
12:56I really am.
12:57I promise you.
12:58You are?
12:59Yeah.
13:00My connection with Kim at this moment, you know, we're still cool.
13:02We rock and we rolling.
13:03You know, he stepped up his game.
13:04So I got you some shirts.
13:06Aw.
13:07I don't want to overwhelm Kim this weekend because I know he has three connections and I know
13:13what level him and I is one.
13:15I like this one.
13:16You trying to make sure your man look good?
13:17Look at it.
13:18Look at it.
13:19Look at it.
13:20You trying to make sure your man look good?
13:21Listen.
13:22Oh, you're not.
13:23You're going to ignore that, right?
13:24I'm not ignoring it.
13:25It's all right.
13:26I'm not ignoring it.
13:27We can speed pass it.
13:28Sorry.
13:29It's all right.
13:30I don't.
13:31Here's the thing.
13:32We want to make the right decision and there's no, you know, second guessing.
13:36There's no regrets and stuff like that.
13:38Right.
13:39You know what I mean?
13:40That's why I don't get mad or jealous when, you know, you spend time with your other connections
13:44because that's why we're here.
13:46That's true.
13:47I mean, I got it a little bit easier than you because I only got two connections.
13:50You got a whole total of three.
13:51Not a whole total.
13:52One more.
13:53Oh, you got it.
13:54One more than you.
13:55I'm still trying to show rules that I'm fighting for.
13:57I want to continue our connection and see where it goes because I really like her and she can fit my life perfectly.
14:04We would really be good together.
14:05Yeah.
14:06I believe so.
14:07I have two great men that I'm connected with and that I can see myself with long term.
14:13At this point, I don't feel like Cam and I is not on the same page.
14:17So I want to allow Cam the space and the time to really figure out between the other two women which direction he wants to go.
14:25Just make sure you give me the proper time with you.
14:28I will definitely give you the proper time.
14:30So me and you can figure it out.
14:31Yes.
14:32Rules is my top connection.
14:34But at this point, I can see myself in the future with any of these ladies.
14:37So it's going to be, it's going to be tough.
14:40Give me some love.
14:42If I hug you, I might not want to let go.
14:44Okay, let go.
14:49Too late.
14:50I got you.
14:53I got you.
14:54Watch me, watch me, I know that you want to, watch me, call me up, I know that you want to, watch me.
15:24Come here, Hussain.
15:31What's that?
15:32You told your friends I was spicy.
15:34I sure did.
15:35So what's the difference between toxic and spicy?
15:38I can tell you that.
15:39Toxic is the good negative, spicy is sexy.
15:42It's just two totally different things.
15:44Absolutely not.
15:45Right, that's right, but that's spicy though.
15:47You spicy or toxic?
15:49Spicy.
15:50I don't know, I feel like toxic is like, it ticks to the other extreme.
15:53Like toxic is like, you showing up at my job.
15:56No, that ain't funny.
15:57I'm getting fired at my job.
15:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
15:59You trying to bust the windows out of my car like, no, I'm not doing that.
16:02I mean, what the did you do?
16:06Even if somebody do something to you, bro, you should never let somebody ask you to that point.
16:09No.
16:10It's like me really going to the extremes of stuff like that.
16:13Like, you got to do something to me.
16:16Like, something crazy, like mad disrespectful, like, because then that's going to make me want to turn up.
16:20But even then though, would you ever bust any windows up?
16:23Like, what is that going to accomplish?
16:24For real?
16:25Or I'm hurt.
16:26Or I'm hurt.
16:27Bro, grow up.
16:28If somebody hurts you.
16:29I'm sorry, are you doing the hurting and you're saying grow up?
16:31No, I'm saying like, if somebody hurts you, walk away.
16:34Don't have somebody able to, see?
16:35No.
16:36Why do you get to walk away and you hurt me?
16:39Absolutely not.
16:40What are you doing at?
16:41What's that going to accomplish?
16:42You going to feel it.
16:43Listen, you play with me.
16:45You play with me.
16:46I'm playing with you too.
16:47You bust a window before?
16:48Yes.
16:50Toxic situations.
16:51That's not something that I look for.
16:52And I'm all about protecting my peace and I can't have that.
