- 5 months ago
Dear Chixie,
Ako diay si Bianca, a single mom of 2 kids. Lahi-lahi og papa ang akong mga anak. Puros nag-cheat ang mga papa sa akong mga anak maong I chose to be single nalang not until now. Naa koy boyfriend and he knows nga naa koy 2 kids. Ang akong last nga relationship mao ang pinakasakit kay late na nakong nahibaw-an nga minyo diay siya. Gi-confront ko mismo sa iyang asawa ga kon dili nako buwagan ang iyang bana, iya kong ipakiha. Mabdos ko ato sa akong ikaduha nga anak, Chixie, ug murag nahugno ang akong kalibutan kay grabe naman pud nga second time nakong giilad og lalaki. Hinoon, gisustentohan ko sa papa sa akong 2nd child. Karon Chixie, wala nagyud ko kasabot kay feel nako giduwaan ko sa panahon. Ako lang nahibaw-an nga ig-agaw diay sa akong current boyfriend ang wife sa akong ex.
Ako diay si Bianca, a single mom of 2 kids. Lahi-lahi og papa ang akong mga anak. Puros nag-cheat ang mga papa sa akong mga anak maong I chose to be single nalang not until now. Naa koy boyfriend and he knows nga naa koy 2 kids. Ang akong last nga relationship mao ang pinakasakit kay late na nakong nahibaw-an nga minyo diay siya. Gi-confront ko mismo sa iyang asawa ga kon dili nako buwagan ang iyang bana, iya kong ipakiha. Mabdos ko ato sa akong ikaduha nga anak, Chixie, ug murag nahugno ang akong kalibutan kay grabe naman pud nga second time nakong giilad og lalaki. Hinoon, gisustentohan ko sa papa sa akong 2nd child. Karon Chixie, wala nagyud ko kasabot kay feel nako giduwaan ko sa panahon. Ako lang nahibaw-an nga ig-agaw diay sa akong current boyfriend ang wife sa akong ex.
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03:29By the way, I am a single mom of two kids.
03:36I hope nga dili ko ninyo i-judge sa akong i-share karun.
03:39My two kids have different fathers.
03:42What's worse, what's worse, pareho mi nga or pareho ko nga nailad sa ilahang mga amahan.
03:49Ang pinakasakit, mawang ako ang nadiskubrihan sa akong ikaduha nga partner ka ni Addo.
03:58Hi, ikaw ba si Bianca?
04:07Ah, oh, ako, and you are?
04:17I'm going to introduce myself.
04:18I'm going to introduce myself.
04:18I'm going to introduce myself.
04:19Ako, I'm going to introduce myself.
04:20I'm going to introduce myself.
04:20I'm going to introduce myself.
04:21I'm going to introduce myself.
04:22Sa akong husband nga si Gary.
04:24I'm sure kaila ka ni Gary, di ba?
04:27Si Gary?
04:29Oo, kaila.
04:31Akong boyfriend ba nga Gary i-mong pasabot?
04:34Um, kanyang ba nga lalaki nga wallpaper na ako sa akong phone?
04:38Oo, siya nga Gary.
04:42So, on sa man yung buot nga isulti about ni Gary, miss?
04:48As what I've said earlier, Gary is my husband for 15 years now.
04:55Husband? 15 years?
04:58You mean, min yung si Gary?
05:01Oo, min yung dako si Gary.
05:05Ugihi mo ka lang niya nga mistress.
05:08Now, mora na kung gusto isulti ni mo.
05:11I want my husband back.
05:14Maung kung dili ka gusto o gubot o giskandalo, buwagi ang akong bana.
05:21Kahibalo ko nga, wala siguro kakahiba o nga minyo na siya.
05:25Pero, gisundan rata mo.
05:28O ganahan ko nga makahibalo ka, nga naami tulok ka anak.
05:32Kung tarong ka nga pagkababay, sa imong nahibawan ka ron,
05:36imuhang iuli akong bana na ko.
05:39Ha?
05:40Pero, pero mabdos ko ka ron.
05:43Okay ba ko si Gary, ana?
05:45Kahibalo ko, nga mabdos ka.
05:47Kasi si Gary mismo ang nikumpisal na ako, ana.
05:50Maubitaw, nga kahibalo ko nga naaka din hi karun.
05:54Tungod kagipahiba ako ni Gary, nga din hi tamo magkita karungad lawa.
05:59Arun, masayod ka.
06:01Bili na tumuan hi si Gary.
06:03Ako na yung mga tubang ni Mo para tapuso na,
06:07o gunsa inaan ninyo.
06:09Ayaw ka bala ka.
06:10Mabdos ka, diba?
06:12Suportaan gihapon sa kumbana ang bata.
06:15Pero, akong hangyo ni Mo,
06:17putla na giyon ang inyong relasyon.
06:20Kay kung dili,
06:21kasuhan yung tamong duha.
06:23Unsa?
06:24Kasuhan?
06:26Sige, para wala na igubot.
06:28Tapuso na na ako ang tanan.
06:30Na siya ako sa akong nahibauan shiksi,
06:38nga minyo na di ay si Gary.
06:41Nahimo kong mistress without my knowledge,
06:44nga moto.
06:47He is legally married.
06:49Tudman, gisuportahan ni Gary ang akong pagpanganak.
06:53Hangtud sa,
06:54nag-migrate sila sa iyong asawa nga si Elaine sa abroad.
06:58Padayan gihapon ang iyong pagsustento,
07:00sa amuang anak.
07:01Humanato,
07:02nagpabili na giyon ko nga single,
07:05sulod sa pila katuig.
07:07Hangtud sa,
07:08nakailan ako,
07:09si Justin.
07:11Nagkasuod mi,
07:12og sawa damha,
07:14gi panguyaban ko niya.
07:16Nakita po na ako,
07:17nga sincere siya sa ako,
07:19og hasta sa akong mga anak.
07:22Ako siyang gisugot.
07:24Hangtud sa usaka adlaw,
07:26sa usaka family reunion nila,
07:28iya ha kong gidala.
07:29Og did to,
07:31nakita na ako pagbalik si Elaine.
07:35Babe,
07:36sure ka okay na niya akong gisugot?
07:39Uwe boy,
07:41wapa kayo ka tonight.
07:42Ay soos,
07:44thank you sa nice words, babe, ha?
07:46Siyempre.
07:48Ah,
07:48dali na babe kayo,
07:49nakoy ipalailanin mo ba?
07:51Murag,
07:52tuwara siya eh.
07:53Ah,
07:54Ate El.
07:55Uy,
07:56Justin.
07:58Wow,
07:59it's been a while.
08:00So,
08:00kumusta?
08:01You look young, ha?
08:03Ha,
08:03ikaw,
08:04ikaw d'yo d'yo d'Ate El.
08:05Until na ako,
08:06Japong nangyay mong paborito.
08:08Of course,
08:09you will always be my favorite cousin.
08:11Come on!
08:12Ah,
08:12by the way,
08:12Ate El,
08:13since wala naman kay,
08:15nagsukmid no?
08:16Wala na nung tika na update nga,
08:18na ano koy GF?
08:20Ah,
08:21Ate El,
08:22si Bianca,
08:23akong girlfriend.
08:24Babe,
08:25si Ate Elinda,
08:26akong cousin.
08:28Bian,
08:29Bianca?
08:29Ah,
08:31hi.
08:33You look so familiar.
