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90 Day Hunt for Love Season 1 Episode 9 The Girl in a Love Square
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00:01Oh, my God.
00:02Previously on 90 Day Hunt for Love.
00:05Are you OK, bro?
00:06Oh, that's the leg I broke.
00:09Colt was in my room when he fell and broke his leg.
00:12His break is really bad.
00:14That's a lot to process.
00:20Hey, where's Courtney?
00:22I don't know.
00:23I text her this morning.
00:24She didn't reply.
00:25And then I don't know.
00:25She's with Colt.
00:27They had to call an ambulance, and she went with him
00:29because he was leaving her room when he fell.
00:32First of all, is he doing it in her room?
00:34Last night, I was so happy and excited
00:36and thinking that maybe I'm her number one guy.
00:38I don't feel like it betrayed.
00:42I am going to give you one opportunity and one
00:44opportunity now.
00:46You're going to tell me who's accusing me of sleeping with Rob.
00:50It's girls' night.
00:51We're here to around, have a good time.
00:54We don't need any more toxic trauma over who's banging who.
00:58Colt said you went to Rob's room today.
01:00Colt said that.
01:01And he said that everybody is saying
01:03that you're Rob.
01:05What's going on with Tiffany?
01:09Yeah, right.
01:10I let him know I was basically taking Tiffany out on a date.
01:13You're a bitch.
01:14You're a bitch.
01:15All of a sudden, this peaceful, drama-free boys' night
01:19is about to turn into World War III.
01:21I didn't know you were being married.
01:22You don't say it would talk to me ever besides, oh, I'm going to see your girl.
01:25How the did you not know?
01:27First of all, lower your voice.
01:28Oh, what are you doing?
01:29What the do you do?
01:30No, come on, right now.
01:31Jay, Jay.
01:32No!
01:33I came here for love.
01:36Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:40See you from across the room.
01:42Come close to me.
01:46No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:52I'm going to get it.
01:54Yeah.
01:56Yeah.
01:57Yeah.
01:58You have every right to meet anyone you want.
02:21Yeah, exactly.
02:22You do.
02:23But I think what's happening is you doing it behind closed doors with Rob is making Cole
02:33go more insane.
02:34And then you say there's nothing to hide.
02:37But then Cole's knocking on my door.
02:39All the times that this has been an issue, saying she's going this way.
02:43You need to put some boundaries.
02:46You're going to talk to me like a child.
02:47He's talking to me like he's my dog.
02:51Why are you treating him like a dog then?
02:54It's not my fault.
02:55You treat him like your puppy then, Jennifer.
02:57He's not my puppy.
02:59You're fishing.
03:00He's catching the hook.
03:01And you're like, off.
03:02And maybe that's why you're here.
03:03You need to learn.
03:04Maybe that's what they love.
03:05Jennifer, no.
03:06That's what they like.
03:07But no.
03:08But look at you when you're single now.
03:09You deserve better.
03:10They know it.
03:11You deserve better.
03:12You deserve better.
03:13You didn't know it.
03:14Cheers for that.
03:15I'm out.
03:16You need to yourself.
03:17You go yourself.
03:18And put boundaries, OK?
03:20Put boundaries.
03:21Callate.
03:22You need some boundaries, girl.
03:25out of here.
03:29Got to go check on her.
03:31I mean, Tiffany's dating three men at the same time.
03:34What is wrong if I want to date two men at the same time?
03:39What the ?
03:40I feel like she speaks so loud.
03:43And she just interrupts everyone so that no one can make sense.
03:45Right.
03:46I'm so sick of hearing about it.
03:47Somehow, someway, once again, tonight turned it into a show.
03:52Jen's kind of treating Cole like .
03:54And we all think she's banging Rob behind Cole's back.
03:59She's a liar.
04:00She's a liar.
04:01Like, let's be real.
04:02And she's Cole over.
04:04And Cole keeps going for it.
04:07She's getting high off the fact that all these guys are sucking her boobs because they want her.
04:14And she loves it.
04:15And we can date all these men and that's the thing.
04:18That's the whole reason he came here, though.
04:19Exactly.
04:20I feel like he's just confused.
04:22He just, he has been possessive.
04:24I'm going to be honest with you.
04:25Incidentally.
04:26If it were me, I would just cut it off.
04:31Yeah, I'm getting so tired of the situation.
04:34It's just toxic.
04:35It's going to cause this much issues.
04:36It's so toxic.
04:38I feel like everyone is so focused on Jen's vagina Rob's .
04:44Of course, she has the right to date whoever she likes.
04:48But I do feel like she's leading both guys on.
04:51I know that Jen may feel like these are the top tier guys.
04:56And so I feel like she's afraid to just choose one.
05:00Because if one backfires, then other women will be trying to grab on that.
05:05And I think she's a little possessive.
05:07Well, I think we should check on the girls.
05:09Yeah, vamos.
05:10Because I don't like this.
05:11I don't like this hanging on.
05:13No.
05:14We girls.
05:15As girls, we should have all their girls back.
05:18Got the heart of a rebel.
05:20Now the soul of a renegade.
05:33You're a bitch.
05:34You're a bitch.
05:35Yeah.
05:36No, come on.
05:37Come on.
05:38Come on.
05:39Come on.
05:40You got the right one on that .
05:42Hey, Jay.
05:43Hey, Jay.
05:44Hey, Jay.
05:45Talk your ass over here.
05:46All right.
05:47Let him go.
05:48No, we don't need dogs.
05:49I came in a dress.
05:50You're a bitch.
05:51I came in a dress.
05:52You like a grown ass man.
05:53So now your feelings hurt.
05:54No, you didn't.
05:55You get close.
05:56I'm going to slide your ass.
05:57I promise you.
05:58We can talk about it.