16:55I'm not going to let somebody just play in my face or do something to me that I don't like.
17:00I'm matching your mother energy.
17:02You play with me, I'm playing with you.
17:04Period.
17:05Period.
17:06She's standing on it.
17:25Spicy and toxic, it's two totally different things.
17:27When you toxic.
17:29Like, you want to start arguments, you want to fight, you want to try and smoke on people.
17:32That means what you're doing is intentionally to lead to some bull .
17:35Like, I tell people all the time, I'm not perfect.
17:37Yeah, no, no.
17:38Nobody's perfect.
17:39You ain't looking for perfection.
17:40You know, I have my moments just like everybody else.
17:41I would try my best to avoid a situation.
17:44See, that's me.
17:45I totally avoid.
17:46That's how I feel like I'm being disrespected.
17:47And I'm like, I'm giving you three chances.
17:49After three strikes, that's it.
17:51That's it.
17:52Damn, you getting three strikes?
17:53Yeah.
17:54I struggle with one.
17:55Really?
17:56I don't lie.
17:57Like, I'm setting my ways when I know I'm standing on it.
17:59You know what I mean?
18:00Like, sometimes I come up out of it and be like, all right, you got it.
18:02But that's good.
18:03You have control.
18:04Yeah, definitely.
18:05I like that.
18:06You know, me and Rose are definitely still getting to learn each other.
18:09But I know that Cam and Rose have a connection as well.
18:12But I really don't see anybody.
18:13There's no competition.
18:14So I'm going to do my thing.
18:15If I change Henny, come on, y'all.
18:18Let's go.
18:19Like, we on top of bars.
18:20You got Henny?
18:21Mm-mm.
18:22Stop.
18:23I'm like, Coyote Ugly.
18:24You know.
18:25Yeah.
18:26I get a chair and I be like, I don't want to dance with nobody.
18:28I just want you to watch me dance.
18:30That's how I am.
18:311738, anybody?
18:33What?
18:40Are you making weird?
18:41I'm not being weird.
18:42Get out of my face.
18:43Come on.
18:44No.
18:45Can you back up?
18:48Jay and Sahara were literally called canoodling.
18:53I set clear boundaries and obviously it went in one ear and out the other.
19:03Oh, man.
19:08I kind of got frustrated how the conversation with Angie was going.
19:12I don't like women that approach that situation in that type of way, especially with Angie
19:16because she's one of my connections and I didn't want her to have those type of qualities,
19:19especially when I'm so interested in her.
19:24Why are you sitting by yourself?
19:26You need a minute?
19:27Nah, you can come if you want to.
19:29What's wrong with you?
19:33I'm sure.
19:34It's the end of the minute.
19:35You mad at me.
19:38You mad.
19:39Why you mad?
19:40Tell them why you mad, son.
19:42One thing that I prioritize in my life is peace.
19:47So what are you talking about then?
19:49I'm talking about how I want somebody in my life that also has that same viewpoint.
19:55Like, yes, you're supposed to stand up for yourself.
19:57Exactly.
19:58But also, you don't go out of your way to be like the person that hurts you.
20:03Nobody said that either.
20:04That's what matching energies is.
20:06No, it's for you.
20:07If I make a mistake, do you feel like you got to get your get back to me?
20:12Here we are again.
20:13No.
20:14I'm asking.
20:15Okay.
20:18How are you getting worked up?
20:20Because I feel like you only hearing what you want to hear.
20:25We're not going to bust each other's windows out.
20:27Like, that's not something.
20:28The question was, have you done it before?
20:31Yes.
20:32And I think that he took it the wrong way.
20:34And it's frustrating.
20:36I feel like you're projecting because you have decisions to make.
20:40And you need to make them.
20:42What do I got to do with my decisions?
20:44I feel like you're trying to find something.
20:46I'm not.
20:47I found it clearly.
20:49All right.
20:51I'm not trying to find a reason to not like Angie.
20:55I like Angie.
20:56And I'm trying to decide who's the best for me.
20:59But I didn't like that she said that.
21:00I didn't like that at all.
21:01All right.
21:02I'm leaving for a little.
21:05All right, fine.