08:35I guess,
08:36I guess we've met na.
08:38Sakto ba ko?
08:39Ah,
08:40good evening,
08:41ma'am Elaine.
08:42Ah,
08:44basin before Ate's,
08:45yung previous workbook,
08:46kay Tiller,
08:48bayan siya sa bank before?
08:49Ah,
08:50oo,
08:50basin sa bank ko.
08:52Ah,
08:53bank ko?
08:54Ah,
08:54well,
08:55yeah,
08:55maybe.
08:56Um,
08:56Justin,
08:57kanang,
08:57koan ba?
08:58Kauna mo,
08:59ha,
08:59naang buffet dito.
09:01Ah,
09:01I'll excuse myself first.
09:02Ah,
09:02sige Ate,
09:03kay,
09:03gigot tom na po dme.
09:05Let's go,
09:05babe.
09:06Ah,
09:06sure,
09:06babe.
09:12Mauna niya nga akong problema,
09:14karoon Shixi.
09:15Wala kahibalo si Justin,
09:17nga nahimo kong mistress ka ni Adto.
09:20Ang iyerang nahibauan,
09:21nag-cheat ang papa sa akong mga anak ka ni Adto.
09:26Wala po na ako siya gipakita sa naong sa akong mga anak.
09:29Para onsa pa man.
09:31Tunggod ni Inie,
09:33nahadlo ko nga basin,
09:34pahibauon ni Elaine si Justin,
09:36sa among kani Adto sa iyahang bana nga si Gary.
09:40Og,
09:40madiscourage na noon si Justin,
09:42dinika na ko.
09:43Dili ba kahak ko biyaan ni Justin kung makahibalo siya sa tinuod Shixi?
09:49Please,
09:50tambagiko.
09:52What if,
09:53magkita na po'n magbalik ni Gary?
09:56Kaya after all,
09:58gamay ra kayang kalibutan,
10:00pagkasin-inlo,
10:01bayaan niya si Justin.
10:02On saan maninako eh?
10:06I hope nga mahatagan ko ninyo'y advice.
10:09Thank you,
10:11Bianca.
10:11Alright.
10:22Okay na naging inhawan na mamutanan.
10:25Kay kasuhan naman eh,
10:26Koan,
10:26Elaine siya.
10:28Ang reaction ni,
10:29ang reaction ni Sir Marpa Paginon,
10:31ha?
10:32Kasuhan?
10:33Thank you,
10:34Charlie and Eric for bringing life to the story.
10:37Naaman tayo mga guests nilis sa studio.
10:39Bimaging ay!
10:42Diba?
10:43Abi pa lang,
10:43musikis nilis.
10:44Kinsapin yung katabi ni Shixi.
10:45Oo,
10:45kinsapin yung katabi.
10:47Diba?
10:48Good afternoon everybody.
10:49So,
10:50mula gini ang story,
10:51Karol,
10:51ang atong hashtag,
10:52hashtag secrets.
10:53Actually,
10:54naaman gita yung mga butang sa kani Adto nga.
10:56Ambut lang ninyo ha?
10:57Kung unsa mo katransparent sa inyong partner.
11:00Mangutan na ko,
11:01unsa man mo katransparent.
11:02Will you lay everything down?
11:04Especially kung manag-uyab pa,
11:05kung unsag yun ang inyong history.
11:08Para na ko,
11:09iyaha siguro eh,
11:10to protect her peace,
11:11doesn't necessarily
11:12ka nabit ang required nga,
11:14o sige,
11:15kanisha good,
11:15ang ako ang magong na-partner sa una,
11:17nanghimokong kabit,
11:18nga wala ko nakahibalo,
11:19or nanghimokong mistress,
11:20nga wala ko nakahibalo.
11:21So,
11:21she,
11:22she just said nga,
11:24she was cheated on before.
11:26Unya da ito,
11:27ang suod nga igagaw ni
11:29Justin mo,
11:31da ito eh,
11:31wife sa iyahang,
11:33ah,
11:34kanabit ang ex,
11:35no?
11:35So,
11:36dakko kayo siya,
11:36gipoblim makaroon,
11:38unsa on maniya,
11:39kumubutiag siya sa kamatuuran kang Justin.
11:42Kay,
11:42tinood lang,
11:43nakapamakak siya sa part nga,
11:45na chitan siya.
11:46Pero ang iyahamang yun ato was,
11:48she discovered that she became a mistress,
11:52nga wala siya'y knowledge.
11:54Kanabang,
11:55ay,
11:55kabit ko,
11:55ako kabaw.
11:56Diba,
11:57kay,
11:57di diritsuman siya ginginan sa wife,
11:59harang masayad kami niyo,
12:00di ba diritsuman?
12:02Kung di kaganahan,
12:04nga,
12:04kung an,
12:05magkagubot na rin,
12:06magka-skandalo.
12:08Isa-kinsa,
12:09di ganaha ka-skandalo,
12:10no?
12:10So,
12:11maubay na lang siya,
12:11o sige,
12:12o sige,
12:12basta sustentuhan ng anak and all.
12:15Given nga si Elaine,
12:16na maging mga tao,
12:17karoon nga,
12:17dili na ginagin into social media,
12:18doon na agyo,
12:19present social media,
12:20pero na iuban nga,
12:21siguro to protect their peace,
12:23dili kayo sila into gadgets,
12:24whatever.
12:25Si Elaine,
12:26wala na kung nag-soc med.
12:27So,
12:27mo siguro nga,
12:27wala agad sila nagka-chance,
12:29bang,
12:29mapakita ni Justin.
12:31Nga,
12:31mune si Ate Elaine,
12:32mune akong ikagaw,
12:33suod mi Ani,
12:34ana,
12:34di ba?
12:34Kaya reunion raman,
12:36no?
12:36Especially kung kasing-kasing,
12:37di ba,
12:37agad na sisari,
12:38nga makahibaw.
12:39So,
12:40kung inyong tanawon,
12:40di rin sa story,
12:41na akoan ka ng circumstances,
12:43nga,
12:44mura sila magtagbo,
12:45balik,
12:46aning wife,
12:46no?
12:47Sa iyahang kanhing,
12:48nga karelasyon nga si Gary.
12:49Ang pinakadako niyang pangutan na karoon,
12:52mune,
12:52unsaon man niya?
12:54Mune,
12:54unsaon man ako,
12:56nga,
12:57ang iba kong musulti ni Justin,
12:59nga,
12:59Justin,
12:59kanabi taong husband,
13:02sa imuhang Ate Elaine,
13:04muna,
13:04ang father sa akong second child.
13:07And,
13:07kana siya nga guy,
13:09married siya before,
13:11ako yung nahimong,
13:12unknowingly,
13:14mistress,
13:14no?
13:15So,
13:15muna,
13:16unsaang may angay niyang buhaton ko,
13:17no?
13:17Kaya,
13:18had look siya,
13:18what if kung Justin makahibalo,
13:20mabiyan sila,
13:21okay rabay lang relasyon,
13:23no?
13:23So,
13:23nagit na yung mga inana,
13:25mga secrets ba,
13:26mga past that you don't discuss so much about yourself,
13:30nga to sa iyong partner,
13:32kamo ba,
13:33unsaang mamuka secretive,
13:34no?
13:34Na ba na,
13:35nag-exist ba na sa inyo ha,
13:36ang term nga secret,
13:38or unsa,
13:39no?
