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00:00 π₯ Introduction β Why emotions control us
02:35 π§ Power of the mind over the heart
06:12 π The cost of emotional decisions
10:45 π‘ How to stop reacting and start thinking
14:20 π Break the emotional cycle
18:50 π Biblical principles for emotional balance
22:30 π§ββοΈ Strength in silence and stillness
26:10 π₯ Real-life testimony of transformation
29:50 π Final message β Step into emotional maturity
31:55 π Closing words & reflection
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#tdjakes, #motivationalspeech, #christianmotivation, #selfimprovement, #stopbeingemotional, #emotionalcontrol, #robertsmotivation,Stop letting your emotions control your destiny. In this powerful T.D. Jakes and Roberts motivational speech, learn how to rise above pain, control your reactions, and step into strength. This life-changing message will push you toward growth and emotional intelligence. If you're stuck in your feelings, itβs time to break free. Let this message be your breakthrough!
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00:00 π₯ Introduction β Why emotions control us
02:35 π§ Power of the mind over the heart
06:12 π The cost of emotional decisions
10:45 π‘ How to stop reacting and start thinking
14:20 π Break the emotional cycle
18:50 π Biblical principles for emotional balance
22:30 π§ββοΈ Strength in silence and stillness
26:10 π₯ Real-life testimony of transformation
29:50 π Final message β Step into emotional maturity
31:55 π Closing words & reflection
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00:00Too many of us are living beneath our calling
00:03because we're trapped in the prison of our own emotions.
00:06We react before we reflect.
00:08We explode before we evaluate.
00:10We're building our lives on feelings and not on truth.
00:14And I came to tell you, you've cried long enough.
00:17You've doubted long enough.
00:18You've danced with dysfunction long enough.
00:21It's time to grow up emotionally.
00:24We're not here to be controlled by mood swings.
00:26We're not here to be manipulated by guilt trips.
00:29We're not here to spend another day apologizing for emotions
00:34that haven't been healed.
00:35We are here to take back our minds, take back our peace,
00:39and walk in power with emotional discipline.
00:41The enemy doesn't need to ruin your life.
00:44He just needs to distract you with the wrong emotions.
00:47Some of you can't even enjoy your blessings
00:50because you're too busy feeling rather than functioning.
00:54You keep letting temporary feelings cost you permanent consequences.
00:58You're calling it loyalty, but it's emotional bondage.
01:01You're calling it love, but it's codependency.
01:05You're calling it patience, but it's a fear of confrontation.
01:09It's time to learn the difference.
01:11God cannot elevate a heart that refuses to be disciplined.
01:15When you let your emotions drive, your purpose takes a back seat.
01:19Hear me, you don't have to respond to everything that offends you.
01:24You don't have to react to every insult.
01:26You don't have to fight battles that don't align with your destiny.
01:30Emotional maturity is knowing when to be silent and when to stand up.
01:35I need you to understand this.
01:36You will not fulfill your calling by being emotionally fragile.
01:40Life will press you.
01:42People will misunderstand you.
01:43There will be betrayal, heartbreak, rejection, but you can't be driven by that.
01:48You have to be driven by vision.
01:49You can cry, yes.
01:51You can hurt, yes.
01:53You don't build your future in your feelings.
01:56Stop giving your energy to people who only want a reaction.
02:00Stop investing in people who only care when you're broken.
02:04You're not broken anymore.
02:05You're becoming.
02:06You're not foolish.
02:07You're freeing yourself from the illusion that every emotion needs a response.
02:12So I say it again, stop being an emotional fool.
02:16You are more than your feelings.
02:18You are more than your triggers.
02:19You are more than the disappointments you went through.
02:22Get up.
02:23Wipe your face.
02:24Speak peace to your soul and walk like someone who knows who they are.
02:29There is no denying the reality of emotions.
02:32They are powerful, present, and persuasive.
02:34They rise like waves and crash like thunder.
02:38They pull us into places we didn't plan to visit and make us say things we didn't mean
02:42to speak.
02:44Emotions are real.
02:45They are not illusions and they are not sins.
02:48God created emotions.
02:49He gave us the capacity to feel, to grieve, to rejoice, to laugh, to weep, to burn with
02:54righteous anger, and to overflow with joy.
02:57Emotions are human.
02:58They are gifts.
