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00:00I heard you got Barry's blessing.
00:02Yes.
00:03We have a date set for the wedding.
00:06So cool.
00:08I'm proposing in a week.
00:10I'm excited to know details that Lydia's not allowed to know.
00:15Tell us.
00:16What you guys about to?
00:18Wedding planning.
00:19You've only known each other for four months.
00:21I just don't think it's a wise move.
00:24Anything you want to share with the choir, Ethan?
00:26The choir?
00:27By the time we get to know them, they're already going to be married.
00:29So it's a lot to take at once.
00:32Things with me and Veronica are rocky.
00:35I don't want there to be any bad blood there, but there is.
00:38She lied.
00:39That was the main thing.
00:40She got your dad to call me a liar on the phone.
00:43Are you guys doing okay?
00:45What's going on?
00:46I don't know.
00:48You damn well know.
00:51Mike has cheated on me several times.
00:54And I put myself aside.
00:56And my pride.
00:58And back to him.
00:59And blamed myself.
01:00And Mariah knew about it.
01:02Yet still brought me through this hell.
01:05And he don't care.
01:06I'm back in Cairo with my family.
01:24It's always good to be back home.
01:25After me and Olivia broke up, I was very reluctant to start dating.
01:34When you lose somebody that you feel like you're supposed to be with forever and it can never work with anyone else and you feel lost, sometimes you have to take a step back.
01:43I went on a couple of dates in the beginning, even though I was hung up on Olivia.
01:50I was looking for someone who gets along with my family, is not attracted to drama.
01:55And then, out of the blue, I found the one.
01:59How are you?
02:10How are you?
02:10Hi, handsome.
02:12How are you?
02:13Hey.
02:13Good.
02:13How are you?
02:14I'm good.
02:15Got a girlfriend now.
02:18Her name's Tegan.
02:20How was your morning?
02:21It was good.
02:22How was yours?
02:23It was nice.
02:23It was nice.
02:24Sleeping in.
02:25Sleeping in.
02:25Yeah.
02:26I went and picked up the car and washed it.
02:28It looks nice.
02:29Yeah, it does, doesn't it?
02:30You want to go for a ride?
02:31Yeah, sure.
02:33I just flew in from Wisconsin, so I
02:36can attend Zach's secret proposal to Lydia.
02:41I've been down to Georgia here three times now,
02:43but I haven't seen anything important to Ethan.
02:48So this afternoon, we're going to go drive around K Road.
02:51Where do you want to go?
02:53Why don't you just show me around?
02:54Like the town you've grown up in, you know?
02:58How long have we been together?
03:00I don't know.
03:0010 months-ish.
03:03It's been a little bit.
03:04Mm-hmm.
03:06There's a fountain right back in there.
03:09Very different fields from up north.
03:11Sure.
03:13Got people walking across the street all the time.
03:19Ethan, how did you guys meet?
03:23I had posted a picture of me and my motorcycle, and she, I guess,
03:28commented back or whatever, it's a nice motorcycle.
03:32And I looked at her profile, and I was like, ooh, dang.
03:35Look, it is a very nice motorcycle.
03:36He was so handsome.
03:38You're so beautiful.
03:39I didn't really think I would hear from him at all, but then I did, and I was really caught
03:46off guard and excited.
03:48I was like, eee!
03:49And I was jumping up and down, because I really thought I'd never hear from you.
03:52Mm-hmm.
03:53So the first time we met, we met for a date, and so I had quite a bit of a drive.
03:57I live in Wisconsin, and he lives in Minnesota.
04:02So what was it like growing up down here?
04:06Oh, it was nice.
04:07I liked it.
04:08How often would you come to town here?
04:11Maybe like once a week.
04:12It's always a treat.
04:14Why was it a treat?
04:16Well, because it was a long time.
04:18We got to do this, you know, outside of the farm.
04:20We'd go to the bank, and the ladies at the bank would give us candy.
04:25Yeah.
04:26And mom would take it and throw it away after we left.