21:06I want to be able to have a conversation with my partner
21:09while not letting our emotions get the best of us.
21:11Definitely made me pull back from her.
21:22I need minced garlic, blood.
21:28All right, y'all.
21:29Let's turn to the table to eat y'all like one big happy family.
21:35So what y'all absolutely want to do this weekend?
21:37We got the pool.
21:38We got the schoozie.
21:39Play some games.
21:40Truth or dare.
21:41OK.
21:42Oh, we definitely doing truth or dare.
21:44Is the food good?
21:45Y'all like it?
21:46It is good.
21:47See what happens when we come together?
21:48We make it work.
21:50Teamwork makes the dream work.
21:52Yep.
21:54Nope.
21:56I'm still liking it.
21:57A little bit.
21:59A little bit.
22:00Fuck it up.
22:02I'm having a hard night tonight.
22:06We'll get your together.
22:08Amen.
22:09I don't know if any of my connections is feeling 100% right now.
22:12Earlier, Tahara and Jay was over in the couch just, you know,
22:15being a little bit hugged up.
22:16Yeah, it's a little uncomfortable, but at the end of the day,
22:19there's nobody that's a real threat to me when it comes to Sahara.
22:22So, you know, I encourage her to go out and explore a little bit,
22:25but I know what she coming back to.
22:33The vibe is awesome.
22:34So, I invited the group to play Truth or Dear Jenga.
22:38We got Jenga.
22:40Come on.
22:41You ready?
22:42I'm ready for a good time.
22:44Ooh.
22:45Ooh.
22:46Ooh.
22:47Ooh.
22:48Here's the person to your left or right.
22:51Come on.
22:52Bring it in.
22:53It's nothing for me to do.
22:55Aww.
22:56The oldest and the youngest.
22:58Take a shot.
22:59I'm the youngest.
23:00Who the oldest?
23:01When your birthday?
23:02July.
23:03June.
23:04Damn.
23:05Holy shit.
23:06Hussein, you the oldest person here?
23:08Out here.
23:09Excuse me?
23:10He was watching that one the whole time.
23:12Seven.
23:13Choose Truth or Dear.
23:14I did that one.
23:15I did that one.
23:16All right, Dear.
23:17I dare you to give your number one a left dance.
23:20All right.
23:21Hey.
23:22Hey.
23:23Hey.
23:24Hey.
23:25Hey.
23:26Hey.
23:27Hey.
23:28Hey.
23:29Hey.
23:30Hey.
23:31Hey.
23:32Hey.
23:33Hey.
23:34Hey.
23:35Hey.
23:36Hey.
23:37Hey.
23:38Hey.
23:39Hey.
23:40Hey.
23:41Hey.
23:42Hey.
23:43That guy's super surprised.
23:44She hasn't really shown me too much affection.
23:46So you know, we still had some things to figure out and talk about.
23:50First of all, take this damn shot.
23:52Ooh.
23:54Yes.
23:55Yeah.
23:56That man is hurt.
23:57And the trouble, bro.
23:58There is one thing I want to get accomplished with Friends Detco this weekend.
24:00And it's basically just a spend alone time together.
24:03Because we haven't had that.
24:04And just get a feeling of how life will be with each other.
24:08Babe, what you doing here?
24:11Just chilling ...
24:12Everybody about to get in the pool.
24:14You're getting in the pool?
24:14Hell yeah, come on.
24:16No sleep weekend.
24:17Let's go.
24:19You can't be tickling me like that.
24:20You tripping.
24:21I feel like me and Tay are in a great space.
24:23We've decided the room together.
24:25I'm giving her her space because, you know,
24:27she also has two connections in the house.
24:29And I don't want to be overly clingy or anything like that.
24:32And that's just not my personality.
24:34This house is beautiful.
24:35We can't go to sleep right now.
24:38You're a bad influence, man.
24:42My hair.
24:44Go ahead and get changed now so we can get the pool done.
24:48Marty.
24:54All right, let's do this.
24:57The fact that I get to spend the night with her
24:59and be in a close, intimate setting with her,
25:01I was definitely excited.
25:04To a great weekend and to dig in deep.
25:08Let's go, let's go.
25:11We're not too deep.
25:13We gon' live it up.
