00:00um she's very assertive like nagawa niya yung best niya and i'm really happy ngayon kasi um
00:13kasi dahil din sa tulong din ng therapy nag-therapy siya for six months na tuloy-tuloy and
00:18then um it's very helpful for her um kasi dahil sa mga panic attacks and anxiety attacks niya
00:24and then um nung nag-therapy siya yung ginawa namin nag nag homeschooling agad siya kasi i pulled her out
00:31right away kasi syempre yun yung feeling ko i have to protect her kailangan tanggalin ko na siya agad
00:36doon sa environment na yun kung toxic toxic tanggalin na alam mo yun so nilagay ko na agad siya ligay ko
00:43sa homeschooling buti na lang yung mga dati kong mga teachers nag homeschool siya yung mga dati kong
00:48teachers tinulungan nila ako kasi i was homeschooled so tinulungan nila kami
00:53and then um yung bata she has to go back to zero okay yung buong seventh grade back to zero yun
01:00for two months tinapos kayon um kaya si daddy ray na dyan tinutukan niya si ayasha but you know
01:05what's nice nung tinutukan niya si ayasha gumaling sa math gumaling sa mga subjects kaya
01:10yun she's excelling in school kasi nagkaroon na kami ng go signal from from the therapist na
01:14pwede na mag big school ulit si ayasha kasi she wants to go to volleyball kaya nung time nung
01:20ano niya therapy niya pinag volleyball class namin siya everyday um pinag hosting pinag
01:27dinamihan ko siya ng activities in the big school now yes dinamihan ko activities niya she just
01:31hosted their ano their career day in her new school tapos um kasi gusong gusong niya nag-host
01:36and then um nag ano din siya ngayon dahil kaka volleyball niya ano na siya ngayon varsity
01:41right nag lumalaban sila like i'm i'm i'm really happy for ayesha though nandun pa rin yung mga
01:48episodes na natitrigger pa rin siya and all but you know um pag may ganon we go back again
01:53sa therapy but you know we're healing slowly mabilis lang uh yasmin to to mothers and fathers out there
02:01uh in the same situation in the same predicament ano ang payo mo if it happens to the children
02:08um i encourage um open communication um with a child with a child all the time and
02:14kailangan talaga yung mga kids ikwento nila lahat kay mommy and daddy wag sila matakot wag sila
02:19mahiya walang walang ikakahiya dito walang ikakahiya like you don't have to be ashamed of anything
02:25and um kasi nandun yun eh makikita mo yung mga signs ng bullying
02:31um tingnan mo rin yung anak mo meron ba nagbago naging nonchalant ba siya gastritis um
02:36uh lack of uh ano sleep disturbances or um lack of appetite those are like yung mga signs
02:43yun ang bullying red flats yun mga red flats yun tingnan mo na yung anak mo may nabago ba hindi
02:46lahat puberty akala nga namin nung una puberty stage lang si ayasha but you know dahil sa pagiging
02:52ano nga um ano siya extrovert siya pagiging outgoing niya tapos biglang makikita mo na biglang
02:57naging tahimik yung bata tapos sa kwarto na lang umiiyak okay naririnig ko i know mom
03:02ako eh nanay ako alam ko nasasaktan yung anak ko alam ko there's something wrong
03:05kahit di siya magsalita ano sa yung sakit sakin mas doble nung naranasan namin yun alam mo yung
03:16alam mo yung yung stress parang umaabot hanggang buto hanggang laman mo yung parang tipong
03:20bumagsak yung weight namin ang asawa ko ng 10 pounds in one we imagine ganun ka ganun ka stress
03:26kasi wanang may gusto nito wanang may gusto nito okay what i'm hearing is that parents should
03:34really listen you know i remember a letter of a child saying mom dad i i think you're not listening
03:41to me enough
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