02:59But hear this with clarity.
03:01Emotions were never meant to rule you.
03:04There is a difference between having emotions and being ruled by them.
03:08When you are ruled by emotions, you lose the ability to choose wisely.
03:12You stop thinking strategically and start reacting impulsively.
03:16You don't walk by vision.
03:17You walk by volatility.
03:19You become a puppet and your feelings pull the strings.
03:22You become unstable.
03:24And even when you know the right thing to do, you choose what feels better instead of what
03:29is better.
03:30Being ruled by emotions makes you a prisoner of the present moment.
03:34It traps you in temporary reactions that often carry permanent consequences.
03:38A person ruled by emotion is easily offended, quickly discouraged, constantly drained, and
03:44frequently distracted.
03:46That is not the life God called you to live.
03:48You were created to walk in power, love, and a sound mind, not a storm of confusion and
03:54internal chaos.
03:55You are not called to be driven by emotion.
03:58You are called to be led by the Spirit.
04:00The Bible says, he who rules his spirit is greater than one who conquers a city.
04:05That means it is more impressive to be emotionally disciplined than it is to have external success.
04:11Why?
04:12Because no matter how far you go in life, if you cannot manage your inner world, your emotions
04:17will sabotage your success.
04:19Some people are not being attacked by the devil.
04:22They are being undone by their own emotional instability.
04:25You can fast, you can pray, you can quote scripture, but if you, you keep being triggered
04:31by every offense, if you keep reacting out of pain, if you keep leading with hurt instead
04:36of healing, you will stay stuck in the same cycles.
04:40Let me tell you something, not every feeling is truth.
04:43Every tear means you're being mistreated.
04:46Not every hurt means you were wrong.
04:48And not every moment of sadness needs to be fed.
04:51There is a difference between acknowledging how you feel and allowing how you feel to lead
04:56your decisions.
04:58Emotions must be processed, not obeyed.
05:00They are indicators, not dictators.
05:02You must learn to sit with your emotions, examine them, and ask, is this feeling pointing
05:08me toward wisdom or dragging me toward destruction?
05:12Some people think being emotional is a personality trait.
05:15It's not.
05:16It's a lack of emotional boundaries.
05:18And if you don't discipline your emotions, you will constantly find yourself apologizing
05:24for things you said in anger, regretting decisions made in fear, and missing opportunities because
05:29you let anxiety paralyze you.
05:31Listen, Jesus felt emotions.
05:33He wept.
05:34He rejoiced.
05:35He became angry.
05:36He grieved.
05:37But he was never ruled by what he felt.
05:39He submitted his emotions to the will of the Father.
05:42In Jethsemane, when he was overwhelmed with sorrow, he didn't run.
05:46He didn't lash out.
05:47He prayed.
05:48He surrendered.
05:49He said, not my will, yours be done.
05:53That is emotional maturity.
05:54That is what we are called to walk in, not emotional collapse, not emotional outbursts,
05:59emotional submission to a higher authority.
06:03You cannot trust your emotions more than you trust God's truth.
06:07You cannot trust your feelings more than you trust his word.
06:11Feelings will tell you to give up when God is saying, press forward.
06:15Feelings will tell you to retaliate when God is telling you to forgive.
06:19Feelings will tell you you're worthless when God has already called you chosen.
06:24So which voice will you follow?
06:26When your life is ruled by emotions, you become unstable in your relationships.
06:30People can't count on you because your mood shifts like the wind.
06:34Your family doesn't know what version of you is walking through the door.
06:39Your friends have to walk on eggshells.
06:41You're hard to talk to because emotions speak louder than reason.
06:46And worst of all, you don't even trust yourself because deep down, you know you're not in control.
06:51You're reacting, not responding.
06:54You're surviving, not leading.
06:56You're feeling everything, but anchoring nothing.
06:59Let me declare this over your life.
07:02You are not crazy.
07:03You are not too emotional.
07:04You are not broken beyond repair, but you must learn how to manage what you feel so it doesn't manage you.
07:11It's time to build your life on truth, not tension, purpose, not panic, on faith, not fear.
07:17Stop letting your past wounds write the script for your present relationships.
07:22Stop allowing temporary feelings to make permanent decisions.
07:25Stop saying, this is just how I am.
07:28No.
07:29It's how you've been trained to survive.