04:30Oh, no.
04:32Ethan's childhood was spent more at home, and they didn't really wander past the farm,
04:37it seems like, at all, only on special occasions.
04:40That's definitely different than how I was raised.
04:43I was, I don't want to use the word normal, but, you know, normal K through 12 education,
04:49and then college, and going to the mall.
04:52So when you were, like, high school age, did you and your siblings ever go to, like, movies?
04:58No.
04:59That's crazy.
05:00But this is the only theater in Cairo, and I've never, ever been in here and seen a movie.
05:05What?
05:06Really?
05:07Never have.
05:08I don't think it's important that kids go to the mall or movies.
05:11I just think it's important for kids to feel loved and have a nice childhood, really, at the end of the day.
05:17And so, however that's given to them, movie or no movie is blind in my eyes.
05:23So is there, like, a mall around here or something that you guys would go to?
05:28No, there's no mall here in Cairo.
05:31So then what would you do for fun around here?
05:35Take trash out.
05:36Get groceries.
05:38Teagan takes a lot of interest in the way that I grew up, the way my siblings grew up.
05:42Yeah, it's very different.
05:43Olivia crapped on it for so many years and probably still does.
05:46But it was really good.
05:48I would never trade it for anything.
05:50Since we're about down here, I think it'd be really nice to go visit your mom.
05:54Yeah, we should go visit her.
05:56And see the little girls.
05:58I am a mom with a child from a previous relationship.
06:03I love being a mom.
06:04It's the best thing I could have ever asked for.
06:06I've always wanted to be a mom.
06:07So it's like a dream come true that I get to live every day.
06:11Ethan does have a relationship with my child.
06:14I think Ethan will be a great dad one day.
06:17This is a pretty road.
06:19Teagan being a mother doesn't bother me.
06:21I love kids.
06:22I want to have a big family.
06:23I can't imagine what it would be like to actually have her own,
06:25but just seeing the joy that it brings to her,
06:28I see it as a good thing.
06:30Family is very important, so.
06:32The other bright side of Olivia leaving my life is that
06:35I have a full and healthy relationship with my family now.
06:40This is where I used to live.
06:42That was my old house.
06:44Aww.
06:45She's cute.
06:48Where do you stand with Olivia?
06:49Are you guys actually divorced yet?
06:51Well, we and Olivia signed divorce papers back in November.
06:54Apparently some stuff wasn't filled out correctly or whatever,
06:57and it got sent back to us, but we had both moved and didn't get it.
07:00So I hired an attorney, and it's another way it can all be done properly,
07:04and I don't have to talk to her or see her or deal with her.
07:07I thought that was the end of it.
07:09But at this point she won't respond to my attorney or my texts.
07:15You know, I can't imagine how frustrating that is.
07:19The only thing that I have left is to learn what I can from this,
07:24and that's it.
07:25I just wish it was done.
07:26Yeah.
07:27I don't think it's weird.
07:28You know, everyone has life experiences,
07:30and that relationship was before me,
07:32so I do just wish they could both, you know, peacefully move on.
07:36I think they both deserve that.
07:39You're gonna have to take more.
07:40I am so grateful.
07:41Really?
07:42I feel like we've had a really good relationship.
07:46He's my best friend, so I feel like I can tell him anything.
07:49We can talk about anything.
07:50I feel like there's nothing we don't talk about or can't talk about.
07:56I most definitely am in love with Tegan.
07:58When I'm with her, I feel like a peaceful feeling, you know?
08:02It's the first serious relationship I've had since Olivia.
08:05Life is as good as it could be.
08:07So, you know, I need to get divorced.
08:10I just want it done.
08:16I love you.
08:32I know I've done very awful things,
08:35and I've been very, very lucky that you've given me
08:39several chances.
08:48I was living in California for a couple,
08:51I think it was seven months before I moved down here.
08:54And we were doing long distance, and I was, you know, playing the field.
09:06Still, you know, sowing my oats wherever my heart desired.
09:11And do I regret that? Absolutely.