25:15We gon' have a good time.
25:16We gon' have a good time.
25:17We gon' live it up.
25:18We gon' live it up.
25:20All right.
25:21All right.
25:21We gon' live it up.
25:23We gon' live it up.
25:28So which one you think?
25:29For the PJ?
25:30Yeah.
25:31You know, it's different flavors of rose, so.
25:33Roses do come in different colors, so.
25:35They do.
25:36You got the red, the yellow, the white, the purple.
25:37Yeah.
25:38When Hussein and I spoke about sharing a room,
25:40there's no rules.
25:41I feel like we're all grown.
25:43The light color.
25:44Good pick.
25:45That's what I'm talking about.
25:47I ain't getting intimate with nobody either,
25:49because at the end of the day, you still
25:51have other connections.
25:52So we going to save all the little hanky-panky
25:54for when we complete this journey that we're on.
25:58So then I'm going to have to put some slides on,
25:59and I want to run down the hallway and then slide.
26:01Slide, right.
26:01Yeah.
26:02Be on my new edition.
26:04Yeah, it's two beds in the room.
26:05But if his bed is softer and I get cold,
26:08I will damn sure be in his bed.
26:10All right, give me some slides on my bed.
26:12You're going to get in the slide.
26:13Exactly, see?
26:14Look at my little moonwalk.
26:15Have one.
26:16Yeah.
26:22You want to watch a movie?
26:24Mm-mm.
26:25Yeah, ain't no TV in here.
26:26Huh?
26:27No.
26:27Why?
26:28Because I don't want to.
26:29You can't watch a movie?
26:30Mm-mm.
26:31Why you not opening up?
26:32What's all this cold shoulder?
26:33Like, even if you mad, I feel like you still
26:35be able to communicate so we could get through it
26:37and find a solution.
26:38But she wasn't trying to hear it.
26:39Before we got here, we talked about this.
26:41All right.
26:42All right.
26:42OK.
26:43All right.
26:43All right.
26:44OK.
26:44Well, then if you don't want to see this,
26:46then it's not no point.
26:47What do you, being in public, got to do with anything?
26:49Like, what is it?
26:50I'm going to turn to everybody.
26:50OK.
26:51That's still not changing.
26:53First of all, I don't understand how legs is intertwined.
26:56And then I look over, and you massage her neck.
26:59Like, what is it?
26:59Like, I'm confused where you don't see.
27:01Oh, my god.
27:02I said, don't do nothing to make me look stupid.
27:04You still did it, and you still did it, and yes, it does.
27:06Oh, my god.
27:08I feel like Jay is not understanding anything
27:10that I'm trying to say.
27:11This was the boundary that I told you not to cross,
27:15and you crossed it.
27:16Issue is that you don't create boundaries.
27:19That's the problem.
27:20Is my hand touching other ?
27:22Is my legs intertwined with any other here?
27:24Am I rubbing backs and legs and doing all of that ?
27:27You was better off coming in here and be like, you know what?
27:29I up.
27:30I see that I'm .
27:31No, you didn't.
27:32No, you didn't.
27:33Don't skip over the fact that I tried to come up to you
27:34upstairs, and you said get away from me.
27:35That's right.
27:36Me too.
27:36Yeah, yeah, I did say that.
27:37All right, so that's why I tried to come to you
27:39and apologize.
27:39You clearly don't get it, because you keep trying to defend it.
27:43You was wrong.
27:44I'm a little frustrated, because as we both know, and she knows,
27:48Kiara was always my top pick.
27:49So that was definitely throwing me off.
27:52I couldn't understand it.
27:54All right, OK.
27:55Let's go.
27:59Come on, let's do this thing right now.
28:02Let's go.
28:03Come on, let's do this thing right now.
28:05Let's go.
28:06Don't want to waste no time.
28:09Let's go.
28:10You think it's cheap, right?
28:11Mm-hmm.
28:12Mm-hmm.
28:13Mm-hmm.
28:14You want some mimosas?
28:19Y'all want some mimosas?
28:20Yes.
28:21Whoo!
28:22Whoo!
28:23There we go.
28:24Going into the second day of this getaway,
28:26I have no plans, no expectations in regards
28:29to how I'm going to divide my time with these two men.
