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Step into a world where sparks fly and hearts race as everyone is introduced at a masquerade ball to connect, flirt, and find romance. But it's not just about finding someone new—some of these singles have a history! Will old flames reignite? As jealousy bubbles up faster than the hot tub jets during a hot-tub-speed-dating session, tensions rise, and feelings get messy. From flirty first impressions to late-night confessions, expect shocking hook-ups and unexpected pairings. The journey transforms into a thrilling adventure in chemistry and connection, filled with romantic curveballs and twists for each of the singles.
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00:00:00I
00:00:05Don't know if there's a word to describe like single but like more super single
00:00:13So maybe you go doesn't need a little professional help
00:00:19Even though I come from the different culture. I feel like the love is love everywhere in the world, so I'm ready to be let's go
00:00:26Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:00:31Welcome welcome to the loom, Mexico the three of us have put together a series of mixers dates and events and in the end
00:00:39Hopefully you'll walk away with the one on your arm. It sounds like a lot of work
00:00:44I was just planning on getting like white girl wasted the whole retreat. So
00:00:47oh
00:00:54There's gonna be some other 90 day people here and some other singles that I'm not gonna know we're all looking for love
00:01:02So there's no telling what's gonna happen
00:01:12Oh
00:01:14I
00:01:16Don't look at this
00:01:18I really like him like it went up very cool, but I want to Rob
00:01:24I
00:01:26You
00:01:28I'm sick and tired of your
00:01:29Sound like a little bitch right now
00:01:31I try to be diplomatic with you and it's not working
00:01:33I
00:01:35All's fair in love and war sometimes people get hurt
00:01:40I acted impulsively
00:01:42How about
00:01:43Are you gonna go behind my back?
00:01:45You
00:01:49I feel like sad like I don't really know like what to do at this point
00:01:53I was taking Tiffany out on a date
00:01:56Honestly, you're a snake
00:01:57No, no, no, no
00:01:58Come on right now
00:01:59What the f*** happened?
00:02:00There was an ambulance over there
00:02:01Who's that? Oh my god
00:02:03It's going to be okay to worry, three babies, three
00:02:05Take care of me
00:02:07It's going to be okay, you are a dream, baby.
00:02:10Take care.
00:02:37Right now, I live in Atlanta, and the dating pool, let's be honest, it has piss in it.
00:02:50The last few years of my dating life have been my hoe phase, because I've dated around.
00:02:56I mean, I haven't been a hoe, but I started duty dating, which is dating even if you don't
00:03:03feel like dating.
00:03:04Throwing spaghetti against the wall, and seeing what sticks.
00:03:10Oh my gosh, it's so nice.
00:03:18Hi.
00:03:19Check in.
00:03:21We're here at this gorgeous beach resort, and everybody is going to do the same thing I am.
00:03:29Look for love.
00:03:30We all want that happy ending.
00:03:33I have no idea what to expect.
00:03:35I love adventure at the end of the day, so I'm excited to see where this goes.
00:03:40Can you help me with this information, please?
00:03:42Sure.
00:03:42There will be city, country, phone number, nationality, email address, and a sign here, please.
00:03:47I'm excited, but at the same time, I never in a million years imagined that this is where
00:03:53I would be at 33 years old.
00:03:56I thought I'd have kids.
00:03:57I thought I'd have a husband.
00:03:58I was married for crying out loud, and I never expected for that to end.
00:04:02But here I am.
00:04:03I don't want to fight no more.
00:04:17I don't want to fight no more.
00:04:31So what are you going to do?
00:04:33Move out, that's it.
00:04:35That's the first step to divorce Pedro.
00:04:39I trusted my husband, because he told me that he would not leave me.
00:04:46He told me that.
00:04:48He told me that.
00:04:49Since getting divorced from Pedro, I haven't quite found my groove.
00:04:56I feel like every time when I think I've got it with dating, I don't.
00:05:02Give me your hand a glass of wine.
00:05:05My dating life back home has been all over the place, especially recently.
00:05:11So I'm here to try and make a connection with a man that's deep and meaningful.
00:05:18I also know I don't want a fixer-upper.
00:05:22I want a turnkey.
00:05:23I want you to have the whole package with a package.
00:05:31It's hot out here.
00:05:32Right now, I'm super happy where my life is at.
00:05:50Recently, I've lost a total of 110 pounds, so that's been super exciting.
00:05:56But I think one thing that could be better is my love life.
00:06:01I'm single, and I haven't dated for over a year.
00:06:05So I don't know if there's a word to describe, like, single, but, like, more.
00:06:09Super single?
00:06:10I was told there was going to be dating coaches here that kind of guide us through the next couple of weeks.
00:06:17Maybe a girl does need a little help.
00:06:21Major relationships in my life, just one.
00:06:25I got married, and it's also the biggest mis-
00:06:30Never mind.
00:06:31I don't want to say a mistake.
00:06:32Everything happens for a reason.
00:06:33I learned a lot through that, but it's not something that I wanted for myself, long-term.
00:06:39You may kiss your bride.
00:06:45Do you want to hold your daughter for the first time?
00:06:50Okay, papa.
00:06:54I'm doing the things that I need to do.
00:06:56Do the hard things, mom.
00:06:57Like what?
00:06:58Change the diaper.
00:06:59No, that's your job.
00:07:02You're coming or staying?
00:07:03I'm staying.
00:07:04Stay.
00:07:07If I'm being mistreated, guess what the I'm going to do?
00:07:10I'm going to walk away.
00:07:11You can literally go back to America.
00:07:14My marriage is over.
00:07:18I'm walking into this retreat with no expectations.
00:07:23Obviously, I want to find my man, but...
00:07:28I know there's other 90-day people here,
00:07:31and there's also going to be, like, singles that none of us have ever met before,
00:07:35guys and girls.
00:07:36So, I'm curious to see what that's going to look like.
00:07:41Oh, my God.
00:07:42Hi!
00:07:42Oh, my goodness.
00:07:44Tiffany.
00:07:44So beautiful.
00:07:45Oh, my God.
00:07:46You look great.
00:07:47It was nice to meet you, finally.
00:07:49Nice to meet you in person.
00:07:50How the hell did you get through that?
00:07:51I was lost.
00:07:52Oh, my God.
00:07:53I had a guide.
00:07:54Luckily.
00:07:54Luckily.
00:07:55Lucky you.
00:07:55Luckily.
00:07:57I'm so happy that Chantel's here.
00:07:59We know each other just online,
00:08:02and I know that she has also had a difficult marriage.
00:08:09I definitely think Chantel and I are going to get along,
00:08:11but she's stunning.
00:08:14So, although it's not a competition,
00:08:16I'm going to be like, damn, save some place for me.
00:08:19My heart's coming out of my chest.
00:08:21I'm so nervous.
00:08:23Yeah, me too.
00:08:24Like, I'm like, almost like,
00:08:25what am I doing here, kind of?
00:08:26I feel like a little kid.
00:08:27I feel like a little kid that's about to, like,
00:08:29do a project, like, in front of the class.
00:08:31We're so lucky.
00:08:33This is going to be so fun.
00:08:46I wish I could say I believe in the idea of soulmates.
00:08:49I've been looking for it my entire life.
00:08:51I don't want to waste any more time
00:08:53just sitting around wanting something that's not there.
00:08:57Like, I'm ready to go out and get it.
00:08:59How you doing?
00:09:00Okay.
00:09:00Can I help you with that, Mike?
00:09:02Sure, sure.
00:09:02I still remember the first peck on the lips in kindergarten,
00:09:05what her name was and what she looked like,
00:09:07and every crush I had along the way of thinking,
00:09:10maybe this girl is who I'll spend my whole life with.
00:09:12And now I'm 35 years old,
00:09:15and, you know, I shot my shot.
00:09:18I got married.
00:09:19I believed in it.
00:09:20I put everything I could into it, and it failed.
00:09:23Where is he?
00:09:28I miss you so much.
00:09:29Give me a kiss.
00:09:30I miss you.
00:09:39You're going to see,
00:09:40when you're depressed forever,
00:09:42you're going to see I wasn't that bad, bro.
00:09:44All right.
00:09:45You want me to leave?
00:09:45Take the squishmallow.
00:09:46I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me
00:09:52to go talk to other women,
00:09:54and I still deleted that because I care.