09:13Even more so, I regret the way I treated Veronica when I first moved down here.
09:18He resented me.
09:20I resented her for a while.
09:22I thought I wanted to move back to California.
09:24There were times when, you know, I would go out of town,
09:30and I would meet up with other girls.
09:32He didn't want to be in a relationship.
09:35Well, when we did long distance in LA, I was still...
09:39I never forced you to move here.
09:41I know you didn't.
09:42I was still doing other relationships when I lived in California.
09:48All of that stopped when I decided to move here.
09:51And, however, I didn't close any of the doors.
09:56I kept keeping up with other females and meeting up with them.
10:01It's crazy, because he was cheating on me for a while
10:03every time he went to New York with this girl.
10:06I actually got a call from her one day.
10:08She found my work phone number and called me up.
10:11I committed before I was ready to commit.
10:18I was not in it for the longest time.
10:24When Veronica found out,
10:27I cut out every relationship with every girl.
10:31I came clean to Veronica in May about
10:35everything.
10:36My past, I gave her full access to my phone,
10:39full access to everything, and I have worked as hard.
10:43I've been so grateful that she's given me a chance
10:47to prove myself and to change,
10:49because I don't deserve that at all.
10:51And since then, it's been like 10 months or so now,
10:55I have been as transparent as I possibly can be to her.
11:02And I feel like I thought we were doing amazingly well,
11:08besides when Family Matters came up.
11:10Veronica, have you forgiven Micah?
11:18I've forgiven myself.
11:20What do you mean?
11:22I blamed myself.
11:24It was my fault.
11:26He wanted something different.
11:28It was my fault I might have been too tall
11:30or too masculine looking
11:32or too loud.
11:36Everybody was different than me.
11:38Maybe I was the problem.
11:40Maybe I am the problem.
11:42And why didn't you leave him?
11:46I love him.
11:48I love the good days of Micah.
11:50I love the bad days too.
11:52I love the person that plays with the dogs
11:56in the morning in the yard.
11:58I love the person who can make any horrible task fun.
12:02I never wanted him to be unhappy.
12:06I thought we had the same goals.
12:08I was so happy.
12:10I got to live with my best friend.
12:12I am so sorry for what I put you through.
12:14I've realized how big of a **** up I had made
12:22in keeping other doors open.
12:24And since then, I have devoted everything for us.
12:28I have no other desire.
12:31I don't give up.
12:32I'm a fighter.
12:34I do want it to work.
12:36So, what's next for you two?
12:39I have to go to KRO this weekend
12:41for Zach and Lydia's proposal.
12:43So, I have to just pretend I'm okay.
12:52You're excited, aren't you?
12:54I could not have imagined anything like this happening.
12:58Before it's too late,
13:00I just want to give the opposite view
13:02that nobody really seems to be giving Lydia.
13:06I don't really like him.
13:08Sorry.
13:10Micah's on the great hunt for my eyelashes.
13:12You didn't stick him on the wall or anything?
13:14No.
13:15The family's coming in a few minutes
13:17and, like, he's trying to help me get ready.
13:19There's tension between Veronica and my family,
13:21but there's also tension between Veronica and I.
13:24Well, I haven't thought about pulling people aside in the woods yet,
13:27but I definitely am going to, like, address things.
13:29I think he's going to do anything to not have me, like, pop off.
13:33Do we need two tongs?
13:37Sure.
13:38How about this first?
13:39Okay.
13:40Let me see.
13:42Yeah, that'll work.
13:48Ethan and Tegan are coming to the house to visit.
13:50I'm super excited.