13:39So,
13:40muna,
13:40ako ang pangutana ninyo,
13:41and while we do that,
13:43at unsaang basahan yung mga pa-shoutouts,
13:45kung naamos na to ang,
13:46kung ano,
13:47online,
13:48na may mga pa-shoutouts,
13:51mga messages,
13:52or gatings,
13:52go ahead and share your thoughts,
13:54okay?
13:55Kanyang,
13:56para na kulod akong problema,
13:58good,
13:58Annie is,
13:59unsaang pagbutyag sa kamatuuran,
14:02o unsaang pagdawat sa kamatuuran,
14:05okay?
14:06It's either si Justin,
14:08mupalayo,
14:10kay close ba niya si Ate Elaine,
14:12or si Justin,
14:13muingon nga,
14:14okay,
14:14raman na kay past man,
14:15na ni Moe,
14:16but there will always be an awkward stage,
14:19kay,
14:20kung buta naon,
14:21kung ako sa si Justin,
14:22so,
14:23papa sa iyo mong anak,
14:25ang ako,
14:25ang cousin-in-law,
14:27or bayan,
14:27unsaang term na,
14:28basta,
14:29cousin-in-law,
14:30kay mo,
14:30okay ni ang bana,
14:31sa akong close na cousin,
14:33so,
14:34medyo awkward ang set up,
14:35di ba,
14:35nga,
14:35mahimang silang family,
14:37no,
14:37so,
14:38muna nga,
14:38kung magkadayon magidgani si Justin,
14:40o si Bianca,
14:41ha,
14:41so,
14:42muna,
14:42dako kay Iahang,
14:43siguro kakul ba,
14:44kay this time,
14:45karoon pa siya ni Balik,
14:46o pagigugma,
14:48no,
14:48and,
14:49why is it nga,
14:49morag difficult para sa Iahang,
14:51ang Iahang love life,
14:52dili ba yung easy for her,
14:54to be in this type of situation,
14:56so,
14:56muna nga,
14:57sa tanan din ha nga,
14:58mga gustong mo comment,
15:00no,
15:00and mo share sa Iahang thoughts and advice,
15:02we encourage you to do so,
15:05go ahead,
15:06and,
15:06share your thoughts,
15:08and hopefully,
15:09um,
15:10naamoy ma-impart,
15:11no,
15:11sa ito ang letter sender,
15:13para at least makakuha po,
15:14tag-igo pa,
15:15na mga knowledge,
15:17po,
15:17geekan ninyo,
15:18para ma-advise na,
15:19or the best advice we could give kang Bianca,
15:22so,
15:22itong i-check ang,
15:23uh,
15:23uban pa,
15:24no,
15:25ng mga comments,
15:26let's check out,
15:27na yung mga comments,
15:28dili sa ito ang,
15:29uh,
15:29kuan,
15:30post,
15:31no,
15:31um,
15:33ingon diri si,
15:34Quny Kabagunuto,
15:37ingon siya,
15:38may scent of advice,
15:39focus your attention to your children,
15:43take time to,
15:44uh,
15:44care for them,
15:46find ways,
15:47and make yourself busy,
15:49para maka-income ka,
15:51love yourself,
15:52wag ka nang pabola sa mga lalaki,
15:55uy,
15:56kung hindi ka kayang panindigan,
15:58o pakasalan,
15:59wag ka nalang magpalibin,
16:01huy,
16:02itagalog man,
16:03ha,
16:04karang i-react man mo mga boys,
16:06ha,
16:07eh,
16:08mga laki daw,
16:09wag reaction sa mga laki,
16:10huy,
16:11huy,
16:12huy,
16:13react sila,
16:14ingon diri si Sarah Baclado,
16:17run,
16:18Bianca,
16:19run,
16:19ayaw padala,
16:21I swear,
16:21maulawan lang ka kung imo nang ipadayun,
16:25pray sa ginoo,
16:26and I know it takes time,
16:27but God will provide a man for you,
16:30ayaw pagdali,
16:31God avoided you the wrong person,
16:34why?
16:34So,
16:34it means,
16:36wait,
16:37oh,
16:38maghuwat na lang yun si Bianca,
16:39dyan sa saktong panahon,
16:40sa saktong tao,
16:41pero what if si Justin magin yung gigugmabi,
16:44no,
16:44wala palang gini yung na-reveal,
16:45ang secret,
16:46no,
16:47oo,
16:48so,
16:49ito ang,
16:49kung ang yun is,
16:51on sa oma ni niya,
16:52kay,
16:53kanang sa tinood lang,
16:55ang iyahang problema ron,
16:58more than anything,
17:00is to reveal,
17:01that certain part of her past,
17:04nga wala niya gishare,
17:05sa iyahang present nga karelasyon,
17:08no,
17:08ang but ninyo,
17:09kanang inanaba mo,
17:10kung na po may karelasyon,
17:11or na mo yung uyab,
17:12open ba dahil mo sa tanong,
17:13kabalok ka sa unay,
17:14nanin mi,
17:14nanin mo yun,
17:15nanin ako ng kaigi,
17:15inanaba mo,
17:17or,
17:18mapiliyon ninyo,
17:19filteron ninyo,
17:20kung un sa inyong mga isulti,
17:22like,
17:22diligyan na si sari,
17:23ah,
17:23din na kailangan mahibawa,
17:25kung uyaban niya,
17:25nga naman,
17:26di man ni makapictus sa mong current relationship,
17:28so,
17:28no need na ichika,
17:30diba,
17:31un sa mga mukha,
17:31open,
17:32no,
17:33diba,
17:33makataan ako,
17:34makataan ako,
17:34percentage level,
17:35ano yung mga tao,
17:41diba,
17:43un sa mga ka-percentage level,
17:45no,
17:45are you 100% full transparent sa inyong mga kauyaban,
17:50especially sa inyong mga past,
17:51that sometimes you want to forget,
17:53because it's miserable,
17:54or,
17:55you will leave a certain percentage of things,
17:58na dilig na lang ninyo,
17:59idivulge kayo,
18:00after all,
18:01din naman siya siguro yung nesesari,
18:02sa current relationship,
18:04makataan ako,
18:04diba,
18:04lasi,
18:05sir,
18:05sir,
18:06yung kataw ka,
18:06sir,
18:07uy,
18:07makataan ako,
18:08diba,
18:08sir,
18:08100%,
18:09sir,
18:09dili,
18:09dili ka na,
18:11100%,
18:12dili na lang ka na,
18:14comment na lang,
18:14ha,
18:15ha,
18:15ha,
18:16ha,
18:16ha,
18:16ha,
18:17ha,
18:17kama mga,
18:17I can,
18:17yung mga young people,
18:19o,
18:19sige,
18:19kung namoy mga love life,
18:21or,
18:21let's say,
18:21put yourself into a show of this person,
18:24namoy mga past,
18:25na di mo ganahan i-share,
18:27example,
18:28nakasap mo sa inyong ex,
18:29tapos,
18:30kamogid a reason sa breakup,
18:31inyo pa bang i-open up,
18:32or dili?
18:33Dili.
