The Biggest Lie Against Prophet Muhammad’s (pbuh) Marriage! Silencing Answer!

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00:00There have always been people who wanted to eliminate Islam.

00:03In the first years of the revelation, in the following centuries, just like today, we come

00:07across such Islamophobes in different places on the internet.

00:10They try very hard to find flaws in Islam and push Muslims away from their religion.

00:15There's a question they've been using and trying to bring forward on every occasion

00:18they can for many many years.

00:20Inshallah today, we're going to answer that question very clearly.

00:23Until now, people of various religious beliefs have come to our madrasa.

00:27Atheists have come, Christians have come, even believers in the spaghetti religion have

00:31come.

00:32All kinds of people have come.

00:33They received the answers to their questions and left.

00:35We don't trust ourselves, we trust the wise Quran and the Islamic books we read.

00:39So what is the thing that hypocrites have been talking about for many years and today's

00:43Islamophobes also use a lot?

00:46Since our prophet married many times, they accuse him of being a lustful person.

00:52They say that if he hadn't been such a man, he wouldn't have got married so many times.

00:56They also say that if the maximum number of women a man can marry is four in Islam, then

01:01how did the prophet have more than four wives at the same time?

01:04It may seem like a challenging question at first, but it is easy to understand that it's

01:08actually a slander.

01:09How?

01:10Simply by looking at the life of our prophet .

01:13If we only look at one part of his life, we may get the wrong idea.

01:17But if you look at it holistically, from different perspectives, the truth will come out.

01:21First let's ask this question.

01:22When do boys enter puberty?

01:24Generally between the ages of 12 and 14, right?

01:27Of course, at that time and in that region, it was a little earlier.

01:31Biologically libido, sexual desire is high in men between the start of puberty and the

01:35age of 40.

01:36After 40, it decreases.

01:38When we look at the age when the prophet got married for the first time, we see that

01:42it was 25.

01:43A late age for marriage for those times and region.

01:46And at the age of 25, did our prophet marry a 16-year-old girl?

01:51How old was Khadija , his first wife?

01:5440 years old, and she was a widow.

01:56So he married someone who had been married before, plus she already had three children.

02:01Moreover, Khadija proposed to the prophet.

02:04He was known for his handsomeness and ethics.

02:07He was a chaste and honest person.

02:09No one heard him lie to anyone even once.

02:12Everyone trusted him so much that they gave him the nickname Al-Ameen, that is, the trustworthy.

02:17Even his enemies did not hesitate to entrust their belongings to him.

02:20So it was very easy for him to marry any girl he wanted.

02:23But he married a middle-aged woman when he was at an age when a man's libido is at its

02:28peak.

02:29And he didn't marry anyone else until Khadija died at the age of 65 when the prophet was

02:3449-50.

02:36So for 25 years, when his youth was at its peak, he was married to one woman.

02:41Though our mother Khadija encouraged him to marry other women many times, saying, if you

02:47have such an intention, don't hold yourself back, he always said no.

02:50When she became an old woman and lost her beauty, the prophet didn't even think of looking around

02:56for other wives.

02:57After her passing, for two years, he stayed single.

03:00So which person in their right mind could think that such a person was lustful?

03:04If he hadn't been that way, wouldn't it already have been evident in his youth when libido

03:09is high in man?

03:10However, his life shows the opposite.

03:12The multiple marriages of the prophet that they mention took place after he was 50 years

03:18old.

03:19Then, those marriages must have had different reasons and benefits.

03:21We are going to deal with them too, but when we look at his life, we clearly understand

03:25that nobody can find any excuse to slander him for being a lustful person.

03:30What are the reasons for those marriages?

03:32What is the wisdom behind them?

03:33Most of us like historical war movies, right?

03:36In those movies, we see the custom of marriages between tribes and kingdoms.

03:40For example, the daughter of the king of Scotland marries the king of England.

03:43There are many marriages like that, and there are really countless examples of it in history.

03:48So what do you think is the purpose of it?

03:50Alliance.