13:51I'm super excited I met Teagan once before but very briefly so this is my
13:56first time really being able to spend some time with her come on in I would
14:05say I'm a little nervous to spend some quality time just because it's always
14:08nerve-wracking meeting someone's parents somebody's mom especially you really
14:11want to make a good impression so I'm hoping to do that
14:16good you have a beautiful home oh thank you normally when I meet or have met
14:21anyone in his family I'm sort of just a little quiet at first about like gauging
14:24them and how they feel and their vibe you want the tour sure okay Teagan knows
14:30kind of the general history of me and my mom and how Olivia affected my
14:34relationship with my mom Olivia had serious beef with my mother and it
14:39became a feud in the family and I had to have Olivia's back that is my wife
14:44these are my children and these are my siblings why can't we just get together
14:49I won't say a word because you don't understand the things you've said how
14:53they've made her feel the things she has said has made have hurt me too yeah and
14:57you shouldn't have to go back to your partner and face a firing squad you
15:02know confrontation on what you did and who you talked to and what you said and
15:05where you were and all that when you're talking about your own family yes just
15:08that's ridiculous yeah well are you guys ready to eat mm-hmm
15:13so you met Zach mm-hmm be honest Ethan what do you think of him I don't like him
15:21you know okay I went shake his hand when I first met him though I was like you
15:27know yeah shaking his hand and he was just climbing up on me well he wanted to
15:32hug me sir he's a hugger that's true what do you think about the timing of
15:39everything from first meeting to getting married I think it's too fast I don't
15:43like it well one of my concerns was that it seemed really clear to me that Lydia
15:50wanted to be married and she wanted to get married and you know there's more
15:56than who she's with yeah and I agree that I wanted to make sure that she was
16:01actually in love with him and wanting to spend the rest of her life with him not
16:06just in love with the idea of getting married and I can see where Ethan is very
16:12much you know like rugged that you know man's man Zach maybe is just not as
16:18macho that's also probably not what Lydia is looking for she's looking for
16:22someone that will pray with her and will hold her hand and run and dance through the
16:27field of flowers as the sunsets you know Lydia posted something on social media
16:33about them hiking in the mountains and it was Zach imitating Lydia
16:38oh my god
16:41let's take a video real quick
16:43okay let's go
16:46look at that rock
16:52oh wait that's a mountain
16:53he sounded just like Lydia just like her
17:00god help us all
17:03so are you gonna talk to Lydia and tell her
17:07yeah I'm gonna talk to Lydia when whenever I can
17:10and are you gonna be like hey you know this is just my opinion or are you gonna be
17:15like no like how I'm I'm gonna ask her a bunch of questions
17:21I just want to know that he's not gonna be too much of a bull in a china shop but you know think a little bit about her and
17:27you know and I feel and her feelings you're gonna see her before Saturday
17:33before the proposal yeah okay
17:36oh mercy you're not gonna blow it are you no you're gonna okay don't get the stuff
17:40everybody knows but Lydia
17:43Zach is planning a surprise proposal for Lydia and it's coming up in just a few days and we're all
17:48trying really hard to keep that secret from her
17:50this train is moving downhill fast
17:55nobody can stop it
17:57i have something for you to take back if you want it
18:00oh yeah uh-huh come over here and i'll show you i have it in the living room
18:05here
18:08okay so you had all of these t-shirts that you didn't want to part with
18:16and oh yeah i made it into a quilt i do remember that ethan didn't take that quilt with him
18:24when he got married and in hindsight it's just as well because i think
18:30olivia probably would have burned it she hated she hated me so much she probably would have burned that
18:35quilt how long did this stuff on the edge like this take you it took forever look here's the fencing
18:41i feel like olivia even from early on really felt like she had to control ethan like where he went and
18:48what you know who he was with and who he talked to and what he did and i don't get that from tegan
18:54at all i get that she's happy to step back and let him talk to me or do whatever he wants
19:00um there's a freedom there that i'm sure ethan really appreciates i can tell that she's supportive
19:07of him having a relationship with me but i'd like to get to the point where she's not quiet around me
19:13very nice thank you and when i made it i was intending on making a quote for all the other children but
19:18that's the only one i've done so far benefits of being the oldest oh and i even pieced the back together