28:32You know, this is the first time in this process
28:34that I feel like things are getting hard.
28:37I just want to make sure I'm making the right decision.
28:39Come on, come on.
28:40Kim, get away from me!
28:41What?
28:42Because you all sticky.
28:43It was two beds in there.
28:44They like me being sticky.
28:46Is it ready to flip?
28:48Bam!
28:49All right, that's the whole studio.
28:51Make the ground shake.
28:53I love this property.
28:54Yeah.
28:55I ain't even gonna lie.
28:55Yeah.
28:56This is definitely goals right here.
28:57It is.
28:58I do have a connection.
28:59But as we get closer to the end,
29:01I'm trying to figure out how deep this connection is.
29:03Is it an emotional connection?
29:05Is it a friendship connection?
29:06So I kind of want to check in with Dita
29:08to see how she really actually feels about me.
29:10How your weekend going so far?
29:11It's going good.
29:12It's definitely an eye-opener.
29:14You get to see people's personalities.
29:16Yeah.
29:17And that's what we're here for.
29:18And I've been enjoying it getting to know you, too.
29:20Like, seeing how you move,
29:21seeing how you was doing your thing in the kitchen,
29:23your routine.
29:24Oh, yeah.
29:25So, like, if I'm looking for somebody,
29:26it's like, oh, I would like her to be clean.
29:27Yeah.
29:28Yeah.
29:29Just like, you know what I mean?
29:30Just like, type everywhere.
29:31Yeah, yeah.
29:32You like your home.
29:33You like your peace.
29:34I can kind of pick up on those things.
29:35Yeah, you definitely got that type of energy.
29:36Like, no, D gonna hold down.
29:37I appreciate it.
29:38Because some people are like, oh,
29:39she's a little bit too masculine.
29:41I'm like, I'm not masculine.
29:42So, what type of stuff would you want a man to do
29:44if y'all was living together?
29:45Um, taking out the trash.
29:49Um, like, touching up.
29:51Like, you know how pink can, like, you know,
29:53start to touch up.
29:54Yeah, yeah.
29:55And that's really it, to be honest.
29:57Everything else is like, I can manage.
30:00So.
30:01D is a strong, independent woman.
30:03That's been obvious since day one.
30:05But there's also, I get a sense of, like,
30:07over-independence.
30:08Like, is she actually gonna allow somebody to lead?
30:11So, I think that's the aspect of it,
30:12where that might be a misalignment between me and Deanna.
30:15What is something you want to learn from me this weekend?
30:18To be honest, you are very subtle.
30:22You are very observant.
30:24And you sit back and you watch things.
30:26I love people that's about action.
30:28Yeah.
30:29If you say you want to do something, do it.
30:30If that's who you are, be it, you know?
30:32So, it's a little bit hard on this getaway right now,
30:34because I'm still getting to know Khalil.
30:36And, like, I like that we're trying to move forward
30:39and try to grow with this process.
30:41But I'm still a little shaky about it,
30:44because I don't know if this is a romantic relationship
30:47or if we're just being friends.
30:49I want to learn whatever will get you riled up.
30:52Uh, no, it has to be, like, disrespect.
30:54Yeah.
30:55Like, blatant disrespect.
30:56You know what I'm saying?
30:57Because we can have differences.
30:58Yeah.
30:59And I can talk it out.
31:00So, me, I'm one of those people.
31:02Like, you would see me shut down.
31:03I try to be on a peaceful side, like I really want to.
31:07I was like, this is not my caliber of people.
31:08I'm sorry.
31:09This is not my caliber of men.
31:10I can't entertain it.
31:11Me and Deanna are a lot alike.
31:13But as far as, like, intimacy goes and emotional connection,
31:16um, I just haven't gotten that out of her yet.
31:18Like, I'm cool with her taking her time and everything.
31:21But at the same time, we only have a limited amount
31:23of time in this process, so I'm just trying to see
31:25if this is something that can work or not.
31:27I always want to be true to me.
31:28So, anything that's uncomfortable, I'm not going to do.
31:31I feel the rush coming over my body.
31:34It's going high.
31:35Come on, man.
31:36What's going on?