00:10:05Well, I think that's pretty much it,
00:10:09and I appreciate the clarity.
00:10:13What?
00:10:13Anything?
00:10:16Sophie and I are not officially divorced yet.
00:10:19It is something that is happening and happening soon,
00:10:22but the fact that I'm a man who is still legally married,
00:10:27I could see that becoming a bigger problem.
00:10:31I don't want to lie,
00:10:32but if I can avoid talking about it,
00:10:34I definitely will.
00:10:37Hi, Mr. Rob.
00:10:39Hi.
00:10:40How are you?
00:10:41How are you doing?
00:10:41What's your name?
00:10:42Johanna.
00:10:42Nice to meet you.
00:10:43Johanna.
00:10:43Nice to meet you.
00:10:45Welcome to the single retreat.
00:10:46Wow, I'm glad to be here.
00:10:47Yes.
00:10:48So, yeah, I'm the event manager,
00:10:50and I have a present for you.
00:10:52I just want to give it to you.
00:10:53Yes, that's for tonight.
00:10:55So we're going to have a party tonight.
00:10:58Here's your invitation.
00:11:00Some Illuminati-type stuff y'all got going on over here.
00:11:03Okay.
00:11:04Johanna, she's definitely, definitely very hot,
00:11:08and if the event coordinator is this pretty,
00:11:10then there must be some, like, very beautiful women
00:11:13that they're going to have here
00:11:14and maybe, maybe somebody for me.
00:11:18Okay, so see you at the party tonight.
00:11:20All right, great.
00:11:20I'm looking forward to it.
00:11:21Yes.
00:11:22The invite that Johanna just gave me reads,
00:11:25Masquerade Party, Casa Papaya at 7 p.m.
00:11:28Mask required.
00:11:30Please keep your true identity a secret
00:11:32until otherwise instructed.
00:11:34Full-blown Illuminati.
00:11:36That's a nice little welcome.
00:11:38Yeah.
00:11:39I guess I'm a wolf tonight.
00:11:40Yeah, for sure.
00:11:40For sure.
00:11:41I'm just coming here to try to find love.
00:11:58If it happens, amen, inshallah.
00:12:03Even though I come from the different culture,
00:12:05I feel like love is love everywhere in the world.
00:12:07It's universal.
00:12:08And I have my advantage
00:12:10because, like, I mean, I'm African.
00:12:12You know, like, we have it here.
00:12:14We, like, like, it's big.
00:12:16Africans, everybody has big penis.
00:12:18Everybody has big...
00:12:21Also, women throw their self at me
00:12:26because I'm a superstar Swinja boy
00:12:27all the way from Africa.
00:12:29I'm an artist.
00:12:30I can sing.
00:12:31I can sing for you every day, you know?
00:12:32But at the same time,
00:12:39I feel like women are not coming to me
00:12:42or they are not throwing their self to me
00:12:43as for me, Usman.
00:12:46They're just coming for the Swinja boy.
00:12:49It's difficult, actually.
00:12:51So difficult.
00:12:53Oh, my God.
00:12:54Will you marry me?
00:12:59Mm-hmm.
00:13:02Are you really sure
00:13:03that you're going to allow me
00:13:04to have that second wife?
00:13:05I never had a child.
00:13:07You know what?
00:13:07You change it now.
00:13:08It was nice to meet you,
00:13:09but I'm going to go
00:13:09because your ass spits me off.
00:13:14So I think it is high time
00:13:16I just go back home
00:13:16and look for somebody
00:13:17who is younger than me.
00:13:18I mean, at the end of the day,
00:13:25I want to have, like,
00:13:26two or three kids.
00:13:27It's possible.
00:13:28And there's no way
00:13:29I can get that with older ladies.
00:13:32So now, no compromising,
00:13:34and that's why I'm here.
00:13:36But I think maybe, like,
00:13:37there are 90 days people here.
00:13:39I don't want to see Big Ed here,
00:13:41and I also don't want to see Angela here
00:13:43because I know personally
00:13:45that I don't want to deal
00:13:45with that kind of drama.
00:13:46And I'm ready to put my hat back
00:13:49on the line.
00:13:50So I'm ready to do it.
00:13:51Let's go.
00:13:52And, uh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:13:55Man, this is beautiful.
00:14:02Oh, I can feel the air conditioning.
00:14:04Oh, my God.
00:14:07You have a hammock outside?
00:14:08Oh, I have a little pool.
00:14:10Oh, my God.
00:14:14Yeah, this is definitely
00:14:15my type of place.
00:14:17Oh, what?
00:14:19Yeah, it's a beautiful unit, yeah?
00:14:21I got two beds.
00:14:23This is crazy.
00:14:25Oh, what is this?
00:14:27Oh, my God, a mask?
00:14:29Masquerade party.
00:14:307 p.m.
00:14:32Wow.
00:14:32Oh, my gosh.
00:14:33Maybe this is our reward
00:14:35for enduring
00:14:36and surviving our marriage.
00:14:38Oh, my gosh.
00:14:40I watch a movie.
00:15:01I think it's a Tom Cruise movie,
00:15:03and, um,
00:15:04where they had maskro party
00:15:05and there was a sex happening there,
00:15:07you know, like,
00:15:08it's like, oh,
00:15:09now I'm having my own maskro party.
00:15:10What's gonna happen?
00:15:10Is it gonna be this hem?
00:15:12I don't know,
00:15:13but whatever it is,
00:15:14I'm here, I'm here,
00:15:15I'm ready.
00:15:15Lookin' around,
00:15:25we're all in the mask,
00:15:25you know, like,
00:15:26the body shape is all lookin' good.
00:15:29And, um,
00:15:30I believe that
00:15:31they're all beautiful lady,
00:15:32but I can't tell
00:15:33because I didn't see
00:15:33that face yet.
00:15:43Hello.
00:15:44Hi.
00:15:45How's it going?
00:15:45Hey.
00:15:46How are you?
00:15:46Good.
00:15:47Hi.
00:15:47How are you?
00:15:48Nice to meet you.
00:15:48Nice meeting you.
00:15:49Nice meeting you.
00:15:50Nice to meet you.
00:15:50Welcome to the party.
00:15:51Yeah, let's dance.
00:15:52Yeah.
00:15:53Yeah, let's go for it.
00:15:53Absolutely.
00:15:54Yeah.
00:15:54I'm so excited
00:16:15for the masquerade party,
00:16:17and I'm definitely
00:16:18trying to figure out
00:16:19who else is here
00:16:20from the 90-day world.
00:16:21Can you recognize anyone
00:16:22with their masks on?
00:16:24I don't...
00:16:24Actually.
00:16:26Cheers to finding our man.
00:16:28Hi.
00:16:29Hi.
00:16:30How are you?
00:16:31I like your half mask.
00:16:32Cheers, guys.
00:16:33Welcome.
00:16:33Cheers.
00:16:34Cheers, girl.
00:16:35Welcome.
00:16:35You look great tonight.
00:16:36Oh, thank you.
00:16:37Hello, welcome.
00:16:38So beautiful.
00:16:39Okay, thank you.
00:16:40Half of me.
00:16:41All of you, girl.
00:16:43Hi.
00:16:44Yo.
00:16:54I'm living free every year.
00:16:56Walking to the masquerade party
00:16:58is definitely...
00:17:00I'm definitely nervous.
00:17:01It's kind of hard to drink
00:17:02with this mask on, though.
00:17:04Looking around,
00:17:05I can see there's
00:17:06a lot of competition.
00:17:07Seem like some decent-looking
00:17:09guys around here
00:17:10trying to get at all the girls.
00:17:12Oh, look, a little cat.
00:17:13A little cat came in.
00:17:15So the pressure's on.
00:17:18What's up?
00:17:19Hey.
00:17:19How's it going?
00:17:20What's going on?
00:17:21What's your vibe about?
00:17:22My vibe?
00:17:23I don't know.
00:17:24I'm trying to figure
00:17:24these masks out.
00:17:26I, like, am very envious
00:17:28at how small y'all's masks are,
00:17:29so for real, like,
00:17:30I don't know why they gave me
00:17:31this, like, welder's mask.
00:17:33Yeah, we're gonna have
00:17:33to meet you again.
00:17:34I am.
00:17:35Soon.
00:17:39I might check out
00:17:39what's going on over this way.