18:35Nga,
18:35nga,
18:35nga,
18:36nga,
18:36nga,
18:36nga,
18:36tapos nero ay sa reaction,
18:37hindi na,
18:38ha,
18:38ha,
18:39ha,
18:39ha,
18:39ha,
18:39ha,
18:39ha,
18:40ha,
18:40the reaction is giving,
18:41ha,
18:42ha,
18:42ha,
18:42inyo ha,
18:44kama mga,
18:44ano,
18:44naman to yung mga,
18:45ano,
18:45din yung mga interns,
18:46gud,
18:46itong bag side,
18:47o,
18:47yung mga tando,
18:48maana palang sila,
18:49kinsay mo,
18:49kastorya di ha,
18:49chik si,
18:51ha,
18:51na daw mic,
18:52dool daw mo sa mic,
18:54oh,
18:54dool daw mo sa mic,
18:55open forum ni,
18:56ha,
18:57ha,
18:57ha,
18:57dili ba tam,
18:58okay live ba yata ron,
19:01sir,
19:01what's your name sir?
19:02My name is Ian,
19:04breakable holes,
19:05okay,
19:05Ian,
19:05oh,
19:06Ian,
19:06at your age,
19:07um,
19:08if nakakay ka relationship,
19:09or you're planning to court someone,
19:11or you're,
19:11you are in a relationship already,
19:13put yourself into a shoe,
19:15ka nang nakakay past,
19:16you don't want that past,
19:18or it's a painful past,
19:19will you share it to your present ka relationship?
19:22Well,
19:23depend,
19:23para na ako,
19:24depende man siya sa,
19:26trust nga mo na build,
19:27wow,
19:28well,
19:29if,
19:30trusted you ni mo person,
19:32pwede na mo po ni mo i-share,
19:33pero as,
19:35as long as,
19:36ka nang,
19:37kinahalampot siya nga,
19:38ka nang,
19:38if,
19:39importante gan ni siya i-share,
19:40need you ni mo siya i-share,
19:41ka na siya morag,
19:42justifiable lang siya,
19:43ba nga,
19:44pwede na mo siya ma-share siya mo partner,
19:46Jun?
19:46Oo,
19:46so,
19:47I,
19:47from the word,
19:48yung trust ko,
19:49no,
19:50so,
19:50feeling na ako,
19:51di pa gini 100% kisaliga ni Bianca,
19:53si Juan,
19:54si Justin,
19:55kaya wala pa man yun niya,
19:56g-divulge na nga part,
19:57no,
19:58oo,
19:58say mo,
19:59pagsalig,
19:59next,
20:00please,
20:00kani part ni siya yung internship,
20:02sarang,
20:03sarang,
20:04sa,
20:04sa female perspective,
20:06ma'am,
20:06sa female perspective,
20:08oo,
20:09tao,
20:09bagay,
20:10pangyayari,
20:10ato yung check na rin ang koan,
20:14sige girl,
20:15female,
20:16senior perspective,
20:17senior,
20:18female perspective,
20:20sa babae,
20:21sige,
20:21hi,
20:22what's,
20:22okay naman,
20:23ibang mo makita sa camera,
20:24so,
20:24hi,
20:25what's your name?
20:26I am Shane,
20:27Kaila,
20:27and Kejada,
20:28si Shane,
20:29Shane,
20:29what's your opinion?
20:31Ikaw female man ka,
20:32kato male man to,
20:33so,
20:33what are your,
20:34will you open up 100%
20:36about your past,
20:37especially when it comes to relationship,
20:39experiences,
20:40sa'yo mong present ka ron?
20:42I think,
20:42no,
20:43kaya,
20:43koan,
20:45Shane sa,
20:46yeah,
20:47it depends d'yo,
20:48kay,
20:49kanang basin,
20:50kanang,
20:50wala kay,
20:51wala,
20:51dili pa kayo full,
20:52e mong trust niya ba din,
20:54sample na,
20:55kay mga salti na,
20:56kanang importante kayo,
20:57kanang,
20:59dili mong magdugay din,
21:00kabawa siya,
21:01saka itong mga secret,
21:02then what if,
21:02iyang ikuan,
21:04na na,
21:04so,
21:04it depends d'yo,
21:05dapat,
21:05kanang trust na kayo ni mo siya,
21:07di hala naman.
21:07So,
21:08feeling ninyo guys,
21:09dili pa kayo totally,
21:10100% trustworthy,
21:12for Bianca,
21:13si Justin.
21:14Feeling ninyo,
21:15kaya,
21:15wala mong ginaniagisulti,
21:17naiingkod raman siya nga,
21:18ay,
21:18gichitan ko sa una,
21:19maura to period,
21:20pero wala siya nisulti,
21:21nga,
21:21bito,
21:22Justin,
21:22antinod yun na,
21:23naka-discover ko,
21:24nga,
21:24I was,
21:25my partner before,
21:27the father of my second child,
21:28was actually married,
21:29wala mga niagisulti,
21:31so,
21:31feeling ninyo,
21:31dili pa niagisaligan si Justin,
21:33dili pa.
21:34Oh,
21:35so,
21:36dili pa enough,
21:36iyahang trust.
21:38Noong niya,
21:38karun,
21:39tanaw ninyo,
21:39dapat na ba niyang,
21:40i-divulge,
21:43i-sulti,
21:44tanaw ninyo,
21:45mga,
21:45oh na,
21:46dapat na,
21:47oo,
21:48natinanawayman mo,
21:49di,
21:49mamani,
21:49mamani,
21:50skor.