31:38We're really sad.
31:39What's on your mind, man?
31:43What's going on?
31:44I'll let you real quick, bro.
31:45I'm dead.
31:46Oh.
31:47Please.
31:48It's a real situation, bro.
31:49It's a real situation.
31:50Oh.
31:51What's going on?
31:52I go talk to Sahar.
31:53Sit on the side.
31:54Yeah.
31:55You know, we just rapping.
31:56Yeah.
31:57We in front of everybody.
31:58First night with Kiara, it was definitely rough.
32:00It was definitely a feeling I ain't like because I was so used to me
32:03and her always being on good terms.
32:05So that was my first time really seeing her in a way that she
32:08ain't want to deal with me.
32:09And it kind of hurt me a little bit that she ain't giving me the,
32:12you know, the vibes that I'm used to.
32:14I'm over just having a conversation.
32:15Like, we all doing.
32:16But you don't have no connection with her?
32:17No.
32:18Like, we cool.
32:19But we not hanging off cool.
32:20We hanging off of who we can see ourselves going out here and leaving with.
32:23Right.
32:24But from Ki perspective, she looking at it like,
32:25yo, if y'all just homies, you know what I mean?
32:27Why the leg up?
32:28Why she touching him up?
32:29You know what I'm saying?
32:30All that.
32:31That's probably just what her perspective is.
32:33Usually with friends that's girls, I'm so used to just being touchy-feely
32:39and it don't ever mean it's going to the extra mile, you know?
32:42If you telling Ki that you not digging her, but you rubbing her leg,
32:45or she rubbing yours, she not going to believe that.
32:47But I understand where Kiara was coming from.
32:49Her optics are how she sees it.
32:51Yeah, of course.
32:52But I'm like, my intent was never to make you feel a certain way.
32:54You know what I mean?
32:55My intent was just, I'm out here socializing, having fun.
32:58Yeah.
32:59But you think I'm going to pick her over you?
33:00She probably just confused as to like, all right, are y'all friends or not?
33:03So what do you think I should do, like, for Kiara?
33:05She might need a second.
33:06But if you come to her with some genuine like, yo, whatever you thought was going on,
33:10that's not what it was.
33:11Yeah.
33:12I understand I did something that she wasn't too happy with.
33:15So I hope Kiara forgive me so we can get back locked in how we used to be.
33:20I'm concerned.
33:21It's a little shaky.
33:22She definitely going to expect you to move a certain way after that.
33:36Go like this.
33:37Oh, my God.
33:38Yeah, I don't know, D.
33:40It's long.
33:41Come on.
33:42Try it.
33:43It hurt.
33:44Uh-oh.
33:45Here comes Tommy.
33:46Here comes Tommy.
33:47What's up?
33:48What's up?
33:49Yeah.
33:50Oh, Tommy.
33:51Everybody good?
33:52Oh, yeah.
33:53All right.
33:54All right.
33:55I see the sexy is unleashed up in here.
33:57There he is, Tommy.
33:58Looking like a toothpaste commercial up in there.
34:01And everybody ain't smiling either.
34:03I'm noticing that.
34:04Oh.
34:05Every journey, it come out in the house.
34:07Yeah.
34:08Yeah.
34:09Look at Jay.
34:10Yeah.
34:11Sound like it's been an interesting 24 hours.
34:14Yes.
34:15I would say that.
34:16All right.
34:17But now, Tommy going to make it a little more interesting.
34:19Oh, God.
34:20Oh, man.
34:21Not with a curve ball.
34:22Uh-oh.
34:23Uh-oh.
34:24Uh-oh.
34:25Uh-oh.
34:26It's not a slider.
34:27Oh, whoa.
34:28That's curve.
34:29Are you ready?
34:30Let's hear it.
34:31Well, y'all got here.
34:32What I told you?
34:33I told y'all it was time to make some decisions.
34:34Yeah.
34:35All right.
34:36Well, right here, right now, it's decision time.
34:42For the men.
34:43Oh, God.
34:44Tommy says one of the ladies will be going home.
34:47I'm like, oh, my God.
34:49Cam is mad at me.
34:50Hussein isn't spending any time with me.
34:55Tommy going to hang with your fellas.