00:17:41I'm gonna sit down
00:17:42and eat next to you
00:17:42because I don't like
00:17:43to stand around and mingle.
00:17:44I'm exhausted from it, actually.
00:17:47I saw you come in
00:17:48with your mask.
00:17:50It looked like a cat before,
00:17:52but now I think...
00:17:52It's a wolf.
00:17:53It's a wolf, yeah.
00:17:54Yeah.
00:17:55It's fun meeting
00:17:57all these guys while masked.
00:17:58It takes away
00:17:59of a little bit of the pressure.
00:18:01I mean, I'm just sitting
00:18:02on the couch next to Wolfman
00:18:03with the nice eyes,
00:18:04and so far, so good.
00:18:07So you got kids?
00:18:08No.
00:18:09No kids?
00:18:09No, just me.
00:18:10I live in an apartment
00:18:11with my puppies.
00:18:12I'm only 24.
00:18:13You're 24?
00:18:14Holy...
00:18:15How old are you?
00:18:1744.
00:18:18Really?
00:18:18Yeah.
00:18:19So you're 20 years older than me?
00:18:21Yeah.
00:18:22Hey, I'm kind of here for it.
00:18:23So that just made me feel super old.
00:18:28Gracias.
00:18:28Gracias.
00:18:29This is my first singles retreat,
00:18:44and the only physical trait
00:18:47that I think that I'm pretty stuck on
00:18:50is that long, straight hair,
00:18:53especially darker colors,
00:18:55brunettes, black.
00:18:56You know, some guys are butt, boobs, whatever.
00:19:00The first thing I notice is hair,
00:19:02and I think that sounds kind of creepy,
00:19:03but I like what I like.
00:19:05At the end of the day,
00:19:07I just want a normal relationship
00:19:09where, you know,
00:19:10the girl doesn't need, like,
00:19:11a lot of psychiatrists and psychologists
00:19:15at this point in her life.
00:19:17I've had my heart broken two or three times,
00:19:20and I definitely think, for example,
00:19:22if you look back at Jennifer and I,
00:19:25that was probably the worst one.
00:19:28Hello, baby.
00:19:29Are you excited?
00:19:31Yeah, I'm really excited to meet you.
00:19:33I'm nervous.
00:19:42Oh, my God.
00:19:45First kiss.
00:19:48Baby, this ring is beautiful.
00:19:50Where did you get it?
00:19:52Both the ring for Veronica.
00:19:54You're giving me a ring of your ex.
00:19:57It's her trash.
00:19:58I don't want it.
00:20:02I was over you, trying to kiss you,
00:20:05and you just suddenly changed
00:20:07in the bed like this,
00:20:08and it started to be another person.
00:20:10I feel like I'm constantly
00:20:11being emasculated by her.
00:20:14I don't want to fight with you.
00:20:15You didn't enjoy this with me
00:20:17when I wanted,
00:20:18so now I enjoy it by myself.
00:20:21I didn't realize how much damage
00:20:24that really did to me,
00:20:25so getting my heart broke
00:20:27is definitely high on the list
00:20:28of things that I never want
00:20:29to go through again.
00:20:31But at the same time,
00:20:33I do not want to die alone.
00:20:34It's one of my biggest fears.
00:20:35So I know, obviously,
00:20:37the clock is ticking.
00:20:38I'm in my mid-40s,
00:20:39and I know I need to go ahead
00:20:40and get back out there.
00:20:42But something like this,
00:20:43where it's like,
00:20:44you're going to go stay with people
00:20:46in another country,
00:20:46that's kind of crazy,
00:20:48and we're in for a really wild experience here.
00:20:51All right, Tim,
00:20:53you got this.
00:20:55Go out there
00:20:56and pretend to like people.
00:20:59Got it.
00:21:02Hey, can I have a shot of tequila?
00:21:04Can I have a shot of tequila?
00:21:05Thanks.
00:21:05Yes.
00:21:06I think most people,
00:21:20when they meet me,
00:21:20they think I'm dumb.
00:21:22But I think it's to my advantage.
00:21:24Because then later on,
00:21:26if people ask you to do stuff,
00:21:27you're like,
00:21:27oh, I don't know how.
00:21:31But actually, I'm really smart.
00:21:33I graduated with my degree in finance,
00:21:36and I'm a minor in beer pong.
00:21:39I feel like somehow,
00:21:41when it comes to love,
00:21:42I just keep losing.
00:21:44Recently, I found out
00:21:46the guy I was planning to marry
00:21:48was lying a lot.
00:21:49He told me he's never been married,
00:21:51he never has kids.
00:21:52And he was actually,
00:21:54had two ex-wives and four kids.
00:21:56So I'm like, oh, wow.
00:21:58Yeah.
00:22:00Whatever I've been doing
00:22:01has not been working,
00:22:02so I'm open to the professional help.
00:22:04I need it.
00:22:06I'm your boyfriend.
00:22:16Are you happy?
00:22:21Stop starting
00:22:22at the waitress's ass.
00:22:23Sorry.
00:22:23You know I'm here.
00:22:30You know I feel lonely.
00:22:33Don't drink wine more, please.
00:22:38Around the start of quarantine,
00:22:40I started seeing this guy named Andy.
00:22:42I'm not used to people yelling at me
00:22:44or like, reacting.
00:22:45Well, why do I yell?
00:22:46It's like, if it continues,
00:22:48I can't keep doing this.
00:22:53My mom's like,
00:22:54oh, I think your expectations are too high.
00:22:56I'm like, basically, like,
00:22:58don't cheat on me or lie to me
00:23:00and, like, pay my bills.
00:23:08None of the guys are really
00:23:09catching my attention here,
00:23:12but then I look across the party
00:23:14and I see this guy.
00:23:15I'm like, no way I know who this is.
00:23:17I went on vacation with him
00:23:21in Istanbul.
00:23:22I started falling for him.
00:23:24I stayed the night
00:23:24at his hotel a few times.
00:23:27I thought we could be
00:23:29the perfect couple,
00:23:30but once we left
00:23:31and went home,
00:23:32he just completely, like,
00:23:33stopped talking to me.
00:23:34And now here he is.
00:23:36Wow.
00:23:37This woman with the red dress
00:23:55walking in.
00:23:59Okay, so she's fiery.
00:24:01Who is this girl?
00:24:04Hi.
00:24:04Hello, darling.
00:24:05How are you?
00:24:06Hi.
00:24:08I see this perfect
00:24:10long brown hair
00:24:11and I'm like,
00:24:12who the hell is that?
00:24:14And I'm like,
00:24:15holy
00:24:18I think I know who this is.
00:24:30You have now had
00:24:31a chance to meet each other,
00:24:33but you will not be wearing a mask
00:24:34for the remainder of this retreat.
00:24:37Take your masks off.
00:24:42Oh!
00:24:43Oh, my gosh!
00:24:46Have you made me like it?
00:24:48I like you first, already.
00:24:50You know I like you.
00:24:53Oh, I do not like this.
00:24:55I've read several things
00:24:56on social media about Usman
00:24:58and none of it's good.
00:24:59I really,
00:25:00I don't trust him at all.
00:25:01I don't trust him at all.
00:25:02on social media,
00:25:02like you.
00:25:15Wow.
00:25:17Look at this beautiful lady.
00:25:19The way she walk,
00:25:20majestically.
00:25:22Hmm, super hot.
00:25:23I'm ready to meet someone special, someone that brings that sparkle back to me.
00:25:40I'm excited to see who's hiding behind those masks.
00:25:45Usually I'm a very independent woman.
00:25:48I don't like any man or like other people to tell me what to do.
00:25:52I believe that you should do what you want and how you want it and when you want it as long as it's consensual.
00:25:59Do it.
00:26:02Where are you from?
00:26:03I'm from Colombia.
00:26:04Colombia.
00:26:06I'm looking for a man that can keep up with me and never tries to put me in a cage.
00:26:12But I haven't found that yet.
00:26:15Look, look, look, look.
00:26:18Hello, baby.
00:26:22You have her like mommy?
00:26:28That was her nickname.
00:26:30Is that the real team?
00:26:32I don't know why you care.
00:26:33I mean, we're having like...
00:26:35Oh my gosh.
00:26:39Finally.
00:26:40Oh, babe.
00:26:41Oh, babe.
00:26:52So he paid you to go on a date with him?
00:26:54My idiot.
00:26:55I deserve someone that looks at me like I am.