07:31But now, it's time to be transformed.
07:34The Bible says, be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
07:38Your mind must lead, not your mood.
07:40This doesn't mean suppress your feelings.
07:42No.
07:43It means master them.
07:44It means submit them.
07:45It means you recognize that your emotions are passengers in the vehicle of your life.
07:50But you don't let them grab the wheel.
07:53Peace is possible.
07:54Stability is possible.
07:56Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit, and you can bear it in every season if you stay connected to God.
08:02This is your season to stop being tossed around by how you feel and start walking in who you are.
08:07You are not your anger.
08:10You are not your heartbreak.
08:11You are not your trauma.
08:13You are a child of God clothed in power and destined for victory.
08:17So the next time emotion rises up, don't deny it.
08:20But don't let it rule you either.
08:22Speak to your soul.
08:24Command your peace.
08:25Choose your focus.
08:26And walk like someone who understands this truth.
08:29You may have the degree.
08:30You may have the business plan.
08:32You may have the talent, the looks, the ambition.
08:35But without emotional maturity, everything you're building will remain vulnerable.
08:40Because when emotions go unchecked, elevation turns into frustration.
08:44Success becomes sabotage.
08:46Progress stalls because the heart hasn't been healed and the spirit hasn't been trained.
08:52You don't lose in life because of lack of opportunity.
08:55You lose when your emotions are louder than your wisdom.
08:58Let's be real.
09:00Life is not going to wait for you to catch up emotionally.
09:04Responsibilities don't pause until your feelings align.
09:07The storm won't hold back just because your heart is tender.
09:11There will be days when your emotions scream for attention.
09:15They will demand a reaction.
09:17That's when you must reach deep down inside and say,
09:20Not this time.
09:22Come too far to let my feelings lead me astray.
09:25Emotional maturity is a weapon.
09:28It protects you from overreacting to temporary situations.
09:31It guards your mouth when your mind is tempted to rage.
09:34It covers your integrity when your heart wants revenge.
09:37It stops you from settling for validation when you were born for purpose.
09:42Emotional maturity is what separates those who rise from those who remain stuck in cycles of drama, dysfunction, and disappointment.
09:50People think maturity is about age, but there are 45-year-old people acting like 15-year-olds in emotional conflict.
09:57There are people with powerful resumes and weak spirits.
10:01Highly gifted but easily offended.
10:03Publicly strong.
10:04Privately fragile.
10:05And until we grow emotionally, we will keep repeating the same relational failures, spiritual battles, and career collapses.
10:13You cannot go where your emotions haven't been trained to handle.
10:17There are levels of influence that require you to remain calm while you're being criticized.
10:22There are platforms that require you to bless those who curse you and still lead with grace.
10:28There are doors opening for you that will close just as fast if you bring your trauma instead of your training.
10:35Some of you are not waiting on a blessing.
10:37Your blessing is waiting on your emotional growth.
10:40God is ready to promote you, but can he trust you not to panic when things go wrong?
10:45Can he trust you to forgive when you're wounded?
10:48Can he trust you not to clap back, not to broadcast your betrayal, not to live on social media proving points to people who don't matter?
10:57We don't talk enough about the fact that healing is part of maturity.
11:02Unhealed people bleed on people who didn't cut them.
11:05They project their fears.
11:07They sabotage their own happiness.
11:09They reject real love because their emotions have been shaped by trauma, not truth.
11:14But when you commit to emotional growth, something shifts.
11:18You stop expecting others to fix what only you can heal.
11:21You stop justifying broken behavior with, this is just how I am.
11:25You stop excusing chaos when they made me do it.
11:28No.
11:29Mature people take responsibility.
11:31Make no mistake.
11:33Emotional maturity is spiritual warfare.
11:36The enemy doesn't always attack your finances or your health.
11:39Sometimes he just sends a person who knows how to trigger your insecurities.
11:44Sometimes he whispers lies in your feelings and makes them louder than your faith.
11:49Sometimes he sets a trap, not with temptation, but with offense.
11:54And if you're not emotionally mature, you'll take the bait every time.
11:58I dare you to grow to the point where your peace can't be stolen.
12:02I dare you to rise to the place where your emotions are submitted to the Holy Spirit, where your past no longer dictates your reactions.
12:11Where you don't just pray for elevation, but for endurance, for discipline, for emotional strength.
