Heather Dubrow Reveals Whether She Has a Spending Limit with Dr. Terry Dubrow

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00:00And if your spouse changes to the point where they're too painful, just get rid of us.

00:07I knew. I knew we were going there.

00:14Separate bathrooms always.

00:16Yes. Learn how to fight well.

00:20When you're upset with each other, take a step back and don't say those things that are at the tip of your tongue

00:26that might be mandatory, insensitive, and may make it worse.

00:34Calm your jets. Be a little quiet.

00:37Realize that this is the time that can really hurt.

00:40This is a moment that if you say the wrong things can send you in the wrong direction

00:44and can really hurt the relationship.

00:47And if you say very, very hurtful things, they're going to remember those things

00:51that you really didn't mean to say just in the heat of the moment.

00:54So calm yourself.

00:56I think it's really important to do that.

00:58Don't cross the line.

00:59Yeah. And Heather is always telling me to do this.

01:01But, you know, date your spouse.

01:04Date your spouse.

01:04Respect your spouse.

01:05Remember the reasons why you got together in the beginning.

01:08Yeah. You can't get complacent in a relationship.

01:11Whether you're married, dating for a long time, whatever it is, you can't get complacent.

01:16You have to realize that we prioritize so many things in our life.

01:19Why aren't we prioritizing our relationship first?

01:23Don't expect it not to change.

01:26I guarantee you 100% of couples go through transitions.

01:32And things will change positively and negatively.

01:36And the only way you come out on the other side is if you take a step back.

01:41Don't sweat the small things.

01:43And just appreciate that you're lucky to be in the situation you are.

01:47And if your spouse changes to the point where they're, you know, too painful, just get rid of them.

01:56I knew.

01:58Sorry.

01:59I knew we were going there.

02:00I mean, I think the basics are always true.

02:04You need great music.

02:05You need an open bar and a good venue.

02:08I mean, other than that, I don't think it really matters.

02:11People, honestly, you care more about flowers and the decor.

02:15And people have been to many weddings.

02:17They've seen it all.

02:18It's the experience that's the best.

02:22And you need to enjoy it.

02:24I think my best advice I could give for you for your wedding is plan it.

02:28Do the best you can planning it.

02:30Check all the boxes and then let it go.

02:33And just show up.

02:34Be present.

02:34Because things go wrong and who cares.

02:36And it makes for a good story later.

02:38You know what's funny?

02:39I remember on Housewives, I was in Tahiti, and we were at a Pearl store.

02:46Do you remember this?

02:47We were at a Pearl store.

02:48It was me and Vicky and Megan and Tamra, a bunch of us.

02:53And this very conversation came up.

02:56And at the time, it was like 10 years ago.

02:59Right.

02:59And at the time, I think I said, you know, 10 grand.

03:05Anything under 10 grand, I probably wouldn't talk about.

03:07I think that might have gone off.

03:11I think that you never now clear anything with me.

03:17I'm not complaining.

03:18I'm just saying you would never say, hey, I'm thinking about doing this for this amount.

03:23X is now.

03:25Y.

03:26I think the thing is, Siri doesn't really understand what those things cost.

03:31And also something important to note is that I really handle our finances.

03:34So, as much as it's funny to talk about what a spendthrift I am, I really am very cognizant of what money costs, if that makes sense.

03:46Yeah, I'd rather not know.

03:48To be honest with you.

03:50We bought a global $8,000 for $92 million.

03:53No, he didn't.

03:57You wish.

03:58I put it on the Amex to get the miles.

04:00You wish.

04:01That's the joke.

04:01To get the miles.

04:02I know.

04:03Could you do that?

04:03I think how stupid that is.

04:04You get the miles.

04:05You have a private jet.

04:08Or for the children.

04:09Oh, yeah.

04:09Oh, because you don't want them on it?

04:10Right.

04:11No, the most expensive thing.

04:12What did you buy?

04:14I know.

04:14By the way, to be honest with you, I...

04:16Okay.

04:17You want to know the most expensive thing we bought?

04:19What?

04:19We chartered a jet to come to New York.

04:21Yes.

04:21You know, I have a show, Plast Surgery Rewind, and Kim Zolciak is on the show, and her daughter,

04:28Ariana, as you know, is on Next Gen NYC.

04:31We talked about it while she was on the show, and we talked about what it would be like to

04:34have my son if he were to do something like this.

04:37So I think it's great.

04:38I think it's a natural evolutionary process for Bravo, right?

04:44I mean, Nepo babies rule, right?

04:46So Terry can't hand someone his plastic surgery practice.

04:50What else can we give them?

04:52No, no.

04:52Plastic surgeons don't.

04:53That's an orthopedic surgery operation.

04:56It's an operation where you fracture, you've probably heard the bone, and you separate it,

05:00and then it grows in between.

05:01You can get up to four and a half inches in height.

05:03It's done in Vegas and various places throughout the world.

05:06It's called the Elizarov technique.

05:08I know everything about it, but we were not trained to do that.

05:11I think it's an extraordinarily painful operation with a lot of risks and side effects, and

05:17the reality is the reason it's not so popular is because it takes over a year to recover

05:22from it.

05:23You're literally walking around in crutches for a year.

05:27Not really.

05:28He won't operate on friends or family unless they're botched, so I have to go get messed

05:33up by someone to get on his table, so that sucks.

05:36He thinks I'm perfect, so I haven't had any plastic surgery yet.

05:44It's a natural face and real boobs.

05:46He doesn't do Botox.

05:47I used to.

05:48I used to have Botox in the refrigerator, remember?

05:50Except one day, I was in his office many, many years ago, and I was walking by a room,

05:57and I saw someone with ice on their head, and I go, what's that about?

06:02And they're like, oh, we give our patients ice before the Botox.

06:04So I go, he doesn't give me ice before the Botox.

06:07Right.

06:08He would just be like, sit down.

06:09Right.

06:10Because she's not paying me, so I don't care if she has pain.

06:13Right.

06:15And there you go.

06:16No perks.

06:18Seriously.

06:18This is the third time I've been asked about this.

06:21How did it feel?

06:22It sucked.

06:24I actually, honestly.

06:25It's about time I got a little feedback.

06:26Can I tell the honest truth?

06:27But when I saw it, I was pissed for about 10 seconds.

06:31But I put her through so much on that show anyway, with my stupid onion rings and my terrible

06:36dad jokes, that it was payback well-deserved.

06:39So, yeah, because I think that's all I want to pay for it.

06:43Right.

06:44So, yeah, do I make it?

06:45Right.

06:46But then, it's about my business.

06:46I don't know.

06:47It's about that.

06:48I don't know.

06:48It's about that.

06:49I don't know.

06:50No.

06:51But I don't know.

06:51No.

06:52My business is about to be carried out.

06:57I don't know.

06:58But I don't know.

06:59No.

07:00No.

07:01No.

07:02No.

07:03No.

07:04No.

07:05No.

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