05:59But we're going to have to bring it down a couple of notches.
06:01All right.
06:05I definitely can appreciate there being a night where it isn't about what is Rob doing.
06:10Like, you know, tonight it's not my drama.
06:13But when three guys are into the same girl, it does raise tensions, you know?
06:17But I think it's ridiculous for any of the guys to be that wrapped up into anybody to feel like that they're owed loyalty or anything.
06:24You haven't said what's up to me for a long time since we've been here before, like, I want to get your girl.
06:29Go.
06:30Dude, you're a bitch.
06:32Chill, chill, man.
06:33It's not worth it.
06:34Okay.
06:35I just don't like this about .
06:39Tiffany's my number one, of course.
06:40Like, I think that's a big part of it.
06:43And I thought that I had an understanding that we're each other's number one connection.
06:48But next thing I know, Jay was asking her out.
06:51And, like, all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I didn't do anything.
06:54I played it the right way.
06:55And I just feel like that's the final straw of disrespect.
06:58Jay's all in the whispers.
06:59And I'm going to tell you how I feel about you.
07:02My God.
07:04It's not...
07:05Ain't none of that worth it, because y'all going to be two fellas fighting over a girl you met last week.
07:09This is the thing.
07:10It ain't even me fighting over a female, bro.
07:12It's the disrespect.
07:13I literally came to you yesterday.
07:15Yeah, I feel it.
07:16You dap me up and, oh, it's cool, and this, that, and the other guy.
07:19Bro, the guy hasn't said hi to me one time.
07:21Besides...
07:22Oh, I just asked Tiffany out.
07:24Just a fake-ass mother .
07:27Not my guy.
07:28That's crazy, because you ain't even go for Rocky like this.
07:31Rocky walked out with the girl last night from the teepee party, and you went to your room mad.
07:35But you got the animosity towards me and not Rocky.
07:38He not threatened by Rocky.
07:39He threatened more by you.
07:41But did Tiffany say she was going to go out with him, or...?
07:44Yeah.
07:45I don't know.
07:46Basically, I let Carlo know I was taking Tiffany out on a date.
07:51And he dap me up and said it was cool, but now that you have liquor in your system and some liquor courage,
07:55all of a sudden you want to come back and feel some type of way and pout like a little girl.
07:59But if you disrespect me, then it's going to be handled regardless.
08:02Honestly, Rocky's hollering at everybody.
08:07And now he's asking that girl out.
08:09Exactly.
08:10Like, whatever.
08:11He got a way out of this conversation real quick.
08:13Look, man, I'm with you.
08:15If I don't like somebody, I don't like them.
08:16Next time.
08:17I'm not going to pretend.
08:18Right.
08:19And I respect that, because you're not fake.
08:21But we're going to be here for a little bit.
08:23Exactly.
08:24Got to play nice.
08:25Yeah, because I could have caught a stray, bro, and I don't want to on my face.
08:29That's your money maker right there.
08:31That's right.
08:33When you make tequila with testosterone, recipe for disaster.
08:37They go at it.
08:39Like, security comes in.
08:40This is why I don't drink, because drinking never causes anything good.
08:44I think Tiffany will be embarrassed that those two men behave like that.
08:50Jennifer would love two men fighting over her.
08:53So, like, I think this will definitely impact Tiffany's decision on the future of her and Jay
09:00and her and Carla.
09:01Like, I cannot argue with people like that, dude.
09:06If you're going to be a sneaky bitch, be a sneaky bitch out loud.
09:23Say, hey, I'm going to get to know you both, I'm going to sleep in your bed, and then I'm going to snuggle the other one all night the next day.
09:28What's that mean?
09:29What happened?
09:30What are you talking about?
09:31I feel like we can talk this out.
09:33What you're doing to Cole is not right.
09:34Not saying that, not saying what you're doing with Rob is wrong, because you could do whatever.
09:38I'm being honest with Cole.
09:39Wait, you're lying.
09:40You're a bitch to him, girl.
09:41You're a bitch.
09:42I think the issue is not about Rob or Cole.
09:43You seem so jealous.
09:44Girl, I had him before you.
09:45No, I didn't.
09:46I'm not up.
09:47Girl, he picked me before you.
09:48Why are you?
09:49No, he didn't pick you.
09:50You show him, look at my ass.
09:51Who did he walk home the first night, me or you?
09:52Pick, me or you?
09:53Me.
09:54Exactly.
09:55That's why he doesn't want to talk to you anymore.
09:56No, no, no, girl.
09:57I told him to go pick rocks because he's toxic and reminds me of everyone of my exes.
10:00So don't get your story twisted.
10:01At least as usual, it starts to be in her aggressive energy.
10:05And when she acts like this, it makes her look like a little monster.
10:09And we are here to find love, not to be in fighting with each other.
10:12Like, you know what?
10:13You know what?
10:14No, no, no.
10:15No, no, no.
10:16No, no, no.
10:17No, no, no.
10:18No, no, no.
10:19No, no, no.
10:20No, no, no.
10:21No, no, no.
10:22No, no, no.
10:23No, no.
10:24No, no, no.
10:25No, no, no.
10:26No, no, no.
10:27No, no, no.
10:28No, no, no.
10:29I ain't with each other like this.
10:30That's not the way to do it.
10:34If you were to tell Cole, hey, I'm sleeping at Rob's.
10:37I'm at a singles retreat.
10:38I have.
10:39I'm exploring my...
10:40You didn't tell him that night.
10:41You damn old bitch know you're lying.
10:42On the first night.
10:43Stop lying.
10:44I'm not lying.
10:45Stop lying.
10:46I'm not lying.
10:49I don't give a .
10:50You tell him.
10:51He's not my son.
10:52I don't, I don't respond for him.
10:54So he can do whatever the he wants.