12:17That's when you become dangerous to the enemy because he can't manipulate a mature believer.
12:23You want to know how powerful emotional maturity is.
12:26It allows you to see clearly when others are clouded.
12:29It helps you love people who are hard to love.
12:32It teaches you to pause before you speak.
12:35To forgive before you're asked.
12:37To release offense before it festers.
12:39It allows you to endure criticism without losing confidence.
12:43To walk away from foolishness without explaining yourself.
12:46That's not weakness.
12:48That's power under control.
12:50Care enough.
12:51The emotionally mature don't chase validation.
12:54They move with clarity.
12:55They don't explode over every offense.
12:57They discern what's worth their energy.
12:59Care enough.
13:00They don't throw tantrums.
13:01They anchor themselves in.
13:03Don't let disappointments redefine their identity.
13:06They process.
13:07They pray.
13:08Care enough.
13:09And they persevere.
13:10Hear me.
13:11Your emotional maturity will preserve your future.
13:14If you don't learn how to control your emotions.
13:16Care enough.
13:17Your emotions will control your destiny.
13:19They'll make you quit too soon.
13:21Love the wrong people.
13:22Stay in the rooms.
13:23Say the wrong things enough.
13:25And lose what God had for you.
13:27That's why the fight for emotional maturity is not optional.
13:31It's essential.
13:32Care enough.
13:33Some of the greatest battles you will face in life won't be external.
13:36They won't be internal.
13:38It won't be the betrayal.
13:40It'll be your response.
13:41And care enough.
13:42It won't be the opportunity.
13:43It'll be your patience.
13:44Care enough.
13:45Care enough.
13:46It won't be the enemy.
13:47It'll be your inability to sit in silence and trust God when everything looks uncertain.
13:52Care enough.
13:53That's where emotional maturity becomes your greatest weapon.
13:56Bequips you to respond with wisdom instead of reacting with wounds.
14:01You don't have to be perfect.
14:02You don't have to have it all together.
14:04But you do have to be committed to growth.
14:07Stop coddling your chaos.
14:09Stop feeding your frustration.
14:11Stop celebrating your survival and start investing in your healing.
14:15You are too powerful to keep living in the shadow of emotional immaturity.
14:20Your peace is too expensive to give away every time someone disrespects you.
14:25Care enough.
14:26Your destiny is too great to be delayed by a moment of anger.
14:29Your calling is deep to be derailed by people who don't see your worth.
14:33And care enough.
14:34And you're not a child anymore.
14:35You've been too much.
14:37You've cried too long.
14:39You've prayed too hard.
14:40Care enough.
14:41It's time to grow up emotionally and take your seat in power.
14:44So today, draw a line in the sand.
14:47Tell your soul, we're not going back.
14:49Care enough.
14:50We're not reacting the same way.
14:51We're not folding under pressure.
14:53Care enough.
14:54We're not breaking down.
14:55We're supposed to break through.
14:57Emotional maturity is not just about self-control.
15:00It's about spiritual authority.
15:03And when you master it, nothing, the enemy throws it.
15:06You can move you from your position.
15:08Because at the end of the day, emotional maturity is your weapon.
15:12Wield it wisely.
15:14Walk in it daily.
15:15And watch how your life begins to shift from child's to clarity.
15:19From panic to purpose.
15:20From reaction to revelation.
15:21Care enough.
15:22There comes a point in your life when you must take inventory, not of your bank account,
15:26not of your wardrobe, but of your relationships.
15:30Care enough.
15:31You've been pouring out.
15:32You've been sacrificing.
15:33You've been loyal, but somewhere in the silence of your soul, you know something's off.
15:38Care enough.
15:39You're calling it loyalty or love.
15:42You're calling it ride or die commitment.
15:44But if you're honest, it's dysfunction that's been dressed up as devotion.
15:48Too many people are trapped in toxic relationships.
15:51One-sided friendships.
15:53Care enough.
15:54Are draining family dynamics.
15:56Not because they're bad people, but because they've been conditioned to confuse child's
16:01with connection.
16:02And care enough.
16:03You grew up thinking love had to hurt.
16:04That abuse was passion.
16:05That being used was a form of being needed.
16:08But the truth is, care enough.
16:10Dysfunction is not loyalty.
16:11It's bondage.