00:27:04I've been single for two years.
00:27:07This is like my first attempt to date.
00:27:11I heard there's going to be some 90 Day people here.
00:27:14So I think it's going to be interesting to see the vibe and the energy between the 90 Day people and the new singles.
00:27:23Man, we have some interesting masks here.
00:27:25Look at this one.
00:27:26Look at yours.
00:27:27Hi.
00:27:28How are you?
00:27:29I'm good.
00:27:30How are you?
00:27:31Good.
00:27:32Where are you from?
00:27:33Hi.
00:27:34Hi.
00:27:35How are you doing?
00:27:36Elise.
00:27:37Elise.
00:27:38Nice to meet you.
00:27:39I'm proud.
00:27:40Nice to meet you.
00:27:41Where are you from?
00:27:42I live in LA.
00:27:43Okay.
00:27:44Yeah.
00:27:45What about you?
00:27:46Miami.
00:27:47So you're a Miami girl?
00:27:48Kind of.
00:27:49But I don't want to party anymore.
00:27:50Like a yacht girl?
00:27:51A little bit.
00:27:52Right now I felt completely out of my elements.
00:28:05With all these handsome men and their six packs and their open shirts and the pretty girls, the cleavage.
00:28:12This is not usually how I spend a Friday night.
00:28:17I guess I've been called nerdy.
00:28:19I feel like I'm a poor man's nerd.
00:28:21You know?
00:28:22Maybe more of a geek.
00:28:23I don't really know.
00:28:24I never even talked to a girl until I was like 19, basically.
00:28:27And right now, having the record I do with women, I definitely don't have a winning streak.
00:28:33The last five years, I feel like my heart's definitely gone through the meat grinder.
00:28:37And it's definitely in a spotty place.
00:28:45Marissa.
00:28:46What is the flowers?
00:28:47No flowers, honey.
00:28:48I'm sorry.
00:28:51Makes me very proud to pronounce you husband and wife.
00:28:56Absolutely delusional.
00:28:58Who is against the queen?
00:28:59What love is or what respect is.
00:29:04Okay, good.
00:29:05So take your ring.
00:29:07And, okay, take the ring and .
00:29:10Hey, baby.
00:29:11Hey.
00:29:12Hey.
00:29:13Oh, .
00:29:14You lie.
00:29:15What are you talking about?
00:29:16Vanessa talk.
00:29:17You're still friends.
00:29:18You talk every day.
00:29:19Vanessa?
00:29:20You want to get married?
00:29:21Holy .
00:29:22Yes.
00:29:23You know, I just expected things to change.
00:29:24This is not what I planned out for.
00:29:26I'm not gonna lie.
00:29:27I thought you were divorcing when you left the house.
00:29:29Right now, I'm definitely not in the best place in my life.
00:29:30recently divorced, kind of in between jobs, in between homes and homes.
00:29:31I'm not gonna lie.
00:29:32I'm not gonna lie.
00:29:33I thought you were divorcing when you left the house.
00:29:37But, it, I'm gonna give this all my all and have a good time.
00:29:38I'm gonna have a good time and have a good time and get me out of my house.
00:29:39I'll give this all my all right.
00:29:40I'm not gonna lie.
00:29:41I'm not gonna lie.
00:29:42I'm not gonna lie.
00:29:43Right now, I'm definitely not in the best place in my life.
00:29:44recently divorced, kind of in between jobs, in between homes.
00:29:47This is definitely a low point in my life.
00:30:02But, it, I'm gonna give this my all and have a good time.
00:30:06and have a good time and the only thing i really care about is not looking too stupid in front of
00:30:10somebody but chances of me embarrassing myself pretty much guaranteed how you doing this you
00:30:18know chill pretty chill pretty chill yeah have you been to tulum before no my first time okay
00:30:26you i have i've been a solo traveler oh yeah really yeah yeah i've traveled most places by
00:30:32myself cool i've been to vietnam japan brazil you like bad boys i like bad boys i like a little
00:30:39bit you like a little bit of a like a challenge you want to make them you want to make them into
00:30:42a good guy a little bit i also like to get told what's still okay hi hi how are you guys doing
00:30:53guys are cute how are you cheers guys to a really good night cheers i gotta i gotta get a refill yeah
00:30:59absolutely i'm gonna go get one when i was trying to figure out what my type is before coming here
00:31:05i said tan skin dark hair big lips and then i meet cornstache and that guy caught my eye
00:31:13i was like who is this guy with this i do like brown eyes but his beautiful blue eyes i'm not
00:31:20gonna complain so i was like i'm saving you for later hey hi hi i think we've met before
00:31:32we met before i'm not sure about that about the wave so i was in turkey for like a month it was
00:31:40been like it's all my stories and reached out to me like hey i'm coming to istanbul do you want to
00:31:44hang out and i was like sure i didn't know if it was like friendly or if he's trying to date
00:31:49i didn't know what to expect we were going to dinners we were going out for drinks we were having
00:31:53a good time i thought like wow he's really cool and then i thought like oh could i date him is he
00:32:00flirting with me what's going on your mask is so i love it but after the trip i wasn't sure how he felt
00:32:09about me so now i'm like could this be fate bringing us back together but i feel stupid
00:32:15because i was excited to see him and talk to him and then he's pretending not to even know who i am
00:32:20i'm like i've like spent a week with you showing you the city every day sleeping in your hotel room
00:32:26and you don't know me okay maybe in the dream huh maybe in the dream or imagination of course i see
00:32:37caught me and actually i'm just playing i'm just joking with her and pretending not to know her
00:32:43but i don't think she get it hi guys hello everybody good evening my name is nick and this is tanya
00:32:55we will be your personal dating coaches
00:33:01between the two of us we have close to two decades of helping people like you
00:33:06build relationships and strengthen those relationships over time
00:33:10now this is johanna hi everyone hi guys and johanna will be our events coordinator while
00:33:18we're here in beautiful tulum the three of us have put together a series of mixers dates and events
00:33:24for this retreat it sounds like a lot of work i was just planning on getting like white girl wasted
00:33:29the whole retreat so yeah but my dating life is horrible i need somebody to come help me you have
00:33:37now had a chance to meet each other mix it up and hopefully form some connections the masks on without
00:33:44nerves and the fear of judgment but you will not be wearing a mask for the remainder of this retreat
00:33:49i am now going to ask the gentleman to line up over here and the ladies to line up over there
00:33:59i'm very curious to see miami girl in orange and for sure every dude here wants to know how hot the
00:34:04girl in the red dress is i mean i know i do it's like it's like a tale as old as time the woman in the red
00:34:09dress we gotta know so when i say it's time you will all reveal yourselves
00:34:22three
00:34:26two
00:34:29one take your mask off
00:34:39one take your mask off
00:34:54out of all the people why is she here you gotta be kidding me man
00:35:00this is gonna be fun
00:35:09three
00:35:14two
00:35:16one
00:35:22wow wow oh my god
00:35:31so tim is here
00:35:32when i'm looking at him and i see his reaction he looks like someone put him in the stomach
00:35:45so i give him a bunch and he was like no
00:35:52hi rogue yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that's a few of us yeah yeah
00:35:56all the girls are smoking hot tonight i think there's a lot of opportunity here for me but at
00:36:04the same time i started to see these this group of guys and girls who knew each other it's about some
00:36:09tv show and i'm really not sure of that group so i'm trying to figure out what's going on
00:36:14oh hi hey how are you hey tiffany i'm good how are you been you look good thank you yeah
00:36:23there's a whole lot going on right now and i can kind of catch some people that i know for sure are
00:36:2990-day people that i know of courtney is like a sweet girl but i also know she likes her drinks so
00:36:37i'm like oh god rob is you know he's the pretty boy oh is that soja boy i don't know if any of
00:36:46the women here are his type because so far i haven't seen any women over 50. sorry
00:36:52how are you how are you dude how have you been man i'm good how you doing i'm good man i'm sure
00:36:59well you're here man yeah it's pretty crazy i didn't realize you were single yeah i got divorced
00:37:04when did that in february i'm sorry hi now that you're unmasked have some fun talk a little bit
00:37:09more and we will see you in the morning see you guys
00:37:17my first thought is like where's the where's the tall model looking girl i got to see what her
00:37:21face actually looks like and then i kind of like did a quick little glance like okay yeah she is
00:37:28she is very beautiful okay and then my focus went towards this mystery latina in red in the red dress
00:37:35everybody seems to know who she is and i'm like shook because i'm like what the she's one of the 90
00:37:41day people realizing that the hottest girl here was also a 90 day fiance i mean we'll see hi how you
00:37:50nice to meet you what's your name nice to meet you rob what a situation they have us in right
00:37:58now this is a little bit awkward and when you get done can i talk to you for a minute yeah she or me
00:38:09no her you guys continue i'll be right back okay you okay like i don't know like you think i should
00:38:17just try to like see where me and her and the last time i talked to her 100 it was horrible no no 100
00:38:24i feel like it's something that you just got to jump into versus like avoiding and then it gets it
00:38:29becomes this thing do you know her and although she's like haunted i don't know how to so i'm
