00:00You were such a young girl. He's much older than you.
00:09So you didn't have any hesitation?
00:12No, I think people might.
00:14Or he's married.
00:15You see, if I was the homebreaker.
00:21But I already knew what the situation was.
00:24So it's not like I broke a home.
00:26So I was okay with that.
00:28That was not my worry.
00:29But I've always got along better with older people.
00:32Somehow.
00:33Men or women.
00:34I don't know.
00:35Maybe I was too mature for my age.
00:37What was it?
00:38Young boys at my age, I didn't have mentally tuning in.
00:45Okay, okay.
00:46So yes, he was, I mean, he was a little much older.
00:50But I didn't face it.
00:53No, I didn't feel easy.
00:55Okay.
00:56What was it about Ramesh Ji that really attracted you ultimately?
01:00His personality.
01:02He's a very lovable, very likable person.
01:06Any woman would be attracted to me.
01:08I saw a man who was so big, so huge.
01:12Lekin, for one minute,
01:15And this was commendable.
01:17Because you know,
01:18He was a man who had given hit after hit.
01:19You know.
01:20But he was so humble.
01:21Absolutely.
01:22And he was so polite.
01:23And so polite, so proper.
01:24You know.
01:25You know.
01:26Ladies come and sit and sit.
01:27He was a man who had given hit after hit.
01:28You know.
01:29But he was so humble.
01:30Absolutely.
01:31And so polite.
01:32You know.
01:33Ladies come and sit and sit and sit.
01:34He was so humble.
01:35You know.
01:36I mean.
01:37You know.
01:38You know.
01:39You know.
01:40We have arrived.
01:41And here was a man who had given hit after hit.
01:43You know.
01:44Right.
01:45But he was so humble and so polite, so proper, you know, ladies are standing up, he was very comfortable.
01:54I liked him as a human being.
01:57You got attracted to him.
02:00I got attracted to the personality, to the person he was.
02:03Right, right.
02:04So did you say the first thing or did he approach you or was it mutual?
02:11I don't know, it just happened. Honestly speaking, I don't have a clear memory of how it happened, because you can't time it.
02:19But tell me how your parents are not from this industry.
02:23You have no relationship with the film industry.
02:26So how did they take it? Because they all wrote about you.
02:31But they knew that marriage was on the card, they knew that.
02:38For a while, they didn't talk to me about it because they didn't know how to talk about it.
02:44But finally, he went and he met them and proposed marriage to me.
02:51And with my parents' consent, I want to. And they decided.
02:57I think it was difficult for them, but they never said anything.
03:01They were good parents.
03:04And tell me, what's it like to be married to a man older than you?
03:10Nothing. There's nothing that you…
03:13There's nothing you'd like to tell any girl?
03:15No.
03:16See, like I said, I am always with you.
03:19It depends on what your personality is.
03:22If you are not mature enough, then marrying a mature person could be a problem.
03:28Intelligence level and thinking level will not match.
03:32But luckily for me, he and I are on the same page for everything.
03:37And I come from a family where they had a lot of values.
03:41And I find Rameji has a lot of values.
03:43Definitely.
03:44So, for me, the transition was absolutely not.
03:46I mean, it was a comfort zone for me.
03:48We also know him before so late.
03:53And he has remained consistent.
03:54Consistent.
03:55Consistent gentleman.
03:56Absolutely.
03:57Yeah.
03:58Did your life change after you became Mrs. Ramesh Suthi?
04:03Of course.
04:04Yes.
04:05Very change.
04:06Absolutely change.
04:07You know, for me, marriage was…
04:12I am a little different.
04:15I am an aquarium.
04:17So, for me, marriage is just a paper.
04:23Commitment is important.
04:26So, when I was 3-4 years old, we were dating.
04:31And it is a long period.
04:34No, I did not.
04:35I did not.
04:36I did not.
04:37I did not.
04:38I did not.
04:39So, my friends, were told me, what are you doing?
04:44I am going to marry you soon.
04:45What are you doing?
04:46What are you doing?
04:47He will leave you.
04:48There are such attractive, lovely other girls also.
04:50Men are tired.
04:51You know, tired.
04:52I am now 3-4 years old.
04:54What are you doing?
04:56And I was like…
04:57If you want to leave, you better leave now.
05:00Why do you need everything after marriage?
05:02No.
05:03It is not.
05:04It is okay.
05:05I am very secure.
05:06If it has to happen, if it is written in life, then it will happen.
05:09And if it doesn't happen, then I do not need it.
05:12It has to be on mutual terms.
05:14Yes.
05:15He should want to be with me and I want to be with him.
05:18That is the relationship.
05:19Yes.
05:20If one party is interested in other women, then it will be married or not.
05:25Correct.
05:26There is no difference.
05:27And touch wood.
05:28Now we are married.
05:29Five years that before and now married.
05:32So many years.
05:33More than 30 years.
05:34I have not heard of any affair that Mr. Sippy has had.
05:37I don't care.
05:39But I know this much that after meeting me, I don't know of any affair till today.
05:54Or anything like that.
05:56I can't tell you.
05:57But I know this much that after meeting me, I don't know of any affair till today.
05:58I can't tell you.
05:59I can't tell you.
06:00But you know two actresses.
06:01Okay.
06:02But that is the past.
06:04But that is the past.
06:05I don't want to talk about it.
06:07I would not like to.
06:08You all knew about it.
06:09I would not even comment it on it.
06:11I don't know.
06:12I wouldn't expect you to comment on it.
06:14I was wondering whether that would make a difference to you.
06:16That he is such a colourful man.
06:18So were you a little apprehensive about getting.
06:20I told you I am not that kind of person.
06:23I am very secure within myself.
06:25And if one person doesn't want to live with me, then I don't want to live with him.
06:33It's as simple as that.
06:35I am so proud to sit with someone.
06:38For what?
06:39Correct.
06:40I don't believe in that.
06:42And no regrets?
06:43No regrets at all.
06:45Not at all.
06:46That's right.
06:47And I have seen the two of you.
06:48Oh, it's been wonderful.
06:49It's been wonderful.
06:50I don't know how life will happen.
06:52I don't know.
06:53To be honest.
06:54Okay.
06:55You like travelling together a lot.
06:57I love travelling together.
06:58I like having good meals.
07:00Good food.
07:01We are both happy.
07:03We are both alone, at least in a week.
07:06At least in a week.
07:08Minimum.
07:09That's the two of us.
07:10We go out for a meal.
07:11And I value those times.
07:12For instance, today I am going somewhere from here.
07:13I will be going somewhere.
07:14So, we make that time.
07:15Where are you going this week?
07:16You know, that kind of a thing.
07:17And it's special for us.
07:18Kiran, last question.
07:19What is it that has kept you and Ramesh ji going for so long?
07:34Touch wood.
07:35Common interest.
07:36I think affection and respect for each other.
07:41I think that in any relationship, if there is no respect, then it will not happen.
07:49After the marriage, it will be 34 years.
07:51Yeah.
07:52Next year, you should be celebrating your 35th anniversary.
07:55Yeah, we got married in 1921.
07:58Yeah.
07:59I can't even count.
08:02I don't even know how many years it will be.
08:04But it's…
08:05Any special celebrations in mind?
08:07I haven't planned anything.
08:09I'm a little late planner.
08:11I mean, when it's time, it will happen.
08:12It will happen.
08:13It will happen.
08:14It will happen.
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