03:51One of the important reasons is this.

03:53Our prophet married women from some tribes that were hostile to him.

03:57Do you know what happened after those marriages?

04:00If the leader of a society married his daughter off to the prophet, would he want to make war

04:04with him?

04:06That is one of the wisdoms behind the marriages of our prophet.

04:08State relations.

04:09Strategic relations.

04:10Our mother Juwayriya was an example of it.

04:13Also, even if there was no animosity because there was a tribal culture at that time, generally

04:18different tribes did not interact with each other in a warm, nice way.

04:22They were protective, always on guard.

04:24And since our prophet's main mission was to deliver a message, it was very strategic

04:29and logical for him to reach people through marriage.

04:32The second wisdom.

04:33When there are wars, the population of men decreases significantly.

04:36At the time of the prophet , there were many widows because of that and for some

04:41other reasons.

04:42Like some of the companions, our prophet also married such women who needed protection.

04:47Indeed, most of our prophet's marriages were with widows.

04:50Do you think a lustful man would marry a 50-year-old woman with five children out of lust?

04:56Does it make sense?

04:57I mean, isn't it clear that the intentions of those who say so are not good and sincere?

05:02Now the third and the most important reason.

05:04Have you heard the expression Azwajat Tahirat?

05:06It is a term used for the wives of the prophet .

05:09If you pay attention to it, who takes care of your education, especially at home?

05:14Mothers right?

05:15We are not aware of how much we learned from our mothers.

05:17At that time, the women of that period also needed to take lessons.

05:20But since the prophet could not give them those lessons one by one, and since women could

05:25not talk about every issue comfortably with the man, especially with the prophet, there

05:28had to be women in his house, his wives, who were seeing and witnessing every one of his

05:33states so that they become very knowledgeable muslimas in almost all aspects of the religion.

05:38So they too will then give lessons to all the mothers of the ummah and teach people about

05:43religious matters.

05:44In other words, a system like a private school for women was established at that time.

05:48Hadiths make up a significant part of our religion.

05:51But who narrated them?

05:52The companions narrated the hadith uttered outside the house of the prophet .

05:56But what about the hadiths that are said inside the house, where there are no companions?

06:01Especially the ones that are about special situations of women.

06:04Who narrated them?

06:05His wives.

06:06In order to fulfill such an essential duty, there had to be multiple wives who are different

06:10from one another in terms of character, personality, ability, areas of interest, and age.

06:16You might find it interesting but almost half of the Islamic rulings and information came

06:21from the wives of our prophet.

06:23Our mother Aisha reported more hadiths than Omar and Abu Bakr combined.

06:27In short, the reasons for our prophet's multiple marriages are basically those three items.

06:33If you remember, there was this other question.

06:35How did our prophet have more than four wives at the same time although the marriage of a man

06:40is limited to four women in Islam?

06:43Actually the answer is again those three items.

06:45But we need to know this.

06:46The prophet had more responsibilities than any other Muslim.

06:50For example, you might be surprised but the tahajjud prayer was mandatory for him.

06:54Which means he had to interrupt his sleep in the middle of the night, even before the

06:58fajr prayer, and pray tahajjud.

07:00While it is optional for us, it was mandatory for him.

07:03Similarly, in order to fulfill those three tasks that we mentioned, especially the third

07:07one, raising female teachers for women, the limitation of having up to four wives was not put on him.

07:12But at the same time, it was an added difficulty because he was now given the responsibility

07:16of managing more than four wives and treating all of them equally.

07:20As a result, when we look at what we have talked about so far, we notice something like this.

07:26Islamophobes make a claim.

07:27If you look at this claim superficially, that is, in the way they want us to see, it can

07:31even sometimes seem logical.

07:32But when we go into details and look holistically, we realize that it's actually a distortion.

07:38This holds true for all the claims of the enemies of Islam.

07:41In short, we need to learn religious information from qualified, reliable people and sources,

07:46not from people who are against Islam, who have baseless prejudices.

07:50Either we will search and find out the truth, or we will let them deceive us.

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