00:38:34like sweet but i don't know i don't know she seemed super sweet when i met her too date her and then
00:38:39see if you still think she's sweet out of all the 90 day singles here i'm probably closest with tim
00:38:45i'm so happy that he's here because he's my friend but for tim's ex to be here
00:38:51i know they don't get along they ended badly
00:38:57jennifer when we look back on your relationship with tim which you were never intimate
00:39:02why do you think that was he has been reinforcing the false narrative that he never wanted to have
00:39:07sex with me but anybody everybody can see that that's just bs we actually did try to have sex
00:39:14and i didn't have a i didn't have a condom and the stores were closed i told you i will never
00:39:19have sex with you i told you and you say okay then let everybody think that i'm gay
00:39:26there's no love in this room right now to my god like someone put a muscle through her mouth please
00:39:31i gave you money bought you you shouldn't utter one bad word about me ever you know what you
00:39:38don't even deserve to be called a because you love to act like a little
00:39:41bitch whoa i think her presence here just her being here is going to like put them on high
00:39:48alert and now they're going to have to date in front of each other let's see how that goes
00:39:57so where do you get to be now in colombia i'm really curious about colombia but mostly because
00:40:05of you it's not colombia hey what's going on everything everything and everything i'm shocked
00:40:14to see you i was nice yeah last time we spoke that was uh bad um i just i don't want there to be
00:40:24tension i'm trying to have a good time i know you're probably trying to have a good time and i i don't
00:40:29want any bad blood you know but you guys want your privacy no no okay we tried at the age long time
00:40:37ago yeah but it didn't work but what happened is that he has a big mouth so he said a lot of things
00:40:44about me and then i had the opportunity to confront him and he didn't like what i said that's what
00:40:51happened so you you know the truth he must always try to sabotage me in the past he feels that he's
00:41:00so entitled to don't tell me with other people now i can come for him too i know that he has a lot
00:41:07of secrets so you better watch out or maybe it's gonna be the time to tell them to the world too
00:41:14i know y'all having a conversation so i don't want to interrupt you but
00:41:17don't mind me we'll stay out each other's way it'd be good okay all right thank you good friends
00:41:25i thought there's a friendship coming within the last sentence happening i was like oh
00:41:29what happened well well you know that's my exit that's here right
00:41:35hold up why'd y'all break up the truth she's a golden
00:41:41i hate gold diggers that come to the united states for a green card well i don't know what
00:41:50she's using for a green card but she definitely wasn't happy unless i was buying yeah okay well
00:41:55that's what i hate i just hate for people to abuse the system like are you and pedro dun dun
00:42:01done i haven't talked to him since the last time i filmed with him i don't know where he is okay
00:42:08did you think pedro was your soulmate then honestly ever you really did oh that's heartbreaking
00:42:15i was young i was like 25.
00:42:17can i sit in the place so are you madame no no no no i know you i don't listen i'm sorry about that
00:42:32but i don't mean it that way i want you to understand
00:42:38i i actually was joking with caught me pretending not to know her and i i just want to see how she's
00:42:42gonna react i am happy to see caught me here in istanbul we have some you know like good uh
00:42:50dinner we come to my hotel and then we are so drunk and it was amazing i appreciate it every minute
00:42:58courtney is pretty she's beautiful but at the same time she's not here for me and i'm not here for
00:43:05her we're just trying to see what's going to happen i can never pretend like i don't know you
00:43:09i've never met you yeah it does looks like a little room i really don't mean to hurt you
00:43:14no i know you're a nice guy yeah i'm just playing and understand that hurt you so i'm sorry
00:43:19i know you and i will never forget knowing you physically usman is attractive like he's muscular
00:43:28he's flirty he's fun to be around like okay i guess i'll make usman my number one but then
00:43:33there's another part of me that's like watch out who could be playing you don't be stupid courtney
00:43:38like i tend to go for like liars and manipulators i might be the issue i don't know
00:43:45have you made me lie i mean i'm not gonna lie to you all of you ladies are so beautiful everybody's
00:43:50so beautiful yeah like i didn't see nobody guys yeah everybody's beautiful so like you just have to
00:43:55figure it out i'm not really into like half guys but who do you think you're lying no tell me
00:44:04huh no tell me i promise tell me i like you first already you know i like you
00:44:11you act like you didn't know me oh my so you're gonna make up for it
00:44:18you gotta like do more what else do you want me to do so you can accept my apology
00:44:24as i'm listening to usman flirt with courtney i'm like oh i do not like this i know courtney i consider
00:44:34her a friend and i know all about her trip to turkey with usman i texted courtney while she was
00:44:40in turkey and i told her to watch her back because i've read several things on social media about
00:44:46usman and none of it's good
00:44:54every single time someone sees me in a bikini and they see my ass they're like holy you have a huge
00:44:58job you're so tempting i'm trying not to like go too crazy on the first interaction
00:45:08we're only like an hour into this retreat so that was quick
00:45:13that's the same thing about you
00:45:25yeah let's go
00:45:29girl tomorrow to be on a date with which one thank you you want to go out oh i got us on a date yes
00:45:39i would i said the same thing about you yeah let's go i said if you don't pick any one guy i was like
00:45:47some of the singles seem to know each other and that caught me off guard i have no idea who any
00:45:50of these people are uh but tiffany has been sweeter than honey she's beautiful and on the
00:45:57inside and out and i look forward to getting to know her better i'm gonna get a drink tiffany we'll
00:46:01be back and if all goes well i'll walk home with somebody to put on the christmas card
00:46:12thank you and you're very kind of much much more accentuated without the mask the mask was great
00:46:22was the max was the mascot kind of like a like a sexy serious vibe yeah and then without
00:46:27without it's just it's just beautiful thank you here you are with me again
00:46:36every time i look up i'm like where'd she go though i'm the tallest
00:46:39bitch here you can't see me oh i can find you yeah i'm not hard i see where you're at
00:46:47that's okay a lot of people know me as the wild fun party girl if i want something i'm gonna go get it
00:46:55and i'm not scared to get it so when rob took off his mask and i was in complete and utter disbelief
00:47:03how beautiful his eyes were and how much kind of swag he actually had under that mask
00:47:08he's kind of toxic manipulative swaggy the height is a little bit of an issue but i think we can get over
00:47:16it because we've had a great connection thus far rob on the roster is number one right now so rob
00:47:24is on the roster no rob is number one okay i appreciate you making me feel special yeah
00:47:31uh-huh which is you you want me to kiss you oh girl i am going to have to give it a minute
00:47:41i can't be making out with you here on the first interaction because you're supposed to be a good
00:47:45girl you're rejecting me out like that i'm not rejecting you check it up and go find another guy
00:47:52definitely no i'm trying not to like
00:47:56go too crazy on the first interaction but like damn this girl is
00:48:04she's a goer boy she's not holding back
00:48:10every single time someone sees me in a bikini and they see my ass they're like holy you have a huge
00:48:14ass i have a big butt for a white girl they can actually right now yep no you're not gonna stand
00:48:20up you don't want to kiss me you don't want to see my ass you don't want to see my ass that
00:48:24you want to kiss and actually mask you're so tempting do it
00:48:29what do you want first give me the kiss first
00:48:50wow rob found love at first sight we're only like an hour into this retreat so that was quick
00:48:59every single kid's horrible stuff is like in the movies you're my favorite movie yeah
00:49:10ass
00:49:21that is a very nice ass that is great
00:49:24okay i like it the booty cheeks they're big it's big butt right
00:49:38so healthy
00:49:39so what's this
00:49:40okay
00:49:40hold on
00:49:41hold on
00:49:42thank you
00:49:42cole yeah cole you can call me cole if you want
00:49:48actually cole is looking super handsome without his past
00:49:53i think that all is exactly my type he looks laughing has laughing features which i think is super sexy
00:50:01actually i thought before that rob was super hot but now he's already kissing a girl and
00:50:08they are very like you know into each other and making out this gives me an impression of you know
00:50:19what do you think is going to happen if you had a guess
00:50:22i'm ready to put everything on the line because i'm here to push the boundaries
00:50:41to to find love and my initial uh reaction to jennifer jennifer is elegant poised beautiful she's got
00:50:49beautiful sharp facial features and uh she knows how to carry herself that's the one i'm all in on
00:50:56who were you surprised with when you took out the mask was surprised to see some people that i know