16:12And the longer you stay in it, the more you begin to lose yourself in it.
16:17Loyalty is not about how much pain you can tolerate.
16:21Loyalty is not about staying with people who refuse to grow.
16:24Loyalty is not abandoning your mental health.
16:27Care enough.
16:28Your boundaries, your voice, and your value just to prove that you're not a quitter.
16:32Listen to me.
16:33You can be loyal and still walk away.
16:35Care enough.
16:36You can love someone and still release them.
16:38You can honor what you are destroying yourself trying to keep what no longer serves you.
16:44Care enough.
16:45A real loyalty doesn't demand silence in the face of mistreatment.
16:49It doesn't require you to shrink so someone else can shine.
16:52It doesn't call you to betray yourself in order to protect someone else's comfort.
16:57If you have to lose yourself to keep them.
16:59And care enough.
17:00It's not loyalty.
17:01It's dysfunction wearing a mask.
17:03Some of you have been loyal to cycles, not people.
17:06And care enough.
17:07You've been loyal to the pattern of rescue and brokenness.
17:10You've been loyal to the idea that suffering earns you love enough.
17:14You've been loyal to emotional manipulation disguised as family.
17:18You keep showing up for people who only show up when they need something from you.
17:23You keep defending the behavior that's been destroying your peace.
17:26Why?
17:27Because somewhere in your soul, you equated endurance with hollowness and pain with purpose.
17:33But let me set you free.
17:34God did not call you to bleed for people who refuse to bandage their own wounds.
17:39Care enough.
17:40There's a difference between supporting someone and saving them.
17:43Loyalty doesn't mean sacrificing your sanity every time they self-destruct.
17:48Care enough.
17:49It doesn't mean being a punching bag for someone's unresolved trauma.
17:53And care enough.
17:54It doesn't mean enduring disrespect because they've been through a lot.
17:58Everybody's been through something.
18:00And care enough.
18:01But trauma doesn't give you the right to treat people like trash.
18:04And care enough.
18:05And you don't earn any extra crowns in heaven for staying where you're constantly being crushed enough.
18:11You've been calling dysfunction loyalty because walking away feels selfish.
18:15But it's not selfish to protect your soul.
18:18It's not betrayal to put up boundaries.
18:19It's not cruelty to say.
18:21Enough.
18:23In fact, some of the most loyal thing you'll ever do is tell someone,
18:27I love you, but I can't do this like this anymore.
18:30Because true love confronts.
18:32True love corrects.
18:34Care enough.
18:35True love doesn't enable dysfunction.
18:37It empowers growth.
18:38Let me speak to the one who's been carrying everyone's weight.
18:41You've been the rock.
18:43Care enough.
18:44The listener.
18:45The helper.
18:46The fixer.
18:47But deep down you're exhausted.
18:48You don't see and you feel used.
18:49You don't feel supported.
18:51You feel drained.
18:53And yet you stay.
18:55Because they need you.
18:57Because you've always been there.
18:59Because you're afraid that choosing you means betraying them.
19:02Care enough.
19:03But hear this.
19:04You are not their savior.
19:05You are their source.
19:07You are not their solution.
19:09God never told you abandon your boundaries in the name of love.
19:12Care enough.
19:13He never told you to carry relationships that are killing your peace.
19:16You've been loyal out of fear of being alone.
19:20Fear of guilt.
19:21Fear of rejection.
19:22But when you confuse fear with faithfulness,
19:24you end up stuck in places that God has been trying to deliver you from.
19:28You owe no one your destruction.
19:31You owe no one your silence.
19:33You owe no one your breakdown just so they can stay comfortable in their dysfunction.
19:37You are allowed to grow.
19:39You are allowed to change.
19:41You are allowed to wake up one day and say, this is not healthy.
19:45And I can't do this anymore.
19:47That's not betrayal.
19:49That's wisdom.
19:50Loyalty without discernment becomes a trap.
19:53You start ignoring red flags because you feel responsible for their healing.
19:58You start accepting behavior you'd never tolerate if your self-worth was intact.
20:02You keep watering a relationship that stopped bearing fruit years ago.
20:07Ain't care enough.
20:08You pray for peace, but you're still sleeping next to war.
20:11You ask God to bless you, but you're clinging to connections.
20:15He's been asking you to cut and care enough.
20:17Some people only love you when you're broken.