34:56Fellas, we're going to go over here.
34:57We're going over here to these couchers.
34:59Tommy comes through.
35:00And that's when all the relaxation stops.
35:02His curve balls be coming at the worst time.
35:05So, I don't know.
35:06This is crazy.
35:07Like, we all trying to have a good time.
35:08And it's a shame that we got to send somebody home right in the middle of our getaway.
35:13All right, fellas.
35:14I know this ain't the vault, but the same rules apply.
35:16In this discussion, we're going to keep it 100.
35:18Yes, sir.
35:19All right.
35:20I want to hear about the real emotions that you're developing.
35:23Let's start with you.
35:24Let's go.
35:25What's up?
35:26What's up, babe?
35:27Strongest connection still remains tight.
35:29Through the ups and the downs, you know, it just keeps getting stronger and stronger.
35:33So, during this getaway, y'all just been locked down with each other.
35:36Oh, man.
35:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
35:38You can say so.
35:39You can say so.
35:40Yeah, you can tell.
35:41Yeah.
35:42Uncle Plank's over here.
35:43Uncle Plank.
35:44Okay.
35:45Hussein, talk to me.
35:46Rose, man.
35:47We, this time that we've been spending in the house definitely feel intentional.
35:50We just having a good time.
35:51Our conversation, everything just feels like it's flowing.
35:54All right.
35:55Jake.
35:56All right.
35:57I mean, you know, my strongest connection was Kiara.
35:59And we had a little bump in the road yesterday.
36:01Take me step by step.
36:03Sahara, me and her went to the side on the couch to talk.
36:06She went and did one of these, put her legs up on me.
36:08And Kiara came down and saw it.
36:10I did have my hand on her neck, massaging her neck.
36:13So she felt like that was too much going on.
36:15You can't stop her from throwing her leg over there.
36:17Massage part, that's on you.
36:19Right, right.
36:20How do you feel about how this conflict is panning out?
36:23We here, and it's a process.
36:25I put my pride to the side and try.
36:27You got to use the rest of this getaway intentionally and make, make moves.
36:30Right.
36:31Make good moves, all right?
36:32All right.
36:33Keep being a gentleman.
36:34Got you.
36:35All right, Cam.
36:36Sir.
36:37With Jay, the leg throwing over, did that bother you at all?
36:40And the massage and all that?
36:42Honestly, no.
36:43I mean, I tell her to explore her connections.
36:46Because I felt like that she was so hyper-focused on me early on.
36:49I'm like, no, I want you to, like...
36:51Move around.
36:52Move around so you know what you choosing is right.
36:54That's the three connections you had when you came here.
36:56Yeah, yeah.
36:57Angie, Rose, and Sahara.
36:59Been here over 24 hours now.
37:01What, is it, we still got them three connections?
37:04I mean, they all getting on my nerves right now.
37:06They all getting on my nerves right now, bro.
37:08So, it's like...
37:09That was the most truthful statement right there, buddy.
37:13Honestly, this is exactly what I needed,
37:14because I needed to see them in this type of element.
37:16Interacting with each other, seeing me interact with other people.
37:19So, how real?
37:20You know, she'll have her little attitudes and whatnot.
37:22Every time she sees me talking to Angie or talking to Rose,
37:24but the little more intimate interactions that we have now,
37:28I get to see certain sides of her that, you know,
37:31you don't typically get to see, like, on a regular date.
37:33I can tell she's like a very sweet girl.
37:35Okay.
37:36How has your interaction been with Rose?
37:38It's always great.
37:40The problem is the amount, because I feel like...
37:42Is it limited?
37:43Yeah, because she's been spending a lot of time with my man,
37:46and I think she's trying to explore that connection more
37:49and see if there's anything there.
37:50And Angie kind of fell down on my list,
37:53because we was just having a conversation last night,
37:56and she just wasn't receptive.
37:58It was, like, argumentative.
38:00The conversation ended up with her just walking away.
38:02Really? What does that tell you?
38:04You got to communicate in order to solve a problem.
38:06Okay.
38:07And don't escalate the situation.
38:09And walking away from a problem, to me, is escalating.