00:51:02here um like who are you surprised to see me here yeah i was surprised to see me yeah i never met you but you don't know me for real be honest i don't know you
00:51:23who are you who are you why shanty are you moving you don't know kimbali
00:51:32you don't know jamal oh my god okay so i might have seen some things on social media about you
00:51:39but i've never met you and i don't know what i mean like i know you never met me but i mean like
00:51:44when you think you don't know me i was like okay that's fine because i know you i mean not really knowing
00:51:49you in person but like i've seen you you guys get to know no no it's fine no i actually just
00:51:55okay like like i check out the rest of the party this group of guys and girls this is a little world
00:52:03here where i'm i'm i'm outside of everything it's a really weird dynamic i can sense some tension between
00:52:10some of the people some of the singles there and i really don't know what's going on and uh things are
00:52:16about to get a little hairy it seems i don't know what you two are fine i don't understand why why
00:52:22you two don't like each other what happened no i mean maybe she don't like me but i don't hate
00:52:27anybody so i don't hate anybody but you came up to me and you were like i should know who you are
00:52:33and i'm like i don't know who you are i don't know very many people hold on hold on hold on i told you
00:52:40that i don't know anybody until i meet them in person i've never met you in my life i don't need
00:52:45to talk no i don't know you don't want to listen i know chantelle know who i am because we have mutual
00:52:53friends but i also know that she's been talking about me why chantelle and um she doesn't know that
00:53:02i know that why don't you mind your business attacking me for no reason i didn't do nothing to
00:53:10i'm on high defense i'm on alert what defense you should be the first one it is violence
00:53:16who is violent here because you were defensive towards me you're like i should know who you are
00:53:21but i don't know you don't have to worry about that i don't even know this man you are lying
00:53:26you are lying honestly i really i don't trust him at all because it's all over the blogs that
00:53:38usman is a scammer who just wants a green card courtney is my friend and i know that she can be
00:53:46a little naive when it comes to dating and if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck
00:53:52i don't want to talk to right now
00:54:12i'm gonna drop you off and then find me and text me
00:54:19can you open this
00:54:22like i couldn't do it earlier you'll probably get it right
00:54:29thank you
00:54:38i'll see you tomorrow i will see you bye sleep well thank you
00:54:44day one i am i'm feeling good i feel like i had a
00:54:50a successful night me and elise we're talking about going on a date and i felt
00:54:57desired and felt wanted and that was that that was something i felt like i wasn't for a long time so
00:55:04and i should just leave it at that and not overthink it
00:55:15because you thought you got my attention it's a little messy i'm sorry
00:55:21i love your room so you can sit here don't be shy oh my gosh did you guys have fun tonight was so intense
00:55:31it's okay you guys can snuggle up on my bed get comfy hi ladies and gentlemen
00:55:47it's been an eventful evening so i invited a couple people over so that we can kind of like
00:55:56chill out relax but i'm gonna be honest i'm like a little angel baby but like i've got my i've got my
00:56:03plans right so i want to hear about all the drama that everyone else is going on and i want it to not
00:56:09include me i can just be off in the corner observing like the good girl that i am
00:56:16tonight was so intense your partner is here what do you think about that that was my partner six and
00:56:23a half years ago the whole problem with her was i bought and bought and bought like i spent tons of
00:56:29money when you start sending money back but you know how it is they make you feel like that's they're
00:56:35gonna not eat that's a load of dude but i can tell you what i'm about done talking about it because
00:56:41i'm this is gonna get in my head and i don't want to let her ruin my trip so quote you like me
00:56:46i noticed you were talking with her yeah she's pretty interesting impressive she's from macao
00:56:50i saw you guys talking and i was like she speaks eight languages there's one thing i don't like
00:56:55why she's a vegan oh yeah that's a very intimate thing cooking for each other enjoying
00:57:00oh not for me that's a chore well for me it is i like that so i hate you you can't find matching
00:57:04things to eat she might like seven times a day like you colton oh wow oh she might be a nympho
00:57:10well i'm not a nympho i mean i would say i'm a healthy sex truck yeah seven times a day i would
00:57:15say well you know on a good day seven times a day it can be yeah seven rounds with who himself and his
00:57:22computer you seem like if you have sex seven times a day because that's like good exercise he would be in
00:57:30better shape i have a very healthy sex drive and from what i understand it's better than tim's better
00:57:38than tim but country mile i think most it guys are like closet and freaks
00:57:46all right so i've got porn stash guy you've got may i'm tbd i need i need more time honestly like i
00:57:54i gotta look what about you who's the sexiest all the ladies are beautiful there i think so i mean
00:57:59number one number one bluesman told me outside that before he came here he was like yeah i was
00:58:04really pretty i just had the way you approached me because i was having so much good vibe about you
00:58:11i'm not saying like i'm because like it's not about loving you approached me like a little aggressive
00:58:17to me that was not an aggressive day because i was sitting down you sit down and i just look at
00:58:24them like a chantelle you know i was trying to let another i know you and i was expecting her to say
00:58:28oh yeah i recognize you too she said no she don't know me she don't know where i come from but i didn't
00:58:33recognize you you don't have to but i was in producing myself to you i didn't judge you and i feel
00:58:39like you have some kind of perception about me so it was mad because when i was hanging out with him
00:58:47a symbol and remember you were like oh he's a scammer so he's like butthurt yeah you call me
00:58:52scammer like why would you call me scum i have every right to believe he's a scammer he did target
00:59:01him wanting a green card and when we were at the masquerade party he was telling courtney that
00:59:10she's his number one she's his number oh courtney you're my number one courtney but he was just
00:59:15telling tim how beautiful i am and courtney needs some bull repellent and until proven otherwise
00:59:25i don't trust usman and i'm going to protect my friend
00:59:33last night i was up with tim he was just saying that how you know like inviting you everything
00:59:38being supportive to your family he feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody so i
00:59:45know a couple secrets he wouldn't like anybody to know about let me tell you the team tell me the team
00:59:51what do i scam what do i scam did you call him a scammer for real i saw a bunch of things coming up
01:00:17on the internet about you being a scammer can believe anything on the internet i have this
01:00:24perception that i hate about how people see me because i come from africa right i'm from the place
01:00:30where people see us like a scammer but that's not what you need to invest on you need to invest on what
01:00:35i see i feel like this conversation we need to have it when we're less tired yeah we're fully rested
01:00:43and we can like talk about it and with that being said yeah i'm going my ass to sleep yeah for real
01:00:49thanks tiffany i mean i don't think the country of origin really affects if you're a scammer or not
01:00:55i think it's more of the fact that uzman prefers you know older ladies i guess you know
01:01:01i mean that's fine you know as they say all cats are great in the dark but at the end of the day
01:01:07uzman has a track record and it's old white ladies they give him playstations
01:01:31so welcome to my office so every day we have two options for you what you can do and for today we
01:01:47have flirting 101 or the speed dating how is your flirting game i think it's good okay so then you
01:01:56probably should do the speed dating well let me ask you something first okay do you know which one
01:02:02team choose let me take a look i mean he wasn't here yet so he didn't sign up for anything but it
01:02:12shouldn't like you should still file your own decision i feel like i'm not so sure if i want to go through
01:02:20that again that's why i'm happy i think it's speed dating with a twist but what is that twist the twist
01:02:29i don't want to tell you too much information yet just bring a bathing suit i think that team
01:02:36definitely needs to keep a distance and be respectful and i think team will never have the chance with
01:02:41anybody here so maybe they should be choosing 13-1-1 to be honest that boy's game is so low he sucks
01:02:53i think he sucks so i sign you up and then i gonna see you later okay thank you
01:02:58so how was that night it was good it was an interesting night all right yeah
01:03:19oozman you know i don't really know him very well but like i know oozman's past relationship
01:03:24with kimberly because i'm close friends with her son jamal he seems like a good guy um but i've only
01:03:29ever known him to date cougars so i'm curious as to why he's here uh to meet all these young
01:03:35singles he might have better luck at a retirement home