10:55And just be honest with him.
10:56So he won't have to come to our room.
10:58How about that?
10:59Girl, bye.
11:00Ha.
11:01I can't say anything.
11:03She can't.
11:04She can't.
11:08They have so much to say.
11:10I came here for a purpose.
11:12And it's to getting to know people as long as I'm single.
11:17Why are they commenting to me like I'm the villain?
11:21Who cares?
11:22Maybe the villain.
11:23Maybe I like it.
11:24Jane threw a punch at Carlo.
11:25Jane?
11:26Why did they do that?
11:27I think it's about Tiffany.
11:28What the ?
11:29I have to take a beat and really figure out what my next steps are.
11:30Because a few days ago this guy said he might not be interested in being with someone who's a single mom.
11:34And now he got into a fist fight with someone for asking me out on a date.
11:51I was cold.
11:52They had to transport us to Playa del Carmen to a bigger medical facility so he can have surgery.
12:01How can I have fun when it's like one of my closest sons here is in a hospital bed?
12:08Like that's a lot to process.
12:11I didn't think of like the death part and like how serious it is.
12:18You will start singing soon.
12:22Don't try to ask me to sing a song.
12:24You're the one that comes up with all the songs.
12:26You're gonna start singing soon.
12:27I ain't singing no damn song.
12:28I might dance something.
12:29So that was stressful.
12:51You talk Spanish friend?
12:53What?
12:54I don't understand how these girls come to me and judge me.
13:00Because I think they're a little jealous.
13:04Because the boys want me, but that's not my fault.
13:08Period.
13:12Tonight was honestly supposed to be a carefree girls' night,
13:16and it's ruined. It's over.
13:19I think at this point it's just important for me
13:21to refocus on what I'm here for.
13:24I'm not here to advise Cole or to argue with Jen.
13:29I don't care that much.
13:31I care about who I walk out of here with.
13:54Let's do it.
13:59What the ?
14:03I've been honest since day one.
14:05How is it that it ends up Carlo and Jay fighting?
14:10It makes no sense.
14:12I definitely want someone that, like, goes hard for me,
14:15but not like this.
14:17I don't want the person who could potentially be in my life
14:20and around my kids one day to be so unhinged.
14:26I don't like aggressive men.
14:27I like an intelligent man.
14:28I like a man who can't defend himself, but if they're going to start a fight, no.
14:33Yeah, if they start it, that turns me off.
14:34But if he can finish...
14:35Defend himself.
14:36Yeah.
14:37If he can, like, stand his ground.
14:38If the boys fight for whatever reason, sometimes they dream.
14:41I like a guy who's in the fight.
14:42I mean, I can't...
14:43Carlo attacks the meetups.
14:44What's J?
14:45J.
14:46What are you?
14:47I don't like aggressive men.
14:49I like an intelligent man.
14:50I like a man who can't defend himself, but if they're going to start a fight, no.
14:55Yeah, if they start it, that turns me off.
14:58But if he can finish...
14:59Defend himself.
15:00If he can, like, stand his ground.
15:03I think the boys fight for whatever reason.
15:07Sometimes they drink and they just want to fight.
15:09It's like, I don't know, like a hobby for them or something.
15:13But Tiffany being the reason, she must feel like,
15:16ah, they're fighting for me.
15:19Now everybody can focus more on Tiffany's square
15:22or whatever it is that she's creating there,
15:25instead of me.
15:28All these boys are tripping.
15:30They're doing too much.
15:31The boys have gone wild.
15:32I mean, I don't know.
15:33I think Carlos, she's as bad as .
15:35Oh, this boy.
15:36What's more psycho, a guy knocking at 5M
15:39or a guy fighting over you after one date?
15:41Facts.
15:42Facts.
15:43Where are we?
15:44Where are we?
15:46I feel like whole, he's just so in love with you.
15:48That's not normal, but that's not normal, baby.
15:51That's probably what it is.
15:53Because everyone wanted Jen and he got her.
15:55So now he's like, I need to keep her.
15:56She's fine.
15:57No one touch her.
15:58I really think so.
15:58But I only want Chanto.
16:00Ah!
16:03The dynamic of the girls here is one minute,
16:06we are yelling and fighting over drama.
16:09And then the next minute, we're having a full-on tea party
16:12about who's fighting amongst the guys.
16:16At least this fight has brought all of the girls together
16:19in a kumbaya session.
16:24I feel like the girls are here like,
16:25let's have fun and date everyone.
16:26And the guys are like, let's get married!
16:29Yeah!
16:31Men are really emotional.
16:32Yeah.
16:33And they think we are.
16:34And they think we are.
16:35And they think we are.
16:36I have to take a beat and really figure out what my next steps are.
16:41Because I don't know how I feel about the whole Carlos situation.
16:45A few days ago, this guy said he might not be interested in being
16:49with someone who's a single mom.
16:51And now, he got into a fist fight with someone for asking me out on a date.
16:55See, girls night with no boys, they come back home laughing.
17:00Boys night with no girls, they come back in tears.
17:05Like, the terrible, toxic part of me is kind of like, it's kind of hot.
17:11But like, the adult side of me is like, grow the up, boys.
17:30We already went to the bar, and all of a sudden, he literally called in my life and said,
17:36Jay, I think it's the way you went about with Tiffany and your bitch to do something.
17:45And I, I mean, I never asked my player for me.
17:50Hello?
17:51Yes.
17:52You're Ben Seagate, I bet.
17:57Before I came out here, I kissed my friend Ashley, and she told me that she had feelings
18:25for me in a romantic way.
18:28And I can't help but feel confused about where my heart lies.
18:32I want to be open with this experience, but honestly, I can't stop thinking about her.
18:39Yeah, I, I feel that way too.