19:25i think it's really important that ethan and kim have a good relationship as a fellow mom mom's love
19:32so deeply and so unconditionally that i know how much kim loves ethan thank you yeah my mom took the
19:40time to sew this quilt for me i thought it was probably one of the sweetest things she ever did
19:46um and i'll definitely you know keep it as long as i live firstborn's always a favorite
19:52i love ethan oh i mean i love all my kids but ethan it's extra special given
20:02what the last few years have been like it's super special that he comes to see me
20:07well what do you guys want to do
20:11what do you do in this town rollerblade you think mom's rollerblades would fit you no oh my god how are
20:19you good how are you good hi i haven't met ethan's girlfriend yet have you ever been here before
20:25yeah but i'm avoiding the family oh yeah so we're either going to get along really well
20:32or a wormhole is going to develop and we're going to consume each other
20:35i came out to the farm this morning to meet up with ethan and tegan it's the perfect day to be at
20:53the farm how are you i'm good how are you welcome back to georgia thank you how's it going so nice
21:00sir love to hug people don't you i'm glad tegan's here she's really sweet she fits in with the
21:05family really well we're both still getting to know each other but ethan and i haven't really had a
21:09chance to talk much about everything that happened like he literally met zach and the wedding bomb
21:16was dropped right away so where's the wedding going to happen right over there we can hang like lights
21:21and the countries lydia and zach definitely making all the concrete official plans they're not even
21:28engaged yet so i don't know i could not have imagined anything like this happening
21:39neither could i
21:40so well i gotta go use the bathroom so it was great seeing you i'll be back okay i know it's
21:51really important to ethan to talk to lydia today and i think it's really important to have that open
21:57and honest dialogue between siblings regardless of what it's about oh
22:02you're excited aren't you yeah i mean obviously the day of the wedding is going to be
22:12a big day but i'm also just excited to do life with zach because he's just been
22:21the support i've needed for so long and just been so caring and
22:26well i don't really know zach i just have seen him a couple times but yeah yeah i wish you really
22:35had the chance to get to know him deeper when he was here i know he was only here for a few days
22:41before it's too late i just want to give the opposite view that nobody really seems to be
22:47giving lydia i don't want to be like mean or hurt her feelings but i just feel like
22:51i owe it to both of us to to at least say that can can i ask you what do you see in zach i love him
23:00i do i found someone that i know will choose me above everything else and i choose him because
23:11of who i see and who the lord is calling him to be but just make sure it's you know you're calculating
23:20this correctly because it's fast yeah i'm going to germany to sit under a ministry there it's not a
23:27missions work or anything like that it's just really a time for me to receive just whatever the
23:32lord has for me there i was talking to my pastor about it and he was just like i would totally
23:36recommend you guys going together married and like it's the first month of our marriage is just being
23:42poured into and really just receiving from the lord me and lady are very different in our reasoning and
23:50our thoughts and where we place value or whatever i believe in god god has given all of us free will
23:58and so with that free will comes the ability to make your own decisions and to take the consequences
24:05of those decisions and so it's like if you are saying it's all divine and god is making these decisions
24:10for you it's taken away from your responsibility in making a good decision or a bad decision the long
24:17story short the reason why you guys are getting married so soon is because you want to be married
24:20before you go to this thing it's one of the reasons like it it just made sense i think leaving such big
24:28parts of your life open to the decision of someone else whether that's god or other men or people leaves
24:34you open to being manipulated she's a blank slate ready to be written on and i just worry about who's
24:40going to do the writing you know well i want you to know i want you to be happy and i'm very happy to
24:47see that you're happy but i just have to say it you've only known him for three months and you get
24:51married in two months you sure you're good with that well four months if that matters okay i'll take it
24:59if i was watching someone else go through this and i wasn't experiencing it i don't think
25:03i'd be able to fully understand yeah i don't understand i don't it's too fast it's too much
25:10what would your advice be to take it slower and like i said i don't really know him