20:19They only connect with you through crisis.
20:21They only stay if they're in control.
20:24That's not love.
20:25Care enough.
20:26That's emotional codependency.
20:28That's spiritual manipulation.
20:30That's psychological bondage.
20:32And the moment you begin to heal, the moment you set a boundary.
20:36Care enough.
20:37The moment you stop playing the role they assign to you.
20:40They turn on you.
20:41Not because you change, but because they never love the real you.
20:44Care enough.
20:45They love the version of you they can control.
20:48You don't owe your future to people who are addicted to your past.
20:51Care enough.
20:52You don't owe your destiny to people who keep you small.
20:55You don't owe your calling to people who can't celebrate you
20:59unless you're broken.
21:01Care enough.
21:02It's time to redefine loyalty.
21:03Loyalty is commit with clarity.
21:05Loyalty is standing with people, not at the cost of your soul.
21:08Care enough.
21:09Loyalty is staying true to your values, not staying stuck in dysfunction.
21:13Loyalty means loving people.
21:15But loving yourself another walk away if loving them means losing you.
21:19There is life beyond toxic loyalty.
21:21There is freedom beyond false obligation.
21:24There is peace beyond pretending everything is okay.
21:28And there is healing on the other side of hard decisions.
21:31So today, choose truth.
21:33Choose growth.
21:34Choose boundaries.
21:35Choose discernment.
21:36Choose you.
21:37Let them call you disloyal.
21:38Let them say you changed.
21:40Let them talk.
21:41Care enough.
21:42Because at the end of the day, you didn't leave them.
21:45You just stop leaving yourself.
21:47There's something dangerous happening inside of us.
21:50Something subtle.
21:51Something quiet.
21:52And if you're not careful, you'll live your entire life responding to every emotional whisper.
21:57Every passing mood.
21:59Every fleeting offense.
22:00Every storm of irritation.
22:02As if every feeling requires your energy.
22:05Some things must be felt.
22:06But not fed.
22:07Acknowledge it.
22:08Yes.
22:09And process it.
22:10Absolutely.
22:11But don't hand it the keys to your behavior.
22:13Don't let your entire mood, your day, your relationship, and care enough.
22:17Or your calling be hijacked by a feeling that didn't come to stay.
22:20It just came to pass.
22:22Too many of us have trained our minds to believe that every emotional spark needs to be followed by a verbal explosion.
22:29We feel slighted.
22:30So we clap back.
22:31We feel angry.
22:32So we act up.
22:33We feel anxious.
22:34So we retreat.
22:35We feel jealous.
22:36So we criticize.
22:37We feel insecure.
22:38So we compare.
22:39And care enough.
22:40And then we justify our reaction with phrases like, that's just how I felt in the moment.
22:45Yes.
22:46But maturity is learning that not every moment is worth responding to.
22:50Some feelings are nothing more than emotional impulses.
22:53Temporary distortions that scream for attention, but lack foundation.
22:58And care enough.
22:59You must learn to pause before you respond.
23:01You must learn to wait before you react.
23:03And because a response may satisfy your flesh for a moment, but cost you peace for a week.
23:08A reaction might feel good in the heat of the fire, but it will leave you cleaning up ashes for years.
23:14Don't mistake emotional release for emotional relief.
23:18Care enough.
23:19Just because you got it off your chest doesn't mean you're healed.
23:23Just because you reacted doesn't mean you're righteous.
23:26Just because you told them how you feel doesn't mean you told them the truth.
23:30Truth is not always in the emotion.
23:33It's in the reflection.
23:34You see, care enough.
23:36The enemy doesn't always attack you with tragedy.
23:39Sometimes he attacks you with triggers.
23:41And if he can't steal your calling, he'll settle for stealing your composure.
23:46If he can't destroy your future, he'll settle for making you so emotionally reactive that you keep destroying it yourself.
23:53Care enough.
23:54Care enough.
23:55Some of you have lost years to feelings that were never meant to be acted on.
23:59You've burned bridges you needed.
24:01You've spoken words you couldn't take back.
24:03And care enough.
24:04You've walked away from divine assignments because a temporary feeling convinced you it wasn't worth it.
24:10But now you're waking up.
24:12Now you're learning.
24:13Care enough.
24:14Now you're beginning to understand you don't have to act on everything you feel.