21:52There's no right and wrong answers for this,
21:55because this is an opinion-based,
21:57cannot be taong answer,
21:58so,
21:59thank you so much,
22:00ito mga,
22:00and of course,
22:09kanabitaw ngayon nga klase sa,
22:11sa kanabitaw ngayon nga klase sa,
22:11sa kanabitaw ngayon nga part sa imuha,
22:14or portion of it,
22:14say for example,
22:15di na nakaganahan mo discuss anong certain ex,
22:18okay,
22:18na kay ex,
22:19sa tanang lima ka ex ni mo,
22:21ang upat,
22:21yung mong gishare sa present ni mo,
22:23pero ang atong usawa ni mo gishare,
22:25kay lagot,
22:25kay ka,
22:26kay dakok kasyang utang ni mo,
22:28kanya bayrig,
22:29utang na sa ska,
22:29ay,
22:30charot,
22:30giutang ra,
22:32charot lang,
22:34so muna nga,
22:35wakan niya bayrig,
22:36sulagot ka sa imuha,
22:36kung sa ka ex,
22:37kay gilin lang ka,
22:38wano'y mag-isulti sa imong present,
22:39pero ang upat,
22:40imong na-share,
22:41unang inana ba,
22:42unang inana ba,
22:42na kay gefilter,
22:43bitaw,
22:44so muna yung naitabo ka ron ni,
22:46Bianca,
22:46na siya gefilter,
22:48nga parts,
22:49ngad to kang,
22:50akoan,
22:52ngad to sa,
22:52to ang,
22:53iyahang partner ka ron nga si Justin,
22:54kaso lang,
22:55muna na wag na trigger,
22:56trigger overload naman ang show,
22:59kay,
22:59hallo ka,
22:59small world,
23:00kaklose ninyo ni Ilin,
23:02di ba ka na,
23:02musulti si Ilin,
23:03kayo ba ka Justin,
23:05ka nang,
23:05be careful with your girlfriend,
23:07ha,
23:07kayo ka nang imong girlfriend,
23:08di ba,
23:08watak kahibaw,
23:10no,
23:10kayo kumutunan na naun,
23:11wala mag-isay sa isa si Bianca,
23:13because she didn't know that,
23:14that the man,
23:15that she was once involved with,
23:18kay married,
23:19however,
23:20however,
23:21technically speaking,
23:22naam mo sila anak,
23:23so,
23:23muna yung pinakadak ko nga,
23:26gig koan nga,
23:27saan yung mga family,
23:28mga family koan na lang,
23:29ni family reunion yun,
23:30ni nana,
23:31no,
23:31so,
23:32muna,
23:32anyway,
23:33mapos sa ataan yan,
23:34no,
23:34and of course,
23:35kung naam mo yung mga pa-shoutouts or greetings,
23:37wherever,
23:37asa mga platform nga,
23:38nagtanaw ka ron,
23:40go ahead,
23:41no,
23:41kung asa man mo nagtanaw ka ron,
23:43share your thoughts,
23:44and then,
23:45at the same time,
23:46ato ang,
23:47diskusyonan,
23:48kani speaking of relationship,
23:50kani,
23:50muna yung relationship,
23:52or kani man nag-uyab sa showbiz ba,
23:54I was honestly shocked when,
23:56they first came out as a couple,
23:57na shocked ko,
23:58kay,
23:59kay balok ko na magka team up,
24:01ano,
24:01pero,
24:01personal,
24:02ano,
24:02opinion na siya ko nga,
24:03ay,
24:04magka relationship sila,
24:05wow,
24:05but amazing,
24:06kay syempre,
24:07we all knew,
24:08nga,
24:09the man that,
24:10itong i-discuss ka ron sa showbiz news,
24:12kay was once married,
24:14no,
24:15so,
24:15anita nilisato,
24:16ang,
24:16unsay chika,
24:19unsay chika sa showbiz,
24:24kani,
24:24na shocked ko pag first,
24:25pero,
24:25I'm so kilig,
24:26I'm so kilig,
24:27kay parang ako,
24:28no,
24:29naagilagit with interns,
24:30ang love life,
24:31si Jericho Rosales,
24:32was once married,
24:33no,
24:33taas ka siya,
24:34duration of being a married man,
24:36o niya,
24:37karun,
24:38karun,
24:38ang current niya kang relationship was with,
24:41or is with,
24:42currently,
24:43is with,
24:43Janine Gutierrez,
24:44ka ni si Jericho,
24:46o si Janine,
24:47nagkailan ni sila,
24:48kay they work together,
24:49sa usaka serye,
24:50eventually,
24:51nagka-relasyon ni sila,
24:53now,
24:53speaking of Jericho and Janine,
24:55no,
24:56sila ang couple karun,
24:57nga,
24:58ibutiak ni Jericho,
24:59malipayun ko daw kayo,
25:00ang ilang relasyon,
25:01kinsa ba di ka na,
25:02malipayun nga relationship,
25:03di ba,
25:04so,
25:04nalagi na kita,
25:05wag nga,
25:05naghand you kayo,
25:05chances in love,
25:07imagine,
25:07Jericho kay,
25:08kanabitang,
25:09was once married,
25:10tapos si Janine,
25:11also was involved with,
25:12other,
25:13kanang karelasyon niya,
25:15sa industry,
25:17so,
25:17eventually,
25:18they found their match,
25:19no,
25:19niya,
25:19yung si Jericho nga,
25:21na daw sila'y plans ni Janine Gutierrez nga,
25:24mag-proyekto,
25:25or mag-himo,
25:26o film together,
25:28so,
25:28di ba,
25:29teamwork makes the dream work,
25:31no,
25:31kumbaga,
25:32ang ilangang relationship,
25:34di ilang kutob sa,
25:36you know,
25:36love and all,
25:37but also their dreams and their careers,
25:39kay,
25:40gishare ni Jericho nga,
25:42kaning si Janine Karun,
25:43is currently producing,
25:45ah,
25:45doku for,
25:47ah,
25:47her late,
25:48ah,
25:49grandmother,
25:50or the late Pilita Corrales,
25:51no,
25:51and of course,
25:52apart from that,
25:53ah,
25:53makitan po,
25:54yun na to,
25:55nga si Jericho Rosales,
25:56active po,
25:56no,
25:57sa iha mga projects,
25:58no,
25:59or films,
26:00maingon na lang po na to,
26:01aside from that,
26:02kaning si Janine,
26:03o si Jericho,
26:04matunta ni Jericho,
26:05they are actually building a concept for a film po,
26:08so,
26:09best of luck to Janine and Jericho,
26:12may tayo na lang po,
26:13kahappy ba,
26:13nga ma-meet ni mo,
26:14yung match niya,
26:15wala na issue,
26:16kung unsa ba ka before,
26:17you're married,
26:18you have,
26:19di ba,
26:19to think,
26:20Jericho,
26:21tasking relationship,
26:22before sila,
26:23sila ni Janine,
26:24pero of course,
26:25karoon,
26:25okay kailang relationship,
26:27matod pa ni Jericho,
26:28happy sila,
26:29o,
26:29inaunta,
26:29dapat,
26:30happy lang,
26:31di ba,
26:32so,
26:32so,
26:32muna ang ato ang showbiz news,
26:34karoon,
26:35and anita diri sa,
26:36ato ang pagbalik sa atong story,
26:39sa Dear Chixie,
26:40kapas-pas ba sa oras,
26:41it's 4.34,
26:43and again,
26:44we encourage everybody,
26:46to share your thoughts,
26:49na amoy mga,
26:50gustong i-share,
26:51karoon,
26:52sa ato ang,
26:53Dear Chixie,
26:55go ahead,
26:55ah,
26:56okay,
26:56that's why di,
26:57ay,
26:57wala dahil,
26:57hindi na to na-cross-post sa,
26:59Dear Chixie,
27:00oo,
27:01ayan,
27:02kung nangita ko,
27:03diri sa atong live,
27:03wala na-cross-post sa,
27:04Dear Chixie,
27:05ayan,
27:06anyway,
27:07so,
27:08I wish na,
27:11makakuha po ko sa inyo,
27:12ang mga thoughts about it,
27:14kung sa i-angay na inyong buha to,
27:15no,
27:15kay,
27:16di lipod ba ya lalim,
27:17mga maabot sa point,
27:19nga inaani mo hang situation,
27:21karoon na ka na in love,
27:22balik,
27:22karoon na ka na lipay,
27:23balik,
27:24nakita ka nga maayos siya nga lalaki,
27:25kay gidawat ka niya,
27:26kung unsa jud ka,
27:28gidawat po niya,
27:29ang imuhang mga anak,
27:30no,
27:31so,
27:31kung buot ho na ho naon,
27:33di,
27:33yun lalim,
27:34nga,
27:34naka sa sitwasyon,
27:35di,
27:36in kailangan ni mo nga,
27:37mubutiyag,
27:39o,
27:39o,
27:39sa kapartis,
27:40e,
27:40mong kinabuhi,
27:41nga nahadlokag,
27:41unsa iya hang pagdawat,
27:43o,
27:43unsa iyang mamahimong reaksyon,
27:45di ba?
27:46So,
27:46ato nang i-check,
27:47ang inyo hang,
27:47uman pa na mga comments,
27:49no,
27:49kanil mga,
27:50you're,
27:50we're what school,
27:51gani?