18:45Is your number two or three digits?
18:50Number four.
18:51How many people you , is it in two or three digits?
18:54I'm excited.
18:55Me and Elise are riding together to the cenote.
18:58I'm really hoping that we get a chance to bond and maybe I can make a connection.
19:03Have you ever had an STD?
19:05I'm a germaphobe.
19:19I'm so excited, you guys.
19:25I'm trying to be your, your bestie.
19:27But I feel like we're hooked really weird.
19:29We're, yeah.
19:30I'm hooking you like I'm the one.
19:31Well, I'm the man, so.
19:33I'm like, I'm like a bro, you know?
19:35Yeah, you, you want the window?
19:37What do you want?
19:38Oh, I'm good.
19:39I want you, I want you to be happy.
19:42Yeah, mom.
19:43What?
19:44You're sweet.
19:45I'm here, mom.
19:47Today, the coaches have set up for us to go to a beautiful cenote that's in the jungle.
19:54A cenote is a natural spring pool kind of thing.
19:59I'm excited.
20:00Me and Elise are riding together to the cenote.
20:03I'm really hoping that we get a chance to bond and maybe I can make a connection.
20:08What the is going on?
20:18My God, dude.
20:19What are you trying to do to all of us?
20:20You're trying to kill us.
20:22Tim would be the guy to just start spraying his smell good all extra, like, ten times
20:28in a closed casket with a bunch of other people.
20:31This isn't cologne.
20:32This is deodorant.
20:33It goes under the arms, bro.
20:35Tim goes under the arms.
20:38Vamos a la cenote.
20:40Vamos a la cenote.
20:41Woo!
20:42Ready?
20:43I heard you guys were hitting on all the local.
20:46I mean, we should talk about it for sure.
20:48Yeah.
20:49Good answer.
20:50We're on the bus headed for the cenote.
20:54Get Nikki's glasses.
20:56Nikki, where's your glasses at, Nikki?
20:58It's my motion sickness glasses.
21:00Tell them, explain the glasses.
21:02Everything around me is moving and it makes me nauseous.
21:05And this tricks my brain into thinking that it's not moving.
21:09Have you ever worn them before while having sex?
21:13No.
21:14And you know what?
21:15I think I'm gonna try.
21:16Yeah.
21:17I mean, hey.
21:18A little water bed action.
21:20Oh.
21:21Yeah.
21:22Okay.
21:23So like, is your number two or three digits?
21:27Number for what?
21:28How many people you , is it in two or three digits?
21:31Two.
21:32Two digits.
21:33Oh.
21:34So that would be from 10 to 99.
21:37Yes.
21:38Yes.
21:39Yes.
21:40Okay.
21:41All right.
21:42Sorry.
21:43Goddamn.
21:44I'm not talking like rocket science here.
21:45Okay.
21:46I'm not gonna judge Tim, you know, to each their own.
21:47But he's asking some funny ass questions.
21:49I mean, they might offend some people, but they might be exactly what other people like to hear.
21:55Have you ever had a STD?
21:57Never.
21:58Never?
21:59Yeah.
22:00Freaks me out, too.
22:01I'm a germaphobe.
22:03It's like, nah, man.
22:05And I don't know, at least seems to be having no problem with these questions.
22:09And it could work.
22:12Never know.
22:13You never know.
22:16Have you checked in court?
22:18Yeah.
22:19I talked with her this morning.
22:20She said she'll be back today.
22:23Man, it's so crazy.
22:25That s*** is gonna take a long time.
22:26They said before you would be healed, it would take like six months.
22:29Definitely.
22:30It's crazy, you know?
22:31I know.
22:32Obviously, I am concerned about cold health.
22:36But at the same time, I'm super relieved that Courtney reached out to me this morning.
22:41Even though it's so annoying that she is spending her whole free time with cold.
22:46And I feel like that is giving them more chance and opportunity to be close to each other.
22:51Yeah.
22:52It's so bad.
22:53I don't like it.
22:54It's killing me right now.
22:55Oh.
22:56Look at how beautiful this looks.
23:08Oh my gosh.
23:16Look at how beautiful this looks, oh my gosh.
23:23Hi.
23:24Hello.
23:25You got it.
23:26Come on in.
23:27Hola.
23:28I love the red.
23:29You guys look great.
23:30Come on in.
23:31Welcome to our Cenote Club.
23:33We are all here to have a great time together and party.
23:38Yay.
23:39This is a great opportunity for you guys to build on some of the connections that you
23:45have already made, and I know some of you have already made some, but it's also to explore
23:50some opportunities that you might have been curious about but haven't yet explored.
23:56Have a couple drinks, relax, hit up a cabana.
23:59Have fun.
24:00Let's go.
24:01Do your thing.
24:02I want to know anything that could be alive in this water.
24:07Are we waiting by the little cabanas?
24:10It is hot.
24:11Oh, I'm going to get one with shade.
24:13You comfy?
24:14I'm comfy.
24:15I'm comfy.
24:16What the happened last night?
24:20I mean, it was huge.
24:25It was explosive.
24:26What happened?
24:27All right.
24:28All right.
24:29Let me back up.
24:30Let me back up.
24:31So we go to the bar.
24:32It was fun.
24:33Rob asked me.
24:34He's like, what's going on with Tiffany?
24:36I heard, you know, there was a date proposal.
24:39So Jay's saying, yeah, you know, I asked if on a date, you said it was cool, blah, blah.
24:44And I was like, well, hold up.
24:45Hold up.
24:46That's not how it went down.
24:47So from there, we went back and forth.
24:49It totally exploded.
24:50We got in each other's faces, screaming obscenities at each other.
24:53And essentially, Jay swung at me, and we had to be pulled out.
24:59It was crazy.
25:00But did you throw a punch?