24:18You can feel angry and still choose grace.
24:21You can feel hurt and still choose silence.
24:24You can feel overlooked and still walk in purpose.
24:27You can feel attacked and still respond with peace.
24:30Care enough.
24:31You can feel everything.
24:32But still do the right thing.
24:33The problem is most of us were never taught emotional discipline.
24:37We were taught how to react.
24:39Care enough.
24:40We were taught that if you don't say something right away, you're weak.
24:44That if you let it slide, you're soft.
24:46That if you don't respond, care enough, you're being walked over.
24:50But that's not wisdom.
24:51That's ego.
24:52And ego will always trade long-term peace for short-term satisfaction.
24:56Care enough.
24:57So let me ask you, how many times have you let your emotions speak for you only to regret the conversation?
25:03Care enough.
25:04How many moments of peace have you surrendered because you didn't pause to ask yourself, is this worth it?
25:10Not just worth the words.
25:12Is it worth your energy, your peace, your future, your witness?
25:17Not every battle is yours to fight.
25:18Not every insult is yours to answer.
25:20Enough.
25:21Not every comment is yours to correct.
25:23Some of you are losing energy fighting battles that God never assigned to you.
25:28Battles that were born out of emotion, not out of purpose.
25:31It's not that your feelings are wrong.
25:34Your emotions are real.
25:36You're human.
25:37But being human doesn't give you permission to be reckless.
25:40Care enough.
25:41Your feelings may be valid, but they are not always valuable.
25:44That means they are worth recognizing, but not always worth obeying.
25:48But care enough.
25:49Maturity is learning to observe your emotions without obeying them.
25:53Maturity is learning to be still while your soul is screaming.
25:56Care enough.
25:57Maturity is understanding that your silence is not weakness.
26:00It's wisdom.
26:01You're not ignoring your feelings.
26:03You're outgrowing the need to serve them.
26:06Care enough.
26:07You're not bearing your emotions.
26:08You're learning how to rule over them.
26:10You're not suppressing.
26:12You're surrendering your reactions to a greater purpose.
26:15Enough.
26:16When Jesus stood before the crowd that shouted, crucify him, he didn't react.
26:21When the enemy tempted him in the wilderness, he didn't argue.
26:25When Judas kissed him in betrayal, he didn't curse.
26:28That's divine restraint.
26:30That's what emotional mastery looks like.
26:32Care enough.
26:33That's what strength rooted in purpose looks like.
26:35The power of your life isn't in how loud you react.
26:39It's in how deeply you choose peace.
26:41Care, care enough.
26:42You don't have to prove anything.
26:44You don't have to match their energy.
26:46You don't have to fire back every time you're fired upon.
26:50Some of your greatest battles will be won.
26:52Not by what you say, but by what you refuse to say.
26:56Is this leading me close to purpose or pulling me into a pit?
27:00Is this emotion rooted in fear or faith?
27:02Is this battle mine or is it bait?
27:04Or is it bait?
27:05Your ability to walk in purpose is directly connected to your ability to control your emotions.
27:11And care enough.
27:12The next level God is taking you to requires a new level of discipline.
27:17And in this season, you're going to have to learn to guard your peace.
27:20Protect your focus and stop giving your energy to every passing emotion.
27:25There is a battle that many of us are losing quietly.
27:28Not because we lack faith.
27:30Care enough.
27:31Not because we lack prayer.
27:32Not because we lack gifts or calling.
27:34But because we are too emotionally childish to hear from God.
27:37And care enough.
27:38You've been asking for direction.
27:40You've crying out for answers.
27:41You've been praying for clarity.
27:43And God has not stopped speaking.
27:46The problem is.
27:47And care enough.
27:48You can't hear them over the sound of your own emotional noise.
27:51There is too much turbulence in your soul.
27:54Too many thoughts flying in and out.
27:56Often care enough.
27:57Too many wounds you haven't healed.
27:59Too many offenses you've held on.
28:00Too many opinions shaping your mind.
28:03Too much frustration clouding your focus.
28:06And care enough.
28:07In the middle of that storm, you're expecting divine clarity.
28:10But let me tell you something with love and boldness.
28:13God does not shout over chaos.
28:15He speaks in stillness.
28:16He leads in peace.
28:17He instructs in order.
28:19The word says, be still.