38:12The biggest gap with Angie is I love the spice,
38:15but I just don't know if it'll go long-term.
38:17It might just be something we'll just figure out on the weekend,
38:19and then that be that.
38:20And that ain't what I'm here for.
38:21I mean, I didn't, you know, go through this process.
38:22You done done that a hundred times.
38:23Yeah, I done did that.
38:24That's what got me going through this process.
38:25I done did that before I done seen that movie.
38:27I respect that.
38:28Galil!
38:29Yes, sir.
38:30Tell me about Dee.
38:31She's definitely a particular individual.
38:34She's very clean, and it's just, like,
38:36I can kind of see my lifestyle, like, matching with hers.
38:40She's a little slow, but that's the only, like, thing
38:43that's kind of, like, turning me off.
38:44Anybody experience the same energy from Deonna on this getaway?
38:47I don't know. She's been very standoffish,
38:49so I've been giving her, you know, her distance and her space.
38:52I'm still frigging a deal.
38:53I know one thing for sure is it's a slow ride.
38:56How do you think she feels about you?
38:58I know she expressed that she definitely likes qualities
39:01and we have similar qualities that we could probably work,
39:04but she's hard to kind of read.
39:06Okay.
39:07Here's what I learned about the house.
39:08When you go into the house, you find out about the person
39:11that you're connected to.
39:12You start seeing who ain't quite fixed their triggers yet.
39:15Right, exactly.
39:16Or who want to be like,
39:17I don't want to talk about this no more.
39:19If you already see it now, it's going to get bigger.
39:21Trust me, there are some things y'all ain't seen.
39:24But what you got right now?
39:26Do you have enough to stand on and say,
39:28I can ride?
39:30But if you're getting triggers now,
39:31where are you going to be six months from now?
39:33When the cameras and the lights is gone,
39:35Tommy ain't here kicking it with you,
39:37what do I have but walk away
39:39with one of these beautiful ladies in my hand?
39:42Whoo!
39:44All right.
39:45That wasn't easy,
39:46but I think we got where we need to be.
39:48It's time now to sit these ladies down
39:51and let them know where they stand.
39:55This week's deliberation was probably the hardest one.
39:58I don't really know why Deonna isn't opening up
40:00as fast as I would like her to.
40:02It's hard to kind of read her,
40:03so I need to figure that out.
40:05After y'all get this done,
40:07the power shifts back to the ladies.
40:09The next bolt is not a time to make a decision about you.
40:13So walks off me.
40:15All right, y'all.
40:16Much love.
40:17Yeah.
40:18Tommy saying that it's time to make decisions,
40:20I know that's kind of focused on me.
40:22I'm so afraid to make the wrong decision
40:24that I think that's why I'm being indecisive.
40:27I know that I need to get it together
40:28and make my decision.
40:30Whoo!
40:31I know, bruh.
40:32Next time on Ready to Love.
40:37Do you think you could see a long-term relationship
40:39or, like, just a friendship?
40:40The fellas have decided that...
40:48I felt the magic happening right there.
40:53I want to spend more time with you
40:54because I could see you starting to slip away.
40:57I never know if I'm your number one,
40:58your number two, your number three,
40:59because you have connections with three women.
41:01Cam, if you want more of my attention,
41:03you have to step up.
41:04I need some actions.
41:06I apologize.
41:08Me and her are cool.
41:09Like, it'll just be the vibe of friendship.
41:11So somebody rubbing your knee is friendly?
41:13None of my friends ain't ever rubbed my knee.
41:15Where's the connection now?
41:17The girls and I have decided...
41:31Were them, empty?
41:32I do not know.
41:33You might be the truth.
41:34I have to come.
41:35I'll tell you guys,
41:36why am I going to make them feel like a relationship.
41:37This is why you have to stay with me?
41:38I don't have to go with him.
41:39I'm going to tell you guys.
41:40You have to stay with you.
41:41I'm going to be the right back here.
41:42You will alwaysUDE.
41:43I need to watch this.
41:44You will come.
41:45That's all.
41:46You have to hurry.
41:47I'm going to take a break.
41:48You are going to go.
41:49I'm going to be the right back.
41:50You're almost there.
41:51You have to be the right.
41:52Get them into the right.
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