25:18i don't really like him why is that just being honest with you i just don't like him but i don't
25:26know if that's because i don't know him yet or if it's just because i'm being protective of you and
25:30it's all really fast but um sorry
26:01i feel like i don't know you really i don't talk to you a lot now you're gone already
26:19it's just the first time that
26:22that i really feel you care i didn't know you didn't know
26:33he doesn't really like zach but i think it's much deeper than that and i think the problem is more
26:38he doesn't know me very well and that's a hard reality to face i wish we've would have had
26:50more opportunities to be close i know it's been hard with you in minnesota and there were never
26:56opportunities for it to be expressed yeah yeah kind of stings a little bit because i feel the same
27:05way not just about her but all my siblings with all the drama between olivia and my family there
27:10was a period of time where i didn't see them very much you know and that's not good that should never
27:18happen well so thank you now you do know
27:30i'm just being hard on zach because i think that you're
27:33you're just amazing and nobody really ever would be good enough for you you know
27:41it's not my place to tell her no just a little caution a little warning a little
27:46something other than what she's hearing from everyone else that's all i want it to be i don't
27:49want to discourage her from what she's pursuing i just want her to be careful and i want it because
27:53i care about her i want her to be safe and i want anybody to take advantage of her you know i really
27:59do hope you can not just get to know zach more but i hope we can spend time together yeah because we
28:09really should do stuff together more i've seen him protect mariah at times and i knew he and rye were
28:18really close sorry i just always wanted that for myself and i feel like i finally got that today
28:34not that he has anything to protect me from but just the fact that he's showing he cares
28:40well i said my piece and thank you yeah you're welcome
28:52she's already planned the wedding and she doesn't know she's getting engaged i'm like
28:55she knows she's getting engaged well yeah she knows soon i try to be respectful of anyone and everyone
29:00i meet especially when i meet somebody for the first time you've never even kissed yeah i know that's
29:05what you can tell me i'm a little worried you are i also don't think you should be saying things
29:12about people regardless of what your own opinions are you should be supportive
29:21micah i can't find my eyelashes can you find them veronica and i drove up late last night to
29:28georgia staying at the cabin lydia's not supposed to know we're here because we are here
29:32to surprise her and witness her engagement today we are staying at miss kimberly's vacation rental
29:42i'd rather be in boca
29:46i'm trying to get ready in like the smallest bathroom there ever was you walk in the house
29:49terry and there's a bathroom this is the front door
29:54and it's in your house i yeah and then like the family's coming in a few minutes and
29:59i lost my eyelashes and i just hate this town there's tension between veronica and my family
30:05but there's also tension between veronica and i our issue is my infidelity mike is on the great hunt
30:12for my eyelashes you didn't stick them on the wall or anything no they were on the table um he's trying
30:18to help me get ready and like avoid a mental breakdown golden retriever energy the golden retriever
30:25knows i'm not having a good time i think he's gonna do anything to not have me like pop off
30:32i sent mike on a manhunt for my eyelashes i had them all along so what's your plan as far as like
30:39talking to everyone are you gonna people aside and like actually talk it through the last time i saw
30:46barry mariah was uh the concert and it just went downhill from there they so they sided with my
30:53boyfriend for a little bit they all attacked me it's like a baseball team of plots attacking one
30:57person no no don't don't don't jump that far i haven't thought about pulling people aside in the
31:03woods yet but i definitely am gonna like address things so veronica is upset with mariah because
31:09of what went down with my ex-boyfriend veronica's always said mariah's spreading lies about her i don't
31:15know exactly how true all that is on top of that veronica says that my dad calls her a liar
31:21mariah cut veronica off and my dad as well veronica didn't like that and has not received an apology
31:28from my dad and apparently a bad one from mariah this will be exciting oh my gosh you call it exciting
31:35i call it my biggest nightmare but i'm stuck here it's tricky to navigate because at the end of the day
31:43my main focus is veronica in cultivating this because this is what i want my future to be but
31:50i don't want to exile my family i love you i gotta go get ready because people are coming any second