25:02I didn't throw a punch.
25:03I mean, for me, it was happening, like, all so quickly.
25:05Yeah.
25:06Does that not tell you he likes you?
25:09I told you.
25:11Yeah.
25:12I left feeling, like, terrible that happened, honestly.
25:14Like, I thought it was, like, way too much escalation.
25:16And, of course, I want to talk to you, sir.
25:18Yeah.
25:21I'm really getting mixed signals from Carlo because, at first, he was, you know, super into it.
25:26Then he had mentioned that he was not super into it because I have kids and he doesn't want that.
25:32But then, how do you go from being on the fence about me to getting into a fight with a guy just because he asked me out?
25:41I think Carlo might have stronger feelings for me than he wants to let on.
25:47It makes me think accepting the date with Jay might have been a mistake.
25:50Good thing we got the best spot in the house.
25:53You have a lipstick.
25:54What is that?
25:55I don't know.
25:56You tell me.
25:57I think you know more about it than I do.
25:58Who did that?
25:59Who did that do you?
26:00I think you have a clue.
26:01Definitely a very territorial woman.
26:02Maybe somebody with some pink lips?
26:04Is it mine?
26:07I think so.
26:08Actually, yes.
26:09You're a true detective.
26:12Last night was crazy.
26:16We were having such a good time.
26:18Then they just started to talk about the same drama that we have been involved.
26:23Between you, me, and Rob?
26:25Exactly.
26:26Okay.
26:27You should see them.
26:28I'm just so tired of this bull .
26:30You and me both.
26:31We've been in the middle of it for a long time, and I'm sick of it myself.
26:34It's been too long, the same thing over and over and over.
26:38All right.
26:39Let's get on this.
26:41I'll wake up in the morning feeling so fresh.
26:44Because I stopped dreaming about my level of mood.
26:49This world ain't seen nothing yet.
26:51People can talk, they don't get one stay.
26:55There's something, don't you want to say.
27:00I'll give them more to say, because I don't care.
27:07Tim, come on over, man.
27:08Let's have a chat.
27:08All right.
27:09Let me do it.
27:14Come park it, my guy.
27:15All right.
27:16Wow.
27:19OK.
27:20How's the day going?
27:21Good.
27:22I'm enjoying it.
27:24Tim is an interesting case for me.
27:27I don't know how to read him very well.
27:30He's got a repertoire of excuses, I'll call him.
27:32I'm the oldest one here.
27:33I'm not as good looking as the other guys.
27:35He's kind of got them ready to roll,
27:37to deal with perceived rejection.
27:39And when you think about the concept
27:41of you can't teach an old dog new tricks,
27:43I think to a certain extent that's true.
27:45But for a willing dog, if you will, or person,
27:49anything is possible.
27:51And my hope as his coach here is to really create
27:53a space where he will be willing to take a few steps
27:57out of his comfort zone and try some new things
27:59and see where it goes.
28:01Honestly, I'm kind of vibing with Elise.
28:03Oh, OK.
28:04Yeah.
28:04It's been happening slowly.
28:06A little surprising.
28:07Didn't see that coming.
28:08Yeah, me too.
28:09Normally, that's not my type at all.
28:11But she's like a bro.
28:12I mean, she's got that bro mentality.
28:14Sure.
28:14But she's still feminine.
28:16I'm digging her.
28:17I'm digging her.
28:17OK, man.
28:18But again, you know how it is.
28:19Like, I'm just trying to get a read,
28:21because now we become friends.
28:22I don't want to make it awkward if I ask her out
28:24and she's like, nah.
28:26And then, like, that kind of kills our friendships.
28:28I just want to be careful.
28:29OK.
28:30You know?
28:30OK.
28:31You think that's wrong or right?
28:32I mean, you won't know if there's that spark
28:35until you kind of take that leap, which involves
28:38vulnerability, impossible rejection,
28:40and all this stuff that no human likes.
28:42I haven't been to the agency in a while.
28:43OK.
28:44So I'm a little rusty.
28:45Yeah.
28:45And that's why I'm kind of moving a little slower.
28:47Sure.
28:48But, uh, I will say, though, like, being a little rusty
28:50sometimes plays to your advantage,
28:51because if sometimes the best game is to not have game
28:54and just be yourself and let it awkwardly happen
28:56as it needs to happen, right?
28:57And I don't have game, so.
29:01Elise has definitely given me more attention than others,
29:04but I don't know if I'm her type, you know?
29:08She's been receptive to me, but women usually
29:11are receptive to me because I listen, I'm nice.
29:15I'm not just like, oh, I just want to .
29:18It's very difficult for me sometimes
29:19to figure out if a girl is actually romantically
29:22interested in me or if they just want to be my friend.
29:28So how did the girls' night go?
29:30I would say in the beginning, it was kind of fun.
29:34We all got to learn a little bit about each other.
29:36Got a little, you know, a little spicy there, I would say.
29:40Spicy how?
29:42Well, we kind of talked about each other's, um,
29:45I guess you would call it turn-ons, fantasies,
29:48things like that.
29:49And what was yours?
29:50I just said it would be interesting to have
29:53a couple of, um, a couple of guys.
29:57A couple?
29:58What's a couple?
30:00Uh, I said seven.
30:04Seven is not a couple.
30:06Seven is more than a basketball team.
30:08That's not more than a basketball team.
30:12It's a damn near baseball team.
30:13Whatever.
30:15Whatever.
30:18Now, that whole seven guys thing,
30:20that's a whole different type of orgy.
30:22Mae is a wild one for that.
30:25It's a lot of work.
30:27I mean, she's going to have to use both hands, both feet,
30:29and every hole she's got.
30:30And I don't know if she can do that.
30:34Because you got one hand, two hand, three, three foot,
30:36four foot, five, six, seven.