27:53Ah,
27:53ACT,
27:54okay,
27:54mga 20s,
27:56younger,
27:57teens,
27:58teens,
27:59no,
27:59so,
27:59nakuha na to mga teens mo,
28:01tanatan nila ni Sir Mark,
28:02diha sa booth,
28:03isuwat lang sir,
28:04ang mga answer,
28:05tanaw ninyo sir,
28:06if pananglitan lang ba,
28:07ibutiyag na ni Bianca,
28:08ang kamatura ni Justin,
28:10given the situation,
28:11tanaw ninyo ma dawat,
28:13ni Justin,
28:15tanaw ninyo,
28:16tanaw ninyo,
28:17wala to,
28:17bago ni Sir Mark,
28:19hindi mo gawa,
28:20simukod yun sir,
28:22isuwat na lang yan,
28:24tanaw ninyo,
28:24tanaw ninyo,
28:24sila sa ilahang perspective ha,
28:27o,
28:28tanaw ninyo,
28:28ma dawat niya nga,
28:29wala man sa si Bianca,
28:30good case,
28:31she is unaware that she is a mistress,
28:33technically,
28:34di ba,
28:34wala man siya kabaw,
28:35nga mistress siya,
28:36nakibaw lang siya,
28:37nga mistress siya,
28:38sa dihang,
28:38ang wife na iniingon,
28:39na dugay na ko nanihin ninyo,
28:41kung di ka ganahagubot,
28:43iuli akong banan,
28:44ako sus,
28:45nashock na lamang siya,
28:46huy,
28:46nakadiminyo,
28:47di akong kuwan,
28:48di ba,
28:48I don't know about,
28:50I'm not defending,
28:51no,
28:51other women,
28:51but there are times nga,
28:54naging mga tao nga,
28:55na blinded sila,
28:56that they are,
28:57or they became,
28:58at a certain point,
28:59a mistress,
29:00without them knowing,
29:01no,
29:02kanabang blinded sila,
29:03na nga part,
29:04so,
29:05muna nga,
29:06itong kwaon ninyo,
29:07hang reaksyon na,
29:07eh,
29:08kung saon yun niyang sitwasyon,
29:10okay,
29:10para at least makaibauta ba,
29:12and will be knowledgeable about,
29:13this,
29:14ah,
29:15part,
29:16no,
29:16sa maong story,
29:17itong i-check ni lang sir Mark,
29:19as opinion nila,
29:20sa mga,
29:21kalalakihan,
29:22kung unsa man,
29:24no,
29:25kung unsa,
29:26yudgali,
29:27ayan,
29:27sige,
29:28and,
29:29ato ang,
29:30lisud,
29:31wala,
29:31wala,
29:32wala pa mi kaso,
29:33ay,
29:34oh,
29:34syempre naman,
29:35oo,
29:35pero,
29:36if pananglitan lang,
29:37ka na muingon siya nga,
29:39kabaka Justin,
29:40ang tinood dito ang story,
29:41anak,
29:41kanika na,
29:42madiscourage ba mo din na,
29:43bamuganahan,
29:44wag tang ba inyong love,
29:45or malesen ba inyong love,
29:47kaya,
29:47tungod mo na iyang past,
29:50kaya,
29:50mumang kuniang ikahadlukan,
29:52kanya,
29:52ako,
29:52mangutan ako ba sa female,
29:54mangutan ako sa mga lalaki,
29:56kung nun sa ilang opinion,
29:57sir,
29:57ako sir,
29:58approve,
29:59madiscourage,
30:00or delay,
30:00delay ka madiscourage,
30:02delay ka madiscourage,
30:03dawato ni mo,
30:04what if man is a tila,
30:05inumumana,
30:06ang mistress akong ban na,
30:07Justin,
30:08dawato ni mo,
30:10tanaw ni mo,
30:12dawato ni mo,
30:14naku,
30:14yung one si sir,
30:15sir,
30:15okay rin na sir,
30:16eko may nagunit sa camera,
30:17din mo makita sa camera,
30:19naku,
30:20kung love accepted,
30:23oo,
30:23kung sabagay,
30:24oo,
30:25kung love,
30:25wala na no,
30:26accept na no,
30:27bahala na lang ang mga storya sa uban,
30:28because,
30:29after na nag-accept ni mo,
30:31okay na mo,
30:32ang problema na,
30:32ang surrounding,
30:33naku marites,
30:34o,
30:34eh,
30:35nagtoo mo,
30:35ang toon mo,
30:36nga ka na inyong love,
30:37kamulang,
30:38it's very easy to say that,
30:39okay,
30:39at the end of the day,
30:40kita rin may magpapad,
30:42but of course,
30:43hello,
30:44let's face it,
30:44ka ng mga tao surrounding us,
30:46and the relationship,
30:48their opinions,
30:48mabito na na yung muna,
30:50nga mag-loki na lang,
30:51kung sa akong relationship,
30:52kung akong i-out in the open,
30:54nag-hunking,
30:54open niyo ng mga tao,
30:56nag-hunking,
30:56mag-buot,
30:57mag-buot,
30:57mag-gana sila,
30:58kinse,
30:58mukha ni,
30:58mas bagay ni ni mo,
30:59mukha ni,
31:00mas bagay ni ni mo,
31:00mukha na lang ni,
31:01kanina yung mga karelasyon,
31:03diba,
31:04kung makachutsu,
31:05doon mga individual,
31:05walang nga uban,
31:06no,
31:06mora judmog,
31:07na ay contribution,
31:09sa ilahang,
31:10mga government ka nang kuwan,
31:12contributions,
31:13di tao,
31:14pero,
31:15muna lagi na,
31:16muna ay atuang,
31:17giko kuanan ka ron,
31:19sakitan po siya o,
31:20sa iyang sitwasyon ka ron,
31:22so,
31:22let's check on,
31:25hi,
31:25Sheila,
31:26hello,
31:26good afternoon,
31:27good afternoon,
31:28Sherry Ding Laza,
31:29kamoon sa man yung opinion,
31:30and again,
31:31ha,
31:32si Bianca was once,
31:34a mistress,
31:34that she did not know,
31:36okay,
31:36klaro na ko,
31:37nahimo siyang kabit,
31:38nga wala siya kabalong,
31:39nga kabit day siya,
31:40so,
31:40namabdo siya,
31:41sa iyahang,
31:43kanih partner nga si Gary,
31:45si Gary,
31:46minyo da ito siya,
31:47sa usaka babae,
31:48nga gitawag o si Elaine,
31:50during that time,
31:51ikonfrontari si Bianca ni Elaine,
31:53nyaging nan siya nga,
31:54para,
31:54wanay gubot,
31:55wanay gubot,
31:56ni nani,
31:57buwagi akong bana,
31:58musupoy tamik,
31:58kay maddos man kaka,
32:00pero buwagi na akong bana,
32:01hindi ka ganahan,
32:02nga kasuhan tamo,
32:03so gibuwa gan niya,
32:05years after that,
32:07nagbumpo na siya,
32:08hinehinay,
32:09no,
32:09was siya karelasyon,
32:10until naabot si Justin,
32:11kineng Justin,
32:12nga naabot siyang kinabuhi,
32:14gidawat siya,
32:15nga na siya iduhaka anak,
32:16gidawat siya,
32:17pero ang problema,
32:19wanaya na sulti ni Justin,
32:21nga,
32:21ang reason di ay,
32:22nga no nga,
32:23wala sila nagwork sa iyahang mga ex,
32:25or fathers,
32:27sa iyahang mga anak,
32:29is because,
32:30she became a mistress,
32:32without her knowing,
32:34no,
32:35nga wala siya'y knowledge,
32:36karun,
32:37small world man,
32:38kay si Justin di ay,
32:39igagaw di ay ni Elaine,
32:40nga,
32:41mo'y wife ni Gary,
32:42si Gary nga mo'y iyahang,
32:44nahimong karelasyon ka niya to,
32:46so,
32:47ang iyahang pinakadakong pangutan,
32:49na dapat ba siya,
32:51nga mubutyag,
32:52nga to kang Justin,
32:54karun,
32:55kung unsag yun ang kamatuuran,
32:56because she,
32:57she was able to keep it,