31:58it's not just people it's my brother it's not just people it's a brother
32:02last time i saw michael was in tank pete really today is the first time i'll meet mike and veronica
32:17this cabin is terrifying
32:22i'm so nervous
32:24i'm definitely nervous to see how it all goes meeting everyone lots of different personalities
32:29a lot of strong opinions i think ethan's here that's lovely i need a minute
32:36i haven't seen ethan in a while and i've never met tegan so this is going to be exciting
32:42how are they up so early uh
32:46ethan only gets up like two o'clock in the morning so i don't know he's sleeping in
32:50this is the worst way to get ready i haven't met ethan's girlfriend yet
32:56we're very similar we're both tall blondes who played volleyball and she went to college in
33:00florida so did i so we're either going to get along really well or a wormhole's going to develop
33:07and we're going to consume each other but how do you know all this i do my research
33:12like a lawyer hey ethan my god how are you i'm good how are you good your beard is insanely long
33:20hello hello hi i'm micah hello nice to meet you i'm tegan i've heard a lot about you hopefully good
33:26thanks hi nice to meet you so when did you guys get in late last night sorry i'm distracted by the hair
33:34what wait um it's actually curly it's like twisted up you like that's a choice i love his beard you do
33:42yeah i think he looks handsome either way you look like santa
33:48ho ho ho i'm still wondering what's on his face i think it was a dead cat
33:55i don't know why she likes it
33:58have you ever been here before yeah okay but i'm avoiding the family oh yeah they were very sweet at
34:05first and then they all turned i didn't expect any of that yeah but it's what it is yeah it's
34:12unfortunate yeah i've never expected that i was like best friends with mariah oh really she i don't
34:19even know what happened oh that's not good and she like threw me under a bus i try to be respectful
34:26of anyone and everyone i meet especially when i meet somebody for the first time so i really want
34:30to be there and present in the moment to listen but at the same time you know i have not experienced
34:35any of that at all have you met zach i've not met zach have you no i'm a little worried you are
34:42yeah why she already planned the wedding and she doesn't know if she's getting engaged oh my god
34:47she knows she's getting engaged well yeah she knows soon we talked about that but like the chicken
34:51before the egg and i'm like oh you already well when it's that short of a timeline i feel like you've
34:55got to be prepared you've never even kissed yeah i know that's what ethan told me i also don't think
35:02you should be saying things about people especially when it comes to somebody's wedding day or if
35:07they're happy in what they're doing regardless of what your own opinions are you should be supportive
35:11they're saving it wow they've been together less than four months i'm like huh
35:16tegan seems really sweet she seems really nice i think she and ethan get along well together
35:21she seems to really like ethan and ethan really likes her the things ethan's told me about her is
35:26really really really really great what's in that cup buddy it's just coffee this is my normal song
35:32that's a lie when the plath boys lie they get a double dimple i'll teach you double dimple yeah
35:40i can't keep doing i don't care to have a relationship with mariah or your dad but where
35:45does that leave me if you want to be a part of this family this is the price you pay you i'm going to be
35:49honest i don't know if i want to be part of the family well i mean that is your choice
36:05i can't keep dealing
36:10what's going on what are we walking on no we're trying to figure out
36:13how i move forward with my dad and mariah they could care less i don't think that's true bronca
36:22she threw everything under the rug and pretended it's okay i know and mariah does that and that's
36:27i completely agree with you she got your dad to call me a liar to micah did he tell you that i heard
36:32it from other people my dad's not like that i really don't know what i see is that my family my family likes
36:40you they've they've all told me how they really like you you used to like them there's a lot of
36:47tension between my dad and veronica and veronica and mariah from what i had heard she had hurt
36:52bronca's feelings and led veronica to believe a certain thing about her ex that veronica then said
36:58publicly that may or may not have been true i don't know it's a whole mess and i think if
37:04my and veronica really if they could straighten it out it'd be
37:08a lot easier for everybody else it's different when you're outside and you don't feel welcome
37:12when you end up in a situation like this olivia used to do the same thing she picked every hill to
37:17die on because she could not see past her own grievances with my family micah's kind of in the
37:24same spot i'm tired of feuds don't do anything before everything happens with lydia and zach so we