01:03:40yes well last night i see you i see the lady can i call it like hook up i don't know just a kiss
01:03:47you can tell me it's just a kiss man hello good morning good morning how are you doing good morning
01:03:54did you have a good night yeah you look nice too how are you thank you you're good too so what have you
01:04:00been up to this morning um actually i put myself into a class and i choose speed dating yeah you guys
01:04:08i'm supposed to do that you too yeah yeah i'm going for the dating 101 yeah yeah oh flirting the
01:04:15flirting class so you can tell us what that's like talking about relationship so last night i was um with
01:04:21tim and um like a couple of us you know just having this past relationship conversation and um was he
01:04:27talking some yeah he said a lot he said a lot he's just a built talker he needs to do this to show up
01:04:36like in the past at all he talked so much so bad about me yeah so last night he was just saying
01:04:45that how much supportive he was you know like buying you everything being supportive to your family
01:04:50yeah i never received anything from him like a couple gifts but that wasn't like he sent me money
01:04:56to support my family i mean that's what i'm always being independent i never meant need a man to
01:05:00support myself he has me till here saying that i am a gold digger
01:05:06tim and i actually broke up and stopped talking like six years ago and he's clearly not over it
01:05:12and he's so frustrating because he feels so entitled to talk about me with everybody
01:05:19so he's actually giving me motivation to play the same game that he wants to start
01:05:24i know a couple secrets he wouldn't like anybody to know about
01:05:27how long you guys have been together we were mostly online dating so when we met personally we were a
01:05:37disaster you guys had anything sexually no i don't come really my god why not i think he's just sexually
01:05:47freak let me tell you the tea tell me the tea the real tea
01:06:07let me tell you the tea tell me the tea
01:06:11i mean one time we went to a strip pub okay
01:06:17and he paid to a guy to dance for me
01:06:22as he was watching and i was like what are you into wait you went to a men's strip club
01:06:27yeah stop yeah like a lap dance and he was very excited about it that was the most excited you saw
01:06:35him yeah he was so excited he just likes weird he said that with his ex-girlfriends he'd love to go to
01:06:43suit yours okay yeah that's just something else that's interesting yeah i never watched tim and
01:06:52jen's season so i was very surprised to find out that they were exes they just don't really look
01:06:56like they would go together like that you know they just and then they never even hooked up i mean
01:07:03this is like gino and jasmine territory words of the wise to all the fellas out there if uh if you're
01:07:08not snooping your wife she's gonna probably find it from somebody else i mean that definitely sounds
01:07:16like if he would let a guy give you a lap dance and he likes that that he would let a guy yeah
01:07:20you and he would watch that was so confusing like are you trying to clear with me or are you trying
01:07:26to like throw me to other guys like why are you trying there are guys who enjoy watching their girl
01:07:31get by other guys really yeah yeah maybe because they can sexually work or i don't know any number
01:07:39of reasons right i don't know maybe it's like too much pressure for them to be the one and or maybe
01:07:44they just really like to see their girl satisfied i don't know i'm not going to judge tim you know to
01:07:50each their own but i just don't i i couldn't do it i couldn't watch another man you know give my girl
01:07:58a lap dance and i definitely wouldn't want to watch my girl do anything more with a guy i could never
01:08:05and how the hell does tim first of all get a girl like this second of all how does he go all the way
01:08:10to columbia to see her and not like be all in that the whole time that's surprising because i would
01:08:18not be able to keep my hands off that girl i have to get changed so i hope to see you later all right
01:08:31she's hot she is she is hot she's hot you're right about that yeah
01:08:48oh nice i needed to be near the air now yeah but it's gonna make a nice and quick ac ac we're on
01:08:58our way to speed dating with a twist and everybody looks so good on this bus and i'm just wondering
01:09:03which one of these guys is going to be attracted to me because we've got a buffet of women here and
01:09:08they're all looking good when you speed date do you do you ask the questions or you just let them
01:09:13ask you you know i'm so shy that i kind of feel it out wait so did y'all find any girl last night that
01:09:23you were interested in uh what's that the the girl what's her name in the red dress last night
01:09:30my eggs jennifer word your ex is jennifer damn that's crazy yeah have fun with that one
01:09:40oh what's that guy from last night that you were talking to oh what's he again he had the light blue
01:09:47shirt on today and he was wearing oh i don't know his name all white all white did you learn his name
01:09:52i think it's rob yeah i don't know we'll see i don't know i just met him last night rob and i
01:09:58kind of were hot and heavy the first night i think there we have a lot of sexual attention he would be
01:10:03a great lay he would be something i would go for and he texted me the entire night making you know
01:10:09sure i was okay i would really love to have a talk with him just like a one-on-one talk with him to get
01:10:15to know him more i'm totally open to see where this goes you know when it's like super easy to talk
01:10:21to someone yeah it felt like that and that's what i'm looking for a best friend like i'm sick of
01:10:28the you know oh yeah rob the white opposite we're neighboring bro i haven't seen you you better
01:10:36been banging out some like what no come on bro no i had to slow it down honestly yeah i'm sure you did
01:10:46she was in the jar bro i had to simmer it down she was in the jar it was cute because i kept talking
01:10:51and telling him things but like he remembered everything i said well at least you know that
01:10:55girl likes anal yeah she does like it feels like anal she said that's one of the first things she
01:11:01told me she said that to everybody like yeah at least was literally at the party last night and i think
01:11:07said like i've been to this resort before and it was the first time i had anal and i'm just kind of
01:11:14like wow man this girl is bored she's direct and she it's like kind of like hanging out one of the
01:11:19bros almost like she's got a very bro personality which i kind of like like she said that her ex brought
01:11:26her to this resort and banged her for a second yeah i know she told everybody introducing yourself
01:11:32like that bro that kind of worries me with elise we've all only been here for like two days so it
01:11:39seems a little really early and super forward to be talking about where you've had anal with a bunch
01:11:44of strangers and i'm thinking i probably shouldn't kiss this girl
01:11:49i have this like crazy personality well wait what's your longest relationship i've been proposed
01:12:00to five times i've been engaged three times three times i don't think elise looks like an insecure
01:12:07person if you want to be a slut be a slut that was the longest living gosh we're your dating coach
01:12:19i'm overwhelmed and have a thousand thoughts running through my head because right before i came to
01:12:25the resort something did happen and i was so overwhelmed at what it all meant i don't know
01:12:49just tell me what i gotta do yeah come on give me your love you know girl i'm all about you
01:12:56if i give it all now just tell me what i gotta do yeah
01:13:02welcome to the first mixer of our singles retreat you guys excited yeah all right beautiful we're gonna
01:13:08do some speed dating but with a twist if that's okay with you guys we want you to lower your guards
01:13:15and build some of those connections while in a hot tub
01:13:23so we hope that the warm water and soothing jets will help you open up relax and have some deeper
01:13:28conversations with the people that you're in those hot tubs with oh my god guess who is he to
01:13:35see i i think this is not fair like i definitely don't want to share a hot tub with him never in my life
01:13:43so each date will last two minutes when your two minutes is up you will then rate the date once
01:13:49everyone has had a chance to speed date everyone else you'll tally your scores up and see how we did
01:13:55don't waste time don't keep it on the surface and be yourself because there's no point in pretending
01:13:59to be someone else while you're here speed dating and hot tubs i've never heard of anything like this
01:14:05before i am as comfortable with my body as i've been in a long time however jen is here and then on top
01:14:13of that i'm looking around we've got edwin who literally looks like uh an african-american schwarzenegger
01:14:20rocky looks like a beach yoga model rob is a good looking dude these guys are not gonna help me at all
01:14:28so as you all might know when you do a speed dating event the ladies stay put and the men rotate so
01:14:36with that in mind the three ladies they're gonna hop in these hot tubs first are may chantal and nikki
01:14:42and the three lucky gentlemen that are going to be joining them in those hot tubs are rob chris and edwin
01:14:50and for my friends that were not called you're gonna walk down to the beach with johanna you're gonna
01:14:54have some fun chat it up have some drinks and we'll see you when it's your turn okay you guys go