30:42Seems like a tall task.
30:46I need a ponytail so I can hold my hair out.
30:53There you go.
30:55Oh.
30:56Yeah.
30:56What the ?
30:59So last night.
31:01I want to hear that.
31:02At the girls' night, Jen and I got into it.
31:06OK.
31:07And Jen said that Cole told her that I was
31:12off earlier in the day.
31:14Why is that something that he would even know?
31:16Exactly.
31:17Why would he spread a rumor about you?
31:19Doesn't make sense.
31:22I am hurt that Cole would kind of throw me under the bus,
31:25especially with a lie.
31:26I thought we had a great friendship.
31:28I've always had his back, and I've protected him,
31:30and I've made sure he's OK when he's sitting, crying
31:32on my doorstep, crying over Jen.
31:34Like, why would he spread a rumor about me?
31:35That's not cool.
31:37I kind of want to just get down to the bottom of it,
31:38to be honest with you.
31:41I'm going to go talk to him.
31:42And her.
31:43I think it's the best time, right?
31:44I think you should.
31:45No time like the present.
31:46I'll be right back.
31:47I wish Cole was here.
31:48Me too.
31:49Oh, I'll be right back.
31:52Let me just observe.
31:57There she is, coming to Instagay.
32:00Uh-oh.
32:01The two people I wanted to talk to.
32:19What's going on?
32:20Where are you going on?
32:21Hi.
32:22Where are you coming to?
32:23Well, I just want to literally clear the air once and for all.
32:26OK.
32:27Sure.
32:28So obviously there's rumors that I was sleeping with Rob,
32:30and I asked Jen to tell me who said it.
32:33And you said to Jen, apparently, that I was sleeping with Rob.
32:37Is that the truth?
32:38Did you tell Jen that I was Rob?
32:39Yes or no?
32:40No, I didn't tell Jen.
32:41He heard that.
32:42No, no, no.
32:43She's a big boy.
32:44He can talk for himself.
32:45And I just gave you an answer.
32:46So you did not tell Jen that?
32:47I said no.
32:48I did not tell Jen that.
32:49OK, Jen.
32:50So who else said that?
32:51Because you told me.
32:52Why are you going to lie?
32:53So did you say that?
32:54I'm confused.
32:55So the rumor.
32:56Actually, a lot of people, he said that.
32:57OK, so we're going to go find those people and address it
32:59because you're a liar.
33:00I know.
33:01No, I'm not a liar.
33:02You don't talk to me like that.
33:03I don't have fear.
33:04Let's go ask the girl.
33:05I don't have fear.
33:06Let's go ask the girl.
33:07I don't have fear.
33:08Let's go.
33:09Let's go.
33:10Let's go.
33:11Let's go.
33:12And I'm going to address it because now Cole just admitted
33:14that you're lying again.
33:15What's going on?
33:16What's going on?
33:17What's going on?
33:18We're going to be respectful because yesterday you said
33:21that there was a rumor going around and you heard.
33:23You heard from Cole.
33:26Cole's sad that she's sleeping with Rob.
33:29So it's cold.
33:30Tiffany told me that.
33:31I don't know.
33:32I don't know.
33:33I don't know.
33:34I don't know.
33:35I don't know.
33:36I don't know.
33:37What the heck is going on?
33:38Here we go.
33:39Rob, what the hell are you doing now?
33:40I'm in the conversation without even being over there.
33:41I don't know why we're doing this.
33:42This is a rumor that everybody knew.
33:43No, it's necessary that everybody knows.
33:44Oh wait.
33:45We're going to get to the bottom of us.
33:46Yes.
33:47I love it.
33:48Great.
33:49Well, who's sleeping with Rob?
33:50Literally.
33:51Rob, run.
33:52So Tiffany told you that I was sleeping with Rob.
33:54Correct.
33:55Yes.
33:56Okay.
33:57So let's bring Tiffany in.
33:58This is what I think.
33:59I don't know why we're doing this.
34:00Because Jen told me last night that you were saying that I was sleeping with Rob.
34:04Let's go ask Rob.
34:05I don't know why we're doing this.
34:06Because Jen told me last night that you were saying that I was sleeping with Rob.
34:09Let's go ask Rob.
34:10Don't ask .
34:11I don't wanna talk about none of it.
34:12That I was sleeping with Rob.
34:13Correct, yes.
34:14Okay, so let's bring Tiffany in.
34:16I don't know why we're doing this.
34:18Because Jen told me last night that you were saying that I was sleeping with Rob.
34:23Let's go ask Rob.
34:25Don't ask me.
34:26I don't want to talk about none of it.
34:29Did you hear what they were screaming about?
34:32Screaming about the same they've been screaming about.
34:35See, this is the thing.
34:35This is the thing about this rumor.
34:37Me and Elise didn't have much past the first couple days.
34:40You know, so I put energy into hanging out with Jen.
34:42But for some reason, Cole's walking around crying to everybody about it.
34:45So then you got people who are feeling sorry.
34:47They want answers.
34:48They want to try to help Cole.
34:49And I think that's where it all sparks from.
34:51Like, that's the birth of this obsession with what is Rob doing?
34:55What is Rob doing?
34:55What is Jen doing?
34:56What's Elise doing?
34:57But I'm like, I don't want to get involved and everybody else feeling entitled to knowing what the is what.
35:05It doesn't matter.
35:07Oh, let's bring Tiffany in here.
35:08Come here, Tiffany.
35:09Come here, Tiffany.
35:09What did I say?
35:13So you told Jen that I was sleeping with Rob?
35:16No, she told him.
35:17Oh, so you told Cole.
35:19I said Elise.
35:20Yes, I do.
35:21Who the said that I ever told her?
35:23He is saying it.
35:26I did not say that.