37:31don't want to mess up their day for this when veronica and i have issues we talk we talk but
37:38we talk enough to resolve it and understand but what i'm saying is it never goes away we never
37:44completely finish something next time you get really mad yeah next time you get mad at me you
37:48dig that stuff back up and bring it up again that's what you do i will forgive i will never forget
37:53so we're here is there anything you can be thankful for today it's not thanksgiving
38:02they can't remember what they've done they don't care it never affected them
38:06well that's not true it never affected her no mariah has been deeply affected she told me that she
38:12feels like she's royally screwed up her life she has wrecked herself and she's realizing that she
38:18doesn't know what to do so she's paid a much higher cost in my opinion than you she doesn't
38:22she doesn't even look like the same person now she's done that to herself though i agree but she's
38:26a victim of her own actions she's paying us very high you're saying that it hasn't affected them it
38:31has a breakup with a guy she barely knew should not derail her life i think ethan took olivia's
38:37side and saw 100 through olivia's eyes and you know basically cut his family members off or at least
38:43mom and dad and didn't have a relationship with them and i'm trying not to let that happen but i want
38:49veronica to see my family through my eyes and i'm trying to see my family through veronica's eyes
38:55trying to meet in the middle because i don't want to just blindly say yeah veronica you're right
38:58right and end up you know severing relationships with my family i always try to tell you she's
39:06genuinely sorry i don't know she doesn't know how to write put it on paper or say she needs to do
39:12that she needs to make it right with you i know this is a deep wound and it does have to be addressed
39:16but i don't think today is the day to do this just to be clear there are things that i have paws over
39:22with lydia and zach some things concern zach specifically but i don't want to ruin lydia's day my dad
39:28mariah i really do think have a piece to play in making it right with veronica but veronica needs
39:34to let it go but i also don't like care to be around her she pretends nothing's wrong but you have
39:38to if you want to be a part of this family this is the price you pay you i'm gonna be honest
39:43i don't know if i want to be part of the family well i mean that is your choice
39:46i think i think all of us would be sad to see you go i don't want to see you go they'd be rejoicing
39:54some of them no i don't think so and i will tell you veronica if you think that then you will go
40:00i probably will the damage is done veronica thinks that my family was out to get everyone
40:08not an immediate family member olivia thought the same thing that's not true and you know that's not
40:14true because now you got tegan and my family loves tegan tegan loves them i mean olivia has
40:19all kinds of things say about how my family went after her but did she not do the same she most
40:25certainly did it's that age old saying if you want to have friends you have to be friendly
40:31i don't care to have a relationship with mariah or your dad but where does that leave me it's fine i'm
40:36not going to hold you back from that i just don't want to be near them like that doesn't work i've been
40:39there yeah i feel like you were in that exact same spot so either because you know there's funerals
40:47and weddings and you got to be there for this so it either has to be repaired or it has to be tolerated
40:54to some degree my heart knows it's lydia's day but today should be the day to confront the plats
41:02because i'm tired of living like this i have like the bad devil on my shoulder saying like
41:10do it now it's your only shot and then the good one's like but poor lydia like you love lydia
41:17so i'm having a real bit more dilemma i'm going to hope for the best but there's a little bit of
41:22concern a little scared um but who's not scared of veronica when she's in a storm
41:32the whole family would stand where you guys are for when lydia and barry come in my heart's racing
41:37and i can't wait to just be hopefully engaged by the end of the day you guys will already be here
41:43kind of between the trees from the moment zach arrived he was very very pushy it feels like when
41:49the substitute teacher's telling you what to do and not one of souls listening i want to throw him
41:53in the water so bad all right okay we ready yeah off to the cabin and get those towels up yeah so far
42:04so good lydia's buying everything let's go out let's spend some time together we do need to make sure
42:10he's the one for lydia he needs a test to see his true colors let's frozzle him up a bit oh my god ethan
42:17oh he started a fire ethan please put the please ethan please don't oh oh my god
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