33:00kay tungod lagi,
33:01ang thinking,
33:01well,
33:02dinasad siguro necessary,
33:03I mean,
33:04I assume,
33:05mo siguro yung thinking,
33:06di na necessary,
33:07para makahibaw pa si Justin,
33:09so muna,
33:10nga,
33:10ang iyahang pinakamainpoint,
33:12karun,
33:12unsao naman,
33:14unsao na lang,
33:14kaya Jude,
33:16nga,
33:17si Elaine Raba,
33:18close ba yung sayahang,
33:20boyfriend nga si Justin,
33:22pinakadakon niyang pangutan na,
33:24ingon siya nga,
33:26ka nang madiscourage ba kaha,
33:28si Justin ako,
33:29ingon siya,
33:30dili ba kaha ko biyaan ni Justin,
33:32kung makahibalo siya sa tinuod,
33:35please tambagiko,
33:36and what if,
33:37makita mi ni Gary,
33:38si Gary technically,
33:39is the husband of the cousin of Justin,
33:43nga,
33:43moopo ni si Gary,
33:44ang papa sa ikaduhang anak,
33:47so,
33:48Murabag,
33:49it's a complicated situation for her,
33:52kay Liz would give for her,
33:53to get out of this situation,
33:56she cannot get out of the thought,
33:57nga naagin sila,
33:58past ni Gary,
33:59but,
33:59unsa man sa kasugugan ng panahon,
34:01nga satana niyang mauyab,
34:03parinti pag yun,
34:04sa wife,
34:05no,
34:05sa iyahang ex,
34:07no,
34:08so parinti pag yun,
34:09so muna,
34:10yung pinakadako nga,
34:11gikoan ka ron,
34:12kaya wala man niyagi butya,
34:13gawaan niyagi share,
34:14wala malang yun,
34:15ganun siya ni open up yun,
34:17so,
34:18muna,
34:18ako ang,
34:19gustong,
34:20pangayuan,
34:21o advice po ninyo,
34:23sa ito ang,
34:24Dear Chixie episode,
34:25ganun,
34:25hashtag secrets,
34:27no,
34:27are you willing to share your secrets,
34:31and are you ready to face,
34:33kung un sa'y reaksyon,
34:35nga mamahimong madawad sa'y mong partner towards you,
34:39and the situation,
34:39so,
34:41anyway,
34:42dagang salamat sa mga nananaw,
34:43and i-share silang thoughts,
34:45ganina,
34:46and even the students here,
34:48ano na ito diri,
34:49it's 4.43,
34:50and to those who are watching,
34:52also via,
34:53our,
34:54online live,
34:55dagang salamat kay sangatanan,
34:57kung naasaman mo nananaw ka ron,
34:59thank you,
34:59thank you so,
35:00so much,
35:01ito ang,
35:03Dear Chixie episode,
35:06ito ang,
35:07tagaan,
35:08o kinabuhi,
35:09karong hapun,
35:09gitagaan o kinabuhi,
35:11by the way,
35:11ito ang gitagaan o kinabuhi,
35:12ganina,
35:13o tagaan na nato,
35:14karong ugtambag,
35:15okay,
35:16here it goes,
35:22well,
35:22una sa tanan,
35:23balikan na lang gini na to,
35:24ay ang question ha,
35:25e ngun siyang,
35:26wala daw ko nun,
35:28niya gipahibaw,
35:29si Justin,
35:30no,
35:30ang iyahang current relationship ka ron,
35:33kung nun sa ang rason,
35:34kung anong wala ni work out,
35:36ang iyahang mga relationships ka ni Agdo,
35:38sa fathers,
35:39sa iyahang duha ka anak,
35:40labinagid ning ikaduhak,
35:42gay,
35:42sa ikaduhalagi,
35:44ang tinuod is,
35:45she became mistress,
35:47na wala siya,
35:48or din siya knowledgeable about,
35:50ang ika,
35:52again,
35:52gerison out lang,
35:53wala siya nagwork,
35:54ay nagcheat ang papa,
35:56sa iyahang anak,
35:57pero ang tinuod,
35:59gibuagan niya si Gary,
36:00because she discovered that she was a mistress,
36:04ang ikonfronta po siya sa asawa ni Gary,
36:06tungod ni Annie,
36:07nahadluk na siya,
36:08nga mahibawaan,
36:09or pahibaw on,
36:10ni Elaine,
36:11nga mo'y asawa ni Gary,
36:13nga kanini niya partner,
36:15nga igagaw siyang uyab,
36:17nga si Justin,
36:18nga mo'y niyang kamatuuran,
36:20un sabay angay niyang buhaton,
36:22kung mahibawa si Justin,
36:23nga she was the mistress,
36:25and the father of her child,
36:27is Gary,
36:28nga technically,
36:29ba na siya gagaw ni Justin,
36:31madiscourage ba ka si Justin,
36:33muna yung mga pangutana,
36:35so,
36:35ang akuang matubag,
36:36dirigid,
36:37no,
36:38sa tanang aspeto sa kinabuhi,
36:40walay asunga,
36:43hindi,
36:43katubag siya,
36:44walay asunga,
36:45kabaw mo,
36:46nga term,
36:47Gen Z pag-i-day mo,
36:49kayo ka sir,
36:49ano sa sir,
36:50walay asunga makumkum,
36:53meaning to say,
36:55di ba,
36:55try ninyo,
36:56literally,
36:57nga no,
36:57ang asunga makumkum,
36:59hindi,
36:59di ba,
37:00because,
37:02when secrets are there,
37:03and fire is fueled,
37:04bisagunsaon pa na,
37:06muasug yun na,
37:08makitan o makitan yun na,
37:09there will always be smoke,
37:10there will always be traces,
37:12no matter how we hide these things,
37:15whether or not,
37:16this is an intentional secret of yours,
37:18or this is just a secret,
37:19because you don't wanna say it,
37:21it will always come out,
37:23in the open,
37:23when it's needed,
37:25and regardless,
37:26kung kung sa panakadugay,
37:27o pila panakatuig,
37:29kung naakagibuhat,
37:30mabutyag,
37:31o mabutyag,
37:32ragid na,
37:33no,
37:33in this case,
37:34Mangud,
37:35wala man siya'y sayo,
37:36honestly,
37:37dili sayo,
37:38nga,
37:39iyahang,
37:40gimintain siguro,
37:41nga,
37:41dili nalang itouch,
37:43ang past,
37:44pero ang pinakadako,
37:45nga factor lang diri,
37:46is that,
37:47sakto mo,
37:48no,
37:48I got the word,
37:49trust,
37:50from our interns,
37:52nga,
37:52dili sayo,
37:53ni open up,
37:54ang imuhang past,
37:56if wala pa ka,
37:57fully ka,
37:57100% trust,
37:59sa usaka person,
38:00so,
38:01by that,
38:02being said,
38:02by even this Gen Z's,
38:04nga,
38:04naandiri,
38:05ako pong nakuha,
38:06nga,
38:06siguro,
38:07na had look lang yun ni si,
38:08Bianca,
38:09nga,
38:09mahusgahan siya,
38:11sa iyahang,
38:12mahimong partner,
38:13or in this case,
38:14sa iyahang na partner,
38:15nakaroon nga si Justine,
38:16because she don't want to be labeled as,
38:18once you were a mistress,
38:20or whatever,
38:21and whatever that is,
38:23no,
38:24second,
38:25unsadjukang pagkaunsahan,
38:27nga,
38:27gisungog mong ganyan siya sa panahon,
38:28nga sa tanan yun,
38:29pwede makainvolve niya nga lalaki,
38:31katupag yung igagaw,
38:33or parintipag yun,
38:35sa katupag yung,
38:36parintipag yun sa wife,
38:38no,
38:38sa iyahang na-involved nga lalaki,
38:40or father sa iyahang anak,
38:42so medyo lisodpud siyang situation.