35:27Who is making that here?
35:30Why are you yelling at me?
35:31I'm saying I did it.
35:32Who told you that she is sleeping with Rob?
35:36Who?
35:38A lot of people have told me this.
35:40Okay, so let's go find them.
35:41I don't know who has started this rumor.
35:43We've had a conversation about it.
35:44You know that.
35:45But who has started it?
35:46I think Tiffany has started rumors everywhere.
35:48Me?
35:48About everybody.
35:49Your man is sitting in front of you.
35:52Your man is sitting in front of you.
35:54Your man is sitting in front of me.
35:56Your man is sitting in front of me.
35:57And then you talk.
35:58And then you talk.
35:59And then you talk.
36:00And then you talk.
36:01And then you talk about me.
36:02Let me talk.
36:03Everybody's trying to date everybody.
36:04There needs to be some sort of transparency.
36:06Where did the rumor come from?
36:08Where did the rumor come from?
36:20Where did the rumor come from?
36:26I'm going to need some help to get through this.
36:31They were just like, no, you said I was sleeping with Rob.
36:34Who said it?
36:35It was cool.
36:36You were Rob.
36:37No, you were Rob.
36:38No, I was Rob.
36:39Like, it sounded like chicken.
36:40And like, Elise is in like Sherlock Holmes mode.
36:44And she's like investigating everyone to try and figure out where this rumor started.
36:48But I don't think that rumor's a real thing.
36:50I think Jen's just saying it.
36:51She wants to do whatever with Rob.
36:53And like, she doesn't want to deal with Cole's feelings.
36:55So she's going to try and cover it up.
36:57But like, you don't have to bring other people into it.
37:00Well, I asked Jen last night and she told me that you said it.
37:03So where did you get it from?
37:04Where did you get it from?
37:05I don't remember.
37:06Who said it to you, baby?
37:08Now he doesn't.
37:09I don't know.
37:10I'm speaking Spanish right now.
37:11It's getting hot.
37:12You know it's getting hot.
37:13I'm cold, really.
37:14It's just in the middle of it.
37:15Just getting cooked.
37:16So now who did you guess it?
37:17Who initiated the whole topic?
37:18I don't know.
37:19I'm looking out for Elise and Tiffany.
37:34But there's rumor after rumor.
37:36She said last night.
37:37She said last night.
37:38She said last night.
37:39Last night.
37:40That you confirmed because you already said it.
37:42It just never ends.
37:43It will never end.
37:44That's crazy.
37:45I mean, it's spicy.
37:47I like it, but I don't want it to happen to me.
37:49Are you coming up with lies?
37:52Can you repeat it from the beginning?
37:54The Elise and Rob rumor was made by...
37:57I don't remember who started this rumor.
37:59I don't remember where I heard it from from the very first time.
38:02Yeah, but who said it to you?
38:03I've had this conversation multiple times with different people.
38:05To be honest, please.
38:06You're not...
38:07I'm not going to give you an answer just to make you happy.
38:08You see?
38:09Because you're not being honest and saying, okay, to you.
38:13See ya.
38:14I'll see you guys later.
38:16So all of you.
38:17See ya.
38:18This is not going to out.
38:19See you guys.
38:20The rumor situation is out of control.
38:24And it's confusing.
38:25It's super confusing.
38:26And it creates trust issues amongst everybody involved here.
38:29Out of nowhere, I've got three people yelling in my face, trying to get an answer on, you know, each part of their story and who's right and who's wrong.
38:36I mean, it's not like a month they're spreading that rumor, but it's self-serving to believe that Rob and Elise hooked up.
38:42Because Bruce, all he's interested in doing is womanizing.
38:45And I just think that he's a low-quality man.
38:47Wow.
38:48Why would he make up that rumor about you?
38:51I don't know.
38:52And then lied to your face.
38:53And he just said that he heard it from her.
38:55He's hopeless.
38:56No, he cannot say it to her face.
38:57I don't respect that.
38:58I don't respect that.
38:59I need a drink.
39:03Cold, honestly, in this moment, it's just not making sense.
39:06I really wanted to believe that he wasn't the one that spread the rumor, but he's just incapable to say it.
39:13What is he afraid of?
39:15Why he cannot do it, even though he knows that it's important for me?
39:20Two margaritas, please.
39:22Oh, my God.
39:23I'm stressed.
39:24Yes, huh?
39:34Oh, my God.
39:35These stairs.
39:37Hey.
39:38Hi.
39:39How are you?
39:44Yes.
39:45How are you?
39:46How's everything?
39:47I'm sorry.
39:48I couldn't make it to the date.
39:49I was getting ready for the date and stuff.
39:50I was doing my makeup.
39:51It's fine.
39:52I'm happy I see you now.
39:53Yeah, we'll talk.
39:54We'll talk.
39:55Yeah.
39:56All right.
39:57Happy I see you.
39:58You look good.
39:59You fine, right?
40:00You okay, right?
40:01Yeah, I'm good.
40:02I'm good.
40:07I really don't know what is going on right now, because the last time I see Courtney,
40:11like, she was giving me a kiss on my cheek.
40:14We were going out for a date.
40:16And all this incident happened now.
40:19I don't know if that will happen or not.
40:21Hey.
40:22Hey, Courtney.
40:23How are you?
40:24I was cold.
40:25Like, he's been in such positive spirits, but the doctors are saying it's really bad.
40:30And he broke his leg in, like, multiple places.
40:33And, like, yeah, so it's, like, multiple fractures.
40:36I didn't hear the story.
40:37You found him or you heard it?
40:39Yesterday, he came to my room.
40:41We've been, like, having breakfast and chatting and stuff.
40:43So we're hanging out.
40:44And then I had to get ready for my date with Usman.