28:21And know that I am God.
28:23That's not just a potic verse for tough times.
28:25It's a spiritual principle.
28:27Stillness isn't about the absence of activity.
28:31It's about the absence of inner disorder.
28:33Because clarity does not come to a restless mind.
28:36Revelation doesn't land in a heart that's divided.
28:38Guidance doesn't flow in a soul bouncing between anxiety, bitterness, and fear.
28:45Emotional chaos is not just this spiritually dangerous.
28:49It causes you to misinterpret what God is doing.
28:52When you're emotionally overwhelmed.
28:54Care enough.
28:55You start calling delays denials.
28:57You start viewing correction as rejection.
28:59You start confusing conviction with condemnation.
29:02Care enough.
29:03You'll walk away from places you were meant to stay.
29:06You'll stay in situations you were supposed to leave.
29:09Care enough.
29:10You'll bind what was meant to bless and bless what was meant to break you.
29:13Why?
29:14Because you're interpreting divine movement through emotional mayhem.
29:18Let me say that again for the people in the back.
29:21You can't trust trust your discernment when you're in emotional survival mode.
29:26When your heart is full of rage.
29:28When your thoughts are tangled in fear.
29:31When your spirit is warm from people pleasing.
29:33When your soul is flooded with grief and unhealed trauma.
29:38You're not hearing God.
29:39You're hearing your wounds.
29:41You're not being led by the spirit.
29:43You're being pushed by pain.
29:44Care enough.
29:45You can't follow the voice of the Lord.
29:47When the loudest voice in your life is your frustration.
29:50Care enough.
29:51You can't perceive purpose clearly when your vision is filtered through past betrayal.
29:56That's why the enemy doesn't always need to attack your finances.
30:00Care enough.
30:01Your body or your relationship.
30:03Sometimes all he needs to do is keep you emotionally chaotic.
30:06Because a chaotic heart is just as dangerous as a closed ear.
30:10Some of you keep praying for clarity.
30:13But go is calling you to emotional cleansing.
30:16You're asking him to speak.
30:17But he's trying to settle you first.
30:19You're asking him to open doors.
30:21But he's trying to quiet the war within you.
30:24Because even if the door opens.
30:26Care enough.
30:27You'll fumble if you're too emotionally unstable to walk through with wisdom.
30:31You don't need another prophecy.
30:33You need peace and care enough.
30:35You need another sign.
30:36You need stillness.
30:37You don't need more opinions.
30:39You need obedience.
30:40You don't need everyone's input.
30:43You need to filter the voices.
30:45Because some of the confusion you're feeling isn't spiritual warfare.
30:49It's emotional warfare.
30:51Care enough.
30:52You're not under attack from hell.
30:53You're under attack from within.
30:54You're unprocessed trauma.
30:56You're buried anger.
30:58You're people pleasing tendencies.
31:00Care enough.
31:01Your inability to say no.
31:03Your constant need to prove yourself.
31:05That's the child that's blocking your clarity.
31:07Care enough.
31:08You can't walk in divine timing if you're running on emotional impulse.
31:12You can't live by God's pace if you're always in panic mode.
31:16Enough.
31:17Panic will have you rushing what God wants to develop.
31:20Panic will have you grabbing Ishmael when God promised Isaac.
31:23Panic will have you moving too soon, speaking too fast, reacting too hard, and regretting too much.
31:30The mature believer doesn't just pray for blessings.
31:33They pray for balance.
31:35Because even if God gives it to you, can you handle it without falling apart emotionally?
31:40Can you lead without needing applause?
31:42And care enough.
31:43Can you stay consistent when you're misunderstood?
31:46Can you discern truth when flattery comes dressed like favor?
31:49Care enough.
31:50And listen.
31:51This isn't about pretending to be okay.
31:53This isn't about suppressing how you feel.
31:55Care enough.
31:56This is about surrendering how you feel to the one who can stabilize you.
31:59This is about healing.
32:00Not hiding.
32:01Processing.
32:02Not pretending.
32:03Care enough.
32:04It's about letting God dig into the corners of your soul and uproot the noise you've been
32:09living with for too long.
32:11Because your purpose requires clarity.
32:13Your next move requires clarity.
32:15Your relationships require clarity.
32:29Your expertise requires clarity.
32:30ELSE
32:34requirements require clarity.
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