01:15:00on ahead that sounds like fun speed dating is a great way to kick this thing off because they've
01:15:08just kind of met over the last day or so this will be an intentional way for them to pretty quickly get a
01:15:13read on if there's some form of connection there obviously the hot tub itself is an intimate space
01:15:20it's not like a rigid dining room table that you're sitting at and trying to have a conversation
01:15:25so they get right to the business and really dig in all right friends now that you're in your hot tubs
01:15:31here's a few drinks so you can take a sip relax and enjoy now once everybody has their drinks i'm
01:15:38gonna start this timer and game on i can admit that i need work when it comes to the opposite sex and
01:15:47dating but i'll take out the girls poke them out and maybe i can attract a man
01:15:55all right you guys got your drinks okay your two minutes starts now okay you got a question
01:16:02all right got it i thought you had a good question what is it do you believe in polygamy
01:16:07polygamy no man it's hard enough keeping one woman happy i mean that's a lot
01:16:12i'm just curious about something you're into i think it makes things pretty complicated
01:16:16it can yeah yeah what were the core values like like to work out for it it's extremely important
01:16:22to me that someone is first and foremost open-minded um because i'm really open-minded about who
01:16:30i'm interested in these days this cherry is huge
01:16:37wow wow how long have you been seeing that four years four years why so long just haven't met
01:16:46someone yeah you're right you're right it's a normal it's very okay actually the glass is
01:16:52speaking about me cheers cheers to love cheers to talom and to love to finding the right one yes
01:17:03okay tell me who did you like last night i just wanted to just see what the vibes were say who
01:17:07people were who did you want to talk to last night rob apparently no rob really caught me by
01:17:16like he's not typically a guy i would go for really no physically i totally see you with a guy like
01:17:21him really yeah so funny no i have this like crazy personality when you first meet me like i'm wild
01:17:27i'm crazy i say stuff i shouldn't be saying well like behind closed doors like i'm a real person
01:17:32i'm super insecure i think it's just like i'm so scared of getting hurt well wait wait what's your
01:17:37longest relationship i've been proposed to five times i've been engaged three times three times
01:17:46keep the reins
01:17:52i don't think elise looks like an insecure person she's super hot she was making out with rob on the
01:17:58first night also it's like if you want to be a slut be a slut you can enjoy it
01:18:10what would your ex say about you
01:18:12he probably would have a lot of words to say um one of which would probably be where's
01:18:27my money
01:18:30what are you doing you took my money did you pay for the money
01:18:34i took my money out of the bank account that we should oh it was yours right ugly
01:18:39yeah i feel like he still owes me money okay when chris asked me what my ex would say about me
01:18:48i'm a taken back by it because my ex was a seven-year marriage not just a boyfriend and you don't know
01:18:55what's behind that door when you go knocking and it wasn't good for me all right ladies and gents
01:19:02that is our time for this particular round time to get up and rotate around to the next young lady
01:19:10well nice talking to you it was good talking to you cheers cheers have fun you too
01:19:20this speed dating is a lot harder than i thought it was gonna be i'm overwhelmed and have a thousand
01:19:26thoughts running through my head that was a long two minutes i don't know how to flirt it can get a
01:19:35little awkward especially for me i want to hear that i heard you two dated yeah that was a long time
01:19:46ago it was seven years ago okay it's good that you guys can be here like in the same space and be
01:19:52cordially you know you're not like acting so it's true no it's definitely good that i can be in the
01:20:00same space you know not everybody's like that yeah i mean we will have to but it's a surprise man like
01:20:04i never expect oh yeah i did not expect to see each other no we haven't talked in years like six
01:20:10years yeah and he had a lot to say ah so did you he said super mean things and things that you do
01:20:16i don't want to be the guy that goes and fights with my ex but at the same time i don't want my ex to
01:20:46be going around saying bad traits about me to these new women it's pretty clear that jennifer is openly
01:20:54sabotaging my chances here and i'm trying my best to not blow a gasket at this point
01:21:05i wake up in the morning feeling so fresh cause i start dreaming about my level up next look in the mirror
01:21:12it's my first morning in tulum half the singles are at speed dating and i'm getting ready to go to
01:21:21flirting 101 it starts in an hour i'm like get it boo i don't know what happened last night i felt like
01:21:29everybody was attractive and nice but right now i think my strongest connection is guzman because
01:21:35sometimes guzman will be like a little flirty with me but i don't know if he's flirting with everybody
01:21:39because then he also told me like chantelle's beautiful tiffany's beautiful so i think he's
01:21:43just calling all the girls beautiful i don't know i'm confused if uzman's just flirty and this is just
01:21:50a friendship to him but he hasn't said anything that makes me think he wants to take our relationship
01:21:55to the next level maybe uzman's trying to keep his options open so okay so you can play that game
01:22:01we'll see what happens at the workshop today i'm a little nervous though because whenever i try to flirt with
01:22:07somebody i just feel so like ill i think yesterday i was like convincing the guys that they don't want
01:22:12to date me honestly
01:22:27it is very humid here you know i come from vegas i'm used to the heat but the humidity is a whole other
01:22:32beast i mean look at me i'm sweating my balls off
01:22:43oh my god this is different from those i almost just like drowned just now almost went under and
01:22:48wouldn't have come back up i was very impressed you didn't spill anything of course i would never
01:22:53you are like such a fit body are you planning to get more tattoos maybe uh in my legs a little bit i
01:23:06always think i have a friend she has a tattoo it's like chinese letters in red i think about a little
01:23:12red tattoo all the time but i don't have it no i guess i'm too chicken
01:23:17a little ant he's like gosh he's already look at him he's not dead
01:23:26see i could just oh my gosh there you go please don't bite me you could not be trying to rescue
01:23:33ants you must watch where you where you step all day long oh my god i do you do hope he doesn't
01:23:39bite me he's so big right because he looks like a fire ant or something have you been married before i
01:23:46have yeah i see your tattoo on your ink yeah i realized that question was kind of not appropriate
01:23:56for like getting to know a person i wish i could take it back we're not talking about fast relationships
01:24:05things with edwin go south quickly because he's kind of a brick wall
01:24:10but let's be honest eight years ago when i got married to pedro i hung up my dating skills
01:24:18and i never thought i would need them again gosh we're the dating coach when you need one
01:24:27i mean that's one of the reasons another would be that right before i came to the resort something did
01:24:37happen with one of my friends i was hanging out with my friend ashley and we were drinking wine
01:24:43and she explains to me that she has feelings for me that are actually romantic well one thing led to
01:24:54another and ashley kisses me i almost fainted i was so shocked and i i really i liked it
01:25:06it felt like my first kiss ever but at the same time i was so overwhelmed at what it all meant because i
01:25:17have not ever thought about dating a woman what would that mean what would that mean for me and my dating
01:25:26life and my sexuality does this mean that i'm a lesbian just like that i don't know
01:25:47you make me feel so wild this season on 90 day hunt for love
01:25:55the next few weeks are going to be insane
01:25:57there's already love triangles people are trying to mark their territory like we're in for it
01:26:12go rocky go go go rocky is the first person that i've seen here that i was like
01:26:17and then there's carlo and i don't know how i'm going to juggle this but wow what a wonderful problem
01:26:27to have
01:26:36love is like the craziest emotion in the world i haven't felt like this in a long time
01:26:43i'm a little rusty okay so you know
01:26:47i just want you to know that i truly honestly i don't even like you i love you
01:26:53i mean she's confused but no any smart lady will look at me and look at cole and pick him over at me
01:26:59i don't think you should compete with me because you lose you think you're better than me i'm more
01:27:03man than you you're nothing
01:27:08well who's sleeping with rob rob ryan i think tiffany's a story of rumors everywhere
01:27:14me where did the rumor come from where did the rumor come from
01:27:20what's going on tonight is about making some decisions and now it is time to get serious
01:27:29i feel that i have strong feelings for two men here
01:27:36got kind of off to a rocky start and if i could have in my way i would like to see something continue
01:27:43this
01:27:50i got you a gift
01:27:53you are who i think of every morning i wake up like i see a future with you
01:27:59this is so hard
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