40:47So he went back to his room so I could, like, shower, get ready and stuff.
40:50And then I hear, like, a thud.
40:51And I looked out my door to put that.
40:54And he's, like, laying on the ramp in front of my door because it had just rained.
40:57So it's slippery.
40:58So he fell.
40:59And then I was like, is this a joke?
41:01Like, is he playing a prank on me?
41:03Or is, like, what's really happening?
41:04Because he wasn't screaming or crying.
41:06But then it hit me when we're about to get in the ambulance.
41:08I'm like, oh, my God.
41:09Like, this is actually happening.
41:11Like, we just heard him, like, screaming while they're adjusting.
41:14Yeah.
41:15That's when I was like, oh, my God.
41:16He's actually in pain.
41:17Like, this is real.
41:18The past 24 hours have just been exhausting.
41:22Emotionally, I feel like I've just been hit by a semi.
41:26I came to the Cenote to try to get my mind off of things.
41:29But I can't really enjoy it because my mind is with Colt.
41:32Right now.
41:33You did a good job.
41:34Like, I saw you at the ambulance.
41:36And honestly, if I didn't know you, I would have swore you were his wife
41:39the way you were trying to take care of him.
41:41No.
41:42We've been telling the hospital I'm his wife,
41:43so I could go in the rooms with him and stuff, too.
41:45Yeah.
41:46No, you've done a great job.
41:47You've done a really good job.
41:48Do we think that he's going to make it back to the resort
41:51while we're here?
41:52I don't know if he could come back.
41:53When he fell, his life was already fragile.
41:56And then they said, like, it's worse than they thought.
41:59So yesterday they had to transport us to Playa Del Carmen
42:02to a bigger medical facility so he could have surgery.
42:05And they can't operate on it for a few days because they have
42:08to find a doctor that's able to do it because it's so complex.
42:11I'm like, he's not coming back to the resort.
42:15He sent me a scary text today.
42:16Yeah.
42:17He was, like, telling me, like, if I die under anesthesia,
42:19make sure, like, Deb knows and all this.
42:22And I just, like, burst into tears.
42:23I'm like, at first, I'm like, oh, this sucks.
42:25He broke his leg.
42:26He's not going to be able to come back to the resort
42:28and thinking, like, this sucks because he's been the closest one
42:30and, like, comfort me all the time.
42:32So when he's saying, like, oh, if I die during the anesthesia
42:39and, like, tell my mom and, like, you've been really good to me
42:42and you've been one of the closest people here with me,
42:44I didn't think of, like, the death part
42:46and, like, how serious it is.
42:51Everything just seems so insignificant right now.
42:54How can I have fun when it's, like, one of my closest sons here
42:59is in a hospital bed?
43:01Every single day he checks on me.
43:03Every single day he shows up for me.
43:05And now he's in this situation.
43:07Like, that's a lot to process.
43:17It's, like, I'm trying to stay positive
43:19because I don't want to freak him out.
43:20And I'm like, no, everything's going to be fine.
43:22Like, you're going to walk again.
43:23You're going to be fine.
43:25But I was secretly worried, too.
43:40Still to come on this season of 90 Day Hunt for Love.
43:46The retreat is coming fast to an end.
43:51Uh-oh.
43:53This is, like, my last chance to find the love of my life.
43:58These past weeks, I wouldn't change a thing.
44:01That's sweet.
44:02I feel I'm in, like, a tug-of-war match,
44:04and I'm the rope between, like, Usman and Colt.
44:07I just want you to know that I don't even like you.
44:09I love you.
44:10This is such a hard decision for me to make.
44:14Hey, Chantel.
44:15Hi, Ashley.
44:16How are you?
44:17My sexuality is something that I don't even understand fully yet,
44:18and I am a little scared to tell everyone.
44:19Before I decided to come, someone who I just thought was a friend actually told me that they had feelings for me.
44:35And have you, like, gone out with this guy?
44:38Um...
44:39It's beautiful what we share.
44:40I think it's an electricity.
44:41I fight for what's my own.
44:44Right now.
44:45I feel like I found the one.
44:46I don't care about Colt and what he wants.
44:47Why do you give a about what I'm doing?
44:48Because you're the one causing the most politics.
44:49Because I'm your love life up, right?
44:50Yes, you are.
44:51You sound like a little bitch right now.
44:52You're scared out of Petrillo.
44:53Think you scared me, bro?
44:54What the you want to do, bro?
44:55You drive me nuts.
44:56Make a mother move, bro.
44:57I think we should all have a talk.
44:58Sure, absolutely.
44:59Okay.
45:00I'm gonna beat someone's ass today.
45:02I've never been .
45:03I've never been .
45:04I've never been .
45:05I've never been told.
45:06I'm just telling you what he wants.
45:07Why do you give a about what I'm doing?
45:08Why do you give a about what I'm doing?
45:09Because you're the one causing the most politics.
45:10Because I'm your love life up, right?
45:11Yes, you are.
45:12You sound like a little bitch right now.
45:13You're staying out of Petrillo.
45:14You think you scare me, bro?
45:15You're not the you want to do, bro?
45:16You drive me nuts.
45:17Make a mother move, bro.
45:18I think we should all have a talk.
45:20Sure, absolutely.
45:21Okay.
45:22I'm gonna beat someone's ass today.
45:27I've never been a liar.
45:28I've never gone behind anyone's back.
45:30Who here created a connection that could possibly continue beyond this retreat?
45:37I don't even know what to say at this point.
45:42I honestly can't imagine my life without you.
45:45Like, I see a future with you.
45:47It is so hard.
45:50I want to do something that Rob wasn't able to do for you.
45:54Oh, my gosh.
45:56Go.
45:57Go.
45:58Go.
45:59Go.
46:00Go.
46:01Go.
46:02Go.
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