38:44Now,
38:45to cut the long story short,
38:47ang pinaka-importante din hi,
38:51is honesty,
38:53and,
38:53di-rejud ni mo ma-mesure,
38:55kaniha,
38:56di-re-ma-mesure,
38:57kung love,
38:58bajug ka haka ni Justine,
39:00how will he react after?
39:03How will he react after
39:05defines who he is as a man?
39:08Una,
39:09kaya ba kaniyang dawaton?
39:11Ikaduha,
39:12makasabot ba siya sa sitwasyon?
39:14O ikatulo,
39:15muunan ni ang basihan?
39:17Kung gihigug mabajud ka niya tinudanay,
39:19regardless of who you are,
39:21and what went wrong from the past.
39:26No?
39:26Kay, technically,
39:27makaingon masagod ko nga,
39:28si Bianca somehow was a victim of her past.
39:31Dili man niya intensyon,
39:33nga mamahimaw siyang third party.
39:35She didn't know.
39:36Even the wife said,
39:38I know.
39:39Wala kay kalibutan nga mistress ka.
39:41Diba?
39:42Innocent siya.
39:43When that happened,
39:45that she became a second wife,
39:47or second person,
39:49or other woman,
39:49wala man siya kalibutan ato.
39:51It was just the circumstances around.
39:53So, Karun, Bianca,
39:56ang ako alagin ni mo,
39:58you will never be happy in a relationship
40:00kung padayon o padayon kang naagitaguan.
40:03You know what they say?
40:05You can live a life full of secrets.
40:09But honestly,
40:11living a life full of secrets,
40:14and hiding some certain things within your heart,
40:18is still heavy.
40:19Pwede ka mag-act na okay na ka to everybody,
40:21but you're hiding something.
40:23It's painful.
40:24Bugat pod na, no?
40:25Dilipod yun na truly ikalipay ni mo.
40:28Dili makahappy nga you've always hidden something
40:31about your past,
40:33about your pain,
40:34about your story.
40:35You can share it to a few,
40:36and it lifts you up.
40:38Diba?
40:38Imagine ko na mo,
40:39share ka, diba?
40:40Nakikahiobsan,
40:41nakikikakuanan mo,
40:42share ka sa sakataw.
40:43Bugaan man yun.
40:44And so,
40:45now is the time for you to open up to Justin.
40:48The next thing,
40:48kung nahadlo ka nga biyaan ka ni Justin,
40:50kung mubiya agad siya,
40:51then din niya ambasihan,
40:53nga mabawray ang love ni mo.
40:55Pero kung di siya mubiya,
40:56o panindigan ka niya,
40:57o whatever people will say,
40:59and when chika,
41:01o nse mahitabo,
41:02kung manindigan yun siya,
41:04mo naging na.
41:05Mo naging na gugmaha.
41:06So this is the measurement of your love.
41:09This is the challenge of your current relationship.
41:12So do not be afraid.
41:14Kung nahadlo ka,
41:14mabiyan ka pagbalik,
41:16well, this isn't the first time.
41:17This isn't the first heartbreak.
41:20And for sure,
41:22makaabot rapog ka sa punto nga,
41:24makaheal rapog ka.
41:25Though sakit,
41:26maging nang all over again,
41:28ma-heartbreak ka.
41:29Diba?
41:30Pero at least mo na ang measurement mo.
41:33Na kaya mangani ni mo with two kids,
41:35with Justin Pagaha,
41:36nga wala'y anak,
41:37nga wala mo'y anak.
41:38Diba?
41:39So now is the time to share,
41:41and to open up
41:42and be honest
41:43before kamaunhan.
41:44Nga naman,
41:45mas sakit
41:46kung sa laing tao,
41:48mahibawa ni Justin ang kamaturan.
41:50Mas sakit
41:51o mas uwaw.
41:53So mas may panggikan
41:54sa mong bangaba,
41:55mahibawaan
41:56kaysa sa laing tao.
41:58Diba?
41:59Mo naging tawag damage control.
42:00Naana na di haba,
42:01pero at least
42:02mo nalang gisulti.
42:04No?
42:04And probably,
42:05people will say,
42:06it's easier to say,
42:07chicks say,
42:08dili ba yagid sa yun,
42:09mubutiyag,
42:10diba?
42:10Mahalo,
42:11pwede ka majudge?
42:12Yeah.
42:12But of course,
42:13kung partnership,
42:14o partnership lang,
42:16dapat ang imong partner mo
42:17yung una nga makasabot
42:18o maminaw ni mo.
42:19Dapat ang imong partner mo
42:21yung una nga muhangup ni mo
42:22o masabot sa imong mga rason.
42:24Dili ka niya husgahan.
42:26Sub-tune ka.
42:27Kung wakabiyay,
42:28dikabiyay,
42:29diha na measure.
42:30Kung unsa kakalaw
42:31sa iyong partner.
42:33So muna ni
42:33ang basihan ninyo.
42:34So to me,
42:36go ahead,
42:36Bianca,
42:37tell him.
42:39Tell him that the sun and moon
42:40rise in his...
42:41Ay,
42:41saka kanta da ito.
42:42Tell him.
42:44Tell him,
42:45yud.
42:45And after telling,
42:47for sure,
42:48mas gaan.
42:49Whatever his reaction
42:50and whatever he will do next
42:52is the basis.
42:55Whether your relationship
42:56will go forward
42:57or your relationship
43:00will end.
43:01And whatever that is,
43:03i-pray na lang
43:04ang madawat ni mo
43:04ang result.
43:06So muna,
43:06ang ato ang advice
43:08para niya,
43:09it's very complicated
43:10but somehow
43:11you can do this.
43:13And I know
43:13you're a strong woman.
43:14Definitely,
43:16you are a hero
43:16to your children.
43:18Mogid na.
43:19So,
43:19thank you so much everyone.
43:21Walang na teigong oras.
43:22Nadagang salamat
43:23to sir.
43:24Thank you sir.
43:25To Eric,
43:26to Chari for bringing life,
43:28Sir Mark,
43:28and the rest,
43:29our interns.
43:30Palang pa ka naman dyan,
43:30guys.
43:32Thank you so much.
43:34Hangtod,
43:35sasunod,
43:36higa yun.
43:36Para sa lahi na po niya
43:37storya sa kinabuhi
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